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  • Tia and Tamera Mowry get to the root of their constant communication breakdowns. See the sisters' breakthroughs during their counseling sessions on "Tia & Tamera."
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  • @vickiharris
    @vickiharris 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +466

    Tamera hit the nail on the head for me and it made me tear up. "Ask me instead of assuming what my emotions are and when I answer you, believe me."

    • @AnAdorableWombat1
      @AnAdorableWombat1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I need to use this for myself and ways when others tell me things. I always assume and always question when someone tells me the answer.

    • @takimahowze
      @takimahowze 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Tamera is me!

    • @niseknotty6440
      @niseknotty6440 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@AnAdorableWombat1seriously I’m the same way and I realize it may stem from having trust issues I also feel that I can tell when someone is telling me something genuine and when they aren’t , but regardless it’s something to be worked on.

  • @Yeahisaiddatshit
    @Yeahisaiddatshit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    Tia is the blunt one and Tamera is the extremely sensitive one. That explains why they’re set of friends are different 😂

    • @SAlina-se9xq
      @SAlina-se9xq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Tia looks gorgeous during the counseling session

  • @trnigyul
    @trnigyul 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +133

    Tamera looks so beautiful with that braided crown hairstyle.

    • @michmex220
      @michmex220 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      She sure did ! I thought the same thing when I saw her hair like that

    • @nyaluv143
      @nyaluv143 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I agree

  • @emilylong5207
    @emilylong5207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    Everybody says tamera is too emotional but imagine expressing how you feel to your twin and she just doesnt seem to care because its not the way you want her to

  • @meron2221
    @meron2221 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    Tamera always walks away and doesn’t feel safe bc Tias gaslighting is top notch

    • @tyneshasmith9175
      @tyneshasmith9175 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Mine as well I feel Tia I she wants her feelings acknowledged as well💯💞

    • @musingsofharmony3159
      @musingsofharmony3159 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Seeing this in 2024...wow. Tia is giving narc vibes. Funny you said gaslighting.

    • @Charismaaron
      @Charismaaron 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      It’s narcissism

    • @MarkeySlaughter
      @MarkeySlaughter 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Y'all call anything narcissism. Being that I had a child with a real life one Tia is not being a narcissist whatsoever. Tamera is just sensitive as hell

    • @ghoyahakla9928
      @ghoyahakla9928 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@MarkeySlaughterGirllll, Tia has definitely had a lot of narcissistic tendencies and vibes for years. Just being honest. Tamera is great at expressing herself. Tia is great at projecting herself. Major difference.

  • @mlite30
    @mlite30 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    It seems like Tia finds it a lot easier to verbally express her emotions. Tamera seems more emotional, but finds verbally expressing those emotions difficult.

    • @AlienShomoe
      @AlienShomoe ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Tamera has no problem expressing her emotions, but if tia is not coming from a genuine place (which she doesn't sometimes) then it makes it difficult to communicate honestly and healthy, so she would rather not, which I completely understand. If we are not going to come to a conclusion and it becomes a pissing contest (which it does with tia) then I'm just wasting my breath, so i'll just ignore you.

    • @mlite30
      @mlite30 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@AlienShomoe Two things can be true, right? I think you’re correct in your assertion. Tamera has her reasons for not being able to communicate her perspective with her sister. Just from this clip, one of those reasons could have to do with not wanting to upset or emotionally hurt her sister. So, she will tiptoe around the point, rather than be direct.

    • @AlienShomoe
      @AlienShomoe ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@mlite30 Yes absolutely but Its not that Tamera Doesn't know how to communicate, tia does not make it safe for her to really express her emotions w/o some type of critique, because tia does not like being told she is wrong.I've watch a few of their arguments and anytime Tamera had a point tia would somehow cut the conversation short, or just flat out laugh in her face by making a joke. Hopefully she has grown since then, but during those years she was extremely immature, and emotionally abusive to her sister, and on top of Tamera already being extremely sensitive, I can kind of she why Tamera keeps her distance.

    • @shebbysavvas4200
      @shebbysavvas4200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I have the same problem. I can't express myself. I have no in between it's either too high or too low. No middle ground with me.

    • @YoYo-bx8wu
      @YoYo-bx8wu หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Look at them now.. Look at their marriages now.. When you know you know..

  • @milanimorales2645
    @milanimorales2645 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    This is 1000x better than Kardashians. Healthy relationships, real emotions, wholesome content. Please bring them back to reality television! Bad news sells better than good news which is why those drama filled reality shows may seem to do better. But I feel like I just learned healthier communication just by watching this. I know that doesn't substitute a real counseling session if I needed one. But this is much better content.

    • @user-nf6eq3ly6d
      @user-nf6eq3ly6d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      100% agreed wish they’d change all the bs production of today in general back to good quality

    • @ihavethots1261
      @ihavethots1261 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      tia is currently filming a solo show. hopefully tamera will make an appearance...

    • @ScorpioDiva1112
      @ScorpioDiva1112 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      we dont compare women over here

  • @Momogizibo
    @Momogizibo 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +148

    You guys do realize that they can just be two people with two different personalities without trying to demonize one….
    Tia is not terrible. They clearly have different levels of sensitivity, communication styles, humor and so forth. Tias not a bully or narcissist just because she may be more blunt

    • @karlissbridges1760
      @karlissbridges1760 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yeah cause they r still different people they just happen to be twins and look alike but they r different and its not wrong

    • @RM90855
      @RM90855 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      The problem is Tia disguised being “blunt” as being rude or disrespectful to try to get away with it and basically gaslight Tamera. That’s why Tamera said being real doesn’t give you a pass to be rude.
      Tia has a hard time taking accountability or apologizing for doing something wrong or hurting someone’s feelings. She’s almost always giving an excuse which isn’t just simply having a different personality.
      It’s narcissism.

    • @Momogizibo
      @Momogizibo 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @@RM90855 you guys throw around the word narcissism without understanding the word or what it truly means. Even licensed therapist don’t deem someone as that just from a few edited tv clips and if she WERE, their licensed therapist whose watching it unfold would’ve said it . Tia literally took accountability and said things such as “I didn’t know I was making you feel that way” and teared up about it. A narcissist isn’t gonna sit in therapy trying to genuinely work things out and get excited about building the relationship . Just because Tamera feels a way doesn’t make it a fact, and Tia explaining her feelings or perception of things doesn’t mean she’s gaslighting or making an excuse. They both have issues, Tamera isn’t an Angel and Tia isn’t a monster. They communicate and view the world differently and that’s perfectly fine, they’re working on it and they’re human.

    • @RM90855
      @RM90855 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Momogizibo obviously you can’t diagnose someone from tv clips from a reality show lol.
      And I never implied just because you do all those things you have to be a narcissist. But in many cases, they will actually “try” to work out problems because it makes them look like a good person. Also, Tia DID know that comment about the valley girl thing made Tamera feel offended but she blamed it on Tamera for not knowing she was joking instead of just apologizing. Tamera is her twin and knew she wasn’t joking. If you hurt someone’s feelings it doesn’t matter if you were joking - you simply apologize. You don’t blame them for being hurt. That’s wild.
      I don’t think Tia is a narcissist but she has narcissistic tendencies. Honestly a lot of us do but refuse to acknowledge it. Hers are just more apparent in these clips.

    • @Momogizibo
      @Momogizibo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@RM90855 so then that goes back to my point, Tia is genuinely trying to correct the relationship she has with her sister hence her sitting in therapy with her , a narcissist may try but a good licensed therapist would be able to see through it. To keep trying to demonize Tia for things a lot of regular humans do is absurd, especially when she’s clearly working on herself. Tamera herself said that the producers would purposely set things up for them to butt heads. They both have flaws, for some people the valley girl comment was clearly a joke and wasn’t that deep. It’s all about perception. Tamera clearly doesn’t think her sister is that bad so all of these comments coming at Tia when we’re only seeing short edited clips are a lot of the pot calling the kettle black and group mentality occurring because I’ve seen some issue Tamera has that no one points out.

  • @joybell995
    @joybell995 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I didn’t know twins could be so different and not understand eachother!! It hurts my heart!!

  • @valdizos
    @valdizos 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I love Tamera. She's always been my fav twin. Her energy just resonates with me. I saw a vid once where she said she felt sad bc the media/public perceived her as the goofy twin but to me she was always the sweet one.

    • @MS-pm7bt
      @MS-pm7bt 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Point proven just sensitive as hell 🙄 what’s wrong with being goofy?

  • @EyeHeartSUSHI
    @EyeHeartSUSHI 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Tia is an estp. Tamera is an esfj.. Tia wants to communicate from a logical standpoint. Tamera wants to communicate from an emotional standpoint. Tamera sees Tia as curt and rude.. Tia sees Tamera as emotionally manipulative.. They just need to meet each other halfway even if it's uncomfortable. ❤

    • @alluringconfidence481
      @alluringconfidence481 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      This was spot on !!

    • @sadagicousowens7217
      @sadagicousowens7217 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Finally, someone with some sense to all of this. Great highlights and points of view from both sides. I agree, meet in the middle even if it's uncomfortable for both. That's called integrity while overcoming selfishness. There were other good comments, but this one really hit the spot at the right time.

  • @Christadanielle3
    @Christadanielle3 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    They are literally the Same person that has two emotional responses to things ….this is veeerrryyyy interesting to me

    • @jamaicafox
      @jamaicafox 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Twins are not the same person

  • @rachelmartin5187
    @rachelmartin5187 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The one who acts like the victim is Tia IMO. She will make little catty remarks (disguised as jokes) and be overly blunt, to the point where she makes her sister cry, but the moment Tamera tries to speak up for herself, she's gaslited into thinking its her fault. An example that comes to mind is Tamera's wedding. Tamera asked Tia to be the MOH, Tia declined, but when Tamera chose a close friend to do it instead Tia decided to change her mind after said friend had done all the work. Tamera ended up making them co-moh's to keep the peace and so that Tia could have her way as usual.

    • @lindam4006
      @lindam4006 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You nailed it too. Tia is a classic narcissist.

    • @startracker5895
      @startracker5895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Nah Tamara is too sensitive! Lol

    • @kennyp1477
      @kennyp1477 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you! from what is shown from the show tia is a piece of work.

    • @kennyp1477
      @kennyp1477 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@startracker5895and tia is 2 blunt to the point she's mean.

    • @rachelmartin5187
      @rachelmartin5187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kennyp1477 Agreed! I know her ex was vain, but I don't think she was blameless in their divorce.

  • @Alladathings
    @Alladathings ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Definitely could see both sides, we all have inner work to do, it’s just magnified in relationships with other especially close ones like this Love them both 🩷🩵

  • @claranicole31
    @claranicole31 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Tamera has always been my favorite twin between the two of them because I can relate to her in every way. 🙂🙃

    • @morningstarbeautyshop9463
      @morningstarbeautyshop9463 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too

    • @ketket0725
      @ketket0725 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In present day I relate to both of them, but during this show’s run I was definitely on Tamera’s side 😆

    • @AJ50858
      @AJ50858 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too. I can't stand Tia. I think she is Jealous of/Competitive with Tia.

    • @user-pq2nv7lt8n
      @user-pq2nv7lt8n 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same

    • @brendaross3961
      @brendaross3961 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too.... ADORE Tamera!!

  • @catrelcathey2909
    @catrelcathey2909 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The third YAY had me hollering and then Cree looking at them like the WTH are they doing. That typical baby look that all babies do 😂😂

  • @KatrinaTheArtist
    @KatrinaTheArtist ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Tamera is so sweet 😢

  • @williamnuels9240
    @williamnuels9240 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Tamera is sweet heart and she Looooves her sister Tia needs to see her more

  • @AJ50858
    @AJ50858 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    There is a reason why Tamera was voted most likable TV personality a few years back. Tia not so much!!

  • @delvondra4861
    @delvondra4861 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Tia is the bully twin... she claims she joking.. but she isn't.. she tries to guilt Tamara on just about anything thing that she feels she's intitled to from Tamara no matter how it makes Tamara feel... which is selfish..Tia wants to be right and not accountable...

    • @startracker5895
      @startracker5895 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Both are annoying. Tamara tells Tia what to do a lot. Which would be grating.

    • @lindam4006
      @lindam4006 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You nailed it. Tia is a narcissist. I'm sure she bullied her ex husband & kids in the same ways. It shows up in almost all the videos I've seen.

    • @delvondra4861
      @delvondra4861 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@lindam4006 the way she treated Tamara during her wedding was horrible and the day that Tamara announced her new book was the day that Tia posted about her separation from husband 🧐🤨 Tia knew what that day was for her sister and still chose to upstage it somehow SMH

    • @aprotain863
      @aprotain863 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tamara seems to enjoy wanting overattentiveness. The problem is acknowledging the di fferences even though they are twins. Tia is not as sensitive.

    • @Angelface787877
      @Angelface787877 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@delvondra4861THIS

  • @misschanner7262
    @misschanner7262 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This show really showed me how self absorbed Tia is….

    • @Mari96109
      @Mari96109 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly !

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Let me say this first. I think both girls are awesome. Here’s my observation, Tam will tell Tia how She feels and Tia will just say “that’s not true”. What helped me with this was saying to the person what I thought they meant: “You are saying when I roll my eyes, you feel like I don’t care about how you feel?” And they would “Yes”. Then I would say, “I didn’t realize I was doing that, I’m sorry, it want happen again”. I mean it and I change my behavior. It’s not important for me to be Right; it’s important for Me to show the person that I Value them and our relationship. In addition, I have definitely seen Tam runaway but she does tell her how she feels first. Update: Running away is a coping mechanism to avoid blowing up in anger. Nothing wrong with that but you cool down and talk again at another time. If you don’t have a solution to the problem it will remain. If the person refuses to change, then the relationship will never get better. Regretfully, there are a lot of people who Never admit when they are wrong and refuse to change.

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why does Tia have to look at tamera like that. She is a bully. She has a very mean tone. She is an emotionally immature that is why tamera is crying. Not because she cant express herself is a manipulation.

    • @startracker5895
      @startracker5895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like what? They both roll their eyes at each other. It’s not like it’s just Tia all the time. Siblings are mean to each other. It’s normal.

  • @zulikashanaz
    @zulikashanaz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This is so cute 💛 I love that they showed them going to therapy

  • @t0nysilver.
    @t0nysilver. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    While watching this I can’t help but think we NEED a new twitches movie with them grown up!

  • @shannon331978
    @shannon331978 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Tamara spirit is so easy going

  • @baby_emoji-y50
    @baby_emoji-y50 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Damn twins and cancer, that must be draining af 😂

  • @feleciaactkinson
    @feleciaactkinson ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Tia comes off in a bad light. The looks she gives Tamera says a lot.

  • @TheCarlScharnberg
    @TheCarlScharnberg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Wow, I can really see Ariah in Tamera here. Never seen it before.

  • @mrsamaziin
    @mrsamaziin ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I wish this show would come back!!!

    • @pc6461
      @pc6461 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, so much had happened since then. Would love an inside look on what their lives are like now.

    • @THEDOORIZCLOSED
      @THEDOORIZCLOSED 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      No. They felt it was terrible for their relationship

    • @colette5413
      @colette5413 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think for the sake of their sisterhood it was best for the show to end. They both felt like it was detrimental to their relationship.

  • @JamaicanDeelite
    @JamaicanDeelite 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This was a great clip! Even twins can learn how to communicate better with each other😊

  • @veradarby7222
    @veradarby7222 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I think they have the added expectation and burden of twin thinking. They have thought that because they are twins, they should also have twin interaction behaviors. While being twins brings many similarities, they have to remember that they are individuals like any other siblings.

  • @Ediabar
    @Ediabar 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Tamera’s hair is beautiful!❤

  • @tashanapink7688
    @tashanapink7688 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is so interesting because on the Sister Sister, Tamera was the more blunt one. They literally made them switch personalities.

    • @AA-yc9dq
      @AA-yc9dq 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They said it was intended because it wouldnt have been a challenge for themselves if they did otherwise

  • @daj2699
    @daj2699 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This episode is also interesting considering they both went to college for psychology.

    • @joelpineda4414
      @joelpineda4414 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What?? What do you mean they both went to college??? Do they both have a minor in communication studies??? They both went to LA community college???!!! Like I thought they both have their own high school diplomas!!!

    • @colette5413
      @colette5413 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The both went to Pepperdine University

    • @joelpineda4414
      @joelpineda4414 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@colette5413 why??? And they both majored in communications?? How do they get through their own education and acting at the same time?!!??? Like how do they do that?? Acting and going to school at the same time?!!!

    • @daj2699
      @daj2699 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@joelpineda4414no they majored in history psychology and I’m sure they took breaks to do homework and go to class and stuff

  • @evesavoy4897
    @evesavoy4897 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tia was probably the dominant twin. Although Tamara has grown up, Tia's still treating her like they're still kids.

  • @Danishmediumvalentina
    @Danishmediumvalentina ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Two different people for sure.

    • @teri_p
      @teri_p ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Definitely not the same

    • @rachelmartin5187
      @rachelmartin5187 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That's one of the best things about the show tbh. It reminded us that just because these 2 are twins, doesn't mean they're the samw person.

    • @deebutterfly19
      @deebutterfly19 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Duh…..they ARE two different ppl. Did ya think twins had the same brain or?…

  • @ScorpioDiva1112
    @ScorpioDiva1112 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    They BOTH sound like valley girls tho

    • @karmabutterfly7985
      @karmabutterfly7985 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And yet Tia loves to disrespect Tamera and call her white in a negative way.

    • @katiem4539
      @katiem4539 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Valley girls are not only white, and also speaking a certain way has nothing to do with race

    • @mollyshaj.3888
      @mollyshaj.3888 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly! Idk who Tia thinks she sounds like

    • @JaiB-xr9fl
      @JaiB-xr9fl 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@katiem4539I'm sorry to tell you this but valley girls are synonymous with WW. Dialect/vernacular is a whole thing within the black culture(actually America) That's why Awkwafina was almost cancelled talking like she was black with AAVE.
      The whole valley girl started with rich WW. Think Paris Hilton. So for black ppl if you sound like that, you come off as white or at least less black. Because WW mainly talk like that. It does have to do with cultures and race. I know you feel like this should be a hand holding circle with all the races of the world but no it's not. This is a discussion about black authenticity and what that means.

    • @ScorpioDiva1112
      @ScorpioDiva1112 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@katiem4539 who said it was

  • @NolithaMfihlo
    @NolithaMfihlo ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm the Tamera type of cancer. I hate confrontation, I rather write you a text explaining how I feel.😫 i think that's something I need to work on. I'm a bit judgemental as well😫 I care what people think about me🌚

    • @aprillofton1410
      @aprillofton1410 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So me

    • @lisag.4054
      @lisag.4054 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you fix this 😂 I had to drop a longtime cancer friend for this. I’d be around her and could sense her energy was off, like she had a problem. I’d ask her what was up or wrong, she’d always keep saying “nothing, I’m good”… then as soon as I’d leave from around her I get a long text paragraph of her going off about how she really feels. That’s so childish when I was just sitting right next to you 20 mins ago. She made me not want to ever befriend another cancer again😂

    • @TDoubleYu
      @TDoubleYu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lisag.4054not all Cancers are like that… plus most people are pretty judgmental despite astrology

    • @mikanoel2953
      @mikanoel2953 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lisag.4054please don’t judge all cancers now that’s childish. Because for me I’m the type of cancer that will say how I feel right then and there. I’m not holding it in.

  • @brandonbowers2932
    @brandonbowers2932 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Besides their physical appearances, I can tell the twins apart just by listening to their voices. Tia’s voice is a little lower than Tamera’s.

  • @ketket0725
    @ketket0725 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Honestly I think Tia’s defensiveness was causing the communication block the whole time. If your sister says “I find that offensive, I don’t find that funny,” why does she need to also give you an essay on why?? Why not just stop?

    • @curtish.6900
      @curtish.6900 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tia's a drunk. That's the family secret.

    • @ketket0725
      @ketket0725 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@curtish.6900 👀 I’m a fan of BOTH Mowry sisters and unless you know them personally that kind of comment is just toxic. Even if you do know them personally…that’s just messy of you.

    • @curtish.6900
      @curtish.6900 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ketket0725 I'm a big fan of them too. However, she has self admitted her problems with alcohol. She said she used to "hide in the bathroom with wine to get away from her family" (look it up). Her quote. But glad that's the past now.

  • @simone2241
    @simone2241 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love these ladies! Love the episode! Very positive and resolution oriented.

  • @tyneshasmith9175
    @tyneshasmith9175 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's difficulties with communicational skills with everyone when it comes to understanding each other personally no family is perfect you both look great Twins keep up the great work 💯💞

  • @LKPRiSTiNE
    @LKPRiSTiNE 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I find this show very helpful. It's reality, it's what happens between family members. It's healthy ways of resolving conflict.

  • @feleciaactkinson
    @feleciaactkinson ปีที่แล้ว +51

    No accountability from Tia

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This would have been even better with an African American therapist that could relate to the culture and see through the manipulation.

    • @lindam4006
      @lindam4006 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I don't think race has anything to do with not seeing the manipulation.

    • @ShavonneSeven
      @ShavonneSeven ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly!! A black therapist definitely would have been more beneficial

    • @CocoChanelle-1
      @CocoChanelle-1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lindam4006 there are a lot of layers to this that didn’t come out. Like Tia has made fun of Tam in the past referring to her as a “Valley girl” personality like she’s not Really Black. The therapist was OK but not firing up and going deep like Iyanla would have. Did Tia support Tam when she was bullied for getting in an interracial marriage? Did Tia speak out on behalf of her sister or join in? You see what I mean? They need a 2.0 with a stronger therapist.

    • @JaiB-xr9fl
      @JaiB-xr9fl 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@CocoChanelle-1ooo iyanla as their therapist would've been so interesting!!!

  • @claranicole31
    @claranicole31 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I think that Tamera should go to individual counseling/therapy to find her voice and try to and use it she should also work on expressing her emotions openly. Tia is very strongly willed and opinionated. She seems like a bully low key to Tamera and I hate that for her. She definitely needs to do the total opposite from Tamera and go to counseling, learn how to listen to understand and be more empathetic.

  • @SS-xm1nd
    @SS-xm1nd 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When I use to watch sister sister Tia was the mature one to me the more serious one and Tamara was a goof ball and emotional and they are really that way I see in real life

  • @lcwatt7005
    @lcwatt7005 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Why is there so much hate for Tia i love both as the are i bet their sisterhood is fine

  • @CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF
    @CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HE SCREAMS N CRYS. JUST LIKE COREY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @moreofcedes
    @moreofcedes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Tam is my favorite

  • @justchilling2044
    @justchilling2044 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Love these 2 beauties ❤

  • @christycapers4715
    @christycapers4715 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I can't even believe Tamera brought up that "valley girl" joke in counseling 🤣

    • @slimtend4010
      @slimtend4010 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      If it hurt her feelings, then she should have. That's when empathy comes in from the other person. Understanding the feelings of another.

    • @jelissafrank5858
      @jelissafrank5858 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      As someone who has had to code switch to survive in predominately white schools and then in High School being thrusted into a predominately black school. I was made fun of the way I talked constantly and it messes with your head it seems small but it makes you feel like you’re not black enough.

    • @startracker5895
      @startracker5895 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@slimtend4010it wasn’t even that offensive. Tamara is overly sensitive to the point of annoyance! 🙄

    • @totallyrandomtee8771
      @totallyrandomtee8771 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@startracker5895no it could have been offensive to her. Tamera is always talked about for “not being black enough” so to have her own sister and her twin no less to joke about something like that is hurtful

    • @NolithaMfihlo
      @NolithaMfihlo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True Cancerian fashion😂😂I'm like that as well😫you'll think you're joking with me but I'm over-analysing the whole thing. "How did you come up with that joke" 😂😂

  • @janai9868
    @janai9868 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Tamera is sweet but i think she's too sensitive. She seems to me, when she's wrong, she goes straight to the tears instead of taking a beat and acknowledging she may be wrong and accept it ❤

    • @teri_p
      @teri_p ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly I totally agree im a Cancer too but if I'm wrong I damn sure not gonna be crying I'm going to communicate. Tamera too damn sensitive

    • @MrDancerHilson007
      @MrDancerHilson007 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Im a cancer and I definitely see their personality like mine I’m very str8 forward but very sensitive

    • @serritawatkins8113
      @serritawatkins8113 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's funny cause Adam was on the real and said the same thing about Tamera and she laughed so hard

    • @serritawatkins8113
      @serritawatkins8113 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@teri_pbut when Adamn was on the real and said the same thing about Tamera she laughed so hard. She just being doing too much sometimes especially when it comes to Tia.

    • @teri_p
      @teri_p ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@serritawatkins8113 Exactly she be going overboard

  • @dtagdoesnttakeagenius1934
    @dtagdoesnttakeagenius1934 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    They are adorable

  • @MJ-mp1dh
    @MJ-mp1dh ปีที่แล้ว +17

    People always say things are jokes when they want to be ugly to someone. Like the saying goes behind a joke is a little truth. This show when it came on really showed their personalities. I'll just say it turned me off to Tia.

    • @startracker5895
      @startracker5895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And sometimes it’s just a joke! Lol

    • @JovianEmpress
      @JovianEmpress 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@startracker5895 agreed. Sometimes, it's just a joke

  • @mo6live
    @mo6live 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This was such a good show

  • @LawLeeP0P
    @LawLeeP0P 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Word of the day: communicate

  • @angelicamurry4270
    @angelicamurry4270 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love Tamera ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @attiyabukhari1418
    @attiyabukhari1418 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been watching for a time especially when you done a reality show with your cute babies

  • @AAOFIT
    @AAOFIT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG this episode reminds me of my husband and I, I’m Tamera and he’s Tia

  • @thelovelykimmi7920
    @thelovelykimmi7920 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed to see this. I have a sister and sometimes we have trouble communicating too

  • @user-mt5bu7wq4o
    @user-mt5bu7wq4o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤love beat fast!!😂

  • @artbyomni515
    @artbyomni515 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So cute

  • @rebeccabutcher5793
    @rebeccabutcher5793 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg I teared up when Tamera did 🥺

  • @abel7519
    @abel7519 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It does feel that Tia nit picks at Tamera too much. Bc she does it often it doesn't come across well.

  • @yolandamathena3312
    @yolandamathena3312 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I understand what Tia is saying and I understand what Tamera is saying i love writing my emotions not saying them out loud. Writing them is healing for me so I prefer to email and text people how I feel I do no like f2f about my emotions. Tamera has a right to safely communicate how she feels.

  • @Hernameis994
    @Hernameis994 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    it's crazy that tia is younger

  • @sra_the_librarian
    @sra_the_librarian 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel like they aren’t that close anymore. I hope I’m wrong cuz I love them

    • @ebonylady
      @ebonylady 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well, they have separate lives. Tamara married a successful journalist so she can rest in her feminine quality whereas Tia basically married down and was always worried about not working. It would be very difficult for them to see eye to eye.

  • @mmuller8566
    @mmuller8566 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shanikaayanna9767
    @shanikaayanna9767 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    It’s very easy to see Tamera as the one who is being “bullied” and Tia as the “bully” based on their personality and how they display emotion.
    However, Tamera is very judgmental. Her telling Tia “if you’re happy with the way your life is going, fine” is judgmental and passive aggressive.
    They both needed to do better.

    • @daj2699
      @daj2699 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Exactly finally someone who gets it

    • @beautymarkedkollectiontv7487
      @beautymarkedkollectiontv7487 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I definitely agree with that dynamic they both struggle to communicate and set boundaries.

    • @ketket0725
      @ketket0725 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She did that cause Tia was low key throwing shade about her career and work ethic

    • @aprillofton1410
      @aprillofton1410 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@ketket0725that part and she threw that in her face constantly

    • @shaysilence
      @shaysilence ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@ketket0725agreed. She literally told her she’s not a mom so basically just void her advice completely. Even tho she was simply trying to think of solutions for Tia’s problems. Tamera’s response was reactive to Tia being mean. Of course she’s passive aggressive cause she can’t get a word in.

  • @Linda_Arie
    @Linda_Arie 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Got To Love Those Twins 🤗🥰😁

  • @clovebooksdiva
    @clovebooksdiva ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I watch this?

  • @Ronaldo-f3j
    @Ronaldo-f3j หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God if this ain't me & my sister😂

  • @ryanarmour6127
    @ryanarmour6127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not a twin but I have two cousins that is male twins and they are totally opposite from each other because one of them are calm and the other one doesn't mind having fun,and I been around them toget,her but they have each other back,no matter what,Kam and Kyle.

  • @ryanbell3917
    @ryanbell3917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tamera still looks like when they where young but tia have the adult version of them

  • @THATBOIPURR
    @THATBOIPURR 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man Tamera made me tear up

  • @virginiaparedes1077
    @virginiaparedes1077 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I follow Tamera and husband Adam. ✋👍👍👍👍🌈🧚🏼🦋🥰😊🥰🙏🇪🇨🙏💥

  • @user-bz6oz6gt6q
    @user-bz6oz6gt6q หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Are they not too beautiful ? I love them because they always try to make things work.

  • @dreamqueen317
    @dreamqueen317 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t like the idea of showing these sisters go back in fourth with each other. I love them, let them be.

    • @naomid3702
      @naomid3702 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I sort of agree, I mean it was their choice to do the show. I'm not sure if I like the idea of resurfacing these clips. I couldn't help but click due to the nostalgia. But I remember watching their reality show in the early 2010's on TV before social media took off. In today's world, everyone can have an opinion on the dynamics of their relationship and who's better than the other. There's no way Tamera could handle this show in todays world where she can see people calling her sensitive all the time. Being on "The Real" and hearing peoples opinions was even a lot for her. The twins had disagreements all the damn time on their reality show, but man do they love each other. As someone with a sister, I get it. I was always a fan of both of their work but I can understand someone being a fan of one sister over the other, they're two different people so it makes sense. But as you said, let them be. It's just sad how people try to put sisters against each other, I see it with Chole & Halle a lot these days.

  • @tishmcclendon8777
    @tishmcclendon8777 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    One has all the emotions and the other has none. Like an empath narcissist relationship 😢

  • @user-mt5bu7wq4o
    @user-mt5bu7wq4o ปีที่แล้ว

    Better do mistake!!😂😂😂

  • @xxxmickyxxx3
    @xxxmickyxxx3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Tia is a narcissist. The show showed it and what she did last year too

    • @JordanMarsh1
      @JordanMarsh1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did she do last year?

    • @xxxmickyxxx3
      @xxxmickyxxx3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@JordanMarsh1 shes just seems like shes all about herself. The day of tameras book release, she decided to announce her divorce within an hour of the book going on sale. She never bothered to even promote her own sisters book despite the fact her brothers did and tamera promoted tias hair products. It's just my observation but I've read similar comments where ppl have said the same about tia

    • @ScorpioDiva1112
      @ScorpioDiva1112 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@xxxmickyxxx3yeah that definitely wasn’t nice of her.. plus she’s gaslighting tamera in the therapy session “I wasn’t making fun of you that’s your perception of me”

    • @ltmagirl87
      @ltmagirl87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ScorpioDiva1112well she was just joking with her as she rightfully said…why do y’all have to dig deep into Tia’s personality to make her look like a bad person, geeesh

    • @ltmagirl87
      @ltmagirl87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@xxxmickyxxx3we don’t know what these girls discussed and reason to why they both had their announcement same day…so y’all need to stop 🛑…also, they both don’t really promote each other’s stuff…I’ve noticed that they don’t even @ each other too often…
      Let’s be clear, Tamera has always wanted to have her own identity outside of twins, and I think Tia is just respecting that space

  • @Swimininmonet
    @Swimininmonet 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel like Corey speaks to Tia in a way that Tia speaks to Tamara.

  • @ChloeYoung-rq8ni
    @ChloeYoung-rq8ni 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Y’all messy for uploading these lol we see why they didn’t do more seasons. Clearly needed to heal in private

  • @simsimg264
    @simsimg264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tamera is no better than Tia.. just because she cries it doesn't mean shes not as dismissive as Tia can be.. shes draining and can also be selfish..

  • @dianerogers2645
    @dianerogers2645 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There beautiful black women/twins I use 2 watch there acting all the time as they were blossoming into adult 😊

  • @CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF
    @CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    LADIES LUV. COREY. LUV BRO❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Mari96109
    @Mari96109 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tia seems to get angry if God forbid Tamera disagrees with her. Shes very bossy towards tamera .

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      YES

  • @glowwe_1st
    @glowwe_1st ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls is this recent or their recordings from previous years?

    • @MikeyJae777
      @MikeyJae777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is old. This is from 2012

    • @AA-yc9dq
      @AA-yc9dq 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did you see that old azz iPhone? 😂

  • @sjbenson5618
    @sjbenson5618 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    E Entertainment is their a chance that cbs can do a original charmed movie?

  • @IntheMidwithDom
    @IntheMidwithDom 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    12:47 Tia is straight up gaslighting her. Tamara said in that moment “I’m offended because I’m black” and Tia just kept going, justifying her position. Watching this clips are interesting

    • @AJGrey-bo1ry
      @AJGrey-bo1ry วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tamara is NOT black…😂😂😂😂 Tia hit home with the joke because it was a read.

  • @AnAdorableWombat1
    @AnAdorableWombat1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely adore Tamera! She reminds me so much of myself. BUT, she is too sensitive and judgmental at times (like myself😕). I understand her wanting to worry about her twin's career but, her twin has to support her family. Tia had a husband who could watch Cree while she worked. Sometimes Tamera can come off as, I wouldn't say rude because she's extremely sweet, but a little inconsiderate. I hope they kept up going to therapy because it is very helpful in fixing relationships.

  • @Seana15
    @Seana15 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tamera is just a freaking crybaby. When she gets called out she crys. I feel bad for Tia. Her sister always make her feel like the bad guy, instead of both apologizing and moving forward. Tia did take accountability for making fun of Tamera's voice. Tamera always wants to be right. Her bestfriend Andrea was always the problem because whenever Tamera and Tia would argue, Tamera would go vent to Andrea and she would give Tamera bad advice. Andrea literally made Tamera confront Tia in a bar and it wasn't even a good time to do that. Tia is such a sweet loving kind person and has always been my favorite out of the two. Tia seems more genuine and down to earth. Tamera is rude and she only cares about herself to be honest. She treats her sister like garbage on the show. She always wants to cry her way out of things.

  • @Hi.Im.Lovely
    @Hi.Im.Lovely วันที่ผ่านมา

    Alex and cami in therapy, that’s all I see I’m sorry 😂

  • @YaaAgubyKete
    @YaaAgubyKete ปีที่แล้ว +16

    These 2 talk around in circles too much lol

  • @serpentserpent9308
    @serpentserpent9308 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    @12:14 - Tia (w/out mole) saying her sister sounds valley 🤨 They sound the same.

  • @IntheMidwithDom
    @IntheMidwithDom 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    5:25 Tia thinking Tamara was passing her the tissue when Tamara is the one crying says a lot to me…

  • @richardsestito4254
    @richardsestito4254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think tia is very selfish because everything is about her her twin is very smart and make her family first I respect her tia get your life together 😅

  • @samuelbennie7690
    @samuelbennie7690 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tamera on the “Valley Girl” part. I think Tamera has probably been judged by people on how she speaks possibly and it hit a nerve. Totally understandable. It was all in her body language. Now seeing how people separate them and say things relating to personality.