I am afraid it is too late and his hand will never work properly again. It was left in that state for too long. But I wish it could be operated on, for sure.
Sergei I couldn’t sense any feelings of joy from any members of this family…but I think the father needs the most help which would then possibly help them all.
I feel sorry for the father & children! The kid's always suffer ! Sergei you are there & can see what would be of great help for this man ! I trust your decision!
Re assure the 13y boy he will grow. My son smallest at 13. After 14 he started to grow by 17 he was 6ft 4in. Sometimes the late bloomers become the tallest.
You are right. She is too self-absorbed to think outside of herself. She even said it herself when asked about sending her children to sports schools..."No. What is in it for me?"
I think that translation was off, or the context was missing. The moment she mentions her sister she is in full stress body language, and it's her sister wanting to take the kids to the school. Something more to that story for sure.
NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS PLACE, JUST SOME CLEANING.WE HAVE MUCH WORST IN U.S.A. сиаиаб FOR RUSSIAN LESSON, BEEN STUDY RUSK FOR 2 YEARS, HOPE TO VISIT SOON, MANY US ARE LEARNING russian.
I am so moved by the questions you ask the people. They are so deep and soulful. No one does that....but you. Thank you. I love hearing people try to answer the questions you pose.
I'm late. 3:16 pm in Florida, USA. Edit: I completely forgot to say hello from America! I love you all. Blessings to this family, Sergei, and every one that it touches. To all who give to help another, not expecting it to paid back~ great is your reward. 💝🙏
1) Finding the owner of the property so they can buy it for themselves? 2) Have the mother sent to rehab even against her will? 3) Moving dad and kids and leaving the mother behind?
The children would be thrilled to live with just their dad. I can just picture it - regular meals around the table, cleaning the house together, playing games outside... joy.
They can't send her against her will. Apparently that's the the way it is there. I saw it in past videos. They said if the person refuses, then they can't force him/her.
I feel for the mother & the effects on the family. It's not uncommon to deny alcoholism. Many do their whole life. Of course causes disfunction in the family unit. He is trying his best to cope, & deal with the children. It's not uncommon to stay & try to repair after fights, arguments & tidy up behind. Much love to all the family. They all need support ❤
The mother needs to enter rehab either voluntarily or forced because her addiction only gets worse day by day. It's very tough and painful on everyone in the family.
I wish the people in theses videos could know that others around the world are thinking of them and wishing them happiness and goodness... Often I wish I had money to help them. Bless them. 💜💜💜 Ireland
Feel so sorry for him that he had to throw his dream away which seemed to be an artist. He is amazing w/ his artwork. Hes been through alot and i hope him, and his family can get the help they need. ❤😊
I think you should bring the father some sketchpads , artists pencils and graphite sticks , encourage him to draw again even if he isent always finding time it's important for him to be creative again . I also think you should always carry dog treats with you .
It breaks my heart to see some if the families you visit…especially where children are involved….I live in the UK 🇬🇧 and our lives are totally different here. You are so inspirational in helping these families… 😁😁❤️
Leave the wife. She’s selfish, useless and does not care for her family. When she states, “what’s in it for me?” In regards to her sisters offer to send kids to sports school, IS DISGUSTING. Her family deserves better. She does not.
Actually it was completely wrong translation. She meant something like... They should decide themselves on their future and what they want. It is not her decision. Something like that. Not in the meaning... What can I gain from that?
Actually I think that's exactly what she meant. I don't say this out of judgement or ignorance but I am fully aware of the complete self-centered mentality of being an alcoholic or addict. I've spent over 35 years involved with alcoholics and addicts. It poisons the brain and numbs emotions and thought. All you think of is where the next bottle is at.
I pray its surgery for his hand. It would give him his life back, which would impact his family tremendously. This is the 3rd video of yours I am watching. I am getting 'hooked' lol. God bless you for your sweet heart and soul. USA
Your life is so challenging yet you never fail to help uplift others. I don’t know how you do it. Many thanks and don’t get burned out. I wish all our governments would do more to help people.😊
I 1000% believe that he needs this surgery to help him, help himself and his family. The rise in his self worth will also be priceless. Please help him with this ❤
Microsurgery for his hand followed by admission to that school focused on sports for all 3 kids, especially the son. The same one she said that had "nothing in it for her." SMH
For the son the thinks he is small in his age of 13, maybe computer because his father said he is good in that, and maybe that would be better for him instead to go to sport school.
You're spot on. I've forgotten those reactions from individuals similar to how she presents. Even my dad when his mental health was fragile 50 yrs ago had explosions-but he only destroyed his own items. She does seem the type to rage against others, mean and hateful
Wow the Art is fabulous he needs to do more its sad for children and drink bring trouble and dose not help you i hope good comes for the family change they need,
I think if it’s possible to change his life w/ the hand surgery, that would be the best thing to do. As for his wife, she needs counseling, we never know Why someone is that way, maybe she was abused in some way from childhood, im sure having 3 children when the husband is now disabled is very stressful, I think there’s hope for her. I’m not feeling like judging her. It’s not easy raising 3 children. Pray for her ❤
An easel and paints and an introduction into an art gallery where his amazing skill can be put to good use. He will be happy doing something he loves and this will provide an income for his family and the children he loves. This would completely change all their lives. You always know what to do Sergei - it will be amazing whatever it is 🤞❤️🇬🇧
So much respect for you. It is heartbreaking for me to see how much misery there is :( I live in Belgium and we only hear 1 side of the story. Lots of hugs 🥰
Sure, waste time in 'prayer'. It does nothing for anyone. Helps nobody but you and your own delusional happiness. Take care of your neighbours instead.
Rural people are very gentle and feminine aren't they? Notice how soft spoken and elegant rural people are? They may be poor but unlike middle class city people they sneeze softly, talk beautifully (like music), and seem so "zen" in general. I think being in touch with nature has made them "accidentally classy". Just proves money can't buy class!
The best I think one could do for this man is repair his hand, but can this be done after so long? There are so many things that could be done to help him and the children, repair the house, encourage the man to draw and paint for sale maybe online, I do not know the answer, only you can decide with all your experience in difficult situations.
If Sergei had asked such personal questions in my country, the interview would've been shut down almost straightaway! But I'm glad he asks them, to get to the bottom of things and give help.
@@kaythegardener Exactly, that was the biggest red flag for me. Sure, she might drink. But it does not explain why she seems to know nothing about her kids and husband. It feels like she does not care.
We can not judge another, as we do not know the life of this woman, and what sadness she might have in her heart. She needs counseling, and professional help. She also needs to realize that drinking and screaming at her husband, does not help anything at all. It is traumatizing to the whole family.
They're both so lost. Mental health and addiction services. They've both given up. He loves his kids. She has some interest in the girls. I dont believe she knows the boy. Its like they all live in the same house, but separately. He loves that boy fiercely.
Do you think there are mental health facilities available? From what we have seen, l doubt they exist. I think there is an alcoholics program, but that poor mother has nothing left except the alcohol.
Sergei, I don't usually comment but his time I would guess that you would do something so meaningful for this man, like the meaningful things you do for everyone, this brings to mind that I think it will have something to do with his hand or his artwork or to get the wife certified so that the man and the kids can live happily. I don't know how you do all of this but you certainly bring a shining light to the people you come across.
The best thing might be getting help for the wife. I don't understand what it means to be "coded" and how that can hurt her heart, but there must be something that can be done for her, and that will help the entire family.
@@natscat4752 broadly speaking, it's a combination of aversion therapy techniques like the use of medication causing instant painful reactions to alcohol; hypnosis instilling the belief that any intake of alcohol will be health and even life threatening etc. It's not recognised by official medicine and is not covered by the national healthcare service.
I just now noticed the distinguishing gray wisdom in your hair. For the kids I think phones would be great for the internet. For the adults maybe one room makeover?
I feel very sorry for this man and his children. If his hand can be fixed with surgery, that would be the best gift of all.
100% Surgery!
Force her to rehabilitation for 6 months. She needs canabis tea. How are the canabis laws in russia 🇷🇺FEDERATION?
The biggest help that you can give him is that microsurgery. That would change this family’s life the most.
I think this is the right answer.
I said the same thing. I wish I could personally pitch in for that directly.
Yes, exactly
thats right!
@@VioletJoy this is yet another archive vid so no contributions are expected for them personally)))
Pay for surgery on his hand so he is able to use it to work and support the family. Also it will help him to feel more confident about himself.
I am afraid it is too late and his hand will never work properly again. It was left in that state for too long. But I wish it could be operated on, for sure.
@@xannay but you have nothing to base that on. You know nothing about his hand.
"What's in it for me?" ...that says it all
Sad story for the husband and the children. Pity the woman who refuses hope.
Something mechanical to help move all that metal, some art supplies also 😊
depression plagues many people.
As does early childhood trauma.
@@atticuskilby515 very true and which results in depression and self medicating with alcohol
poor nutrition (malnutrition) often looks like depression to first worlders.
Sergei I couldn’t sense any feelings of joy from any members of this family…but I think the father needs the most help which would then possibly help them all.
💯
The surgery for his hand would be life changing for him and his children.
Definately especially if the hand is redeemable.
@@Jayapullani Need lots of physiotherapy though.
I think it would greatly affect his wife also!
I feel sad for the boy he seems so nice his so pale I like to see children all children happy and fed well
I feel sorry for the father & children! The kid's always suffer ! Sergei you are there & can see what would be of great help for this man ! I trust your decision!
He's very thoughtful, caring and intelligent in the help he gives people, isn't he.
-absolutely !-
CALL AUTHORITIES FOR ALCHOOL ABUSES, SHE NEEDS REHAB AND A JOB.
Re assure the 13y boy he will grow. My son smallest at 13. After 14 he started to grow by 17 he was 6ft 4in. Sometimes the late bloomers become the tallest.
Perhaps, improving his nutrition would help also.
This boy is malnourished though
the best gift will be microsurgery on his hand to help him work properly
It is too late, I am afraid. But it would be great, it would.
I think they should try to get his hand fixed. New technology's are coming out all the time.
She couldn't even say that the days here children were born were the best days.. very sad
thats the exact thought i had
You are right. She is too self-absorbed to think outside of herself. She even said it herself when asked about sending her children to sports schools..."No. What is in it for me?"
@@andreasobuaculla9511 My thought too.
I think both parents are suffering from depression. They both seem to feel stuck in their situation.
Well, giving birth is extremely painful, so may be she couldn’t feel joy when her children was born.
" What`s in it for me? " that sadly sums that woman up perfectly.
I read in the other comments it was mistranslated…but regardless this woman seems horrible
I think that translation was off, or the context was missing. The moment she mentions her sister she is in full stress body language, and it's her sister wanting to take the kids to the school. Something more to that story for sure.
@@themudpit621shame that she’s a bad mother compared to her sister perhaps.
Most women.
Help the boy as well.. He is undernourished that is why he is small!
He may be small if the mother drank through her pregnancy.
Looking at his fathers frame and the mother they aren’t well nourished either. Perhaps they are low on protein supplies.
NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS PLACE, JUST SOME CLEANING.WE HAVE MUCH WORST IN U.S.A. сиаиаб FOR RUSSIAN LESSON, BEEN STUDY RUSK FOR 2 YEARS, HOPE TO VISIT SOON, MANY US ARE LEARNING russian.
dear Lord she doesn't care but at all for her own children. it's so devastating...
I am so moved by the questions you ask the people. They are so deep and soulful. No one does that....but you. Thank you. I love hearing people try to answer the questions you pose.
It's almost midnight here in India 🤩..The excitement to see your new video never gets old!
9pm here in Finland - hello, fellow watcher😁
@@kristiinakapinen2071 8 pm here in Sweden
2 pm in Michigan, USA.
1:30pm in Nashville Tennessee….👋🏻
I'm late. 3:16 pm in Florida, USA.
Edit: I completely forgot to say hello from America! I love you all. Blessings to this family, Sergei, and every one that it touches. To all who give to help another, not expecting it to paid back~ great is your reward. 💝🙏
1) Finding the owner of the property so they can buy it for themselves?
2) Have the mother sent to rehab even against her will?
3) Moving dad and kids and leaving the mother behind?
Maybe get the mother treated for depression
The children would be thrilled to live with just their dad. I can just picture it - regular meals around the table, cleaning the house together, playing games outside... joy.
@@backroadsusa6915 She is an Alcoholic, Nothing gets better for her until she gets clean!!
They can't send her against her will. Apparently that's the the way it is there. I saw it in past videos. They said if the person refuses, then they can't force him/her.
@@annwithaplan9766 , and it would be pointless even if they could. One has to be ready to face their demons before moving in that direction.
I feel sorry the father he has the weight of the world on his shoulders, he's trying his best and his wife is just drinking alcohol
It's hurting *her* and the smoking. Poor woman.
Yes, it hurts them all.
@@Tryagain563 Maybe she grew up in similar circumstances. Drinking and chaos. I hope she can recover. She should try for her husband and kids.
@@karenmilligan5597 most likely, but I can not comprehend why you woul want to be like you drunk parents.
I dont know what it is but what ever it is it will be something that he deserves Sergei, blessyou and that family 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Yes! The surgery!! So Father can be able-bodied. Sounds like eldest son would benefit from IT (technology) school. ❤❤❤❤
I feel for the mother & the effects on the family. It's not uncommon to deny alcoholism. Many do their whole life. Of course causes disfunction in the family unit. He is trying his best to cope, & deal with the children. It's not uncommon to stay & try to repair after fights, arguments & tidy up behind. Much love to all the family. They all need support ❤
The mother needs to enter rehab either voluntarily or forced because her addiction only gets worse day by day. It's very tough and painful on everyone in the family.
I wish the people in theses videos could know that others around the world are thinking of them and wishing them happiness and goodness... Often I wish I had money to help them. Bless them. 💜💜💜 Ireland
I truly believe that the collective energy of the viewers actually moves in their direction. They may not be aware of it, but it happens.
I also wish I had the money to help. If I had the money. That is what I would do.
Ireland not great at aiding refugees.
Money to help her buy more vodka?
@@alsteeves2044 NORMAL.
Feel so sorry for him that he had to throw his dream away which seemed to be an artist. He is amazing w/ his artwork. Hes been through alot and i hope him, and his family can get the help they need. ❤😊
Maybe the son is small for his age due malnourishment? The father is humble and hardworking. I agree, he needs surgery.
Likely grew up on pasta and rice and sugar
The three older people in the family are all clearly malnourished.
I think you should bring the father some sketchpads , artists pencils and graphite sticks , encourage him to draw again even if he isent always finding time it's important for him to be creative again . I also think you should always carry dog treats with you .
Good idea😊
Then get this guy an Etsy.!💯
Dog treats ! Amazing idea !👍
Great ideas Chaya! I've never thought about the dog treats idea but you're absolutely spot on!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that is exactly what I would do. Carry dog treats in case he encounters another dog who is protecting her/his family LOLs.
It's 10-53pm in Tanzania still I have to watch it
Hoping for the mother to think about her kids future. I feel so sad for the kids and the father.😢
It breaks my heart to see some if the families you visit…especially where children are involved….I live in the UK 🇬🇧 and our lives are totally different here. You are so inspirational in helping these families…
😁😁❤️
Sometimes you need to save yourself and your children.
NICE WATERS, O 🎣
Poor guy. Poor kids.😢😢❤
Leave the wife. She’s selfish, useless and does not care for her family. When she states, “what’s in it for me?” In regards to her sisters offer to send kids to sports school, IS DISGUSTING. Her family deserves better. She does not.
Actually it was completely wrong translation. She meant something like... They should decide themselves on their future and what they want. It is not her decision. Something like that. Not in the meaning... What can I gain from that?
@@norbertoravec476 right👍
Doesn't matter the circumstances if you ignore the mother the whole family is affected. That's very judgemental of you you don't know their situation.
Actually I think that's exactly what she meant. I don't say this out of judgement or ignorance but I am fully aware of the complete self-centered mentality of being an alcoholic or addict. I've spent over 35 years involved with alcoholics and addicts. It poisons the brain and numbs emotions and thought. All you think of is where the next bottle is at.
i heard "who, me? why should i?"
I pray its surgery for his hand. It would give him his life back, which would impact his family tremendously. This is the 3rd video of yours I am watching. I am getting 'hooked' lol. God bless you for your sweet heart and soul. USA
Your life is so challenging yet you never fail to help uplift others. I don’t know how you do it. Many thanks and don’t get burned out. I wish all our governments would do more to help people.😊
And create world peace 🙏
@@Schiffon 💯%
What a kind and talented man. He deserves happiness.
I'm looking forward to seeing what you decided to give to the father.
Thank you Sergei for being respectful, and using tact !
Trinidad & Tobago.
West indies.
Prayers send to families..kids..
I 1000% believe that he needs this surgery to help him, help himself and his family. The rise in his self worth will also be priceless. Please help him with this ❤
That "What's in it for me " comment says it all. If it doesn't benefit her she's not interested ?? 🤨
Hardworking father is holding his family of 5 together despite the Alcoholic mother.
Surgery for his hand maybe.
maybe, or art material
Sergei, I love that you care about people and work to help them.
CALL SOCIAL SERVICES LIKE WE DO IN U.S
The son doesn't sound stupid, he should be encouraged to study. But his nutrition is alarming.
Yes a child 13 who looks 8 or 9 has either been starved over time or is late to puberty.
"What's in it for me?" That's all she needed to say! I hear it often on your channel. What does "coded for alcohol" mean?
Nothing ever 'speaks volumes'. People just jump to conclusions.
MOST DEFINITELY HAND SURGERY! ❤
Microsurgery for his hand followed by admission to that school focused on sports for all 3 kids, especially the son. The same one she said that had "nothing in it for her." SMH
For the son the thinks he is small in his age of 13, maybe computer because his father said he is good in that, and maybe that would be better for him instead to go to sport school.
always enjoy this channel
Lieber Sergej,weren alle Menschen so wie du, würde es keine Kriege geben..bleib den Menschen noch lange erhalten.. bleib gesund 😊
Please don’t giv them anything that SHE could break or ruin because of jealousy. ❤️👍
You're spot on. I've forgotten those reactions from individuals similar to how she presents. Even my dad when his mental health was fragile 50 yrs ago had explosions-but he only destroyed his own items. She does seem the type to rage against others, mean and hateful
I think the surgery on his hand and arm to fix his ligaments and tendons
Thank you for all that you do ❤
Wow the Art is fabulous he needs to do more its sad for children and drink bring trouble and dose not help you i hope good comes for the family change they need,
I think the gift would be that surgery that he needs in his bad arm, Sergei.
❤❤👍🙏🙏 Nina in USA 😊
I think if it’s possible to change his life w/ the hand surgery, that would be the best thing to do. As for his wife, she needs counseling, we never know Why someone is that way, maybe she was abused in some way from childhood, im sure having 3 children when the husband is now disabled is very stressful, I think there’s hope for her. I’m not feeling like judging her. It’s not easy raising 3 children. Pray for her ❤
I hope the best for these people drugs and alcohol ruins so much
An easel and paints and an introduction into an art gallery where his amazing skill can be put to good use.
He will be happy doing something he loves and this will provide an income for his family and the children he loves. This would completely change all their lives.
You always know what to do Sergei - it will be amazing whatever it is 🤞❤️🇬🇧
doubt
An apartment in Kaluga? That's what he needs to take the kids and go.
So much respect for you. It is heartbreaking for me to see how much misery there is :( I live in Belgium and we only hear 1 side of the story. Lots of hugs 🥰
All of us regardless of our faith can pray for this family. We can also donate.
Sure, waste time in 'prayer'. It does nothing for anyone. Helps nobody but you and your own delusional happiness. Take care of your neighbours instead.
A gentleman, who's devotion defies belief. Total respect. I wish good things for the kids & him.
Rural people are very gentle and feminine aren't they? Notice how soft spoken and elegant rural people are? They may be poor but unlike middle class city people they sneeze softly, talk beautifully (like music), and seem so "zen" in general. I think being in touch with nature has made them "accidentally classy". Just proves money can't buy class!
Except when the wife and mother scream so loud the neighbors hear it.
Well the mother certainly isn't classy !!
I think to have the house as their own.
@@jeanniemullinder9038 Damn Alcohol addiction breeds cynicism and discontent.
@@venessamaxwell8105 , yes the monkey on one's back that won't let go.
May their dreams come true 🙏🏻🕊️❤️and the mother …. 😢
Love your videos, thanks again.
You are such an inspiration... I admire you for all you do . May God Bless you in all that you do.
The best I think one could do for this man is repair his hand, but can this be done after so long? There are so many things that could be done to help him and the children, repair the house, encourage the man to draw and paint for sale maybe online, I do not know the answer, only you can decide with all your experience in difficult situations.
Yes, Sergi you always find perfect gifts for the families!
Maybe some nice ART SUPPLIES for him to paint out back or draw when he wants to be alone.
I think the house needs renovation and needs new cooking stove etc. The father needs tools to work and additional source of income to feed his family.
Great questions you asked her !
If Sergei had asked such personal questions in my country, the interview would've been shut down almost straightaway! But I'm glad he asks them, to get to the bottom of things and give help.
@@Tryagain563Do you mind sharing what country that you are speaking of?
Surgery,maybe windows. All mom could think about was herself.
She seemed pretty unsure of anything about her husband or children -- their likes, dislikes, hobbies, personalities, dreams...
@@kaythegardener Exactly, that was the biggest red flag for me. Sure, she might drink. But it does not explain why she seems to know nothing about her kids and husband. It feels like she does not care.
Help him with that microsurgery
Those are very, very interesting wall tiles. I kind of don't like them, but I love them at the same time. I hope things get better for this good man.
We can not judge another, as we do not know the life of this woman, and what sadness she might have in her heart. She needs counseling, and professional help.
She also needs to realize that drinking and screaming at her husband, does not help anything at all. It is traumatizing to the whole family.
I am anxious to see what it is you do.
big hug beautiful person
I righteous act must be selfless God bless you brother with mercy and peace health and happiness Amen 💫✝️✨
You are the light of this people ❤️ Bless you!
They're both so lost. Mental health and addiction services. They've both given up. He loves his kids. She has some interest in the girls. I dont believe she knows the boy. Its like they all live in the same house, but separately. He loves that boy fiercely.
Do you think there are mental health facilities available? From what we have seen, l doubt they exist. I think there is an alcoholics program, but that poor mother has nothing left except the alcohol.
She knows the boy, he's into his phone all the time she says, which is exactly what the Dad says, he likes technology.
So upsetting. I pray for this family.
Yes help for the children and if the father wants microsurgery and therapy for his hand and arm.
Sergei, I don't usually comment but his time I would guess that you would do something so meaningful for this man, like the meaningful things you do for everyone, this brings to mind that I think it will have something to do with his hand or his artwork or to get the wife certified so that the man and the kids can live happily. I don't know how you do all of this but you certainly bring a shining light to the people you come across.
Surgery for his hand or painting stuff for him to draw and sell them. Because he is good.
Yes. You are amazing
For the father, painting tools so that he could paint and sell it. Maybe.
Just found your channel and subscribed greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪
Hand surgery, windows, and other things to help their home.
And food, they are all very thin.
The best thing might be getting help for the wife. I don't understand what it means to be "coded" and how that can hurt her heart, but there must be something that can be done for her, and that will help the entire family.
Mental health and addictions. They all need help for different reasons.
I think coded means an official Russian label for an alcoholic or drug addiction, they can then get free rehab and/or lose custody of children.
@@lbednaz it means nothing of the kind)))
@@elenacuskina what does it mean?
@@natscat4752 broadly speaking, it's a combination of aversion therapy techniques like the use of medication causing instant painful reactions to alcohol; hypnosis instilling the belief that any intake of alcohol will be health and even life threatening etc. It's not recognised by official medicine and is not covered by the national healthcare service.
Maybe get him divorce papers and sole custody of the kids ? I was thinking if you give him or the kids gifts the mum might sell them for drink ?
The microsurgery of his hand is what this kind man needs the most...
What I meant to say was, of all VIDEOS I seen from your channel this one touched me most
If you do get him surgery, please provide drawing materials too.
I hope it’s hand surgery. God bless you Sergi 🙏🏻
It's crazy here in the u.s. we have the same problems plus drug addiction
Im sure itll be very difficult but,take those kids & leave that lush!
I just now noticed the distinguishing gray wisdom in your hair. For the kids I think phones would be great for the internet. For the adults maybe one room makeover?
Metal detecter?
three children , she's home all day and she can't keep up with the pace!!! i feel so sorry for the husband stuck with that awful woman