I hope both families both find peace . Him staying was his choice , if things don’t work out LEAVE. Nothing justifies murder okubhlungu is that both these families have nothing to do with this.
Please they must also interview abangan baka Sbu lets treat this matter equal cz making Sbu a bad person ngeke kusize that means we overlook such things
Obviously Sbu is ultimately the cause of all the heart ache in both families, there is no up side for him and/or justification for his actions regardless of anything the girlfriend might done in the relationship unless of cause if he was acting in self defense which is highly unlikely
Equal njani when he told his side of the story before he killed himself but took away her right to tell her story, her loved ones and the media are giving her a voice.
People keep on saying umdlisile...this guy was a narcissist. All the signs were there. Akukho mdliso la, inkinga yabantu abantu abanyama they always think about umuthi ngisho noma kungekho isdigo. This guy was a narcissist, obsessed, control freak and psychopath... period
I agree with you, baze babora abantu with this muthi narrative. There's no way to prove lento yedliso. This guy seems like one of those guys who couldn't accept rejection. People need to learn to accept when a relationship is over, go to therapy, and heal.
My question is why wasn't this guy arrested for hitting her with his car? He should have been arrested for that and maybe we wouldn't have this situation right now. What is the police force doing in this country?😱😱😭
@@proudlysa774That is axactly where the problem is, the families sweeping problems under the carpet. He should have been in jail and not being outside. He bumped her with the car, that is the perpetrator, imagine and yet people still blame the victim? Is that what women are worth, it is always a woman's fault, yet she is the one always forgiving these cheating men, but at the end, she is to blame. The child has no mother now. This young woman can't defend herself.
People remain married to their abusers - emotional abuse IS WORSE! Both people believe they have worked/contributed equally or more in their assets for someone to walkout..and leave the other enriched. This ☝️makes them vindictive and abuse each other emotionally. I think this should be part of Curriculum, because if you are lucky to escape in close family unit.. you will experience it thru extended family.
Excellent point Phumeza, this needs to be part of the Life Orientation curriculum because the situation is getting worse in this country. The different forms of abuse need to be taught, and de-escalation measures and conflict resolution should be included as well.
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Naye koda sbu disappointed me, why dd he go bck to this lady. I applaud the new gal for leaving him coz he was playing both of them. They both failed to stick with their new partners. Toxic 🚮
Narcissist can make you belove they are not that bad and they will change. Look how people are siding with this guy ignoring all redflags displayed even from his own confession. He said the RAF money was the o e who help her to apply for it, while he is the o e who nearly killed her witha car. Still people ignore all that
Kuthiwa indaba zabantu ababili azingenwa. There could be certain things your friend didnt tell u about her relationship, worse seeing that u kept advising her to leave her fiancée could've been a reason for not sharing much. Sad story indeed
If you’ve never been with a narcissist you’ll defend the guy and keep asking why she went back I stayed in a relationship for years against my will because I feared for my life …even when I tried to move on he would threaten me an whoever he saw me with even family Exactly this character He moved to another city for work and I finally got out
If he was good why didn’t he just cut her off after finding out about this baby knowing he wouldn’t be able to stand it for too long? He was obsessed with her and was threatened by the fact that another man will be with her again Also he was a proud Cheater
@@hellonomasonto And then dumping him soon after ruining his new situation. A situation that helped him avoid her. Yet you still want to glorify and justify her as a victim. She had her sick tendencies and it pushed the guy to his limits. When do you women want to account for your actions ?
What was his point to go buy clothes for a child he knew wasnt his and then get mad when the mom still said she dont want him He was not screwed on tightly this guy
Things don't need to be expressedly said to draw a relation! Didnt ya'll hear that he .murdered her same day they went to get stuff for the kid? The same kid he was talking about that he maintened that wasn't his and it STILL wasn't enough to make her stay? Ya'll need to stop being slow and projecting your inability to link complex subjects together together Some of us can chew and walk at the damn time okrr 🙄
Ebe esafunani sbu kuloCc coz ubesene gal friend entsha. The two enjoyed this toxic relationship. Now Sbu got mad tht she texted his new gal. Ubefunani nje emuva
Yayiqalephi sesinama side nje singawazi umsuka wendaba ryt from the start Nokwakwenza if uSbu eylento eshiwoyo ugirl y engamshiyanga Kunesqalo la beqala bevumelana ukuthandana,abafakazayo bafakaza ngolwazi nge impact soon after Akekho owazi isqalo,yibo bobabili n abasekho
I hope both families both find peace . Him staying was his choice , if things don’t work out LEAVE. Nothing justifies murder okubhlungu is that both these families have nothing to do with this.
Please they must also interview abangan baka Sbu lets treat this matter equal cz making Sbu a bad person ngeke kusize that means we overlook such things
Let's SBU friends pls media stop being buyers
Of course is very bad😢😊
Obviously Sbu is ultimately the cause of all the heart ache in both families, there is no up side for him and/or justification for his actions regardless of anything the girlfriend might done in the relationship unless of cause if he was acting in self defense which is highly unlikely
Equal njani when he told his side of the story before he killed himself but took away her right to tell her story, her loved ones and the media are giving her a voice.
Do you not understand why in this case they are doing this?
People keep on saying umdlisile...this guy was a narcissist. All the signs were there. Akukho mdliso la, inkinga yabantu abantu abanyama they always think about umuthi ngisho noma kungekho isdigo. This guy was a narcissist, obsessed, control freak and psychopath... period
I agree with you, baze babora abantu with this muthi narrative. There's no way to prove lento yedliso. This guy seems like one of those guys who couldn't accept rejection. People need to learn to accept when a relationship is over, go to therapy, and heal.
Do you know him personally to reach such a conclusion? 👀👀👀👀
Yeka kugcoka ipenty wena uwumjita
@DumsaniMango unyoko!!!!
Well said, he was obsessed, controlling, and suffering from insecurities.
This is sad yhooo, God please ngenelela kwezi families zoy2
My question is why wasn't this guy arrested for hitting her with his car? He should have been arrested for that and maybe we wouldn't have this situation right now. What is the police force doing in this country?😱😱😭
There is more to this story if he did hit her with a car why was it not reported
They did say, kwahlangana umndeni kwakhulunywa kwaxolelwana.
She probably dropped the case , andithi sinjalo when we are in love .
@@proudlysa774That is axactly where the problem is, the families sweeping problems under the carpet. He should have been in jail and not being outside. He bumped her with the car, that is the perpetrator, imagine and yet people still blame the victim? Is that what women are worth, it is always a woman's fault, yet she is the one always forgiving these cheating men, but at the end, she is to blame. The child has no mother now. This young woman can't defend herself.
I think they thought it was a mistake
People remain married to their abusers - emotional abuse IS WORSE!
Both people believe they have worked/contributed equally or more in their assets for someone to walkout..and leave the other enriched.
This ☝️makes them vindictive and abuse each other emotionally.
I think this should be part of Curriculum, because if you are lucky to escape in close family unit.. you will experience it thru extended family.
But usbu uhlukanile naye yena wamhlukanisa nentombi yakhe then wamala futh bekufanele enze njan usbu ayi kahleni nina
I love the curriculum Idea.
Excellent point Phumeza, this needs to be part of the Life Orientation curriculum because the situation is getting worse in this country. The different forms of abuse need to be taught, and de-escalation measures and conflict resolution should be included as well.
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Amen.and.Amen
I can't believe that people believed SBu's video of nothing...
It's crazy.
Manje uhlangothi lukasbu siluzibe ngoba untobe ubeziphethe kahle ngokwazi kwakho
Imagine also believing this girl based on nothing.
@@TigereroloCause it's easier to believe a murderer neh
@@Tigererolo we don't need to believe her we have the cadaver of a young lady that shows what kind of man he was.
Everyone is protecting themselves
This guy had signs of committing this incident according to the closest people
Exactly even his Facebook posts
Toooooo many red flags
Why uNtobe wabuyela kuSbu wazomumoshela iRelationship yakhe entsha wenza ngisho iVideo to destroy his relationship
Naye koda sbu disappointed me, why dd he go bck to this lady. I applaud the new gal for leaving him coz he was playing both of them. They both failed to stick with their new partners. Toxic 🚮
Where is a girlfriend to confirm the video she received or its just Sbus words? Why is she quiet
Narcissist can make you belove they are not that bad and they will change. Look how people are siding with this guy ignoring all redflags displayed even from his own confession. He said the RAF money was the o e who help her to apply for it, while he is the o e who nearly killed her witha car. Still people ignore all that
Yet his father just 'boldly' declared that Sibusiso was not violent... sickening.
💔He probably was a good pretender around his father
Such people are usually very angelic to other ppl and monsters to their partners/victims
Plus he was a teacher so he seemed like a “nice” person
Ppl love hiding their abusive ways but the family must have suspected if it went this far.
It's possible for your wife not to know that you are a rapist. Such people have multiple personalities and are very quiet
Drink water please, is it not possible that he was not violent and only lost his marbles due to what he was going through.
A friend will always cover for a friend mostly when she no more
@@MenziMbatha-dk7sy Just like a murder would say things to justify his monstrous behaviour.
not objective at all...its an old trick yamantombazane ukumboza iqiniso kusele kancane akhale
Kuthiwa indaba zabantu ababili azingenwa. There could be certain things your friend didnt tell u about her relationship, worse seeing that u kept advising her to leave her fiancée could've been a reason for not sharing much. Sad story indeed
The RAF he assisted her with was caused by him 😮
Imagine!😕
That's why he felt entitled to the money! WTH
Maybe they planed it so that they can be rich😂then Ntobe wamjikela
Konje babefike kanjan lapho ?
English subtitles please
Lmao 😂
Isizulu asitolikwa nhlobo
Ba nahana rea e utlwa puo ena ya matebele.
If you’ve never been with a narcissist you’ll defend the guy and keep asking why she went back
I stayed in a relationship for years against my will because I feared for my life …even when I tried to move on he would threaten me an whoever he saw me with even family
Exactly this character
He moved to another city for work and I finally got out
You are right.
Exactly 💯
Ppl speak like there is no police
They a pathological lies. I've been there 😢
@@MatodziRambau-k9e You be very suprise to learn how little the police are able to do.
If these guy was that bad. How did he support another man child?
Go conduct your own interviews and come tell us
It was his child, for him to say it was not his was a lie. He wanted to feel like a victim in this whole story.
If he was good why didn’t he just cut her off after finding out about this baby knowing he wouldn’t be able to stand it for too long?
He was obsessed with her and was threatened by the fact that another man will be with her again
Also he was a proud Cheater
Kushuthi Kodwa wayemdlisile uNtobe 😢 bheka mina ngedwa
It's obvious, but they will ignore that
Ayi kubukeka kanjalo impela, bekunedliso nje elibi kulobhuti
Usangene umdliseni Ngathi kufiwe nakhuluma umsuzo what wrong with you people
So all women are being killed by their partners have used muthi on them?
@@ntokozoguzunene1973iyaxaka lento njalo nje uma umuntu weslisa enze into ebuhlungu niyamdefender ngalo mbhedo wedliso. Nazingani ukuthi umdlisile 😢 uma bekuyindoda le efile ngabe niyasho ukuthi uNtobeh udlisiwe, musani ukudakwa nina la.
The guy was depressed and had a lack of trust..he was broken never dealt with any issues he had
Shaking my head, the intelligence of some comments are shocking.
If they where married why do we keep saying "Girlfriend" ?
Yekani ukudlisa abafana
Yebo yiyona lento ebabulalisayo
M sorry, m on guy side because m also in the same situation, our problem started Wednesday 11 Dec 2024 and i don't know what is going to happen.
He was an obsessed lunatic 😏.
Sbu has friends too, we will wait for journalists to do the right thing
Did he not tell his “own” side ?
She sent a video to the new girl, using his phone. Doesn't that scream psycho ?
@@Dude-1689 No, it absolutely does NOT! It just sounds like a jealous girlfriend.
@@hellonomasonto And then dumping him soon after ruining his new situation. A situation that helped him avoid her.
Yet you still want to glorify and justify her as a victim. She had her sick tendencies and it pushed the guy to his limits. When do you women want to account for your actions ?
What was his point to go buy clothes for a child he knew wasnt his and then get mad when the mom still said she dont want him
He was not screwed on tightly this guy
Its not because of the child listen well before you comment
listening is a skill 😂
Things don't need to be expressedly said to draw a relation!
Didnt ya'll hear that he .murdered her same day they went to get stuff for the kid? The same kid he was talking about that he maintened that wasn't his and it STILL wasn't enough to make her stay?
Ya'll need to stop being slow and projecting your inability to link complex subjects together together
Some of us can chew and walk at the damn time okrr 🙄
@@MsSwanlake Slow wami wena they had 2 kids
Ngoba ubenayo iphone yakhe kungani ecothomele iphone ka Mr Ntaka lento ibingagwemeka umuntu mengazifundisa ukunaka iphone yakhe ahlukane neyomunye
Ebe esafunani sbu kuloCc coz ubesene gal friend entsha. The two enjoyed this toxic relationship. Now Sbu got mad tht she texted his new gal. Ubefunani nje emuva
@@Sphe_Dhlamini Buza phela nokuth uNtobe ubeyaphi elandelana noSbu 🤷
But why she forced herself to abusive man what was reason is it money or what? She was suppose to go home not to go home and back why
Yile ntliziyo
But kuyashiwo nje ukuthi they broke up 🤷🏻♀️
Ubufebe is very dangerous ladies, ngoba yey nibhokile these days zisazokhala
Why she went back to an abuse relationship?? We shouldn't be here today condolences to Cele's family..😭😭😭
Narcissist can make you believe they will chanfe while playing a victim
no subtitles
😂😂😂 lies lies 🙆
Two sides to a story she was very quiet but had a child out off wedlock so nathi abafazi si wrong .
Yoh!😔💔💔🕊🕊
Kwabuhlungu ukuba umzali walesikhathi sibona manyala kulemjolo. Heyi azihloniphi lezingane umfana intombazane izinkinga zodwa esibukayo
can we do DNA for a child so dat we can prove ukuthy who is lying here between sbuh and vintims family plz
I AGREE WITH YOU
Akho nto kaBheka mina ndedwa why uthi unenye indoda umithiswe nenye nalo vat and sat
Yayiqalephi sesinama side nje singawazi umsuka wendaba ryt from the start
Nokwakwenza if uSbu eylento eshiwoyo ugirl y engamshiyanga
Kunesqalo la beqala bevumelana ukuthandana,abafakazayo bafakaza ngolwazi nge impact soon after
Akekho owazi isqalo,yibo bobabili n abasekho
Yhoooo man kuningi 😢😢😢
I really want to her friend of SBU now most information to close this Case
Shame ngiyayizwela indoda engana reverse gear, ngoba phela wayese phimile ,Kanti
Hlukanani ukuhlumezana, Sbu usitshele okunye manje sizwa okunye. Abasekho bobabili basishiya nobuhlungu sabazali sicabanga lezi ezikhulayo impilo nzima
😢😢😮
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Wathula wena nja😢
😊
Bayafuhla abantwana bethu, niyayazi leyonto
Heroes comes in different ways and sbu is the hero to most man out here
Kodwa abantu liyazi abafazi bayi Poison kanjani sihlukumezeke kakhulu singamadoda lento liyibuke kahle South Africa nabomama siyacela lifundise abantwana benu amantombazane okuyimpilo
Well, go ask Sbu's friends as well.
What are you asking them
Everyone is hearing his “side” of the story already mos
bt isenzo sikabhuti kubukeka ngathi ubedlisiwe shame ngoba naye uyabona ukuthi uhlukumezekile 😢😢😢😢
Vele bazodefender untobe izifebe lezi umdlisela ma uzomala futhi ayi suka yekan usbu nina uze uzale ingan okungeyona eyondoda ufuna izinto zibezinhle ayi suka
Ukwazelaphi ke ukuthi umdlisile, ungathi into mayenziwa nguwe bese uthi wonke umuntu uyayenza. Niyagula nina.
You believe every word from a murderers mouth? Goodluck with that.
Cristal clear she was a cheater the guy lost trust look how he was doing vedio calling ...
Why umgani angaveli ukhuluma amanga
This just ruined my day 😓