I know this is posted 3 weeks ago ,but i hope you feel better soon and that you can enjoy life and yourself again ❤. You are doing so good with cleaning up and taking your space back !
As soon as you started cleaning your cabinet, I paused the video and got up and did a cabinet I had been putting off. It took no time at all it just took the motivation to do it. Thanks. I’m glad to see you clearing the rest of his belongings, he shouldn’t of left you to do it. But, your space, clear space, clear mind, free heart.
My husband died several years ago, and I have had several issues to handle since then. I am finally working on cleaning out closets, cupboards, and drawers (oh my!). I do as much as I can in a day, then gather up what's left to work on the next day. The basics of dishes, clutter, and laundry are checked daily, and the kitchen, bathrooms, dust, and vacuum are done weekly. I hope you are doing okay.
Your first “separation “ was my first video and have been watching ever since! You are amazing!! Keep up your strength and optimism, it’s inspiring! Huge fan! Love from CT!
I love the vlog this reminds me when I was going Thur the same things almost 6 years ago separation of 15 years we had just outgrown each other at first it was hard cleaning the spaces there stuff was at so use of routines but now I had to learn to do different things by myself and really focus on me so I did the same thing just put all his things in storage containers so he can pick them up you will be ok I been there
Yes you absolutely hit the nail on the head. That’s why I waited a few months to clear everything out. I needed some time but I am ready now. Not that it isn’t difficult but I can cope with this now and have a future I can look forward to now. Working hard on me to find my way through this in a positive way ♥️ So glad you have found your way through it.
Becky, my ex husband moved out while I was at work and moved right in an apartment with someone else. I was devastated. At least you knew what was going,on. No matter how it happens, it’s really hard to adjust to it. You seem strong, but that you are still hurting. You will be ok. Life DOES go on. I’m sorry that you have to sell the house. It’s a lot of house to take care of. Maybe something smaller would be great . The best of everything for you and you kids!
Thank you Jamie, and yes it’s too much house. I will definitely be down sizing. I look forward to it 🥰 I’m so sorry you went through that. Know anyone who does that to you is not worth your time or investment. You’re worth so much more than him ♥️
Hi Becka sweet friend. I’m glad you’re doing great. The first video of you was when you went to your sisters wedding, or went to a wedding with your sister. You are awesome a hard worker. Keep up the good work.
Praying for you, have t forgotten you. Also, I dare say eventually do not give him “ galore” organizing my new life ; as a single mother of lovely kids. Keep going!Don’t stop! I know I never did kept myself busy it works!
You did a amazing job on the bathroom and on your closest, even down to those fabulous vacuum line's 🤗, they are so beautifully rewarding. I hope thing's will start getting easier for you now you've crossed that hurdle. Have a wonderful weekend 💞
The intrusive thoughts, girl. Yes. Adhd is cruel. ❤❤❤ you're not alone. I won't pretend to know the whole story, but I hope you have found peace. I'm binging your videos immediately. You're doing great and have inspired me to get up and get going. My house is a disaster, and the doom piles have to go lol ❤
The “doom piles”!!! Oh my goodness I love that term!!! Haha yeah I have to deal with those in our house… the struggle is real! It’s so nice to see other moms honest about the struggle too 😇😇😇
There's a method to your decluttering. It looks messy right before you organize. That's what I've noticed I do also. I love my Dollar Tree for organizing. My granddaughter changed her favorite color, so I have green baskets for her closet. It looks great! Im glad you're feeling up to getting rid of Chris' things. It's hard enough, then you have to look at everything. I hope it's kind of out of sight, out of mind for you, & makes it easier.
Good Friday afternoon Becka. Excellent video with superb production values - motivating and inspiring. Your energy and enthusiasm is virtually inexhaustibe. You really know how to get it done. That being said, remember how important it is for you to take some time for yourself during this busy day of cleaning and decluttering. 😍👌
great job with the closets! i wish he didnt make you have to do that but i understand why you'd want to it does look good in both and now you can breathe easier :) hope you have a great weekend!
I so need that storage space in my bathrooms lol. I love all the space you have and it makes me question how the heck I fit everything in my bathrooms. 😆
Girl I question how I’m going to fit things when I move out of this house! 😅 One of the reasons I love this floor plan is all the abundance of closets! I actually have two closets on this bathroom. It’s more than I even need really.
Hey Girl, my husband moved out about 2 months ago as well but he’s coming back in the middle of June I’m excited. ❤🥰 I’m so glad you are cleaning up your house after your husband left so you can feel like your space is your house now. I do know how you are feeling, I felt that way in the beginning of my and my husband’s separation when I wasn’t sure if we could figure things out. ❤ It was hard but I’m glad we have been taking these couple of months and working on ourselves, it has helped our marriage greatly. Honestly what drew me to your channel was the fact you were going through what I was going through at the time and then when I came I found an amazing woman who puts out amazing content, makes her channel feel like she’s talking to a bunch of friends, and someone real and genuine. I’m so happy with my decision when I found and subscribed to your channel. ❤ me and my husband are polar opposites when it comes to taking medicine too. He doesn’t take medicine unless he’s feeling like he’s dying or the pain is so terrible that he can’t do anything. I used to be like that but now I just take medicine when I feel any type of pain. 😂 I loved this video and I can’t wait for the next one! ❤🥰
Thank you so much Rachel! Means the world to me that you can relate, that’s why I do what some would call “over sharing”. It’s so nice not to feel alone, especially through struggles. I’m so glad things are working out for the two of you. I do think some space and healing can definitely help some times. I wish that was the case for us, but unfortunately it’s not.
Hi Becky good to see you again, you should hang all your jeans on hangers, and have all your shoes facing the same way makes it Look much Neater just a suggestion take care God Bless! 😄😄
Hey Tresa, all my jeans are hung. Just not my short and my I do my shoes like that because one is facing me and one is the back, just like the aesthetic of being able to see both aspect of a pair if that makes sense 😊 Thanks for watching friend! ♥️
Wash that man right outta your hair! You'll be okay, and for sure a nice, clean, organized space is a great stride through survival to thrival. Thank you for this, I just found your channel and will be back. :)
I love how your little dog seems to follow you & check on you!
Yes she is my little shadow, whenever I go she goes 🥰
@@HappilyEverBecka my little puppy does the same for me so I noticed yours & had to say “HOW SWEET!”
Love your home & how you decorate!!💜
Hey, from single mum in Germany big love an kisses an power. We rock! Women solidarity
Thank you friend! ♥️
It sounds like you are dealing well with your situation. It’s good to keep busy and organize “your” life
Thank you Diane! Trying to do the best I can 🥰
It’s always nice to have a fresh, organized space! I need to get my life in order 😂 starting with my closet!!
Yes Lindsey, it’ll feel so much better once it’s done! Just sucks doing it 😂 Have a good weekend friend! ♥️
Me too
I know this is posted 3 weeks ago ,but i hope you feel better soon and that you can enjoy life and yourself again ❤.
You are doing so good with cleaning up and taking your space back !
Thank you so much for your sweet comment! ♥️
As soon as you started cleaning your cabinet, I paused the video and got up and did a cabinet I had been putting off. It took no time at all it just took the motivation to do it. Thanks. I’m glad to see you clearing the rest of his belongings, he shouldn’t of left you to do it. But, your space, clear space, clear mind, free heart.
Thank you friend! I agree but I’ll clean it up and clear it out for him. Good job getting that cabinet done! Glad I could help get you motivated ♥️
My husband died several years ago, and I have had several issues to handle since then. I am finally working on cleaning out closets, cupboards, and drawers (oh my!). I do as much as I can in a day, then gather up what's left to work on the next day. The basics of dishes, clutter, and laundry are checked daily, and the kitchen, bathrooms, dust, and vacuum are done weekly.
I hope you are doing okay.
Your first “separation “ was my first video and have been watching ever since! You are amazing!! Keep up your strength and optimism, it’s inspiring! Huge fan! Love from CT!
Hey Jenn! Another CT girl! 🥰 Thank you so much for being here and for the support ♥️
Watched this video while I vacuumed my whole apartment - so satisfying!
Thanks for watching! ♥️
I love the vlog this reminds me when I was going Thur the same things almost 6 years ago separation of 15 years we had just outgrown each other at first it was hard cleaning the spaces there stuff was at so use of routines but now I had to learn to do different things by myself and really focus on me so I did the same thing just put all his things in storage containers so he can pick them up you will be ok I been there
Yes you absolutely hit the nail on the head. That’s why I waited a few months to clear everything out. I needed some time but I am ready now. Not that it isn’t difficult but I can cope with this now and have a future I can look forward to now. Working hard on me to find my way through this in a positive way ♥️ So glad you have found your way through it.
Great job girl 👏👏 moving on is bittersweet. Be proud of all you've accomplished.
Thank you ♥️ It sure is but I’m determined it come out of this a better human 🥰
great video. So happy you are reclaiming yourself, and your space. Keep taking care of yourself.
Thank you, it feels good 🥰
Becky, my ex husband moved out while I was at work and moved right in an apartment with someone else. I was devastated. At least you knew what was going,on. No matter how it happens, it’s really hard
to adjust to it. You seem strong, but that you are still hurting. You will be ok. Life DOES go on. I’m sorry that you have to sell the house. It’s a lot of house to take care of. Maybe something smaller would be great . The best of everything for you and you kids!
Thank you Jamie, and yes it’s too much house. I will definitely be down sizing. I look forward to it 🥰 I’m so sorry you went through that. Know anyone who does that to you is not worth your time or investment. You’re worth so much more than him ♥️
Hi Becka sweet friend. I’m glad you’re doing great. The first video of you was when you went to your sisters wedding, or went to a wedding with your sister. You are awesome a hard worker. Keep up the good work.
Hey sweet friend! Yes you’ve been around for a while, so grateful for you being here still! 🥰♥️ Yes I went to my cousins wedding with my sister.
Thank you for sharing the reality of divorce and acceptance of what is. Make the space your own. Love and peace to you as you heal and move forward.
Thank you so much for your kind words ♥️
Good job Becka, a lots of work and motivation especially and the closet, you give me good ideas, thank you
Thank you for being here and watching Ruth! ♥️
Enjoy every visit. Closets and vanity drawers look great!! As always thank you for sharing your life with us!❤
Thank you for being here friend! ♥️
Love the closet!! It looks more like you ❤
Thank you friend! 🥰
Good work, becka. Your house is tidy up. Continue on your road on getting the silver play button
Thank you 😊
You did a great job in your video. I’m sure getting the closet the way you wanted it when you open the door helps. Have a blessed day ❤
It definitely helps, and brings me some peace through all of this 🥰 Thanks for watching friend!
Everything looks so neat and organized!!! Great job!!!!
Thank you Frances! So satisfying now that it’s done 🥰
That's right love yourself and make room for your needs life. Been there done that.
Thank you Pamela ♥️
You go girl. Love the closet. Way to take it over. So proud of my friend. Great vid. 💜 💜💜💜😘
Thanks you so much friend! I needed that today ♥️
Praying for you, have t forgotten you. Also, I dare say eventually do not give him “ galore” organizing my new life ; as a single mother of lovely kids. Keep going!Don’t stop! I know I never did kept myself busy it works!
Thank you for that friend! ♥️
Great job cleaning and organizing thanks for sharing 💕
Thanks for being here friend ♥️
Great motivating cleaning video. Have a great day and weekend.
Thank you friend, you too! 😊
Loved the declutter and clean out!!! Thanks for sharing. Cindy💗🌻
Thanks for being here Cindy! ♥️
I have a feeling Becka is pleased with the results and having more room again.
Yes very happy with how it turned out! 🥰
@@HappilyEverBecka smiles
Even though it was no doubt hard you did a good job.
Love your closet. Making the closet MINE helped me lots after my hubby left. It’s the little things! 😂
It really is! It is helping me so much! Seems so minor but has some big impacts on me mentally ♥️ Glad it helped you too
You did a amazing job on the bathroom and on your closest, even down to those fabulous vacuum line's 🤗, they are so beautifully rewarding. I hope thing's will start getting easier for you now you've crossed that hurdle. Have a wonderful weekend 💞
Thank you friend, you as well! ♥️ Things are up and down, it I’m confident the other side will be so much more healing for me 🥰
Great video. Sorry about your split, hopefully things will work out for you both and your children.
Thank you Liz ♥️
Love watching your video’s, life gets easier and better as the weeks go on. ❤
Thank you Diane, it’s a rollercoaster right now but I’m healing and that’s really important ♥️
Best one to watch ❤❤❤
The intrusive thoughts, girl. Yes. Adhd is cruel. ❤❤❤ you're not alone. I won't pretend to know the whole story, but I hope you have found peace. I'm binging your videos immediately. You're doing great and have inspired me to get up and get going. My house is a disaster, and the doom piles have to go lol ❤
Hey Heather, so glad you enjoyed it and totally get the intrusive thoughts! Ugh they suck! You got this girl! ♥️
The “doom piles”!!! Oh my goodness I love that term!!! Haha yeah I have to deal with those in our house… the struggle is real! It’s so nice to see other moms honest about the struggle too 😇😇😇
Oooh, your closet looks so nice all spread out! Take care of yourself ❤
Thank you Marcia! So happy with how it turned out 🥰
Don't call yourself a lazy butt for not emptying the suitcase. You've got a lot going on. Love, "Aunt" Kay
Thank you Kay, you’re so sweet to me 🥰♥️
The closet turned out nice! You have a lot of space in there.
Thanks for watching friend! 🥰♥️
Love your channel Becka, hope you are doing okay. It does get better as time goes on, have a great weekend.😊
Thank you Sharlene. I’m doing alright, some days are good and some are bad. I’m getting there and healing. Hope you have a good weekend friend ♥️
Love todays video. Have a great weekend!
Thank you Kay! Glad you enjoyed it ♥️
Hi BECKA 👏 This video today' really was motivational with you decluttering and organizing and cleaning.💯. Happy Friday 😁.
Thank you Renee! So glad you enjoyed it! Have a great weekend friend! ♥️
Hey, Becka. Time heals. ❤
Thank you friend ♥️
Thanks Becca for the motivation! I love the way your closet turned out.
Thank you friend! Bringing me some much needed peace 🥰
There's a method to your decluttering. It looks messy right before you organize. That's what I've noticed I do also. I love my Dollar Tree for organizing. My granddaughter changed her favorite color, so I have green baskets for her closet. It looks great! Im glad you're feeling up to getting rid of Chris' things. It's hard enough, then you have to look at everything. I hope it's kind of out of sight, out of mind for you, & makes it easier.
Thank you friend ♥️ Yes I had to wait till I was ready but it’s nice not seeing his stuff around here all the time. Especially in my personal space.
Absolutely brilliant video 😊 loved the closet 👌 take care 🙏❤️🏴
Thank you Mary, you as well ♥️
Time to clear out the past and look towards the future! 😀💖 love you!
Thank you so much Debbie, and so we’ll said 🥰♥️
new to your channel. Love your dog ❤❤ Looking to see where yo are located.. Hang in there .. Things will get better
Hey Donna! I’m in South Carolina 😊 So glad you found my channel ♥️
Good Friday afternoon Becka. Excellent video with superb production values - motivating and inspiring. Your energy and enthusiasm is virtually inexhaustibe. You really know how to get it done. That being said, remember how important it is for you to take some time for yourself during this busy day of cleaning and decluttering. 😍👌
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Taking some me time this weekend actually 🥰 Thanks for being here friend ♥️
@@HappilyEverBecka You're quite welcome of course. I most certainly did - and you certainly deserve some time off this weekend. ❤
Your walk in wardrobe looks a lot better Becka, though the first thing I would have removed would have been the gun safe.
That thing is too heavy for me to move 😂 That has to stay till I move out unfortunately.
What is that vacuum thingy you're using on the tile floors in bathroom? Thanks.
Do you mean the steam mop? If so here is a link
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(Affiliate link)
great job with the closets! i wish he didnt make you have to do that but i understand why you'd want to it does look good in both and now you can breathe easier :) hope you have a great weekend!
Thank you friend, I feel the same way! But we do what we have to ♥️
Nice!!
Thank you Becky ❤️
Thanks for watching Danni! ♥️
I'm new to your channel & and I loved your video! ❤
Thank you Alayna! So glad you found my channel ♥️
@Happily Ever Becka your welcome! I'm glad that I was able to find your channel too 🙂
Good work, feels so good when everything is organised x decluttered 👍
Yes so satisfying! 🥰
Happy FriYay
Have a great weekend friend! ♥️
Great motivation
Thanks for watching friend! ♥️
You rock girl!
Thanks friend! So do you! ♥️
I so need that storage space in my bathrooms lol. I love all the space you have and it makes me question how the heck I fit everything in my bathrooms. 😆
Girl I question how I’m going to fit things when I move out of this house! 😅 One of the reasons I love this floor plan is all the abundance of closets! I actually have two closets on this bathroom. It’s more than I even need really.
Great video!
Thank you friend ♥️
Hey friends mini love ❤️
Hey Girl, my husband moved out about 2 months ago as well but he’s coming back in the middle of June I’m excited. ❤🥰 I’m so glad you are cleaning up your house after your husband left so you can feel like your space is your house now. I do know how you are feeling, I felt that way in the beginning of my and my husband’s separation when I wasn’t sure if we could figure things out. ❤ It was hard but I’m glad we have been taking these couple of months and working on ourselves, it has helped our marriage greatly. Honestly what drew me to your channel was the fact you were going through what I was going through at the time and then when I came I found an amazing woman who puts out amazing content, makes her channel feel like she’s talking to a bunch of friends, and someone real and genuine. I’m so happy with my decision when I found and subscribed to your channel. ❤ me and my husband are polar opposites when it comes to taking medicine too. He doesn’t take medicine unless he’s feeling like he’s dying or the pain is so terrible that he can’t do anything. I used to be like that but now I just take medicine when I feel any type of pain. 😂 I loved this video and I can’t wait for the next one! ❤🥰
Thank you so much Rachel! Means the world to me that you can relate, that’s why I do what some would call “over sharing”. It’s so nice not to feel alone, especially through struggles. I’m so glad things are working out for the two of you. I do think some space and healing can definitely help some times. I wish that was the case for us, but unfortunately it’s not.
You go, girl ! ❤
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Hi Becca, can you tell me the floor cleaner you use. Thankyou !
On the bathroom floors I just use my steam mop.
Feather duster never clean properly try spray and micro fibre cloth
Yes that’s what I use most the time. Thank you 😊
Yes girl 💪 ❤
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Does anyone know which video Becka is referring to at the beginning regarding her split from her husband, I can’t see it in the description.
So sorry forgot to link it. Here is a link to it -
th-cam.com/video/rk31Pdv4C-Q/w-d-xo.html
Thank you Becka
You can do it my mom had 10 children and managed. Five boys and five girls.
Wow your mom is a rockstar!
Hey!
Hey Michelle 🥰
Good evening I love your channel could you please pray for my uncle he had a bike wreck recently🧡 hope you have a good day
I’m so sorry friend! I hope your uncle is doing ok ♥️
Ur inspiring
Thank you ♥️
Hi Becky good to see you again, you should hang all your jeans on hangers, and have all your shoes facing the same way makes it Look much Neater just a suggestion take care God Bless! 😄😄
Hey Tresa, all my jeans are hung. Just not my short and my I do my shoes like that because one is facing me and one is the back, just like the aesthetic of being able to see both aspect of a pair if that makes sense 😊 Thanks for watching friend! ♥️
Becka, honestly just a (( hug))
Thank you ♥️
I watch this like: ppl are vacuming an empty house lol...
Hey, I'm new here and if it's ok to ask, why did he move out?
Hey Tanja, here is a video I talk more about it and share what I feel comfortable sharing - th-cam.com/video/rk31Pdv4C-Q/w-d-xo.html
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Hey
Hey friend ♥️
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Wash that man right outta your hair!
You'll be okay, and for sure a nice, clean, organized space is a great stride through survival to thrival.
Thank you for this, I just found your channel and will be back.
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So glad you found my channel! ♥️ Thank you for the words of encouragement!
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Why don’t you just hang everything up in your closet?
I do hang most things up. Just not pjs and athletic wear, oh and shorts.
The music you are playing is super depressing.
Sorry you didn’t like it.
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