I’m not on nobody side , but As a Father & Man when she was in the hospital with y’all son , REGARDLESS that you was out already . That still your 🫵🏽 son you was suppose be there 💯. Much love tho hope you succeed with your comedy
Going to the club while your wife in the hospital is crazy. Never will do my wife like that. I don’t even go out without my wife . The club really for single people
As a divorced woman one thing I learned is each person is going to have to learn to be okay with each person’s view on why the relationship ended . At least learn to respect it and work on being co parents .
It's usually bogus on a females part for ending the marriage.. Example: it was a female recently in chat that admitted, her husband was a good man. But she divorced him because he had very bad breath... Wtf? So as a wife she refused to do her part and make sure he gets to a dentist, and maintain his oral hygiene... So it's no effort to maintain a marriage on the females part! So at the end, men who are previously divorced educate young men on how MARRIAGE just isn't what it use to be...
The fact that you speaking directly to her in this video says a lot honestly.. she was speaking to fans only, yu actually saying her name like she sitting across from yu. It just seems genuine. I like both of yall, and maybe yall would be better off as friends. Yu never know wat the future holds though. Prayers to yu both❤
I respect you more for this video big homie. The reason why you admitted your own faults and that’s the key thing in order to better yourself and a relationship. A person who never Amit there faults will never be easy to get alone with.(it makes you feel like your walking on eggshells because you are trying to do right but it seems like nothing u do will be right for them)
Yes because for them the relationship is already over and that's what I didn't like about her version of the story she constantly states I was out already I was moving in a month like that's crazy but ain't say nothing to this man that's wrong
You can tell none of y'all have a relationship. There are so many lonely people out here giving out relationship advice. If I listen to the Internet my marriage would have been over before it began.
As a man & and husband, it is your "position" to protect and provide for your family right or wrong 24/7 365 fam.. from one husband to another thts the main thing a woman wants besides effection good luck fam 💯
No sir when the man is not receiving the respect he’s owed then things need to change period. I’ll protect my children but a chick who rear up her nose at me absolutely not sir have a nice day
As a MARRIED couple this is something you guys need to go to counseling or to each other to discuss. I do believe that you both played parts because neither are perfect but this should be a PRIVATE and SACRED MATTER. The internet will destroy the bond you all had even more.
There’s no fixing it when they do it in public UNLESS this is all cap which it could be cause they really going back and forth and we watching including me lemme get my goofy ass of the internet lmfao
I would say as a grown individual nobody comes before your wife including your parents,siblings, and friends. There's no reason she should be begging you for time and attention especially if your needs are being met. No woman wants to cuddle when she is not feeling valued. Once you married her all the childish games should've STOP. If she didn't agree upon a 3some before marriage quit FORCING her hand. You have a daughter what would you tell her if she was in this situation. You will see the grass isn't GREENER on the other side. Last but not least your position was love,provide, safety. Let's see who you end up with. That's like YOU for YOU and NOT your money.
You just not ready to live the married life Bighomieblocks. You know the truth is you not ready. You got a taste of the celebrity life and it’s a lot you want to do and you want to live it out. When you get married you have to make a choice. You’re entitled to how you feel but you have to keep it a buck. You know when you messing up with your girl and you need to keep it 100. Love both of y’all it’s not all your fault bc it takes 2. I hope you guys can get it right.
Don't do this online. You all need to handle this behind closed doors. You need to understand that you hurt her feelings. That's her truth regardless. Love yall
Glad you feel relief . 10 years is a lot and no one is perfect . Marriage is a whole different ball game . Being together can be more simple but marriage kids. I’m in my second marriage. Great man. Things change when you get married you just learn to adapt if you really want it . Move around create healthy habits with one another . Be blessed you got this
I feel you both . Lost my wife just after a year being married … together for 7 years. People out grow each other. Y’all still have love for each other . It’s just right now y’all ondifferent levels and at this time y’all only can provide love for each other. You want happiness for each other . Pray it’s works out , stay strong
When she told you something wasn't right, you shouldn't have left her. But we understand you just finding your way. We are living as we go. That's just your best reaction to the situation. Both of you are great ppl she only acting to her pain. Pregnancy is he** on a woman during and after. A like respectful break will do it.
So much miscommunication. It doesn’t even have to be like this. From listening to both sides I see the communication needs to be worked on. God is in the midst of this. This will either bring y’all closer or …. I pray you both are able to understand and see where the miscommunication came in. I pray you both are able to take accountability for your actions. I’m so sorry y’all are going through this. Please stand in prayer.
Blocks fight for your marriage,,, real LOVE DONT DIE,, & PLEASE DONT GIVE THE INTERNET WHAT THEY WANTS & Z FIGHT FOR YOUR HUSBAND TAKE YOUR TIME BUT DONT GIVE UP ON EACH OTHER
My boy ain't no way I would have not gone straight to the hospital if my lady, let alone my pregnant lady, is in the hospital. There is no excuse for that, my guy.
As I've said, I love you both. It's good to hear your side too. I'm listening and hit a point where I have to comment. You're suppose to ALWAYS protect your wife. You mentioned about Zavia being wrong with the people you love. You're suppose to love your wife and she's suppose to be above all. Even in her wrong, you're suppose to protect and correct her but that doesn't mean leaving her feeling as if you choose someone else over her even if she's handling the situation wrong. You always choose your spouse. Of course communicate and talk about where you feel she fell short. Sounds like y'all need honest communication to solve your issues. But if you both decide it's time to move on, do that and be great co parents for those beautiful children. I wish you both the best whether together or separate.
I respect the fact that you didn't go in and come off disrespectful. As a man thats married and can understand how you feel. I totally get the situation you are in. If both of you can accept fault in your wrongs and move forward things could move forward too. Either way, I wish you and your wife the best bro. Wishing you and your fam a successful and wealthy New Year. 🎉 Sometimes men don't get recognized for how hard they love and it's always overshadowed by dumb shyt sometimes.
Yall been together for a long time and truthfully this is something that you guys needed to get back to the basics. With time we forget the basics and how important they are for a relationship. Y’all came from nothing to something and with that it brings problems and complications. I feel that you guys just never gave each other time to breathe and to reflect. Anger makes us irrational. We forget to talk and to be realistic. I honestly feel like you guys are going through things that can easily be fixed. Y’all have been together for a long time and it may seem like yall have done everything under the sun and just spinning wheels. That’s just may be the case because 11 years is a long time but don’t forget to just keep pushing. That means yall meet 11 different people in you guys relationship/marriage. You have to evolve that’s with the good and bad. It’s not going to always be a Cinderella story. It’s going to be times when you despise each other and it’s going to be times when you love each other unconditionally. It’s life and it’s punches you have to take but never give up. It’s the easy way out.
Alwayssss. That’s why I said what I said on his most recent video.. everybody coming over here attackin him cus of her video. She shouldn’t have done that. Keep personal bidness, personal bidness
Blocks own, pray ,learn ,grow , change , do better and respect. Listen it ain't over till God say it's over. Run to fix it don't walk. Hope the best for you both.
It’s seems like the relationship has evolved and you both have out grown each other and want different things. I hope you both get what you deserve and be happy for your children. I don’t see any fault with either person. Counseling would help because you all can’t hear each other just to get past the pain of the situation.
Break ups are tough especially when its a child or children involved & your in love. But with God, prayer, obedience unto God's word. Healing will come, co parenting in a healthy, positive, environment will allow old wombs to heal. Best wishes to you both n your family 💕🙏🏾
There is no such thing as falling out of love. True Agape Love never changes, it might bend, it might get stretched, and even might get disrespected, but it never dies.
I feel both sidesssss tbh. It's accountability needed on both sides. I feel they are both being honesty. They both didn't appreciate the value in the good things and harvested this energy due to the bad things. Pray, learn, grow and evolve. Hopefully y'all grow back together but if not live in your truth and keep pushing through life.
I’m from the crib and understand the lingo… but calling her “gang” and “lord” continuously is crazy as hell 😂😂😂 & your speech in general is just remedial af.
Men As a banker who worked for the 2nd biggest bank in the world for 13 yrs please put respect on rhe names of the woman who love you and loved u even when u were broke or u will end up one of these lonely creeps who come in banking centers harassing the women complaining about hw lonely they are TRUST we run from plenty of them daily and its definitely more lonely old creeps out here than lonely woman trust!!! Blocks I wish u nothing but the best! U a strong black king! Learn n grow from this! If u lucky enough to find someone who loves u like Zavia did again please put respect on her name. God bless❤ 🙏
I feel where both yall coming from and STILL it’s nothing that can’t be talked thru and fixed . I promise you yall can be going thru worse. Both yall hurt each other but not in ways that CAN’T be forgiving. When taking BIG STEPS LIKE MOVING TO ANOTHER CITY AND THEN PREGNANCY AND THEN MARRIAGE WILL ALWAYS TAKE A TOLL ON ANYONE. But you have to be willing to Communicate every issue or problem or situation you have once it happens instead of waiting until it’s too late. 🔑
Sometimes you can't make them happy Let them go and do you U gotta show her who u are and if she loves you she will come running. On me💯 I support you gang
Nah I respect this you can tell the difference between her and your video your more genuine and actually care bout her she was just bring you down she been felt like this and been wanted this
I love y’all vibes and been supporting y’all extra hard every since I found out y’all come from the Chi like me.I want y’all to WIN. I was 13 years old and my spouse was 15 years old when we got together. We been together for 29 years and of those 29years we only been separated for for 2weeks. We had many many 🆙 and downs. We both changed throughout the years. I’m saying all this to say both of you have to be willing to communicate, listen, change and compromise. Especially after being in a relationship for 10 years. If y’all truly love each other like y’all say you do then you’re kids and your family are truly worth fighting for. Both of you need to try communicating,listening, in working on yall needs and wants while separated. Hopefully things will get better. I will continue praying for you all…❤❤❤
Why would you want her to go back with him when he is clearly emotionally abusive? You’re the type of old-school lady that believes in the saying “having a piece of man is better than having no man at all” 😂
@@ExcuseMyPrettywe grow as people at different rates and both parties have to be mentally strong to make a relationship work. Both parties have to compromise and sometimes women can be more loyal to their feelings than the relationship.
My brother. I am only commenting because both of you are sharing your personal life with the world and I hate to see two young black people in the situation you both are in right now and with young children. My Brother I listen to both of you and she is gone and both of you have said a lot about each other, and you have to really be careful about what you say about and to each other. You both shared how you felt and let that be the end of talking to each other through social media, because you will hate each other if you keep it up. People are always going to hate and have something to say but it’s up to the both of you to take this time and build yourself up and if it’s meant to be it will be , BUT DON’T make yourself sick trying to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you anymore. I heard you both and all I have to say is “it takes two (2) to make a thing go right”! Man to man because I am older than both of you and was married before. I want to leave you both with this advice “ The same thing it took to get her or him is the same thing it takes to keep her or him. If she like flowers and family time and you like affection and attention BOTH have to do their part or it will never work! Please both of you stop talking about what the other person did or didn’t do because it’s going to make you hate each other. Most of all Pray 🙏🏾 and focus on the children and yourselves. Much Love from Dee from the D
Why she had to get friends tho.. MY DUDE U SUPPOSED TO BE HER #1 FRIEND. u clearly stated u was the one always going out!! TF.. go where and your family is at home.. Ima NEED U TO SHUT UP OR TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!
Stop lying, you said it, you did it, you look like you lying, you seen your single friends living the life you wanted, and you changed your mind about being married, you wanted to be single like them frfr.
Hush, go to sleep and come back with something more Rational. You don't know anything about them you have an opinion but don't come here with that Anti- block mess it's not allowed. Support him or leave Periodt
@lisahamilton4166 Hush? Are you irrational? Are you one of these new age lightheaded people? His wife said she wanted him. She was left alone too much for a WIFE. Are you married? He asks his wife for a 3-some and she said "no". The first time he got his answer....she didn't share. Then to be clowned in front of his friends repeatedly is beyond disrespectful. What kind of person are you that you ride the wave of women being demeaned and abused? And if you are black talking like this, this is a problem with black people and why we're waaaaaaaaay behind in relationships and family. Black men are becoming very disrespectful to the black woman THEY went after and people are cosigning the sickness.
Big homie if you see this message I'm glad you left her or she left you noooww can goo and have baddies around you .....I just wished you did not have kids with her but with the right female that will come along in your direction
Fuck the Internet both y’all need each other y’all got a grandma in Chicago crying please try to get back together. You can do it for yourself not for kids. Love y’all both blessings to y’all!!!❤❤❤
I seen her video and I seen your video. The most important thing from here on out is the children and being respectful. Nobody should be airing any dirty laundry to the outside public. All parties involved should look at themselves in the mirror and correct whatever issues lie within themselves. And all the focus should be on the children because nothing ever goes away on the Internet so both of you should be very careful of what you say about each other. It will always be able to be pulled up. Goo luck. God bless.. 🙏🏼
I know its 2023 and people do things differently- but I think the best thing for your relationship or whatever future you have is not playing it out on social media. You dont owe people who watch you this. You do owe it to yourselves to seek counseling. That first year can be rocky for a lot of people as they "learn" how to be married.
That's what I'm talking about... The Disrespect on both of your parts and now, all it ends up as -- is the Blame game on who did it worse. She called me "goofy"... He called me a B*tch. If it hurts you... It hurts her too. Both of you made mistakes, but nobody is apologizing. Neither one of you are owning up to the harsh words and actions that were done in your relationship. Until that happens... there's no way to resolve this matter Being a comedian should not be a license to throw your wife under the bus and Disrespect her anyhow-- for the sake of comedy. (Then say afterwards, y'all know I'm a comedian). You have to know borders that neither one of you would cross to hurt each other.... It's much more than -- I'm not cheating. There's a Level of communication that Zavia and You would not ever -- Go there to hurt each other. Actions speaks Louder than words. But, words do also hurt sometimes. Especially, when it comes directly from a Loved one... who supposed to care about you.
Look man it’s sounding like you guys needed to talk and put God first into ya relationship!! It’s a Team man you guys have to hold each other down. Idc what party I’m at my kids are first!!!!
Stay strong blocks man I really feel you bro I went thru this with my first child cause a woman couldn’t get her Way with a man 😒 this will make you stronger and more superior my brother keep your head high and much love mental health is everything!!!!
Loved your humble and modest approach to this response well thought out and genuine 👏🏾🙏🏾 very respectful calm and collected I say that because I'm from Chicago myself and I know we stay with a mouthpiece lmao you got this Blocks keep soaring!! 💫
damn #BigHomieGang im going thru the same shit bro should i leave or stay 4 kids involved known each other 17/18 years married for 2/3 been together on and off 10/15 years smh
Y’all gotta come to grips on what really matters in the situation is this decision both of y’all made really worth the heartache. It’s good y’all taking a step back to reflect but comeback together she still love you gang She wants to feel appreciated. You want to feel appreciated. Y’all saying the same thing just in a different way.. Sometimes in the heat if the moment we make impulse decisions not realizing how it will affect you Two on the long hall Imma pray for y’all to get back
As a Married Woman I've learned that it's easy to say what your partner is doing wrong and that may be true but Until you can take accountability for your actions things will never move forward because you have to examine yourself first and then the situation. I wish you all the best 🙏🏾
When you in decide to spend your life with a person, theres gonna be times when you're growing or changing and your partner is also. It takes a strong dedication to do the work through those times and grow back together. those are the points in your relationship where your bond grows stronger. You also gain more admiration and respect for each other for staying through those hard times. That makes the love grow more. So just discuss things personally with your wife and give yourselves time to fix things. It took 9 years for y'all to get married so it might take a year to fix this. Some things just take time bro. My only critique is that you guys shouldn't have brought your issues to your platform. Because it allows family, fans, and friends an opportunity to give their two cents on your personal issues and make them harder to get past. I really hope ya'll can get through this. And props for apologizing to your wife. Accountability is sign of maturity!
Stand ten toes down you may seem cloudy at the moment but everything will clear up and so long as you keep your head up and continue being positive it will all work out! Stay blessed
Sounds like she checked out early!! No one is perfect in a relationship. I’m sure someone is in her head. Marriage is the beginning not the end. Y’all haven’t fell out of love just need to realize what’s important. She will see how hard it is when the kids start to grow.
@@ExcuseMyPrettyyou talking its one sided just proving people’s point this is a “two way street” like he said and hurt people, hurt people so they both wrong
@@shardepowell2637because no one really wants to be alone all day with kids and not have their kids experience both their parents together in the same household, it dont feel right, zavia even said it her self she wants them together with the kids in the same household
only person in her head is this fool for making her feel like she wasn’t enough. Im proud of her for gaining the strength to leave, don’t nobody wanna deal with the baggage these dudes be throwing on women and getting mad at them for not wanting to take it
As a married man, u cant keep goin out and partying and not taking ur girl out. When ur married going on a date is going out, rather if thats going to the club, going out to eat, comedy shows, going outta town or to the dam park. Girls just want to be out and be seen and loved. Also, its alwayz ur position to protect ur girl, rather if she right or wrong. Drunk or not, u cant deny ur girl, no matter what!!!
@@Wiggywonkah that's dead ahh i remember watching them for the first time and I said "she need to watch how she talk to him or he gone leave her once he get on" I said that because I could tell she didn't like him. I knew he wasn't getting no 🐱either, that's his wife how you expect him to want to be with you with no love and affection. The point is neither one of them are a 100% clean. Just like he could admit some of his wrongs she can too which she did but you don't do wrong and say your wrong doings came because somebody else did something. They both played a part on their OWN.
@@tway2536 are you a kid or some he’s the reason she spoke to him that way years after disrespect cause resentment after cheating and trying to cheat no one will want to have sex when disrespecting and disregarding I pray your not a grown man with this thinking
@@tway2536 2 wrongs don’t make a right absolutely but he provoked her let his family disrespect her and said it wasn’t his position to protect her as her man and husband yes it was y’all new man need to seek God And guidance cause is truly sad how you guys think some women messed up to definitely but the black man now is just sad and sick to see
Bro let her go, I know that you hurt . BW are not sticking it out with their husbands. It’s the feminist way these days it’s only need a man to make a baby. When you move forward you will be happy and find someone better.
I love how he talking to her and addressing everything she said! He is not being disrespectful and i don't think he was disrespectful to her in real life! Yall gonna get through this!
Hold it down Blockz!! I been rocking with y’all for years. I pray things can work out between you guys. Marriage is hard bro, but the TWO of you have to want it for it to work!! It’s gonna be times you both won’t be happy about stuff, just gotta push through if it’s possible. Stay strong 💪🏽💪🏽💯
In life sometimes OUR LOVE JUST NIT AS STRONG. Being on social media IS THE WORSE for a relationship. I BELIEVE YOU LIVE HER AND THE KIDS 💯. SORRY FOR WHAT YAL BOTH GOING THRU. Time heals all wounds and broken hearts. Love ya BLOCKS.
I think Zavia wanted more emotional support from you. She wanted to feel wanted as a woman, such as: receiving flowers, occasional dates, family days, quality time, and compliments about her appearance. Most women need reassurance. I hope you both can work things out.
@kurokaizen1889 I'm still waiting to hear what him needs was that didn't involve compromising for being level headed with your wife. It sounds like he wanted to be single and find faults so he can do wtf he wanted.
You're a married man. What are you doing going out to clubs alone? You're a married man. Why are you going to a movie premiere alone? Any invite automatically includes the spouse. Once married, it's a union. You can not think like a single person. You say "we", but what I'm hearing is growth/maturity, respect, honest communication & consideration is lacking on both parts. Lastly, actually this should be first. ... God/Yah is missing. ❤
Listen everything she said seems true . I believe her when she said you out partying and leaving her and the kids in the house and you not doing anything as a family.
One thing is obvious with us women. If we been with a man for 5, 6, more years.....we love him until. The until is death or he squish every ounce of love out of us with his disrespect. The moments he left her alone, didn't date her, no flowers, call her names, left her in labor alone, asked about other women, compared her to other women......that was way too much to endure.
BIG HOMIE STAY SOLID! KEEP STANDING ON BUSINESS #ON MY SOUL #2024
I’m not on nobody side , but As a Father & Man when she was in the hospital with y’all son , REGARDLESS that you was out already . That still your 🫵🏽 son you was suppose be there 💯. Much love tho hope you succeed with your comedy
Going to the club while your wife in the hospital is crazy. Never will do my wife like that. I don’t even go out without my wife . The club really for single people
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Hn if he already out wym
Man just said she wasn’t trying give no sex up or nun of that
sex don’t have nun to do with you showing you care about your own flesh and blood.
As a divorced woman one thing I learned is each person is going to have to learn to be okay with each person’s view on why the relationship ended . At least learn to respect it and work on being co parents .
Did you have a dog or a cat?
It's usually bogus on a females part for ending the marriage..
Example: it was a female recently in chat that admitted, her husband was a good man. But she divorced him because he had very bad breath...
Wtf? So as a wife she refused to do her part and make sure he gets to a dentist, and maintain his oral hygiene... So it's no effort to maintain a marriage on the females part! So at the end, men who are previously divorced educate young men on how MARRIAGE just isn't what it use to be...
@@lonsolo5607 LMAO GOOD 1
@@lonsolo5607 but do we really know what ever goes on with a couple ? You just never know
@@lonsolo5607 🤣🤣 Happy New Year
The fact that you speaking directly to her in this video says a lot honestly.. she was speaking to fans only, yu actually saying her name like she sitting across from yu. It just seems genuine. I like both of yall, and maybe yall would be better off as friends. Yu never know wat the future holds though. Prayers to yu both❤
Bruuhhh wat shutup 😒
Girl bye
I respect you more for this video big homie. The reason why you admitted your own faults and that’s the key thing in order to better yourself and a relationship.
A person who never Amit there faults will never be easy to get alone with.(it makes you feel like your walking on eggshells because you are trying to do right but it seems like nothing u do will be right for them)
Well said, king!I totally agree!
Yes because for them the relationship is already over and that's what I didn't like about her version of the story she constantly states I was out already I was moving in a month like that's crazy but ain't say nothing to this man that's wrong
@@khayeenadamssr1797..Well said! I just hope she grow up sooner than later if not it's looking like she about to be for the streets
@@brownsuga7444that's what her ass want😢 she wanna be ratchet
You can tell none of y'all have a relationship. There are so many lonely people out here giving out relationship advice. If I listen to the Internet my marriage would have been over before it began.
As a man & and husband, it is your "position" to protect and provide for your family right or wrong 24/7 365 fam.. from one husband to another thts the main thing a woman wants besides effection good luck fam 💯
This!!!!
No sir when the man is not receiving the respect he’s owed then things need to change period. I’ll protect my children but a chick who rear up her nose at me absolutely not sir have a nice day
... and Lead.
As a MARRIED couple this is something you guys need to go to counseling or to each other to discuss. I do believe that you both played parts because neither are perfect but this should be a PRIVATE and SACRED MATTER. The internet will destroy the bond you all had even more.
@@Wiggywonkahnobody cheated
He’s responding to her calling him names, and spreading misinformation
There’s no fixing it when they do it in public UNLESS this is all cap which it could be cause they really going back and forth and we watching including me lemme get my goofy ass of the internet lmfao
agree
I miss them together, they was funny af together now it's like hold up something missing
I would say as a grown individual nobody comes before your wife including your parents,siblings, and friends. There's no reason she should be begging you for time and attention especially if your needs are being met. No woman wants to cuddle when she is not feeling valued. Once you married her all the childish games should've STOP. If she didn't agree upon a 3some before marriage quit FORCING her hand. You have a daughter what would you tell her if she was in this situation. You will see the grass isn't GREENER on the other side. Last but not least your position was love,provide, safety. Let's see who you end up with. That's like YOU for YOU and NOT your money.
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You just not ready to live the married life Bighomieblocks. You know the truth is you not ready. You got a taste of the celebrity life and it’s a lot you want to do and you want to live it out. When you get married you have to make a choice. You’re entitled to how you feel but you have to keep it a buck. You know when you messing up with your girl and you need to keep it 100. Love both of y’all it’s not all your fault bc it takes 2. I hope you guys can get it right.
Protect her in public and correct in private. Like you said y'all need time apart praying that y'all work things out ❤❤❤❤
This ghetto love breakdown is hilarious bc I cant get over him calling his wife GANG 300 times 😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂 Fareal
And he’s been calling her B🤬s on camera in front of us💯and I’m sure sure He callls her 🤬of cam also No RESPECT for a WOMAN 😢
because men don’t speak outta emotion that why he say gang to hold back his emotions dude love his wife
So Disrespectful
That's tells you everything you need to know fr lol
Don't do this online. You all need to handle this behind closed doors. You need to understand that you hurt her feelings. That's her truth regardless. Love yall
And she hurt his feelings and this is his truth
Should go tell her that
Y’all n ed shut tf up we watch this girl she act like she ain’t give a damn bout him
Glad you feel relief . 10 years is a lot and no one is perfect . Marriage is a whole different ball game . Being together can be more simple but marriage kids. I’m in my second marriage. Great man. Things change when you get married you just learn to adapt if you really want it . Move around create healthy habits with one another . Be blessed you got this
Everyone always make the other person look really bad once the relationship over i pray y’all get passed this and remain great
He never made her look like the bad person
@@leonardhiggs5800 she made him look like it i never said he did but I’m not gone talk bad on his wife neither so i spoke on it how i spoke on it lol
@@leonardhiggs5800he never said that he talking about other people who do
@@leonardhiggs5800never anytime he speaks he takes responsibility zavia just blaming people bc she’s miserable
Man this could be a publicity stunt with TH-camr u never know I’ll just keep it cool
After watching her video I don’t believe shyt Blocks saying …just by looking at y’all’s skits I know u some bullshyt 😂😂😂
Right Fr it's straight bs
LMAO facts! Lying through his teeth🤣
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I feel you both . Lost my wife just after a year being married … together for 7 years. People out grow each other. Y’all still have love for each other . It’s just right now y’all ondifferent levels and at this time y’all only can provide love for each other. You want happiness for each other . Pray it’s works out , stay strong
When she told you something wasn't right, you shouldn't have left her. But we understand you just finding your way. We are living as we go. That's just your best reaction to the situation. Both of you are great ppl she only acting to her pain. Pregnancy is he** on a woman during and after. A like respectful break will do it.
Stay focused fam, and much respect to your approach to the matter. Strength and prosperity and praying for the best for u both
So much miscommunication. It doesn’t even have to be like this. From listening to both sides I see the communication needs to be worked on. God is in the midst of this. This will either bring y’all closer or …. I pray you both are able to understand and see where the miscommunication came in. I pray you both are able to take accountability for your actions. I’m so sorry y’all are going through this. Please stand in prayer.
Blocks fight for your marriage,,, real LOVE DONT DIE,, & PLEASE DONT GIVE THE INTERNET WHAT THEY WANTS & Z FIGHT FOR YOUR HUSBAND TAKE YOUR TIME BUT DONT GIVE UP ON EACH OTHER
Realist comment all facts 💯
Nothing to fight for Sista especially knowing women file for divorce 80% of the time😢
My boy ain't no way I would have not gone straight to the hospital if my lady, let alone my pregnant lady, is in the hospital. There is no excuse for that, my guy.
Grown married man... In a club?
Right. While your PREGNANT WIFE is in the hospital!
@shardepowell2637 yea that's crazy. As a man with a wife and kids, that's wild to hear.
As I've said, I love you both. It's good to hear your side too. I'm listening and hit a point where I have to comment. You're suppose to ALWAYS protect your wife. You mentioned about Zavia being wrong with the people you love. You're suppose to love your wife and she's suppose to be above all. Even in her wrong, you're suppose to protect and correct her but that doesn't mean leaving her feeling as if you choose someone else over her even if she's handling the situation wrong. You always choose your spouse. Of course communicate and talk about where you feel she fell short. Sounds like y'all need honest communication to solve your issues. But if you both decide it's time to move on, do that and be great co parents for those beautiful children. I wish you both the best whether together or separate.
Bro you blew it and you have lost your family....I was rooting for yall and still is.... #workitout #fightforyourfamily #justakidfromchicago
Keep your head up man…the man will also be the bad guy no matter what we do bro ✊🏾
I respect the fact that you didn't go in and come off disrespectful. As a man thats married and can understand how you feel. I totally get the situation you are in. If both of you can accept fault in your wrongs and move forward things could move forward too. Either way, I wish you and your wife the best bro. Wishing you and your fam a successful and wealthy New Year. 🎉
Sometimes men don't get recognized for how hard they love and it's always overshadowed by dumb shyt sometimes.
Yall been together for a long time and truthfully this is something that you guys needed to get back to the basics. With time we forget the basics and how important they are for a relationship. Y’all came from nothing to something and with that it brings problems and complications. I feel that you guys just never gave each other time to breathe and to reflect. Anger makes us irrational. We forget to talk and to be realistic. I honestly feel like you guys are going through things that can easily be fixed. Y’all have been together for a long time and it may seem like yall have done everything under the sun and just spinning wheels. That’s just may be the case because 11 years is a long time but don’t forget to just keep pushing. That means yall meet 11 different people in you guys relationship/marriage. You have to evolve that’s with the good and bad. It’s not going to always be a Cinderella story. It’s going to be times when you despise each other and it’s going to be times when you love each other unconditionally. It’s life and it’s punches you have to take but never give up. It’s the easy way out.
Exactly distractions get in the way and we forgot the true reason why we truly lasted and connected in first place !
It's always 3 sides. His side, her side, and the Truth
Right!!!!
Alwayssss. That’s why I said what I said on his most recent video.. everybody coming over here attackin him cus of her video. She shouldn’t have done that. Keep personal bidness, personal bidness
Facts!!!!!
All day
Sounds like he telling the truth she bashed the father of her children publicly multiple times emasculated this man
The fact he still not bashing her speaks volumes!!!
He’s been bashing her now he’s not bashing for the first time because he getting caught out on his bullshit
@@londonbrooks6672 you sound like you lived with them
@@londonbrooks6672shut up ugh
ummmm he probably can’t bc like she said she was nothing but good to him
@londonbrooks6672 naw I was saying he didn't bashing her frfr after she put out her video that's all
I am sorry Blocks but your son being at the hospital in a nicu you should have NOT been at NO club !
AMEN, AMEN
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The “I can’t handle you “ was real
Zavia out here filtered up and showing off 😂 .
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@@Keishalockridge50you a women liking this disgusting
For @bighomieblocks to like this comment is insane.
Zavia don’t need a filter tho. What ur seeing is a refreshed Zavia
No she’s speaking her truth I love that for her
U made some good points and it's always 2 sides. You seem sincere of what you're clarifying up with us. I totally understand yr side.
Blocks own, pray ,learn ,grow , change , do better and respect. Listen it ain't over till God say it's over. Run to fix it don't walk. Hope the best for you both.
So you mean to tell me partying was more important than your son.
Saying you were already out when she notified you was insaneeeeeeee
It’s seems like the relationship has evolved and you both have out grown each other and want different things. I hope you both get what you deserve and be happy for your children. I don’t see any fault with either person. Counseling would help because you all can’t hear each other just to get past the pain of the situation.
Break ups are tough especially when its a child or children involved & your in love. But with God, prayer, obedience unto God's word. Healing will come, co parenting in a healthy, positive, environment will allow old wombs to heal. Best wishes to you both n your family 💕🙏🏾
There is no such thing as falling out of love. True Agape Love never changes, it might bend, it might get stretched, and even might get disrespected, but it never dies.
I feel both sidesssss tbh. It's accountability needed on both sides. I feel they are both being honesty. They both didn't appreciate the value in the good things and harvested this energy due to the bad things. Pray, learn, grow and evolve. Hopefully y'all grow back together but if not live in your truth and keep pushing through life.
I’m from the crib and understand the lingo… but calling her “gang” and “lord” continuously is crazy as hell 😂😂😂
& your speech in general is just remedial af.
😂😂😂…. But true
Okay, I thought I was trippin’. I was like is he saying lord? Surely he is not calling his chick lord.
Men As a banker who worked for the 2nd biggest bank in the world for 13 yrs please put respect on rhe names of the woman who love you and loved u even when u were broke or u will end up one of these lonely creeps who come in banking centers harassing the women complaining about hw lonely they are TRUST we run from plenty of them daily and its definitely more lonely old creeps out here than lonely woman trust!!! Blocks I wish u nothing but the best! U a strong black king! Learn n grow from this! If u lucky enough to find someone who loves u like Zavia did again please put respect on her name. God bless❤ 🙏
The more of y’all business that goes on the internet… the harder it will be to reconcile
💯especially cuz they the only ones that knows the truth
Go tell her tht shii
I feel where both yall coming from and STILL it’s nothing that can’t be talked thru and fixed . I promise you yall can be going thru worse. Both yall hurt each other but not in ways that CAN’T be forgiving. When taking BIG STEPS LIKE MOVING TO ANOTHER CITY AND THEN PREGNANCY AND THEN MARRIAGE WILL ALWAYS TAKE A TOLL ON ANYONE. But you have to be willing to Communicate every issue or problem or situation you have once it happens instead of waiting until it’s too late. 🔑
Sometimes you can't make them happy
Let them go and do you
U gotta show her who u are and if she loves you she will come running. On me💯
I support you gang
No
@botha1reaper815 terrible advice
Nah bro 😂 that ain’t it
@@KayDivineu not it
Y'all not worth my time keep acting like kids
Wash Dem dishes
Keep yo house and yo ass Clean.
@@414GiannisLillardeverybody not a real one
I can tell u not 😂
Nah I respect this you can tell the difference between her and your video your more genuine and actually care bout her she was just bring you down she been felt like this and been wanted this
I love y’all vibes and been supporting y’all extra hard every since I found out y’all come from the Chi like me.I want y’all to WIN. I was 13 years old and my spouse was 15 years old when we got together. We been together for 29 years and of those 29years we only been separated for for 2weeks. We had many many 🆙 and downs. We both changed throughout the years. I’m saying all this to say both of you have to be willing to communicate, listen, change and compromise. Especially after being in a relationship for 10 years. If y’all truly love each other like y’all say you do then you’re kids and your family are truly worth fighting for. Both of you need to try communicating,listening, in working on yall needs and wants while separated. Hopefully things will get better. I will continue praying for you all…❤❤❤
Both of yall sound like yall didnt appreciate the sacrifices yall made for each other .. thats what I got from this video .
It ain't over. Y'all are just growing and don't know how to grow together. ❤ It happens to us all.
Why would you want her to go back with him when he is clearly emotionally abusive? You’re the type of old-school lady that believes in the saying “having a piece of man is better than having no man at all” 😂
@@ExcuseMyPrettyyou’re choosing to be ignorant because it’s clearly not a one way street this go both ways, hurt people, hurt people simple
@@ExcuseMyPrettywe grow as people at different rates and both parties have to be mentally strong to make a relationship work. Both parties have to compromise and sometimes women can be more loyal to their feelings than the relationship.
My brother.
I am only commenting because both of you are sharing your personal life with the world and I hate to see two young black people in the situation you both are in right now and with young children.
My Brother I listen to both of you and she is gone and both of you have said a lot about each other, and you have to really be careful about what you say about and to each other. You both shared how you felt and let that be the end of talking to each other through social media, because you will hate each other if you keep it up. People are always going to hate and have something to say but it’s up to the both of you to take this time and build yourself up and if it’s meant to be it will be , BUT DON’T make yourself sick trying to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you anymore. I heard you both and all I have to say is “it takes two (2) to make a thing go right”! Man to man because I am older than both of you and was married before. I want to leave you both with this advice “ The same thing it took to get her or him is the same thing it takes to keep her or him. If she like flowers and family time and you like affection and attention BOTH have to do their part or it will never work!
Please both of you stop talking about what the other person did or didn’t do because it’s going to make you hate each other.
Most of all Pray 🙏🏾 and focus on the children and yourselves. Much Love from Dee from the D
Why she had to get friends tho.. MY DUDE U SUPPOSED TO BE HER #1 FRIEND. u clearly stated u was the one always going out!! TF.. go where and your family is at home.. Ima NEED U TO SHUT UP OR TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!
Stop lying, you said it, you did it, you look like you lying, you seen your single friends living the life you wanted, and you changed your mind about being married, you wanted to be single like them frfr.
Hush, go to sleep and come back with something more Rational. You don't know anything about them you have an opinion but don't come here with that Anti- block mess it's not allowed. Support him or leave Periodt
@lisahamilton4166 Hush? Are you irrational? Are you one of these new age lightheaded people? His wife said she wanted him. She was left alone too much for a WIFE. Are you married? He asks his wife for a 3-some and she said "no". The first time he got his answer....she didn't share. Then to be clowned in front of his friends repeatedly is beyond disrespectful. What kind of person are you that you ride the wave of women being demeaned and abused? And if you are black talking like this, this is a problem with black people and why we're waaaaaaaaay behind in relationships and family. Black men are becoming very disrespectful to the black woman THEY went after and people are cosigning the sickness.
Word she ridin the bike to harddd
How u know he lyin yea u must be one of these girls from this era
@@dariusharris3252 Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She been was ready to go let ha go
Bro the woman always gon play victim even when she gets down on you foolie 🤦🏾♂️💆🏾♂️💆🏾♂️just stand tall we gon support both y’all jo💪🏾💯
Big homie if you see this message I'm glad you left her or she left you noooww can goo and have baddies around you .....I just wished you did not have kids with her but with the right female that will come along in your direction
Everybody don’t deserve people love!!!!!
Fuck the Internet both y’all need each other y’all got a grandma in Chicago crying please try to get back together. You can do it for yourself not for kids. Love y’all both blessings to y’all!!!❤❤❤
I seen her video and I seen your video. The most important thing from here on out is the children and being respectful. Nobody should be airing any dirty laundry to the outside public. All parties involved should look at themselves in the mirror and correct whatever issues lie within themselves. And all the focus should be on the children because nothing ever goes away on the Internet so both of you should be very careful of what you say about each other. It will always be able to be pulled up. Goo luck. God bless.. 🙏🏼
Praying yall get through these difficult times Gang...continue being a real one though.
I already know and the truth is in they actions , big homie better is gone come for you , don't hurt to much bro , greatness coming for you bro ...
I know its 2023 and people do things differently- but I think the best thing for your relationship or whatever future you have is not playing it out on social media. You dont owe people who watch you this. You do owe it to yourselves to seek counseling. That first year can be rocky for a lot of people as they "learn" how to be married.
You a real dude
That's what I'm talking about... The Disrespect on both of your parts and now, all it ends up as -- is the Blame game on who did it worse.
She called me "goofy"... He called me a B*tch. If it hurts you... It hurts her too. Both of you made mistakes, but nobody is apologizing. Neither one of you are owning up to the harsh words and actions that were done in your relationship. Until that happens... there's no way to resolve this matter
Being a comedian should not be a license to throw your wife under the bus and Disrespect her anyhow-- for the sake of comedy. (Then say afterwards, y'all know I'm a comedian).
You have to know borders that neither one of you would cross to hurt each other.... It's much more than -- I'm not cheating. There's a Level of communication that Zavia and You would not ever -- Go there to hurt each other.
Actions speaks Louder than words.
But, words do also hurt sometimes. Especially, when it comes directly from a Loved one... who supposed to care about you.
I went through this too😔... I feel like communication is key
Why you in a club and you a married man with two kids if you wanted to be in them streets you should not got married
Look man it’s sounding like you guys needed to talk and put God first into ya relationship!! It’s a Team man you guys have to hold each other down. Idc what party I’m at my kids are first!!!!
Stay strong blocks man I really feel you bro I went thru this with my first child cause a woman couldn’t get her Way with a man 😒 this will make you stronger and more superior my brother keep your head high and much love mental health is everything!!!!
Respect you as a man my dude never bashed her even when she try to bash you #Respect
You sound goofy
Thank you for your truth , I seen this already so I know you ain’t lien! I pray that you find somebody that loves you for you ❤️
Continued Blessings Blocks the truth is real and always wins in the end 💫🙏🏾
Keep doing yo thang gang take care your kids
I just love his energy! “I loved that day” so sweet . He realer than most 💯
Why the flowers had me cracking up 😂...
Loved your humble and modest approach to this response well thought out and genuine 👏🏾🙏🏾 very respectful calm and collected I say that because I'm from Chicago myself and I know we stay with a mouthpiece lmao you got this Blocks keep soaring!! 💫
damn #BigHomieGang im going thru the same shit bro should i leave or stay 4 kids involved known each other 17/18 years married for 2/3 been together on and off 10/15 years smh
I feel you bro. Went though the same suff, just have to stay strong and be the best father you can be gang.
Y’all gotta come to grips on what really matters in the situation is this decision both of y’all made really worth the heartache. It’s good y’all taking a step back to reflect but comeback together she still love you gang
She wants to feel appreciated.
You want to feel appreciated.
Y’all saying the same thing just in a different way..
Sometimes in the heat if the moment we make impulse decisions not realizing how it will affect you Two on the long hall
Imma pray for y’all to get back
As a Married Woman I've learned that it's easy to say what your partner is doing wrong and that may be true but Until you can take accountability for your actions things will never move forward because you have to examine yourself first and then the situation. I wish you all the best 🙏🏾
I hope yall two find your way back together. Love is a beautiful thing.
I honestly believe her cause every video y’all did you was calling her b words and saying f them kids it’s a lot
When you in decide to spend your life with a person, theres gonna be times when you're growing or changing and your partner is also. It takes a strong dedication to do the work through those times and grow back together. those are the points in your relationship where your bond grows stronger. You also gain more admiration and respect for each other for staying through those hard times. That makes the love grow more. So just discuss things personally with your wife and give yourselves time to fix things. It took 9 years for y'all to get married so it might take a year to fix this. Some things just take time bro. My only critique is that you guys shouldn't have brought your issues to your platform. Because it allows family, fans, and friends an opportunity to give their two cents on your personal issues and make them harder to get past. I really hope ya'll can get through this. And props for apologizing to your wife. Accountability is sign of maturity!
Sweetest day came I ain’t get shit 😂😂 that shit hit home bruh
Stand ten toes down you may seem cloudy at the moment but everything will clear up and so long as you keep your head up and continue being positive it will all work out! Stay blessed
Sounds like she checked out early!! No one is perfect in a relationship. I’m sure someone is in her head. Marriage is the beginning not the end. Y’all haven’t fell out of love just need to realize what’s important. She will see how hard it is when the kids start to grow.
She checked out early?!?🤔 she gave that man 12 years and he still couldn’t get it right 😒 You are just as goofy as he is😂
What will she see is hard when the kids grow?
@@ExcuseMyPrettyyou talking its one sided just proving people’s point this is a “two way street” like he said and hurt people, hurt people so they both wrong
@@shardepowell2637because no one really wants to be alone all day with kids and not have their kids experience both their parents together in the same household, it dont feel right, zavia even said it her self she wants them together with the kids in the same household
only person in her head is this fool for making her feel like she wasn’t enough. Im proud of her for gaining the strength to leave, don’t nobody wanna deal with the baggage these dudes be throwing on women and getting mad at them for not wanting to take it
damn. i love yall videos. ❤ much love!
Exactly what I been waiting for
😂😂😂😂 yu sound like yu lying blocks not gone lie
This brings a tear to mi eye 😢
As a married man, u cant keep goin out and partying and not taking ur girl out. When ur married going on a date is going out, rather if thats going to the club, going out to eat, comedy shows, going outta town or to the dam park. Girls just want to be out and be seen and loved. Also, its alwayz ur position to protect ur girl, rather if she right or wrong. Drunk or not, u cant deny ur girl, no matter what!!!
I know you didn't want to do it blocks but after watching zavia video I understand it had to be done it was 0 accountability showed on her side
Be fr smh
@@Wiggywonkah that's dead ahh i remember watching them for the first time and I said "she need to watch how she talk to him or he gone leave her once he get on" I said that because I could tell she didn't like him. I knew he wasn't getting no 🐱either, that's his wife how you expect him to want to be with you with no love and affection. The point is neither one of them are a 100% clean. Just like he could admit some of his wrongs she can too which she did but you don't do wrong and say your wrong doings came because somebody else did something. They both played a part on their OWN.
@@tway2536 are you a kid or some he’s the reason she spoke to him that way years after disrespect cause resentment after cheating and trying to cheat no one will want to have sex when disrespecting and disregarding I pray your not a grown man with this thinking
@@Wiggywonkah then leave or accept it and forgive. Y'all be grown playing get back and expecting somebody to change, that's not reality.
@@tway2536 2 wrongs don’t make a right absolutely but he provoked her let his family disrespect her and said it wasn’t his position to protect her as her man and husband yes it was y’all new man need to seek God And guidance cause is truly sad how you guys think some women messed up to definitely but the black man now is just sad and sick to see
Bro let her go, I know that you hurt . BW are not sticking it out with their husbands. It’s the feminist way these days it’s only need a man to make a baby. When you move forward you will be happy and find someone better.
I love how he talking to her and addressing everything she said! He is not being disrespectful and i don't think he was disrespectful to her in real life! Yall gonna get through this!
This is the most honest, funniest, genuine validation of human emotions that I have ever seen!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hold it down Blockz!! I been rocking with y’all for years. I pray things can work out between you guys. Marriage is hard bro, but the TWO of you have to want it for it to work!! It’s gonna be times you both won’t be happy about stuff, just gotta push through if it’s possible. Stay strong 💪🏽💪🏽💯
Gang she over der not taking no accountability, she gotta lot of growing to do n she never gone find peace wit a man n she got no inner peace
It's Team Blocks & Zavia even when it ain't. Get past this...remember the friendship in get the money.
In life sometimes OUR LOVE JUST NIT AS STRONG. Being on social media IS THE WORSE for a relationship. I BELIEVE YOU LIVE HER AND THE KIDS 💯. SORRY FOR WHAT YAL BOTH GOING THRU. Time heals all wounds and broken hearts. Love ya BLOCKS.
I think Zavia wanted more emotional support from you. She wanted to feel wanted as a woman, such as: receiving flowers, occasional dates, family days, quality time, and compliments about her appearance. Most women need reassurance. I hope you both can work things out.
Exactly!! So with that she shut down and couldn't give that cuddling, lovey dovey affection cuz at that point it was a turn off.
@@tanyachristian4147 What about his wants and needs? At what point can he turn off?
@kurokaizen1889 I'm still waiting to hear what him needs was that didn't involve compromising for being level headed with your wife. It sounds like he wanted to be single and find faults so he can do wtf he wanted.
You're a married man. What are you doing going out to clubs alone?
You're a married man. Why are you going to a movie premiere alone? Any invite automatically includes the spouse.
Once married, it's a union. You can not think like a single person. You say "we", but what I'm hearing is growth/maturity, respect, honest communication & consideration is lacking on both parts.
Lastly, actually this should be first. ... God/Yah is missing. ❤
Listen everything she said seems true . I believe her when she said you out partying and leaving her and the kids in the house and you not doing anything as a family.
Stoping hating bitch
One thing is obvious with us women. If we been with a man for 5, 6, more years.....we love him until. The until is death or he squish every ounce of love out of us with his disrespect. The moments he left her alone, didn't date her, no flowers, call her names, left her in labor alone, asked about other women, compared her to other women......that was way too much to endure.
Hold your head Blockz