10:13 Talking about how happy Jackson was with Tori’s little note ~ Back when I was little, I started writing "Just because" on pieces of paper (nothing else… just the words "just because") & would randomly stick them in my dads briefcase, notepads, pocket of his jacket, etc. No telling when they’d be found but that was kinda the point. Nifty part was… he did it to me also.🥰 This started when I was about 7-8 yrs old ~ I’m now 50 & just a few wks ago I left a Just Because hidden under his coffee cup… so when he picked up his cup, the note was there. ❤️ (and I opened a gift basket shop in my younger years & named it Just Because Gift Baskets…😉☺️)
One of the best things about LPBW being aired for so long is numerous people who have never known someone with dwarfism were able to gain awareness. We watched you as a child compete with your siblings, play soccer, enter high school, begin dating, etc. We heard your parents discuss aspects of their lives impacted by dwarfism and yet excel in business and philanthropy. You're continuing that work with your podcast and I believe the relationship developed with viewers and listeners has educated hundreds of thousands of people over the years. I agree with Tori that we are not equal, but the ongoing exposer and discussions are helping us take small steps towards it, not just with dwarfism, but with all differences.
What a great conversation - I am a 79-year-old woman who raised four average size children, and when I look at Jackson, I see a very special young man. His personality and confidence is going to take him through this world with little problems ..You both say you’re not perfect parents And I’m going to have to believe that but from everything I see and hear you are superior too many. I am sad that you will no longer be on the show.(even though I understand where you’re coming from.) Because I have watched you from day one and always look forward to watching the show with you and your growing family in it. I’m glad I found the podcast because at least now I continue to be part of your lovely growing family.❤❤ you are both very exceptional people and parents.❤❤
I raised my daughter who has Asperger’s to dismiss her negative language of referring to herself as not being “normal” and instead replace that negative with the positive language of viewing herself as just being “different” She now is a law clerk and has recently told me that she is so appreciative of the laser focus she possesses and attention to detail that just comes naturally, she feels blessed to have Asperger’s 😊
FABULOSO! lo has hecho muy bien y aplica para todos los hijos , para todas las personas porque todos tenemos diferencias y particularidades. En mi país se persigue mucho la belleza física y hemos aprendido tanto de que la perfección está en la actitud y no en lo que llamamos normal o perfecto 💯👍
We have raised assistance dogs for over 10 years. The BIGGEST thing we were told in the beginning was to ALWAYS put the person FIRST, disability second. They are first of all a PERSON with a disability❤
I think anyone whose doctor starts off with “I’m sorry, your child has “x” condition…” should be corrected immediately and ask them to rephrase it to, “I have important information to share with you, your child has…”. It won’t fix everything, but it’s a start to get the medical community to change perspective from the get-go.
As a mom with a special child I learned two things .. not to treat him any differently and not to tell him he can't. I always gave him the opportunity to try. He has become successful in many ways as a result. Many times I was told he might not be able to do something and I forgot to tell him that. Everything from pinning the state champion in wrestling to scoring a 300 in bowling.... Tori and Zach you are a great inspiration for many
Great "parents at the finishing line" analogy. Many parents think they are rescuing their children, but they are actually teaching their children that they are incapable of living without constant bailing out.
I have a former classmate that is a dwarf. I never treated him any differently than I did my other friends. We met in the 6th grade. He kept poking me with his pencil. I looked at him and told him to stop. He didn't. The next time he poked me I grabbed the pencil and broke it and smiled as I handed it back. We were good friends after that. Because I didn't treat him differently. We are still friends today after more than 40 years. He has had some health issues lately with his back. His cousins were my neighbors so I saw him at their home during the summer, at our local fair, skating rink (And let me tell you he could skate FAST), swimming. He drove a pickup in high school and never let things slow him down. That is why I loved your show so much and why I love your podcast. I loved watching you grow up and it reminded me of my friend.
It's not a person's stature that defines them. It is the heights you reach through kindness, integrity, respect, empathy, and knowledge. I am so impressed with your videos.
I'm retired and have been watching children for the last few years and every child here immediately take off their socks when they get here, even in the dead of winter. I'm always happy when summer comes and we don't have to deal with the socks anymore. Almost all kids don't like socks.. lol
OMGOSH! Mine, too! They grew up in Anaheim with carpet and marble inside and cement outside before we moved to Oregon! Outside didn't feel good running barefoot on gravel, and all of their socks had so many stickers that they weren't worth picking them out! Now my Grandson immediately takes off shoes and socks and runs outside even in snow until he's told at least 5 times to pull his boots on! 😄
Not just kids! Some adults don't like socks either. In my family, we wear them when we have to - when it's cold in the winter, but generally, at home they are off. Always with shoes tho. It starts in childhood.
I have watched the show since the beginning like many of us have- and I really believe they made Zack that way for the show- he is completely different in reality---which is a great thing!
Love you two! Everyone has something going on. Dwarfism shows, that’s the difference. I loved when Tory was gone and Zach was in charge. Growing up on tv couldn’t have been easy but Amy and Matt have produced some pretty special human beings!
I’m an older mom (53) of a 12 y/o son and he caught an episode of LPBW, he had questions, but I always quote that Dr. from many seasons ago at the conference “They’re just short” plain and simple. No different than anyone else. Y’all are rockin’ it! ❤
Zach, I grew up and went to school with your Dad Matt in jr high and high school, in middle school he had lots of surgeries but in high school he never let anything hold him back, infact we had to move out of his way especially when the bell rang to go home he dominated the ramps haha , he was also on the wrestling team and he was great at that challenge, your parents probably had a good challenge raising average height children, I’ve enjoyed watching you all grow up and become your own people ❤
My husband and I love your podcast and we are 63 years old, you both are naturals. The discussions are very informative and down to earth and you'll are a breath of fresh air.
I grew up with a learning disability in reading comprehension and test taking anxiety. Learning was a serious struggle for me especially in elementary. I used to say I was learning disabled and allowed it to define me but as I got older I realized that even though God allowed me to have this struggle; that I would grow and persevere through it and God would get the glory from it. I learned that even though I was someone who dealt with a learning disability, it didn’t own me. It didn’t define who I am or would become. My identity could only come from God and who He says I am.
I love seeing this side of Zach. He smiles a lot and looks so much more relaxed than what I witnessed on the show! He has so much wisdom and also has a great sense of humor. He makes me laugh! 😂😂😂
Love love topic of parenting! Raised 28, 26 and round again with adopting our 8 year old. Managing expectations is EVERYTHING Tori. How awesome that you get that so early in!!
Zach, your perspective on raising resilient kids is very important for everyone to hear. People are born every day with physical and intellectual challamges but is parenting that will handicap a child, even if they were born average.
This is one of the most refreshing podcasts! My brother has CP and growing up in this world with him was very rewarding. I love your perspective on things. I love that Zack is like let’s actually do our best. I love hearing your true heart on parenting. It can make us a better person to hear the trails of others and learn from them.
I love that i y'all are talking about not treating them different or spoiling them just because they aren't average. I have a 37 yr old daughter with Down Syndrome and i have never treated her different and have always pushed her to do her best. If i had treated her different i would have taken any potential growth away from her by making her think she was different. Thank you for taking about this.
I'm a teacher and my coworker adopted a little boy at birth with down syndrome. He's four. He's in preschool now and she's the same way. He does very well and is in class with other kids the same age. We all treat him the same as any other child and he's just amazing. His birthmother thought he would be "difficult to deal with " he's the best behaved kid I know.
You guys rock, great attitude. Growing up as a dwarf in a small town with average height parents and sisters, was so different than nowadays. I learned so much from your tv show. Being almost 60 still learning about dwarfism ❤
Seriously loving your podcasts. The interaction between the two of you makes me feel like I'm sitting with friends. I have so much respect for your intellect and thoughtfulness. It's a real pleasure to listen to you both. Keep up the great work and thank you so much for sharing.
So my daughter does not have dwarfism but she’s the shortest in her grade and has always been the smallest in everything. She has learned that that’s how god made her and she’s very confident in her height now that she’s almost 10. I can relate so much when Zach & Tori said to not baby them just because of their height. We have had instances where we have to catch ourselves doing things for her or treating her like a younger child. At the end of the day they are their age and we need to treat them like their age regardless of their height. Really enjoyed this episode.
All the years I've watched Josh, he hasn't changed. He was always an old soul and had deeper thoughts about the world around him. I remember a snapshot of him questioning his parents about something they decided. And he was explaining to them the logic of why their decision was wrong. He's an awesome person and he was blessed with an awesome mate.
Thank you for the inside view. I think Mr Jackson’s personality will take him very far in life. That kid is hella confident and headstrong. Luv yalls podcast series…it’s covered in awesome sauce.
I hope both of you do this podcast for years to come!!! I was honestly really bummed when u announced u were leaving the show, just because I’ve enjoyed watching Zack grow up, u two getting married and starting your family. But getting to know and see both of you on the podcast has been so much better! I’m really enjoying it!! On the subject of today….. I always thought Zack was so confident when he was young and around other kids and his siblings. It really impressed me and I know his parents did a great job raising them
WOW!!! Zach! Does your child need that or is that what you need as a parent? Such an eye opening statement. That is so relatable on so many levels as a parent..... THANK YOU!
Zach had some super thoughtful points here about babying boys, especially dwarf boys and how that can kind of backfire on them later in life. My brother is 6ft4 and he is STILL babied by the women in my family at 40 years old.... Its made him immature and incapable of fostering real relationships with women. It's important to let boys grow into men regardless of their height, but I can definitely see how it would be more important when raising smaller statured kids. You guys are knocking these podcasts out the park! Interesting topics and great points ❤
Zach, I like the phrase: "do the best with the information you have at the time." It implies that when you learn something new or gain new information your "best" should change. Thanks for doing this guys!
We’ve watched LPBW but I have absolutely fallen in love with you as a couple. My husband’s daughter went to school with the Roloffs when they attended private school. Keep up the good great podcast, you’re doing great. From your neighbors in Wilsonville ❤
I "grew" up with Zach in the LP community D11 Family. I appreciate watching your unique family structure, I am an LP mom married to an AH husband and 2 AH children, so similar but opposite so I feel the parenting/family episode. ❤
Love watching your podcasts. You are so informative and interesting to listen to. I have become disabled as an adult after having a tumor removed from inside of my spinal cord. I used to watch LPBW years ago and have always loved your family. Thank you for taking the time to teach and have thoughtful advice as you bring awareness to this diverse world.
Hi Guys! So enjoying this podcast. ❤. Tori my husband says I cut him off sometimes. It’s not intentional I just am from an Italian family and we all talk over one another …. and I just speak my thoughts as a form of relating to the topic of conversation. I’m always trying to consciously be mindful of it. My point is I see you doing this with Zach and I appreciate your efforts. I love your content. You’re an amazing couple. You are raising great kiddos! Thank you for letting us come along in your journey ❤
Omg..... I am a momma to a singleton. I absolutely loved your podcast this week. Zach nailed it. Are you doing it for your child, or are you doing it for you? Loved it!!! So many questions for myself. Thank you for your humble perspective!!
This was very educational. We average height people really don’t think about the obstacles that people who have dwarfism face. Being able to see through Zack’s eyes a little ,really opens our eyes to the challenges. What I really admire is he is saying- don’t take away the challenges- encourage the children to endure the challenges- don’t just fix it for them. Wonderful Parenting advice to all parents. Zack and Tori- My question is- what are the differences in raising the boys - versus your daughter. Being a mom of 3 girls- I never got to experience raising a son .Do you feel more protective over your daughter ? Are there things you do differently in your parenting with raising a girl ? I have found raising my daughters to be the most challenging yet rewarding experience. Frustrating at times but all about overcoming obstacles. My one daughter has a diagnosis of high functioning autism and let me tell you- nothing holds her back. She is a state champion gymnast. Imagine my tears when she won that! No diagnosis defines a person nor limits them beyond what they limit themselves to. You guys are doing an amazing job and I look forward to the glimpses you give us of your beautiful family. God bless you all!
Love Love Love this episode! Years ago when I first started watching the show LPBW, I invited my husband to watch with me and he said he didn't like reality shows but gradually he was drawn in and loves the show and now the podcast . We mostly hate tv shows but we impatiently wait til the new season of LPBW starts. We will often watch the same episodes over again, because the kids are just so sweet and cool, we like you guys too. Shine On!☀️⭐️☀️
You guys are amazing. We visited the farm years ago and Zack was out tour guide and shuttled us around for at least an hour and even made the comment that tours were usually 30ish minutes I thought Zack was a cool cat back then but now watching every episode thus far I think you both are the coolest EVER 💕 Zach this might remind you of us, Tori and Audrey were pregnant just about to have the babies when we came and we brought each of them a baby gift and gave them to Karyn when she greeted us to give to you guys after we left. As I’m sure you came across aTON of people but you even asked us if we wanted to see more stuff bc you liked us all and every question you asked us to see if we were truly fans of the show we passed with flying colors you were impressed. When you took us to the old town you even let us go in places that wasn’t never allowed by others. I have pictures of that day with you driving me in the front and your Dads little white dogs was chilling with us on the tour. I remember we had to use the restroom and during that break you were on a call with Tori as she was due at anytime if my memories serves me right. We were on a road-trip from California all the way up the northwest onto Canada. This was so much fun we still talk about those memories today.
Though I don’t have/know anyone with dwarfism, I find your podcast extremely educational and really appreciate the both of you sharing your life/introspections with your followers here on TH-cam ❤️
In the day to day I believe most parents are doing their best. My sons are grown and there are always experiences that I look back on and would have perhaps done things differently. That's life in general. Whether it be in parenting or in life choices. Most of us can think of an experience that we would have handled differently. We certainly learn as we go. You are both wise beyond your years! Thank you for sharing!
I just love listening to you guys. I feel like Ogre (hubby) and I are cut from similar cloth as you guys. I am so glad to hear you speak of trusting yourself! EVERY TIME I've ever NOT listened to my gut, I've regretted it. Every. Single. Time. Biggest advice I ever give anyone is to LISTEN TO AND TRUST YOUR GUT! Loving the podcast- keep up the good work guys!
I love the conversation about people first speech. My son has ASD and I want him to always know that his diagnosis does not define him! He want him to be proud of himself for many aspects including what makes him different.
I'm a mom of Autistic and non Autistic kids and what you said about coddling applies in the Autism world as well. I have raised my Autistic sons not allowing them to use their differences as an excuse in life Rather I taught them to see it as what makes them unique. My go to when they run into something that's a challenge, is to tell them they can still do it we just have to find a different way for them to achieve it. My 24 yr old was raised in a time before all the current resources were available and often was given expected restrictions by doctors and teachers but I never allowed my son to believe that. Instead it gave me more determination to show my son that he could overcome and do all the things he wanted to do. There is nothing that bugs me more than a parent that says "it's not his fault, or he can't do that because of (fill in the disability). If parents use it as an excuse to make the child or themselves feel better in the moment, it only teaches the child that if something in life is to hard they have a built in excuse not to try to overcome the challenge and that is a huge disservice to the child.
enjoyed listening to you talk about your life, kids and parenting. I agree that your kids are not defined by their diagnosis. Prayers for you and lots of blessings.
I look forward to each episode . The kids are so cute . You both are great parents. Thank you for showing us your wonderful baby . I wish you all the best.
from listening to your conversation, you guys are so grounded and loving parents. i pray the good Lord give you all good health and many years together with your beautiful family. God Bless🌻
You two are wonderful ❤️ i have watched LPBW since the beginning and i have learned a lot, and i know many others have as well. Im so glad you two started this podcast. You both have always been my favs. ❤
When I say I CACKLED when Zach said only LP's can say the dwarf squat. I woke up my husband I LOL-ed WAY TOO LOUD. SOOOOOO RELATEABLE! Also my to watch my AH sons copy mom doing the Achon Squat it cracks me up!
I agree with so many key things Zach said today especially about parents pushing their kids. So many parents are trying to live vicariously through their kids. I see it so much and like Zach I always think “are you going this for your child or YOU?” Especially when sports are involved. I also have the same theology when it comes to “everyone getting a trophy”……. Encourage your child to do their best, not give up, cross that finish line!!! Parents that coddle when they are no longer infants( don’t get me wrong I’m not talking about hugging them or being there if they need you) are doing their children a disservice!! The world isn’t going to coddle or make you feel better just because. Now Tori, there is only one thing wrong with Jackson( or maybe I should say only one problem you will have with Jackson) He is such a handsome little boy now. I can’t even imagine when he’s a little older and starts dating…. You’re gonna have to beat the girls off with a stick, as the saying goes!!! LOL 🩷🩷🩷I love your podcast. So glad you are doing it. I also think you’re doing a great job as parents♥️
This one podcast is amazing. Very educational. I love how you folks give God the Glory and encourage Him in your children's life. God is oh so so good 🙌🫶🙌🫶🙌🙏
I love your podcast. I have watched every episode. I have also watched LPBW since the beginning. I love your family. I love your insights in the podcast. My only reflection that I have to share is when Zach said “do you need that or does your kid need that”? I agree with that too for the most part but I also want to flip that around. What if you DIDN’T need that but what if your child does? I’ve gone through this with my husband as well. Just because you didn’t need something doesn’t mean your child doesn’t need it as we are all not the same mentally and physically. No one knows their child’s needs though than a parent so we need to pay attention to sometimes what they need instead of what we think they need. Parenting is hard no matter which way we decide. lol. Damned if we do and damned if we don’t. But you are both wonderful with your kids and love the show. I have a 5 yr old grandson with severe non verbal autism so I agree with many things you say about disabilities. I do cheer and get teary over little things he does that he hasn’t been able to do before. I’ve certainly become a lot more empathetic since I’ve had grandchildren. lol
I have adult children and 2 grandchildren- I would love to hear your perspective on how grandparents can build relationships. And help on things not to say and do to tear them down.
Your podcast is fun and informative. I’m sure parents with achondroplasia kids find this podcast invaluable! I as a grandmother find it entertaining but also very interesting. Your both great parents and your kids are adorable and seem so kind! Keep up what your doing as parents!!!
Children whether average or short will watch their parents how they deal with life by their reactions. Reacting in truth, compassion, forgiveness, and understanding of others will carry children on the right path throughout their life. Mean girls are real, bully boys are real, and both are tough and that’s when parents can teach their children how to resist back. Love love love is what everyone needs.
No worries Tori giving is a blessing it adds balance AND might I add challenges others to step up and give more thats not a bad thing. Super sweet and thoughtful imo
Well said you guys! I absolutely agree 💯 percent on everything you guys talked about today! An on another note will you be doing any Merch? I’m loving your sweater Tori! I would be glad to support your podcast!! ❤
Great show, again! I’m a grandma and I love learning about your parenting style. I help raise a grandson who was just diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and while I want his life normal (whatever that means) I have to tweak some of the things in his life too.
Really good podcast! I enjoy you both on this, moreso than the show which I watch. Zach, I love what you said about doing what's good for the long term and not just the short term...and also.."Does your kids need that or do you?" My kids are grown but that is really great advice. Very wise.
I have kids with different 'abilities' is what we call them. One has Autism, one is deaf with one ear and hard of hearing on the other. He sings so lovely and was lead in his play! It is fun watching them grow. I have to say though it is hard to have friends though with kids who have these 'abilities'
Hi I really like your podcast I'm glad you're doing it. I just have one thing I would like to suggest regarding your children. It's best not to run away from being vulnerable. all have our issues. Parents need to teach their children they can be strong even if they are judged. Let them experience any uncomfortable situations like getting criticism or whatever ignorant people have to say. They need to process like anyone else in the world. It's a fact we can't hide from from it none of us can. They will learn how to protect themselves no matter what people say to them. It will be a good learning experience to know that they can handle it and know exactly who they are and still be very happy people. Basically we need to teach them how to have good self defense tactics. God bless your beautiful family❤
I agree with Tori about calling her kids by their names and not their diagnoses. I have twins and we were careful to NOT refer to them as “the twins” but rather by their names or even “the babies” so that they are labeled as individuals rather than one part of the larger unit of the twins.
I tell my kids that I can’t parent “equally” because each kid is SO unique! What’s “fair” to one kid may be a disappointment to another. We don’t strive for “equal” in our home, we strive for building each other up and celebrating the achievements in each child. Striving for equality just led me to spending a ridiculous amount of money on items that only 1 child loved and the other 2 never played with 😂
10:13 Talking about how happy Jackson was with Tori’s little note ~ Back when I was little, I started writing "Just because" on pieces of paper (nothing else… just the words "just because") & would randomly stick them in my dads briefcase, notepads, pocket of his jacket, etc. No telling when they’d be found but that was kinda the point. Nifty part was… he did it to me also.🥰 This started when I was about 7-8 yrs old ~ I’m now 50 & just a few wks ago I left a Just Because hidden under his coffee cup… so when he picked up his cup, the note was there. ❤️ (and I opened a gift basket shop in my younger years & named it Just Because Gift Baskets…😉☺️)
One of the best things about LPBW being aired for so long is numerous people who have never known someone with dwarfism were able to gain awareness. We watched you as a child compete with your siblings, play soccer, enter high school, begin dating, etc. We heard your parents discuss aspects of their lives impacted by dwarfism and yet excel in business and philanthropy. You're continuing that work with your podcast and I believe the relationship developed with viewers and listeners has educated hundreds of thousands of people over the years. I agree with Tori that we are not equal, but the ongoing exposer and discussions are helping us take small steps towards it, not just with dwarfism, but with all differences.
Totally agree 👍 Love learning from this family sharing
What a great conversation - I am a 79-year-old woman who raised four average size children, and when I look at Jackson, I see a very special young man. His personality and confidence is going to take him through this world with little problems ..You both say you’re not perfect parents And I’m going to have to believe that but from everything I see and hear you are superior too many. I am sad that you will no longer be on the show.(even though I understand where you’re coming from.) Because I have watched you from day one and always look forward to watching the show with you and your growing family in it. I’m glad I found the podcast because at least now I continue to be part of your lovely growing family.❤❤ you are both very exceptional people and parents.❤❤
I raised my daughter who has Asperger’s to dismiss her negative language of referring to herself as not being “normal” and instead replace that negative with the positive language of viewing herself as just being “different”
She now is a law clerk and has recently told me that she is so appreciative of the laser focus she possesses and attention to detail that just comes naturally, she feels blessed to have Asperger’s 😊
Or you could add we are all God's children
FABULOSO! lo has hecho muy bien y aplica para todos los hijos , para todas las personas porque todos tenemos diferencias y particularidades. En mi país se persigue mucho la belleza física y hemos aprendido tanto de que la perfección está en la actitud y no en lo que llamamos normal o perfecto 💯👍
You two seem like loving, safe, understanding, and well-rounded parents. Zach drops lots of gems. I love hearing you two chat. Great episode 👏
We have raised assistance dogs for over 10 years. The BIGGEST thing we were told in the beginning was to ALWAYS put the person FIRST, disability second. They are first of all a PERSON with a disability❤
I think anyone whose doctor starts off with “I’m sorry, your child has “x” condition…” should be corrected immediately and ask them to rephrase it to, “I have important information to share with you, your child has…”. It won’t fix everything, but it’s a start to get the medical community to change perspective from the get-go.
So agree. Starting out with I'm sorry..........ohhhhh would rub me wrong.
As a mom with a special child I learned two things .. not to treat him any differently and not to tell him he can't. I always gave him the opportunity to try. He has become successful in many ways as a result. Many times I was told he might not be able to do something and I forgot to tell him that. Everything from pinning the state champion in wrestling to scoring a 300 in bowling.... Tori and Zach you are a great inspiration for many
Great "parents at the finishing line" analogy. Many parents think they are rescuing their children, but they are actually teaching their children that they are incapable of living without constant bailing out.
I have a former classmate that is a dwarf. I never treated him any differently than I did my other friends. We met in the 6th grade. He kept poking me with his pencil. I looked at him and told him to stop. He didn't. The next time he poked me I grabbed the pencil and broke it and smiled as I handed it back. We were good friends after that. Because I didn't treat him differently. We are still friends today after more than 40 years. He has had some health issues lately with his back. His cousins were my neighbors so I saw him at their home during the summer, at our local fair, skating rink (And let me tell you he could skate FAST), swimming. He drove a pickup in high school and never let things slow him down. That is why I loved your show so much and why I love your podcast. I loved watching you grow up and it reminded me of my friend.
It's not a person's stature that defines them. It is the heights you reach through kindness, integrity, respect, empathy, and knowledge. I am so impressed with your videos.
I'm retired and have been watching children for the last few years and every child here immediately take off their socks when they get here, even in the dead of winter. I'm always happy when summer comes and we don't have to deal with the socks anymore. Almost all kids don't like socks.. lol
OMGOSH! Mine, too! They grew up in Anaheim with carpet and marble inside and cement outside before we moved to Oregon! Outside didn't feel good running barefoot on gravel, and all of their socks had so many stickers that they weren't worth picking them out! Now my Grandson immediately takes off shoes and socks and runs outside even in snow until he's told at least 5 times to pull his boots on! 😄
My granddaughters are the same way. As soon as they get here from school. Shoes and socks off.
Not just kids! Some adults don't like socks either. In my family, we wear them when we have to - when it's cold in the winter, but generally, at home they are off. Always with shoes tho. It starts in childhood.
I use to see Zack as an interesting yet cocky and slightly rebellious child. WOW. What a mature wise man you are!!!
I have watched the show since the beginning like many of us have- and I really believe they made Zack that way for the show- he is completely different in reality---which is a great thing!
“Does your child need that or do you need that.” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Love that!
Great statement
Such a powerful statement
Love you two! Everyone has something going on. Dwarfism shows, that’s the difference.
I loved when Tory was gone and Zach was in charge.
Growing up on tv couldn’t have been easy but Amy and Matt have produced some pretty special human beings!
I’m an older mom (53) of a 12 y/o son and he caught an episode of LPBW, he had questions, but I always quote that Dr. from many seasons ago at the conference “They’re just short” plain and simple. No different than anyone else. Y’all are rockin’ it! ❤
Zach, I grew up and went to school with your Dad Matt in jr high and high school, in middle school he had lots of surgeries but in high school he never let anything hold him back, infact we had to move out of his way especially when the bell rang to go home he dominated the ramps haha , he was also on the wrestling team and he was great at that challenge, your parents probably had a good challenge raising average height children, I’ve enjoyed watching you all grow up and become your own people ❤
My husband and I love your podcast and we are 63 years old, you both are naturals. The discussions are very informative and down to earth and you'll are a breath of fresh air.
I'm 68-year-old And I've been watching since Zach was growing up.I love you and Tori's podcast.
I'd love to see your children and you❤🎉🎉
I grew up with a learning disability in reading comprehension and test taking anxiety. Learning was a serious struggle for me especially in elementary. I used to say I was learning disabled and allowed it to define me but as I got older I realized that even though God allowed me to have this struggle; that I would grow and persevere through it and God would get the glory from it. I learned that even though I was someone who dealt with a learning disability, it didn’t own me. It didn’t define who I am or would become. My identity could only come from God and who He says I am.
I love how you share your life experiences and are very truthful. I can see that you communicate really well.
I love seeing this side of Zach. He smiles a lot and looks so much more relaxed than what I witnessed on the show! He has so much wisdom and also has a great sense of humor. He makes me laugh! 😂😂😂
Absolutely love your podcasts ❤
Love love topic of parenting! Raised 28, 26 and round again with adopting our 8 year old. Managing expectations is EVERYTHING Tori. How awesome that you get that so early in!!
I enjoy your podcast very much! Being a parent is tough for everyone! ❤️
Zach, your perspective on raising resilient kids is very important for everyone to hear. People are born every day with physical and intellectual challamges but is parenting that will handicap a child, even if they were born average.
I just love listening to the two of you You are the two most wellrounded and grounded parents I have seen. keep up the great work
This is one of the most refreshing podcasts! My brother has CP and growing up in this world with him was very rewarding. I love your perspective on things. I love that Zack is like let’s actually do our best. I love hearing your true heart on parenting. It can make us a better person to hear the trails of others and learn from them.
I love that i y'all are talking about not treating them different or spoiling them just because they aren't average. I have a 37 yr old daughter with Down Syndrome and i have never treated her different and have always pushed her to do her best. If i had treated her different i would have taken any potential growth away from her by making her think she was different. Thank you for taking about this.
I'm a teacher and my coworker adopted a little boy at birth with down syndrome. He's four. He's in preschool now and she's the same way. He does very well and is in class with other kids the same age. We all treat him the same as any other child and he's just amazing. His birthmother thought he would be "difficult to deal with " he's the best behaved kid I know.
You guys rock, great attitude. Growing up as a dwarf in a small town with average height parents and sisters, was so different than nowadays. I learned so much from your tv show. Being almost 60 still learning about dwarfism ❤
Seriously loving your podcasts. The interaction between the two of you makes me feel like I'm sitting with friends. I have so much respect for your intellect and thoughtfulness. It's a real pleasure to listen to you both. Keep up the great work and thank you so much for sharing.
So my daughter does not have dwarfism but she’s the shortest in her grade and has always been the smallest in everything. She has learned that that’s how god made her and she’s very confident in her height now that she’s almost 10. I can relate so much when Zach & Tori said to not baby them just because of their height. We have had instances where we have to catch ourselves doing things for her or treating her like a younger child. At the end of the day they are their age and we need to treat them like their age regardless of their height. Really enjoyed this episode.
All the years I've watched Josh, he hasn't changed. He was always an old soul and had deeper thoughts about the world around him. I remember a snapshot of him questioning his parents about something they decided. And he was explaining to them the logic of why their decision was wrong. He's an awesome person and he was blessed with an awesome mate.
Do you mean Zach?
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Thank you for the inside view. I think Mr Jackson’s personality will take him very far in life. That kid is hella confident and headstrong. Luv yalls podcast series…it’s covered in awesome sauce.
I hope both of you do this podcast for years to come!!! I was honestly really bummed when u announced u were leaving the show, just because I’ve enjoyed watching Zack grow up, u two getting married and starting your family. But getting to know and see both of you on the podcast has been so much better! I’m really enjoying it!! On the subject of today….. I always thought Zack was so confident when he was young and around other kids and his siblings. It really impressed me and I know his parents did a great job raising them
Yeah I feel the same way about Zach being confident and they were all raised right and man Amy is supermom my goodness
WOW!!! Zach! Does your child need that or is that what you need as a parent? Such an eye opening statement. That is so relatable on so many levels as a parent..... THANK YOU!
Zach had some super thoughtful points here about babying boys, especially dwarf boys and how that can kind of backfire on them later in life. My brother is 6ft4 and he is STILL babied by the women in my family at 40 years old.... Its made him immature and incapable of fostering real relationships with women. It's important to let boys grow into men regardless of their height, but I can definitely see how it would be more important when raising smaller statured kids. You guys are knocking these podcasts out the park! Interesting topics and great points ❤
Zach, I like the phrase: "do the best with the information you have at the time." It implies that when you learn something new or gain new information your "best" should change. Thanks for doing this guys!
We’ve watched LPBW but I have absolutely fallen in love with you as a couple. My husband’s daughter went to school with the Roloffs when they attended private school. Keep up the good great podcast, you’re doing great. From your neighbors in Wilsonville ❤
Your 3 kids are really cute/adorable! ♥️That’s how I see them! You’re doing a really great job Tori & Zach! 👍
I "grew" up with Zach in the LP community D11 Family. I appreciate watching your unique family structure, I am an LP mom married to an AH husband and 2 AH children, so similar but opposite so I feel the parenting/family episode. ❤
Love watching your podcasts. You are so informative and interesting to listen to. I have become disabled as an adult after having a tumor removed from inside of my spinal cord. I used to watch LPBW years ago and have always loved your family. Thank you for taking the time to teach and have thoughtful advice as you bring awareness to this diverse world.
You both are AWESOME to listen to, you have a lot of excellent advice and give us lots to think about. What a cool couple. Thankyou❤❤
I have 3 top podcast shows that I listen to religiously. & now this podcast is being added to the list! Lol I love it!
God bless you Zach and Tori. You have a beautiful family ❤. Love your podcast ❤
Hi Guys! So enjoying this podcast. ❤. Tori my husband says I cut him off sometimes. It’s not intentional I just am from an Italian family and we all talk over one another …. and I just speak my thoughts as a form of relating to the topic of conversation. I’m always trying to consciously be mindful of it. My point is I see you doing this with Zach and I appreciate your efforts. I love your content. You’re an amazing couple. You are raising great kiddos! Thank you for letting us come along in your journey ❤
I love this podcast! I've binged the first few episodes and I'm hooked. :)
Omg..... I am a momma to a singleton. I absolutely loved your podcast this week. Zach nailed it.
Are you doing it for your child, or are you doing it for you?
Loved it!!! So many questions for myself.
Thank you for your humble perspective!!
This was very educational. We average height people really don’t think about the obstacles that people who have dwarfism face. Being able to see through Zack’s eyes a little ,really opens our eyes to the challenges. What I really admire is he is saying- don’t take away the challenges- encourage the children to endure the challenges- don’t just fix it for them. Wonderful
Parenting advice to all parents.
Zack and Tori-
My question is- what are the differences in raising the boys - versus your daughter. Being a mom of 3 girls- I never got to experience raising a son .Do you feel more protective over your daughter ? Are there things you do differently in your parenting with raising a girl ?
I have found raising my daughters to be the most challenging yet rewarding experience. Frustrating at times but all about overcoming obstacles. My one daughter has a diagnosis of high functioning autism and let me tell you- nothing holds her back. She is a state champion gymnast. Imagine my tears when she won that! No diagnosis defines a person nor limits them beyond what they limit themselves to.
You guys are doing an amazing job and I look forward to the glimpses you give us of your beautiful family.
God bless you all!
Your children are so adorable. You guys are doing a great job parenting! Happy , intelligent and well adjusted children say it all!
Love Love Love this episode! Years ago when I first started watching the show LPBW, I invited my husband to watch with me and he said he didn't like reality shows but gradually he was drawn in and loves the show and now the podcast . We mostly hate tv shows but we impatiently wait til the new season of LPBW starts. We will often watch the same episodes over again, because the kids are just so sweet and cool, we like you guys too. Shine On!☀️⭐️☀️
You guys are amazing. We visited the farm years ago and Zack was out tour guide and shuttled us around for at least an hour and even made the comment that tours were usually 30ish minutes I thought Zack was a cool cat back then but now watching every episode thus far I think you both are the coolest EVER 💕 Zach this might remind you of us, Tori and Audrey were pregnant just about to have the babies when we came and we brought each of them a baby gift and gave them to Karyn when she greeted us to give to you guys after we left. As I’m sure you came across aTON of people but you even asked us if we wanted to see more stuff bc you liked us all and every question you asked us to see if we were truly fans of the show we passed with flying colors you were impressed. When you took us to the old town you even let us go in places that wasn’t never allowed by others. I have pictures of that day with you driving me in the front and your Dads little white dogs was chilling with us on the tour. I remember we had to use the restroom and during that break you were on a call with Tori as she was due at anytime if my memories serves me right. We were on a road-trip from California all the way up the northwest onto Canada. This was so much fun we still talk about those memories today.
Though I don’t have/know anyone with dwarfism, I find your podcast extremely educational and really appreciate the both of you sharing your life/introspections with your followers here on TH-cam ❤️
In the day to day I believe most parents are doing their best. My sons are grown and there are always experiences that I look back on and would have perhaps done things differently. That's life in general. Whether it be in parenting or in life choices. Most of us can think of an experience that we would have handled differently. We certainly learn as we go. You are both wise beyond your years! Thank you for sharing!
I just love listening to you guys. I feel like Ogre (hubby) and I are cut from similar cloth as you guys. I am so glad to hear you speak of trusting yourself! EVERY TIME I've ever NOT listened to my gut, I've regretted it. Every. Single. Time. Biggest advice I ever give anyone is to LISTEN TO AND TRUST YOUR GUT! Loving the podcast- keep up the good work guys!
Hey, thanks Tori! I think you read the comments about interrupting Zach, because I noticed you did good this time! Good job!
I love the conversation about people first speech. My son has ASD and I want him to always know that his diagnosis does not define him! He want him to be proud of himself for many aspects including what makes him different.
I'm a mom of Autistic and non Autistic kids and what you said about coddling applies in the Autism world as well. I have raised my Autistic sons not allowing them to use their differences as an excuse in life Rather I taught them to see it as what makes them unique. My go to when they run into something that's a challenge, is to tell them they can still do it we just have to find a different way for them to achieve it. My 24 yr old was raised in a time before all the current resources were available and often was given expected restrictions by doctors and teachers but I never allowed my son to believe that. Instead it gave me more determination to show my son that he could overcome and do all the things he wanted to do. There is nothing that bugs me more than a parent that says "it's not his fault, or he can't do that because of (fill in the disability). If parents use it as an excuse to make the child or themselves feel better in the moment, it only teaches the child that if something in life is to hard they have a built in excuse not to try to overcome the challenge and that is a huge disservice to the child.
Zach and Tori...this is so much better and amazing to watch. TLC is not doing LPBW any favors.
Zac and Tori are great parents. I am blown away by Zac's thoughtfulness, and Tori, you're ok too!!
You must like small people. Are you sure you’re not like sick from the head?
enjoyed listening to you talk about your life, kids and parenting. I agree that your kids are not defined by their diagnosis. Prayers for you and lots of blessings.
I look forward to each episode . The kids are so cute . You both are great parents. Thank you for showing us your wonderful baby . I wish you all the best.
from listening to your conversation, you guys are so grounded and loving parents. i pray the good Lord give you all good health and many years together with your beautiful family. God Bless🌻
Great parenting advice. So many parents don’t allow their kids to sometimes fail.
You two are wonderful ❤️ i have watched LPBW since the beginning and i have learned a lot, and i know many others have as well. Im so glad you two started this podcast. You both have always been my favs. ❤
When I say I CACKLED when Zach said only LP's can say the dwarf squat. I woke up my husband I LOL-ed WAY TOO LOUD. SOOOOOO RELATEABLE! Also my to watch my AH sons copy mom doing the Achon Squat it cracks me up!
I agree with so many key things Zach said today especially about parents pushing their kids. So many parents are trying to live vicariously through their kids. I see it so much and like Zach I always think “are you going this for your child or YOU?” Especially when sports are involved. I also have the same theology when it comes to “everyone getting a trophy”……. Encourage your child to do their best, not give up, cross that finish line!!! Parents that coddle when they are no longer infants( don’t get me wrong I’m not talking about hugging them or being there if they need you) are doing their children a disservice!! The world isn’t going to coddle or make you feel better just because. Now Tori, there is only one thing wrong with Jackson( or maybe I should say only one problem you will have with Jackson) He is such a handsome little boy now. I can’t even imagine when he’s a little older and starts dating…. You’re gonna have to beat the girls off with a stick, as the saying goes!!! LOL 🩷🩷🩷I love your podcast. So glad you are doing it. I also think you’re doing a great job as parents♥️
*Everyone is a perfect parent with no regrets -- until they become a parent themselves.*
Love your podcasts! You are awesome and inspiring.
I loved this episode. I am about to be a mom of three, I could listen y'all talk about parenting for hours!
This one podcast is amazing. Very educational. I love how you folks give God the Glory and encourage Him in your children's life. God is oh so so good 🙌🫶🙌🫶🙌🙏
You two are incredible!! You address all issues in such a great way! You both are so young, and you are so smart and eloquent!!!❤
Thank you for speaking on your faith in God. ❤
Yes!!! Jackson has a coolness about him!!! I noticed it on one episode you had him on, it was my first thought about him!!! For real
I am loving listening to you both and how much you love them.
I love how real you both are; so down to earth and likeable.
I love your podcast. I have watched every episode. I have also watched LPBW since the beginning. I love your family. I love your insights in the podcast. My only reflection that I have to share is when Zach said “do you need that or does your kid need that”? I agree with that too for the most part but I also want to flip that around. What if you DIDN’T need that but what if your child does? I’ve gone through this with my husband as well. Just because you didn’t need something doesn’t mean your child doesn’t need it as we are all not the same mentally and physically. No one knows their child’s needs though than a parent so we need to pay attention to sometimes what they need instead of what we think they need. Parenting is hard no matter which way we decide. lol. Damned if we do and damned if we don’t. But you are both wonderful with your kids and love the show. I have a 5 yr old grandson with severe non verbal autism so I agree with many things you say about disabilities. I do cheer and get teary over little things he does that he hasn’t been able to do before. I’ve certainly become a lot more empathetic since I’ve had grandchildren. lol
Gah! Parenting is so hard!!! Overanalyzing every single thing, every single day! You guys seem to be doing a great job! Love your podcast!
Love you guys! look forward to your podcast every week!!!! the kids are so cute! your doing a great job!! Hello from Canada
Loved this podcast guys ...thanks for being so honest and shareing you life with us .❤
I enjoy your positive attitudes and your reality checks. You have a wonderful family that is blessed to have such active and involved parents
I have adult children and 2 grandchildren- I would love to hear your perspective on how grandparents can build relationships. And help on things not to say and do to tear them down.
Your podcast is fun and informative. I’m sure parents with achondroplasia kids find this podcast invaluable! I as a grandmother find it entertaining but also very interesting. Your both great parents and your kids are adorable and seem so kind! Keep up what your doing as parents!!!
Children whether average or short will watch their parents how they deal with life by their reactions. Reacting in truth, compassion, forgiveness, and understanding of others will carry children on the right path throughout their life. Mean girls are real, bully boys are real, and both are tough and that’s when parents can teach their children how to resist back. Love love love is what everyone needs.
Excellent podcast. Love your family. ❤
I love this podcast so much. I’ve been watching reruns of the show so now that you guys have a podcast is so GREAT
Great episode. I have followed the family either the show. Great perspective. Love your family
You are the most wonderful parents who made the most beautiful children.
No worries Tori giving is a blessing it adds balance AND might I add challenges others to step up and give more thats not a bad thing. Super sweet and thoughtful imo
Well said you guys! I absolutely agree 💯 percent on everything you guys talked about today! An on another note will you be doing any Merch? I’m loving your sweater Tori! I would be glad to support your podcast!! ❤
That’s exactly right Tory! Parents need to trust themselves!
Great show, again! I’m a grandma and I love learning about your parenting style. I help raise a grandson who was just diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and while I want his life normal (whatever that means) I have to tweak some of the things in his life too.
Really good podcast! I enjoy you both on this, moreso than the show which I watch. Zach, I love what you said about doing what's good for the long term and not just the short term...and also.."Does your kids need that or do you?" My kids are grown but that is really great advice. Very wise.
Highly informative, so interesting and appreciated -- thanx
I have kids with different 'abilities' is what we call them. One has Autism, one is deaf with one ear and hard of hearing on the other. He sings so lovely and was lead in his play! It is fun watching them grow. I have to say though it is hard to have friends though with kids who have these 'abilities'
Hi I really like your podcast I'm glad you're doing it. I just have one thing I would like to suggest regarding your children. It's best not to run away from being vulnerable. all have our issues. Parents need to teach their children they can be strong even if they are judged. Let them experience any uncomfortable situations like getting criticism or whatever ignorant people have to say. They need to process like anyone else in the world. It's a fact we can't hide from from it none of us can. They will learn how to protect themselves no matter what people say to them. It will be a good learning experience to know that they can handle it and know exactly who they are and still be very happy people. Basically we need to teach them how to have good self defense tactics. God bless your beautiful family❤
I agree with
Tori about calling her kids by their names and not their diagnoses. I have twins and we were careful to
NOT refer to them as “the twins” but rather by their names or even “the babies” so that they are labeled as individuals rather than one part of the larger unit of the twins.
You Guys are unpacking so much out of the closet. Good on you for doing that in such good taste and naturally ❤️👍
Tori I love your conviction about dwarfism defining who you are. 🎉❤
I tell my kids that I can’t parent “equally” because each kid is SO unique! What’s “fair” to one kid may be a disappointment to another. We don’t strive for “equal” in our home, we strive for building each other up and celebrating the achievements in each child. Striving for equality just led me to spending a ridiculous amount of money on items that only 1 child loved and the other 2 never played with 😂
Great episode. I so respect the two of you and your parenting skills and the way you both agree things. Good job mom and dad.