Personal notes: Attractiveness - Make the most of what you have. Look the part. Assertiveness - It's better to be hated. The more you Do to the environment, the less it does to you. Acts of audacity can be forgiven by more audacious acts. Assuredness - Stop being apologetic. Wrong thing with assurance is better than unassuredness. You can always apologise later. Attentiveness - They want the person they don't deserve, but somehow chooses them. Be present in the interaction instead of being outcome dependent. Aliveness - Being willing to do something crazy sometimes. Stop being serious. Give her the emotional rollercoaster. You can always say sorry, if you go too far. Have fun. Status - Make it feel like it's a win for them, instead of loss. Be authoritative, be centre of the party. Smooth escalation - Subtle moves, make it a romance novel.
In the Todd University video that covers Evolutionary Psychology (Sergio has that video in his channel), it kinda answers why that is the case. It's all about what was historically better when it came to risk taking in male vs female psychology.
Todd found you in the park, drunk and knocked out by some punk, and now hes like.. Ok my beloved student.. how bout we go through a lesson about romance and life;)
Social proof is the most difficult trait to have (in game). It's actually quite easy out side of day/night game (e.g., at work, sporting). 1) don't be weird - if you find people don't understand half of the things you say, stop, think, and adjust your communication. 2) Be slightly better than the average in the room - this might take form of having confident body language, taking some social risks, etc. 3) Have similarities, be in close proximity to them, and don't be self orientated.
Looks are important in the dating world. Handsome men have a higher chance of getting a first date. However, I guarantee you, a woman would rather spend her time with an average looking man who is motivated and ambitious instead of a handsome man who is a loser. Always remember that. Successful > Handsome
I be doing these things already, but it’s impressive that u could record this in one take lol u forgot the funny-cocky jokes lol ima send this to some of the homies who could benefit from the advice😂
Looks matter tons. I see too many PUAs with poor, at best basic looks/fashion. The girls turned a bland face no matter what he said or how he said. Not sure in US but in Asia, looks are paramount. If you are not handsome, wear sunglasses or having a longer hairstyle that can shape/cover parts of your face. Designer brand can also compensate. Wake up
Bro looks does matter and any one who disagrees is a fool but this is about trying again and again. Game is hard not easy. You really need a strong mindset to achieve the basic success.
@@uropy I know bad looking people who think they look good and it doesn't make them handsome but it does make them attractive. It's the self-belief and everything that comes with that and it's a lot
Personal notes:
Attractiveness - Make the most of what you have. Look the part.
Assertiveness - It's better to be hated. The more you Do to the environment, the less it does to you. Acts of audacity can be forgiven by more audacious acts.
Assuredness - Stop being apologetic. Wrong thing with assurance is better than unassuredness. You can always apologise later.
Attentiveness - They want the person they don't deserve, but somehow chooses them. Be present in the interaction instead of being outcome dependent.
Aliveness - Being willing to do something crazy sometimes. Stop being serious. Give her the emotional rollercoaster. You can always say sorry, if you go too far. Have fun.
Status - Make it feel like it's a win for them, instead of loss. Be authoritative, be centre of the party.
Smooth escalation - Subtle moves, make it a romance novel.
Women want a man everyone wants but chooses them for some reason, men just want to be loved (by someone who isn't fat)
I literally laughed out loud there at the end. But yeah, it's true
I don't mind fat but I'm not American. Fat here is way thinner.
In the Todd University video that covers Evolutionary Psychology (Sergio has that video in his channel), it kinda answers why that is the case. It's all about what was historically better when it came to risk taking in male vs female psychology.
Haha, comment of the month :D
From the angle I feel like I’m laying back on the sidewalk getting lectured by Todd
And I ain't complaining!
Todd found you in the park,
drunk and knocked out by some punk,
and now hes like.. Ok my beloved student..
how bout we go through a lesson about romance and life;)
😆
Get every part of your game right and you don't have to worry about women ever again
"you don't have to be perfect, just be excellent...". This.
Couldn't be more concise. Thanks!
Social proof is the single hardest one to achieve as a loner because you need to build a whole social network from scratch.
Social proof is the most difficult trait to have (in game). It's actually quite easy out side of day/night game (e.g., at work, sporting).
1) don't be weird - if you find people don't understand half of the things you say, stop, think, and adjust your communication.
2) Be slightly better than the average in the room - this might take form of having confident body language, taking some social risks, etc.
3) Have similarities, be in close proximity to them, and don't be self orientated.
Pure gold
Looks are important in the dating world. Handsome men have a higher chance of getting a first date. However, I guarantee you, a woman would rather spend her time with an average looking man who is motivated and ambitious instead of a handsome man who is a loser. Always remember that.
Successful > Handsome
Fantastic video! Thanks a lot.
Bro were you in 🇮🇳 India ♥ lovely
tq needed this, now ik why i sucked the last time
I be doing these things already, but it’s impressive that u could record this in one take lol u forgot the funny-cocky jokes lol ima send this to some of the homies who could benefit from the advice😂
live life like FPS
Is this Prague?
Too early
yeah
Looks matter tons. I see too many PUAs with poor, at best basic looks/fashion. The girls turned a bland face no matter what he said or how he said. Not sure in US but in Asia, looks are paramount. If you are not handsome, wear sunglasses or having a longer hairstyle that can shape/cover parts of your face. Designer brand can also compensate. Wake up
lol
Bro looks does matter and any one who disagrees is a fool but this is about trying again and again. Game is hard not easy. You really need a strong mindset to achieve the basic success.
If you *think* you're bad looking yeah that's going to matter
Yes. But thinking you are handsome while you are not handsome doesn’t make you handsome
@@uropy I know bad looking people who think they look good and it doesn't make them handsome but it does make them attractive. It's the self-belief and everything that comes with that and it's a lot