Interesting story. I think there is indeed truth to what shes saying; her deep desire for a vulnerable man that she can have a genuine connection with. A lot of guys are going to deny this. He will talk about that one time he decided to be "vulnerable" with his GF, and how she thought he was weak as a result. What these guys almost never go into detail about, is the "how". How did he express his vulnerability? Did he express it with pettiness? Vitriol? A way to get "even" with her? Was he matching her childish energy with his own? Does he have a habit of trauma-dumping onto her, and exploding with emotion? Of course, you'll get hood girls, women who grew up in ultra conservative families, or a woman who simply isn't cut out to hold space for a man...who don't tolerate vulnerability. But there may be an equal number of women who desire vulnerability; a kind that is expressed with some degree of emotional intelligence. A vulnerability that can be connected to, and worked with.
Thanks so much for your thoughtful reply and for adding something constructive for us all to consume and digest. Hope you are well out there in the world my friend. Take good care...
She had to tell you that because she can't tell you what would really break her out of her masculinity.
It's a good thought. What do you think would break her of it?
Interesting story. I think there is indeed truth to what shes saying; her deep desire for a vulnerable man that she can have a genuine connection with.
A lot of guys are going to deny this. He will talk about that one time he decided to be "vulnerable" with his GF, and how she thought he was weak as a result. What these guys almost never go into detail about, is the "how". How did he express his vulnerability?
Did he express it with pettiness? Vitriol? A way to get "even" with her? Was he matching her childish energy with his own? Does he have a habit of trauma-dumping onto her, and exploding with emotion?
Of course, you'll get hood girls, women who grew up in ultra conservative families, or a woman who simply isn't cut out to hold space for a man...who don't tolerate vulnerability.
But there may be an equal number of women who desire vulnerability; a kind that is expressed with some degree of emotional intelligence. A vulnerability that can be connected to, and worked with.
Thanks so much for your thoughtful reply and for adding something constructive for us all to consume and digest. Hope you are well out there in the world my friend. Take good care...
@@aboutthat5539 No problem man. Your videos are very thoughtful and emotionally intelligent in and of themselves!
Thanks so much. That means a lot to me.