Difficult Women vs Strong Women | The Krew Season Podcast
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3 things a single man should work on before getting in a relationship.
1. Work on temperment/Handle your emotions
2. Confident
3. Being A good steward over your finances
Boom.
The dynamic should be changed to happy spouse, happy house bc a successful relationship is comprised of compromised
I think this generation is selfish , the person can tell you what they are looking for and us as women try to change their minds. I’m 26 and learning when someone shows you who they are believe them .
Facts!
No shame and structure = more selfish generation after generation
Its not hard and when make your dating life so easy. Its ego that makes us want to change someone's opinion of us.
This conversation is sad to me. Men not feeling heard, men not feeling safe enough to share their heart and vulnerability. This is BAD!! In a relationship neither of us should feel like we have to go through things alone. We are supposed to be a TEAM. Happy SPOUSE Happy house!!
I’m glad Krew said it. No one said it and all of the other things but missed Therapy. Healing your past traumas. That is so important
Men are realizing that we have value outside of being wallets, bodyguards and therapists & alot of people do not like that. We ask for more because we realise that we want to be valued for things outside of what we are "supposed" to be doing.
As a dude, expressing your emotions is important…we tend to keep everything on the inside and then when something crazy happens, all the emotions come out. I know that happens with me a lot. I’m trying to be more open with my emotions and sticking to who I am fr fr…great stuff fellas💯
I’m so glad I’m not dating in this world climate... there’s a lot of bullshit on both sides and the person I am has no patience to sift through it 😖 #teamMarried
FR. Lucky you. Lol
You ever heard of choosing quality individuals to get a better outcome instead of going with the regular b*******
@@robherringjr5018 yup and i believe in it. Im just saying men and women today play so many games and have so much lack of respect for each other that they can’t get out of their own way to find happiness in each other. And i just wouldn’t do well dealing with people like that 24/7 when i bring realness and love to the table. Thats my point
@@curlygirl9023 you're talking about a small amount of guys that do women wrong. More women create fuckboys and players then men create damaged women. There's a ton of men that get passed up by you women all the time but y'all never give as much time as you give the other type of guys that you mess with. I think women need to learn how to communicate to the educated brother or some of the men y'all put in the friend zone and see what you get out of that if you actually put the work in
@@robherringjr5018 ummm no no we not going to go there and blame mostly women. There is equal blame on both sides... the issue is the influences from music, tv, etc. that has young men and women today out here trippin’.... it could all be so simple, you meet someone you like, you get to know them but along the way show that you are interested in her and she can either accept or let you know shes not interested. From there yall date a few times... at that point yall should be ready to make it official and move forward with the relationship.. but people today rather meet, hook up... then be in situationships for the next 5-10 years that lead to nothing. Women and men only move the way they do because they are encouraged to be that way. I have never in my life given time to dusty men... and I have never “friend-zoned” a man.... if a man came to me when i was single trying to be coo with me and acted like he was my friend thats not my fault... you can’t just try to manipulate my emotions to make me like you. Just say what your intentions are and if I am not interested then let it be.
Some women don’t like to take accountability of their action’s in relationship’s. It’s something that i realized in my later 20’s that I couldn’t point the finger to the guy always. Most of the time us as women be the reason why we run a guy off. I’m a great listener but I also will express how I feel as well. Speaking for myself I’m big on compromising things because everyone isn’t always right.
I love this convo! Both sides need to hold each other accountable and help each other unlearn some of the toxic and unhealthy things we learned within our respective families/communities.
I agree that many of us grew up hearing 'happy wife, happy life,' but we need to move toward the 'happy spouse, happy house' perspective. Both people matter and both have needs that differ which the other should strive to fulfill.
That's super jacked up that men feel like their feelings do not matter but I definitely see everything that plays into why men feel that way.
I agree with majority of the narrative of this dialogue. And as stated men are taught how to “deal” with women, to the contrary I was not taught how to “deal” with a man; yet, I was taught how to respond too his behaviors.
Its a huge disservice to BOTH the man and woman for men to deny themselves of showing or expressing their feelings.... because men aren’t good at hiding that they aren’t ok....and it causes friction in the house. It may feel good to have a man who “does everything” for you but at a certain point it doesn’t feel good. I rather work on learning to hear and respect his emotions the same way I want mine to be so we can both benefit. Thats more long lasting to me. It may hurt to hear somethings but its worth it to help keep your man’s mental health strong.
Yall don't want to really know cause when we tell yall yall hear something totally different
@@steven-rn9sb maybe some do... but that’s why it takes time to get to a point of understanding each other. It’s a process
I found a clip of this podcast on TikTok glad I did this my new favorite podcast 💯
I’m that woman that enjoys getting to know my guy what he wants needs and likes.The problem has been men take that for granted and dismiss my needs and wants.
Hands down one of the best, most emotionally healthy podcasts EVER! ... and yes, I acknowledge you all holding men accountable.
As a wife I honestly needed to hear this…Thank you guys
Damn.. y’all really touched on some real shit! I agree we “women” are very coddled, and some of us need to do better. Great Podcast!
I want an episode with AC and his wife and Smuv and his wife.
2021: Men are expressing themselves today and they don’t like it
Exactly
Do you feel that a person can be single too long? Can that be a game changer on how the relationship will go?
"Do women care what a man wants?" Not only do that not care, they are actively pursuing things that make them less attractive. Tattoos. Piercings. Food. Kids. Ego. Masculinity.
The first question was difficult because if we need and depend on you or ask for things, then we become too needy etc
-See this is the thing, we have expectations for others when we can not hold ourselves accountable to the same things so we need to change that.
- we should be open to listening to our partners and remember that if and when they are vulnerable, it does not mean they are weak. We are all human who go through the daily struggles of life and have to express this emotion. When we open those lines of communication, things will be so much better in the relationship. Be each other’s safe space!
-also do not hold partners hostage to their past errors or faults. If you said that you have forgiven them, then let it go but don’t keep reminding them as it’ll get played out and you will not like the outcome of that.
- if you don’t like something from the jump, let your partner know. Don’t simmer and build up on stuff and out of nowhere go off and they are caught off guard wondering what happened. Communicate as this is what will bring improvement to the relationship.
- It is okay to be respectfully honest but we have to have boundaries. Agreeing to disagree does not mean being disrespectful of your partner. You can and will have differing opinions but how you resolve it will make the relationship and communication better (you will still like your partner ☺️, which is important)
- do not blast your partners weaknesses to others. Keep it in the household and if you need help, seek professional help from those who know. What you tell others is what they use against you and your partner.
- Do not give your partner the responsibility to make you happy or whole etc- it is not fair. Work on you as an individual first then that will make you so much better for everyone else!!!
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Each man on krew season brings a different perspective and has a different style/vibe. I'm glad I discovered y'all channel. Good info
I listen to the message that my
Man gives me. I was independent before him but together we’re Living
Self respect gentlemen every man needs to learn self respect and pass it to their sons. A mans greatest power is to walk away. If we walk away after addressing disrespect AND STAND ON IT DONT SAY ONE THING AND DOUBLE BACK. Women will act right. No arguing, fighting, or forcing. I lead, you follow or go find a man you wanna follow.
Some women call themselves strong but they're really dominant. It's a mask or buzz word for some that has the true undertone meaning abusive!
Strong woman which I feel I am a strong woman, and can be flexible, work, still care for home, driven, positive, and can communicate my needs when I'm tired too. I want my partner to be happy and feel appreciated, giving him his love language, just like I want to be too...I don't have to be in charge I'm attractive to partnership and very attracted to a man that can lead. I mean not just say he leads but can produce the plan and we follow through. Some men talk about it, but never make moves, let's be about it.
There is a difference between disrespectful, dominant/abusive- and strong...
Well there you have it folks! All the more reasons why daughters need their fathers in their lives just as much as the sons do! 😂😂😂😂 I loved this! You guys made a whole lot of sense. I totally understand y’all point of views. Some was a little extra though🤨😡. But overall this was a much needed topic for women to hear. Women.. y’all betta listen! Rather y’all care or not, men have feelings too! Respect how they feel just as much as you expect them to care about yours. Equally.
the ones with fathers be the main sluts and unhinged unstable creatures
Information conveyed today was excellent words of wisdom. God bless you and your families. Keep doing what you do brothers 💯
This was 🔥🔥🔥
I can listen to Kenny for hours
I been married 10 years and this is all facts 💯
Here before y’all hit it big! Keep it up big homies!
Spoke about a lot of this shit in counseling…y’all was on point in this one!
38:33 THAAAAAANK YU TRIL no one said deal with pass trauma
Amen thank-you just communicated the issues if don't agree just agree that you don't agree
How do black men show LOVE to the women in their community?
Recently found the podcast. Yall are HILARIOUS! I've enjoyed watching so far! I enjoy you not being all politically correct and like to see you joking/interacting as men. Please continue to be authentic. Much love!!
Great podcast with excellent insight
Wow these guys really lined up from darkest to lightest skin tone
Kenny is preaching
Otis told "us" to shut up ladies! Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
I can do it ,but I had rather have someone to share things with.
Smuv talk yo shit 🔥
Great and true information. I stepped back to let him lead. He pushed me away when he had to get a job. 🤔and when I told him what expected. Now I’m the mean and crazy one because I wanted him to be better 🤔
Great Conversation
Can y’all answer this what does a balance of difficult and agreeableness look like? I know I can’t be too difficult but I can’t be too agreeable as well ya know
One Word..., Growth!
Speaking All Facts here
We all gotta wear those hats tho honestly as black people not just black men but I get it
Just got back from Cabo my myself. Atv’s and zip lining 🔥. Cabo is a money grab though, hidden fees on everything
I hate to argue I will walk away,I had rather sit down and discuss it.
Im sorry. Yall do know Black women exist and a loottttttt of black men's plight in the world are ours as well. Black women are expected and taught to make it happen.
Primary issue: if a girl grows up in a house without a father, she has no frame of reference what a man is. Many look at men as the enemy. She'll meet a good man and treat him like dirt. She'll meet an a$$hole and crawl on her hands and knees. I was fortunate enough to grow up with a real daddy. You guys on the right track. We need to communicate and stop being enemies to each other.
So true what he said it’s the single mothers saying i don’t need a man
This is quite EPIC 🎊🎉🎊
Nothing but facts
I would never always say yes to a woman....To be the bigger Person, do the right thing, no matter what....Children is at stake..
If you are having a bad day, take that time alone, to take care of it, to not allow yourself to have bad days, again....l never have bad days...because l learned as a kid, how to avoid them, and if one just happened to slip through...do not throw it on anyone, become alone, and clear it up in a quiet space. Then come out and enjoy the rest of the family.
SmUv was spitting 🔥
Kenny is very insightful man, but he was timid at the beginning of this episode. Talk that talk
Kenny is always timid 🤣🤣🤣 But I like they mix.
Naw not timid my guy... he was relaxed an more careful/calm than anything..
I won't call it timid. He's just playing.
I was almost like ummmm y’all need to find a new cohost because he don’t wanna be here but Beybayyyyyy! When he finally SPOKE UP! He had some good shit to say!
First thing is healing the inner child first
Learn what is really unconditional gauze love is love is not emotions at all love is spirit emotions are fresh
So good. Keep up the good work!!!
Men have a voice its takes 2 or compromise to makes things work
This relationship issue is very complex from one to the next. What applies to one does not necessarily apply to the other. We have to work on it together. My mom Used to tell Us don’t go to bed being upset with each other. My husband has passed away 9 years now. If he was alive it would be 41 years together. We had disagreements but he would always give a joke and make me laugh. Trust me he made me laugh, even though I call myself not speaking to him. So nothing was kept up for days or weeks. Most times it’s like nothing happened. If visitors should come they would not know that we argued. We treat them cordially. No upset look. So they would never know. These days it’s screaming and shouting. A woman hold her body and not satisfy her man. The problem is that Partners do not include God. Mind U we were not perfect. Money does not make U happy. It’s the good treatment and respect from both parties to each that matters. In the Start of being together we should outline each other’s likes and dislikes. In my case we learn new things good or bad as we go along and correct what needs to be corrected. I know every relationship is not the same.
👏👏🙏 Awesome guys!
If y'all deliver the message the right way we might receive it the right way it works both ways speaking from experience
Im gonna disagree. We had this conversation on Clubhouse. Many women have to understand we’re not coming from a place of malice. No matter how we say it. We’re just expressing ourselves just as you do. We had 4-5 guys say the same thing, in various ways but the majority of the women didn’t understand until a another woman echoed what the men were saying almost verbatim. She didn’t sugarcoat anything. After that, we were able to dive even further into the conversation. It was great dialogue.
This statement lacks accountability. We shouldn’t have to teach you how to have manners and decent social skills.
@@bdubz_det accountability for what y'all said women should listen I said it works both ways so I'll spell it out for you men should also listen morals and reaching us something don't even apply to this you reaching to soon we just getting started don't go there I see where you trying to take it after all y'all said it stand behind it don't try and invest something else into it down boy down
@@delorisejones9126 If they gave an award for run on sentences, you’d definitely win. I’ll read what you typed when you fix that mess.
@@sowell1005 we're human it's natural to disagree but the thing is when most black women express themselves and I said black women because we're the only women y'all basically talk about get it on the show we're called angry bitter and a lot more malicious words that is so far from the truth but I will admit about 70 percent of us could dialect with you any day of the week without having to be reached or taught by you guys so lightened up and don't keep saying all black women in general how about comparing our strength to other race of women that will be a showstopper for you peace out just my opinion we don't have to carry own as you said you disagree conversation over
I'm cool on a woman that leads with being strong and definitely difficult. That handle me bs doesn't work with already tried but others might have success.
Preach brothas I agree with what u all say amen
Agreed !!!
I used to always overexplain to a woman I was with but then I stopped and now I tell them my answer is my answer and they have to get over it because if they don't want to do something they wouldn't do it. Not being mean but we both have to be honest.
You better than me...My pet peeve is repeating myself over an over.. so overexplaining stuff that’s a no no..hey remember Ppl stress kills..
“These hoes ain’t Queens” 😭😭😭
Kenny yes
Man this hit for me I go thru this all the time lol 😂
Dropping Gems!!
What about women who don't want to argue but are being questioned left and right by their man? And all you want is peace in your house? Not all women nag. Some women really have things to do and they would like that for their man too.
I love this episode!!
God made man to be a king only when taught by the best God himself to know how to be that king that brings in his queen
Why it got to be his wallet???? Not when you married ....is a covenant a commitment...Again My husband just got out the hospital after 5 months of being shot by his cousin with ar 15 then . We lost our son at 19 in the process, and the same year May 16th hit by a car on Newport Richey....So this doesn't apply to all... I can keep going I could have ran 🏃♂️ 😩 So this don't apply to all.
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We are not best friends .strong women are like that Because people change . We goes to I
The gunshots are over kill
Amen
When God Saud none of this cN be done without God period
I enjoy hearing there perspective and I listen
To understand their perspective, but it’s hard to understand their perspective overall from their current examples and previous examples presented, because they constantly contradict
Themselves.
Moral of the story listen to your partner for understanding to make things better. An analogy: when your partner is expressing themselves look at it as they are starting to drown and you are blind folded. You are right beside them but too much of the wrong movements cause both of you to lose your footing. listen to your partner to understand where they are and work with them to make
Things right. Sometimes you have to learn to
Not hear things as blame or that you have done something wrong and work to make things better.
As always, stellar job fellas!
A difficult woman should not be joined with a strong man,especially when he's handling his biz' as protector,provider (eagle, healer,warrior and hunter.
I love you guys ☺️🤞🏽
What is you always been the Rock and peovise for every thing we been married 5 years together 7??? Just asking
Need this
That is real.. I like it and I’m a pilipina po👍👍👍
Not true depending in the women?
I like hearing your wisdom but Too much cussing.
Why'd I get a Win Over Women ad? lol good stuff though
The nothing but facts episode!!
My saying is ( Happy Spouse, Happy House)
Who going 3 weeks with out sex in a relationship??
Facts
I thank God I’m not the woman you’re describing!!!!
And that is God's order not a women
im not getting yall notifications
I learned sooo much from listening to this. I hope you all finde really good women or if you already have a partner then they are lucky!