Losing Your Virginity • Wine Mom

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  • @victoriafisher8399
    @victoriafisher8399 7 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    My mum died when I was 12. I'm now 16, I have my nan but some things are too awkward to talk about. Thank you Buzzfeed for making series/videos like these as it helps me in a strange sorta way

    • @jordanjohnson7289
      @jordanjohnson7289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know its really sad to lose a mom and I’m not saying I understand but I’m 12 and my friend just lost her mom and we all cried

    • @indiyahlestrange3589
      @indiyahlestrange3589 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jordanjohnson7289 Hi, this is totally off topic but can I just say that I'm also a Slytherclaw, I'm from Cabin Three, and I am Dauntless.

    • @chiaracianci224
      @chiaracianci224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also lost my mom when I was 12 so I understand you and you’re completely right

    • @bluedimondgames1033
      @bluedimondgames1033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My mom just left me at 5

  • @anastasiahite5639
    @anastasiahite5639 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3003

    I'm a 19 year old college student, but I jump on these videos like I have 30 kids

  • @sakuramikan28
    @sakuramikan28 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4563

    ...the whole time I am watching this video, I am staring at that wine glass
    that's a nice glass

    • @breaththrou
      @breaththrou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sakura Mikan oh god love gakuen alice
      the wine glass is great too

    • @bee7639
      @bee7639 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I appreciate the glass so much oh my god

    • @allaboutbasketball2695
      @allaboutbasketball2695 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sakura Mikan yeah I was looking at the glass to

    • @goth_girl_cliquegamer9641
      @goth_girl_cliquegamer9641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sakura Mikan same lol

    • @emzie4323
      @emzie4323 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sakura Mikan - I didn’t realize I was staring at the glass. It’s a good glass.

  • @888crispin
    @888crispin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2501

    todays life lesson: Sex is like karaoke.

    • @pheebsss4461
      @pheebsss4461 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Sinnamon Roll why did I read that in Dan's voice

    • @gabriellaskorusa1837
      @gabriellaskorusa1837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Alexander Hamilton

    • @camilavega5252
      @camilavega5252 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      alexander hamilton my name is alexander hamilton and theres a million things i havent done just like sex just like sex

    • @rae_2250
      @rae_2250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sinnamon Roll my god I love Alexander Hamilton!

    • @sara_daria2
      @sara_daria2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAMILTOOOOOOOOON

  • @queenthottie7897
    @queenthottie7897 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2091

    I want to have sex, not gonna lie, but i really dont like my body. i hate looking at myself in the mirror and hate the idea of someone else looking at it

    • @Ayla7650
      @Ayla7650 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Queen Camila agree

    • @isabelmiguelina9820
      @isabelmiguelina9820 7 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      Queen Camila I was the same way, but after it happens you realize how bomb your body actually is. Because if it wasn't then your partner wouldn't have wanted to have sex with you. They will love you for you and you will earn a much better self esteem afterwards. There are still a few parts of my body I don't like, but I don't fret over every single thing. Henny, you are perfect and beautiful and don't ever let anyone else tell you different

    • @DarknessEssense
      @DarknessEssense 7 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      To be honest, when I'm sleeping with a girl I rarely care about the body unless you have 3 arms or something. As long as it is normal then nobody will care.

    • @mckenzieteg1982
      @mckenzieteg1982 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Isabel Miguelina I AGREE WITH THIS SO MUCH

    • @harrietokeefe9658
      @harrietokeefe9658 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      If you're with someone who genuinely already wants to have sex with you they really aren't going to care what you body looks like

  • @otherlily6869
    @otherlily6869 7 ปีที่แล้ว +984

    I just realised Hannah backwards is Hannah. *Mind. Blown.* 😱

    • @-addalynplays-8559
      @-addalynplays-8559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Other Lily
      Tacocat spelled backwards is tacocat and racecar spelt backwards is racecar

    • @mokkabeanful
      @mokkabeanful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Please tell me you're kidding I relised that when I was 3

    • @thegarrettfamily2018
      @thegarrettfamily2018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh my gosh, I never realized that!😱

    • @linaa5341
      @linaa5341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never realized that either!!! You literally just blew my mind!! I realized racecar was spelt backwards before I realized Hannah was spelt backwards. Lol

    • @oscarthefunnydoggo9695
      @oscarthefunnydoggo9695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mokkabeanful u got problems lol. “I realised that when I was 3” 🙄🙄

  • @gracehess3921
    @gracehess3921 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3323

    This was actually pretty awesome since the Texas sex education program sucks

    • @tenshikoi5300
      @tenshikoi5300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Grace Hess it truly does

    • @ellablue23
      @ellablue23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol it wasn't disgusting at all, just educational. Whoever was telling you that was overreacting XD

    • @Bawdy420
      @Bawdy420 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      girl lets be honest, it doesn't even exist lmao

    • @shalexa8088
      @shalexa8088 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It does at my school except it comes across and IF YOU DO IT YOUR HEAD WILL FALL OFF AND BABIES WILL COME OUT OF YOUR NOW HEADLESS NECK HOLE AND YOU WILL GO TO HELL

    • @gabrielacuellar2826
      @gabrielacuellar2826 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Grace Hess they cancelled the sex education at my old middle school when i was about to take it

  • @valpal2424
    @valpal2424 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2868

    I'm in college and I'm a virgin, I'm always feeling this pressure

    • @tees7190
      @tees7190 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      sameeee

    • @elodielebrun
      @elodielebrun 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Valeria Grekova same, i walk around college feeling like i dont belong there bc im not having sex and going to parties and drinking all the time

    • @jamesgreywolfcole9989
      @jamesgreywolfcole9989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know the stigma but I lost my virginity in junior high and I don't regret it or I'm proud of it but take the time

    • @Sabrina-vc9yt
      @Sabrina-vc9yt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Why? I'm a virgin and I'm twenty one already. I don't care what people think. And you should not care. It's your life.

    • @adaneboateng
      @adaneboateng 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Wait! You'll regret it. ...wait till you get married

  • @kvbe9441
    @kvbe9441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1747

    I feel like this is gonna be thegabbieshow In like 20 years

  • @NoelleNorth1
    @NoelleNorth1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1340

    I'm 22 and I'm proud to say that I'm still a virgin. I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed and all the jazz that comes with being with a guy. I used to be ashamed about it, but between 18-20 I slowly came to accepting it and 'it' happening when it's meant to be. Now I'm 22 and I'm still not ashamed and I'm happy to say I'm a virgin, where many I know won't. Thanks for doing this video Hannah, it's truly inspirational to hear and share on to more people. Lots of love from England X x x

    • @globaldreaming1232
      @globaldreaming1232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Philippa Marie I'm in my thirties and still a virgin 😊 and a successful business owner! I'm waiting and still looking for a wife to share my life with and everything that comes with that! but until then ✌

    • @awesomeguy9573
      @awesomeguy9573 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Global Dreaming #Goalz

    • @maddieerickson3888
      @maddieerickson3888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      that honestly just helped me so much. i'm 15 almost 16 and i don't feel ready to have sex at all i'm scared i'll get pressured into having sex or ill get teased if i don't loose it in High School, but i just don't think i'll be ready yet.

    • @abbyk7270
      @abbyk7270 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      im 24 and same. am from uk too.

    • @splittheunicorn
      @splittheunicorn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      well im 19 (still a virgin) and no boyfriend jet.
      good thing i have friends so im not lonely 😅

  • @starmerchant7304
    @starmerchant7304 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2260

    I lost my virginity with Despicable Me 2 on the T.V....I will never forget that

    • @jhski9275
      @jhski9275 7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Kristen Merchant mine was the spongebob movie 😂

    • @deulily
      @deulily 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Kristen Merchant i'm sorry. lmao.

    • @natalie7523
      @natalie7523 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I lost it while Law and order was on TV 😂😂😂

    • @parkermurzyn3556
      @parkermurzyn3556 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Kristen Merchant lost mine watching pirates of the carribean

    • @Haililibunnie
      @Haililibunnie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Kristen Merchant a Harry Potter marathon was on with mine 😂

  • @stacygordon3322
    @stacygordon3322 7 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    im 15 I can live with being a virgin for even the next 10 yrs I'm a okay

    • @fleurd8162
      @fleurd8162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      same i think. I for sure wanna stay a virgin throughout high school though

    • @DarknessEssense
      @DarknessEssense 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You're a child, you will eventually grow up and hook up

    • @fluffysnatch4689
      @fluffysnatch4689 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you're not celibate, at the very least get to know yourself, while you're refusing to hook up with someone else.

    • @caitlinhartley2433
      @caitlinhartley2433 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I'm a virgin

    • @kadykardashiann9235
      @kadykardashiann9235 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost mine at 14 it’s better to keep it 3 years on I’m still wishing i had it, even tho sex is great with a long term relationship it still comes up.

  • @sophiab.7203
    @sophiab.7203 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1582

    I'm worried that if I do have sex then it will be all awkward and I won't be able to talk to the person afterwards.

    • @honalou4354
      @honalou4354 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Cat of the Universe it actually brings you closer to the person 😅

    • @violettaschmieder2096
      @violettaschmieder2096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Im worried about totally embarrassing myself whilst trying to seduce that person. Also, i dont even know how to kiss. But if i dont seduce that person in about one and a half months time, theyll be gone and ill have to somehow survive the whole summer without sex or masturbation. Also, im still trying to figure out if im even comfortable actually doing it with them, even if they hella lot turn me on when im around them. ARRRRGH

    • @honalou4354
      @honalou4354 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Violetta Schmieder you're thinking too much, just do it! if you embarrass yourself WHO CARES IT WAS FUN 😂

    • @violettaschmieder2096
      @violettaschmieder2096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      louise white i am very sensitive, maybe it does affect my relationship with sex in the future if it goes wrong? At this point it isnt about fun anymore it is about keeping up my sanity. i cant concentrate or think about anytving else anymore.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cat of the Universe, if you're worried it'll be too awkward after ask you're self if you'd be embarrassed if you burped in front of this person or if they saw you naked. If something like that make you feel embarrassed or awkward with this person then you too probably aren't comfortable enough together yet. Sex is doing a lot awkward and embarrassing and weird things when you look at it from a distance and off you aren't comfortable with that person odds are till feel that way.

  • @vanessa-ji2vo
    @vanessa-ji2vo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I watched this video while my battery was at 69%...

    • @tabitharoberts2778
      @tabitharoberts2778 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vanessa L OMGG me too 😁😁

    • @ticia7451
      @ticia7451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg as soon I saw this comment I checked my battery and it was on 69%

    • @poluki
      @poluki 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine was on 68😂

    • @h0eneynutcheerios
      @h0eneynutcheerios 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg no way me too

    • @sarahnielsen7835
      @sarahnielsen7835 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      HA 70

  • @deepseadiver1499
    @deepseadiver1499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1296

    It's hard to type with one hand.....
    I'm eating a sandwich

  • @oreo23a
    @oreo23a 7 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    This month I officially became a wine mom.

    • @necrosiscosplays1875
      @necrosiscosplays1875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tiffany Moses
      I know I'll need to be a wine mom

    • @ponyo3922
      @ponyo3922 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations

    • @existentialcrisis5710
      @existentialcrisis5710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Did you add “mom” to your “wine” or add “wine” to your “mom”?

    • @doriannerautbort2007
      @doriannerautbort2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats

    • @naomy7336
      @naomy7336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The profile pic just made the comment better

  • @yaaaboiii
    @yaaaboiii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    lost mine and can safely say, nothing hurt. I didn't bleed, didn't cry. Was actually quite fun.

  • @c0rti_s0l
    @c0rti_s0l 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1073

    Why am I here I'm 13

    • @Partis-lz3dq
      @Partis-lz3dq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sollertia im almost 15

    • @Chloe-ym8vf
      @Chloe-ym8vf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I ...... think you need to come back later 😂😂😂

    • @amelie3316
      @amelie3316 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Sollertia I'm 11

    • @Sophia-yg2el
      @Sophia-yg2el 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sollertia same but um cough i wish i watched this before i lost mine

    • @babynourr677
      @babynourr677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahah samee

  • @MsAthina013
    @MsAthina013 7 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    I'm not ashamed to still be a virgin at 22 when I'm ready I'll know 😊💜

  • @saciatan5124
    @saciatan5124 7 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I love how happy she is in this episode

  • @nourby258
    @nourby258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +988

    i always hear about "being ready " and "love " but i'm just an aroused teenager who wants to have sex XD it's that easy

    • @The13Yami
      @The13Yami 7 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      meriem lili as long as you are mature enough to take the responsibility that come with it. Then go ahead

    • @leslygomez600
      @leslygomez600 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      same!!

    • @ariane378
      @ariane378 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      meriem lili but that means you're ready

    • @sofiaann586
      @sofiaann586 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      meriem lili 100% feel you

    • @skypeters3034
      @skypeters3034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True though

  • @eilidh1612
    @eilidh1612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2171

    I feel like I'm going to be judged for wanting to wait until marriage.
    edit: I'm checking this THREE YEARS LATER and wow everyone is so supportive, reading all these replies is making me feel normal about it lol! Thanks everyone for the kind words❤️

    • @risa6136
      @risa6136 7 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      A lot of people are also waiting for marriage, if people ever tell you, you'll never find a partner, that's a lie because if someone truly loves you they will wait until you're ready.

    • @bunny-yi9cj
      @bunny-yi9cj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Eilidh Grant na I think it's sweet to do so I'm doing the same thing

    • @Pepperthecory
      @Pepperthecory 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Eilidh Grant there's no problem with waiting if that's what YOU want- not anyone else.

    • @beckyalanis5540
      @beckyalanis5540 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      You are fine! I'm 20 and still want to wait until marriage. Don't let anyone put you down because of it

    • @daisys.5317
      @daisys.5317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I'm waiting as well! And what I found to be the most reassuring is my boyfriend's support. He didn't plan on waiting until marriage, but he is more than willing now because he knows how much it means to me.
      So, if your partner isn't willing to wait, find someone who will :)

  • @iamsofthuman5604
    @iamsofthuman5604 7 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    what bothers me is that Hannah's hair color doesn't fade or fall off does she dye it from time to time?

    • @corrinnegilbert2402
      @corrinnegilbert2402 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      oppa sehunie 94 it doesn't really bother me, I died my hair purple and the colour never really faded, but you can see where the blue that used to be the roots is a little faded. It's kinda cool tho.

    • @victoriapeck1683
      @victoriapeck1683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      oppa sehunie 94 She dyes it from time to time and she kept it away from her roots

    • @morganmason6191
      @morganmason6191 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      it’s the bleach that ruins your hair

  • @yumih3art
    @yumih3art 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I lost mine at 19. And I'm still with hi. 6 years later and we have a handsome baby boy ^^

  • @toniannglenn1113
    @toniannglenn1113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1495

    I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm still a virgin....still not sure if I'm ready

    • @eileenlikesyou
      @eileenlikesyou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Toniann Glenn don't worry! It'll happen when it happens. I'm almost 21 and I'm still a virgin and honestly? It's not something I'm too worried about losing because like I said, it'll happen when it happens.

    • @toniannglenn1113
      @toniannglenn1113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eileenlikesyou thank you 😃

    • @autumn7809
      @autumn7809 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Toniann Glenn Wait until you're reafy, don't rush it.

    • @Ze_Marsh
      @Ze_Marsh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      do it when you're confortable, don't feel pressured. The person you'll loose it with won't care, and if they do, well, they don't deserve you anyways ;p so don't worry about it!

    • @jillianm8958
      @jillianm8958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Toniann Glenn everyone is ready at different times! Don't just do it because you think you should be. There's no universal "right" time

  • @BigRigAly
    @BigRigAly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1359

    Thank god I'm still virgin at 17 going on 18 😂 it's too scary

    • @PsychoKern
      @PsychoKern 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      farrukita Martinez It's okay, same thing here but I'm 16

    • @globaldreaming1232
      @globaldreaming1232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Psycho Kern I'm thirtie and still a virgin!🖖

    • @Morgan-kh6lc
      @Morgan-kh6lc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      farrukita Martinez my friend thinks I'm crazy just bc she's had sex (summer before freshman year highschool) and I cringe at the thought of it. Like I'm not asexual or anything (if u r it's not a bad thing) but I just get freaked out about it

    • @TehTrixxable
      @TehTrixxable 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's just sad...

    • @sumayyaakapery8616
      @sumayyaakapery8616 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      farrukita Martinez save it for the person you're meant to be with, then it won't be scary. trust me

  • @ethanlowes5905
    @ethanlowes5905 7 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    Can we have a Whiskey Dad series? Oh wait.................................................... THIS IS BUZZFEED.

    • @skiddydobahbah6559
      @skiddydobahbah6559 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      HackD lmao whiskey dad😂 I would watch that

    • @lyssalopez4247
      @lyssalopez4247 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Petition to start a whiskey dad series

    • @cyberlife8322
      @cyberlife8322 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      HackD I’d honestly love that

    • @mattdiaz3586
      @mattdiaz3586 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Eugene Lee yang will be whiskey dad

    • @mkbXD
      @mkbXD 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HackD that actually sounds like a good idea

  • @ajaxt5612
    @ajaxt5612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    'Please excuse the living room' /nicer than my whole house lol/

  • @ajaxt5612
    @ajaxt5612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1827

    I'm hungry.

  • @soph4329
    @soph4329 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm so terrified of sex honestly

  • @emilynicole2849
    @emilynicole2849 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1457

    Still a virgin mostly because I'd only feel comfortable having sex if I was on birth control and my parents won't let me get on it so I'll just wait till college so I can do it without them getting on my case about it

    • @chameleonyoo7639
      @chameleonyoo7639 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Emily Nicole if you're in the UK and you're 16+ they can't stop you and they don't have to know

    • @emilynicole2849
      @emilynicole2849 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      adamzarini 16

    • @mochirose3259
      @mochirose3259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Emily Nicole wow is it like normal to lose it at like 15?? im 13 and NEVER evans had the thought i only want to do. it like wen im 25?? idk school forst

    • @emilynicole2849
      @emilynicole2849 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      UnicornsR Real were I live it's pretty common to have lost it between 13-16+

    • @chameleonyoo7639
      @chameleonyoo7639 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emily Nicole what country do you live in? It's pretty common for 15-17+ to lose it where I am too

  • @keplerscat28
    @keplerscat28 7 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    I'm 20 years old and haven't even kissed anyone. Idk, I've never looked at someone and wanted to kiss them, much less do anything sexual with them. I've turned down a few guys who where interested in me and I'm starting to think that I might be asexual, but I'm not sure. Maybe I just haven't met the right person yet.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Das Eiki or you could be on the asexual scale. I'm demi and was 23 before I actually wanted to kiss someone and only after we'd grown very close

    • @emmaroombaasmr8036
      @emmaroombaasmr8036 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You may be. Just do whatever feels comfortable, you don't have to have sexual feelings.

    • @Rinsuki
      @Rinsuki 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Only you can know. I'm 26 and asexual. I just don't even think about that stuff most of the time and I can't picture myself with anyone like that. I rather be friends. Despite what people tell me (oh you'll find the right one, you're still young, etc...), I've always been like this.

    • @TheAmazingJon
      @TheAmazingJon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well, you do you.

    • @NanoCena
      @NanoCena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You don't necessarily have to be asexual. I used to feel that way until I genuinely fell in love with someone. I've liked a few guys before him but I never wanted to do anything with them until I met my current boyfriend. I'm still a virgin though, waiting for marriage ❤

  • @chooseaname1999
    @chooseaname1999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    im not sure why her karaoke sex joke wasnt appreciated as much as it was but thanks hannah loved it as much as you did

  • @marts3229
    @marts3229 7 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    Is anyone worried about getting PREGNANT?!

    • @duckfeetonglass6541
      @duckfeetonglass6541 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      This is too random for words You know condoms are a thing right?

    • @punkyn2002
      @punkyn2002 7 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Purple Red Black you know they can break, right?

    • @Anonymous-uv4xf
      @Anonymous-uv4xf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      *Ahem*
      Two words...
      Drumroll please...
      *"Birth control"*

    • @0325ish
      @0325ish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      There are condoms, pills, treatments, the pill of the day after.

    • @kirsty1667
      @kirsty1667 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I can’t relate because I’m gay xD

  • @ramenchuu
    @ramenchuu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    4:34 for all of you who are still virgins, each and every question should be asked and thought about. Very wise advice.
    Also, no pressure. You're ready, when you're ready. It doesn't have to happen at the same time as your peers, and it doesn't need to be anything you don't want it to be. Think hard about WHY and HOW you would imagine it for, and be ok with that.
    Some casually lose their virginity, some save it for love. Just make sure, when ever you decide, you thought about it and you're being safe about it. In the end, you don't need any reason other than your own.
    Prevention methods:
    non-penetrative sex
    birth control
    condoms
    female condoms
    if you are female and regular with your period you can even learn how to chart, the days you are high risk of pregnancy, and the days you aren't. This way you know when to be especially careful.
    If you forgot any methods there is still more:
    Plan B emergency pills
    Last case scenario: abortion. Your choice, it's your body, no shame about it.

    • @luisa3607
      @luisa3607 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Leanna iiiii

  • @celineterra8107
    @celineterra8107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    When I lost my virginity I didn’t feel a thing. I was like “that’s it?” Poor guy, his confidence went down the drain

    • @sitalpradhan548
      @sitalpradhan548 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao same

    • @marga8732
      @marga8732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My gosh I burst out laughing reading this! Now my sister’s looking at me weird lmao 🤣

  • @willowmac7159
    @willowmac7159 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1323

    im not the only teen watching?

    • @memecunt187
      @memecunt187 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Willow Mac im 13 xddddddd internet is a great place.

    • @rowan1601
      @rowan1601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nerp

    • @erin1912
      @erin1912 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Willow Mac naw bruh😂

    • @rancidk1ll743
      @rancidk1ll743 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no.

    • @gravitygrace8585
      @gravitygrace8585 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm 11.

  • @chanellelloyd895
    @chanellelloyd895 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Hannah 🔝 is like a big sister to me who tells me about everything

  • @charlieglendo5933
    @charlieglendo5933 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My husbands a teacher and showed this to his high school class and I think it's so much better than the normal stuff they learn

    • @Shaunhornik
      @Shaunhornik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Robinsons Family wtf

  • @annasmithson8726
    @annasmithson8726 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    i want this woman to be my therapist

  • @rachellarson2740
    @rachellarson2740 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hannah, I feel like you're that cool older sister that I never had. you give me such great advice I'll remember when I start having kids! love you! 😙

  • @GreenDayfreak717
    @GreenDayfreak717 7 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    i lost my virginity to my good friend at 15 he was 16. we were watching sweeny todd XD omg such emo kids..... and he was the nicest ever about taking my VCard we dated a little after that he was good about my anxiety, and everything but we were young and he cheated on me a couple time even with my bestfriend... which sucked, but! Im 21 now and he and i are good friends still and I've long since forgiven him. :)

    • @Anonymous-uv4xf
      @Anonymous-uv4xf 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice.

    • @Zoepro1998
      @Zoepro1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Green Day is my favorite band I've seen them four times this year lol!!!

    • @exosvocals2526
      @exosvocals2526 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah! The good ol' sweeny todd films :'^)

    • @ravenonyx9471
      @ravenonyx9471 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      GreenDayfreak717 Props to you. I wouldn't be able to forgive cx

    • @mana.a
      @mana.a 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me, it depend on the situation i am forgiving but i wont view them as the same

  • @20angie04
    @20angie04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I'm going to wait until I get married. CHRISTIAN FAMILY WHERE YOU AT

    • @bee-xb8vk
      @bee-xb8vk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ABSTINENCE FOR THE WIN

    • @evanacostaa
      @evanacostaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m Catholic and I really don’t care if your married or not- although of course not with strangers or someone you’ve known for two days- as long as you actually love them and are ready.

    • @zenasibai7646
      @zenasibai7646 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angie’s Vlogs respect ❤

    • @wheatfields_2326
      @wheatfields_2326 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heeeeere!

    • @joyson7
      @joyson7 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @TheSamkrox
    @TheSamkrox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hannah = best teacher ever. She's like the cool, unmarried, aunt everyone wishes they had, who's 10 year younger than your parents. (Yes I know she's married, I was making a point)

  • @ha1eyg
    @ha1eyg 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how honest and helpful Hannah is, she's still fun and not awkward while talking about stuff like this. My school has no sense of different sexualities or that there are different forms of sex, which is hard especially for me, since I'm not straight and I'm still exploring my sexuality, which they never tell us about and just assume everyone is a straight person who just knows what to do and needs to know what the Vas Deferens is (because that's important?). But anyways, you've helped me so much emotionally and physically with a lot of stuff, and I love watching your little show you have. Thanks for always making me feel safe and comfortable with myself Hannah :)

  • @tulip5327
    @tulip5327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    hi Hannah! i'm 15 and i was wondering, how do you becomre more confident in yourself? i'm starting a new school this fall, and i'm awful at talking to people and i'm scared that i won't make any friends. any advice?

    • @tulip5327
      @tulip5327 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!

    • @elenanicoleta5127
      @elenanicoleta5127 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I was pretty shy and reserved during high school and I really regreted it so I promised myself I will just put myself out there during college. And I did! I talked to strangers in class , I smiled more ,I asked and answered questions in class and I basically just let loose and said what I wanted do say (without hurting anyone of course). And I met some amazing people and made some really good friends that way. The "secret" is being yourself. Just add a little bit of extra courage :) I hope everything goes well for you. Good luck.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Accepting and loving yourself will make you confident in yourself. I also found drama classes/club help with making friends, gaining confidence, and public speaking

    • @jordannpharris3563
      @jordannpharris3563 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey! I know i am not hannah either but i do have some recomondations. Maybe try getting involved in an activity you love. Also wear things that make you feel like you will the volume turned up (maybe a fandom tshirt or a necklace you love, a shirt that makes you look good, etc.) and at the end of the day learn to not compare your expiriences and apperance to other people. They are not you, therefore its not a fair comparison. Try to live without comparing you to others

    • @aunnikasmith4963
      @aunnikasmith4963 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      General fangirl same. I'm so nervous. I really don't want to because I'm going to go to a public school and I've went to a private/Catholic school all my life.

  • @juliavitkin8874
    @juliavitkin8874 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1094

    I'm a 14 yo girl and I've been so scared about losing my virginity. thank god for your channel.

    • @jannnattttttt9152
      @jannnattttttt9152 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Julia Vitkin ur still young don't think about it !!! Just enjoy ur life with ur family !!! And give ur virginity to the only one Man in ur life

    • @ambero-xy1zq
      @ambero-xy1zq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Nothing to rush into or be scared of. It's literally just another experience.

    • @juliavitkin8874
      @juliavitkin8874 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lones skazziltin umm I don't see how bc eventually I'll have to lose it

    • @juliavitkin8874
      @juliavitkin8874 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jannnattttttt thanks :) glad to know somebody can help ^_^

    • @unicornzgirl2858
      @unicornzgirl2858 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      well... you don't necessarily *have* to lose it...

  • @gabbylopez9091
    @gabbylopez9091 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wholeheartedly appreciate this video Hannah! I haven't lost mine yet, I'm 25, and in college. Most of my friends have. I can relate to the pressure part in high school because that was something that was a huge deal to everyone. My mom talked with me about the emotional aspect and it really helped! Thank you. To everyone, there isn't a rush to lose it. It's okay to be one, and it's okay to wait until marriage, like I'm doing. That isn't anything to be embarrassed about! It's better to lose it to someone who cares about you and that is genuinely concerned that your first time is the best, than to just rush to lose it to someone who could care less.

  • @xfirefoxy
    @xfirefoxy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I was 15, it wasn't as scary or life changing as I thought it would be.
    It didn't hurt, didn't bleed, it felt strangely normal.
    The scary part was always thinking you're going to get pregnant. 😂
    I'm 22 now, me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 2yrs and it's not happening. 😂
    I think every now and then, "am I doing it right?" 😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @cinnamera
      @cinnamera 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its an entire layer of skin breaking inside your vagina how did it not hurt or bleed ;-;

    • @gabriellel1118
      @gabriellel1118 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck!

    • @kaisanorma4077
      @kaisanorma4077 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheRandomChannel Unreleased lmao no?

    • @kimk.9168
      @kimk.9168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meredithrl마레딫 actually that’s a myth
      I’m assuming ur talking about the hymen and the hymen actually surrounds ur vagina, it doesn’t completely cover it

    • @SodaAvenue
      @SodaAvenue 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi xFireFoxy, hope you have seen a western doc by now to help with the fertility. i heard it really depends on when you do it.. is it during the day whereby your egg is ready to accept sperms or smthing like that.
      whereas Chinese doc used accupuncture with medicine (less side effect compared to western since they use traditional chinese herbs to boil a herbal remedy) and aids in infertility slower but gradually. if all else fails there is ivf which sounds super painful.
      Hope you get successful!

  • @jaygraham1524
    @jaygraham1524 7 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    i love you hannah can you possibly do a video about to beat bulling coz im started to get bullied for being gay and its getting out of hand...

    • @awesomeguy9573
      @awesomeguy9573 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jamie Graham Stand up for yourself

    • @oliviaboag538
      @oliviaboag538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      AwesomeGuy it's not that easy😂

    • @luci4266
      @luci4266 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jamie Graham Please talk to someone about this...

    • @rikkefromdenmark
      @rikkefromdenmark 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      if you feel safe enough to tell someone, then please do! a teacher, a parent, a friend, anyone you trust. simply confiding can ease your feelings. if the bullies are physically aggressive, get proof. take pictures of your bruises, write down everything that happens in as much detail as you can remember. i hope your situation is not as bad as i'm imagining it, sending you lots of love and encouragement!

    • @carolinapereira8958
      @carolinapereira8958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello, just to begin I migth write some words wrong because I'm portuguese,
      So... I think you should firstly tell someone you trust and you think that can help you,, and maybe talk to your school director ( if you still in school ).
      And you should also show to your bullies that they don't have the power of making you feel bad. If you can do that they will get bored because you won't show them the emotions they expect, and they'll stop.
      I hope I hepled, I have been bullied a little because I wore a hat at elementary school, but then I did what I told you nad they stopped.
      Good luck, and don't forget to update us ( people who responded to your comment ).
      Bye

  • @LaurenMichelleMD
    @LaurenMichelleMD 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I waited to have sex until I was 24 - on my wedding night! Not awkward or painful, and I have zero regrets.

  • @rikkefromdenmark
    @rikkefromdenmark 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And remember, not feeling any sexual desires is ok too! You don't have to have sex, asexuality is normal and valid.

  • @MizaMika
    @MizaMika 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    omg hannah where were you years ago when I needed this 😂 but seriously, this is awesome, I praise you so much because there are so many kids out there that have no idea about this topic so thank you for covering it, especially in such a cool, relatable way! go wine mom!

  • @bobbi.l9383
    @bobbi.l9383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, I would say the best thing to do is to wait until you are sure you are ready, and that it is your decision ( don't just do it because you feel pressured to). Everyone is different; some it may not hurt or others (like myself) hurts a lot and even hurt after for a day. But for most people after a few times, it does not hurt and can be a lot of fun! I don't regret it and glad I waited until I knew I could handle it emotionally, even though I waited until I was 22.

  • @Elly_Rose
    @Elly_Rose 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I lost mine when I was 23 and I don't regret it. It doesn't mean that I was raised in a strict family without any contact with men or boys, I just wanted to make it right, and so it was)
    Little tip for everyone out there: NEVER change yourself for somebody! NEVER make an important decision based only on what other people tell or think about the issue and you! Do it your way and don't be provoked with "Oh, you're still a virgin, what is wrong with you?".
    I don't quite agree with everything Hannah's said (from the psychological point of view), but the general idea is good - it's a natural thing that happens to all of us, so just except it, but be wise and consider the act for yourself, not for the society.

  • @brittanyshi5568
    @brittanyshi5568 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Can you talk about body image or eating disorders

  • @ericaobrien1764
    @ericaobrien1764 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a biology final at 7:30 in the morning and instead of sleeping I am now binging this series because I love it so much. Thank you for being real about everything! So many people romanticize all the things you talk about and create this perfect expectation of what it should be like, and I’m glad that you’re breaking that wall down with a glass of wine in your hand.

  • @ezstarr
    @ezstarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Me: *clearly not a mom but wants to watch video anyway😂*

  • @KessyMar
    @KessyMar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    1. How do you know if you're ready?
    2. How do you hide condoms from noisy parents?

    • @gabbieshortie5240
      @gabbieshortie5240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kessy Mar I'll try my best but, I lost mine at 15 (Now about to be 18, still with the guy) :) just wait until you find someone who is special, if you can say "yes they're worth it" or you just feel as if it's right go ahead (just use protection I'm on birth control myself) virginity to me isn't a big deal honestly. As for condoms (hide in jewellery box, shoe box, in easy small hiding spots :)

    • @DD-wg7rw
      @DD-wg7rw 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just know it. It's important to feel comfortable so it would be less painful. And it depends how you "see" sex. If you think of it as an act of love then it'll happen when you find somebody you really love. In a safe place and where nobody can interrupt you.

    • @xxfallenangel1995xx
      @xxfallenangel1995xx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll just sort of...know when you're ready. It's hard to explain. And hiding condoms? You could keep them at a friend's who don't have nosy parents, you could wait until the day you plan on using them, etc

    • @noacross4903
      @noacross4903 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kessy Mar you're ready when it feels right and you are comfortable with that person. you can hide them in your room somewhere your parents wouldn't look

    • @PrettyYounqThang
      @PrettyYounqThang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kessy Mar I would maybe keep a box hidden in your closet or bathroom cabinet or just carry a box with you in a purse so that way they can't look through your stuff when you're not home

  • @dianawaddoups8937
    @dianawaddoups8937 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    i lost my virginity to my husband on our wedding night. we are both very religious so we both waited until we were married

  • @heyitsjustme.680
    @heyitsjustme.680 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Let the sprinklers run" Bahahahahaahah!!!

  • @Blondzrule
    @Blondzrule 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was 19 and I married the guy. I hate that everyone assumes that if you are in high school you have to loose your virginity. I had the situation where I get along with guys better than I do girls. ( what we women are weird complicated things ) So all through high school and tafe my mum only saw we hanging out with guys and tomboys, she assumed I was sleeping with a few of them just cause we were friendly. That annoys me. I work in a high school now and the things I hear both true and not scare me. Please virgins, younger people etc THINK before you do things, make sure like she said you go through the mental check list. But ultimately it's no one's business but yours if you are having sex or not don't be ashamed of haveing your "V" plates and if you can talk to a trusted adult (about any concerns you have.) #notamum #lovewinemums

  • @TheCrystalBoat
    @TheCrystalBoat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    All my friends lost their virginity around late high school age (15-17) and I was 20. I didn't care :P And in my experience it really didn't hurt and I didn't bleed at all.

    • @kvikerplays1684
      @kvikerplays1684 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my country 15 is like the first year of high school

  • @Ruby-qd7it
    @Ruby-qd7it 7 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    I'm 13 in middle school and most of my friends aren't virgins anymore (I still am)

    • @hanchonteh5739
      @hanchonteh5739 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      wtf in South East Asia noone loses their virginity at a young age im 13

    • @bea-bx3gr
      @bea-bx3gr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Ruby tapioca Really?! That's messed up in my opinion.

    • @devanbeauty
      @devanbeauty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      I hope that you never get pressured into it. I promise you it's not worth it.

    • @Ruby-qd7it
      @Ruby-qd7it 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Devan Serene I'm not going to loose my virginity at the age of 13 that was my friend's choices. It's not going to be mine

    • @kristinaberniceisetta5979
      @kristinaberniceisetta5979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and most people consider that old. It shocks me and doesn't shock me at the same time. One thing I can tell you is that you will know when your ready, and you'll know who the right person is. Don't let others convince you that you have to lose it by a certain age or be cool, it's not worth it.

  • @crystaltrujillo3883
    @crystaltrujillo3883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I wish I had the guts to dye my hair like Hannah 😩💘

    • @morganstephens321
      @morganstephens321 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Crystal Trujillo What's stopping you?

    • @thesavage5151
      @thesavage5151 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Crystal Trujillo If you are "afraid" you can do what I did, I dyed my hair half hair with red. I only dyed half so that if I got tired of it, I could cut my hair back to just my og hair color and girl your hair will grow back! 😂

    • @poppyxo4839
      @poppyxo4839 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Crystal Trujillo Use a temporary spray in hair dye and if you don't like it, just wash it out. 🙃

    • @neko_doll5122
      @neko_doll5122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, but the problem is that my high school is rlly strict. ;( BUT after high school I'm dying it every color, wonna join?

  • @ps374249
    @ps374249 7 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    If you call sex "smashing", you should not have sex.

  • @Tiffoblie
    @Tiffoblie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This segment is literally one of the few good parts about buzzfeed lately

  • @kaidietmair5080
    @kaidietmair5080 7 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    whos filming wine mom? her husband?

    • @kakuella
      @kakuella 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kadde her coworker

    • @natuyy
      @natuyy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i think they're divorced? correct me if i'm wrong

    • @emmajane3894
      @emmajane3894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Kadde her tripod

    • @Sabrina-sc1db
      @Sabrina-sc1db 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nadja WHAT 💔

    • @rowan1601
      @rowan1601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nope they're still together

  • @lattelover-ii3vs
    @lattelover-ii3vs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hannah's laugh makes me laugh 😂

  • @printyourlife6041
    @printyourlife6041 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I lost it when I saw BTS lol jk still a Virgin til death

  • @Stephanie-be8fj
    @Stephanie-be8fj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    7 years ago and i remember it so vividly! it was not romantic atallllllll but it was so funny XD we were in an empty movie theater and a little old lady came in to clean the theater and she looks down and sees me on him and instead of freaking out or calling security she just told us to have fun and she would keep a look out for us and make sure no one else went in... we didnt finish cuz we were so busy laughing like crazy and when i went to get off him i fell back and hit my head against the wall XD ahh memories

  • @jadelimpus1856
    @jadelimpus1856 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do more of these videos, they make my day/week.
    I would love to see you do a video on things you can/can't do once you have kids.
    Keep up the good work Hannah 👍🏽💜

  • @vanessa-wz2bj
    @vanessa-wz2bj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    I'm 17 and still a virgin by my choice, where's my round of applause? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @kingstonb8130
      @kingstonb8130 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @1andonlyg4mer13
      @1andonlyg4mer13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Vanessa G. Clap clap for the handicap

    • @kayleeadams6861
      @kayleeadams6861 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vanessa G. I am too!!

    • @gabbywatt6444
      @gabbywatt6444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vanessa G. 👏👏👏

    • @ellabrown7226
      @ellabrown7226 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👏👏👏 I failed on my 16th bday 👏👏👏

  • @woe-is-mia9156
    @woe-is-mia9156 7 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    being a teen mom/advise for it?? (not for me my friend just found out she's pregnant with a fuckboy's baby and she thinks he'll take care of it)

    • @ramenchuu
      @ramenchuu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Get an abortion if you want it, your life will change forever so really think it through if you want the child.
      Keep the baby if you want it, but don't expect the father to be there or to change dramatically. Some get lucky, but if he's a good for nothing, just assume that will continue and envision what that would mean for you.
      It's your life.
      Some people get abortions as a teen and say it is the best decision they made in their life because having a child so young would have ruined them. Some people don't, and they're happy and fine. It's a case by case scenario, just think about it as if you had to deal with it on your own without the father.

    • @ramenchuu
      @ramenchuu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thanks just trying to help. :)
      Almost forget too: think about your support system. Who is definitely on board, who is not, and what that would mean for you financially too.
      Some people report parents who throw their kids out for a variety of reasons on things they do not agree with, even for being gay, and may not support you. Just a reality for some.

    • @marianat2830
      @marianat2830 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Please tell her not to get an abortion. There are a lot of ways to "get rid of the baby" (gosh that sounds awful). She can also give the baby up for adoption if she doesn't think she has what it takes to raise her/him. If she wants to keep him/her, it will be the biggest blessing of her life. Every person I've heard that keeps the baby (except the incredibly wrong parents...) they always say that their life wouldn't be the same. Every parent loves their child more than they love themselves.
      If she wants to give him/her up then adoption is the way. Let that baby have a chance to live and make his/her own story :) and tell her congrats from me

    • @ajp7968
      @ajp7968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      But what if she wants to pursue a post-high school education? Or not have to worry about dropping out of school because she has another human being to take care of and doesn't have enough time to take care of herself? And you're right, her life isn't ever going to be the same if she decides to go through with a pregnancy. Not every person has the time, interest, resources, capacity, or emotional investment to be a parent. Whether or not she wants to be one right now or ever is up to her, and it's her body and herself that she's also taking care of. Whatever choice she wants to make is up to her :)

    • @mostrum195
      @mostrum195 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Panic! At The Pity Party Isn't she a fuckgirl then?

  • @Avbitten
    @Avbitten 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm a 20 year old female virgin. Theres no shame in waiting like me. And it doesn't have to be religious. I'm athiest. There is also no shame in not waiting. Do whatever you want. just be safe.

  • @nathanselvaggi4192
    @nathanselvaggi4192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +687

    Hey my name is Nathan, I'm a 14 year old bisexual guy. I was wondering if you could talk about sexualitues for your next episode

    • @niamhydoo
      @niamhydoo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm bi too!

    • @Eric_Estevez
      @Eric_Estevez 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nathan Selvaggi I'm a 13 year old bi girl too

    • @Ze_Marsh
      @Ze_Marsh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      lmao when I see kids saying they're bi or gay or anything I'm always like "aw but they're so small"
      but then I remember how I literally made out with a girl my age and was like "that's a bit gay" xD so GO YOU

    • @jillianm8958
      @jillianm8958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nathan Selvaggi I'm bi too! But I'm a girl :)

    • @rowan1601
      @rowan1601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm pans! and genderqueer! And my name is Rowan

  • @fluffinn
    @fluffinn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "SO when you go straight up like KA-POW" HAHAHAHHA You're the absolute best please start your own channel!

  • @krystalbressmer3678
    @krystalbressmer3678 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should totally do an episode on different types of babysitters!

  • @dulcemaya1995
    @dulcemaya1995 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I wish she was my mom

  • @Kamaeira
    @Kamaeira 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much right now for this whole video. Especially for this "you can stop anytime" part, I wish somebody told me that more often. :)

  • @taylorewert306
    @taylorewert306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LOVE HER SO MUCH OMG!!

  • @ginahandlik5975
    @ginahandlik5975 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lost my virginity to my (at the time) best friend at 15. We were both virgins and dated for 5 months before we did. He broke himself out of the friendzone after 3 years! Theres always hope! We dated for a year then broke up (Thank the lord). I am now currently in a new relationship with my boyfriend for 2.5 years! He was a virgin and we did it a month into the relationship! You’ll know when youre ready!

  • @fairygirl4778
    @fairygirl4778 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you wine mom. I'm a writer, and your videos have really helped me with some of my characters. Keep going, you're wonderful!

  • @MelodyAK98
    @MelodyAK98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for addressing that women do not become obsessed. omg lol
    I could never find a song that fit. It felt weird that the beat didn't match the sex lol

  • @larari1
    @larari1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    my friend's sister lost her virginity at 13.....

    • @bunny-yi9cj
      @bunny-yi9cj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      lara eww they're children that's disgusting

    • @trainedwarrior502
      @trainedwarrior502 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My best friend did the same thing... This is just bad...

    • @miawort1907
      @miawort1907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lara a girl at my school had a baby at 14

    • @ditzy_ditzy
      @ditzy_ditzy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      mia Wort 😱

    • @miawort1907
      @miawort1907 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      #EveCinnamond * I know

  • @annmariejohnson7083
    @annmariejohnson7083 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are AWESOME!! I was soo uncomfortable with the idea of losing it and you have helped me through that stage. Thanks!!

  • @vintagebliss2739
    @vintagebliss2739 7 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    did anyone else lose their virginity in a weird place? i lost mine in a sauna. i don't recommend, it was so uncomfortable lmao

    • @biancamogosan3223
      @biancamogosan3223 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      velvet chablis in my garage/craft space (on a chair)😂😂😂

    • @cristinamurillo4028
      @cristinamurillo4028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i lost mine in a workshop, it wasn't clean...

    • @theashark
      @theashark 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      On a piano 😕

    • @lucyshearer7117
      @lucyshearer7117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Back of a movie theatre 😂 we managed to keep quiet and thank god it wasn't crowded

    • @jadeedwards9527
      @jadeedwards9527 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pool

  • @linah1998
    @linah1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm 18 and I'm one of the last in my class who's still a virgin. I felt very insecure about that but this video kinda helped :') Thank you for that !

  • @kasierose7062
    @kasierose7062 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Hannah! I'm about to go to college in the fall, and I was wondering if you could do a video on that? It's a pretty scary thing, leaving the little cocoon you grew up in and just being thrown out into the world alone. Could you talk about what to expect socially, parties, meeting people, dorms, and any tips you have? Thank you I absolutely love your videos :)

  • @Bluemansonic
    @Bluemansonic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I am 23, and i hate being a virgin...

    • @trainedwarrior502
      @trainedwarrior502 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You just reminded me, I was going to bring a fedora to school on monday

    • @imarmn4972
      @imarmn4972 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      with the stuffed backpack?

    • @rosevampire3755
      @rosevampire3755 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JTAC Bluemansonic
      How can you hate being hyperlogical.

    • @PoeticNewYork17
      @PoeticNewYork17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i am a 22 year old virgin but no rush. you're not alone :)

    • @worm3735
      @worm3735 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the answer as to why is staring right at me

  • @MelissaCsikortos
    @MelissaCsikortos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I'm not even a teen but I know way too much already than I should

    • @theAppleWizz
      @theAppleWizz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      nop what are you like 11 , 10 it's not bad that you know this stuff it's actually very important that you do because no matter what people tell you sex is not bad it's part of life and it should not be embarrassing.

    • @macywilliams244
      @macywilliams244 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol same

    • @Dan-sd3wx
      @Dan-sd3wx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lmao

    • @rui98
      @rui98 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve known since I was 7 I’m 13 turning 14 April, but I really don’t care it happens in life best you know now :P

    • @emptyricebowl
      @emptyricebowl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucy then why is there a thing where schools expose this information to 11 and 12 year olds? Exactly

  • @christajones9983
    @christajones9983 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh I love your videos and just how honest your are!

  • @TheLizziemiller
    @TheLizziemiller 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What lipstick is that! It's so pretty!

  • @GopTwitch
    @GopTwitch 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    how did i end up here? was listening ed sheeran songs..

  • @haleymargaret711
    @haleymargaret711 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i appreciate this a lot. My school system doesn't even do sex ed, which is super messed up, but tbh everything I know/expect is from the internet and videos like this. Thank you

  • @Mailen1991
    @Mailen1991 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Hi Hannah! I think it's great you are doing this kind of stuff for your teenage audience, but the original videos were increidibly great! This is not as enjoyable if you have already (and thankfully) gotten over those teenager years haha. Please keep doing videos about your experiences as a mother! They are just way too funny.

  • @icysims5257
    @icysims5257 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm 14 I don't have any kids and I don't drink wine but I still love this show 😋😋😋😋

  • @beingbeckeroni
    @beingbeckeroni 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this Hannah and made me wish you had a daughter. I was handed books. But depending on the book, it can be what you need, too clinical or too judgmental. This did such a great job of just laying the truth all out there and hopefully dispelling any myths about virginity. Also that slip-n-slide metaphor was one of the best metaphors I've ever heard.

  • @greciabaiza9275
    @greciabaiza9275 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're the best mom ever!!!

  • @soleilvivero8515
    @soleilvivero8515 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I see a butterfly on her wrist...
    Hannah, are you ok?