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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ธ.ค. 2023
- This week Moshe and Natasha are joined by Tim Heidecker! They discuss a bowling confrontation, share parenting stories, and more! Then, they give advice to one caller whose friend has bad texting etiquette and another who wants to find love while living in rural Appalachia.
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Tim is #1 handsome man
Yum
Tim Heidecker is the funniest person of all time
I think Natasha is correct to talk to her kid about how what she says makes her feel. It’s teaching kids empathy.
I love Tim’s ironic standup special where he pretends to be a shitty comic. He’s hilarious. Love Office Hours, especially when he had John early on and did his Nick Nolte impression 😂 And love the John early special he produced last year!
Lol "pretends". He has not actual stand up to compare that to, so that's literally his best material.
nah its very clearly satire...@@haterade5137
I love his stuff it's subversive and awesome
For the whining in the morning.. She needs something. Probably some undivided, very present attention. For tantrums, it's so important to not give in and allow them to tantrum out and have their feelings. I learned this when my daughter was about 3-4. One morning at the breakfast table she kept asking for different things and I kept giving them to her. Nothing was satisfying her. A very wise friend (herself a parent) told me to just say no, very kindly. This allowed my daughter to finally just cry it out. I realized that it wasn't about the food - she had some pent up hurts from the previous week and just needed to "vent." In kids, this looks like a unwarranted and very irrational tantrum. It often feels crazy and stressful for the parent! But if you think about it, even adults can be upset and not have a clue as to why, until they analyze the situation and track back to the trigger. This takes a lot of practice and skill even for adults (and often an actual therapist)! If they are acting up/out, there is ALWAYS a reason. It could just be they are overstimulated.. Or perhaps a legit emotional need for connection/safety is not being met, or they are picking up some stress from the parents. A book that really helped me was "Nonviolent Communication for Parenting and Families" Invaluable book.
I don’t even have children but I’m surrounded by them and this was very good advice! One of the neighbors child is always crying or throwing a tantrum when he has to go to daycare in the morning. It breaks my heart to see him so upset and his parents either ignore him or yell at him. The parents, who are in their 20s are not very present with either of the children. The kids spend all day at school and then daycare, and when they get home, the parents are on their phones, or drinking alcohol, socializing with neighbors, etc..
the kids get so excited when I pull up into the parking lot. Because I’m nice to them. I play with them outside. I read to them when I’m sitting outside of my apartment. But I’m starting to get nervous that the mother is beginning to resent me because her kids love me so much but she’s always yelling at them.
@@HH-gv8mxParenting is easy when you're not the parent.
I can’t argue with that.@@hollydaugherty2620
the joke at 8:53 is one of the funniest things I think I've ever heard, the perfect dark joke
Most of my friends and I all suck at responding to text messages and we laugh about it and forgive each other and hangout when we manage to both have free time and the desire to. We are also all introverts and respect each other’s desire to be alone sometimes, or social anxiety fueled quiet. I was perplexed by the whole text message discussion.
I am an introvert and have major social anxiety, but feel so guilty if I don’t respond to somebody’s text. Even if I just have to hit the thumbs up emoji just to acknowledge it.
@@HH-gv8mx I feel bad too sometimes…which makes me put off responding even longer. But I do this, but less now than I used to. I’ve found that most people are really understanding. And as for myself, I don’t take it personally when I don’t hear from people for a while. Figure they’re like me. I feel loved by the friends I have, and I think they feel loved by me. The negative space of friendships shouldn’t be the focus, that’s where weird passive aggression festers.
Natasha’s laugh is everything 😂
Good interview. Thank you
great episode - loved them so much on OHL! very cozy and the table is cool. I dont like it when people poke fun at animals, but I love a mock turtle.
Happy New Year✨👍✨ Endless Honeymoon☮️💜
God I love Tim. This was a good-ass episode and it pains me that I can't go to TimFest cuz I grew up around Portland so had I not ended up in Texas I would so be there.
I hate ending up in Texas, but not as much as ending up in Oklahoma. I still can’t believe I live here.
Flying out from Minneapolis to attend Tim Fest 🤘
Tim rocks
This isn't the TimI want...but it IS the Tim I deserve.
Tim is an Aquarius sun and Pisces moon
❤ love. Rising?
I can relate to the first call regarding the unanswered text messages. Except for I feel like it’s more hurtful because it’s my sister! We used to be really close but ever since she got married and has kids now she’s really distant. I will text her and then not hear from her For months. Sometimes she will answer right away. Sometimes she won’t respond at all. It’s sad because we live in different states and this year when she came to my mom‘s for Christmas I didn’t even bother going up. I just feel like she’s cold and not the fun sister that I grew up with. And I don’t know how to change that.
Have you started by even saying this to her? I'm guessing not.
No not really . It’s too hard. I don’t want to stir the pot. She’s tough to communicate with.@@hollydaugherty2620
Mosh out here looking like he's about to invent the hula hoop
I love how Tim and Natasha both forget that she once hosted an episode of OHL.
15:30 She is Moshe's child. He just doesn't understand because his home life did not feature people who yelled.
Cute thumbnail
You can just tell her that that's called "gender transformation surgery." That some people where really supposed to be born with different genitalia, but that's very different than not liking some things "about" being a boy or girl. It's a very big decision, and only older people can get this done. This transgender stuff is everywhere, you might have to prepare for this question - it will come back around. Don't forget to consult google! I'm sure there are plenty of resources out there on this for siblings of transgender kids.
It's probably a good idea to research these major questions and get prepared and to also be on the same page - questions on death, where babies come from, and now school shootings, etc. I so wish I'd had the interwebs when my daughter was little! There's got to be some books written on this topic.. This one looks good: How to Prepare for Unexpected Questions from Young Children. Good luck!!
If Tim’s kids play up he should show them some Tim and Eric and they will be scared straight. A bit of Child Clowns would be hilarious. Tim I find menacingly scary haha…ahem.
For the last caller, she should START a cult for sure. That's guaranteed dating. 😅
Does anyone know if Natasha has a stylist? She always looks incredible! Truly one of my style icons
I don’t know, but is Moshe wearing leggings in this podcast!? 👀
I honestly doubt it only because she’s always been super fashionable
She's wearing jeans and a striped cardigan. What about this screams "stylist" to you?
If you have even a chunk of money it’s not difficult
No need to put the lovely place on blast for all of LA clamber to. A simple “when were in central Oregon / Willamette National Forest,”would do. Great episode though!
love natasha ❤️✨️ cute top
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Optimism
...Uno !!! , again...😁😃😂...
THE LID IS MORE PLASTIC THAN LIKE FIVE STRAWS. What on earth have we done??
I am a notoriously bad texter and ive had a long time friend end our friendship over it. My position on this is that its most likely not personal. I dont think it's really fair to project your insecurities onto someone just because they dont text you back on your timeline. It seems like this person is internalizing a perceived rejection based on an assumption that the time between texts is calculated or that the friend doesnt value the friendship because they have bad text edicate.
Homeschool
Tim looks like a million bucks with the weight loss. 15lbs can make a huge difference for some men because it can be the difference between having a jawline or not. And he's really rubbing in his youthful appearance with those 90s era hair curtains.
He looks like a stud to me, but I’m Gen X so maybe it’s the haircut talking. I’m happy for him, it’s a lifestyle change that will improve his quality of life far into the future. It makes a lot of things possible for him and his family.
Speaking of which, he seems like such a good husband and father. You can just tell how much he enjoys being a dad.
He's always been handsome,for a comedian, and he was never particularly overweight so I think mentioning his weightloss is bizarre. People's bodies change and it doesnt always warrant a mention.
@@hankpink6274 I never said he was particularly overweight or that he looked bad before. Tim himself has bragged about his weight loss and mentioned his doctor said he looked 20 years younger. It also came up when Natasha and Moshe were on his show. He knows he looks good. Good for him.
He looks especially hot in this episode! I think it’s the glasses he doesn’t usually wear them
As someone who lives in the world dates are DD/MM/YY, from smaller to bigger not whatever you Americans are up to. Also metric system.
Is your currency used to globally ?
You live in the world? That's awesome Marie
I just realized I'm watching rich people talking and giving advice to people that aren't comedians. Wow. So, what you want to do is...What?
Rich people are people, too
Text girl needs to chill. Every friendship and relationship that you have will be different. She's not disrespecting you. You're expectations and entitlement are way too high. Just because you text somebody back within a specific time frame doesn't mean that everyone has to do what you do. This person obviously doesn't want to have a close relationship with you and is keeping you at a distance. So what? Hang out when you both have time and stop thinking about it when you don't. You're freaking weird and obsessive. Your friends are not your boyfriends. Don't expect so much and you won't be so disappointed.
hey guys i think this might be her "friend"
@@Zvox no but I've definitely known weird, lonely people who think we are best friends and treat me like I'm a bad person if I don't respond every single time they demand attention. If you can't see that the caller is the problem, not the nonresponder, you should try being "friends" with a person like the caller. Ick.
@@Daddy.loves.you. I don't know if the "text girl" is being that needy if she gets upset that the friend replies after a month. I've had friends like that and it can be discouraging especially if you've been friends for a long time and when you do get together they are adamant that they want to hang out again soon (i.e., they are sending mixed messages). I've learned though that at some point you have to let them be the ones to reach out first. Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. I guess what I'm saying is I think she should let this friendship "die on the vine" or at least put in the same amount of time and energy that her friend is putting into it (i.e., deprioritize the friendship). It doesn't have to be in a passive aggressive way, but if her lack of or delayed response is making you upset, it's not worth being upset all the time.
@@Daddy.loves.you. i can't tell if you're dumb or didn't actually listen to what she said, or maybe both. there's a difference between being needy and expecting someone to text you back in a reasonable amount of time, and there's a difference between being a bad texter and not giving a shit about you. everybody on the pod sided with her for a reason. she's done nothing wrong.
i have a friend that, years ago, i only ever talked to when i initiated contact and made all the plans. eventually i realized that it was an extremely one-sided friendship (like with the caller, sometimes he wouldn't reply to a text for a month) and i decided that if he actually wanted to be friends, he would text on his own, and i stopped reaching out to him. we didn't speak for like 7 or 8 years. we're fine now, but we're not even 1/10th as close as we once were. we text maybe once every 6 months or so and see each other once every few years, and it's only fine now because my expectations for that friendship are in the gutter compared to my expectations from my close friends.
they aren't actually friends anymore, moshe was right. the caller is clinging to the memory of a friendship. friends actually care about each other and prioritize each other's feelings. you getting this defensive tells me that you're that asshole friend.
I totally agree with you. I feel guilty not responding to people within 24 hours. Even if they’re not super close friends of mine.
If someone asks me to do something, and I don’t respond within 24 hours it’s because I really don’t care what they think about me or I don’t care about the relationship.@@baileycaful
Y’all need to be continuously boycotting Starbucks
Jeez, that Appalachia nit pick just put me right off her. I will always pronounce it the CORRECT way Appalachia, so there.
Retreat center? Lol.😂
Is this the real world today?
Oh, wait. It's clown world!
Nice to see Natasha with clothes on
We got a funny bone on this guy
Natasha is so ridiculous 😂 Weinstein? Didn’t he die?? Oh, Epstein 😅 I’m weak
when she's trying to be funny she's hilarious but when she isn't she's still hysterical. comedy legend
I don’t love this guy for some reason
is this ur introduction to him?
Moshe?
The guest of course. Yeah. Never heard of him before. Didn’t love. Pretentious :))))))
Then again they’re all kinda pretentious. I’ve always thought it was cheesy that Natasha says she’s “obsessed with class” kinda an embarrassing thing to say.
@@Skippertharipper he was on Another Period
Really didn’t enjoy his delusional superior vibes, and he didn’t manage one funny statement
this is crazy---but now I'm getting delusional superior vibes from you 😮
Tim you gotta stop doing only liberal podcasts...(I think you only do liberal podcasts..)
You sound identical to Rick glassman what the hell lol
That's false lol. He sounds like Josh dumel
I live in Appalachia in Tennessee and that alt chick seemed a hair uppity. "Appalaychia" is what plenty of people say, it doesn't matter. Don't let the camp counselor protagonist get ya down