Thank you for the discussion on the subject of cheating. Since all of you are multi-lingual, I choose to write this is English as my Chinese is still rudimentary. The video is not only very useful to me to improve my Chinese, but the topics of discussion lately have been very engaging and meaningful. Many “learn Chinese” channels have excellent language instructions, but with mundane and often boring content. The perspective from you three were obviously different. I particularly like Li Can’s thoughts. I follow his “ramblings” in EazyMandarin, and slowly, but surely I am getting used to his accent, language, and speed (no slowing down for the laggards)! His words are always well thought through, and on this fraught subject of cheating, clearly shines through from his family life and values. I agree with much he said. Richard is always frank and quite funny. Has a way of saying what he thinks without getting into trouble! Keep it up!
Normally i would write in Chinese here but i want to use English to properly express myself : i enjoyed this episode so much, as someone else said, it's so refreshing to hear a Chinese conversation discussing such interesting topics which all of us can relate to, and all three of you guys have such interesting points and opinions i am always entertained and inspired by your discussions ! From a pedagogical perspective, it's also great that you three use different accents, pace of speech and vocabulary so our ears can get used to it ! Lastly i think that you three have such an awesome chemistry, don't get me wrong i love most of the guests you bring to your podcast, but at the end of the day the best episodes might still be the ones where it's only the three of you. Over the past year since i discovered your channel, my chinese level has improved at a crazy pace, so thanks a lot and please keep going ! 謝謝你們！
Thank you for the discussion on the subject of cheating. Since all of you are multi-lingual, I choose to write this is English as my Chinese is still rudimentary. The video is not only very useful to me to improve my Chinese, but the topics of discussion lately have been very engaging and meaningful. Many “learn Chinese” channels have excellent language instructions, but with mundane and often boring content.
The perspective from you three were obviously different. I particularly like Li Can’s thoughts. I follow his “ramblings” in EazyMandarin, and slowly, but surely I am getting used to his accent, language, and speed (no slowing down for the laggards)! His words are always well thought through, and on this fraught subject of cheating, clearly shines through from his family life and values. I agree with much he said. Richard is always frank and quite funny. Has a way of saying what he thinks without getting into trouble!
Keep it up!
我个人认为出轨的定义很简单……就是跟异性做一些不让你对象知道或为你对象隐藏的事情。
谢谢分享，很有道理!
您说得对
I am watching this video right before my lesson with Benshu haha. 谢谢三位大叔们。我爱你们哈哈哈 Also, congratulations on 20k!!!
一会见!
你好 大龙 我已经在skype啦
真的很喜欢你们所有老师的播客。从各位老师身上学到了很多东西。谢谢各位老师。
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Normally i would write in Chinese here but i want to use English to properly express myself : i enjoyed this episode so much, as someone else said, it's so refreshing to hear a Chinese conversation discussing such interesting topics which all of us can relate to, and all three of you guys have such interesting points and opinions i am always entertained and inspired by your discussions ! From a pedagogical perspective, it's also great that you three use different accents, pace of speech and vocabulary so our ears can get used to it ! Lastly i think that you three have such an awesome chemistry, don't get me wrong i love most of the guests you bring to your podcast, but at the end of the day the best episodes might still be the ones where it's only the three of you.
Over the past year since i discovered your channel, my chinese level has improved at a crazy pace, so thanks a lot and please keep going ! 謝謝你們！
谢谢你的分享，给了大叔们很大很大的力量 💖💖💖
Love this episode so far ! Going to listen to it with my father in law today while driving home 😊 already learned a new word “cheating”.
谢谢你一直都很支持我们 🥂
谢谢你们录这节播客呀！你们说的都很有意思。36:12 这个传统社会的想法也可能没什么问题。说实话，我在我自己的看法，因为我们当代的社会很注重工作和钱，所以除了挣钱以外通过什么别办法的都不能追求更好的生活、更有意思的人生。在这种情况下呢，有需要工作的压力的话，那可能鼓励人们通过追求这个资本主义的梦想改善自己的生活。但是，这个现象也可能表现这个社会的最根本的问题之一。
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是的 凡事都有优劣 每个人都可以试着找到最适合自己的方式 谢谢你的意见 👍
我觉得为了维持关系生孩子并不是一个好想法，迟早孩子会受到不良关系的影响。
谢谢你们聊得这么愉快！
谢谢你
出轨是你可以陪伴你男女朋友或者妻子/丈夫的时候，却去跟另外一个人享福。 或者不想管家事、孩子老人的事， 不管你的另一半天天多么难多累，不想和他/她分担、让她/他有更多的乐观，却去找自己的快乐也是出轨。 不重要是肉体出轨还是精神出轨都一样。 我觉得男人/女人天天为了和朋友玩抛弃对方也是一种出轨。 虽然跟前面那种出轨非常不一样， 但是对对方来说区别不大， 他/她一样被忽略。
关系不好的时候、对方不需要你的时候， 找老三的行为也可以不叫出轨， 但是一旦对方需要你、完全不知道你们之间存在那么严重的误解，你却抛弃他，让她不幸福，自己和另外人享福拿这是100%的出轨。 在这种情况聊天也算是出轨。
我以前的老板是那种高福帅的花花公子，在国外学习的那种，一直出轨。我还记得，他告诉我外国人结婚前劈腿，中国人结婚后劈腿。几年后我去他的婚姻祝福，更好我别和他的老婆见面。
哈哈哈，果然很花花公子，很有画面感
小时候很外向但是没什么记忆，可能被外星人绑架做实验然后再送回来但是忘记把人调整回原本的性格 （开玩笑）
哈哈 我觉得我可能也被外星人绑架过