As someone who deals daily with depression and anxiety extremes, I completely understand your issues with days that it takes major effort just to get out of bed. I don't want what I'm about to suggest as being in any way critical because I'm just suggesting something for your family. I know it will take alot of effort, expecially in the beginning but I promise it will be well worth it for both you and your family. Since it is a new season for your family, with Theo starting pre-school, why not get the family pitching in with the housework. By that I mean, make it a priority for the entire household to break bad habits and start new positive habits. Make it everyone's responsibility to pick up after themselves. As you clean and organize, have a place where everything goes and when any member of the family removes that item from it's spot, it is that family member's responsibility to see that it gets put back in that place. One of the first things that needs to happen is a toy purge. Talk with the kids about donating things they no longer want or need. Use the fact that Christmas is quickly approaching and you need to make room for new toys. Have bins and baskets for bigger toys. Since Theo can't read yet, find pictures of those toys and secure the picture to the basket, box, or whatever you use to organize. Everyone needs to be responsible for taking plates, glasses, and any food or other items to the kitchen when you are finished. There is no need for plates, cups and other items to be left all over the house. If everyone just picks up after themselves and returns things to their proper place, you will find that you are less stressed because every time you clean, it will just be the every day stuff and it won't have to be a major ordeal. Do the same with the laundry. Have a certain place where everyone brings their laundry. When clothes come off they go into the dirty clothes, not just scattered throughout the house. Think about what you can do as a reward for accomplishing these things. Plan a weekend fun outing. Go to a movie. Stress that as a reward you will have more time to do fun things that they want to do. Make the kids part of the planning process. Have daily chores for each child and if their chores are accomplished, give them a small allowance. You know what's important to your kids. Use those things to your benefit. This will teach the kids responsibility and that you can be responsible and still have fun. Make it a game or whatever you have to do to accomplish your purpose, Don't just jump in. Think this through. Start with little things and hopefully the adjustment won't be too hard. Just a suggestion and hopefully this will help you.
Great job dear. Your pictures look good there and are so cute. I hope your dryer gets fixed. You can hang your clothes out even when chilly. In Canada some people hang them out all winter. They’re a little crispy when off the line, but eventually thaw😆. Wish I lived closer to help you out. Love from Canada 🇨🇦.
Chase looks like such a sweet boy 💙 that face 😍. Girl your house is coming together, it takes you so little time now to get the kitchen together. You are going a great job and should be proud of yourself 💖
Great job on the kitchen Deborah . It looks great .Love the pictures and new jars .I know what you mean with an older house .I live in an old house and there's always something .xx
My sister had an older house and they also had a fireplace that had been sealed up, that was leaking, also we had a leak and figured out that it was because of a clogged up gutter. Good job on the kitchen!! I love your videos you're so sweet and encouraging. Thanks for sharing with us!
I have been watching your video for a while and I can definitely see a difference you got this I wish for you to have some help to fixing your home up but your home is full of love
Hi my dear, just came across your channel. I too am suffering with depression, so you keep the faith , hold tight keep believing that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. The kitchen looks great
Hey Deborah… love the pictures you hung up. They look good ! Hope the dryer gets fixed .. we take our appliances for granted until they break down and then we realise how hard life is without them. ❤
Hi Deborah it's fiorella you did a fantastic job in the kitchen step by step no worries you have such a beautiful warm heart ❤️ and I know how you feel sometimes cuz I just lost my mother on August 8th and it's very very hard sometimes for me but I have to push myself to get up and do things because I know she wouldn't want to see me sad God bless you and your beautiful family 🌷🌻
Cute new pictures in the kitchen! You are right if you swap 2 of them they will look better balanced on the wall. I was glad to see a video from you. A treat after cooking breakfast & clean up after at my house.
Good morning Deborah. Great job on your kitchen.😊 i got stung by a wasp the other day, had to go to our clinic now on meds. Got me behind my elbow was itchy swollen. But, feeling better today 🐝🐝 nasty things
Yes it does get to you if you've only got little ones to talk to. Do you have an older lady who you could pop in to see with the kiddies or without. It's nice chatting to older people they sometimes have good advice or ideas cause they've already been in sone situations. It's a shame your mum's not able to support you right now. Hopefully things will be easier in time. But your doing so well. I love how happy and confident you are nowadays. Xxx
@crazymamalife yes they do. And ive worked out that if they're grumpy it's often because they're in some kind of pain... or are angry with themselves because they can't do what they used to do... sometimes. Xxx
Hey thanks for another great video 😀 Keep up the good work. Can’t wait to see the laundry video ❤ Are you filming your progress on your own room that would be great to see too❤ Have a great day and be kind to yourself 😊
You did a great job cleaning the kitchen😊😊.It is hard to clean with little ones. My kids are 16 and 12 now,but I remember how hard it was when they were little and trying to keep up with the house chores. It definitely gets easier as they get older. I’m off from work this week. My husband and I are going away for the weekend to celebrate our wedding anniversary 😊.
You have been able to keep up with the kitchen and it doesn;t take long to make it look good your hard work Deborah be proud of yourself. I think the pictures in the kitchen look great love the black skull I love Halloween too.
Hi Debra love watching your cleaning videos When are we going to see you clean your bedroom something different Hope Theo enjoys school Cheers from Linda in Australia 😊
As someone who deals daily with depression and anxiety extremes, I completely understand your issues with days that it takes major effort just to get out of bed. I don't want what I'm about to suggest as being in any way critical because I'm just suggesting something for your family. I know it will take alot of effort, expecially in the beginning but I promise it will be well worth it for both you and your family. Since it is a new season for your family, with Theo starting pre-school, why not get the family pitching in with the housework. By that I mean, make it a priority for the entire household to break bad habits and start new positive habits. Make it everyone's responsibility to pick up after themselves. As you clean and organize, have a place where everything goes and when any member of the family removes that item from it's spot, it is that family member's responsibility to see that it gets put back in that place. One of the first things that needs to happen is a toy purge. Talk with the kids about donating things they no longer want or need. Use the fact that Christmas is quickly approaching and you need to make room for new toys. Have bins and baskets for bigger toys. Since Theo can't read yet, find pictures of those toys and secure the picture to the basket, box, or whatever you use to organize. Everyone needs to be responsible for taking plates, glasses, and any food or other items to the kitchen when you are finished. There is no need for plates, cups and other items to be left all over the house. If everyone just picks up after themselves and returns things to their proper place, you will find that you are less stressed because every time you clean, it will just be the every day stuff and it won't have to be a major ordeal. Do the same with the laundry. Have a certain place where everyone brings their laundry. When clothes come off they go into the dirty clothes, not just scattered throughout the house. Think about what you can do as a reward for accomplishing these things. Plan a weekend fun outing. Go to a movie. Stress that as a reward you will have more time to do fun things that they want to do. Make the kids part of the planning process. Have daily chores for each child and if their chores are accomplished, give them a small allowance. You know what's important to your kids. Use those things to your benefit. This will teach the kids responsibility and that you can be responsible and still have fun. Make it a game or whatever you have to do to accomplish your purpose, Don't just jump in. Think this through. Start with little things and hopefully the adjustment won't be too hard. Just a suggestion and hopefully this will help you.
Thank you 😊
When ever you and Brad can.
You should get some kind of storage cabinet for the luandry room.
So you can store all the blankets and anything else.
Great job dear. Your pictures look good there and are so cute. I hope your dryer gets fixed. You can hang your clothes out even when chilly. In Canada some people hang them out all winter. They’re a little crispy when off the line, but eventually thaw😆. Wish I lived closer to help you out. Love from Canada 🇨🇦.
You have come along way. It's not easy being a stay at home Mom. I am so proud of you. ❤
Thank you 😊
Chase looks like such a sweet boy 💙 that face 😍. Girl your house is coming together, it takes you so little time now to get the kitchen together. You are going a great job and should be proud of yourself 💖
Thank you 😊
Girl,
Your house is not nasty. Look at how far you've come. ❤
And yes, take time for you when Theo goes to school.
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@shoanmarie5612 Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳
I throw silverware away too. 🤣 Don't mean too
Theo does it all the time
Great job! I find it easier to wipe thins down with a wet rag! Makes it easier to
Great job on the kitchen Deborah . It looks great .Love the pictures and new jars .I know what you mean with an older house .I live in an old house and there's always something .xx
My sister had an older house and they also had a fireplace that had been sealed up, that was leaking, also we had a leak and figured out that it was because of a clogged up gutter.
Good job on the kitchen!!
I love your videos you're so sweet and encouraging. Thanks for sharing with us!
Thank you for watching 🥰
Bless you
I have been watching your video for a while and I can definitely see a difference you got this I wish for you to have some help to fixing your home up but your home is full of love
🥰
Hi my dear, just came across your channel. I too am suffering with depression, so you keep the faith , hold tight keep believing that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. The kitchen looks great
welcome to our family 🥰 thank you
❤you go girl you got this.
Look at you!!! Pulling yourself together and doing a great job with your house!! It looks amazing!! 🤩
Thank you
Hey Deborah… love the pictures you hung up. They look good ! Hope the dryer gets fixed .. we take our appliances for granted until they break down and then we realise how hard life is without them. ❤
Very true
I love the pictures hung that way kitchen looks great
Hi Deborah it's fiorella you did a fantastic job in the kitchen step by step no worries you have such a beautiful warm heart ❤️ and I know how you feel sometimes cuz I just lost my mother on August 8th and it's very very hard sometimes for me but I have to push myself to get up and do things because I know she wouldn't want to see me sad God bless you and your beautiful family 🌷🌻
I sorry for your lost 😔 I will be praying you 🙏
Thank you@@crazymamalife
Can u hang ur laundry outside to dry
Hi Deborah your kitchen looks great ! Way to go!🎉Praying for Theo first day of school ❤Have a great day!
Kitchen looks great! Have a wonderful day ❤
Thank you 😊 I hope you have a wonderful day 💕
Cute new pictures in the kitchen! You are right if you swap 2 of them they will look better balanced on the wall. I was glad to see a video from you. A treat after cooking breakfast & clean up after at my house.
Thank you for watching 🥰 I hope you have a wonderful day 💕
Great job on the kitchen. The new pictures are so cute. I would switch them around. I hope the dryer gets fixed. Have a great day! 😊
Good morning Deborah. Great job on your kitchen.😊 i got stung by a wasp the other day, had to go to our clinic now on meds. Got me behind my elbow was itchy swollen. But, feeling better today 🐝🐝 nasty things
That's good you are feeling better 😊
Your kitchen looks great! Keep up the awesome job! God bless you and your family ❤
Yes it does get to you if you've only got little ones to talk to. Do you have an older lady who you could pop in to see with the kiddies or without. It's nice chatting to older people they sometimes have good advice or ideas cause they've already been in sone situations. It's a shame your mum's not able to support you right now. Hopefully things will be easier in time. But your doing so well. I love how happy and confident you are nowadays. Xxx
I wish I did I love talking to older people
@@crazymamalife me too. I used to clean and do washing and ironing for a few local old people. I loved them.
@lindagreenacre630 they also have good stories to tell
@crazymamalife yes they do. And ive worked out that if they're grumpy it's often because they're in some kind of pain... or are angry with themselves because they can't do what they used to do... sometimes. Xxx
Great job on the kitchen Deborah one step at a time hi theo cant wait to see the laundry video you and your family have a great day ❤❤
Hey thanks for another great video 😀 Keep up the good work. Can’t wait to see the laundry video ❤ Are you filming your progress on your own room that would be great to see too❤ Have a great day and be kind to yourself 😊
I might make a video on it I just trying to get done as fast as I can so Brad can put the windows in our bedroom
Your kitchen looks great! Love the wall decor too! Hope you can get the dryer fixed! Oh and thanks for reminding me to put clothes in the dryer!😊
You are welcome 😊
You give house good clean
Kitchen looks lovely now. 🎉 you can come and do my kitchen floor too if ya like. I'm only over in england!! Xxx
I be over in a minute 🤣
Keep up the good job, one day at a time, GOD bless.
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You did a great job cleaning the kitchen😊😊.It is hard to clean with little ones. My kids are 16 and 12 now,but I remember how hard it was when they were little and trying to keep up with the house chores. It definitely gets easier as they get older. I’m off from work this week. My husband and I are going away for the weekend to celebrate our wedding anniversary 😊.
Happy Anniversary I hope you all have a wonderful time 🥰
Thank you!😊
You have been able to keep up with the kitchen and it doesn;t take long to make it look good your hard work Deborah be proud of yourself. I think the pictures in the kitchen look great love the black skull I love Halloween too.
Thank you 😊
Lol. You'll have to put the dog treats up high and anything else he can get to that hes not meant to. Lol little mischief. Lol k8ddies hey xxx
I think the picture and chicken would be nice swapped over. Xxx 😊😊
Me to I am going to change them
Hi Debra love watching your cleaning videos When are we going to see you clean your bedroom something different Hope Theo enjoys school Cheers from Linda in Australia 😊
I hope here soon
Great job👍👍👍👍🌸🌻🌹🌼💐🌷🌺🦋 your pictures look beautiful👍👍👍👍🌸🌻🌹🌼💐🌷🌺🦋 love it 💜💗💛💚have a Blessed day💜💜💜💜