Not one to comment, but when you schooled your audience to ‘Come Correct’ that was truly the first time I picked up on your east coast Bostonian accent and it would be terrific if everyone was schooled to come correct and behave honestly, decently, authentically, and have the grace to support others, not tear them down or spread ugly and ridiculous rumors. You are a breath of fresh air, please keep doing what you do.
You are so correct. We do not know how long things will last. My fiancee passed suddenly 6 months before our planning to marry. We lived our dream for 2 years before she passed. So if your feelings are real with Ben, don't make plans for far off , because far off may not come. Hugs to you. Don't let anyone ever make you think you're a lesser person than you are.
so sad, my love of life had passed , we lived in other states when he passed, he did not want his family to inform me while he was in hospital.....but it took me years to stop grief was sooo bad.... great comment to her//hugs from a far
I’m so not surprised that you two are in a relationship. I could totally see it awhile ago. Good luck to you both. Very brave announcing it to the world. ❤
Loving Rio in the background being chill!! I could see the spark between you and Ben he first time you showed him at your home. It's nobody's business what your and Ben's relationship is or isn't. Enjoy discovering it together.
I’m smiling at the thought of you and Ben❤I’m 79 and I’ve just celebrated 51 years anniversary I was 28 and my hubbby was 21. Life is seasons of change for sure❤ stay true to yourself sweet girl and your cottage is Amazing
For anyone that needs to see this, so long as you are standing in your integrity, other peoples' feelings are not your responsibility. I try to remind myself often that in general, how other people view me is none of my business. 🤍
He's a keeper, Keep Him! (But then again, YOU are a Keeper - don't lose yourself over any relationship). Next year this time I hope you are married (or at least engaged!). Happy for you no matter!
Unless a wedding date is selected there is little to no point of announcing an engagement, in my opinion. Engagements used to be an important step in a relationship. It was a serious promise of impending marriage. Sometimes people had long engagements, lasting years. The couple might be working toward an education, financial independence, fulfillment of some previous commitment like serving the military in a war zone. Today the term “ engagement” is considered to be a kind of marriage without a legal commitment. It’s not Common Law Marriage which does have some legal status in States still observing CLM. No, this is purely a rather new concept. The couple has cohabitated for a period of time and believe that a formal engagement sends a message good enough to serve their commitment requirements. It seems to be well accepted among many people in the 20-40 year old group. Social norms change over time and once established tend to last for generations. My point? The term engagement has morphed into a whole new reality that does not always indicate a longterm commitment.
This is hilarious, because you describing Ben is exactly how I feel when seeing Ben around you 😂. I think he’s brought up by great parents. He’s lovely and oh I’m sooo happy for you darling. ❤
I've commented this before, it's amazing to me that someone who is so young can be so wise. Truly. It's your commentary on things that I think I most enjoy. Not to say that the other aspects of what you present on your videos aren't entertaining, but it's your kindness, empathy, and genuine way of communicating that stand out for me.
Please remember that you don't owe anyone any explanation. So glad for you and Ben! May you have a long, healthy, loving relationship together. He looks like a good, funny, charismatic man. Take good care of him as I'm sure he will take good care of you! Greeting from across the planet in Bucharest, Romania!
You did not have to explain. Your giggles gave it away. I never said anything but I told my husband. You can see the connection. Plus you are so cute and reminds me why I love my husband of 33 years. Love you girl! I'm happy for you both.
Truly TRULY…loved this talk!!! Also so happy for you and Ben! - this was raw and real and honestly you have never come across anything different to me! I dint know about rumors or AI stuff…I have seen other videos out there of other youtubers watch where someone posts these “the teal truth about so and so” or “how much they really make” are these people working for the IRS or FBI or somethin’? How in the real turkey would they know? And I admit I may have been swayed to watch one before but INSTANTLY it gave me creep vibes and I didnt watch the rest of it…and since then anytime I see a video about someone I follow and its NOT the person I follow who posted it… scroll…next…and thats the best thing viewers can do to keep youtube real and genuine. Sweet friend, keep being your true self and inspire young and old women like myself to be our true selves!!! You are genuine and those that use their real eyes…see it! You are making a difference. Be proud!! Xoxo
Thank you for sharing all those wonderful empowering words. I am very happy to know you found your love and I wish you both the best. Funny thing… I actually went back to videos of building Monarch to see Ben there because I knew I saw Ben helping build Monarch. I think it’s very sweet that you two are together and I hope you both will have a loving journey together. This Sarah from California. My husband owns fishing charter company out here and maybe if you get lost in Bodega, CA we can take you on a boat ride or better yet fishing! I work as a nurse and I’ve been a silent subscriber. I watched all your videos and I enjoyed watching every single one. 👍👍👍 Go Alyssa and Ben 💞❤️!!!!!!!
@@REGRETLYSS1 absolutely!!!!! Marshall is is such a small town (country) nestled on by Tomales Bay. There are nice restaurants along the bay and we launch our boat there. I see quite a bit of van lifers around here in Tomales Bay….one popular place is Millerton Point. Good luck Alyssa and Ben. Love to you both. Thank you for being there my virtual friends and thank you for letting us be part of your life journey. ❤️
You are a delightful young lady, Ben seems like a really good guy, I am glad it is out in the open now so enjoy, don't let any sunsets go to waste! I am a Grandmother, I was blessed with boys, no girls, so you are exactly the kind of daughter/granddaughter I would enjoy. You are an excellent story teller, and all that sill stuff people said about is what comes from a jealous heart with a keyboard to hide behind! I count my sunsets and try not waste any since they are getting fewer each day. God Bless!
Don’t ruin a good thing. Keep private things private, and don’t feel a need to explain everything. Or over explain… be careful in how much you share is all. Really you owe no one an explanation. Best of luck to you in all that you do.
I just love your guts. Everything about you is special, unique and wonderful. It makes me sad that someone who is out there making videos that literally make people feel peace and find meaning in their lives because of your beautiful soul, having so much negativity thrust upon you, is ridiculous. Such small small individuals. Sigh….You keep shining your light… thank you, for your honest candor and well done videos… you are the only one I look forward to watching every week. ❤
That knowing is your connection to the universe and all that is. The spark between you showed through all your videos with Ben but good for you for remaking private and protective of your love, despite your viewer’s curiosity it’s no business but yours. Wishing you both every happiness and joy in your life together. ❤😊
I love the way you have put such effort into honestly seeking your best life. And you share it with me, and thousands of other people. But, I appreciate your sharing very personally. Talking about one’s feelings, new or developing insights into one’s own personality , mistakes, regrets, successes, embarrassing moments, everything is encouraging to me. Too many of us jump into the flowing waters of life and get carried away by the current. We feel overwhelmed by the strength of the currents and founder. Sometimes we even drown. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Wow! is the only exclamation coming to my mind right now. I've been following your antics from the time you purchased your second bus and did all that great work on it while working on yourself. You are not that same woman from back then, Congrats Lyss! And welcome Ben into Regretlyss' world. Word of caution: don't break her heart... What a great surprise to discover having a brick house. You will enjoy repointing the mortar lol. One thing about bricks is that they are alive, they need to breathe and let the humidity escape, so please don't paint them as they will literally rot and crumble away under the layer of paint. That is my 2 cents worth of advice. Cheers 🍻
Hi from Queensland, Australia. I am so happy for you Alyssa, and for Ben. I will not ask you personal questions, because your personal life is yours only. I will say I really look forward to your videos, I love the real life experiences you share. You are a breath of fresh air, and I wish you and Ben the very best, whatever you chose to do.💕🍷
It is truly a beautiful thing that you happy....period. That is all that matters and I am glad you are doing all the things. Keep going and Much Love!!!
Alyssa, I've been with you for what feels like forever. Through highs and lows, good times and bad, and at this point I kinda look at you as the little sister I never had. Your grace and authenticity touch so many people in so many different ways it's amazing. Now as for this video. First of all, did you happen to notice during editing that when you opened your cook top at "camp" that Rio actually gave you the "Excuse me mom, you have blocked the peoples view of me" look?🤣 As far as the weight thing goes. We are alike in this department. I choose to look at it as we are actually part bear, and we put on a little extra weight for winter to act as insulation.😁 Y'all stay safe and warm. BIG HUGS and much ❤to all from Tennessee!
You are a bright light!! I am so happy for your new relationship. I am going through a lot….your videos help me so much! Your home is a piece of heaven that I wish I had!! Keep showing us your creative side!! You friend from Indiana, Cyndi❤
It's great to see you in such a good mood, enthusiastic, energetic. Life is also about building a memory bank for later. It is not something we do on purpose. It is something I learned along the way. All those intense moments are important for the now and the future you.
It is so good to see the happiness in your eyes. Happy for you and Ben! Take it one day at a time and enjoy the time you have in this life. Love watching your videos.
Love your dedication to personal growth. I'm a little over twice your age and your wisdom still impacts me. Thank you for being such an awesome human. XO
Hey REGRETLYSS, thanks so much for answering my question during your Q&A! Always love hearing your thoughts and getting a little insight into your world. Also, huge shoutout for just being an amazing friend here on TH-cam-AI or not, you're as real as it gets to me! Keep being awesome (and give Rio a treat for me)!
Wow you always give off an positive energy that shines. This girl talk makes me feel like I’m really there and we are chatting. Stay true to yourself and enjoy what you have with Ben and Rio ❤
This video was so joyous!!! To know that all your hard work in discovering yourself over the past years, has brought you to a place of such joy, love, and happiness is just amazing!!!!!!!!! You go girl!!!!!!!!
Of course you should keep private what you don’t want to share! Those rumors were crazy! So excited to see the brick! And enjoy enjoy enjoy your lovely relationship with Ben!❤
I always like your talk videos. I rarely see people explain the truth about love and making friends so straightforwardly, because these truths are difficult to explain clearly. When I saw you and Ben in the same hotel I got it, but I didn't know what the process was and I wanted to understand the process. So after watching this video, I am very satisfied, I understand everything.❤
Go watch your van build videos. Your chemistry with Ben was insane. I commented to my husband back then that you would end up with Ben. So happy for you both!!!
You are one of the best. You need to keep going with Yourself as You are. I am someone that can listen to you and your Vents or anything you want to talk about and it stays silent. I will always listen without advice unless asked.
Oh, girl! What a great video for those of us who love you! You said you didn't want to get emotional when you talked about men, but I failed at that one. It was such a sweet story that tears welled up in my eyes. I felt the same when I saw you giggling and so happy with Ben around. We all knew there was more. It was no secret. From the first time I started watching you a very long time ago I loved your inspiring words and always thought you should be a mental health counselor. We all love you, even more with Ben if that is even possible, so ignore the haters. No one has the right to criticize you. 😍🤩
Looking forward to seeing the brick. The sneak peek looks amazing. having a brick house is less maintenance than siding. We have siding and if I was buying or building a new house, it would be all brick. Washing a house full of siding is not easy.
Most gorgeous sunset, so very happy on life's events for you. Your hair is getting so long and so beautiful, you deserve all that is unfolding right now ❤❤❤ that Rio girl oh my gosh the best. Thanks for sharing
I love the serendipitous of the layer of house coming down same time a layer of you is coming down! ♥️ love the videos, love the humor. Internet bullies Aint got nothing on you!
Hi Lyss. You are just an amazing young lady. So positive and bags of energy which is great to witnesses. Its a real pleasure watching your videos on your amazing journey of your life. You are such a beautiful soul both inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life's journey to date. 👌. Looking forward to many more. 👍. Take care. ❤
Damn, I had checked a few time and no signs that there was going to be a Regretlyss video. So I though, I guess this day will be lyssfree unfortunately. I went down a Japanese language rabbit hole and you're premiere happened. Now I'm depressed that I was available, but not here. However, got to catch this on replay and I'm healed by the magic in your voice and the fire in your eyes. I didn't get an alert, but I'm a brand new man, sort of, maybe. First off glad you and Ben got it going on. When the stars align and the trumpets blare it's too good to be true, but it is. Second I'm looking for the strip tease and finding out how the brick house displays it's new old look. Third - Damn girl you always looked fine and you still look fine, but your inner shine is glowing for all to see. You are riding the wave, and the good vibes you send out are coming back at you. Wish I'd been here for the premiere, but if wishes were horses we'd all ride. Looking forward to next week.
Hey lyssa, That's probably the best video I've ever seen of yours. It's really good you are happy, well done m8. You are so positive & I can see you know what you are doing & where you are going. Cheers !!!
As you are starting out this video I am shocked that all this is going on. I am clueless! I have been watching you since you were together with another in another bus and watched you blossom into the amazeballs of a woman today. And what a transformation! I have honestly thought you as a guiding light and never looked beyond what you have spoken. It isn’t my business to make assumptions or anything of the sort. And no one else should. You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone. You put what you want out and keep on keeping with you. I love watching you grow and seeing the interaction with your amazing soul fam. Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤ Edit: thank you for answering my question, it really means a lot and helped me immensely!
I want to thank you. You told me it was ok to daydream. I was so bored with life. Was having bad thoughts about unliving. But when you said day dreaming was ok. It gave me something to do. You be you. Keep making these video's. It really does help others. Cheers from Oregon
Forget "Mav" --- you broke *my* heart and I've never even met you... Still very happy for you -- Ben seems like a great guy --- wishing you two all the joy and happiness in the world! Think I'm hopelessly single and maybe that's ok too. Cheers!...from North Vancouver
You are one of the most authentic person, beautiful inside out! and you radiate positive energy. Wishing you every happiness in your life. Watching you and your surroundings is like a fairy tale...
I have been with you since Lucky! I remember your first video after you broke up with (I forgot his name) and you were starting off on your own. I remember when you sold lucky and bought the new bus. But anyways, I love you, girl you’re doing great!
I’m extremely happy for you and your blossoming life and relationship, only known of you a very short time, you have a special personality that is contagious, best wishes to you in everything you do😊😊😊
Hi Lyssa, thanks for sharing although your private life is your own concern. Happy for both of you and looking forward to more of your videos in the future 😊
im so happy for you , watching you grow ... your emotional intelligence is thru the roof and it seems like that skill finally manifested all you have wanted for so long. It gives hope
Your videos make my day. I’m happy for your new relationship, me on the other hand I have been single for 9 or more years and have realized I am happy happy by myself. Never thought I could be happy alone., but I am 55 and have my children and two beautiful granddaughters that make me full. That’s all
I am so happy for you and Ben. Your hard work on yourself and getting to the roots of your problems, working through them and focusing on yourself is so inspiring, Lissa... I could not be more proud of you young lady and I am so happy at how far you have grown. It is so good to see you smile and see how happy you are now. You did the hard work, opened yourself to love and Happiness and look what you have accomplished... A beautiful home, a precious dog, new wonderful friend's that you can count on no matter what and a Beautiful, loving, giving, kind, compassionate man that shows up and keeps his word... And you found Love with him... I could not be happier for you honey... Well Done and I wish you All the Love and Blessings in the world 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯🥰
Love when do these. Your an amazing young woman. ❤️ been watching your for along time. Want to see more 😊. Love the brick. Ben seems like an awesome person.
So glad you are so happy. I felt it was Ben from awhile ago. Could see the sparks😄. Have been watching since Covid started. Have told you before that I wish I was as together as you have been when I was younger. Just turned 70 and it freaks me out that I’m that old😆. Been married for 51yrs!! That also freaks me out. But he’s my guy. Been through a lot together good and bad but worked through it all. He came from a great family mine was dysfunctional. He has a lot of patience 😆You are wonderful!
Loved this video and the beautiful light that surrounds you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom❤ I love what you said about how we can still experience peace even when others are upset with us. There's always something that resonates with me when i watch your videos. I think the community you've attracted reflects the love and authenticity that you put out in the world. Pats to Rio ❤
You made the first move girl, good for u. 😊 Hv u asked him why Ben got divorced? Not asking u to share what happened in Ben's divorce. That question may interest u to see Ben as a person. And if possible in the future to hear from the other person what happened in the divorce. That can reveal how someone deals with issues, growth, truth & so on. 😉 Absolutely right on moving to the heart space. My saying is to think with my heart & feel with my head. 🙏🏾
You're an inspiration to me and I find myself laughing so much when you're chatting away 🤍 share as much or as little or not at all at any given moment, SiStar ✨ Continue being REAL 🤍 thats why I love ya 🌺 So happy you and Ben are dancing together 💚
YEAH!!!! You have a brick house, how cool. WTF people have nothing better to do than make stuff up about you???? Loved this update about your lufe and Ben...keep doing whatever you want to!
Chapters? We don't need no stinking chapters! The true beauty is in seeing and knowing the whole picture! Thank you for being real! Thank you for being honest to yourself! Thank you for being you! An absolutely beautiful marvelous girl that it is alwsys wonderful to hear from! Love you and always stay true to you!
Fantastic video Lyss. You definitely have a magnetic personality. I’m relatively new to your channel and have enjoyed watching your growth. I walk away feeling happy after watching your videos. Congrats on your relationship with Ben and good luck going forward. Keep on keeping on. Eagerly anticipating your next video!
As one Boilermaker to another, YOU GO GIRL. I wish you and your guy all the best. We Coloradans need our time in the mountains to regain our perspective. Your supper looked tasty. You and Ben stay safe as you explore our wonderful mountains.
Thank you so much for that camping trip! Am so happy for you & Ben! Happy that you are taking this relationship slow if it’s meant to be the universe will let you know. Good luck to you in your journey w/all your connections! ❤U, & stay safe!
Not one to comment, but when you schooled your audience to ‘Come Correct’ that was truly the first time I picked up on your east coast Bostonian accent and it would be terrific if everyone was schooled to come correct and behave honestly, decently, authentically, and have the grace to support others, not tear them down or spread ugly and ridiculous rumors. You are a breath of fresh air, please keep doing what you do.
Me too!! 😂 loved the accent!!
yes she should
Loved this comment!
You are so correct. We do not know how long things will last. My fiancee passed suddenly 6 months before our planning to marry. We lived our dream for 2 years before she passed. So if your feelings are real with Ben, don't make plans for far off , because far off may not come. Hugs to you. Don't let anyone ever make you think you're a lesser person than you are.
so sad, my love of life had passed , we lived in other states when he passed, he did not want his family to inform me while he was in hospital.....but it took me years to stop grief was sooo bad.... great comment to her//hugs from a far
I’m so not surprised that you two are in a relationship. I could totally see it awhile ago. Good luck to you both. Very brave announcing it to the world. ❤
Loving Rio in the background being chill!! I could see the spark between you and Ben he first time you showed him at your home. It's nobody's business what your and Ben's relationship is or isn't. Enjoy discovering it together.
I’m smiling at the thought of you and Ben❤I’m 79 and I’ve just celebrated 51 years anniversary I was 28 and my hubbby was 21. Life is seasons of change for sure❤ stay true to yourself sweet girl and your cottage is Amazing
Congrats on 51 years.🎉🎉🎉
@@LL-wu8zt thank you 🙏🏻
For anyone that needs to see this, so long as you are standing in your integrity, other peoples' feelings are not your responsibility. I try to remind myself often that in general, how other people view me is none of my business. 🤍
Well said!
He's a keeper, Keep Him! (But then again, YOU are a Keeper - don't lose yourself over any relationship). Next year this time I hope you are married (or at least engaged!). Happy for you no matter!
Unless a wedding date is selected there is little to no point of announcing an engagement, in my opinion. Engagements used to be an important step in a relationship. It was a serious promise of impending marriage. Sometimes people had long engagements, lasting years. The couple might be working toward an education, financial independence, fulfillment of some previous commitment like serving the military in a war zone. Today the term “ engagement” is considered to be a kind of marriage without a legal commitment. It’s not Common Law Marriage which does have some legal status in States still observing CLM. No, this is purely a rather new concept. The couple has cohabitated for a period of time and believe that a formal engagement sends a message good enough to serve their commitment requirements. It seems to be well accepted among many people in the 20-40 year old group. Social norms change over time and once established tend to last for generations. My point? The term engagement has morphed into a whole new reality that does not always indicate a longterm commitment.
This is hilarious, because you describing Ben is exactly how I feel when seeing Ben around you 😂. I think he’s brought up by great parents. He’s lovely and oh I’m sooo happy for you darling. ❤
I've commented this before, it's amazing to me that someone who is so young can be so wise. Truly. It's your commentary on things that I think I most enjoy. Not to say that the other aspects of what you present on your videos aren't entertaining, but it's your kindness, empathy, and genuine way of communicating that stand out for me.
Ben is a sweetheart!!! Definitely a keeper. Enjoy all the moments. 💕🎊🎉
Please remember that you don't owe anyone any explanation. So glad for you and Ben! May you have a long, healthy, loving relationship together. He looks like a good, funny, charismatic man. Take good care of him as I'm sure he will take good care of you! Greeting from across the planet in Bucharest, Romania!
You did not have to explain. Your giggles gave it away. I never said anything but I told my husband. You can see the connection. Plus you are so cute and reminds me why I love my husband of 33 years. Love you girl! I'm happy for you both.
Truly TRULY…loved this talk!!! Also so happy for you and Ben! - this was raw and real and honestly you have never come across anything different to me! I dint know about rumors or AI stuff…I have seen other videos out there of other youtubers watch where someone posts these “the teal truth about so and so” or “how much they really make” are these people working for the IRS or FBI or somethin’? How in the real turkey would they know? And I admit I may have been swayed to watch one before but INSTANTLY it gave me creep vibes and I didnt watch the rest of it…and since then anytime I see a video about someone I follow and its NOT the person I follow who posted it… scroll…next…and thats the best thing viewers can do to keep youtube real and genuine. Sweet friend, keep being your true self and inspire young and old women like myself to be our true selves!!! You are genuine and those that use their real eyes…see it! You are making a difference. Be proud!! Xoxo
Thank you for sharing all those wonderful empowering words.
I am very happy to know you found your love and I wish you both the best.
Funny thing… I actually went back to videos of building Monarch to see Ben there because I knew I saw Ben helping build Monarch.
I think it’s very sweet that you two are together and I hope you both will have a loving journey together.
This Sarah from California.
My husband owns fishing charter company out here and maybe if you get lost in Bodega, CA we can take you on a boat ride or better yet fishing!
I work as a nurse and I’ve been a silent subscriber. I watched all your videos and I enjoyed watching every single one. 👍👍👍 Go Alyssa and Ben 💞❤️!!!!!!!
Sarah this comment means SO much. Thank you for commenting, and for being along for this wild ride. Whenever I’m in CA, I might just reach out 😊
@@REGRETLYSS1 absolutely!!!!!
Marshall is is such a small town (country) nestled on by Tomales Bay. There are nice restaurants along the bay and we launch our boat there.
I see quite a bit of van lifers around here in Tomales Bay….one popular place is Millerton Point.
Good luck Alyssa and Ben. Love to you both. Thank you for being there my virtual friends and thank you for letting us be part of your life journey. ❤️
You are a delightful young lady, Ben seems like a really good guy, I am glad it is out in the open now so enjoy, don't let any sunsets go to waste! I am a Grandmother, I was blessed with boys, no girls, so you are exactly the kind of daughter/granddaughter I would enjoy. You are an excellent story teller, and all that sill stuff people said about is what comes from a jealous heart with a keyboard to hide behind! I count my sunsets and try not waste any since they are getting fewer each day. God Bless!
Don’t ruin a good thing. Keep private things private, and don’t feel a need to explain everything. Or over explain… be careful in how much you share is all. Really you owe no one an explanation. Best of luck to you in all that you do.
You’re a grown ass woman. No one’s gonna tell you what to do. We wish you the best of luck.
It's so great to watch your self esteem and self love transformation. You've really grown into your true self since I've been watching...way to go.❤
My face was the Blink 182 WTF gif for the entire rumors section of this video 😂 Not a single one of those have ever crossed my mind
I just love your guts. Everything about you is special, unique and wonderful. It makes me sad that someone who is out there making videos that literally make people feel peace and find meaning in their lives because of your beautiful soul, having so much negativity thrust upon you, is ridiculous. Such small small individuals. Sigh….You keep shining your light… thank you, for your honest candor and well done videos… you are the only one I look forward to watching every week. ❤
Love ya Alyssa, love your mood whenever it’s around, love your happiness, just happy you’re on the planet doing your thing.
That knowing is your connection to the universe and all that is. The spark between you showed through all your videos with Ben but good for you for remaking private and protective of your love, despite your viewer’s curiosity it’s no business but yours. Wishing you both every happiness and joy in your life together. ❤😊
I've been to Colorado and I love it so much! It's beautiful there and my sister lives there ! So happy for you and Ben ❤
Love your videos they always seem to make me feel better during certain points in my life!!
I love the way you have put such effort into honestly seeking your best life. And you share it with me, and thousands of other people. But, I appreciate your sharing very personally. Talking about one’s feelings, new or developing insights into one’s own personality , mistakes, regrets, successes, embarrassing moments, everything is encouraging to me. Too many of us jump into the flowing waters of life and get carried away by the current. We feel overwhelmed by the strength of the currents and founder. Sometimes we even drown. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Wow! is the only exclamation coming to my mind right now. I've been following your antics from the time you purchased your second bus and did all that great work on it while working on yourself. You are not that same woman from back then, Congrats Lyss! And welcome Ben into Regretlyss' world. Word of caution: don't break her heart...
What a great surprise to discover having a brick house. You will enjoy repointing the mortar lol. One thing about bricks is that they are alive, they need to breathe and let the humidity escape, so please don't paint them as they will literally rot and crumble away under the layer of paint. That is my 2 cents worth of advice.
Cheers 🍻
I just love your green dress! DARLING!!
Hi from Queensland, Australia. I am so happy for you Alyssa, and for Ben. I will not ask you personal questions, because your personal life is yours only. I will say I really look forward to your videos, I love the real life experiences you share. You are a breath of fresh air, and I wish you and Ben the very best, whatever you chose to do.💕🍷
When you said the things you went through made you who you are. Ditto.. Im with you 100%. Much Loves ❤
It is truly a beautiful thing that you happy....period. That is all that matters and I am glad you are doing all the things. Keep going and Much Love!!!
Alyssa, I've been with you for what feels like forever. Through highs and lows, good times and bad, and at this point I kinda look at you as the little sister I never had. Your grace and authenticity touch so many people in so many different ways it's amazing. Now as for this video. First of all, did you happen to notice during editing that when you opened your cook top at "camp" that Rio actually gave you the "Excuse me mom, you have blocked the peoples view of me" look?🤣 As far as the weight thing goes. We are alike in this department. I choose to look at it as we are actually part bear, and we put on a little extra weight for winter to act as insulation.😁 Y'all stay safe and warm. BIG HUGS and much ❤to all from Tennessee!
Be as private as you want. You are your own person. Congrats again on your relationship
You are a bright light!! I am so happy for your new relationship.
I am going through a lot….your videos help me so much!
Your home is a piece of heaven that I wish I had!! Keep showing us your creative side!!
You friend from Indiana, Cyndi❤
It's great to see you in such a good mood, enthusiastic, energetic. Life is also about building a memory bank for later. It is not something we do on purpose. It is something I learned along the way. All those intense moments are important for the now and the future you.
It is so good to see the happiness in your eyes. Happy for you and Ben! Take it one day at a time and enjoy the time you have in this life. Love watching your videos.
Love your dedication to personal growth. I'm a little over twice your age and your wisdom still impacts me. Thank you for being such an awesome human. XO
Thank you for sharing Colorado with us. It my home I miss it terribly.
Camera is cool! Love your comfort food!
Hey REGRETLYSS, thanks so much for answering my question during your Q&A! Always love hearing your thoughts and getting a little insight into your world. Also, huge shoutout for just being an amazing friend here on TH-cam-AI or not, you're as real as it gets to me! Keep being awesome (and give Rio a treat for me)!
Love is a good thing. Of course some things should be private, but love and live on. ❤❤❤❤
Wow you always give off an positive energy that shines. This girl talk makes me feel like I’m really there and we are chatting. Stay true to yourself and enjoy what you have with Ben and Rio ❤
This video was so joyous!!! To know that all your hard work in discovering yourself over the past years, has brought you to a place of such joy, love, and happiness is just amazing!!!!!!!!! You go girl!!!!!!!!
Of course you should keep private what you don’t want to share! Those rumors were crazy! So excited to see the brick! And enjoy enjoy enjoy your lovely relationship with Ben!❤
I always like your talk videos. I rarely see people explain the truth about love and making friends so straightforwardly, because these truths are difficult to explain clearly. When I saw you and Ben in the same hotel I got it, but I didn't know what the process was and I wanted to understand the process. So after watching this video, I am very satisfied, I understand everything.❤
Go watch your van build videos. Your chemistry with Ben was insane. I commented to my husband back then that you would end up with Ben.
So happy for you both!!!
A lot of updates! Thanks for sharing, Lyss! Best wishes!
That Sunset was Gorgeous! Thank You for sharing that with us.
You are one of the best. You need to keep going with Yourself as You are.
I am someone that can listen to you and your Vents or anything you want to talk about and it stays silent. I will always listen without advice unless asked.
Oh, girl! What a great video for those of us who love you! You said you didn't want to get emotional when you talked about men, but I failed at that one. It was such a sweet story that tears welled up in my eyes. I felt the same when I saw you giggling and so happy with Ben around. We all knew there was more. It was no secret. From the first time I started watching you a very long time ago I loved your inspiring words and always thought you should be a mental health counselor. We all love you, even more with Ben if that is even possible, so ignore the haters. No one has the right to criticize you. 😍🤩
Looking forward to seeing the brick. The sneak peek looks amazing. having a brick house is less maintenance than siding. We have siding and if I was buying or building a new house, it would be all brick. Washing a house full of siding is not easy.
Most gorgeous sunset, so very happy on life's events for you. Your hair is getting so long and so beautiful, you deserve all that is unfolding right now ❤❤❤ that Rio girl oh my gosh the best. Thanks for sharing
I love the serendipitous of the layer of house coming down same time a layer of you is coming down! ♥️ love the videos, love the humor. Internet bullies Aint got nothing on you!
Hi Lyss. You are just an amazing young lady. So positive and bags of energy which is great to witnesses. Its a real pleasure watching your videos on your amazing journey of your life. You are such a beautiful soul both inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life's journey to date. 👌. Looking forward to many more. 👍. Take care. ❤
Damn, I had checked a few time and no signs that there was going to be a Regretlyss video. So I though, I guess this day will be lyssfree unfortunately. I went down a Japanese language rabbit hole and you're premiere happened. Now I'm depressed that I was available, but not here. However, got to catch this on replay and I'm healed by the magic in your voice and the fire in your eyes. I didn't get an alert, but I'm a brand new man, sort of, maybe.
First off glad you and Ben got it going on. When the stars align and the trumpets blare it's too good to be true, but it is.
Second I'm looking for the strip tease and finding out how the brick house displays it's new old look.
Third - Damn girl you always looked fine and you still look fine, but your inner shine is glowing for all to see.
You are riding the wave, and the good vibes you send out are coming back at you.
Wish I'd been here for the premiere, but if wishes were horses we'd all ride.
Looking forward to next week.
Hey lyssa, That's probably the best video I've ever seen of yours. It's really good you are happy, well done m8. You are so positive & I can see you know what you are doing & where you are going. Cheers !!!
Grrrreat for you and Ben....Gooood on the both of you and for Rio !!! Just goooo on your new snd most exciting road trip...😊❤😊
..and 😊❤😊
Thank you for keeping it real over the years Lyss, super happy for you and Ben!! 🥰🥰🐕
As you are starting out this video I am shocked that all this is going on. I am clueless! I have been watching you since you were together with another in another bus and watched you blossom into the amazeballs of a woman today. And what a transformation! I have honestly thought you as a guiding light and never looked beyond what you have spoken. It isn’t my business to make assumptions or anything of the sort. And no one else should. You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone. You put what you want out and keep on keeping with you. I love watching you grow and seeing the interaction with your amazing soul fam. Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤
Edit: thank you for answering my question, it really means a lot and helped me immensely!
I want to thank you. You told me it was ok to daydream. I was so bored with life. Was having bad thoughts about unliving. But when you said day dreaming was ok. It gave me something to do. You be you. Keep making these video's. It really does help others. Cheers from Oregon
So happy for you! Keep loving life and living your truth!
Forget "Mav" --- you broke *my* heart and I've never even met you...
Still very happy for you -- Ben seems like a great guy --- wishing you two all the joy and happiness in the world!
Think I'm hopelessly single and maybe that's ok too.
Cheers!...from North Vancouver
You are one of the most authentic person, beautiful inside out! and you radiate positive energy. Wishing you every happiness in your life. Watching you and your surroundings is like a fairy tale...
I have been with you since Lucky! I remember your first video after you broke up with (I forgot his name) and you were starting off on your own. I remember when you sold lucky and bought the new bus. But anyways, I love you, girl you’re doing great!
Enjoy your journey. Thanks for taking us along with you.
People always rush to the next stage of a relationship. Enjoy, take your time and just let things happen.
I’m extremely happy for you and your blossoming life and relationship, only known of you a very short time, you have a special personality that is contagious, best wishes to you in everything you do😊😊😊
Much love, Alyssa. Best wishes to you and Ben. All that REALLY matters is that Rio approves! 😉
Hi Lyssa, thanks for sharing although your private life is your own concern. Happy for both of you and looking forward to more of your videos in the future 😊
So honest and so true and so lovely, I absolutely enjoyed your talk. You are on the right track!
im so happy for you , watching you grow ... your emotional intelligence is thru the roof and it seems like that skill finally manifested all you have wanted for so long. It gives hope
Hell yes, you can be perfectly fine even when others “have a different opinion “ about your life and choices. 🙌🏽🙌🏽✊🏻♥️
Your videos make my day. I’m happy for your new relationship, me on the other hand I have been single for 9 or more years and have realized I am happy happy by myself. Never thought I could be happy alone., but I am 55 and have my children and two beautiful granddaughters that make me full. That’s all
I am so happy for you and Ben. Your hard work on yourself and getting to the roots of your problems, working through them and focusing on yourself is so inspiring, Lissa... I could not be more proud of you young lady and I am so happy at how far you have grown. It is so good to see you smile and see how happy you are now. You did the hard work, opened yourself to love and Happiness and look what you have accomplished... A beautiful home, a precious dog, new wonderful friend's that you can count on no matter what and a Beautiful, loving, giving, kind, compassionate man that shows up and keeps his word... And you found Love with him... I could not be happier for you honey... Well Done and I wish you All the Love and Blessings in the world 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯🥰
Hi lyss,
That was a emotional & raw chat about things and and I'm so glad because it set the record straight(so to speak!)so thankyou for that👍
Alyssa, you're too funny! You make me laugh! Love your videos and your sense of humor!
I love you so much and I am so happy for you and Ben! You truly are a beautiful human. ❤
Love when do these. Your an amazing young woman. ❤️ been watching your for along time. Want to see more 😊. Love the brick. Ben seems like an awesome person.
Wait - I don’t know if I knew you are from Mass! From Mass here! Keep doing you!
It was just a glance, a smile; just something was clicking. Same thing here--he was divorced six months; THEN we dated. Love it--asking for a kiss!!
OMG Rio in the hat….I’m dying from the cuteness overload 😂❤❤❤I love Rio!
So glad you are so happy. I felt it was Ben from awhile ago. Could see the sparks😄. Have been watching since Covid started. Have told you before that I wish I was as together as you have been when I was younger. Just turned 70 and it freaks me out that I’m that old😆. Been married for 51yrs!! That also freaks me out. But he’s my guy. Been through a lot together good and bad but worked through it all. He came from a great family mine was dysfunctional. He has a lot of patience 😆You are wonderful!
Loved this video and the beautiful light that surrounds you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom❤ I love what you said about how we can still experience peace even when others are upset with us. There's always something that resonates with me when i watch your videos. I think the community you've attracted reflects the love and authenticity that you put out in the world. Pats to Rio ❤
You made the first move girl, good for u. 😊 Hv u asked him why Ben got divorced? Not asking u to share what happened in Ben's divorce. That question may interest u to see Ben as a person. And if possible in the future to hear from the other person what happened in the divorce. That can reveal how someone deals with issues, growth, truth & so on. 😉
Absolutely right on moving to the heart space. My saying is to think with my heart & feel with my head. 🙏🏾
Lady, just keep doing "You"? I LOVE You! I LOVE Ben! Ya'll are perfect! ❤? The Best Is Yet To Come.... 🙏🙌🙏
Start making babies! ..(with Ben). You two a perfect for each other!
You're an inspiration to me and I find myself laughing so much when you're chatting away 🤍 share as much or as little or not at all at any given moment, SiStar ✨ Continue being REAL 🤍 thats why I love ya 🌺 So happy you and Ben are dancing together 💚
I love your brick!♡ adorable ♡ I also love your positive attitude ❤
I am so happy to see you happy and every time I see your videos they make me happy as well... Continue to enjoy your life!!! you're the best.🌼❤🌸
Always love a good Q&A haha, thanks for always being your true honest self, I needed some of that advice!
YEAH!!!! You have a brick house, how cool. WTF people have nothing better to do than make stuff up about you???? Loved this update about your lufe and Ben...keep doing whatever you want to!
I hope all is well. I will try to remember to check it out if and when it pops up.
Omg. You crack me up. Don’t change one bit.
Brilliant as always. Glad everything is okay. Be safe sweetheart. Shamim 🦋💔🕊🧜♀️🤝💑🎎✅👫🦅💯🆗️🫂🤱
Very happy for you and Ben. Looking forward to your future adventures.
You are so lovely. Stuff people I say. I enjoy your channel so much. Lots of love from South Africa, Belinda ♥
I'm so happy for you and Ben. Take it slow. Be happy!!❤
Chapters? We don't need no stinking chapters! The true beauty is in seeing and knowing the whole picture! Thank you for being real! Thank you for being honest to yourself! Thank you for being you! An absolutely beautiful marvelous girl that it is alwsys wonderful to hear from! Love you and always stay true to you!
Fantastic video Lyss. You definitely have a magnetic personality. I’m relatively new to your channel and have enjoyed watching your growth. I walk away feeling happy after watching your videos. Congrats on your relationship with Ben and good luck going forward. Keep on keeping on. Eagerly anticipating your next video!
That’s so exciting that you have a brick house🏠 !!!
And I’m so glad you and Ben are together 😊And you have each other❤
As one Boilermaker to another, YOU GO GIRL. I wish you and your guy all the best. We Coloradans need our time in the mountains to regain our perspective. Your supper looked tasty. You and Ben stay safe as you explore our wonderful mountains.
Alyssa, Thank You for this Great video.
As always sending vibes of Blessings and Love for your continued adventures in your life.
Thank you so much for that camping trip! Am so happy for you & Ben! Happy that you are taking this relationship slow if it’s meant to be the universe will let you know. Good luck to you in your journey w/all your connections! ❤U, & stay safe!