I share the same impulse, however it gets a lot more complicated the moment doing so destroy the relationship with your daughter until soon before you die… There’s a hidden message in that… Right or wrong, doing nothing is not an option. Good bless all the committed dads in this world and may we find the wisdom to raise women we can all be proud of.
I honestly feel that, even if his daughter still hates him, the answer to that second question is still yes. Because he made sure she didn't have to continue surviving an abuser. He made sure the husband never took it too far. Every bit of joy in her and her daughter's life is partially because he said "fuck consequences" and did a father's duty.
This is best part of this movie….one of my favourite movies list. Watched this movie in 2007 and it’s been 14 years but I still remember every part of it.
Jack really stretched for this role, being that he's played so many wild men, eccentrics, and wackos, and here he is playing a real "button-down" type, in fact a big shot in a big business.
"But there was something about him" - Father's Intuition "First time he hit her, I wanted to bash his brains in" - Father's Fury "Next time it happened, I took care of it" - Father's Protection
It sounds like his daughter was similar to the Connie Corleone character from the Godfather. She launch into a tirade at her brother Michael after Michael had her abusive husband killed.
@@nrkgaltCarlo died because he set up Sonny, his beating Connie was just icing, which is why he got strangled and not just shot in the back of the head.
My sister got married and then dumped by her high school sweetheart. She's now with a decent guy my mom likes and though we aren't close I was invited to their wedding. I won't lie... I told my new brother in law that I was a problem child for a reason and there would be no forgiveness for any man who broke her heart a second time
Every time I see my newest granddaughter I think I could honestly answer the second question with a yes. I was at their house yesterday helping the son-in-law install gutter drain lines and popups and that little girl followed me everywhere. After her nap, mom brought her outside and the look on her face that I was still there was priceless. Literally brought tears to my eyes. Right then I realized the answer to the first question is a resounding yes.
...the day my girl friend said yes... the days our kids were born... me? every time i got on stage and heard the crowds reaction to what i did... yes to both questions ;)
This scene forced me to watch this movie again and again ,cuz I'm a father and I know how it feel if ur young daughter get hurts by a scumbag , so be prepared
If they don't let me into Egyptian heaven because my daughter hates me,well, then I guess that's just the way it goes, however you answered your 2 questions
While setting in front of these pyramids i Egypt I asked myself another question.. if these pyramids are tomb for the ancient Egyptian kings where the hill are their palaces? And why it was destroyed and how beautiful and big it was
As an Australian I saw the widest cultural gap between the English and everybody else...❤...if a doctor or nurse encountered any tears they would immediately refer to a social worker...so....give us all a break...NHS does NOT entertain grief or loss...nurses are always grumpy and doctors always refer away from the emotionally challenging patient/family
It really pissed me off the daughter hates her dad for caring and wanting to save her from an abusive AH! Hating her dad because HE DID CARE instead of him umm being abusive to her or her mom, or being a deadbeat dad. Yea that’s a real good reason to cut your dad out of your life. EYEROLL
this flick never hit the sweet notes with the movie review cadre but for content and entertainment I rate it highly. It's in my 300 best films ever made.
Joy and pleasure is not one of life’s higher virtues. Love and sacrifice is. And he sacrificed his joy out of love. So the Egyptian gods can keep their heaven if joy is their only measure.
I took care of it,full stop say no more . . . A man's man,so be it . . . ❤🇿🇦 I see where Heath Ledger got his charm though at a price,its a give and take "concept" 😉
What if you answer no. What will happen Well I believe it s a legend but I want to understand the concept of old egyptian story about heaven and this 2 questions?
Actually, what Carter says about the Egyptian afterlife isn't true. As I understand it, when you reach the afterlife you're interrogated by a whole PANEL of gods (dozens, if I remember correctly). Each asks you about a particular aspect of your life. Then, you're weighed against the 'feather of truth.' If you pass the test, you go on to the next life. If not, that's the end.
@@HughButler-lb6zs It does seem that way. I've studied many religions to some level, and I can't recall one yet that doesn't have some form of afterlife. Confucianism, perhaps, but I'm not even sure we can call that a 'religion.'
I have a sense of humor, i make many people laugh everyday and i laugh right along with them but i have not found happiness in my life, I’m trying, I’m 47 and trying to ask a beautiful 41yr old woman if she would like to date me. I guess its up to GOD in heaven if she accepts me and if she does, thats when i will find true happiness in my life!
Happines is in you. Making someone love you is impossible, what you can do is love yourself more and if you love yourself, you will give a f**k that if other person loves you or not . Your problem is that you think love is something you get from another. and you insist on loving someone else than yourself. Always remeber the wise words from schopenhauer: Is difficult to find happiness in yourself but it is impossible to find it somewhere else.
Johny Tolengo well here is the problem, i have brought joy to so many, i know this because i hear them laugh almost daily at my funny sense of humor, so I’ve cared about others joy before mine. Just too much has happened to me over the past years to find myself joy but i know i need to start putting myself first, just don’t know how to do it, i have everything i want in material things but that doesn’t make me happy. I guess I’m lost.
@@rawblow4512 No, you're not. Become your best frend, start doing things only for you and for your own good, learn to hang out with your own being, to enjoy nothing more than your own company, take care of yourself, dress the best way, eat helathy, exorcise, read, give to your body, mind and soul only the best of the best, and have the same standards with the people you want to have around but at the same time understand that others cant be completly the way we want, and thats fine, just dont let anyone disrispect you only to have "some company around you". so take time to be alone and time to be with people, summing it up find a balance in all aspects of your life. You know you are on the right track, because you are searching for your own happines insted of being miserable, thats an Alpha move. i dont know if u can see that, but very few people have the courgae and self respect to seek that out for themselvs, congrats! u are almost there, wish you the best my friend, hope that something of what I write to u may help, but always rememer, all the things u want and the things u are looking for, are alredy inside you and nobody can give it to u but yourself.
This is when I got angry, because this is a typical screenwriter BS - to "borrow" an impression of depth, they wave around mythology, religion or philosophy they are not even familiar with. Here they "slapped on" Christian “Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you” on Ancient Egyptians whose system of belief and way of thinking was completely different. First of all, ancient Egyptians believed that to be even eligible for afterlife, your body must be mummified and preserved. That's why even the poorest of the poor tried to save a bit of copper for the embalmers and for a humble tomb in the Necropolis, because even if you lived a life of a saint, no preserved body, no afterlife. According to ancient Egyptians, when you die, you appear before the god Anubis with jackal's head who weighs your heart on the Divine Scale against Ma'at ("the Truth"), symbolized by a single white ostrich weather. If your heart is black and heavy with sin, it weighs more and sinks on the Scale, you are immediately devoured by Ammit, the monstrous Devourer of Souls, and that's the end of your existence. If your heart is found pure, and you have a preserved body, your soul embarks to the Realm of the Dead called Duat. So if you want to borrow mythological props, please respect their authenticity (by not spraying Christian anachronisms over them).
Why pray to the same god who admitted they created sin and evil? If we are made in his image, why are we made with sin? Why should we give ourselves to the same person who made us flawed? It's like building a machine that is broken, then forcing the machine to fix itself then thank you for it. Thank god for what? He created life flawed and so imperfect that he had to flood the Earth and kill EVERYONE because he couldn't create humans without sin. He is an omnipotent being who sees the end before the beginning, he writes everyone's story, so HE writes whether or not you go to Heaven or Hell before you are born. Any loving god would NEVER willingly make a Hell for their own creations to go if they don't submit to them for the flaws the creator gave them. Any god worthy of worship, wouldn't want to be worshipped or care if we believed in them at all. They would take what we did in life and punish us according to our actions, not our belief. When a religion believes that even the worst person, a murderer rapist abuser racist sexist can still go to heaven if they give themselves to god when god wrote that life for them, but someone who saved millions of lives in a selfless act that costed their own, they would burn for ETERNITY all because they didn't believe in god, is NOT a god worth worshiping. And even that worst person, wouldn't deserve eternity in Hell. You don't realize what Eternity means truly. Take the age of the universe now, or just a ballpark 100 trillion years, thats still nothing compared to ETERNITY. No life on Earth that lasts usually under 100 years is worth an Eternity of suffering. Even if you take the number of every atom in the universe, and for every atom you go through the lifetime of the universe, that 1.3x10^90 years, still is not even a fraction of Eternity. NO ONE deserves that, and any god who writes people's lives to end up like that, is no god worth my forgiveness.
“I’m not proud of everything I did, but I’m pretty sure I would do it all again” great line
as a dad, i would have done the same.
I share the same impulse, however it gets a lot more complicated the moment doing so destroy the relationship with your daughter until soon before you die… There’s a hidden message in that… Right or wrong, doing nothing is not an option. Good bless all the committed dads in this world and may we find the wisdom to raise women we can all be proud of.
That entire monolog is 😢
It's almost like they are chatting in the afterlife with the beautiful sky and clouds in the background.
I honestly feel that, even if his daughter still hates him, the answer to that second question is still yes. Because he made sure she didn't have to continue surviving an abuser. He made sure the husband never took it too far. Every bit of joy in her and her daughter's life is partially because he said "fuck consequences" and did a father's duty.
Damn good comment!
In his eulogy, he says “I like to think we brought a little joy into each others lives”. I love the way it ties in this scene.
one of the most beautiful films i’ve ever seen. impacted me 10 years ago and still does now❤️
I have watched this movie 10 times, the most favorite until now. It helps transform my perspective about life meaning...
One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, impacted me 40+ years ago. An absolute masterpiece and IMHO, JN''s finest acting role....😊
My feelings in exactitude. This is my favorite movie of all time. I have watched it countlessly... Such a wonderful movie through and through.
I'm with you on that!!
I’ve watch this in several stages of my life. It changes my perspective. It’s an amazing movie.
I would never grow tired of watching this wonderful movie over and over again
That’s right
Can u send me link of this movie
This is best part of this movie….one of my favourite movies list.
Watched this movie in 2007 and it’s been 14 years but I still remember every part of it.
Wow. I needed this. Never seen this movie before. Thanks TH-cam.
Anubis: “you did your duty as a father, most fathers may not answer as you do, honestly as you do. Your honesty is good enough.”
Couldn't have picked any two better actors to come together in such an epic movie.
Jack really stretched for this role, being that he's played so many wild men, eccentrics, and wackos, and here he is playing a real "button-down" type, in fact a big shot in a big business.
Probably the best example of best friends
"But there was something about him" - Father's Intuition
"First time he hit her, I wanted to bash his brains in" - Father's Fury
"Next time it happened, I took care of it" - Father's Protection
Father of twin daughters here. Would do the same thing, but personally.
I’ve done this. I took care of it.
"I called a guy who called a guy who handles these types of things"
Father's resources
It sounds like his daughter was similar to the Connie Corleone character from the Godfather. She launch into a tirade at her brother Michael after Michael had her abusive husband killed.
@@nrkgaltCarlo died because he set up Sonny, his beating Connie was just icing, which is why he got strangled and not just shot in the back of the head.
"I NEVER DREAMED ABOUT SUCCESS, I WORKED FOR IT
3:20 shining reference😂
I love this Film 🎥 sooooo sehr ❤❤❤ Thank you von Herzen 💞 und Namaste 🙏 for ever, versprochen!!!!
What any father would do.
Yes.
Been in the same position as a brother. i now have an alive sister in a pretty good marriage. No regrets.
been there, have 3 sisters, 5 nieces, can be pains in the butt, but family is family
Good man. Sometimes good men have to make bad men disappear.
My sister got married and then dumped by her high school sweetheart. She's now with a decent guy my mom likes and though we aren't close I was invited to their wedding.
I won't lie... I told my new brother in law that I was a problem child for a reason and there would be no forgiveness for any man who broke her heart a second time
Every time I see my newest granddaughter I think I could honestly answer the second question with a yes. I was at their house yesterday helping the son-in-law install gutter drain lines and popups and that little girl followed me everywhere. After her nap, mom brought her outside and the look on her face that I was still there was priceless. Literally brought tears to my eyes. Right then I realized the answer to the first question is a resounding yes.
Now THAT is a good father - maybe not a good dad, but a good father.
I just saw the film for the 2nd time in my mother tongue and wanted to hear this scene in English.
Thank you!
...the day my girl friend said yes... the days our kids were born...
me? every time i got on stage and heard the crowds reaction to what i did...
yes to both questions ;)
“Nice to hear her voice again “ 😂
Friggin badass.
Have you found joy in your life?
Yes.
Has your life brought joy to others?
...I hope so. I really do.
This is a great movie.
2 Titans of the industry carrying it mighty well.
This scene forced me to watch this movie again and again ,cuz I'm a father and I know how it feel if ur young daughter get hurts by a scumbag , so be prepared
Masterpiece!
If they don't let me into Egyptian heaven because my daughter hates me,well, then I guess that's just the way it goes, however you answered your 2 questions
Best ever !
absolut best
While setting in front of these pyramids i Egypt I asked myself another question.. if these pyramids are tomb for the ancient Egyptian kings where the hill are their palaces? And why it was destroyed and how beautiful and big it was
Both of these men are on my board of directors.
Morgan Freeman....Nothing else needs to be said.
*except Jack Nicholson lol
First one...yes. Second one...still working on that one
As an Australian I saw the widest cultural gap between the English and everybody else...❤...if a doctor or nurse encountered any tears they would immediately refer to a social worker...so....give us all a break...NHS does NOT entertain grief or loss...nurses are always grumpy and doctors always refer away from the emotionally challenging patient/family
I’m not proud of everything I did... he did what any father would of
Kinda crushed me when he said “However you answer your two questions” 😕
One of my fav z scenes z, 💔⚔️🏴☠️💘😘💋🙏💥
" ohkay, I ll bite!"
The correct answer of a father of a daughter.
Say what you want, but Edward Cole definitely had his daughter's back.
Could it be that easy ❤
It really pissed me off the daughter hates her dad for caring and wanting to save her from an abusive AH! Hating her dad because HE DID CARE instead of him umm being abusive to her or her mom, or being a deadbeat dad. Yea that’s a real good reason to cut your dad out of your life. EYEROLL
At 43yrs old I would have to say:
No.
I don't think I have.
this flick never hit the sweet notes with the movie review cadre but for content and entertainment I rate it highly. It's in my 300 best films ever made.
My favorite Nicholson movie.
Don,t have daughters but I do have 3 nieces who I love as my own, and the abusive partner wouldn't even see it coming..
Sums up the movie; Not as Black and White as it seems.
If joy was of paramount importance, wouldn't they just not as the question, and let everyone in, so that they all have a joyous afterlife?
Jack Nicholas may have live a long life but may not be good enough. Let this life of ours brought joy to one another.
Joy and pleasure is not one of life’s higher virtues. Love and sacrifice is. And he sacrificed his joy out of love. So the Egyptian gods can keep their heaven if joy is their only measure.
@@Bennevisie But the question was did he bring any joy to others. It wasn't about _his_ joy.
A movie all men should watch at different points in their life... I have, learn more every time...
I took care of it,full stop say no more . . .
A man's man,so be it . . . ❤🇿🇦
I see where Heath Ledger got his charm though at a price,its a give and take "concept" 😉
I see nothing wrong with what he did or said about protecting his daughter.
Einfach ein unglaublich inspirierender Film! Hat mich zu meinem Kanal motiviert. 🙂
Ich hatte heute ein Gespräch mit meinem Fater darüber.
What if you answer no. What will happen
Well I believe it s a legend but I want to understand the concept of old egyptian story about heaven and this 2 questions?
How do you know he didn't kill him?
Can someone please tell me the name of the movie?
The Bucket List
Actually, what Carter says about the Egyptian afterlife isn't true. As I understand it, when you reach the afterlife you're interrogated by a whole PANEL of gods (dozens, if I remember correctly). Each asks you about a particular aspect of your life. Then, you're weighed against the 'feather of truth.' If you pass the test, you go on to the next life. If not, that's the end.
It seems that all religions have a life after death.
@@HughButler-lb6zs It does seem that way. I've studied many religions to some level, and I can't recall one yet that doesn't have some form of afterlife. Confucianism, perhaps, but I'm not even sure we can call that a 'religion.'
I have a sense of humor, i make many people laugh everyday and i laugh right along with them but i have not found happiness in my life, I’m trying, I’m 47 and trying to ask a beautiful 41yr old woman if she would like to date me. I guess its up to GOD in heaven if she accepts me and if she does, thats when i will find true happiness in my life!
Happines is in you. Making someone love you is impossible, what you can do is love yourself more and if you love yourself, you will give a f**k that if other person loves you or not
.
Your problem is that you think love is something you get from another. and you insist on loving someone else than yourself. Always remeber the wise words from schopenhauer: Is difficult to find happiness in yourself but it is impossible to find it somewhere else.
Johny Tolengo well here is the problem, i have brought joy to so many, i know this because i hear them laugh almost daily at my funny sense of humor, so I’ve cared about others joy before mine. Just too much has happened to me over the past years to find myself joy but i know i need to start putting myself first, just don’t know how to do it, i have everything i want in material things but that doesn’t make me happy. I guess I’m lost.
@@rawblow4512
No, you're not. Become your best frend, start doing things only for you and for your own good, learn to hang out with your own being, to enjoy nothing more than your own company, take care of yourself, dress the best way, eat helathy, exorcise, read, give to your body, mind and soul only the best of the best, and have the same standards with the people you want to have around but at the same time understand that others cant be completly the way we want, and thats fine, just dont let anyone disrispect you only to have "some company around you". so take time to be alone and time to be with people, summing it up find a balance in all aspects of your life. You know you are on the right track, because you are searching for your own happines insted of being miserable, thats an Alpha move. i dont know if u can see that, but very few people have the courgae and self respect to seek that out for themselvs, congrats! u are almost there, wish you the best my friend, hope that something of what I write to u may help, but always rememer, all the things u want and the things u are looking for, are alredy inside you and nobody can give it to u but yourself.
Thought this movie was way over rated. I give it a 3 stars out of 5
This is when I got angry, because this is a typical screenwriter BS - to "borrow" an impression of depth, they wave around mythology, religion or philosophy they are not even familiar with. Here they "slapped on" Christian “Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you” on Ancient Egyptians whose system of belief and way of thinking was completely different. First of all, ancient Egyptians believed that to be even eligible for afterlife, your body must be mummified and preserved. That's why even the poorest of the poor tried to save a bit of copper for the embalmers and for a humble tomb in the Necropolis, because even if you lived a life of a saint, no preserved body, no afterlife.
According to ancient Egyptians, when you die, you appear before the god Anubis with jackal's head who weighs your heart on the Divine Scale against Ma'at ("the Truth"), symbolized by a single white ostrich weather. If your heart is black and heavy with sin, it weighs more and sinks on the Scale, you are immediately devoured by Ammit, the monstrous Devourer of Souls, and that's the end of your existence. If your heart is found pure, and you have a preserved body, your soul embarks to the Realm of the Dead called Duat.
So if you want to borrow mythological props, please respect their authenticity (by not spraying Christian anachronisms over them).
Write to the producers. You made a great point
Hey man. It’s just a movie. Relax.
But the lesson was great. Whether it's from Egyptian, Christian, Buddhist or whatever.
Great news! Jesus died for your sins! Trust in Jesus, turn from your sins, and ask God for forgiveness!
Why pray to the same god who admitted they created sin and evil?
If we are made in his image, why are we made with sin? Why should we give ourselves to the same person who made us flawed?
It's like building a machine that is broken, then forcing the machine to fix itself then thank you for it.
Thank god for what? He created life flawed and so imperfect that he had to flood the Earth and kill EVERYONE because he couldn't create humans without sin.
He is an omnipotent being who sees the end before the beginning, he writes everyone's story, so HE writes whether or not you go to Heaven or Hell before you are born.
Any loving god would NEVER willingly make a Hell for their own creations to go if they don't submit to them for the flaws the creator gave them.
Any god worthy of worship, wouldn't want to be worshipped or care if we believed in them at all. They would take what we did in life and punish us according to our actions, not our belief.
When a religion believes that even the worst person, a murderer rapist abuser racist sexist can still go to heaven if they give themselves to god when god wrote that life for them, but someone who saved millions of lives in a selfless act that costed their own, they would burn for ETERNITY all because they didn't believe in god, is NOT a god worth worshiping.
And even that worst person, wouldn't deserve eternity in Hell. You don't realize what Eternity means truly. Take the age of the universe now, or just a ballpark 100 trillion years, thats still nothing compared to ETERNITY. No life on Earth that lasts usually under 100 years is worth an Eternity of suffering. Even if you take the number of every atom in the universe, and for every atom you go through the lifetime of the universe, that 1.3x10^90 years, still is not even a fraction of Eternity. NO ONE deserves that, and any god who writes people's lives to end up like that, is no god worth my forgiveness.
Movie took about a week to make.