Melanie Martinez - Dollhouse (Lyrics)

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  • Melanie Martinez - Dollhouse (Lyrics)
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    Dollhouse Lyrics
    [Verse 1]
    Hey girl, open the walls
    Play with your dolls
    We'll be a perfect family
    When you walk away is when we really play
    You don't hear me when I say
    "Mom, please wake up
    Dad's with a slut
    And your son is smoking cannabis"
    [Pre-Chorus]
    No one ever listens
    This wallpaper glistens
    Don't let them see what goes down in the kitchen
    [Chorus]
    Places, places
    Get in your places
    Throw on your dress and put on your doll faces
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    Picture, picture, smile for the picture
    Pose with your brother, won't you be a good sister?
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    [Post-Chorus]
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E
    I see things that nobody else sees
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E, I see things that nobody else sees
    [Verse 2]
    Hey girl, look at my mom
    She's got it going on
    Ha, you're blinded by her jewelry
    When you turn your back
    She pulls out a flask
    And forgets his infidelity
    Uh oh, she's coming to the attic, plastic
    Go back to being plastic
    [Pre-Chorus]
    No one ever listens
    This wallpaper glistens
    One day they'll see what goes down in the kitchen
    [Chorus]
    Places, places
    Get in your places
    Throw on your dress and put on your doll faces
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    Picture, picture, smile for the picture
    Pose with your brother, won't you be a good sister?
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    [Post-Chorus]
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E
    I see things that nobody else sees
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E, I see things that nobody else sees
    [Breakdown]
    Hey girl (Hey girl)
    Hey girl, open your walls
    Play with your dolls
    We'll be a perfect family
    [Chorus]
    Places, places
    Get in your places
    Throw on your dress and put on your doll faces
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    Picture, picture, smile for the picture
    Pose with your brother, won't you be a good sister?
    Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains
    [Post-Chorus]
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E
    I see things that nobody else sees
    D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E, I see things that nobody else sees
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  • @maryairem1981
    @maryairem1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26600

    When a song becomes your reality....

    • @rocky_anime9880
      @rocky_anime9880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +389

      Same

    • @Anika0308
      @Anika0308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

      Same here

    • @prapti6938
      @prapti6938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Same

    • @dezmundmichael316
      @dezmundmichael316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1376

      More like.. when your reality becomes a song...

    • @prapti6938
      @prapti6938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      @@dezmundmichael316 yesssss

  • @marwarpali
    @marwarpali หลายเดือนก่อน +1433

    Anyone in 2024??

    • @faridahaggag
      @faridahaggag หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yep

    • @One-a-kind
      @One-a-kind หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Me

    • @wAfton83
      @wAfton83 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hello

    • @kiko082
      @kiko082 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yo

    • @Laney-oh7pl
      @Laney-oh7pl หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Me

  • @claudiahyde1656
    @claudiahyde1656 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Honestly this song hits so hard. Never understood why my mom would cry in her room alone because I grew up without a father. Later learned he left her after hearing she was expecting me, leaving her with little money. She got a new boyfriend around almost 4 years ago now. Didn’t think much of the fights at first, but they became so frequent I began to expect the fights and cry when they raised their voices at each other. Over time however I began to react little or not at all to their fights, even thought they could get extremely cruel with each other. There have been 2-3 times where these fights have caused me panic attacks, and recently they had two major fights that caused extreme mental damage on me. There were threats, insults, emotional damage, and breaking objects. I got so worried I gathered multiple items in my room to use as protection incase I needed to go downstairs in interfere (reminder both fights were at night while I was trying to sleep, both in school nights). They have since apologized to each other but i feel so uncomfortable when they are around one another. Every time I’m attempting to sleep, if they turn on a show with adult having conversations, especially a woman and a man arguing, I begin to tremble. I’m not going to go into details with the “brothers smoking cannabis” but I have someone in my life who does this I consider myself close to. I never get a good sleep because of the fighting, because I now expect them to fight at that time of the night. Honestly wish I could have just grown up a bit happier because it’s beginning to affect my grades in school, which my mother would be upset about.

    • @annien.1727
      @annien.1727 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm really sorry that you had to go through all that.😔 My condolences to you. I hope you're doing well now.🙏🏻

    • @adriennegenthe319
      @adriennegenthe319 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Only ppl who read that whole thing are going to heaven. I hope you feel better, because things will someday.

    • @pixelstorm1839
      @pixelstorm1839 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope you the best, Im really sorry that all happened to you

    • @user-wb1pq2sj7f
      @user-wb1pq2sj7f 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope you feel better

    • @user-hv2zh2ti3x
      @user-hv2zh2ti3x 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so sorry for you ☹

  • @cottoncandysky6201
    @cottoncandysky6201 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I love how almost all her songs have that pause when it’s almost at the end and then that intense background music when it’s done with the vocals.❤ Melanie is the queen!

  • @inaya4350
    @inaya4350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10656

    this song ruled the world for a while

    • @melspurgatory
      @melspurgatory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      and it is again!!! this song is gaining traction on tiktok and increasing in spotify streams!

    • @inayahgreene270
      @inayahgreene270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      ayo we have the same name. It's just I spell mines with an h.
      But same tho

    • @teddyblushmovies
      @teddyblushmovies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I love this song. I also love The principal and another song but not from her fro hasley. Control

    • @elielizabethlimakids7385
      @elielizabethlimakids7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      FOOOD

    • @elielizabethlimakids7385
      @elielizabethlimakids7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guns

  • @bunbunchan406
    @bunbunchan406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8538

    "I just want to go home, but home doesn't even feel like home anymore. You ruined it."
    -Octavia to Stolas (Helluva boss)

    • @blacktea2817
      @blacktea2817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      True👁👁

    • @Laila.lifts09
      @Laila.lifts09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yep.

    • @MsCorpse
      @MsCorpse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I love Helluva boss. And it’s true.

    • @nezukokamado8959
      @nezukokamado8959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Facts

    • @MsCorpse
      @MsCorpse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@nezukokamado8959 Nezuko?!

  • @The13thArcher
    @The13thArcher ปีที่แล้ว +38

    ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HER SINGING THE OPPOSITE NOTES IN THE BACKGROUND ABSOLUTE GOLD

  • @Missdior05
    @Missdior05 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    “Your so lucky your family is so nice and your mom is the sweetest ever” “Your blinded by her jewelry “ “Everyone thinks that we are perfect “ “ I see things that nobody else sees”

  • @pickleswickles
    @pickleswickles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6183

    “One day they’ll see what goes on in the kitchen”
    Mc Donald’s: wait wha-

  • @michellesalvatore2193
    @michellesalvatore2193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5074

    When ur family care about whar people think more than they care about u

    • @elielizabethlimakids7385
      @elielizabethlimakids7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      GUNS

    • @jsmitty4601
      @jsmitty4601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Fr. It’s always “that makes US look bad!” And they don’t even care to ask why or how you are..

    • @avaf1688
      @avaf1688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yep. Feel that.

    • @sweetheart7646
      @sweetheart7646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      literally. my family are my biggest bullies.

    • @lajibolala2818
      @lajibolala2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is so relatable though..

  • @GreySkye_10
    @GreySkye_10 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This song really helped me through a breakdown. It sucks that everyone's always saying, "Your parents are perfect," "You're so lucky," "Think of the kids with abusive parents," but they don't know them like I do. Sometimes our parents can hurt us so much without even trying. Especially when they shelter you for so long that when they can't anymore, reality hits you like a truck.

  • @Angel-ge5dz
    @Angel-ge5dz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11775

    MY BIGGEST FLEX IS I CAN PLAY THIS WITH HIGH VOLUME INFRONT OF MY FAMILY LOL

    • @prapti6938
      @prapti6938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      Same

    • @jinhogwarts9492
      @jinhogwarts9492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1375

      Same cause they don't understand English lololol

    • @ayeshaahmed5256
      @ayeshaahmed5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      hyunjin!

    • @Angel-ge5dz
      @Angel-ge5dz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@ayeshaahmed5256 I MISS HYUNJIN SO MUCH

    • @ayeshaahmed5256
      @ayeshaahmed5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@Angel-ge5dz uhmm what happened to him?

  • @Eggsy1994
    @Eggsy1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8015

    Without music life would be a mistake ❤️

  • @braynsrealname-1
    @braynsrealname-1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    2024 gang 👇

  • @valeriamagarin1384
    @valeriamagarin1384 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This song hits different when you have both of you parents still married and people think yall have the perfect family when in reality our family is falling apart.

    • @eriod439
      @eriod439 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Honestly i feel like it'd be more simple if they just divorced instead of still being married

  • @landon_river6993
    @landon_river6993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9758

    “Wear you dress.”
    “Throw on your pearls.”
    “Sit with the girls.”
    “Don’t act like the boys.”
    “Be straight.”
    “Don’t question who you are.”
    “Be like .”
    Anyone else feel like they’ve been told this over and over again, even without words?

    • @xxkissingrazors
      @xxkissingrazors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Me

    • @xyzmuya
      @xyzmuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      Yes... I'm a girl who doesn't like dresses and my mom keeps saying that I have to dress and behave like a girl. But I prefer jeans and sneakers, not sandals.

    • @xxkissingrazors
      @xxkissingrazors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@xyzmuya aw I'm sorry about that. I support you tho! :)

    • @lemonsedits
      @lemonsedits 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@xyzmuya same

    • @xyzmuya
      @xyzmuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@xxkissingrazors Thanks for the support ^^

  • @mira-tm3xd
    @mira-tm3xd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4725

    no way this song kinda describes my life. no one thinks im perfect but they think ive got a normal happy wonderful life. they havent seen thru the curtains yet

    • @misa_innit4265
      @misa_innit4265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      This is true😔 my parents think more about what others think😟😟😟.will u please be my friend?

    • @pagdhsnsb
      @pagdhsnsb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      y’all have curtains??😦

    • @misa_innit4265
      @misa_innit4265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@pagdhsnsb maybe?

    • @kcblack828
      @kcblack828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I feel you people thinks my parents are 100% nice but I have a parent who is transphobic

    • @kianclarke5577
      @kianclarke5577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ye

  • @mizu-san488
    @mizu-san488 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hits different when you relate to each and every lyric of this songs

  • @Shallow_hearted
    @Shallow_hearted 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    2yrs later and still listening to this?
    👇🏿

    • @DestinyHarveu
      @DestinyHarveu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah 3years later

  • @ellieonayacht
    @ellieonayacht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4174

    " when you turn your back, she pulls out a flask" Todoroki: *confused screaming*

  • @itsannie504
    @itsannie504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    “ everyone thinks that we’re ‘PeRfEcT’, please don’t let them look through the curtains “ HITS HARD

  • @That_MCRnerd
    @That_MCRnerd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    My life was exactly like this for 5 years. Me and my mom/sisters finally moved out of that situation. Now we are happy and are finally free. Sometimes I go back to this song and it makes me think about it. I’m just so relieved.

  • @Mark_Wasntfound
    @Mark_Wasntfound ปีที่แล้ว +15

    MELANIE HOW DO YOU ALWAYS SLAY IN EVERYTHING??

  • @maddie_1319
    @maddie_1319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3846

    i used to love this song because i thought it was about creepy dolls, now i understand the true meaning and i love it even more.

    • @R4ttaku
      @R4ttaku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same

    • @Mickey--
      @Mickey-- ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Literally SAME

    • @ZennyOFFICIAL_
      @ZennyOFFICIAL_ ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Did you not have ears?😭

    • @adidasgirl0058
      @adidasgirl0058 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      @@ZennyOFFICIAL_they were probably very young...

    • @susanyyyy
      @susanyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@ZennyOFFICIAL_ they were prob young :/

  • @fandxmiee
    @fandxmiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3178

    "Hey girl, open the walls"
    "Play with your dolls"
    "We'll be a perfect family"
    "When you walk away is when we really play"

    • @theantagonist2589
      @theantagonist2589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      "You don't hear me when I say"
      "Mom, please wake up"
      "Dad's with a slut"
      "And your son is smoking cannnabis"

    • @jamesmunthe8241
      @jamesmunthe8241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      "No one never listens"
      "This wallpaper glistens"
      "Don't let them see"
      "What goes down in the kitchen"

    • @vanishingblade1041
      @vanishingblade1041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      “Places, Places”. “Get in your place”. “Throw on your dress”. “And put on your doll faces”.

    • @rushanigunasekera4659
      @rushanigunasekera4659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      "Everyone"
      "Thinks that we're perfect"
      "Please don't let"
      "Them look through the curtains"

    • @Katrina_Asaram
      @Katrina_Asaram 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      D-o-l-l-h-o-u-s-e I see things that nobody else sees D-o-l-l-h-o-u-s-e I see things that nobody else sees

  • @ashleylostfox9541
    @ashleylostfox9541 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ¨i see things that nobody else sees¨ same girl same

  • @Mistime_Mistake
    @Mistime_Mistake 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I feel bad for anyone who's actually going through this ❤️

  • @azrialine
    @azrialine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1978

    this whole song just hits hard. our family is broken because of our mom, and the whole neighbourhood thinks she's the victim. they're always encouraging me to go back to her because they have no idea what caused the family to break anyways. lmao i didn't realize what people actually thought of us until i heard "everyone thinks that we're perfect, please don't let them look through the curtains"

    • @SpiderBrained
      @SpiderBrained 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I’m so sorry

    • @19puslinglillefreakygirly
      @19puslinglillefreakygirly ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Poor you😢😢🥺🥺🥺im so sorry for you😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭

    • @randomwildlife1414
      @randomwildlife1414 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      My mom is like that to she likes pity party but no one else see it

    • @bagel_4350
      @bagel_4350 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This is the same way my life is, so I can relate to your story on a personal level. Things will eventually get better.

    • @melscrybaby5729
      @melscrybaby5729 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i relate to this too much

  • @TApexGenshin
    @TApexGenshin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    “What family? I’ve never had a family, I just live in a big house with a bunch of strangers I don’t even like. There’s no such thing as a family.”
    - Loneliness in Kira Mahou Shoujo

    • @agatareiter7012
      @agatareiter7012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same

    • @brandycestou9751
      @brandycestou9751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Tell that to Dom loretto

    • @eatyourself5859
      @eatyourself5859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@brandycestou9751 he's crying

    • @juliefarrell6688
      @juliefarrell6688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My OC said something similar
      "I live with my Dad and this random alcoholic woman. My dad also has a brother who spits constant bullshit. Also, I happen to share parents with a drug addict."

    • @ichangemynamebecauseieasil3349
      @ichangemynamebecauseieasil3349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brandycestou9751 BRO 💀

  • @FiizzyShad0wP0p
    @FiizzyShad0wP0p ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "D-O-L-L-H-O-U-S-E, I see things that nobody else sees" ...😕

  • @WRIZZMYBOI
    @WRIZZMYBOI 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This song described my childhood for real, i have always loved it and will continue to love it.

  • @EllieD.35
    @EllieD.35 ปีที่แล้ว +3001

    Hits different when the song isn't just a song, it's your life.

  • @js66613
    @js66613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4939

    "Have children."
    "Get married."
    "You just need to find someone you love. You'll change your mind when you're older."
    "Be the rolemodel."
    "Be the older sibling. Be responsible."
    "Cook, clean, you're the girl, after all."

    • @sabinayesmin7466
      @sabinayesmin7466 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      This is what my father told me everyday

    • @abyshark2653
      @abyshark2653 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @@sabinayesmin7466 even my mom

    • @Cloudybutter
      @Cloudybutter ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Same 😩😩

    • @mnggzenith188
      @mnggzenith188 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Ok this Comment is litteraly Me especially that last one

    • @fairycore4812
      @fairycore4812 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😔

  • @cosmos-yz9ol
    @cosmos-yz9ol ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "picture picture smile for the picture"
    "socially anxiety kicks in"
    💀

  • @user-bo1zc9ed1n
    @user-bo1zc9ed1n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hits even more harder when you can relate so much. I hear his song over and over again for how much I can relate to it. My friends always say wow your mom and dad doesn't care how much you do in studies, you have no pressure but little do they know what actually happens in our house and why my parents can't look at my studies. I have gone through alot lately but right now the situation Is better but this song still is in my heart and I would never forget this song along with those situations that I also won't ever ever forget. I hope none of you are or went through any of this.

  • @hicough4297
    @hicough4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    “When you turn your back she pulls out a flask”
    Mad eye: Damn you ferret

    • @mika-hy5qz
      @mika-hy5qz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @l0vely_ayah
      @l0vely_ayah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMAO🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @blitz_lol
      @blitz_lol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i dont get this joke, someone explain because i think its a literal harry potter reference

    • @l0vely_ayah
      @l0vely_ayah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@blitz_lol in book/movie number 4, a man named crouch jr used the poly juice potion to pretend to be mad eye moody. He kept the potion in the flask

    • @blitz_lol
      @blitz_lol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@l0vely_ayah oh, so i was right, thanks!

  • @iamrihannah2378
    @iamrihannah2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    This song is describing my life.

    • @gu1ltyb31ng9
      @gu1ltyb31ng9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@may_the_mouse That's so smart!

    • @iveyannacw
      @iveyannacw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      all I have to say is, ur stunning

    • @anastasiam2322
      @anastasiam2322 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure

    • @bri-ra6705
      @bri-ra6705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you are a doll, your brother smokes illegal drugs, your dad is sneaking women in his room whilr your mum knows and drinks alcohol to cope with it, and you are forced to wear a dress and sit pretty infront of a girl 10x your size who plays with you?

    • @user-kt1no7yx1u
      @user-kt1no7yx1u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bri-ra6705 Don't take things so literally, it's when your family has issues but looks perfect to everyone on the outside

  • @user-vf5wm6zl2h
    @user-vf5wm6zl2h 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Never heard a song this relatable…

  • @isitmelody
    @isitmelody ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love this song for every single reason, the lyrics, the song itself and everything, I just love it

  • @salwaa2751
    @salwaa2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    "everyone thinks that we’re perfect , please dont let them look through the curtains" the reason my parents won't let me get the therapy i need.

    • @joelm7126
      @joelm7126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cap

    • @cienna167
      @cienna167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yo my mum wont either even sadder im bi but my mum doesnt support :(

    • @mathenhkeekaalimom1987
      @mathenhkeekaalimom1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@cienna167 Damn I feel bad for you bad everything will be fine okay? You can make it. I believe in you and support you 🏳️‍🌈

  • @marialindquist6750
    @marialindquist6750 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    “I see things that nobody else sees” gives the chills

    • @royalfelineandtracygrant
      @royalfelineandtracygrant 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It means she sees her supposedly perfect family as they truly are, crumbling to bits. But no one else sees that, as said in the line “everyone thinks that we’re perfect, please don’t let them look through the curtains”

    • @PasteLPoP_966
      @PasteLPoP_966 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @user-qd7qm7zn5v
      @user-qd7qm7zn5v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Chills...

  • @V1atrixxi3
    @V1atrixxi3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A few years ago my life was actually like this.
    I had a younger step brother (3 years younger)
    A step mother
    And I still have my mum and my dad but the step family are out of our lives now.
    My dad is an alcoholic but my step mum who we will call E wasn't supportive of him being sober. Instead of supporting, she would pressure him which doesn't help.
    He always said he can be around alcohol but she would pressure him into drinking 0% alcohol beers, then into 0.1%, you get the picture and would blame him after he ends up drinking again. Usually, they would have their fights in the kitchen
    My step brother wasn't good either, he would hit me and I couldn't do anything back because "he's an angel! Stop lying" and said some weird remarks like every girl wanting him and abt marrying me and stuff after even after I told him he was being weird and to stop.
    Also right, after I was locked in my room for God knows what, probably some fight I had with my step brother E told me I have to help her raise my step brother, I was 9-10!
    My mental health plummeted, and I was told to "at least pretend like you're happy, don't be selfish"
    So you know, put on your doll faces.
    From the outside, my friends thought my life was great, easy going parents, good test scores and a "funny brother"
    Thanks for listening to my ranting

    • @yellowjun127
      @yellowjun127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh lord, I hope you're out of that hell hole now. If you aren't, I'll pray you get out of this soon

    • @V1atrixxi3
      @V1atrixxi3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yellowjun127 I forgot I even posted this! Yes, my step mother left my dad around 2 years ago, thank you for listening to me

    • @evelyndelarama4059
      @evelyndelarama4059 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Few while I dead..... 😮😮😮

  • @n0tchqn_.
    @n0tchqn_. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This comment section is giving "im not like other girls" vibes tbh

  • @anonchxn3623
    @anonchxn3623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    As a child, I didn't get this song until now..

    • @justinamia2548
      @justinamia2548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same

    • @SakiyaFate16
      @SakiyaFate16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      It actually means that not everyone have a perfect family and that what others see isnt what you see inside your house soo its like a traumatic childhood and yeah

    • @justdl
      @justdl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Emely urbina 25 basically everyone thinks they got it good (decent to good money, that’s why the mom has jewelry) and they also put on a fake persona like they’re a loving family for people, but people dont really know whats going on. The father’s cheating, the mother’s an alcoholic because of that, the son smokes weed, etc.

    • @emt57772
      @emt57772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @Hgvuyfcytcftv
      @Hgvuyfcytcftv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG SAME I listened to it when I was six and then I realised what if I searched it up! I on,y had cd and it broke

  • @PJXay
    @PJXay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    Okay but the chorus really is amazing. The repeated vocal melody really has so much vocal emotion and fits the song really well. The acoustic bass line in the background sounds SO GOOD…

    • @bri-ra6705
      @bri-ra6705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You could of just said
      "Melanies songs bang!"

    • @TheAutisticFrog
      @TheAutisticFrog ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t relate to this song at all but I love it.

    • @PJXay
      @PJXay ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bri-ra6705 Damn, sorry I like to analyze music because I have an ear for detail :(

    • @Tanyplays
      @Tanyplays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello actually I was planning to perform this song for my youth festival in school and that word s**t I do not want to sing anyone know what can I sing other than that?? Please reply if you have any ideas thank you!!❤

    • @PJXay
      @PJXay 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tanyplays if you’re singing for a youth festival maybe you should stray away from Melanie Martinez in the first place

  • @cloudy2097
    @cloudy2097 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This song reminds me of social pedagogy where i study about society problems like: selfharm, smoking, drugs, bullying, drinking alcohol and so more... Now were learning about types of families and one type is reminding me of this song. Cuz it's literally same situation in reality like Melanie sings about it.

  • @Saimon_1413
    @Saimon_1413 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I didn’t know this song is my reality

  • @miss_contentional
    @miss_contentional 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4844

    My family: She's a sweet angel!
    My headphones: *R U SURE ABOUT THAT*
    EDIT** what the helll I just came back to see this comment and I’m first🤣

    • @cherry_coke.
      @cherry_coke. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      My headphones : BOY, DONT CALL ME ANGEL

    • @virien13
      @virien13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@cherry_coke. ahm continuing
      My headphones: you ain't got it right dont call me angel

    • @thatonepinkdolly6847
      @thatonepinkdolly6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My meme self understood this

    • @coolcatpip2721
      @coolcatpip2721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      XDDD

    • @lunargacha681
      @lunargacha681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same

  • @jennicalorton3626
    @jennicalorton3626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    I loved this song 3 years ago when no one knew my dad was molesting me, but it gets better. He's in jail and I'm now happily married with 1 son and another baby due in May. ❤️ So anyone having a hard time be brave. Speak up, it will get better.

    • @himani6412
      @himani6412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I'm really sorry you have to gone through something like this but I'm happy for you that you are living a good life now..i wish more happiness come to you life ❤❤.

    • @xyzxyz28714
      @xyzxyz28714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ok sorry but I laughed at maybe son i geuss on your pfp lol he looks so cute 😂

    • @-Fizzy
      @-Fizzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Im rly sorry but congrats on the baby

    • @alishasadler8878
      @alishasadler8878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats 👏 on the baby

    • @adibramley8999
      @adibramley8999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats on the kid!!

  • @mawuvv
    @mawuvv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The first ever song by her that I listened to and became one of my favourites to then learn it’s about dysfunctional families and realising why I liked it so much is that I related to my life.

  • @Valerie1214
    @Valerie1214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everyone in the family acts all happy in a picture when all of them talk shit behind their back’s with each other

  • @violetteev
    @violetteev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    *"I see things that nobody else sees.."* Damn, that just hit hard...

  • @juliamikaelabrandaoalberto7803
    @juliamikaelabrandaoalberto7803 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a person with a seemingly perfect family this hits hard
    I come from a broken family and my mom was abused but no one said a thing until she spoke up
    As young as 4 years old I would heat them fight and I would have to comfort my brother
    Thins song makes me cry

  • @teen_girl
    @teen_girl ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hits different when it is your life

  • @huskerdustiscanon
    @huskerdustiscanon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    Whenever I hear the line "no one ever listens", I immediately think about how my family is.. 😔 - Tori Bolding

    • @mayab3080
      @mayab3080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hope you are getting better 😌

    • @huskerdustiscanon
      @huskerdustiscanon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mayab3080 thanks 😔🙏🏽💗

    • @milkia245
      @milkia245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tori Vega sorry I had to 🙁

    • @LavenderKeymal
      @LavenderKeymal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @porterbache1609
    @porterbache1609 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    This song basically describes my trauma in perfect detail. My family was known for being the most beautiful, wealthy family in our community. We founded schools, built charities, raised neighborhoods up from the ground, basically built our city. Our picture was always in local magazines and news papers. Everyone thought we where so beautiful and happy and perfect. If only they could see past elegant balls, plastic surgery, luxury cars, and money. Maybe then light would be shown on our family.

    • @jillianmillis9709
      @jillianmillis9709 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I’m sorry

    • @jillianmillis9709
      @jillianmillis9709 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That’s all I have to say

    • @rinnzu
      @rinnzu ปีที่แล้ว +18

      damn hope u okay

    • @HensChickens69
      @HensChickens69 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Damn y’all billionaires or something?! Also, You could?

    • @porterbache1609
      @porterbache1609 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@HensChickens69 I could what?

  • @hello-mt3be
    @hello-mt3be 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Melanie Martinez, thank you so much for this song. The melody, the sound. Everything down to the lyrics, the meaning behind them and the spelling out of the song title is spot on and so perfectly written and well executed in its entirety. We may act like we’re perfect and that like our respected family situations are far better than others, but we would be kidding ourselves to think that we got it going on with a picture perfect life. What people see taken in the pictures - the pretty/presentable outfits, the smiles, happy mom/dad and sister/brother - are all not what they seem to be in the grand scheme of things. The brother has turned to drugs and will be prone to becoming obstinate. The sister has misgivings about her drunken mom being a pushover to her philandering, cheating adulterer of a father and is little by little broken up by the sight of her families wrongdoings. No one sees the ugly side since we make out that we’re perfect, we must dress nicely and put on our doll faces. Inside our dollhouses we see things that nobody until the day they look through the curtains. This is what I feel when I listen and think about this song. Melanie’s a genius.

  • @_Khaiixd._
    @_Khaiixd._ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Don't act though. You're a girl, girl's are weak."
    "Be more feminine."
    "Stop dressing like a boy."
    "What the hell are you wearing? Wear a dress."
    "Wear your jewelry's!"
    "You're too fat. Eat less."
    "You're too skinny. Eat more."
    "Why are you so short!? Eat more so you grow taller!"
    "You only got 96% on your test!? I did not raised a dumb kid!"
    *"YOU'LL NEVER MAKE ME PROUD."*
    Mother..if you see this. I just wanna said,i have feelings too mother. Just because i'am your kid that doesn't mean you can say these kinds of things to me. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH I SUFFER ALL THIS YEAR TRYING TO MAKE YOU PROUD. You also didn't know that i've been assaulted by a 18 years old man three years ago. I'VE BEEN TRYING TO TELL YOU ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN TO ME THAT TIME BUT YOU'RE JUST SO BUSY WITH YOUR DAMN LIFE AND YOUR DAMN FRIENDS. And now you're asking why i'am not close with you? Don't you feel ashamed.? All this years you mentally and physically abused me. I promise mother,when i get older(15-17 yrs old) i will go far from that house. And live with my bestfriend or my other friends. You always said that i'm useless and dumb. If you think so why don't you just kill me before i was born mother? YOU ALSO DIDN'T KNOW I TRIED TO COMMIT SU!C!DE ALL THIS YEARS BUT I FAILED. I rather died than be abused mother. When i was a kid(10-12 yrs old) you always told me to wash the clothes,prepare you food,fold the clothes and cook. IF I MAKE A MISTAKE YOU WILL START TO HIT ME. I'AM JUST A CHILD MOTHER. All i wanted for all this years is a nice mother. IT'S JUST THAT. Is it so hard to change? And just because i'am oldest that doesn't mean you can scold me all you want. If you check my heart,it will be full of regrets,revenges and sadness. All you care about is your youngest son. What? Am i not your child?. You didn't know all this years i've been suffering from traumas,trouble sleeping,trust issues and MANY MORE. IT'S BECAUSE OF YOU MOTHER. Now i have a fear of getting hit. If someone tried to hit me i will automatically fall down. Idk why. My body automatically do that. And now i have a fear of an adult man. (18+ years old). The fear of an adult man is not from you mother. It's from the 18 years old man that assaulted me 3 years ago. But it's kinda your fault too for not listening to me. And for my exam grades. I'VE BEEN TRYING MY BEST MOTHER! DON'T YOU KNOW I DIDN'T GET ENOUGH SLEEP AND SOMETIMES I DON'T SLEEP AT ALL TO STUDY? Last week you throw a glass cup on me and the glass poke my right leg and my left hand. It's so hard to walk do you know that? And last week i got into a fight too. But YOU scold me without knowing the actual reason WHY i slap her. She's been making fun of me,my friends,and my family how can i just be quiet?. That's all mother. I hope you change. I know you will see this comment because you always check my phone.
    And if u guys read this until the end,i'am so glad that somebody listen to my venting and i'am sorry if i'am too overdramatic. Also,this year i tried to be more brave and stand up for myself. I'am currently 13 yrs old. Last year i was 12. I also can't believe that i'am STILL afraid of getting hit. But i tried to be more brave from now on:) thank you for listening,have a great day/night/evening/morning🌹

    • @nikkiiminaj
      @nikkiiminaj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg. I can't belive that a MOTHER would do this. Your "mother" isn't really your mother anymore. Mothers should treat their child nicely, should care about them, and ALOT OF THINGS. Seriously, I hope you're okay right now. As you get older, maybe you can escape from that home where the devil lives. I hope your mother listens to you. Question, do you have a father? I'm sure he can help you. Overall, I'm 18 rn. You don't deserve a neglectful, abusive mother. If you got a step-mother, I hope she isn't abusive. Kind of hope when your mother checks your phone, I hope she sees this. She needs to understand your pain. She really acts like her pain is even worse than you. But child also do have pain that adults really need to understand. Child can have pain too.

    • @_Khaiixd._
      @_Khaiixd._ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nikkiiminaj My mother has been treating me so badly all this years and yes i do have a father..but he always said "Oh cmon,i know she will change someday! Now wipe your tears and i'll help u bandage ur scars." for the past years..(not today). WELL FATHER IF SHE CHANGED SHE WOULDN'T HIT ME ANYMORE,CAN'T U JUST LISTEN TO ME? Ugh..i hate this life so much.. But,just now my mother found this comment..and she said "She try to change" i hope she keeps her promises..i really hope she really meant it when she said she try to change.. I was also kicked out of the house when I was 5 years old.. Luckily my Grandma house isn't far away so i walk there,but than after a few weeks,my father came and said my mother wanted me back home.. obviously i didn't want to go back to that house but then my mother came and pull my hand. I have no choice but to go back to that awful house. My brother also said awful things about me to my mother and then she will start to hit me. When i was 6-8 yrs old,i was getting bullied at school but i didn't fight back because i was kinda a scaredy cat that time.. but after i reach 9-13 yrs old,i started to be brave. I fight back all the bullies and if my mother tried to hit me i will defend myself. But she mostly get to hit me even tho i defend myself because i still have the trauma of getting hit. But i hope she meant it when she said she tried to change:) thank you for listening🌹

    • @nikkiiminaj
      @nikkiiminaj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@_Khaiixd._ i hope she meant it tho. If she want to change then she wouldve apologize to u and wont hit u again! I hope abusive parents can change.

  • @ericalewis1630
    @ericalewis1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    0:40 that fits so perfectly with shotos childhood trama

  • @TImmyNot_timmy
    @TImmyNot_timmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    This song is literally my whole life

  • @DaniellaTousson
    @DaniellaTousson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was listening to this song when I got an email from a someone I had some awful experiences with. The song seemed to slow down as I was reading.

  • @user-up9kf5mj1t
    @user-up9kf5mj1t 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why is this song so good

  • @elizabethbear363
    @elizabethbear363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    This song deserves more respect
    For anybody who doesn't understand the song its a song that's saying don't assume somebody life is perfect. They may end up not being a "perfect" family.

  • @waitwhat6936
    @waitwhat6936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    TW: mentions emotional abuse
    This really sums up my family about five years ago. I was one of the only people in my class to have a “perfect” family (lived in a nice suburban neighborhood, parents were together, etc). What people didn’t see was my parents fighting all the time and my father emotionally abusing/manipulating us while having a secret affair. We’re out of that situation now but it’s crazy scary how accurate this is

  • @user-gp3ko1my4m
    @user-gp3ko1my4m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This kinda gives me goosebumps-

  • @Jazzlyn_Mha
    @Jazzlyn_Mha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song is my life

  • @returnoftheromans6726
    @returnoftheromans6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    This gives me Coraline vibes. The beginning makes me think of a girl who lives in a messed-up family, so she literally creates a whole new world for herself in her dollhouse to help her cope. She basically lives with the dolls in her mind, her "other family" like Coraline. They are sweet and caring. But as she gets older, she becomes corrupted and so does her play. In time, the family that she wanted to be sweet and nice in the dollhouse turn evil. She doesn't want that, so she kills them and is horrified at what she has done. Instead of protecting that little family in the dollhouse, she corrupts them.
    That got dark really fast.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@f.khatun006
      Yes, I am aware of the Coraline plot. I have the book, wrote a review on it, watched the movie, and know the soundtrack.
      Edit: I should have been more clear. The song reminds me of Coraline; but the storyline I made up which I wrote above is based on the song.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@f.khatun006
      Yes, I was obsessed with the whole idea. I couldn't get enough of the fan-made videos and theories, too. A very good story. I suggest reading the book, as well. 👍

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@f.khatun006
      Lol! I watched the movie, then read the book because I loved the movie so much. In between, I watched several fan-based videos on theories of the story, and made up a few of my own. That story lives rent-free in my head now.

    • @tisa37bokun57
      @tisa37bokun57 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love this

    • @appletree615
      @appletree615 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love that film with the ladies with the buttons eyes and everything perfect in that world buts it all fake

  • @ravenanderson9721
    @ravenanderson9721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    for the first half of my childhood I was taught to always care about how other people viewed me and to not let other people know our family "problems" but then later on lots of those "problems" came out from the dark and it all led to the family tearing apart and me along with my mom being homeless for 6 years. I feel like those 6 years really humbled me and let me open my eyes to alot of things but this song reminds me about how fucking intolerable my whole fucking family was.

  • @aynamct
    @aynamct ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i used to love this song because i thought it was about playing doll house, now i understand the true meaning and i love it even more.

  • @Zenos006
    @Zenos006 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When the calm vibe became run for your life vibe💀:

  • @mayalidy8437
    @mayalidy8437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    “Don’t let them see what goes on in the kitchen.” “One day they’ll see what goes down in The kitchen.”

  • @eloisanavar7551
    @eloisanavar7551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This song just makes me reminds everything about my family

    • @ylice6489
      @ylice6489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow...

    • @ylice6489
      @ylice6489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry for this :/..

  • @benalortman5525
    @benalortman5525 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This song reminds me of Quinn from Glee, and Macey Mchenry in thr Gallagher Girls books. Also, my heart goes out to everyone experiencing family situations like this. 💔🥺

  • @kindigo99
    @kindigo99 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "My aunt had kids at 15"
    "My sisters used to clean everything"
    "That is a womans job"
    "What is your husband gonna eat?"
    "Your husband isn't gonna let this slide"
    -My dad

  • @-messenja-9347
    @-messenja-9347 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Never listened to a song so relatable in a depressing traumatic way and yet smile through the whole thing as if I had the best day ever. A grin or smirk so big it was the signature of the face, making me look like a whole new person.

    • @ronyaacevedo578
      @ronyaacevedo578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      u just described my whole life....

    • @-messenja-9347
      @-messenja-9347 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ronyaacevedo578hope it gets better :(

    • @imjaniya
      @imjaniya หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@-messenja-9347comment no viral💀

  • @melanielizz7477
    @melanielizz7477 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I love this song because so many families seem perfect but when you look inside of almost every family you’d see shocking things that you would never expect. Families are almost like little cults... you can’t leave and you’re basically sworn to secrecy about anything that’s not picture perfect that happens.

  • @user-dq9cp2ze6z
    @user-dq9cp2ze6z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that this song is so relatable like we have to act like we are ok when we aren’t but we don’t want people to feel bad for us but we also wanna be loved

  • @walaemahboub3263
    @walaemahboub3263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    love the vibes!!!!

  • @Thespian_Lesbian
    @Thespian_Lesbian ปีที่แล้ว +158

    This song is relatable :').
    Everyone loves my mom and thinks she's such an amazing person. They think that they're so lucky to have a friend like her. People meet her and love her, thinking she's so great. One of her friends even got emotional about her.
    If only they knew the abuse she put me through, then they wouldn't love her so much.

    • @goldiesettle5564
      @goldiesettle5564 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know right that's the same thing with my mom

    • @khadeejawaleed7733
      @khadeejawaleed7733 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bro do u wanna talk??? No one can understand you better then me cuz I'm being abused by my mom ever since I was 3.

    • @Thespian_Lesbian
      @Thespian_Lesbian ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@whereisjungkook9763 it's ok but ty :).

    • @Thespian_Lesbian
      @Thespian_Lesbian ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@khadeejawaleed7733 its ok but tysm for the offer!

    • @rubellite6778
      @rubellite6778 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Comments here always makes me feel extremely lucky that I have a loving family. Stay strong and happy and hopefully one day you'll be able to move out of the house!

  • @ecstacymelodies2249
    @ecstacymelodies2249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Music heals pain ...the path you choose

  • @KokiWildKratts
    @KokiWildKratts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Geez this brings back memories from like 2 years ago when all I listened to was Melanie

  • @enha._.toduru
    @enha._.toduru ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hits different when your the "RESPONSIBLE" elder sis :)

  • @gachacottoncandy3753
    @gachacottoncandy3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    *Everyone thinks that we're perfect
    Please don't let them look through the curtains*
    This my family on the outside
    we may look like a happy family but on the inside we are all fights and crying...

  • @giancarlofelicianocastaned9316
    @giancarlofelicianocastaned9316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The nostalgia this song brings is massive.

  • @JWZbluUe
    @JWZbluUe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the way this is so relatable with my life hurts

  • @user-rz5tx3bw7x
    @user-rz5tx3bw7x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I kind of like this song but gives me chills at the same time

  • @sjyaya
    @sjyaya ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Honestly, I never expected this song to become my reality. I adored this song since a really young age, but I never knew what it meant. Now I feel like this explains my entire life

    • @ayanokuchisaki859
      @ayanokuchisaki859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what you're saying is you were a really young age in 2014 or more?

    • @sjyaya
      @sjyaya ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ayanokuchisaki859what im saying is that yes, i was young, not too young but i was also very innocent and didn't acknowledge the wrongs in the world and in my life

  • @Lupical_Raz0r
    @Lupical_Raz0r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Everyone: this fam is full of angels!
    Me listening to this song and liking it: *and I took that personally*

  • @Caitlyn.Downing
    @Caitlyn.Downing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have never related to a song so much. My friends always thought I lived in this happy and loving home, but behind closed doors it was the complete opposite. My family fights about literally everything, call each other awful names, put each other down, threaten to hurt/kill each other. My family is emotionally and mentally abusive but when people are around they act like we are this “perfect” family. When I try to talk about it to my friends they always say “you don’t have it bad like other people” or “you are being dramatic”. I know other people have it a lot worse than I do, but it still hurts. All I want is a happy and loving family who could get along.

  • @louelleharrison
    @louelleharrison 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This songs kinda describes my life at home. I was influenced by my father, you should be the stereotypical girl that cooks and cleans. He may not have implied that, but I thought that if I wasn't perfect, then no one would like me. I stopped eating once, only having like an apple for the whole day. My siblings all had problems of them all, and would sometimes take them out on me, since im the youngest. None of my friends would understand, as I was around 8, 9, 10, and so on. These kind of songs would speak to me, as no one else could.

  • @Sara.Miller.
    @Sara.Miller. ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I can relate to this in someway. When I was 8 I was put into care and sent to live with a woman who was really respected in her community. She'd treat me really nice in public or when people were around, but would yell at me for small things and belittle me whenever we were alone. She also refused to believe people suggesting I was autistic, at one point saying if I was she would have gotten rid of me and left me to be homeless. She would also talk about my parents to guilt trip me, with phrases like "I can see why your parents treated you like they did, if you act like that" If I disagreed with something she said or, "you're just like your parents" if I made a mistake, even though she had never spoken to them. She led me to having suicidal thoughts for a while. I don't live with her now, and am definitely alot happier!
    sorry for venting

    • @Sara.Miller.
      @Sara.Miller. ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Yes I am better! I live with a definitely nicer woman who lets me see my parents and treates me with respect.

    • @Kriti277
      @Kriti277 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you're ok

    • @IzzyakaSpookyGurlQueenal-lh3dh
      @IzzyakaSpookyGurlQueenal-lh3dh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm autistic.. and my sister was so surprised I listened to Melanie Martinez😅

    • @royalfelineandtracygrant
      @royalfelineandtracygrant 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh goodness that’s horrible! I’m glad you got a happier life now.

  • @lowkeyben
    @lowkeyben ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This is my life.
    My family cares more about what people think more than they care about me.
    They only act good when there's people looking at us,but in reality,they don't.
    They act perfect when it comes to doing stuff, they're not even.
    Trying to act like a perfect family and acting rich.
    They don't feel what we feel,they only know their selves.
    Literally my whole life as a teenager, probably.

    • @Ariana0726
      @Ariana0726 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My life as a 10 yr

    • @zakyajackson7109
      @zakyajackson7109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Ariana0726 I'm so sorry

    • @ChiChiloh
      @ChiChiloh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Ariana0726me too

  • @poopypantslulz8234
    @poopypantslulz8234 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Moral of the story: Everyone's fighting a battle that you don't know about.

  • @vintage_mel
    @vintage_mel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This song terrifyingly relates to my everyday life which is why I am obsessed with this song! ❤

  • @polinapedersen
    @polinapedersen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I’m the youngest in my family being 16. I really do think that I have a bad case of depression but not bad enough to injure myself! My personality has changed as well as my perspective on the world. I’m alone 24/7 7 days a week in my dark house. My big brother apparently works during the day and at night. When he isn’t at work he is apparently out with his friends skating but I think otherwise. When he closes shop at 10:00pm he will come home around 1:00 in the morning. Everything is weird now! When I try to tell my parents what is wrong with me and our family they blow me off. “No one ever listens”!

    • @kianclarke5577
      @kianclarke5577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same with the first part only difference is that I'm 12

    • @lilylai4310
      @lilylai4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry to hear that, are u okay right now :(

    • @castro1774
      @castro1774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Picture picture = 1:00

    • @soya.seungocado
      @soya.seungocado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please report this to someone you trust. Hope it gets better soon

    • @shootingstaraldc
      @shootingstaraldc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry! I’m praying for you and your family.

  • @hermionejeangranger
    @hermionejeangranger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Who's listening this in 2021-😊😊
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  • @Paris-np3jo
    @Paris-np3jo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I no this song is not new but it's still one of my favorite songs by Melanie Martinez

  • @qu3lawxYT
    @qu3lawxYT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love mel, her songs are so beautiful and has soluch meaning.

  • @_emmanhoelle_
    @_emmanhoelle_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I feel like this is literally the perfect song for the Malfoy family

    • @Quetzona
      @Quetzona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes

    • @emilymay4111
      @emilymay4111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i think the blacks

    • @Beulraeki
      @Beulraeki 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Darkstalker

    • @Imserious184
      @Imserious184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilymay4111 oh yeah, the blacks are this.

    • @ileeeb
      @ileeeb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Beulraeki woah moon whatcha doing here-

  • @charlyyellowmellow1194
    @charlyyellowmellow1194 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear this song makes me cry every time 😭😭