How to Convince Your Parents to Let You Go On Exchange

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  • Hi guys,
    today, I thought I would film a highly requested video for you. It is tips on how to make sure that your parents will let you go on exchange. As a young person, it is not always easy to convince your parents of why you should do an exchange. They won't like the idea of you being far away and study abroad programs are quite expensive. To convince them, I have compiled list on all of the reasons why you should do an exchange. Hopefully I can help you convince them.
    Yours,
    Laura
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  • @wora1111
    @wora1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your second point is the most important one I think. All the exchange students I met (a few hundred) have matured a lot during their exchange. Usually this can only be seen from the outside in how different they behave when coming back. Language is a tool you can acquire at home, the experience you gain from being immersed into a different family/culture tops language skills by far (and would be an import criteria for me as an employer)

  • @sophierose2057
    @sophierose2057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello Laura! I truly loved this video, I was just wondering if you could film an updated video on what to pack for an exchange year. Maybe you could include what to pack clothing wise ( though I know this differs with the location ) but also packing tips to be able to make the most of the luggage space. ( like using vacuum bags for winter coats, etc ). Also, as it is highly likely you’ll have more things to bring back upon the time that you’re going back to your home country, what are some solutions to make extra space/ bring back more than you brought. Any other updated tips, if you had any, I would also find extremely helpful!

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely! It's on my list

    • @infantryshooter
      @infantryshooter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You could always send your winter items ahead via UPS. You could then ship the winter stuff and accumulated items back home in the Spring the same way. Dragging a bunch of luggage around is a drag.

    • @Elfieee13
      @Elfieee13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I second that the idea of packing for a year without sounds stressful I can't even pack for a sleepover easily

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Elfieee13 It is VERY stressful :D But somehow everyone manages in the end

  • @SchoolYearAbroad
    @SchoolYearAbroad ปีที่แล้ว

    Such good advice!!

  • @Elfieee13
    @Elfieee13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I saw the video and I was like ooo this one is for me
    Edit: I'm also 13 rn and trying to convince my parents. my mom is ok with it but my dad thinks that this is just a thing I'll forget about in a month. He is also worried about the price and sending me away. My dad worrys a lot basically.

    • @wora1111
      @wora1111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Apply anyway. You can always redraw your application if you change your mind in one month. I would worry like your dad but having had the experience I would of course allow you to, no wish you to go. And my parents had to apply for some grants because they did not know how to pay for it at that time.

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in the same situation as you. But I invested a lot of my time in planning it out so they quickly realized I was being serious. Then I applied and got the CBYX scholarship so the price wasn't an issue anymore. If you want to do it, just keep pushing and show them you're willing to put effort into your dream

  • @josephcaccamise8235
    @josephcaccamise8235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Excellent 👍🏻

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Jo!

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks♥️

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome love! Thank you for watching

  • @waffs4525
    @waffs4525 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am trying my absolute best to convince my parents to send me back to the UK. I have been passively persuading for 2 years. Now I have spent 3 days researching non-stop, I am in a crucial year (11) and I want to complete my GCSEs in the UK. Any advice?

  • @Louizzy
    @Louizzy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Laura,
    Your advice is really helpful, thanks. I’m in 9th grade rn and I wanna do an exchange year in 11th grade. My parents are very against it and I’m not so sure if even my friends really support me. They all say it’s not the right thing for me to do, and because they’ve put a lot of negative advice on the table, now I start to become worried that they might me right about it. I’ve dealt with a lot of homesickness in the past, but I believe that I’ve overcome that and could be ready for the exchange year. I think that after I get used to my new surroundings there, I won’t have to deal with much homesickness anymore anyway. What’s your opinion? Do you think it’s the right decision doing an exchange year looking from my perspective?

    • @caTS_tAyLoR
      @caTS_tAyLoR 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you feel like you really wanna do it and It’s your dream then go for it and don’t take your friends advice, talk to your parents and tell him why you wanna do it calmly ofc! I am also in ninth grade and looking forward to doing an exchange year when I’m in 12th grade ❤ good luck with talking to them 🤍🤍

    • @Caitlish_
      @Caitlish_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heyy where are you from I can maybe help if you give me your snap!!

  • @NoctLightCloud
    @NoctLightCloud ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for most, money will be the biggest obstacle

    • @NoctLightCloud
      @NoctLightCloud 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dillan6188 Pay for it myself? You do realize that most underage kids don't have couple thousands € in their bank account, do you?

    • @PinkoWolfo
      @PinkoWolfo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@NoctLightCloudu should try out for a part time job, work every summer I hope u will go in the future :))

    • @Caitlish_
      @Caitlish_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@NoctLightCloudcalm down you don't have to be so argesssive but as you sound right now you sound really spoiled cuz my brother got together 2k in about 1-2 years cuz he worked his *** off

    • @Caitlish_
      @Caitlish_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@NoctLightCloudand there are also scholarships as she said in the video

  • @cece.ms123
    @cece.ms123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My mom thinks that 1 year is really long and she's scared that i'll be homesick. But i don't want to only do 6 months because i don't want to go back to school after 6 months in the US.

    • @sophiamaerzinger5956
      @sophiamaerzinger5956 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My mom really doesn‘t want me to do an exchange year at all… But she said if i would do one the 5 monts. But i talked to people and they said the got used to the surrondings and everything after about 3-4 months and then already leaving.. And it also almost costs the same… But my parents are also worried i might get homesick and i have no idea how to prove them wrong

    • @Caitlish_
      @Caitlish_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sophiamaerzinger5956say that you will but I know it changes after a few weeks/months maybe

  • @biankaszoko8676
    @biankaszoko8676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm curious about the ones who you left in your own country. how did they react? like, your friends, classmates etc.

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very good question. I think I will pick it up in more depth in a Q&A. Most of my family was really sad, my friends were sad too but also excited for me and wrote me lovely letters. It was quite a common thing to do. I think 5-10 people from my grade went to do exchange years so it was normal for my class mates. But everybody wanted to know about my experiences.

  • @infantryshooter
    @infantryshooter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    #6: Given the *rapidly rising price of food*, parents may actually SAVE money by spending the $13k required to send the child on exchange for ten months. 😉🤪

    • @marrymekittychicha7216
      @marrymekittychicha7216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The economy finally helps me out

    • @honey27003
      @honey27003  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hahaha you're actually right

    • @Elfieee13
      @Elfieee13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Imma tell my mom that lol

  • @K_pop223
    @K_pop223 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guys is it okay to go on a exchange year for a muslim??