I'm a female. I've been dating like this for years. And deep down I have felt guilty because its not the norm. I never was looking for serious. Just fun. ... This is so comforting to hear. I've been doing the right thing all along. Thank you for posting this! :-D
wow, this is really good. i always feel like crap when i connect with someone sexually and then i get all "needy" and it ruins everything. i love the fact that abe says "you're not it, IT's in vortex, I'm just having fun with you and using you to get into the vortex." Very cool.
Wow, after many of the Abraham videos that i watch here on youtube I find myself unexpectedly in the vortex and feeling SO GOOD!. This is the way to date for me. I love the feeling of dating as being fun and not really thinking about future outcomes, but rather just enjoying everything about the interaction. OH YES! I WANT THAT!
No, they are discouraging the struggle and pressure that comes with the feeling of having to find the partner that will lead to marriage. Instead, if everyone would just focus on enjoying wherever they are, with whomever they are, they would find that serious relationship and marriage, if they so desire. Xxx
this is so timely for me. i was beating my self up cause i was trying to hard, and now i see the light. all she said was said to me in my mind before she said it. but i was'nt ready to hear it until now. I am ready because i hear it loud and clear. I so happy for second chances! I forgive my self also.
Ladies, just don't roll over for him (no sex!) until you know him well enough to truly trust him. Don't get caught up in a whirlwind of emotions, keep it real. Stay grounded while you're having fun.
I don't agree. It's not about waiting for a right time or right guy and being careful. This is a vibration of being scared and there's nothing fun with that. If a girl wants to have sex with someone she met an hour ago, let her do it! If she's having fun then great! But only then. You see, there are women who can have sex with different people everyday and be happy and those who can wait for years and still don't trust the guy, be scared and then sex is never a good thing for them. I'm saying this from my experience. I was (maybe still am) this careful woman and I tell you, there's nothing fun with that... And "staying grounded" and "having fun" is two opposite things. Please, don't tell anyone how to have fun.
Sheep In The Garden I agree, maybe I need to work on my vortex but I feel like I’m one of the women who holds sex in high regard. This is where I don’t really agree with Abraham, as I have had only a couple partners I’ve noticed sex is a sacred act where you are your most vulnerable and you are letting the other persons energy coincide with yours. The union of two people together is anything but casual. Which is where there’s a dichotomy with me, because although as a woman I have a high sex drive just like a man, but I don’t want multiple partners like a man would. This is maybe why my vortex is off, as I fear once I sleep with them it’s onto the next. I would prefer one partner I can trust where the sex is good.
@@mariahspapaya And you can have that. Abraham saying what they saying about sex to help people stop being scared of sex, but it's always your decision how you think about that and what you want. You can have one partner for life if you want, but you have to stop being afraid that you never will. You have to stop being afraid of sex and feel vurneable. Feel power of what you have - your sexuality. Feel fun it can give you with one and only partner you want. Feel free. Feel confident. When you think about sex and you're afraid you won't find someone you trust, you're out of the vortex. So try think about sex and feel fun, joy, exitment - then you will be in the vortex. You don't have to have many sexual partners in life to have fun. And there are men that want only one partner, as you. I've met them. You also can. Have a nice day. :)
@@mariahspapayahi , it's been 5yrs. how have your views regarding sex changed ? Just curious because I thought I can have sex with someone but it triggered a lot go emotional issues within me and I said no to the person. Now I feel like I have to wait for sometime before I find someone for commitment and relation to have sex with them.
Part of the challenge for me has always been that while I am able to enjoy casual sex physically, I find it incredibly unsatisfying emotionally if I get the impression that the man simply regards me as a plaything or a toy instead of as a person -- a object of his own gratification. I want to please my partner because I see him as more than just a convenient means to an end -- but in all fairness, I think that really ought to go both ways and yet it usually does not in my experience. In my experience, most men push for sex right away and they aren't always willing to take "no" for an answer -- nor do they want to understand the reason for the "no."
We live on opposite sides of the world and I wasn't even looking for him. He took me to see fireflies in the rice fields. We made out and then went to my hotel. In the morning he told me he told me he loved me, that he was sure from the moment he met me that I was the one in his dreams. I thought he was nuts, till it dawned on me that I loved him too.The next day we told each other we wanted to marry.
I knew that I just had to find a way to do the 'impossible', and I am doing just that! I don't have a well paid job, we live thousands of miles apart, I was in conflict every other day (but know I am not). don't miss him so much anymore because skype is enough for now, but mostly because I am so enjoying my life, the journey, the creating, the becoming! Sorry you guys have to read these 3 sections backwards :-D
I'm a female. I've been dating like this for years. And deep down I have felt guilty because its not the norm. I never was looking for serious. Just fun. ... This is so comforting to hear. I've been doing the right thing all along.
My wife is making her alignment in this fashion. I tried for three years to feel good about this and we are now separating. Too many partners for me. Are there any other guys that are more enlightened that can speak about this?
Gender does matter, in terms of masculine and feminine MAGNATISM! The feminine is magnetic, receptive, and draws in universal energy, while the masculine is active, point making and pushes out universal energy. If the polarity is wrong in your energy field you will repel the opposite gender like two matching poles on a magnet. Women! Its ok to draw in energy! Draw it in through your base chakra and it will automatically pour out of your heart. Men its ok to push out energy and be a force in the world if you draw in the energy your pushing out from your heart. But in our society we're often being encouraged to do the opposite. Check out darren deojee's youtube channel for further details 😊 apart from that, a great bit of advice!
fun is when you are connected and your front line, and its open, you are willing to feel your pleasure and your pain. from that place of vulnerable power, you can discriminate who you want to interact with and at what level you want to let them into your life. like when you have a home you love, you choose who comes for tea and lays in your bed, the question is who in you is choosing moment to moment???
I've never really understood the term "dating". Depending on the person it could mean anything from hanging out with someone, to going out for a drink, to having sex (otherwise, it's not a "date"). To me a date would mean getting together with someone that I very likely want to have sex with. Otherwise it's just meeting someone. But do we even need these labels? I've also met married couples who'll say, "When we were dating..." I don't get that either. What did you stop doing? Living?
@satsumamoon Such a lovely experience. Think of it to attract more of such good feelings to yourself! Then, reality will be evidence of those good feelings and you'll have magnificent manifestations!!! Congrats man!
The serious stuff meaning children bogs you down? The serious stuff women usually end up with as the male goes off for more fun historically? How about that... amazing wisdom.
I sat on a step with my iphone (in Bali) singing and grooving along, there was a guy next to me, that I'd not really noticed because it felt so easy to be there, he asked what music I liked, I said it depended on my mood, at the moment I was into Julia and Angus Stone. I picked a song at random and gave him one of the earbuds ,we sang along together "If U love me, with all that you R, I'll make you a star in my universe"...Check out 'for you' on Utube.
I heard a clip where Esther/Abraham was talking about a couple and after a while how they pick on each other. Then she uses the analagy of a third person in the backseat who starts talking to your mate/lover like one of you and how would you feel if you experienced this and heard your partner talked to in this way. She also does one about Esther need to "BE RIGHT." Knowing that your partner driving and they go the way you KNOW is wrong but go along with it.
Where am I going to find a single guy? Where are they and what do I say when I find one? I don't know how to find single men, and I don't know how to date ..
Morning Star no honey not at all, it’s about feeling good:) sometimes when we get serious about things we can get out of alignment , creating not feeling good
I think you misunderstood my comment- I was saying I was GLAD Abraham-Hicks did NOT speak negatively about men and take the negative bait that the woman in the audience was feeding. I want to hear POSITIVE about men and women.
Okay the sex thing is not helpful. Easy early sex is not respectful to ones self. And I don't "use" people for sex, or any other reason. Big, wrong. She got at least some of this advice, plain wrong.
casual sex Esther? REALLY? nice that you have given up on being faithful. ouch. I can't ignore the first things that you said. I'm out... I'm heterosexual :) ...not hedonistic
The woman doesn't know what she is talking about. Abstinence and looking at the bigger picture if more important and 'safe'. The problem with society is that they are too free and fall in love to easily and end up having sex or sexual interactions which then create this attachment. This then gets broken if they split up and they get hurt. Next time I drive my car ill just close my eyes and ill get aligned with a stupid vortex LMAO
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I'm a female. I've been dating like this for years. And deep down I have felt guilty because its not the norm. I never was looking for serious. Just fun. ... This is so comforting to hear. I've been doing the right thing all along. Thank you for posting this! :-D
I am curious if this is still your experience 9 years later...
wow, this is really good. i always feel like crap when i connect with someone sexually and then i get all "needy" and it ruins everything. i love the fact that abe says "you're not it, IT's in vortex, I'm just having fun with you and using you to get into the vortex." Very cool.
Yup I’m gonna is it good
Love it! Profusely, passionately, with no strings!! ❤️❤️
This si sooo good! we were taught since we were little girls to look for our Prince or "the one", and in that struggle we miss all the fun!
Freedom. Flow and joy. Over thinking, over trying. It can’t be wrong, only contrast. Be free. Be flow
Wow, after many of the Abraham videos that i watch here on youtube I find myself unexpectedly in the vortex and feeling SO GOOD!. This is the way to date for me. I love the feeling of dating as being fun and not really thinking about future outcomes, but rather just enjoying everything about the interaction. OH YES! I WANT THAT!
Like Abraham says, don't search, have fun!
No, they are discouraging the struggle and pressure that comes with the feeling of having to find the partner that will lead to marriage. Instead, if everyone would just focus on enjoying wherever they are, with whomever they are, they would find that serious relationship and marriage, if they so desire. Xxx
Who feels it's more meaningful now, after more than a decade
This is some of the most healthy and meaningful advice on love I've ever heard. Worth remembering often. Thanks for posting.
I am not looking for relationship but meaningful moment!!
"I'm just using you to get into my vortex ":-) Now I finally understand. thank you so much !
This was one of my favourite interactions. It will just fling you off into the bushes😂 thank you for sharing!
this is so timely for me. i was beating my self up cause i was trying to hard, and now i see the light. all she said was said to me in my mind before she said it. but i was'nt ready to hear it until now. I am ready because i hear it loud and clear. I so happy for second chances! I forgive my self also.
Never gets old 🙌
Listening to this at the right time!
I just heard the answers of my question about religion ! Finaly i know ! I feel free !
Ladies, just don't roll over for him (no sex!) until you know him well enough to truly trust him. Don't get caught up in a whirlwind of emotions, keep it real. Stay grounded while you're having fun.
I don't agree. It's not about waiting for a right time or right guy and being careful. This is a vibration of being scared and there's nothing fun with that. If a girl wants to have sex with someone she met an hour ago, let her do it! If she's having fun then great! But only then. You see, there are women who can have sex with different people everyday and be happy and those who can wait for years and still don't trust the guy, be scared and then sex is never a good thing for them. I'm saying this from my experience. I was (maybe still am) this careful woman and I tell you, there's nothing fun with that...
And "staying grounded" and "having fun" is two opposite things. Please, don't tell anyone how to have fun.
Sheep In The Garden I agree, maybe I need to work on my vortex but I feel like I’m one of the women who holds sex in high regard. This is where I don’t really agree with Abraham, as I have had only a couple partners I’ve noticed sex is a sacred act where you are your most vulnerable and you are letting the other persons energy coincide with yours. The union of two people together is anything but casual. Which is where there’s a dichotomy with me, because although as a woman I have a high sex drive just like a man, but I don’t want multiple partners like a man would. This is maybe why my vortex is off, as I fear once I sleep with them it’s onto the next. I would prefer one partner I can trust where the sex is good.
@@mariahspapaya And you can have that. Abraham saying what they saying about sex to help people stop being scared of sex, but it's always your decision how you think about that and what you want. You can have one partner for life if you want, but you have to stop being afraid that you never will. You have to stop being afraid of sex and feel vurneable. Feel power of what you have - your sexuality. Feel fun it can give you with one and only partner you want. Feel free. Feel confident. When you think about sex and you're afraid you won't find someone you trust, you're out of the vortex. So try think about sex and feel fun, joy, exitment - then you will be in the vortex. You don't have to have many sexual partners in life to have fun.
And there are men that want only one partner, as you. I've met them. You also can.
Have a nice day. :)
Mila i do feel free and confident, but I’m also cautious of who I allow into my life- including sexually
@@mariahspapayahi , it's been 5yrs. how have your views regarding sex changed ?
Just curious because I thought I can have sex with someone but it triggered a lot go emotional issues within me and I said no to the person. Now I feel like I have to wait for sometime before I find someone for commitment and relation to have sex with them.
Sex is optional 1st or 10th date. If it’s part of a good feeling idea, yes. Or No. if there is no impulse or intuitional feeling to the idea then NO.
Promiscuity is an insult to the sacred. liberalism ios for degenerates.
Part of the challenge for me has always been that while I am able to enjoy casual sex physically, I find it incredibly unsatisfying emotionally if I get the impression that the man simply regards me as a plaything or a toy instead of as a person -- a object of his own gratification. I want to please my partner because I see him as more than just a convenient means to an end -- but in all fairness, I think that really ought to go both ways and yet it usually does not in my experience. In my experience, most men push for sex right away and they aren't always willing to take "no" for an answer -- nor do they want to understand the reason for the "no."
I'm happy to hear that Abraham-Hicks didn't take the "women are victims" bait and start making negative comments about men's sexuality.
I feel so much happier. THANK YOU !
wow I think more women need to hear this and get the concept,awesome video
We live on opposite sides of the world and I wasn't even looking for him.
He took me to see fireflies in the rice fields. We made out and then went to my hotel. In the morning he told me he told me he loved me, that he was sure from the moment he met me that I was the one in his dreams. I thought he was nuts, till it dawned on me that I loved him too.The next day we told each other we wanted to marry.
satsumamoon are you guys still married ?
2:27 yes that resonates....
I agree WHOLE'HEARTEDLY with Abraham :)
I knew that I just had to find a way to do the 'impossible', and I am doing just that!
I don't have a well paid job, we live thousands of miles apart, I was in conflict every other day (but know I am not).
don't miss him so much anymore because skype is enough for now, but mostly because I am so enjoying my life, the journey, the creating, the becoming!
Sorry you guys have to read these 3 sections backwards :-D
I'm a female. I've been dating like this for years. And deep down I have felt guilty because its not the norm. I never was looking for serious. Just fun. ... This is so comforting to hear. I've been doing the right thing all along.
I've already been doing this but now that I've heard abraham confirm what I discovered on my own about dating its full speed ahead!
loL TRUE ! you just wanna get onto the vortex and stay there xx
Get in alignment then act to anything in this life, shopping,hocking, Living, eating, working, marrying, sexing ...etc...
My wife is making her alignment in this fashion. I tried for three years to feel good about this and we are now separating. Too many partners for me. Are there any other guys that are more enlightened that can speak about this?
Gender does matter, in terms of masculine and feminine MAGNATISM! The feminine is magnetic, receptive, and draws in universal energy, while the masculine is active, point making and pushes out universal energy. If the polarity is wrong in your energy field you will repel the opposite gender like two matching poles on a magnet. Women! Its ok to draw in energy! Draw it in through your base chakra and it will automatically pour out of your heart. Men its ok to push out energy and be a force in the world if you draw in the energy your pushing out from your heart. But in our society we're often being encouraged to do the opposite. Check out darren deojee's youtube channel for further details 😊 apart from that, a great bit of advice!
It will just fling you into the bushes! 🤣🤣🤣😆😆
I am practising this advise and I feel so much happier.
Love this and it inspires me for my channel
Hi, the single most sought after component of interaction. Good luck with the translation ;o)x
fun is when you are connected and your front line, and its open,
you are willing to feel your pleasure and your pain.
from that place of vulnerable power, you can discriminate who you want to interact with and at what level you want to let them into your life.
like when you have a home you love, you choose who comes for tea and lays in your bed, the question is who in you is choosing moment to moment???
Well expressed)
Ponder that...great insight!
Line up with who your are and then have the action
Thank you for sharing! I'm also practising this advice in it works!
Best everrrr
Anybody wants to volunteer to be used to get into my vortex? LOL That was a great one and an important one to keep in mind. Namasté to all, Mo
I love. You. Guys
Yes!
LOVE IT!
@nelied well now your free ! and i hope your joy is increased now
This is great!
Really cute video
I've never really understood the term "dating". Depending on the person it could mean anything from hanging out with someone, to going out for a drink, to having sex (otherwise, it's not a "date"). To me a date would mean getting together with someone that I very likely want to have sex with. Otherwise it's just meeting someone. But do we even need these labels? I've also met married couples who'll say, "When we were dating..." I don't get that either. What did you stop doing? Living?
amazing
thank you.
@satsumamoon Such a lovely experience. Think of it to attract more of such good feelings to yourself!
Then, reality will be evidence of those good feelings and you'll have magnificent manifestations!!!
Congrats man!
The serious stuff meaning children bogs you down? The serious stuff women usually end up with as the male goes off for more fun historically? How about that... amazing wisdom.
"sought after" = favored, or in-demand, wanted
I sat on a step with my iphone (in Bali) singing and grooving along, there was a guy next to me, that I'd not really noticed because it felt so easy to be there, he asked what music I liked, I said it depended on my mood, at the moment I was into Julia and Angus Stone. I picked a song at random and gave him one of the earbuds ,we sang along together "If U love me, with all that you R, I'll make you a star in my universe"...Check out 'for you' on Utube.
This is a great video! I would luv to ask the hot seater a question. Does anyone know how I can contact her? Good stuff!! :)
You took the words out of my mouth or finger I guess lol
No worries. :)
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Very Good 👍 🙏🧘♂️🧲
I heard a clip where Esther/Abraham was talking about a couple and after a while how they pick on each other. Then she uses the analagy of a third person in the backseat who starts talking to your mate/lover like one of you and how would you feel if you experienced this and heard your partner talked to in this way. She also does one about Esther need to "BE RIGHT." Knowing that your partner driving and they go the way you KNOW is wrong but go along with it.
Sorry about the mis-understanding.
Where am I going to find a single guy? Where are they and what do I say when I find one?
I don't know how to find single men, and I don't know how to date ..
Could someone clarify about those who say that they are not looking for a serious relationship. Are they more alighed than me?
Morning Star no honey not at all, it’s about feeling good:)
sometimes when we get serious about things we can get out of alignment , creating not feeling good
Okay
@jayneejames
Let us know how you are doing - I am also practicing it too :))
So are they discouraging serious relationships that lead to marriages and the formation of families?
I think you misunderstood my comment- I was saying I was GLAD Abraham-Hicks did NOT speak negatively about men and take the negative bait that the woman in the audience was feeding. I want to hear POSITIVE about men and women.
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Yeah finally a sex question thk u ask more about sex when manifesting
Interesting
I never been.in setting ok dontnask. m evasion h yourself I never.did setting ok ask yourself
I love the voice of questioning woman :-) Is she still alone ? :-) ha ha ha ha ha hah
She's beautiful inside and out...and from next to me, she comments "Thank you." This Abraham Share is exactly right.
***** Ha, hahahahahaha funny situation :-)
Line up first. Have fun collecting data.
Okay the sex thing is not helpful. Easy early sex is not respectful to ones self. And I don't "use" people for sex, or any other reason. Big, wrong. She got at least some of this advice, plain wrong.
casual sex Esther? REALLY? nice that you have given up on being faithful. ouch. I can't ignore the first things that you said. I'm out... I'm heterosexual :) ...not hedonistic
The woman doesn't know what she is talking about. Abstinence and looking at the bigger picture if more important and 'safe'. The problem with society is that they are too free and fall in love to easily and end up having sex or sexual interactions which then create this attachment. This then gets broken if they split up and they get hurt. Next time I drive my car ill just close my eyes and ill get aligned with a stupid vortex LMAO
@jayneejames
Let us know how you are doing - I am also practicing it too :))