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  • @megandunn1001
    @megandunn1001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We did not find out the gender of either of our children. It drove our family and friends crazy, but we didnt want to know. I had c sections with both (11 months apart to the day) and when they pulled them out and said "it's a ____" that was the best moment ever. I am so glad we chose to do that. It made the delivery that much more emotional and special. I have told a lot of people to try it and everyone says "I could never do that. How do you plan or buy things?" Well. We knew we wanted more than one child so we bought gender neutral baby equipment, and then people brought us gifts in the hospital so we had some clothing from that, and then when they were about a week or two old I went shopping at target and bought a bunch of clothes. It was my first trip out of the house and so i had fun. It's totally doable and really a lot of fun.

    • @marsworld7513
      @marsworld7513 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. It's so great waiting. We didn't find out either 29 years ago.

    • @AliesjaFoster
      @AliesjaFoster 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree. I waited till mine were born to find out. Makes that day even more special. I love surprises. Our first was our girl and second, 3 years later was our boy, to complete our family. They are now 13 and almost 10.

  • @tracycook7355
    @tracycook7355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Do 2. You’ve done twins better than many parents do one.
    I’d love you to have twins again.

  • @ayanyonis2002
    @ayanyonis2002 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our twins are 14 months old and we didn't know their genders until they were born. BEST DECISION EVER! We had our son exactly 2 years prior and we were blessed wit 2 baby girls.The experience was indescribable. I will be team green for the rest of my kiddos too, God Willing.

  • @melissajones5034
    @melissajones5034 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try not to find out. We had a singleton and then di/di twins and all 3 were a surprise. The best moment of our lives was finding out in that amazing moment! So worth the wait!

  • @TheNaturalLife00
    @TheNaturalLife00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't find out! It's the best surprise in the world and you already have everything for a boy or a girl.

  • @rhondagreen7683
    @rhondagreen7683 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very cool to capture Rachel’s dad! You guys are amazing parents!! I’m sure you’re exhausted when you go to bed!

  • @jenniferdurham6315
    @jenniferdurham6315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    2!!!! You already know how to do it 😉

  • @elainemagud3204
    @elainemagud3204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One embryo can divide and make twins. It's really a "crap shoot". Go for it! You can do this!

  • @Debbywithy
    @Debbywithy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the “music” in the beginning... seems like perfect introductory music for your family!! So cute!!

  • @tiffanybennett3069
    @tiffanybennett3069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So exited for y’all
    I love watching the kiddos grow up and I’m glad y’all got the old house sold
    I pray the for the best outcome for y’all

  • @tiffanyyoung2145
    @tiffanyyoung2145 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rachael don’t find out 😁 my husband and I have 5 kids ( 4 boys ,1 girl) we waited till birth to find out their genders. It was an amazing surprise every time ! You won’t regret it !!

  • @amykrell9984
    @amykrell9984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we waited with our 2nd...it was awesome! you really don't have a lot of surprises in life..that is one you can have..you should try it!

  • @KatieT81
    @KatieT81 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has to be one of my favorite vlogs of yours!

  • @sassytink8540
    @sassytink8540 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s was a fun one! Not that the rest aren’t but this one was just Light hearted, silly and full of adorable babies! So cute! Thanks guys!

  • @BellaBella284
    @BellaBella284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My only thought about only transferring one is that obviously there isn’t as good a chance of it working with one and say the next one works then when it comes to your last frozen embryo if it doesn’t work that would be really tough. Like having a miscarriage and you’re not able to try again if you see what I mean?
    Well obviously you could do another egg retrieval it’s just something to maybe consider? Love you guys you’re fabulous parents.

  • @katelynsouth4807
    @katelynsouth4807 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We didn’t find out genders with our girls. It was the best surprise ever and we will definitely do it again! But it’s different for everyone, definitely such a personal thing

  • @MacPunky2908
    @MacPunky2908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the way you guys work together😊. The twins are adorable and getting big fast. 🤗

  • @LL-vj5yp
    @LL-vj5yp 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What I did ( 37 years ago ) was when they climb up and sit ,turn them around on the belly sliding Down and show him slowly, how to feel for the floor with his /her feet. They pick it up pretty quickly. Mine never fell head forward after learning that.

  • @jenniferbunnel
    @jenniferbunnel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are amazing parents. So happy for your future journey. Can't wait to keep watching!

  • @sallylove3563
    @sallylove3563 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh melt my heart you just made my night watching you guys dance with the babies !!!!! so dang sweet !!!!!!!!!!!

  • @carolynkor3021
    @carolynkor3021 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sure have your hands full with the head strong little lady and Bear is so kicked back. I don't think I would even consider another baby until she is older, she is going to be a hand full.

  • @kyliehall8336
    @kyliehall8336 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have a surprise next time! It's so exciting not knowing leading up to the day and drives everyone crazy! I have 6 month old b/g twins and I loved not knowing. I was convinced I was having 2 boys right up until my little girl came out screaming.

  • @Peteypuma1
    @Peteypuma1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm with Brad on this one. The surprise is worth the wait!!! I actually don't have any experience with this. We don't have any children (even Gods answer is no sometimes!!), but when we were talking about having children, I said that I didn't want to find out early. Of course I was told that I was crazy and "we have to find out so that we will know what colors to buy and what clothes to buy". You can get most anything gender neutral. My mom never knew and that turned out just fine. Just my two cents worth. God Bless!!!

  • @HOLYBUBBLYTOE14
    @HOLYBUBBLYTOE14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love y’all! Been watching since I was pregnant with my no 16 month old. He’s a big fan of his twin friends. & my husband is always getting a kick out of their facial expressions 😂

  • @stephanieb6630
    @stephanieb6630 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys long time watcher here and just found out yesterday that ill be needing IVF which was ofcourse devasting but find it slightly funny considering i know what you guys went through which i think will help me, anyway love watching you guys and send me any important tips for starting IVF xoxo

  • @davidseidel5831
    @davidseidel5831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am exhausted watching this video. No wonder you are both in such great shape! Bear and June Bug are adorable! Your vlogs always bring a smile to my face. I can hardly wait for Barb to get home from her trip. I am sure she will share some of her experiences.

  • @kathleenkesler169
    @kathleenkesler169 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my goodness! The smile on Lyndle's face while riding the horse!!! They are ADORABLE !!! NO! Do not find out the gender; the surprise factor is great!

  • @karenmccabe2371
    @karenmccabe2371 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Babies just ❤️ halos! They are doing so great pushing their toys around, get ready they will be walking very soon!

  • @aliciashowers561
    @aliciashowers561 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you were to not find out the gender, you do have 1 of each right now and have everything you need for whatever the gender! I have a friend who has a girl and a boy, she found out with both. She is now pregnant with #3 and has decided to not find out since she has everything she needs for either gender!

  • @rosiec1974
    @rosiec1974 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gender finding out. . I'm with Brad. I didnt with my daughter..because there are so few surprises left in life and that's the biggest and best one.

  • @gloriapena-reyes5449
    @gloriapena-reyes5449 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys are great parents! I am with Brad.. I am currently trying to conceive and i have told my husband that i would like the gender to be a surprise. my next kid would be a tiebreaker.

  • @elizabethblanch5871
    @elizabethblanch5871 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just love you guys love watching the baby’s grow. Hope you guys do two more babies you guys are so good at it and would be even greater parents of twins you all ready have 2 of everything you need. God Bless

  • @-maelena-3981
    @-maelena-3981 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this vlog. I actually laughed out loud when Bear ate that big chunk of orange. I'm still smiling.

  • @BUFFY12338
    @BUFFY12338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your twin I would say two!

  • @iowamama2313
    @iowamama2313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome parents. Love watching you.

  • @lshelinb
    @lshelinb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a fun video ! Love seeing your little Family grow and doing so well 🌸💙

  • @suedorfman7138
    @suedorfman7138 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This looked like a fun Friday night with the kiddos❤️

  • @matthewnuzzi326
    @matthewnuzzi326 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We waited to find out and our embryos are pgs tested so we could’ve found out before transfer. Lol. The moment we found out when our son was born was a feeling and such a special memory between us that we will share for a lifetime. Its truely something special. You have boy, girl and gender neutral stuff already. I say go for it. It’s something no one regrets. I mean what is there to regret? Haha. With that being said, we plan to transfer 2 next time since we still have 3 frozen. Because it would be twins we would want to find out so we can prepare a little more for them. But going back it was a perfect moment and I’d do it all over again!

  • @pamamend5221
    @pamamend5221 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really LOVED this video....such a precious family.

  • @KalynJewel
    @KalynJewel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have found out the gender and waited until delivery and I would wait every time if I could do it again. It’s truly a magical moment having my husband announce the gender to me and everyone else! I can’t tell people enough that it’s so worth the wait. The only way I would tell someone not to do it is if they are really set on one gender and think they will be disappointed if the other comes out. For us, a healthy baby is a blessing and gender wasn’t a big deal. We had our third boy as the surprise gender and it was absolutely amazing!! My husband did want to know but waited with me since we’d found out with our second and I had wanted to wait then also. Fair is fair haha We both wanted to know with our first. He has said now he would wait again and it was so much more fun then he thought it would be.
    Edited to add: I did tell my husband he could find out and just him know but he didn’t want to risk ruining the surprise. He said he knew he’d slip at some point.

  • @anntownsend2630
    @anntownsend2630 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are just wonderful parents

  • @brewmastersteve
    @brewmastersteve 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are a very sweet family!

  • @HelloCarolineKate
    @HelloCarolineKate 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my gosh my toddler just discovered light switches and I very very very wrongly let him turn it on and off one time. Now EVERY second of the day he wants to be picked up to flick it 😳. I have found a battery operated light on amazon that has a lightswitch attached... I can't wait for it to arrive 😂😂

  • @lyzzefragomeni5260
    @lyzzefragomeni5260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coming from a mom of twins and a long time watcher (since B &L were 12 weeks gestation!) I would say do 1! No reason to do 2 again unless you really want to! I would NOT want twins again personally though so many people are like wouldn’t that be cute? And Im like please no lol. So blessed for my girls and I always wanted twins but I had the experience:)

    • @katelynsouth4807
      @katelynsouth4807 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lyzze Fragomeni right! I love my twins but I told my fertility doc “no clomid this time!” Lol I’m excited to have a different experience and try 1 single baby. Twins are so fun, but I’m ready for 1!

  • @hayleyborg224
    @hayleyborg224 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have two sets of twins 9 months apart :) congratulations!! I’m a small vlogger

  • @sarahc444
    @sarahc444 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't find out.
    I think it would be an amazing suprise.

  • @Kateymae5
    @Kateymae5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 2 sets. It’s a blessing for Sure 😍

  • @ashlee1386
    @ashlee1386 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think do two! And would be awesome not finding out! :)

  • @Bcdf-ei9el
    @Bcdf-ei9el 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do 2!

  • @lindaormond7030
    @lindaormond7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi guys I’m exhausted just watching the antics of the children 👶 lol 😂 great fun it is so fleeting treasure every moment , I think this is a full on stage and boy! Did I miss it when independence came all too quickly , I hope your mum is having a lovely holiday , my dad was stationed in the holy land during ww2 , he loved the whole area , one day I hope to go myself , take care love and hugs xxx💖💜💜💖

  • @janicefoster6960
    @janicefoster6960 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys do twins well. Lol. I personally would want to know the gender. Years ago we didn’t have the option so now that you all have it I would want to know. It’s still a surprise when it’s revealed. Just don’t have to wait so long. But it’s still awesome waiting too. I think you can handle twins again. Who knows maybe the one embryo will split into two!

  • @Haynay335
    @Haynay335 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would transfer 2 embryos but that’s just cuz I’ve been down the infertility. However, I can see that twins again would be hard. Yeesh! I had to find out genders but I could see how not finding out would be fun but those months of waiting would feel super long 🤷‍♀️

  • @cuplafocalonthesunshinecoast
    @cuplafocalonthesunshinecoast 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You mentioned grading do you know what grade the remaining 2 are. I've twins also. If it was me id implant 1. You could still get twins seeing as your moms a twin.

  • @kaseehalbert2046
    @kaseehalbert2046 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I say 2 embryos! Twins are far easy easier than one in my opinion, granted my one is a boy and my twins are girls lol! I would love twins again, hoping to get pregnant here in the next month or so with some help from fertility drs so hopefully I’ll get my second set 😂 I couldn’t not find out the gender, id feel so unprepared if we didn’t know

  • @Dminserraxo
    @Dminserraxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would do one. From my ivf experience if the one fails u have one shot left!!!!! Unfortunately my embaby resulted in miscarriage and I have to do ivf all over again this summer 🙏🏼

  • @mcmickey3344
    @mcmickey3344 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    how old were you when you made the decision? Did you do pgt as well? so happy for you guys

  • @HelloCarolineKate
    @HelloCarolineKate 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this is one of your best vlogs yet 😊

  • @bhinkle5756
    @bhinkle5756 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let the gender be a surprise. Make it different than when u had the twins. One baby this time and the gender a surprise! Fun!! U hve boy and girl things all ready.

  • @lorianthony9281
    @lorianthony9281 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When parents are away, children and grandchildren will play! 😂
    There are few surprises in life. I didn’t know with either of my kids.

  • @lisabennett2490
    @lisabennett2490 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys so much! Hugs from Louisiana!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @markleestma2121
    @markleestma2121 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    2, you can do it again!!

  • @Akshata4786
    @Akshata4786 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur story is inspiring to me. Always have hope. So much positivity here. My FET is due from past 3 years. Its all about our financial condition. We are unable to visit hospital. The charges are too high. 😭😭😭 hoping to see doctor and have healthy baby. Please pray for me ....please please need blessings. I am feeling low and depressed. Please pray for me to get pregnant with healthy baby. Prayers for me please please please

  • @lizbell9556
    @lizbell9556 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely find out the gender. The surprise is the baby itself, how they look, their personality ect. Plus if you see a gender-specific item that you just love you wouldn't want to buy it and have it not be used.

  • @caroldobbin7558
    @caroldobbin7558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yey first watching love from uk x x

  • @amyverlinden853
    @amyverlinden853 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    June Bug at 47 seconds lol she gets frustrated easily lol but it’s so cute

  • @our3geckos
    @our3geckos 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are AWESOME!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕LOVE watching your vlogs & seeing all the fun stuff you do with Bear & Lyndle!💙❤👶👶and of course the rest of your family also! Today was precious with you guys being able to see your dad on 📺!!!💕 Love how the kids interact with Rio & Iris & Rusty. All the Furbabies are so good with them!💕 ~ Aloha from Hawai'i ~ 🌹Lyssa🌹

  • @sadieg.thatsme49
    @sadieg.thatsme49 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    2! Why not! One for each arm for both of ya. Hahah. By the way I love Lyndle’s tantrums so much.

  • @tonyaballard2966
    @tonyaballard2966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think 2 just because of how awesome you both are with the kids. How would the transfer work ? Would you have to go there for the transfer or can they send the embryos to a clinic in your town ..

  • @joannahorrigan4863
    @joannahorrigan4863 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t find out the sex of my first baby and was adamant my husband told me what the sex was, he was that caught up in the moment he forgot, I had to bloody ask him, the shock of how small Kenzie actually was didn’t help. My tiny 6lb 1oz baby is now 14 years old and is hitting the 6ft mark taller then me and his dad!! My middle one we wanted to find out the sex as my husband had 2 boys from his previous relationship Kenzie made a 3rd and we were hoping for a girl and we got our little lady. 5 months after she was born my dad unexpectedly passed away aged just 45 years old, he’s truly was not just my dad but my best friend. Very very quickly I kind of lost myself. Fast forward a month and I find out I was expecting AGAIN, I had to quickly pull my self together I had a 3 year old and a 6 month old and was pregnant, I knew it was going to be hard but I also knew the baby was a gift to help me focus on my family again, and yes we decided to find out the sex and I was truly blessed with another boy who took my dads name. So either way finding out or not finding out is special in their own way.

  • @evem1741
    @evem1741 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video

  • @kaylamullins81
    @kaylamullins81 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally don’t know that I could not find out the gender that would be way to hard plus I’m horrible at hiding things that I do know and others don’t

  • @CAITYIZMEEE
    @CAITYIZMEEE 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Although, all jokes aside, if you wanted to experience a vaginal birth or a VBAC as they call it, 1 embryo, not saying its impossible to birth twins vaginally as im sure you know very well it is possible, it just seems more likely for you to be able to achieve a VBAC in a singleton pregnancy

  • @brance2007
    @brance2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A friend of mine did not find out the gender but her husband, mom, and mother in law all did. No one ever slipped. I’d definitely be the slipper 🤐🤣

  • @bonnie3994
    @bonnie3994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fun @ Great vlog😀♥️

  • @geenaanstey1968
    @geenaanstey1968 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you guys planning on implanting an embryo soon?!

  • @michellebridges2604
    @michellebridges2604 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So adorable ❤️❤️ I say one and a surprise. I don't know on two of mine and it was a great surprise ❤️❤️

  • @Debbywithy
    @Debbywithy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about a pic of Grandma Barb .. somewhere in the Holy Land!! 🙂

  • @willevallas
    @willevallas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are great patents ❤️ your children so cute lovely family ❤️ good luck with Number 3 😉

  • @cathypeluso8617
    @cathypeluso8617 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just want to say I love this TH-cam family so much ur a pleasure to watch all the time!! Thanks so much for sharing those two beautiful twins with us. Can’t wait to see what 2019has in store for us!!! See u next time 💜💚❤️💙

  • @hannahwyant4431
    @hannahwyant4431 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you plan on moving back to Beaufort or would you stay in Charleston?

    • @BradandRach
      @BradandRach  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We plan to build a house here in Missouri!

  • @ljcl1859
    @ljcl1859 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL, one or two...such a tough decision. You two are so funny.

  • @CAITYIZMEEE
    @CAITYIZMEEE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    2, i mean, you already have 2 sets of everything, so why not? 😆😝

  • @kyleetrovillo4609
    @kyleetrovillo4609 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so confused!!!! I love your videos! But are you guys having another baby???

    • @wibblewobble489
      @wibblewobble489 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      They have 2 more frozen embryos and the whole process of using them takes about a yr all up so they're starting to think about it now. Rach is for it Brad wants to wait longer LOL

  • @katiebarrera2861
    @katiebarrera2861 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would go nuts not knowing the gender!!! I'm too much of a planner

  • @tiffanyyoung3865
    @tiffanyyoung3865 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    2 yassss

  • @wibblewobble489
    @wibblewobble489 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nooo, keep it a surprise! There will be so much less drama, rigmarole and surprises this time around if it stays a single baby. Keep it a surprise till the very and and think of names for both genders :D

  • @Evanescencechick180
    @Evanescencechick180 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My son does that too!! He loves oranges! And he screams just like beat lol *except my son is 22 mon and yells at me and says no! Lol*

  • @chevonnehinkle5611
    @chevonnehinkle5611 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So wait, are you guys going to try again soon? And definitely transfer two! Lol

  • @sadieg.thatsme49
    @sadieg.thatsme49 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh and nice guns Brad

  • @val-le1cf
    @val-le1cf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm on team keep it a surprise you all ready got both genders baby cloths

  • @caitlyn3021
    @caitlyn3021 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I have a boy next, and end up with a daughter and a son...then we won’t find out the gender of our third baby! I think it’d be so fun, but I’m too much of a control freak and shopaholic unless I already have one of each 😂

  • @hollytree2927
    @hollytree2927 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would want to be surprised of the gender. Especially the second go-around!

  • @yahayratrinidad4701
    @yahayratrinidad4701 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    2

  • @mandych715
    @mandych715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved Lyndles little fit! She's got her daddy wrapped around her finger!

    • @catherinel2969
      @catherinel2969 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      They sure are going to have there hands full with June Bug with that big temper for such a little girl 😡
      😁😁 💖💖

  • @MissyDcherrydaisypie25
    @MissyDcherrydaisypie25 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    They are so close to walking !i say 2

  • @lifejourney48
    @lifejourney48 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't find out make it a suprise congrats when are u due

  • @tillywillie1
    @tillywillie1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm for one transfer, surprise gender. It will be a whole new experience. ✝💖

  • @amandabaum6035
    @amandabaum6035 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep the gender a surprise!

  • @om688
    @om688 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    TWOOO

  • @luckycharmer82
    @luckycharmer82 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    While you would think that one could know the gender and the other not know, that would be next to impossible. The one who knows will eventually let it slip by accident. 😆

    • @BradandRach
      @BradandRach  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you’re right!!