I’ve actually found this woman in my life. She doesn’t own a single pair of leggings because it’s basic fashion and refuses to wear it. Maintains and cleans her shoes, jackets etc… She goes to the gym 6 days a week. She reads, has a solid sense of humor, and is beautiful. Solid relationship with both of her parents, especially her father. Not a big fan of parties, and rarely gets drunk. To anyone reading this, these women do exist. They are rare but if you have class, another with class will recognize it, and be far more attracted to it. Don’t optimize yourself to get laid by the women who you commonly find in clubs. Optimize yourself for THE woman who will change your life. Picture her, picture what she’d want in a man. And become that. When she comes along, you’ll be practically irresistible and it will be the best relationship of your life.
Kris, your views and advice remind me of the types of talks my dad often gives me. He’s a very old school guy, grew up in Mexico, smartest man I have met in person. It’s amazing how completely different people from distinct backgrounds across the world can share the same wisdom. I want you to know that I am grateful for men like yourself and my father who help us straighten our shit out, to man up, cut off distractions, and ruthlessly pound our way through to our purpose with discipline and patience🤝🏽
It's hard to fill the shoes of a giants,Mexican dads are notorious for already knowing how to build a car,bike,house ect all by the age of 10..Mi jefe tambien es de alla
This is a great concept. I’m on that grind right now. Climbing the corporate ladder, lifting weights, training Muay Thai. Life has never been better. My hours are filled. No time to wallow. Putting points on the board. Building that savings. I love it when women come into my life, but I’m not actively looking for it. I’ll let them come to me.
@@vklnew9824 I live a pretty humble life. I don’t really have much to show off haha. Maybe I sound like a poser in that comment but I’d say I live a pretty down to earth life.
Guys. My mother told me once, if a girl likes you or want something more she will make sure you see it. She will be nice to your, initiate conversations and so on. You will simply feel it. I can say that this is 100% true. Whenever I chase, or try to "convince" a girl to to "notice" me, it rarely works out. If you talk to a girl and it comes naturally and effortlessly to you, it means that she is into you. As simple as that. If you level up in life of course you will get more attention. It is 100% guaranteed. Of course try to build your social skills at the same time, but yeah do not waste time on girls that are not "trying" to make you notice her.
Great advice, but as a woman, I want to say that not every woman who has a nice or relaxed conversation with a man is into him romantically. I sometimes will start a conversation just for the sake of connection from one human to the other. If I do want a guy to ask me out, I think he can sense that, but it's hard for men to know. It's also hard for women because they don't want to look like fools if the guy is taken.
@@hsplayerguy00 I never said that. That's you and many guy's problem with women these days. Instead of manning up and not being boys, you don't understand that because the man was created to be the provider and leader to a degree in a relationship, it should be natural for him to initiate, and that he will receive a no sometimes. It really shouldn't be a massive deal if he's mature and has himself together. Yes it's uncomfortable for him, but if a woman initiates before the man has a chance, it makes her look desparate or possibly slutty. It oftentimes turns many guys off too and he may wonder why she is initiating. To a man who's in his masculine role, it also can rob him of his masculinity and sets the relationship up for that tone.
Women send choosing signals, they don't always start a conversation, they'll stare at you or smile at you. If you're interested and you pick up on that, make your approach, because it's the man's role to break barriers. If you say to yourself "i'm the prize, therefore I don't approach women" you ain't gonna get much, there's a difference between chasing and pursuing
It’s crazy how fun life feels when you’re moving towards greatness it feels like your on a quest conquer the world. Every man has a vacant throne that’s waiting for them to claim sad thing is that in todays day and age they don’t recognize this. I can say with 100 percent certainty this world would change at blistering speeds
I really like the "ruthlessly pound our way through our purpose with discipline and patience" quote. It's exactly what I'm focused on doing. Building that momentum and discipline. I've just got one problem that I'm actively fixing and that is clinically low testosterone and it's cascading effects. But I will get it up at all costs. You are right, high testosterone is almost like a precusor to success. But I'm not letting that stop me. Imma plough through these obstacles and achieve outlier stats.
A high value traditional woman who is demonstrating grace, poise and elegance in her demeanour and behaviour what all masculine men desire by their side. I am so proud of your Kris! I sent you an email a while back, I don't know if you have seen it
@@nate4524 I wrote to you but you still aint calling, i left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom. I wrote two letters back in autumn you must not have got em, there probably was a problem at the post office or something
Kris, I'm 17, I am attractive because i am fit, masculine, don't beg women for attention, make my own money. For my age I am in the 1 percent of men especially in this programmed generation. I am a quiet extrovert, every point u made on this video is completely valid as I experience it daily. I get female attraction evrywhere I go whether it's the gym, mall, school, literally everywhere. I recently watched your video titled "every man should shave his head young" and shaved my hair today. I had long, nice hair which i tied for how long it got. I did not shave my head for any of the reasons mentioned on the video. I did it to get rid of the women attraction. When you become a rarity especially in my age every single girl wants you so you have 2 choices. To not shave your head and get all the girls, but you don't improve or to lose female attraction and gain mental fortitude that is extremely spectacular. I chose the second one :)
When I went to Denmark and Sweden during the pandemic, women approached me to get my number. This exchange in power is already happening and I’m loving it :)
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I’ve found out that whatever it is woman want, I don’t have it. I won’t find much happiness but I can live with it by finding meaning. I work hard to improve at work and the gym, make myself reliable and competent and provide for my family.
Very eye opening Kris. Women trying to tame men is even included in The Epic of Gilgamesh; the oldest written story. For example, Shamhat is the first woman sent to tame the wild man, Enkidu.
Love that mindset: Improve your looks improve your wealth and don't waste time and energy on the chase. When you reach a certain level on the scale, with every percentage closer to the top the attention you get increases and so your self esteem. It's really an upward spiral.
Kris, thank you. I’ve always had a thought that to attract is to try less/don’t even try at all. Just focus on yourself. There’s tons of channels saying to focus on yourself but you are on the few who’s shared their experienced. You showed the experience and not told.
Touching in the point of “women need to slow me down” although I agree with most of what he’s saying. Personally for me, finding a woman in the developing stage of my journey is ideal if she’s willing to develop herself in the process as well. As a matter of fact, she can actually boost your journey faster if she has the same mindset as you. Because let’s say you do meet a woman then you’re super successful, how will you know she loves you for you rather than what you have ? Find a woman when you’re on your journey and build with her. Although this is rare, it’s not impossible.
I agree with both of your points. but as you said we are talking about the minority. Generally, women wait at the finish line for a reason. women in mass are not looking to help/develop men and shape them into the guy of their dreams. the best way I can put it is women are looking for the whole sundae so they can be the cherry on top. women are constantly looking for the best option because its vital for their own succuss and of their future children. as soon as she finds someone who has the whole 'sundae'. they will just jump ship. be the sundae guys. women that want families and great lifestyles are not looking to be 'career oriented' that's for women who have made their mind up and are most likely not interested in settling down or are too far gone.
I agree in general but feminine women are not that direct, we shouldn't want them to behave like dudes by being too direct. I am not saying you are saying this but a point of nuance. Strong eye contact, a smile and proximity should be good indicators. Especially if she makes strong eye contact. But a woman coming over and saying hi, how is it going is extremely rare.
Counter argument to the women softening you when you’re young point: Messi has been with Antonella since he was 7 and he’s ended up becoming one of the greatest footballers to ever exist
I'm finding a lot of value and inspiration in your thoughts, ideas and values. I'm 41, for various reasons I haven't been able to accomplish much in life but I'm doing the best I can to improve my mindset and take charge, these videos help with that even though I'm not completely clear on what I want to do for a career.
When he started talking about being the "calm extrovert", it really resonated with me, that's how I've always been, calm yet confident (reminds me of 007 and Jwaller, two guys I look upto most). But since a kid I had an understanding of what kind of a man I've wanted to be, the one who shocks people because at the surface he's quiet and reserved, but when the time comes, he's an animal and multi faceted. Good at everything. I think I'm on the right path.
I am trying so hard to be that guy but when I see a woman I legitimately find attractive my heart starts going crazy beating fast and I get so frustrated. I want to a much more calm extrovert but I am only an introvert
@@beatsonfire4998 I can totally understand, there was a time in my life where I was fighting with myself (just like you are) on what I am vs what I want to be. This is THE WORST thing one can do (I did it). I was trying to be someone I was not....trying to put a mask on my face, it did not work, as time passed and I started to gain knowledge, I realised that this is just how I am. I started to feel peace within me and I came to terms with the fact that this is howy brain functions. From that point onwards, I developed the "calmness" he's talking about, because I was not in a battle with me. I was calm knowing "hey, this is who I am, can't change it, so just gotta work with it", but that is what developed the calmness in me. I told this to you so that you could identify where we are similar and see that maybe will also the same life path. The other thing that I talked about is being an animal, that just comes from hardwork, you have to do the work no matter what, but yeah the calmness can be developed by understanding YOUR own unique personality and respecting it. At the same time, start to develop skills and proving your worth, because proving to the world you can do something will validate that there is nothing wrong with you, adding to that calmness.
@@SanjitNagi thank you very much. Your comment is highly inspiring. Much of my life I have been feeling behind other people but you are right that I should just learn to accept who and how I am. Recently I was rejected by a girl I really liked and I can see now why I wasn’t good enough for her because I was trying to be something I’m not.
In anything in life, never be needy. You gotta have the mindset "I want you, but I don't need you." And apply that mindset to everything in life. If you want a raise at work: "Hey boss, I don't need the raise, but I want it."
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Can be hard when you’re a bit younger and don’t have as much value and haven’t developed that kind of inner calm one develops as an older guy yet. Patience is key I guess.
But by saying you don't desire to put effort into making the first move on a girl, that means that the girl would have to initiate obviously. Are you saying if you're out dancing, you wouldn't ask someone to dance? As a female, I decided I would never ask another guy out (on a date) or to dance, because although people say I'm beautiful/cute I actually got rejected twice when I asked two men. One had a girlfriend, and one rejected a dance with me because he was super conceited , even though I'd had extremely good looking boyfriend's in the past (I also had great average looking guys who were smart/talented/funny). So guys, if you can remember a time a girl said no to you , magnify that feeling about 50 times... that's what I felt. It wasn't that my ego was bruised, I just felt humiliated since men usually do the pursuing. A guy might face rejection and yes, it's painful, but he might miss out because he's truly putting women in an awkward position. If I saw a man waiting for women to come to him, I'd immediately lose interest (same if he was asking tons of women). It makes him look like non relationship material, and tells me that he wouldn't be a masculine leader. It also starts off a relationship with the woman being in her masculine and makes it too easy for the guy to say "You're the one who approached me. I didn't want you very much, but you made it easy".
A old quote but a valid quote I’m paraphrasing here “You will lose money and success chasing a woman but you will never lose a woman chasing money and success and building your empire”.
I'd say "never moving to a woman" isn't necessarily a chief means of becoming fascinating or attractive (the way a lot of people proclaim)-but to whatever degree you WERE fascinating/attractive, chasing after women can negate that. Ah, you make the point well at the 24:06 section. You do have to put yourself out there if you wanna get women, but less is more; deal with them at a bit of a distance, in some senses. Play the slow, calm game. Don't overtalk. And don't waste more time than you want to with 'em. I think a lot of this sort of maturity comes naturally, with age. Until one has a certain degree of lived experience, youthful angst is hard to do away with (even if one religiously watches content like this).
Kris could you expand on how to go out to these social situations and not consume alcohol? Or at least not consume it often. You mention you rarely drink but you allude to “going out” in this video and having a drink etc. Love all you do man, cheers edit: the point is to fit in socially, i hate alcohol and don't drink it myself
Literally do a hypertrophy workout followed by coffee and some kind of tea/Kombucha that has l theanine in it (you won't come up and then crash from the caffeine) and 20 minutes of meditation before you go out (it works better if you're already in a routine). I get the same effects if not better of the confidence inducing effects of alcohol.
"Going out" is not a huge part of my life, but I often take girls on dates to rooftop bars, and I just order soda water for the beverage. I don't think it's ever hurt my dating results or anything.
I used to hate this guy because his videos started with an ad but I watched this video and that ad was worth it because he just spit fact and I will learn from this man now and I am sure that it will not disappoint me
I don’t like how he tried to sue the guy that made fun of him but actually didn’t sue him but I can see why because this is his business but yeah Kris has value in his vids that’s for sure
@@nefu7 i am currently 18 ( gonna be 19 next month ) i've been on self improvement for 1 year now , i can feel dragon's blood running through my veins . i can't wait to get to sleep knowing that the other day shall be conquered , i became the regonal kickboxing champ , gained +10 Kg of weight ( 7 kg muscles ) +4 cm ( from 183 to 187 cm). eating cleean no junk food , no sugarry sh*t , disciplined onmy meditation , gym , gratitude journaling , bed time , went from a gamer to someone who has a harem of 4 girls ( 1 girl gets replaced each week but meh ) , i became a positive inspirational motivating person for people around me , i witnissed my relationship change dramatically with my parents especially my father who became proud of me , the path of delayed gratification , of hollistic self improvement , of Adonis , IS THE WAY TO GO Do the hard work especially when you don't fell like it sorry if my english is a little too heavy i'm from morocco
Unpopular opinion In my opinion Kris is coping and has been for a while, always changes his views and perspectives to suit his ego Edit: Just to clarify he has good points too, but he’s definitely coping.
Thanks to people like you and Richard cooper now I understand why men should never chase women. I learned from him that the more men chase women the more you just feed their egos and give them more attention. It's simple to do the physical work, and financial work, maintain the frame in any conversation, especially with females, and work on your game. And tides will start to turn The only people women tend to chase and simp for are men who have done the work and know their self-worth. I mean think about it do you think a high value/a man who has done the work will have time to chase women?
Thank you Kris, for this video. It really puts things to perspective. Work now, build, create, life setup and solve problems. The feminine will be attracted to this and hint. It's kind of similar to some points in "The Way of The Superior Man" whereby the feminine is attracted to the masculine that's on a mission, focused on it's purpose. I had gone astray but have now realized that the best thing is being the Calm Extrovert. I'm introverted but I've realized that there may be a cause, an insecurity that drew me to introversion. I believe it's looks and underdeveloped social skills. I used to be extroverted back in highschool but something changed, went through a depression not sure if I have ever come out of it but that's when things changed. Working out, creating my life setup and focusing on my purpose/goals is slowly reversing that. I'll need to eventually relearn social skills and "game". This video has the "traditional wise father" aesthetic. Keep it up man. There are people who follow you and have never had fathers. I'm one of them.
The problem is, the girls will not know who you are and will not feel the need to approach or show an interest. Unless you can display some sort of status while you’re in a room, you will be waiting a very long time dude. I would say be active while passive. In other words, be seen as popular by making friends and having girls see you with other girls who are giving you positive feedback. Social proof and preselection goes a long way.
While I understand the logic, men's value is displayed through their demeanor/personality and women's is displayed in looks. You can't assume women would know if you're top 1% unless you talk to her and show it through conversation
How is this guy a millionaire? He cant get that much from his products + he burns so much money on his streaming platform. No hate but I really feel like that is inheritence money, and its disingenious to present it like he made that money
@@Mirira1 1stman has 205k monthly website visitors and with an average conversion rate of 3.5% for ecommerce and an average product value of 13.56 using these numbers he probably makes between 70 - 120k a month off of his store
I agree with the attractive energy, but a lot of guys just haven't talked to many beautiful women, and then when they get rich, they still can't get them because they're so intimidated by them still. Because of this, I think it's healthy for men to approach women they like, if only to initially improve their skills and familiarity talking to beautiful women. Then, they can get better at approaching while still giving off the non-needy, you choose me energy, and then they can progress to what you do. Just skipping to sitting down waiting for a woman to approach for these guys won't work as their insecurity around her will show. Sure it's hard, and there's a lot of rejection (I've done it, and sometimes still do), but I see it as more of a wake up call to reality rather than let it beat me up, and then when a girl does show me obvious choosing signs I can easily cross the threshold into a dating dynamic.
But what Kris is saying is the result of a natural progression of when u get more success and calm energy in life. You shouldn’t force it either way imo.
When you’re younger as well most guys are too scared to approach women especially attractive ones so when you do even if they reject you they will still respect you
@@loopskratch6065 Hmm, I'm not sure I agree with the 'not forcing' statement. Kris is at a level where he knows how to talk to women from experience. Guys first need to get out of their comfort zone to improve with women (forcing themselves to talk to them) and find out that it's actually not that scary. Which is actually what I think you're saying in the last comment. Ultimately, you want to reach a point of not giving a shit, and have a self belief of being attractive to women. Some guys get more natural attention from women, where others need to try harder to improve their skills (numbers on the board), but one of those skills they may be lacking in is conversational, and things like touching a woman so she feels you in a lover role. This takes practice for these guys, and where I think particular classes on this stuff and approaching can definitely help.
I agree most dudes dont know how your pulse rate will jump once youre actually talking to a women, they just stare from a distance unable to bring themselves to make that approach. Go approach that really high end chick, maybe you will feel messed up afterwards. Only when youve done it a bunch of times does it become like a normal interaction.
Kris, could you do a video on making social circles as you kinda touch upon it in this video. I don't think it's something we really talk about in the whole male improvement space.
Okay have to play devil's advocate here. He is 6'2 and he proclaims he pulls almost $1M a year pre-tax. Would an average dude. Even an above average dude, get any attention sitting by himself at a bar? Don't get me started on everyone can self improve to his level. You can't self improve to be 6'2. And by definition not everyone can be rich. If everyone's rich then nobody's rich. Speaking as a millionaire, that's not 6'2, myself. Not to mention his latest video on Modern Dating Degeneracy semi-invalidate this. It's not as simple as it sounds. That's all I 'm saying.
Good thing you included the section on being a "calm extrovert." I think when you say something like "I don't chase women," some of your viewers could take the mindset that they should solely work on self-improvement, and then women will automatically flock to them. But in a past video, you discussed how even famous rappers hire "p*ssy coordinators" to intentionally bring women in. And other guys will buy modeling agencies, so they can be at the parties and get introduced to the models, etc. However it happens, you need a specific way of actually getting into conversations with the kind of women you want. Don't just self-improve endlessly, do nothing to reach out to women, and act entitled that they should all come over and introduce themselves. Whether it's cold approach or something more indirect and subtle like the "calm extrovert" thing, set your life up so that you're frequently getting into interactions with the kind of women you want.
Hey man, I am facing a problem these days. I am getting sick often due to weather changes, over training etc. During that period I feel like shit and my mindset is completely different than before. Pls advice on the actions to take while being sick.
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Men should be active, start the interaction. Women, the feminine, more passive. Starting something with someone attractive is not chasing, is just opening the way for things to happen. Manifest what we want (which is not get laid, it’s to know someone… isn’t it?), regardless the outcome. If you don’t start, at least for quick fun moment if nothing else, you’re a d*ck as scared and awkward as me. 😎
This makes sense , I am 5 foot 7 inch , I will try the same thing as well , if it works thanks in advance , if it doesn't well whatever I am tired of unnatural conversations anyway I don't need to approach women, I am fine by myself Maybe I will just put myself out there. One thing that you have and I don't is height I am not sure how is it going to alter my result but I will keep this post updated .
I heard in an old elliott hulse video. every woman wants the most powerful stallion between her legs, as long she is a able to control it. Riding a stallion she cannot control will not fulfill her. Think about the sheer size and power a 800kg stallion has, that is you, the woman wants to steer you, but you will not accept it untill you are ready to be steered.
I usually cannot focus on a video for more than 5 mins, but I sat down and watched this twice. It was completely relatable and resonated with my current feelings for the past few months. My cousin who is the same age as me (female) just got married and their lives look "stable and successful". But now... I thank you so much for opening my eyes. I've often been feeling like I am "Behind in life" because I have reached 27 year of age (I'm Male) and haven't had sex yet, never had a girl friend let alone getting married. I've not really felt as strong as others about marriage - partially because of my infertility and inability to have my own children - does not mean I won't choose to adopt - Some day. I did not realize this "settling down" or "find the right partner" was such feminine energy. Thank you for the content and I hope you can cover more about your own experiences... I will continue to backtrack your videos and dig deeper. I've longed to ask - does the inability to have children mean I am not a man? From your videos there are certainly many qualities that shape and define a man.. but at core biology - if you fail to be a seed provider - does that mean I can never be 100% a Man? Thanks.
Yes you are a man. Keep grinding and elevating. Become the best version of yourself to be the best dad and role model you can be. I have an almost 14 yr old son from my first girlfriend and have been split parenting for 13 years. When I was in my 20s I hated being a dad because I was so selfish and less experienced. Now that I’m 35 I love being a dad and can share my knowledge/wisdom. I have lots of talks with my lil dude, and basically bring it down to his gamer boy mind. “ son, I am your greatest cheat code, and the best strategy guide, trust in me, follow me and win”. Become so confident, passionate and driven, women will come to you. Adoption is a beautiful thing, you choose them. I’ve thought about fostering, big brother and adoption many times, just be patient, the right opportunity will unfold after all your hard work.
Kris: 30,6’2, millionaire, amazing drive, intelligent, well dressed, muscular. He’s is clearly in the top 1% of men. Me: 32, 5’9, health care worker who make 6 figures, no debt (all school loans paid off) got my own apartment, I’m only going to the gym 3-4x a week. Fuck, I would argue I’m only in the top 30% of men. Seeing shit like this makes me realize how much work I gotta do. Inspiring as hell
@1STMAN You qualify a lot of what you say to not come off as pompous which is smart of you to do so, being on the internet. In doing so you come off as grounded and rational, which is a great quality in and of itself. It seems like you haven't let the success over-inflate your ego. Success should inflate your ego, but you aren't letting it OVER-inflate your ego and I respect that very much.
Can someone tell me why this guy doesnt have more views? Im not even kidding when I tell you this I genuinely feel like my life has come to a point that it is almost impossible for me to find people with the same mindset as me and it is only through the internet and youtubers like you hamza and a couple others that I feel are my elder brothers and my friends.
I actually have some videos saved, but I refuse to post them out of respect for the women. Right now the women are very 1 to 1 if that makes sense, they trust me, it's not like a Dan Bilzerian scenario where there's 10 instagram girls who want clout. The girls I date have jobs, families etc, so they always ask me not to post
Attraction is like gravity (a purely attracting force in the universe). The guy essentially has to literally and figuratively pull the woman into his world.
Is there another way to send money to you? It's restricted in my region due to regulation, so I can't donate :/ Would really want to be an "innovator" in your streaming platform!
If you enjoy topics about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well. All the best to you!
I’ve actually found this woman in my life. She doesn’t own a single pair of leggings because it’s basic fashion and refuses to wear it. Maintains and cleans her shoes, jackets etc… She goes to the gym 6 days a week. She reads, has a solid sense of humor, and is beautiful. Solid relationship with both of her parents, especially her father. Not a big fan of parties, and rarely gets drunk.
To anyone reading this, these women do exist. They are rare but if you have class, another with class will recognize it, and be far more attracted to it. Don’t optimize yourself to get laid by the women who you commonly find in clubs. Optimize yourself for THE woman who will change your life. Picture her, picture what she’d want in a man. And become that. When she comes along, you’ll be practically irresistible and it will be the best relationship of your life.
If she has no leggings, what does she wear to the gym?
@@idiotrun1997 bikini
@@idiotrun1997 shorts?
man lucky you! i hope to find someone like this someday :(
Where did you find her?
"Sorry babe can't come over, 1stman dropped another hour long gem of a vid"
Kris, your views and advice remind me of the types of talks my dad often gives me. He’s a very old school guy, grew up in Mexico, smartest man I have met in person. It’s amazing how completely different people from distinct backgrounds across the world can share the same wisdom. I want you to know that I am grateful for men like yourself and my father who help us straighten our shit out, to man up, cut off distractions, and ruthlessly pound our way through to our purpose with discipline and patience🤝🏽
Those men who grew up in the 3rd world parts of Mexico are built different. Nothing but respect pa esos viejones
It's hard to fill the shoes of a giants,Mexican dads are notorious for already knowing how to build a car,bike,house ect all by the age of 10..Mi jefe tambien es de alla
@@oiitzME1266why is that
This is a great concept. I’m on that grind right now. Climbing the corporate ladder, lifting weights, training Muay Thai. Life has never been better. My hours are filled. No time to wallow. Putting points on the board. Building that savings. I love it when women come into my life, but I’m not actively looking for it. I’ll let them come to me.
You sound like a poser
Same! Love me some Muay Thai. Dominate and elevate!!
@@vklnew9824 I live a pretty humble life. I don’t really have much to show off haha. Maybe I sound like a poser in that comment but I’d say I live a pretty down to earth life.
Guys. My mother told me once, if a girl likes you or want something more she will make sure you see it. She will be nice to your, initiate conversations and so on. You will simply feel it. I can say that this is 100% true. Whenever I chase, or try to "convince" a girl to to "notice" me, it rarely works out. If you talk to a girl and it comes naturally and effortlessly to you, it means that she is into you. As simple as that. If you level up in life of course you will get more attention. It is 100% guaranteed. Of course try to build your social skills at the same time, but yeah do not waste time on girls that are not "trying" to make you notice her.
Great advice, but as a woman, I want to say that not every woman who has a nice or relaxed conversation with a man is into him romantically. I sometimes will start a conversation just for the sake of connection from one human to the other. If I do want a guy to ask me out, I think he can sense that, but it's hard for men to know. It's also hard for women because they don't want to look like fools if the guy is taken.
@@tlc6756so you would just rather he look like a fool when you reject him. Wow. 🙄🙄
@@hsplayerguy00 I never said that. That's you and many guy's problem with women these days. Instead of manning up and not being boys, you don't understand that because the man
was created to be the provider and leader to a degree in a relationship, it should be natural for him to initiate, and that he will receive a no sometimes. It really shouldn't be a massive deal if he's mature and has himself together. Yes it's uncomfortable for him, but if a woman initiates before the man has a chance, it makes her look desparate or possibly slutty. It oftentimes turns many guys off too and he may wonder why she is initiating. To a man who's in his masculine role, it also can rob him of his masculinity and sets the relationship up for that tone.
Women send choosing signals, they don't always start a conversation, they'll stare at you or smile at you. If you're interested and you pick up on that, make your approach, because it's the man's role to break barriers.
If you say to yourself "i'm the prize, therefore I don't approach women" you ain't gonna get much, there's a difference between chasing and pursuing
So chasing is going after the woman when she doesn’t show signs or make it easy and pursuing is going up to her or sum and she makes it easy right
Thank you for delivering this content for free Kris, have a good one
No worries man, thank you for taking the time to watch
It’s crazy how fun life feels when you’re moving towards greatness it feels like your on a quest conquer the world. Every man has a vacant throne that’s waiting for them to claim sad thing is that in todays day and age they don’t recognize this. I can say with 100 percent certainty this world would change at blistering speeds
damn right
I really like the "ruthlessly pound our way through our purpose with discipline and patience" quote. It's exactly what I'm focused on doing. Building that momentum and discipline. I've just got one problem that I'm actively fixing and that is clinically low testosterone and it's cascading effects. But I will get it up at all costs.
You are right, high testosterone is almost like a precusor to success. But I'm not letting that stop me. Imma plough through these obstacles and achieve outlier stats.
I appreciate that you're taking the time to respond to comments again, Kris. Makes the audience feel a sense of belonging!
People want to “attract women” the word attract means come to you. So if ur chasing you’re not attracting instead you’re being attracted to 🤷♂️👍
🎉🎉🎉
Things that you chase are moving away from you.
"is there another me in this room"
yup. almost never, excellent point
A high value traditional woman who is demonstrating grace, poise and elegance in her demeanour and behaviour what all masculine men desire by their side. I am so proud of your Kris! I sent you an email a while back, I don't know if you have seen it
You ever heard the song Stan by Eminem?😂
@@9686-n3l Yeah what about it😂?
@@nate4524 I wrote to you but you still aint calling, i left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom. I wrote two letters back in autumn you must not have got em, there probably was a problem at the post office or something
@@rife133 Ohhhh yeah, I just remembered before you wrote that haha 😂😂
Kris, I'm 17, I am attractive because i am fit, masculine, don't beg women for attention, make my own money. For my age I am in the 1 percent of men especially in this programmed generation. I am a quiet extrovert, every point u made on this video is completely valid as I experience it daily. I get female attraction evrywhere I go whether it's the gym, mall, school, literally everywhere. I recently watched your video titled "every man should shave his head young" and shaved my hair today. I had long, nice hair which i tied for how long it got. I did not shave my head for any of the reasons mentioned on the video. I did it to get rid of the women attraction. When you become a rarity especially in my age every single girl wants you so you have 2 choices. To not shave your head and get all the girls, but you don't improve or to lose female attraction and gain mental fortitude that is extremely spectacular. I chose the second one :)
When I went to Denmark and Sweden during the pandemic, women approached me to get my number. This exchange in power is already happening and I’m loving it :)
@niklas2899 It;s only in Scandinavia.
That's only in Scandinavia. Don't be fooled tho they're doing the same to a bunch of other men aswell
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00:00 First *Man offers a range of digital and physical products, including courses, books, supplements, clothing, and grooming products.*
01:10 The *video discusses why the speaker personally doesn't chase women, citing a focus on self-improvement and maturity.*
02:21 The *speaker emphasizes the importance of finding a partner who adds value and is at a similar or higher level, highlighting the role of logic in relationships.*
05:23 The *speaker expresses reluctance to approach women who invest significantly in their appearance, suggesting that such efforts indicate a desire for a traditional family life.*
08:54 The *speaker believes that, as a rarity, women should express interest and convince him to invest time based on his accomplishments and lifestyle.*
11:41 The *video introduces Jordan Peterson's perspective on masculine energy, suggesting that women play a role in slowing down and balancing men's ambitious pursuits.*
15:49 The *speaker argues that women, through their feminine energy, can soften and influence men, leading to a sense of accomplishment and pride in relationships.*
17:27 The *speaker highlights the dynamic of women convincing men to slow down, build a family, and balance their lives, stating his preference for women taking the initiative.*
20:02 The *video concludes that chasing women goes against the natural dynamics of male-female relationships and may disrupt the balance in achieving a fulfilling life.*
21:56 Don't *chase women, focus on self-improvement and success. When at the top of your game, women will notice and want to be in your life. Avoid misconstruing their attempts to slow you down as a desire for mediocrity. *
24:11 Adopt *a "calm extrovert" approach-be active, enjoy socializing, but remain composed. Being an introvert who stays home won't attract women. Balancing a social life with personal goals is key. *
27:55 Instead *of chasing, make people prove their value to you. Be the calm extrovert, not overly excited or focused on finding "the one." Let women initiate interest based on your lifestyle and confidence. *
34:10 Notice *cues from women, but don't force interactions. Small, warranted gestures can lead to meaningful conversations. It's about being active, visible, and approachable without appearing thirsty. *
38:09 Apply *a "marathon mindset" to attraction-focus on understanding needs and providing value over time. Avoid the "thirsty" approach of immediate pursuit, as it often leads to rejection.*
41:39 Women *may use feminine energy to slow a high-level man down, showing interest through dressing up, physical touch, or wanting to spend the night. The goal is to make him notice and pursue her. *
42:23 The *speaker emphasizes not being disrespectful but shares insights to help men understand women better, reducing stress and loneliness often associated with dating challenges.*
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“Calm extrovert”, for me this is one of the best pieces of advice, great video
I’ve found out that whatever it is woman want, I don’t have it. I won’t find much happiness but I can live with it by finding meaning. I work hard to improve at work and the gym, make myself reliable and competent and provide for my family.
good job bro
You started off depressing bro, just keep improving there’s a girl out there for you just actually keep improving and get experience
Very eye opening Kris. Women trying to tame men is even included in The Epic of Gilgamesh; the oldest written story. For example, Shamhat is the first woman sent to tame the wild man, Enkidu.
Love that mindset: Improve your looks improve your wealth and don't waste time and energy on the chase. When you reach a certain level on the scale, with every percentage closer to the top the attention you get increases and so your self esteem. It's really an upward spiral.
This is gold. Thank you for the energy and wisdom
Kris, thank you. I’ve always had a thought that to attract is to try less/don’t even try at all. Just focus on yourself. There’s tons of channels saying to focus on yourself but you are on the few who’s shared their experienced. You showed the experience and not told.
Touching in the point of “women need to slow me down” although I agree with most of what he’s saying. Personally for me, finding a woman in the developing stage of my journey is ideal if she’s willing to develop herself in the process as well. As a matter of fact, she can actually boost your journey faster if she has the same mindset as you. Because let’s say you do meet a woman then you’re super successful, how will you know she loves you for you rather than what you have ? Find a woman when you’re on your journey and build with her. Although this is rare, it’s not impossible.
I agree with this. Women can be very ambitious and career oriented just like men. It’s not impossible just look at Alex and Leila Hormosi
I agree with both of your points. but as you said we are talking about the minority. Generally, women wait at the finish line for a reason. women in mass are not looking to help/develop men and shape them into the guy of their dreams. the best way I can put it is women are looking for the whole sundae so they can be the cherry on top. women are constantly looking for the best option because its vital for their own succuss and of their future children. as soon as she finds someone who has the whole 'sundae'. they will just jump ship. be the sundae guys. women that want families and great lifestyles are not looking to be 'career oriented' that's for women who have made their mind up and are most likely not interested in settling down or are too far gone.
I agree in general but feminine women are not that direct, we shouldn't want them to behave like dudes by being too direct. I am not saying you are saying this but a point of nuance. Strong eye contact, a smile and proximity should be good indicators. Especially if she makes strong eye contact. But a woman coming over and saying hi, how is it going is extremely rare.
"Chase excellence, not women" -Richard Cooper.
Turned on my traditional TV and immediately hated it. This content is thousands of times better.
Just realized how inverted we as a society are lmao
Men are not here for women.
They are here for us
It’s her dream not ours to settle down
You exude everything that you preach Kris. Thank you for this
Counter argument to the women softening you when you’re young point: Messi has been with Antonella since he was 7 and he’s ended up becoming one of the greatest footballers to ever exist
I'm finding a lot of value and inspiration in your thoughts, ideas and values. I'm 41, for various reasons I haven't been able to accomplish much in life but I'm doing the best I can to improve my mindset and take charge, these videos help with that even though I'm not completely clear on what I want to do for a career.
When he started talking about being the "calm extrovert", it really resonated with me, that's how I've always been, calm yet confident (reminds me of 007 and Jwaller, two guys I look upto most). But since a kid I had an understanding of what kind of a man I've wanted to be, the one who shocks people because at the surface he's quiet and reserved, but when the time comes, he's an animal and multi faceted. Good at everything. I think I'm on the right path.
I am trying so hard to be that guy but when I see a woman I legitimately find attractive my heart starts going crazy beating fast and I get so frustrated. I want to a much more calm extrovert but I am only an introvert
@@beatsonfire4998 I can totally understand, there was a time in my life where I was fighting with myself (just like you are) on what I am vs what I want to be. This is THE WORST thing one can do (I did it). I was trying to be someone I was not....trying to put a mask on my face, it did not work, as time passed and I started to gain knowledge, I realised that this is just how I am. I started to feel peace within me and I came to terms with the fact that this is howy brain functions. From that point onwards, I developed the "calmness" he's talking about, because I was not in a battle with me. I was calm knowing "hey, this is who I am, can't change it, so just gotta work with it", but that is what developed the calmness in me. I told this to you so that you could identify where we are similar and see that maybe will also the same life path. The other thing that I talked about is being an animal, that just comes from hardwork, you have to do the work no matter what, but yeah the calmness can be developed by understanding YOUR own unique personality and respecting it. At the same time, start to develop skills and proving your worth, because proving to the world you can do something will validate that there is nothing wrong with you, adding to that calmness.
@@SanjitNagi thank you very much. Your comment is highly inspiring. Much of my life I have been feeling behind other people but you are right that I should just learn to accept who and how I am. Recently I was rejected by a girl I really liked and I can see now why I wasn’t good enough for her because I was trying to be something I’m not.
@@beatsonfire4998 accept who you are and then IMPROVE THAT PERSON.
In anything in life, never be needy.
You gotta have the mindset "I want you, but I don't need you." And apply that mindset to everything in life. If you want a raise at work: "Hey boss, I don't need the raise, but I want it."
This video definitely gave me clarity about women and how I should express myself in the world
Great work
If you enjoy topics about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
Can be hard when you’re a bit younger and don’t have as much value and haven’t developed that kind of inner calm one develops as an older guy yet. Patience is key I guess.
Just start now bro also don’t wait till you’re older go for it now bro
But by saying you don't desire to put effort into making the first move on a girl, that means that the girl would have to initiate obviously. Are you saying if you're out dancing, you wouldn't ask someone to dance? As a female, I decided I would never ask another guy out (on a date) or to dance, because although people say I'm beautiful/cute I actually got rejected twice when I asked two men. One had a girlfriend, and one rejected a dance with me because he was super conceited , even though I'd had extremely good looking boyfriend's in the past (I also had great average looking guys who were smart/talented/funny). So guys, if you can remember a time a girl said no to you , magnify that feeling about 50 times... that's what I felt. It wasn't that my ego was bruised, I just felt humiliated since men usually do the pursuing. A guy might face rejection and yes, it's painful, but he might miss out because he's truly putting women in an awkward position. If I saw a man waiting for women to come to him, I'd immediately lose interest (same if he was asking tons of women). It makes him look like non relationship material, and tells me that he wouldn't be a masculine leader. It also starts off a relationship with the woman being in her masculine and makes it too easy for the guy to say "You're the one who approached me. I didn't want you very much, but you made it easy".
In my opinion one of your best videos yet! So spot on with the female role you speak about.
A old quote but a valid quote
I’m paraphrasing here
“You will lose money and success chasing a woman but you will never lose a woman chasing money and success and building your empire”.
You're an amazing person Kris, this is invaluable advice brother
I'd say "never moving to a woman" isn't necessarily a chief means of becoming fascinating or attractive (the way a lot of people proclaim)-but to whatever degree you WERE fascinating/attractive, chasing after women can negate that.
Ah, you make the point well at the 24:06 section. You do have to put yourself out there if you wanna get women, but less is more; deal with them at a bit of a distance, in some senses. Play the slow, calm game. Don't overtalk. And don't waste more time than you want to with 'em.
I think a lot of this sort of maturity comes naturally, with age. Until one has a certain degree of lived experience, youthful angst is hard to do away with (even if one religiously watches content like this).
Kris could you expand on how to go out to these social situations and not consume alcohol? Or at least not consume it often. You mention you rarely drink but you allude to “going out” in this video and having a drink etc. Love all you do man, cheers
edit: the point is to fit in socially, i hate alcohol and don't drink it myself
Co-signing this. That’d be a great video.
I stopped drinking once i started martial arts training.
Literally do a hypertrophy workout followed by coffee and some kind of tea/Kombucha that has l theanine in it (you won't come up and then crash from the caffeine) and 20 minutes of meditation before you go out (it works better if you're already in a routine).
I get the same effects if not better of the confidence inducing effects of alcohol.
"Going out" is not a huge part of my life, but I often take girls on dates to rooftop bars, and I just order soda water for the beverage. I don't think it's ever hurt my dating results or anything.
How about not consuming it
I used to hate this guy because his videos started with an ad but I watched this video and that ad was worth it because he just spit fact and I will learn from this man now and I am sure that it will not disappoint me
I figured remove TH-cam ads and have my own ads because you guys can actually skip them
I don’t like how he tried to sue the guy that made fun of him but actually didn’t sue him but I can see why because this is his business but yeah Kris has value in his vids that’s for sure
@@1STMAN Nice Plan Man Thanks for giving me direction
Kris you don’t have to apologise for sounding egotistical. You’ve earns the right to have an ego through all your hard work over the years.
Spot on Kris. Thanks for the examples and visualisation of how life can be.
You’ve restored my aim in life👊🏻
"Jeffrey chases women , women chase adonis , adonis chases excellence "
How's your Jefferey to Adonissss transformation bro?
@@nefu7
i am currently 18 ( gonna be 19 next month )
i've been on self improvement for 1 year now , i can feel dragon's blood running through my veins . i can't wait to get to sleep knowing that the other day shall be conquered , i became the regonal kickboxing champ , gained +10 Kg of weight ( 7 kg muscles )
+4 cm ( from 183 to 187 cm). eating cleean no junk food , no sugarry sh*t , disciplined onmy meditation , gym , gratitude journaling , bed time , went from a gamer to someone who has a harem of 4 girls ( 1 girl gets replaced each week but meh ) , i became a positive inspirational motivating person for people around me , i witnissed my relationship change dramatically with my parents especially my father who became proud of me , the path of delayed gratification , of hollistic self improvement , of Adonis , IS THE WAY TO GO
Do the hard work especially when you don't fell like it
sorry if my english is a little too heavy i'm from morocco
@@yassir6359 Hamza sub? haha
@@yassir6359 nadi asat keep going 🔥🇲🇦🔥
@@ansgh2053 thanks brother
Unpopular opinion
In my opinion Kris is coping and has been for a while, always changes his views and perspectives to suit his ego
Edit: Just to clarify he has good points too, but he’s definitely coping.
How’s he coping
Thanks to people like you and Richard cooper now I understand why men should never chase women. I learned from him that the more men chase women the more you just feed their egos and give them more attention. It's simple to do the physical work, and financial work, maintain the frame in any conversation, especially with females, and work on your game. And tides will start to turn
The only people women tend to chase and simp for are men who have done the work and know their self-worth. I mean think about it do you think a high value/a man who has done the work will have time to chase women?
Thank you Kris, for this video. It really puts things to perspective. Work now, build, create, life setup and solve problems. The feminine will be attracted to this and hint. It's kind of similar to some points in "The Way of The Superior Man" whereby the feminine is attracted to the masculine that's on a mission, focused on it's purpose. I had gone astray but have now realized that the best thing is being the Calm Extrovert. I'm introverted but I've realized that there may be a cause, an insecurity that drew me to introversion. I believe it's looks and underdeveloped social skills. I used to be extroverted back in highschool but something changed, went through a depression not sure if I have ever come out of it but that's when things changed. Working out, creating my life setup and focusing on my purpose/goals is slowly reversing that. I'll need to eventually relearn social skills and "game".
This video has the "traditional wise father" aesthetic. Keep it up man. There are people who follow you and have never had fathers. I'm one of them.
The problem is, the girls will not know who you are and will not feel the need to approach or show an interest. Unless you can display some sort of status while you’re in a room, you will be waiting a very long time dude.
I would say be active while passive. In other words, be seen as popular by making friends and having girls see you with other girls who are giving you positive feedback.
Social proof and preselection goes a long way.
Come here because sometimes I need a pep talk, a reminder to continue to work on my trades and not worried about women and sex. Thank you.
Thanks Kris, very helpful video, words of wisdom from a great role model 👍🏼 Yes “ROLE MODEL”
While I understand the logic, men's value is displayed through their demeanor/personality and women's is displayed in looks. You can't assume women would know if you're top 1% unless you talk to her and show it through conversation
Chase money you'll never run out of options with women. Chase women you'll run out of money
You are an inspiration cheers boss 95% make so much sense
How is this guy a millionaire? He cant get that much from his products + he burns so much money on his streaming platform. No hate but I really feel like that is inheritence money, and its disingenious to present it like he made that money
@@Mirira1 1stman has 205k monthly website visitors and with an average conversion rate of 3.5% for ecommerce and an average product value of 13.56 using these numbers he probably makes between 70 - 120k a month off of his store
Things that you chase are moving away from you.
Chris spitting absolute truth here
1stman revolutionising modern dating! Listen up boys and girls
My Mind is Totally Blown. Never in life of 25 years old I think like that. You are GodDamn Ruthless Kirs!!!
ur only 25? damn bro u look like 30 in ur pfp 😂
Yo Kris can you make a video for the age group between 17-21 how can some start a business or learn stuff that would help them in the future.
I agree with the attractive energy, but a lot of guys just haven't talked to many beautiful women, and then when they get rich, they still can't get them because they're so intimidated by them still. Because of this, I think it's healthy for men to approach women they like, if only to initially improve their skills and familiarity talking to beautiful women. Then, they can get better at approaching while still giving off the non-needy, you choose me energy, and then they can progress to what you do. Just skipping to sitting down waiting for a woman to approach for these guys won't work as their insecurity around her will show. Sure it's hard, and there's a lot of rejection (I've done it, and sometimes still do), but I see it as more of a wake up call to reality rather than let it beat me up, and then when a girl does show me obvious choosing signs I can easily cross the threshold into a dating dynamic.
Yeah u gotta do this first tbh
But what Kris is saying is the result of a natural progression of when u get more success and calm energy in life. You shouldn’t force it either way imo.
When you’re younger as well most guys are too scared to approach women especially attractive ones so when you do even if they reject you they will still respect you
@@loopskratch6065 Hmm, I'm not sure I agree with the 'not forcing' statement. Kris is at a level where he knows how to talk to women from experience. Guys first need to get out of their comfort zone to improve with women (forcing themselves to talk to them) and find out that it's actually not that scary. Which is actually what I think you're saying in the last comment. Ultimately, you want to reach a point of not giving a shit, and have a self belief of being attractive to women. Some guys get more natural attention from women, where others need to try harder to improve their skills (numbers on the board), but one of those skills they may be lacking in is conversational, and things like touching a woman so she feels you in a lover role. This takes practice for these guys, and where I think particular classes on this stuff and approaching can definitely help.
I agree most dudes dont know how your pulse rate will jump once youre actually talking to a women, they just stare from a distance unable to bring themselves to make that approach. Go approach that really high end chick, maybe you will feel messed up afterwards. Only when youve done it a bunch of times does it become like a normal interaction.
I see some solide value here, thank you
Kris, could you do a video on making social circles as you kinda touch upon it in this video. I don't think it's something we really talk about in the whole male improvement space.
The way I think is so dangerous now.
You’re awareness and courage to deliver such valuable information amazes me!
I’m glad the theres people like you keeping these values alive 👏
"1st man needs glasses" 😂
Okay have to play devil's advocate here. He is 6'2 and he proclaims he pulls almost $1M a year pre-tax. Would an average dude. Even an above average dude, get any attention sitting by himself at a bar?
Don't get me started on everyone can self improve to his level. You can't self improve to be 6'2. And by definition not everyone can be rich. If everyone's rich then nobody's rich. Speaking as a millionaire, that's not 6'2, myself.
Not to mention his latest video on Modern Dating Degeneracy semi-invalidate this. It's not as simple as it sounds. That's all I 'm saying.
Good thing you included the section on being a "calm extrovert." I think when you say something like "I don't chase women," some of your viewers could take the mindset that they should solely work on self-improvement, and then women will automatically flock to them. But in a past video, you discussed how even famous rappers hire "p*ssy coordinators" to intentionally bring women in. And other guys will buy modeling agencies, so they can be at the parties and get introduced to the models, etc. However it happens, you need a specific way of actually getting into conversations with the kind of women you want. Don't just self-improve endlessly, do nothing to reach out to women, and act entitled that they should all come over and introduce themselves. Whether it's cold approach or something more indirect and subtle like the "calm extrovert" thing, set your life up so that you're frequently getting into interactions with the kind of women you want.
Do you mess with that tho to get women , would you like doing to get more women. Definitely gotta have some bread to do that
Hey man, I am facing a problem these days. I am getting sick often due to weather changes, over training etc. During that period I feel like shit and my mindset is completely different than before. Pls advice on the actions to take while being sick.
If you enjoy topics about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
Men should be active, start the interaction. Women, the feminine, more passive.
Starting something with someone attractive is not chasing, is just opening the way for things to happen. Manifest what we want (which is not get laid, it’s to know someone… isn’t it?), regardless the outcome.
If you don’t start, at least for quick fun moment if nothing else, you’re a d*ck as scared and awkward as me. 😎
would be great if you could make a seperate video about your way on aproaching women and going deeper in the calm extrovert trate.
This makes sense , I am 5 foot 7 inch , I will try the same thing as well , if it works thanks in advance , if it doesn't well whatever I am tired of unnatural conversations anyway
I don't need to approach women, I am fine by myself
Maybe I will just put myself out there.
One thing that you have and I don't is height I am not sure how is it going to alter my result but I will keep this post updated .
How did things work for You? Any change?
I heard in an old elliott hulse video. every woman wants the most powerful stallion between her legs, as long she is a able to control it. Riding a stallion she cannot control will not fulfill her. Think about the sheer size and power a 800kg stallion has, that is you, the woman wants to steer you, but you will not accept it untill you are ready to be steered.
I usually cannot focus on a video for more than 5 mins, but I sat down and watched this twice. It was completely relatable and resonated with my current feelings for the past few months. My cousin who is the same age as me (female) just got married and their lives look "stable and successful". But now... I thank you so much for opening my eyes. I've often been feeling like I am "Behind in life" because I have reached 27 year of age (I'm Male) and haven't had sex yet, never had a girl friend let alone getting married. I've not really felt as strong as others about marriage - partially because of my infertility and inability to have my own children - does not mean I won't choose to adopt - Some day.
I did not realize this "settling down" or "find the right partner" was such feminine energy. Thank you for the content and I hope you can cover more about your own experiences... I will continue to backtrack your videos and dig deeper. I've longed to ask - does the inability to have children mean I am not a man? From your videos there are certainly many qualities that shape and define a man.. but at core biology - if you fail to be a seed provider - does that mean I can never be 100% a Man?
Thanks.
Yes you are a man.
Keep grinding and elevating. Become the best version of yourself to be the best dad and role model you can be. I have an almost 14 yr old son from my first girlfriend and have been split parenting for 13 years. When I was in my 20s I hated being a dad because I was so selfish and less experienced. Now that I’m 35 I love being a dad and can share my knowledge/wisdom. I have lots of talks with my lil dude, and basically bring it down to his gamer boy mind. “ son, I am your greatest cheat code, and the best strategy guide, trust in me, follow me and win”. Become so confident, passionate and driven, women will come to you. Adoption is a beautiful thing, you choose them. I’ve thought about fostering, big brother and adoption many times, just be patient, the right opportunity will unfold after all your hard work.
Monks don't procreate and they're men.
Kris: 30,6’2, millionaire, amazing drive, intelligent, well dressed, muscular. He’s is clearly in the top 1% of men.
Me: 32, 5’9, health care worker who make 6 figures, no debt (all school loans paid off) got my own apartment, I’m only going to the gym 3-4x a week.
Fuck, I would argue I’m only in the top 30% of men. Seeing shit like this makes me realize how much work I gotta do. Inspiring as hell
That's at least top 15% men bruh
@@mattheww9763 appreciate it brother 🙏 let’s keep going to the top
Thats way better than top 30% brother
This a video everyone should save and rewatch in the future as its too valuable to forget, and us humans can be forgetful 😂🤷♂️
@1STMAN You qualify a lot of what you say to not come off as pompous which is smart of you to do so, being on the internet. In doing so you come off as grounded and rational, which is a great quality in and of itself. It seems like you haven't let the success over-inflate your ego. Success should inflate your ego, but you aren't letting it OVER-inflate your ego and I respect that very much.
This is backwards. Does the top 1% salesperson in his company ever stop chasing customers and closing deals?
24:00 did he make a video about extroversion/introversion?
Can someone tell me why this guy doesnt have more views? Im not even kidding when I tell you this I genuinely feel like my life has come to a point that it is almost impossible for me to find people with the same mindset as me and it is only through the internet and youtubers like you hamza and a couple others that I feel are my elder brothers and my friends.
Yes dude, some kind of male hypergamy...inspirational
Where are the videos of you and all these 10/10 ladies bro curious sure others are aswell 👍
I actually have some videos saved, but I refuse to post them out of respect for the women. Right now the women are very 1 to 1 if that makes sense, they trust me, it's not like a Dan Bilzerian scenario where there's 10 instagram girls who want clout. The girls I date have jobs, families etc, so they always ask me not to post
@1STMAN that's fair enough mate I just like wanted to see how you operate in the field and get some techniques / pointers 👍
@@allybiggs5423 “I just like wanted to see how you operate in the field” bro just stop talking you wanted to hate 😂😂
@magsvro wtf? No was curious ya spanner
This dude is spot on
Okay chris great video, but can u tell ur dating strategy like how and where you meet women.
where the supplements at ;/
Attraction is like gravity (a purely attracting force in the universe). The guy essentially has to literally and figuratively pull the woman into his world.
Not realistic. You're being too passive. It's an ego defense. They are afraid of rejection 1000x more than men.
So become Sean Connery's James Bond
Did you go to the bar on your own, it sounds like you did, would you advise that?
When you can attract replace and not needy your outlook on life is different regardless of women
What do we gotta do to get these podcasts episodes uploaded to Spotify?
Starting to think this guys a trust fund baby.
could you start putting these videos on spotify again?
There is no another me in the room
Is there another way to send money to you? It's restricted in my region due to regulation, so I can't donate :/
Would really want to be an "innovator" in your streaming platform!
Bro I feel like you’re future me speaking to me right now!
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Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
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All the best to you!
What percentage of men watching this channel have a net worth of more than zero? Or even earn more than £30k a year? Do a poll.
I'm 21 above it
hey kris can you make the sound of your videos louder please because I listen to them with a speaker
Nothing wrong with chasing men bro. You do you bro.
lmao bald man coping saying he dosent want women
You can chase a bit if you like her , but he’s talking about his life rn I guess I wonder what he doing when he going out
You try to impress someone you hate at...
Kris looking absolutely grimacing in the thumbnail
I was squinting to see my emails coming in 😂 Thought it suited the theme of ignoring women and looking focused
Hey Jack