అమ్మ మీరు చెబుతున్నది 100% కరెక్ట్ కానీ కొడుకుని గాలికి వదిలేసి ఏ న్యాయం చెయ్యలేని వాళ్ళు కొడుకు కోడలు కస్టపడి ఒక రకంగా ఉన్నప్పుడు మా మీద పడి ఏడుస్తున్నారు నేను నా భర్త ఈరోజు వాళ్ళది ఒక రూపాయి తినలా 15 years gaa నరకం చూస్తున్న అమ్మ నేను
మీరు చెప్పింది అక్షర సత్యం .మా ఒక్కగానొక్కబాబు అమెరికాలో వున్నాడు.మాది లో మీడీల్ క్లాస్ ఫామిలి. మా వారు సెంట్రల్ గవర్నమెంట్ లో చిరుద్యోగి .పరిస్తితులు సరిలేక పెళ్ళి కూడాచాలా లేటుగా జరిగింది మాకు ఎటుప్రక్కనీండి కూడా పెద్దలనుండి వచ్చింది లేకపోగా వాళ్ళబాధ్యతలు మోశాము.బాబు 8వ తరగతిలో వుండగా మావారు రిటైర్ అయ్యారు .నెను కూడా చిరు జీతం సంపాదించేదాన్ని .ఇద్దరం బాబుఅడీగనవన్నీ ఇస్తూనే బాధ్యత వాడికి తెలిసేలాగా పెంచాము .క్రమశిక్షణ వుంది ఎక్స్ పోజింగ్ వుండేలా చూశాము మెము సంపాదించిన ఒక్క స్థలాన్ని బాంకులో తాకట్టుపెట్టి అమెరికాకు M.Sకు పంపాము మెరిట్ వుండటంతో 50%స్కాలర్ షిప్ వచ్చింది అక్కడ.ఇప్పుడు 90k శాలరీ .సంవత్సరన్నరలో ఎడ్యుకేషన్ లోన్ తీర్చగలిగాము .ఇంతవరకూ బాబు బాధ్యతగానే వున్నాడు .మమ్మల్ని ఎప్పుడెప్పుడు అమెరికా తీసుకెళ్ళడానీకి చూస్తాడు .కరోనా అవరోధమైంది మళ్ళీ డిసెంబర్ చివరకి టీక్కెట్ బుక్ చెశాడు .మేము హేపీ .కారు కొన్నాడు అక్కడ మెము వస్తామని .మా పెంపకం మీద మాకునమ్మకం మా బాబు పెళ్ళి అయినా ఎవరికిచ్చె ప్రాధాన్యత వాళ్ళకిస్తాడని .పిల్లలను పెంచేక్రమంలో పెద్దలు బాధ్యతతాయుతంగా వుంటే ఆడపీల్లలైనాామగపిల్లలైనా మంచిగానే పెరుగుతారు .పిల్లలు స్వార్ధంగా ప్రవర్తీస్తున్నారంటే తల్లితండ్రుల పెంపకమే కారణం అని మేము నమ్ముతాము .పిల్లలు తాము చూసినదే నేర్చుకుంటారు .ముందు పెద్దలు మంచిగా వుండాలి ,
Case to case different, I completely support my husband in giving material to parents and brothers, but on the other side I gave my salary money to my husband only not to my parents, they never expected also... My MIL family only very insecured to DIL....
For maintaining healthy relationship between the persons one should not have predominating mindset among one another. And cristal clear financial understanding maintainces the harmonious atmosphere in the family.
Meelanti learned persons cheppadam valla naina kontha mandi ki aina kanuvippu kalugutundani hope cheddam. Very well said madam.. most of the people r thinking only one sided. Parents gurinchi intha baga evaru think chestunnaru. Plz give ur valuable opinions like this topics madam
When all MIL and SIL are not bad... Then all daughter in laws are also not bad... There are so many girls who is sacrificing their life for husband and his family.....
As a mother she has given her point of view and expressed her felling it's absolutely right many kids simply abandon there parents in old age and no ke takes care of them even financially it's son's duty to support the father after all they have raised them it's there responsibility toady daughter in law wants only in-laws money but don't want the burden of having in laws
@@lalithareddy106 ledu madam.... andaru Manchi vallu ani nammutanu Lot of problematic mothers in laws talk the way you talk Always focused on bad daughter in laws... Never have a positive mind set on daughter in laws Gossip a lot about daughter in laws Always want their sons and daughter in laws in control of them
👏 very true. Meeru annattu andaru ala ardam cheskovalani korukuntunnanu. Good things always come back but it takes years to wait. I am very 😊😊😊 to see u who thinks like me exactly.
Hi Friends! It’s all about upbringing of your children well! I mean it’s not about getting ranks in school and college! Or about studying in top grade institutes! It’s about telling them what is right and wrong! Vichakshana gnanam! Respecting each other’s parents and looking after them when they need their children should be inbuilt for a husband wife! Anduke mana peddalu annaru- Chaduvu - Samskaram rendu undaali ani! Andarilo!!
Amma what u said absolutely correct.but kothaga vatchina ammayiki balanced family gurunchi manchiga ardamayelaga cheppe 100 percent badyatha abbayidi.endukante ammay absolutely chinnadi age lo abbaykante .and iddariki same responsibilities equal ga 2 family patla share undali .ammay kada motham in-law s ne choodali anukokunda equal ammay parents kuda priority isthe e godava undaru endukante ammay kuda chaduvukuntundi valla parents kuda dabbule pedtharu katnam itchi gold petti Pelli chestharu mari valla parsthithi ela madam.iddariki samanamina responsibilities undali.appudu elanti problem undadu evarikina.main ga future ni dristi lo pettukoni values ethics nerpali pillalaki.appude e society bagupadutundi.but today parents kaneesham peddavallaki wish cheyali ane minimum values nerpinchadam ledu.ade mana present parents culture.
Nenu kuda chustuna aunty, ma friends lo chala mandi ( almost andaru) in laws ni separate family ga chustaru. Konthmandi in-laws valla suffer aye vallu untaru but still kodallu atta gari lo amma ni chusukunte problem undadu. Alage attagaru kuda kodali lo kuturu ni chusukunte baguntundi. Iddaru abbayilu unna family lu ayite inka darunam. Luckily I don’t have any differences with my in laws. They have every right on my husband and I respect them same as I do for my parents. They are now my family . I am not part of their family or they are not part of my family - but we feel like we are family so we are happy. Kashtam, Sukham anni panchukuntunam.
Madan you are right, Very important subject to think Nice topics ne analysis chasthunaru No body ,& no programs in electrical Media talk about these sensetive Relationship Openion tho matter kadhu Discussion about topics You are really great
Mam what you have said is 100% true I have put a comment 7 months back I came to your parlour at b hills 5 yrs back you had some balance with you I don't want money just reminding you mam I came 2 times
Adi marriage fix chesukunetappudu matladukovali mam kani avi kuda thapputharu. Appude start avutundi godavalu. Maku matram loans anni clear chesi money iste luxury ga vuntaru memu ikkada yenno ibbndulu padi save chestam. Anni thagginchukuntam karchulu kani money vepinchukoni parents ani avvachesi yem icharu meeru ante yenti mam. Marriage chesukunetappudu sampadiche vallu sampadana vunna vallane chesukunte yem problem vundadu. Okadu sampadichali andaru enjoy cheyali plus vuriki vaste valla money yedo thintunatlu level kodatharu.
Enduku teledhu andi, ekkada memu full 10 hrs work chesukuni unna holidays kuda sick offs ki save chesi kasta padutunn, memu sinple life lead chestu unte, akkada ma inlaws monthly sarees oka chira konukunte ok, aka suit csse sarees, 6 months ki oka sari edo mysore maharani laaga 3 lakhs appu cheseyadam memu tirchukodam,, meerh one sidd telekunda matladakandi
Meerannadi nijam Na chinnathammudu USA ne nenu akka assalu aaasapadam naannaki amma naannaki vaalle pamputhanu ala ani naanna vichala vidiga kharchi cheyyaru ...madhyatharagathi vaallame..avasaram inappudu peddathammudiki bagane cheesadu..maradalu manchidi
Very interesting topic . Parents should simultaneously plan for their old-age . Reverse mortgage of the property they are living should become more popular in our country .
It is ideal if parents save for their own retirements instead of paying donations or selling properties for kid's education. There is chance that they will take them for granted. Only help children if they ask for or genuinely need support. In nature, children only need parent's love and care to stand on their own feet, and parent's need shelter, love and care at old ages .Unfortunately everything is becoming monetary these days!
Parents ni better ga chusukovali anukovtam pillala samskaram. Pillalanunchi emi aasinchakunda slefless ga cheytam peddala samskaram . E rendu balance lenappudu problems tappavu. Flight lo emergency landing appuudu first adult ni oxygen mask pettukuni, next help kids antaru. Same logic applies in life too, think about your retirement goals and self first before exhausting yourself! Stay blessed everyone .Life is giving us so many opportunities and luxuries compared to previous generations. We should be grateful for all that instead of creating problems because of that.
.మీరు చెప్పేది నూటికి నూరు శాతం నిజం మేడం....ఏ విషయంఅయినా ఎంతో సున్నితంగా...అందంగా చెబుతారు...మీరు పరిచయం అయినందుకు నేనెప్పుడూ గర్వంగా...సంతోషంగా ఫీల్ అవుతానండి...
Usa lo enta vastundhi amdi oka 100k salary vaste, ttaxes snni piyi maku oka 5k vastundhi mo thi ki , enni expenses, activities ki month ki oka 1000$ , mortgsges, auto loans,... mo th ki oka restaurant ki velle scend kuda ledhu. Abbayi la parents ela unnaru ante appu chesi pampistaru, loan varaku ckear chese responsibility undhi, inka mo th ko oka 10,000 or 20,0000 iste baane untundhi. Ala kadhu asalu maku migalakunda mottam laagesukuntaru
That is ny choice, i can work nd live where ever i want. The message we wanted to say is just bcoz we live in usa doesnt mean people are rich and relatives in Indua can expect expensive gifts and Mother in laws expect us to send money for unnecessary luxuries India lo unte epatiki suicide chesukune danni woth my inlaws side family tho. 2 years ki okasari vaste ne vachhina holidays lo inko 3 years varaku meme kittukune snni godavalu oettin psmpisysru
Madam , whatever you said right but please think about families working hard in USA! They have to manage Family in USA n indian things! Even though we take good care of in-laws , they still expect a lot , they think that we are money making machines, they need only money but we all expect some love in return but still we don’t get any fair love ! Please don’t make any statements one side madam , you don’t know out side world how people are dying for money! Every nice human being always think to tc of their parents but if the parents expect only money then what anyone can do ! And what about girl parents, they also worked hard to give good education to their daughters , who will take care of them , our marriage system itself is very bad , I like Americans, at least they don’t have girl -boy differences n dowry system , everyone are independent here !
Mam... Even girls parents will give education to her... Then after marriage who has to look after her parents... No one right.... They will spend lots of money on us from our birth to marriage... But after that if we have to give money to parents we have to take permission from husband family... Y don't u guys talk about this.... Nowadays not only for boys, for girls also parents are giving equal education.... Even girls are earning and giving to their in-laws family.....
Hi mam.anty money anedi enta rich ki ayina enta poor ki ayina chala important.momma covi19 situation chuskunty pedda country chinna country ani teda ledu.eppudu inlaws ki ayina valla sufficient pension vastunappudu manaki antaa alochinchi vallaki money ivvadam enduku ani na opinion mam.if particular reason meeda depend ayyi vuntadi.miru cheppindi nijam Ikkada western countries lo vunna valla deggara teskoni waste chestunna vallu chala examples nenu chusanu.
Avnu maa chaala correct. Dabbulu teesukunte maakem problem ledu maa. But husband teliviga iddariki cheppukogaligitey chaalu maa. Neekenti maa intlo vaallaki iste nuvvevvaru question cheyyataaki anakoodadu maa. Mem kooda jobs chestunnam kada maa salaries kooda teesesukuntaru gaa🤨
Many parents want their children to go abroad and then how will their children take care of them ? Life abroad is very difficult you get money ,but other wise lot dfficult
Topic vinandi adi mana situation daggaraga unte andulo una manchi tesukundam Madem video oka topic meda nadustundi adi debate cheyakandi divert cheyakandi Vini manam adi entavaraku ardam chesukogalamo adi alochiste manchidi
.emiii theliyani idhharu parents annii valla ke thelisinatlu wrong parenting chesthu goppa parents la feel avvatam..thinakoodanivi pettadam,,akkarlenivi koneyyatam, yedo angels laga,spl kids leda wonder kids ma pillalu ane level lo...bad supporting okati..thappu chesthe and andhari mundu cover cheskotam...inkeppudu thelusthundi pillalu ki manchi chedu..future generation ippudu kanna ghoramga weak ga mentally sick ga vundabothondi...manchi parents kooda vunnaru.but bayata ki thakkuva ga valla pillalu ni kalipithe better..social ga vunchali anna ippudu bhayamga vundi
అమ్మ మీరు చెబుతున్నది 100% కరెక్ట్ కానీ కొడుకుని గాలికి వదిలేసి ఏ న్యాయం చెయ్యలేని వాళ్ళు కొడుకు కోడలు కస్టపడి ఒక రకంగా ఉన్నప్పుడు మా మీద పడి ఏడుస్తున్నారు నేను నా భర్త ఈరోజు వాళ్ళది ఒక రూపాయి తినలా 15 years gaa నరకం చూస్తున్న అమ్మ నేను
Vallu matram kuturlani chusukoni koduklni kodalni pattinchukoru kani avaram vaste cheyadanki matram kodalu kavali kani vallu koduku pillani pattinchukoru .kodali ni chinna chupu chustaru .
Fantastic advice madam
Ground level today's generations attitude.
Thank you maa.
Very usefull message. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Well said. Girls escape by saying it is only sons responsibility. It equal responsibility for both son and daughter for old parents
Ur Like modern mom. Ull think from both the sides... I like u so much... Ur attitude ur way of expressing ur thoughts... Very nice
Yes... U r correct. I learned so many things from u.....
మీరు చెప్పింది అక్షర సత్యం .మా ఒక్కగానొక్కబాబు అమెరికాలో వున్నాడు.మాది లో మీడీల్ క్లాస్ ఫామిలి. మా వారు సెంట్రల్ గవర్నమెంట్ లో చిరుద్యోగి .పరిస్తితులు సరిలేక పెళ్ళి కూడాచాలా లేటుగా జరిగింది మాకు ఎటుప్రక్కనీండి కూడా పెద్దలనుండి వచ్చింది లేకపోగా వాళ్ళబాధ్యతలు మోశాము.బాబు 8వ తరగతిలో వుండగా మావారు రిటైర్ అయ్యారు .నెను కూడా చిరు జీతం సంపాదించేదాన్ని .ఇద్దరం బాబుఅడీగనవన్నీ ఇస్తూనే బాధ్యత వాడికి తెలిసేలాగా పెంచాము .క్రమశిక్షణ వుంది ఎక్స్ పోజింగ్ వుండేలా చూశాము మెము సంపాదించిన ఒక్క స్థలాన్ని బాంకులో తాకట్టుపెట్టి అమెరికాకు M.Sకు పంపాము మెరిట్ వుండటంతో 50%స్కాలర్ షిప్ వచ్చింది అక్కడ.ఇప్పుడు 90k శాలరీ .సంవత్సరన్నరలో ఎడ్యుకేషన్ లోన్ తీర్చగలిగాము .ఇంతవరకూ బాబు బాధ్యతగానే వున్నాడు .మమ్మల్ని ఎప్పుడెప్పుడు అమెరికా తీసుకెళ్ళడానీకి చూస్తాడు .కరోనా అవరోధమైంది మళ్ళీ డిసెంబర్ చివరకి టీక్కెట్ బుక్ చెశాడు .మేము హేపీ .కారు కొన్నాడు అక్కడ మెము వస్తామని .మా పెంపకం మీద మాకునమ్మకం మా బాబు పెళ్ళి అయినా ఎవరికిచ్చె ప్రాధాన్యత వాళ్ళకిస్తాడని .పిల్లలను పెంచేక్రమంలో పెద్దలు బాధ్యతతాయుతంగా వుంటే ఆడపీల్లలైనాామగపిల్లలైనా మంచిగానే పెరుగుతారు .పిల్లలు స్వార్ధంగా ప్రవర్తీస్తున్నారంటే తల్లితండ్రుల పెంపకమే కారణం అని మేము నమ్ముతాము .పిల్లలు తాము చూసినదే నేర్చుకుంటారు .ముందు పెద్దలు మంచిగా వుండాలి ,
Case to case different, I completely support my husband in giving material to parents and brothers, but on the other side I gave my salary money to my husband only not to my parents, they never expected also... My MIL family only very insecured to DIL....
Thanks 😊 a million Ma'am for the awesome message oriented video
Stay Blessed 😇
Well said
For maintaining healthy relationship between the persons one should not have predominating mindset among one another. And cristal clear financial understanding maintainces the harmonious atmosphere in the family.
Agree with you andi...Root cause of all problems is not being transparent in family matters among family members including financial planning
True andi, chala families lo minimum understanding kuda vundadhu
Meelanti learned persons cheppadam valla naina kontha mandi ki aina kanuvippu kalugutundani hope cheddam. Very well said madam.. most of the people r thinking only one sided. Parents gurinchi intha baga evaru think chestunnaru. Plz give ur valuable opinions like this topics madam
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ఎంత బాగా చెప్పారు అమ్మ. మీరు చెప్పేది చాలా కరెక్ట్.
When all MIL and SIL are not bad... Then all daughter in laws are also not bad... There are so many girls who is sacrificing their life for husband and his family.....
Yes, i agree with you, kodaliki matrame atta maama members kaakudadu, alludi ki kooda atta maama family members ane rojulu ravali
Chaala correct madam meeru cheppindhi.....parents padina kashtam lmarchipovadhu...
Mee kuthurini chesukone athanu in-laws lucky endhukante ivanni mee amayiki cheppi pencharu
Excellent
As a mother she has given her point of view and expressed her felling it's absolutely right many kids simply abandon there parents in old age and no ke takes care of them even financially it's son's duty to support the father after all they have raised them it's there responsibility toady daughter in law wants only in-laws money but don't want the burden of having in laws
Very well said!! Every daughter in law should think the way you think then families will be cloud nine...
Anni familieslo pramblams unnay .meeru parent's gurinche matladaru .vachina kodalini intomemberganechudalikada .kodalini kuda intlomemberga chudatledu anduke elanty problems vastunnay. Thanks sister.
Na old videos chudandi ma nageswari
Maree personal ga thisukunnavu suhasini
@@lalithareddy106 ledu madam.... andaru Manchi vallu ani nammutanu
Lot of problematic mothers in laws talk the way you talk
Always focused on bad daughter in laws...
Never have a positive mind set on daughter in laws
Gossip a lot about daughter in laws
Always want their sons and daughter in laws in control of them
Madam all most mee vedeos anni chustanu madam . recentga my number change chesanu.
This also applies for daughters not only sons
Good massage madam
Exactly meeru cheypadhi 100%correct,
Madam mari amai parents sangathi enti?.. abai ni penchinatte amai ni penchuthunaru... chadivisthunaru.. jobs vachaka earn chesthunapudu pelli chesi aasthi kuda isthunaru... mari vaallani evaru chusukovali? vaallaki lekapoinaa appu chesi chestharu pelli ..amai dabbulu amma vaallu thesukovadhu ane rule mathram nyayama? mari abai dabbulu enduku aashistharu ? idharikii idhari parents ni chusukune right untundi kada?
Ur right
Good topic mam baga artam Ayyela Cheppyaru pillolla ki thq so much mam
Wonderful 100% true
👏 very true. Meeru annattu andaru ala ardam cheskovalani korukuntunnanu. Good things always come back but it takes years to wait. I am very 😊😊😊
to see u who thinks like me exactly.
Nice explanation
Meeru koduku thallini,bharyanu ballance cheyagaligithey chala correct ga cheypparu
A kutumbham anandamayam
Kodaru oka side alochinchi mimmalni comment cheysthunnaru
Yekkuva bhagam annaruga adi cent percent nijam
Manchi kodallu unnaru
Kani valla gurinchi ekkada topic
Meeremi kodallaku vyathireki kaduga
Meeru Anni topics theesukotaruga .namasthey
Hi Friends! It’s all about upbringing of your children well! I mean it’s not about getting ranks in school and college! Or about studying in top grade institutes! It’s about telling them what is right and wrong! Vichakshana gnanam! Respecting each other’s parents and looking after them when they need their children should be inbuilt for a husband wife! Anduke mana peddalu annaru- Chaduvu - Samskaram rendu undaali ani! Andarilo!!
Good mam...
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Madam chala bagaa chepparu
Amma what u said absolutely correct.but kothaga vatchina ammayiki balanced family gurunchi manchiga ardamayelaga cheppe 100 percent badyatha abbayidi.endukante ammay absolutely chinnadi age lo abbaykante .and iddariki same responsibilities equal ga 2 family patla share undali .ammay kada motham in-law s ne choodali anukokunda equal ammay parents kuda priority isthe e godava undaru endukante ammay kuda chaduvukuntundi valla parents kuda dabbule pedtharu katnam itchi gold petti Pelli chestharu mari valla parsthithi ela madam.iddariki samanamina responsibilities undali.appudu elanti problem undadu evarikina.main ga future ni dristi lo pettukoni values ethics nerpali pillalaki.appude e society bagupadutundi.but today parents kaneesham peddavallaki wish cheyali ane minimum values nerpinchadam ledu.ade mana present parents culture.
Nenu kuda chustuna aunty, ma friends lo chala mandi ( almost andaru) in laws ni separate family ga chustaru. Konthmandi in-laws valla suffer aye vallu untaru but still kodallu atta gari lo amma ni chusukunte problem undadu. Alage attagaru kuda kodali lo kuturu ni chusukunte baguntundi. Iddaru abbayilu unna family lu ayite inka darunam. Luckily I don’t have any differences with my in laws. They have every right on my husband and I respect them same as I do for my parents. They are now my family . I am not part of their family or they are not part of my family - but we feel like we are family so we are happy. Kashtam, Sukham anni panchukuntunam.
Good madam
Thanq verymuch madam you are correct 🙏🙏
Exllent mam🙏
U r 100 ki 100% pursent correct mam
Chala nizam chepparu meru
Ilanti videos marinni cheyyandi madam.manchi vakyalu,manchi messages.Thankyou
Madan you are right,
Very important subject to think
Nice topics ne analysis chasthunaru
No body ,& no programs in electrical
Media talk about these sensetive
Relationship
Openion tho matter kadhu
Discussion about topics
You are really great
😊tq , great emi kadu MA, experience tho chepthanu
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Chala baga chepparu madam... Maa intlo adhe jargindhi....
Super sister
Very true andi!😊❤️
Mam what you have said is 100% true I have put a comment 7 months back I came to your parlour at b hills 5 yrs back you had some balance with you I don't want money just reminding you mam I came 2 times
Ok , kaludhamu vijaya
@@lalithareddy106 oho ilanti mosalu kuda chestava sontha illu kuda ledu anu enclave a kada
Adi marriage fix chesukunetappudu matladukovali mam kani avi kuda thapputharu. Appude start avutundi godavalu. Maku matram loans anni clear chesi money iste luxury ga vuntaru memu ikkada yenno ibbndulu padi save chestam. Anni thagginchukuntam karchulu kani money vepinchukoni parents ani avvachesi yem icharu meeru ante yenti mam. Marriage chesukunetappudu sampadiche vallu sampadana vunna vallane chesukunte yem problem vundadu. Okadu sampadichali andaru enjoy cheyali plus vuriki vaste valla money yedo thintunatlu level kodatharu.
Son-in-law gurnchi cheppandi madam. Meeru chala Baga explain chesaru. Alage e video cheyyandi
Thappakunda
Parents kuda valla kodukudi pelli Ina taravatha konchem Bharya tho Ela vundalo kuda nerpinchali... own chesukomani cheppali ... kodalu antey enemy kaadhu andi ... Meeru ela chusthe kodalu alaney kanipisthundhi ...
Enduku teledhu andi, ekkada memu full 10 hrs work chesukuni unna holidays kuda sick offs ki save chesi kasta padutunn, memu sinple life lead chestu unte, akkada ma inlaws monthly sarees oka chira konukunte ok, aka suit csse sarees, 6 months ki oka sari edo mysore maharani laaga 3 lakhs appu cheseyadam memu tirchukodam,, meerh one sidd telekunda matladakandi
💯 percent makes complete sense what u said Aunty
Very true
Your talk on an abstract subject is nearer to present day life situations and touches heart.It is time to introspect and apply corrective steps
Baga cepparu lalitha garu
What you told is exactly true.
Aadapilla ni penchalanna, aa pilla parents enta kastapaddaro kooda cheppandi
Yedo evidaa aththaakodalla golaaa
Chala baga nizalu chepparu
Mam well said plz make a video on son in laws relation to father in laws also
Meerannadi nijam Na chinnathammudu USA ne nenu akka assalu aaasapadam naannaki amma naannaki vaalle pamputhanu ala ani naanna vichala vidiga kharchi cheyyaru ...madhyatharagathi vaallame..avasaram inappudu peddathammudiki bagane cheesadu..maradalu manchidi
Very interesting topic .
Parents should simultaneously plan for their old-age . Reverse mortgage of the property they are living should become more popular in our country .
You have told these things are correct and keep telling these for public awareness savitrishyam
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It is ideal if parents save for their own retirements instead of paying donations or selling properties for kid's education. There is chance that they will take them for granted. Only help children if they ask for or genuinely need support. In nature, children only need parent's love and care to stand on their own feet, and parent's need shelter, love and care at old ages .Unfortunately everything is becoming monetary these days!
What if sons ask for property to be handed over to them as they are more capable. It happens to
Parents ni better ga chusukovali anukovtam pillala samskaram. Pillalanunchi emi aasinchakunda slefless ga cheytam peddala samskaram . E rendu balance lenappudu problems tappavu. Flight lo emergency landing appuudu first adult ni oxygen mask pettukuni, next help kids antaru. Same logic applies in life too, think about your retirement goals and self first before exhausting yourself! Stay blessed everyone .Life is giving us so many opportunities and luxuries compared to previous generations. We should be grateful for all that instead of creating problems because of that.
Nice discussion
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Very good
.మీరు చెప్పేది నూటికి నూరు శాతం నిజం మేడం....ఏ విషయంఅయినా ఎంతో సున్నితంగా...అందంగా చెబుతారు...మీరు పరిచయం అయినందుకు నేనెప్పుడూ గర్వంగా...సంతోషంగా ఫీల్ అవుతానండి...
Madam super ha chepinaru
Correct ga cheppinaru
What you said is exactly true
Usa lo enta vastundhi amdi oka 100k salary vaste, ttaxes snni piyi maku oka 5k vastundhi mo thi ki , enni expenses, activities ki month ki oka 1000$ , mortgsges, auto loans,... mo th ki oka restaurant ki velle scend kuda ledhu. Abbayi la parents ela unnaru ante appu chesi pampistaru, loan varaku ckear chese responsibility undhi, inka mo th ko oka 10,000 or 20,0000 iste baane untundhi. Ala kadhu asalu maku migalakunda mottam laagesukuntaru
Alanti appudu vellatam enduku India lo ne job chesukovachu ga
That is ny choice, i can work nd live where ever i want. The message we wanted to say is just bcoz we live in usa doesnt mean people are rich and relatives in Indua can expect expensive gifts and Mother in laws expect us to send money for unnecessary luxuries India lo unte epatiki suicide chesukune danni woth my inlaws side family tho. 2 years ki okasari vaste ne vachhina holidays lo inko 3 years varaku meme kittukune snni godavalu oettin psmpisysru
Thats true, kuturla astulu konalane pichi ekkuva ayyindi konta mandiki, koduku appulu chesi ayina ivvali vallaki
Damayanthi G ikkada topic india or US lo job gurinhi kadu
Super video
Well said🙏 very true in all your sayings.
Super correct ga chepparu amma
Excellent video mam🙏
Madam , whatever you said right but please think about families working hard in USA! They have to manage Family in USA n indian things! Even though we take good care of in-laws , they still expect a lot , they think that we are money making machines, they need only money but we all expect some love in return but still we don’t get any fair love ! Please don’t make any statements one side madam , you don’t know out side world how people are dying for money! Every nice human being always think to tc of their parents but if the parents expect only money then what anyone can do ! And what about girl parents, they also worked hard to give good education to their daughters , who will take care of them , our marriage system itself is very bad , I like Americans, at least they don’t have girl -boy differences n dowry system , everyone are independent here !
Miru cheppindhi kuda nijame , next video lo didcuss chedhamu
Well said madam .
Well said👌🙏
Mam... Even girls parents will give education to her... Then after marriage who has to look after her parents... No one right.... They will spend lots of money on us from our birth to marriage... But after that if we have to give money to parents we have to take permission from husband family... Y don't u guys talk about this.... Nowadays not only for boys, for girls also parents are giving equal education.... Even girls are earning and giving to their in-laws family.....
Chala bagachepparu medam
Mam you are absolutely right.
Yes.. He needs to manage parents as well as wife
చాలా బాగా చెప్పారు యదార్థ వాది బిందు విరోధి
Hi madam 100/ carrect very nice 👍 vlog Thanks 🙏
Hi mam.anty money anedi enta rich ki ayina enta poor ki ayina chala important.momma covi19 situation chuskunty pedda country chinna country ani teda ledu.eppudu inlaws ki ayina valla sufficient pension vastunappudu manaki antaa alochinchi vallaki money ivvadam enduku ani na opinion mam.if particular reason meeda depend ayyi vuntadi.miru cheppindi nijam Ikkada western countries lo vunna valla deggara teskoni waste chestunna vallu chala examples nenu chusanu.
Correct ga chepparu andi
మేములా చెప్పలేదండీ మా అమ్మాయిలకి అత్తమామలని చూడొద్దని...
Avnu maa chaala correct. Dabbulu teesukunte maakem problem ledu maa. But husband teliviga iddariki cheppukogaligitey chaalu maa. Neekenti maa intlo vaallaki iste nuvvevvaru question cheyyataaki anakoodadu maa. Mem kooda jobs chestunnam kada maa salaries kooda teesesukuntaru gaa🤨
What you said is 100% correct .
Nijam cheparu madam
Super ga chepparu madam ippudu generation alaage avutunaru itvanti manchi words valla konta mandi ayina ardam chesukovali
100% correct chepparu I like ur opinion
Hi madam you're hundred percent currect 🇳🇪🎉
Exactly true mam
Really true words present situation is this.....Exactly true madam....
Old agelo parents ni choose responsibility children di nowadays no one is taking care of them children are leaving parents in old age homes.
Many parents want their children to go abroad and then how will their children take care of them ?
Life abroad is very difficult you get money ,but other wise lot dfficult
One side story may you are mother or mother in law..
Meru 1oo percent nijam chapparu madam
More videos on parenting please 🙏
Excellent top mam
Very good topic andi.. Mana anadi two sides vundali andi..
Topic vinandi adi mana situation daggaraga unte andulo una manchi tesukundam
Madem video oka topic meda nadustundi adi debate cheyakandi divert cheyakandi
Vini manam adi entavaraku ardam chesukogalamo adi alochiste manchidi
.emiii theliyani idhharu parents annii valla ke thelisinatlu wrong parenting chesthu goppa parents la feel avvatam..thinakoodanivi pettadam,,akkarlenivi koneyyatam, yedo angels laga,spl kids leda wonder kids ma pillalu ane level lo...bad supporting okati..thappu chesthe and andhari mundu cover cheskotam...inkeppudu thelusthundi pillalu ki manchi chedu..future generation ippudu kanna ghoramga weak ga mentally sick ga vundabothondi...manchi parents kooda vunnaru.but bayata ki thakkuva ga valla pillalu ni kalipithe better..social ga vunchali anna ippudu bhayamga vundi
Super ga chepparu
Naadi Nellore district buchiredypalem
My age 63 years laretirement