This is exactly why I keep telling my husband there’s no need to have many children. Kids these days will not care for you and do not expect them to care for you when you get old.
Ungrateful! This is just sad 😭😡 my parents are elderly now and I cannot even imagine not being there for them. If anything they worry that I spoil them too much. But I always feel that when I was growing up my parents never once complain about not having enough to feed all 7 of their children. I have only one child and my parents two mouths and daily necessity is nothing when I compare to how they struggle giving us all everything. Love your parents who have love you growing up ten fold.
Good story. The kids raised in America do not think like how the kids raised back then. It's sad. But that's why, you as an individual, has got to plan your own retirement and prepare. Just in case this happens when your old.
This is such a great story. I just hope that children will have unconditional love for parents as they have for them. That is why even though when parent's are old and they still want to have a companion its becasue of children like hers. Yet those children are so selfish they don't see what they are doing to their mother. Ungrateful children will never see thier fault. Just love yourself because no one else will. GOOD LEARING STORY....
Don’t let your children use the babysitting excuse to guilt trip you. They barely help you plus they still have a dad. They can go to him for help too. Plus their kids are their responsibilities not yours.
Yes that’s right, when your kids want to have kids then their kids are their responsibility because as much as you love them they’re not gonna be there for you. Maybe not all kids are like that but some kids are they take care more of the other side of the family then their mom and dad so like a lot of people say that don’t let the babysitting a guilt trip on you because if they chose to have kids then you got a let them learn themselves of taking care of their own kids and that’s exactly what I do with mine. I have three grandkids but I let them take care of their own kids and anytime if they need me to watch their kids they must call me to see if I’m available because if I’m not they can just come and drop them off at the door because what if I’m not home. I’ve seen a lot of kids that do that they drop them off at the grandparents house not knowing if the grandparents are home or not so that’s not good either so let them learn they have to learn to cope with it and raise their kids like how we raise them working in shifts so that at least one parents would be home with them until they go to school full-time and then both parents can work first shift
To these old parent stop push every thing to your children, they have their own life too. Now we just live and work by the cloc'k. If you get sick your children can't fit you or take the pain away only doctor can fit you. So stop thinking so much and selfish no matter how much your kids will love you they can't replace like your partner for you. You parent have to understand that.
Taking several hrs. off to pick up mom from hospital is not unreasonable. This son lacks conscience. No job is more important than taking care of your parents when they are sick and needed help.
It’s not that your kids do not love you. It’s that they want you to not be lonely as you age. A companion relationship is different than a mother children relationship. Don’t be offended. The suffering is your own thought. They do value you but as you said - it’s a different relationship.
And yes what the lady say is very true don’t depend on your kids to take care of you. If your divorce if you were a widow, you can always go find a new life or if you choose to be by yourself that’s your choice sometime starting a new life is good some time being by yourself is good but never depend on these kids because like one said it’s not like him back in the old country anymore kids born here in the US is very different they don’t care much about their parents they care more about their outside world with their friends and other side of the family so yes don’t depend so much on your kids anymore 🥰
In my opinion, you have the right to do as you wish when your kids are 18 and vice versa. I always tell my kids that they do not owe me anything other than being independent and humble. It is my job to care, protect, and nurturing my children when they are still young. However, I never forget my wants and needs alongside raising my children hoping of fewer regrets in return. Of course, it's easier said than done, but not expecting much can be a little easier for the heart. Again, this is my opinion. Going back to the story; I am glad that the woman in this story was able to find someone who loves her. After all those lonely years with her former spouse and after divorce, she deserves the world. Despite my happiness for her, I do feel that the woman in this story is a bit bias, and this is only one side of the story. Her side.
Yog ,,,muaj tiag vim li no es txawm laus ..lawm los thiaj tseem ntshaw..tus me hlub los vim yog li koj hais yog yus tsis muaj tus txiv ces tag txoj kev cia siab li hos tsaus ntuj los tsis muaj txoj kev tos kaj ntug los tsis muaj kev cia siab lawm mog txoj kev ua ib tug poj ntsuag mas lam tias khi siav rau tej me nyuam yeej tsis pw tau nrog yus uas ib txag es yuav pom yus mob .li cas kuv los niaj hnub no kuv lam nyob nrog kuv tej me nyuam mas lam xwb mas tu...siab kawg li tiag
In this case, no need to have kids. Good if they love you but it’s heart broken when they become like these kids.... so narrow minded. Kids like these don’t deserve to have parents or mom, they should be orphans!! Hopefully one day their kids will teach them this same kind of hurt.
me nyuam tsis hlub yus os lawv khwv tau txaus lawv noj lawm ces lawv tsis quav ntsej yus lawm os mog yus thiaj li hlub lawv xwb os lawv yeej tsis hlub yus os niam tais lawv yog yus yug es yus thiaj li hlub hlub lawv xwb os mog
Tus me niam tsev aw 3 txoj kev ua neej ces zoo yam txoj kev 3 taug txij twg ces 3 pom txij ntawm xwb os me nyuam tiam 21th no ces feem coob yeej coj li koj cov ntau xwb vim lawv g to taub yus txoj kev xav qhov ntshai mas tsam yus tus thaub laus ho ua yus ntej lawm es pab twg los g yuav yus mus ua dab qhuas xwb xwb es ho yuav tshuav 1 txoj kev nyuaj siab thiab tiag pab koj zoo siab tau 1 tug zoo txij nkawm
Zoo kawg qhov koj nrhiav tau ib tug tshiab lawm. Majority of adults raised in the US feel so entitled to everything. Only few still has a conscience to love and appreciate their parents unconditionally. I hope your son will get a taste of his own medicine.
Kuj yog li koj tus tub hais lawm thiab laiv cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab xwb os kuv xav nas txhob tos leej twg kiag yeej meem npaj yus tus kheej khov kho xwb ntag
You kids are evil you should’ve left them when you were younger. Your son’s very selfish but he did it to himself for being mean and heartless in the first place.
Nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj mus nriav tau ib tug txij nkawm los hlb koj rau yav laus lm os. Koj cov me nyuam mas mloog li koj hais mas yeej phem kawg kiag txhob cia siab rau tej me nyuam teb chaws no os yog hnub twg lub neej mus g taus lm txhob nyob nrog tej me nyuam cia lawv ntxeem lawv rau thaum me kom thiaj paub txoj kev txom nyem yog hlub2 lawv tau zoo ces lawv g paub tias yus ua niam txom nyem baum cas is mog.
You are right, sister, you should go ahead and find another one to love you instead of hang on to your children. Your children will have their own life and forget about you. Your children only need you when you are well and when they need you. As for the children, you should be mad at your mom because it's your only faults, when she needs you when she was sick, you children was not there for her that's why she moved ahead to find someone to love her. You were willing to have children that's mean you and your wife were able and willing to take care of them.
Nia muaj nia Txoj mloog os; doesn’t matter if you live meka or Laos, as long as you did your part in life. Keep on rollin, cause life isn’t like a movie. There’s no pause in life. #muahZzz
Your son should understand...he don't need to say things to you or be hurt...cause he cant really take care of you...he has his own family to take care off...but he still want you to take care of his kids so he and his wife can go play...parents cant do that all the time they got things to do too...everyone needs to juggle with their own kids, that y it's called parenting.....if you cant do that dont have any!!!!
Xab maim no kav tsij nrhiav chaw tos rau yu mus nyob thaum laus os, txhob tos tos tej mi nyuam, txawm lawv khoom Lo lawv muaj lawv lub neej tiag tiag thiab. Mi nyuam no Yu Yug lawv tawm los vim yog Yu xav muab txoj sia rau lawv Pom lawv loj hlob mus Tom ntej xwb mog tsis yog yug lawv los tos rau yav thaum laus, nej yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias mi nyuam no nim yog xav xav tawm los na yeej yog Yu ob niag laus ua kom lawv tawm los xwb. Nyia muaj nyia lub neej mog vim Li ntawv thiaj Li muaj tsev laus los rau peb mus nyob thaum laus Lo ma es txhob muab Yu tus kheej coj los ua ib qhov chaw ntxhov siab rau Yu tej mi nyuam.
Cov me nyuam txawj xav ces txiv tsis hlub niam li ntawd ces tej me nyuam twb hlub hlub niam tsis txawj tag lawm. Txawm cov tub tsis tshua hlub los cov ntxhais yeej hlub lawv niam. Txiv ntoo poob tsis deb ntawm hauv paus ntoo. Koj cov me nyuam lawv phem kiag li lawv txiv, tag tub ntxhais thiaj li tsis txawj xav tib yam nkaus. Muab xav mas tiam 21 no zoo li nyias yug nyias tej me nyuam los tsim nyias lawm xwb. Cov laus raug me tub me nyuam tsim ua ntu zus. Txaus tu siab kawg.
I’m with this lady 100% cov tub thiab ntxhais tiam 21 no lawv coj li cov neeg tawv dawb nyob Rau tiam no. 1. Niaj hnub no twb pom ib txhia ntxhais mus nrog hluas raug nyob tsis kam ua tshoob. 2. Tub thiab Ntxhais tiam no yog koj mus saib kwv thiab tij lawv yeej tsis hu yus lawm. 3. Tiam no txhua tus menyuam yeej tsis hlub cov ua Niam thiab Txiv. Yog Nej tsis ntseeg thov neej sim Nej mam paub nws tsis zoo li yuav qub
En tus niam tais aw hnov tej neej neeg ntau2 txog tej minyuam lub neej tiam 21 los yog lub teb chaws vam neej no cas tin co uas mi tub minyuam tsis hlub tej laus tsis tu tej laus lawv tab tias lawv khwv2 lawv tsis khoom thiab lawv yeej muaj qhov qias yus yog li ua rau kuv tu siab thiab ntshai txog kuv lub neej. Ua cas lub neej nim no es yuav yog li luag tej ib txhua hais tias yug tsis muaj los txhob tu siab yog li kuv kuj txhawj txog kuv iav laus heev thiab os mog los xyhov yog nyob ntawm peb txoj hmoo tau tej rub tej Nyab tej ntxhais tej vauv hlub peb os es yog li peb ho xav tias yuav kawg mus nrhiav tus khaws nrauj Waimea es yog ho mus yuav tau tus tsis hlub peb los yog nws ho tuag ua nyem peb lawm thaum ntawd peb nyob los cov tod tsis yog peb yug luag twb tsis xav yuav peb lawm hos peb ho rov los los peb cov peb yug kiag twb ho tsis kam yuav peb rov los nrog lawv nyob vim lawv nim ntshai2 tsam peb ho los tuag rau lawv Vaj lawv tsev los yog tsam lawv ho tau tha peb vim Hmoob muaj ib txoj niag cai lim2 hiam li no tshwj xeeb cov niag uas tseem coj kev cai Qub mas tu siab uas tiam no peb yug los ua ib hauv neeg tias hu ua Hmoob no tshaj plaws li os tshwj xeeb yug los ua ib yug Khaub ntxhais os es ntshe lwm tiam yog muaj tiag ntshe yuav tsis los yug ua Hmoob lawm os mog
I never had parents tell me about life cuz i was abdopt i believe if ur not the blood children the parents will not tell u about life unless ur the only abdopt kid but if u have other kid bside u hell no the parents will not tell u about life they only give u life
Viv ncaus aw koj tsis muaj hmoo Es koj yug tau ib co me nyuam tsis txawj xav thiaj tsis hlub koj xwb os tej me nyuam no ces lawv yeej tsis paub hlub tej laus kiag li, koj tus tub tsis txawj xav kiag li, ua cas yuav nkim zog ua luaj li os. Pab koj zoo siab hais tias koj mus yuav tau ib tus hlub koj lawm os.
Sister your kids does not love you. You should go remarry against why spend time with your kids. What the heck he ask her mom do a baby sitting for him and his wife. They should go paid daycare. Your mom need free life like you.
Yeej yog li me nyuam hais os.vim li ntaw koj yuas tsum mus yuav txiv.cov qub cai hmoob mas yuav tsum tso tseg os.koj yuav txiv es nyob nyob,me nyuam mam tuaj xyuas koj xwb thiaj zoo.yog yuav tsum zov koj li lub neej qub qab ces nyiaj los,khwv tsis tau hos,poj niam los yuav muab lawv nrauj.tus yuav hlub taus koj ces yog koj tus txiv xwb os niam tais es.av tsij mus ua ib lub neej tshab os.me nyuam yeej hlub koj kawg,tab sis lub neej tshiab no,mus tsis taus li peb lub neej qub qab lawm os. Tab sis cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau taub tias koj muaj koj ib lub neej lawm.koj khoom,koj mam zov cov xeej ntxwv vim koj muaj ib tus neeg tseem ceeb ntawm koj ib sab es yog tus koj yuav hlub nws ua ntej cov me nyuam.
Koj tus tub tsis muaj xiv tu siab chim siab rau koj os tus niam tsev aws! He has NO RIGHT to get upset at you!!! He and his wife is only using you as a crutch. Use you when he needs you and throws you away when he doesn't. He should really think about himself before he opens his mouth. You gave him a chance and stayed a single parent for so long to take care of your kids but they didn't care much about you. What an ungrateful idiot! What did he expects for you to do since you're now remarried?!! Stay home and play house all day with your new hubby?!!! Heck no!!! He's married himself so he should understand the duties of attending family get togethers. Those are HIS kids so HE and HIS WIFE should be RESPONSIBLE for THEIR own kids!!! If they can't take care of their own kids, don't be poppin out those kids!!! He wants to use the modern world against you but expects you to keep to the old ways so he can use you. 😑😒😒😑😑 Good on you for using the modern world against him, for giving him a taste of his own medicine! 😂👏👏👏👏👏👏 As parents, we can't really depend on our kids to take care of us in our old age but they shouldn't depend on us to babysit for them either. We do what we can but he has to understand we all have our own lives to live and not get upset. You tried to see things from his perspective but he just flat out refuses to see things from your perspective.
Koj cov niag me nyuam ces nkim zog yug xwb os niam tais aws kuv yog koj ces muab nrhab kiag yug rau hauv qhov ntuj xwb koj cov me nyuam kov ces nkim zog hlub xwb os cov me nyuam Zoo li koj cov niag ntawm kov ces nkim zog tiag
Why do Hmong people have this idea that their children owe them and must revolve their lives around their parents/relatives as a payback. And Hmong people tend to act helpless whenever they are slightly ill, or God forbid, have any kind of surgeries. We have children because we chose to have them, they bring love, joy and happiness but they are not a collateral, so stop viewing them as collateral or fixated on their return on investment with their kids. And appendix surgery is not major surgery. Yes, you are in some pain but you are not laid out helpless for days and weeks. This lady is so dramatic about hot water burning her lips. Sheesh, sip your own hot water. You can certainly hold the darn mug and sip water. Everybody has jobs, commitments and obligations. They can’t drop everything just because you are in the hospital or sick. Learn to help yourself.
Your son sounds like a selfish brat and so is your daughter in law. One day they will be treated the same with their own kids. He can’t even be bother with you when your sick but want to use you to babysit his kids. What a hypocrite. They only think of themselves.
Tus niam tais es, mob heev ces hu 911 xwb ma. Tseem yuav tos tus tub thiab tus nyab ua dabtsi nawb. Hlub yus tus nkeeg ua ntev os. Cov menyuam tam sim no yeej tsis zoo li cov yav thaum ub es yuav hu kiag ces ib pliag tuaj. Vim lub ntiaj teb hloov lawm. Txhua yam yog nyiaj. Yog txoj haujlwm tsis tso cai nyob ces yeej nyob tsi tau. Qhov no yog ib qhov uas cov laus tsis nkag siab cov hluas. Yog tias tus hluas cia li los zov tus laus. Leegtwg tiag li yuav them tus hluas cov nuj nqis. Yog vim li no, thiaj li nyuaj, tsis yoojyim kiag. Koj xav tau ib tug los tu koj ces tsuas yog ib tug txiv los yog mus nyob tsev laus es muaj ib tug nais maum tu xwb os. Li cas los tsuas koj nrhiav tau ib tug los nrog koj nyob lawm los ma. Tsis txhob txhawj txoj koj tus tub thiab tus nyab os. Nws loj nws, ua tau nws txiv lawm. Yog nrhiav neeg zog menyuam xwb, nws mam nrhiav nws os. Tsis yog koj txoj lub luag haujlwm.
Kuv thov peb tsev hmoob tsis txhob pheej yuav tsib nqis kev khwv uas yus tau ua rau yus pabme nyuam yus yuav tsum nyobyus khwv yus tejmenyuam Los yuav txhob tos tej laus pab yus xwb yus txhob tu siab rau. Cov laus mog hloov peb lub cuj pwm mog
This is exactly why I keep telling my husband there’s no need to have many children. Kids these days will not care for you and do not expect them to care for you when you get old.
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Ungrateful! This is just sad 😭😡 my parents are elderly now and I cannot even imagine not being there for them. If anything they worry that I spoil them too much. But I always feel that when I was growing up my parents never once complain about not having enough to feed all 7 of their children. I have only one child and my parents two mouths and daily necessity is nothing when I compare to how they struggle giving us all everything. Love your parents who have love you growing up ten fold.
Good story. The kids raised in America do not think like how the kids raised back then. It's sad. But that's why, you as an individual, has got to plan your own retirement and prepare. Just in case this happens when your old.
Samantha Yang lol not all are like this lol
This is such a great story. I just hope that children will have unconditional love for parents as they have for them. That is why even though when parent's are old and they still want to have a companion its becasue of children like hers. Yet those children are so selfish they don't see what they are doing to their mother. Ungrateful children will never see thier fault. Just love yourself because no one else will. GOOD LEARING STORY....
Cov me tub me nyuam na niam mus ua neej tom ntej lo txhob tu2 siab rau niam lawm nawb
Don’t let your children use the babysitting excuse to guilt trip you. They barely help you plus they still have a dad. They can go to him for help too. Plus their kids are their responsibilities not yours.
Yes that’s right, when your kids want to have kids then their kids are their responsibility because as much as you love them they’re not gonna be there for you. Maybe not all kids are like that but some kids are they take care more of the other side of the family then their mom and dad so like a lot of people say that don’t let the babysitting a guilt trip on you because if they chose to have kids then you got a let them learn themselves of taking care of their own kids and that’s exactly what I do with mine. I have three grandkids but I let them take care of their own kids and anytime if they need me to watch their kids they must call me to see if I’m available because if I’m not they can just come and drop them off at the door because what if I’m not home. I’ve seen a lot of kids that do that they drop them off at the grandparents house not knowing if the grandparents are home or not so that’s not good either so let them learn they have to learn to cope with it and raise their kids like how we raise them working in shifts so that at least one parents would be home with them until they go to school full-time and then both parents can work first shift
Children with a mother still in your life, you should love, take care and respect her. Once she is gone, then you have no one.
To these old parent stop push every thing to your children, they have their own life too. Now we just live and work by the cloc'k. If you get sick your children can't fit you or take the pain away only doctor can fit you. So stop thinking so much and selfish no matter how much your kids will love you they can't replace like your partner for you. You parent have to understand that.
Your turn will come next. Someday you have kids you will know why. What she is talking about it. She did not ask her kids put 100% on her.
Yog lawm os peb cov poj niam na .xav li cas los yeej yog tag os
Tus siab ua luas
People need hobbies & friends beyond the kids.
Then don't have any kids or for that matter any sex
Cov me nyuam no ces yeej zoo li no xwb os lawv aws thaum tsi muaj neej ces yus txib tau tabsi muaj neej lawm ces txhob tos lawm
Cuaj lub hnub qub tsis cuag ib lub hli,
Cuaj leeg tub tsis paum ib leeg txi.
Soo siab rau koj nrhiav tau lub neej rau ib tug hlub koj.
Lub neej xaj maim no yog leej twg ntse ces txhob yug me nyuam coob2 lawm yug 2 tug li luag neeg txawv teb chaws xwb 1, 2 tug xwb yuav hlub ces yeej hlub lawm txhob yug coob lawm os peb hmoob es.
Man parents need to understand that kids do have a life and bills to pay. We can’t drop everything and come when u call.
Taking several hrs. off to pick up mom from hospital is not unreasonable. This son lacks conscience. No job is more important than taking care of your parents when they are sick and needed help.
That son doesn't know nothing...
And some kids need to understand that there is daycare to take care of their children's. Some kids are so ungrateful. Goes both ways.
Lilly Heu medical emergencies. Yes!!
Then don't expect them to drop everything to care for your kids (like the son in this story)..
To the mom who wrote this story. You do you boo. Time to love yourself.
It’s not that your kids do not love you. It’s that they want you to not be lonely as you age. A companion relationship is different than a mother children relationship. Don’t be offended. The suffering is your own thought. They do value you but as you said - it’s a different relationship.
love it. even know i am guilty of not loving my mom like i should. we have to let them live their life too.
And yes what the lady say is very true don’t depend on your kids to take care of you. If your divorce if you were a widow, you can always go find a new life or if you choose to be by yourself that’s your choice sometime starting a new life is good some time being by yourself is good but never depend on these kids because like one said it’s not like him back in the old country anymore kids born here in the US is very different they don’t care much about their parents they care more about their outside world with their friends and other side of the family so yes don’t depend so much on your kids anymore 🥰
In my opinion, you have the right to do as you wish when your kids are 18 and vice versa. I always tell my kids that they do not owe me anything other than being independent and humble. It is my job to care, protect, and nurturing my children when they are still young. However, I never forget my wants and needs alongside raising my children hoping of fewer regrets in return. Of course, it's easier said than done, but not expecting much can be a little easier for the heart. Again, this is my opinion. Going back to the story; I am glad that the woman in this story was able to find someone who loves her. After all those lonely years with her former spouse and after divorce, she deserves the world. Despite my happiness for her, I do feel that the woman in this story is a bit bias, and this is only one side of the story. Her side.
This mom is so picky!!!!
Niam tsev aw....txhob hlub hlub tub thiab nyab. Hais kom nws zov nws own kids nws thiaj paub txoj kev hlub mas.
Ntuj aw... ntsai2 txoj kev zoo li koj kawg li os. Koj hmoov zoo koj tau tug zoo hlub koj. Tsawg tus thiaj tau tug zoo thiab xwb.
zoo kawg lub channel
Yeej yog lis koj hais lawm tus niam tsev.
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Yog ,,,muaj tiag vim li no es txawm laus ..lawm los thiaj tseem ntshaw..tus me hlub los vim yog li koj hais yog yus tsis muaj tus txiv ces tag txoj kev cia siab li hos tsaus ntuj los tsis muaj txoj kev tos kaj ntug los tsis muaj kev cia siab lawm mog txoj kev ua ib tug poj ntsuag mas lam tias khi siav rau tej me nyuam yeej tsis pw tau nrog yus uas ib txag es yuav pom yus mob .li cas kuv los niaj hnub no kuv lam nyob nrog kuv tej me nyuam mas lam xwb mas tu...siab kawg li tiag
Txhob tu siab os menyuam nyias muaj nyias siab os mog
In this case, no need to have kids. Good if they love you but it’s heart broken when they become like these kids.... so narrow minded. Kids like these don’t deserve to have parents or mom, they should be orphans!!
Hopefully one day their kids will teach them this same kind of hurt.
Zoo qhov koj nrhiav tau tus hlub koj lawm
me nyuam tsis hlub yus os lawv khwv tau txaus lawv noj lawm ces lawv tsis quav ntsej yus lawm os mog yus thiaj li hlub lawv xwb os lawv yeej tsis hlub yus os niam tais lawv yog yus yug es yus thiaj li hlub hlub lawv xwb os mog
Tus me niam tsev aw 3 txoj kev ua neej ces zoo yam txoj kev 3 taug txij twg ces 3 pom txij ntawm xwb os me nyuam tiam 21th no ces feem coob yeej coj li koj cov ntau xwb vim lawv g to taub yus txoj kev xav qhov ntshai mas tsam yus tus thaub laus ho ua yus ntej lawm es pab twg los g yuav yus mus ua dab qhuas xwb xwb es ho yuav tshuav 1 txoj kev nyuaj siab thiab tiag pab koj zoo siab tau 1 tug zoo txij nkawm
Zoo kawg qhov koj nrhiav tau ib tug tshiab lawm. Majority of adults raised in the US feel so entitled to everything. Only few still has a conscience to love and appreciate their parents unconditionally. I hope your son will get a taste of his own medicine.
Kuj yog li koj tus tub hais lawm thiab laiv cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab xwb os kuv xav nas txhob tos leej twg kiag yeej meem npaj yus tus kheej khov kho xwb ntag
You kids are evil you should’ve left them when you were younger. Your son’s very selfish but he did it to himself for being mean and heartless in the first place.
Hmoob aw... me nyuam ces cia ua ntsuag ntshaw luag niam luag txiv thiaj li yuav ntxim xwb os, thaum lawv muaj neej lawm ces lawv Tsi paub yus lawm os
Nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj mus nriav tau ib tug txij nkawm los hlb koj rau yav laus lm os. Koj cov me nyuam mas mloog li koj hais mas yeej phem kawg kiag txhob cia siab rau tej me nyuam teb chaws no os yog hnub twg lub neej mus g taus lm txhob nyob nrog tej me nyuam cia lawv ntxeem lawv rau thaum me kom thiaj paub txoj kev txom nyem yog hlub2 lawv tau zoo ces lawv g paub tias yus ua niam txom nyem baum cas is mog.
Niam laus aws, koj cov menyuam Tsis txawj xav xwb os. Thaum txog yus niam yus txiv lawm mas yus khwv npaub li cas los yeej yuav mus kom txog hos. Nco tsoov tias yus niam yus txiv yog yus txoj siav no nawb!
Yog Tsis txawj hlub niam hlub txiv no ces Tsis txhob thov2 koj niam thiab xib pab yus zov menyuam nawb!
Koj thiab kuv taug tib txog kev os mog
Koj cov menyuam ces zoo li koj tus txiv xwb koj cia siab yuam kev lawm txiv zoo li cas ces koj cov nyuam zoo li ntawv
You are right, sister, you should go ahead and find another one to love you instead of hang on to your children. Your children will have their own life and forget about you. Your children only need you when you are well and when they need you. As for the children, you should be mad at your mom because it's your only faults, when she needs you when she was sick, you children was not there for her that's why she moved ahead to find someone to love her. You were willing to have children that's mean you and your wife were able and willing to take care of them.
Nia muaj nia Txoj mloog os; doesn’t matter if you live meka or Laos, as long as you did your part in life. Keep on rollin, cause life isn’t like a movie. There’s no pause in life.
#muahZzz
Three things:
God first
Husband second
Children third
Txawm muaj tej lo koj tsis nco lawm los,peb yeej tsis paub ces yeej zoo kawg li lawm os miss
Your son should understand...he don't need to say things to you or be hurt...cause he cant really take care of you...he has his own family to take care off...but he still want you to take care of his kids so he and his wife can go play...parents cant do that all the time they got things to do too...everyone needs to juggle with their own kids, that y it's called parenting.....if you cant do that dont have any!!!!
Xab maim no kav tsij nrhiav chaw tos rau yu mus nyob thaum laus os, txhob tos tos tej mi nyuam, txawm lawv khoom Lo lawv muaj lawv lub neej tiag tiag thiab. Mi nyuam no Yu Yug lawv tawm los vim yog Yu xav muab txoj sia rau lawv Pom lawv loj hlob mus Tom ntej xwb mog tsis yog yug lawv los tos rau yav thaum laus, nej yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias mi nyuam no nim yog xav xav tawm los na yeej yog Yu ob niag laus ua kom lawv tawm los xwb. Nyia muaj nyia lub neej mog vim Li ntawv thiaj Li muaj tsev laus los rau peb mus nyob thaum laus Lo ma es txhob muab Yu tus kheej coj los ua ib qhov chaw ntxhov siab rau Yu tej mi nyuam.
I only have 1 kid because i know human are selfish. Im still glad i only have one.
Luag tej laus pim txoj lus tias. 9 lub Hnubqub tsis cuag 1 lub Hli, 9 leeg tub tsis cuag ib leeg Txi. 9 rab Chais tsis cuag in rab Riam, 9 leeg Ntxhais tsis cuah ib leeg Niam.
not all the kids are evil like your, some are good kids.
Cov me nyuam txawj xav ces txiv tsis hlub niam li ntawd ces tej me nyuam twb hlub hlub niam tsis txawj tag lawm. Txawm cov tub tsis tshua hlub los cov ntxhais yeej hlub lawv niam. Txiv ntoo poob tsis deb ntawm hauv paus ntoo. Koj cov me nyuam lawv phem kiag li lawv txiv, tag tub ntxhais thiaj li tsis txawj xav tib yam nkaus. Muab xav mas tiam 21 no zoo li nyias yug nyias tej me nyuam los tsim nyias lawm xwb. Cov laus raug me tub me nyuam tsim ua ntu zus. Txaus tu siab kawg.
Good for you
I’m with this lady 100% cov tub thiab ntxhais tiam 21 no lawv coj li cov neeg tawv dawb nyob Rau tiam no.
1. Niaj hnub no twb pom ib txhia ntxhais mus nrog hluas raug nyob tsis kam ua tshoob. 2. Tub thiab Ntxhais tiam no yog koj mus saib kwv thiab tij lawv yeej tsis hu yus lawm. 3. Tiam no txhua tus menyuam yeej tsis hlub cov ua Niam thiab Txiv. Yog Nej tsis ntseeg thov neej sim Nej mam paub nws tsis zoo li yuav qub
Yog tseem hluas me me es tsim nyog yuav ntshiav ib tus tshiab ce kav tsij mus zoo dua os tej me nyuam ce lawv yeej tsi hlub yus ib zaug li os mog
Some children these days can be so ungrateful towards parents... tsk tsk tsk....
Find your own sitter. Selfish kids. Why should your mother be there for you when you are not there for her.
9 lub hnub yeej tsis npaum ib lub hli tiag2 nawd
Nrog tus phauj koj tu siab vajtswv txojlus qhia tias nws yuav txiav txim rau txhua tus raws li qhov peb tau ua
Good for you!
Tuaj pab txhawb koj lawm es koj ho pab nias txhawb kuv thiab nawb mog PY
Sister aw.... koj pab koj cov me nyuam li lawv pab koj xwb mas koj cov me nyuam yoog koj niag qub txiv thiaj phem li ntawm
En tus niam tais aw hnov tej neej neeg ntau2 txog tej minyuam lub neej tiam 21 los yog lub teb chaws vam neej no cas tin co uas mi tub minyuam tsis hlub tej laus tsis tu tej laus lawv tab tias lawv khwv2 lawv tsis khoom thiab lawv yeej muaj qhov qias yus yog li ua rau kuv tu siab thiab ntshai txog kuv lub neej. Ua cas lub neej nim no es yuav yog li luag tej ib txhua hais tias yug tsis muaj los txhob tu siab yog li kuv kuj txhawj txog kuv iav laus heev thiab os mog los xyhov yog nyob ntawm peb txoj hmoo tau tej rub tej Nyab tej ntxhais tej vauv hlub peb os es yog li peb ho xav tias yuav kawg mus nrhiav tus khaws nrauj Waimea es yog ho mus yuav tau tus tsis hlub peb los yog nws ho tuag ua nyem peb lawm thaum ntawd peb nyob los cov tod tsis yog peb yug luag twb tsis xav yuav peb lawm hos peb ho rov los los peb cov peb yug kiag twb ho tsis kam yuav peb rov los nrog lawv nyob vim lawv nim ntshai2 tsam peb ho los tuag rau lawv Vaj lawv tsev los yog tsam lawv ho tau tha peb vim Hmoob muaj ib txoj niag cai lim2 hiam li no tshwj xeeb cov niag uas tseem coj kev cai Qub mas tu siab uas tiam no peb yug los ua ib hauv neeg tias hu ua Hmoob no tshaj plaws li os tshwj xeeb yug los ua ib yug Khaub ntxhais os es ntshe lwm tiam yog muaj tiag ntshe yuav tsis los yug ua Hmoob lawm os mog
Mi nyuas nyob teb chaws nuav tsis zoo le lub neej 50 xyoo dlhau moog lawm os, peb puav leej tau taug IB txuj ke le os mog
Good luck for you
Ua li yus ua tau xwb kuv li kuv zov kuv cov tau 16 xyoo lawv loj ces kuv twb laus lawm tabsi tabsi txhob tus siab mam nrhiav tus phim yus xwb
I never had parents tell me about life cuz i was abdopt i believe if ur not the blood children the parents will not tell u about life unless ur the only abdopt kid but if u have other kid bside u hell no the parents will not tell u about life they only give u life
Tej niag mi nyuam nkim zog no nkim zog hlub xwb yog yug muaj mob muaj emergency li no lawm hais nai xwb nai kam kawg yeej tsis Nyiaj li os
Viv ncaus aw koj tsis muaj hmoo Es koj yug tau ib co me nyuam tsis txawj xav thiaj tsis hlub koj xwb os tej me nyuam no ces lawv yeej tsis paub hlub tej laus kiag li, koj tus tub tsis txawj xav kiag li, ua cas yuav nkim zog ua luaj li os. Pab koj zoo siab hais tias koj mus yuav tau ib tus hlub koj lawm os.
Sister your kids does not love you. You should go remarry against why spend time with your kids. What the heck he ask her mom do a baby sitting for him and his wife. They should go paid daycare. Your mom need free life like you.
Yog lawm os tus niam tais aw kuv xav li ko thiab os.
Why do hmong ppl have so much self pity
Koj cov me nyuam yov ib co ntxim ntxub thiab ntxim xav mam ncaw xwb
Yeej yog li me nyuam hais os.vim li ntaw koj yuas tsum mus yuav txiv.cov qub cai hmoob mas yuav tsum tso tseg os.koj yuav txiv es nyob nyob,me nyuam mam tuaj xyuas koj xwb thiaj zoo.yog yuav tsum zov koj li lub neej qub qab ces nyiaj los,khwv tsis tau hos,poj niam los yuav muab lawv nrauj.tus yuav hlub taus koj ces yog koj tus txiv xwb os niam tais es.av tsij mus ua ib lub neej tshab os.me nyuam yeej hlub koj kawg,tab sis lub neej tshiab no,mus tsis taus li peb lub neej qub qab lawm os.
Tab sis cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau taub tias koj muaj koj ib lub neej lawm.koj khoom,koj mam zov cov xeej ntxwv vim koj muaj ib tus neeg tseem ceeb ntawm koj ib sab es yog tus koj yuav hlub nws ua ntej cov me nyuam.
Such a entitle spoil son! You yell at your mom telling her for not having a companion but you still want to continue using her. SMH
That's why we American people don't want to have alot of kids,, it's a waste of time..
Koj tus tub tsis muaj xiv tu siab chim siab rau koj os tus niam tsev aws! He has NO RIGHT to get upset at you!!! He and his wife is only using you as a crutch. Use you when he needs you and throws you away when he doesn't. He should really think about himself before he opens his mouth. You gave him a chance and stayed a single parent for so long to take care of your kids but they didn't care much about you. What an ungrateful idiot! What did he expects for you to do since you're now remarried?!! Stay home and play house all day with your new hubby?!!! Heck no!!! He's married himself so he should understand the duties of attending family get togethers. Those are HIS kids so HE and HIS WIFE should be RESPONSIBLE for THEIR own kids!!! If they can't take care of their own kids, don't be poppin out those kids!!! He wants to use the modern world against you but expects you to keep to the old ways so he can use you. 😑😒😒😑😑 Good on you for using the modern world against him, for giving him a taste of his own medicine! 😂👏👏👏👏👏👏 As parents, we can't really depend on our kids to take care of us in our old age but they shouldn't depend on us to babysit for them either. We do what we can but he has to understand we all have our own lives to live and not get upset. You tried to see things from his perspective but he just flat out refuses to see things from your perspective.
Peb moob in txim has tas "Tu mivnyuas hlub xwb tsi tu mivnyuas laug" Mej cov quaspuj mas has tuab zaaj le koj has xwb mas.
Kavtsim muab cov taubhaunyuj povtseg
Koj cov niag me nyuam ces nkim zog yug xwb os niam tais aws kuv yog koj ces muab nrhab kiag yug rau hauv qhov ntuj xwb koj cov me nyuam kov ces nkim zog hlub xwb os cov me nyuam Zoo li koj cov niag ntawm kov ces nkim zog tiag
Koj tu tub ruam ruam tsis paub tab thiaj tu siab rau koj xwb txhob nws tsis tsim nyog tu siab vim koj muaj koj ib lub neej koj muaj Koj ib pab kwv tij
So dramatic lol
Why do Hmong people have this idea that their children owe them and must revolve their lives around their parents/relatives as a payback. And Hmong people tend to act helpless whenever they are slightly ill, or God forbid, have any kind of surgeries. We have children because we chose to have them, they bring love, joy and happiness but they are not a collateral, so stop viewing them as collateral or fixated on their return on investment with their kids.
And appendix surgery is not major surgery. Yes, you are in some pain but you are not laid out helpless for days and weeks. This lady is so dramatic about hot water burning her lips. Sheesh, sip your own hot water. You can certainly hold the darn mug and sip water. Everybody has jobs, commitments and obligations. They can’t drop everything just because you are in the hospital or sick. Learn to help yourself.
You got some ungrateful child’s.
Your son sounds like a selfish brat and so is your daughter in law. One day they will be treated the same with their own kids. He can’t even be bother with you when your sick but want to use you to babysit his kids. What a hypocrite. They only think of themselves.
Cas es koj hais li koj sab sab thoab na
niam laus koj puas kam qhiab koj tus fev raug kuv es kuv xav xa kuv ib zaj raug koj hai
Tus niam tais es, mob heev ces hu 911 xwb ma. Tseem yuav tos tus tub thiab tus nyab ua dabtsi nawb. Hlub yus tus nkeeg ua ntev os. Cov menyuam tam sim no yeej tsis zoo li cov yav thaum ub es yuav hu kiag ces ib pliag tuaj. Vim lub ntiaj teb hloov lawm. Txhua yam yog nyiaj. Yog txoj haujlwm tsis tso cai nyob ces yeej nyob tsi tau. Qhov no yog ib qhov uas cov laus tsis nkag siab cov hluas. Yog tias tus hluas cia li los zov tus laus. Leegtwg tiag li yuav them tus hluas cov nuj nqis. Yog vim li no, thiaj li nyuaj, tsis yoojyim kiag. Koj xav tau ib tug los tu koj ces tsuas yog ib tug txiv los yog mus nyob tsev laus es muaj ib tug nais maum tu xwb os. Li cas los tsuas koj nrhiav tau ib tug los nrog koj nyob lawm los ma. Tsis txhob txhawj txoj koj tus tub thiab tus nyab os. Nws loj nws, ua tau nws txiv lawm. Yog nrhiav neeg zog menyuam xwb, nws mam nrhiav nws os. Tsis yog koj txoj lub luag haujlwm.
Remember " karma's a bitch "! Your parents gave you your life, at least show some respect!
36yu3333..