Matthew Hussey on Confidence and Self Reflection | Elvis Duran Show

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  • Matthew Hussey talks about the three layers of confidence and how to use them in your everyday life.
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  • @amymaddox4278
    @amymaddox4278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even though he kept getting interrupted Matthew was still able to stay focused and try to get his point across. Keep up the good work Matthew 🙂

  • @linak.1412
    @linak.1412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love this guy Matthew so smart and humble at the same time! Thank you for your advice and lots of love from Germany xx

  • @jodam96
    @jodam96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just because the host doesn’t talk at the pace Matthew does, it doesn’t mean he has to interrupt him all the time. Give Matt a chance to properly talk!

  • @nadiamartinez953
    @nadiamartinez953 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so grateful for your videos Matthew Hussey ☄💜

  • @decidelgodinho7183
    @decidelgodinho7183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You just answer all my questions about life in general. Thank you Mathew!

  • @maemedina9205
    @maemedina9205 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you because i can see that you do what you do, not because you want to be famous or rich and because you want to help, that kindness and generosity really speaks in my heart. Lots of love

  • @sobesednik4734
    @sobesednik4734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The look Mathew gives Elvis at 14:00 after Elvis blubs "You gonna go broke" - that look is priceless. This host instantly plops out whatever shit comes to that precious mind of his.

  • @mujtabapervez3098
    @mujtabapervez3098 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Comeeee onnn stop interrupting himmmm!!!!!!!!! Let Mathew finish first.

  • @imalimabean6686
    @imalimabean6686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What you said about identity; with your mum as the example, was significant. Much of my identity also came from being a mother. As a single parent without spousal help or family support; most of my time, energy, and resources were devoted to the cause of raising healthy, happy, productive children. After losing an adult son; my identity was shattered. I could not, after all, protect him from death. After taking years of intentional, active grieving of his death; i began rebuilding my life and identity from a fresh perspective. Included in that process is learning about what i want and need from life for myself. I have a great zest, and appreciation for life. I believe that listening to you (which i find entertaining), as well as a few other reputable dating coaches is helping me see things from a well balanced and hopeful perspective. I am a young, attractive, middle aged dating candidate living in a time of a rather interesting and changing dating culture. There is immense opportunity going forward in life! Thank you for sharing your wisdom, experience and chatacter!

  • @WhiteSwanne
    @WhiteSwanne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Matthew it’s like you have touched something very deep inside me when you said how you beloved one frustrated you when she said you’re boring 😕 .... I experienced a very similar situation and I know how it feels! 😥😢 . But the good thing about this is we remember it as the thing that pushed us to move forward 😊
    love you Matt xx

  • @rsrch412
    @rsrch412 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Brilliant, and perfectly timed for me, personally. Thank you.

  • @aishamalik404
    @aishamalik404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have addressed my worst nightmare-embracing my past. Thank you, you are fab. I love your British accent, plz keep it. 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 plz come to Manchester UK, would love to meet with you!

  • @dippallinaik8397
    @dippallinaik8397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love this advice Matthew, notwithstanding the interruptions! xx

  • @pppmanly
    @pppmanly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the 3rd video I have watched today of the male host interviewing Matthew Hussey.
    The host is funny.

  • @briettetreaster3813
    @briettetreaster3813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I listened to this on the way to work this morning and have shared this interview with all my friends. Absolutely excellent. Definitely a “woah” moment for me.

  • @SairaNadeemzzd
    @SairaNadeemzzd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Matthew is so cool handsome intelligent good looking guy. Thank you so much for your videos n it's really very informative and helpful. Cheers n blessings xx

  • @Diamondkity
    @Diamondkity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    loved this one very much. gold pieces of advice

  • @isara26
    @isara26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the best of you Matthew 👍love it

  • @Holi_sticcommunity2710
    @Holi_sticcommunity2710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was actually so excited to see him here! Clicked it the minute I saw it..loved the talk about confidence hussey..I get my core confidence from the kind of person I am..I always think about it that what my soul feels and how I want to make my and others life better..it literally gives me goosebumps..great video..lots of love Matt :)

  • @rinasuzuki8583
    @rinasuzuki8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Matthew. I really needed this! Here's some love for you

  • @yvonneromlewski1491
    @yvonneromlewski1491 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your wisdom is incredible, thank you for sharing.

  • @Milawatchout
    @Milawatchout 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Think everyone is tripping, Elvis is hilarious! What a dynamic discussion among the 3! Quite intellectual! ;)

  • @janethmaciaspadilla5088
    @janethmaciaspadilla5088 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I️ love all your videos! You add so much value to all of us!
    Keep doing what you are doing, I’ve followed your tips and have a date tonight I’m excited and not worried about the outcome

  • @chi-chichou3807
    @chi-chichou3807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing these great knowledges with us. Love you

  • @stinkytofu5616
    @stinkytofu5616 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So many times I was desperate to be able to actually follow matthew's train of thought without...well....

  • @debbysworld5992
    @debbysworld5992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely I love TH-cam as well because you found any stuff you want.

  • @akeemr3393
    @akeemr3393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loving this advice, life improving content!

  • @amymaddox4278
    @amymaddox4278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for your videos Matthew ❤

  • @amykiray
    @amykiray 6 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    the host of the show seems to have a hard time really listening to the people he is talking to... yes he goes silent but he zones off and interrupts them when he comes up with a new thought.

    • @zeytelaloi
      @zeytelaloi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah. I didn't like how he immediately went after his co-host like "what's the thing that gives YOU confidence Danielle?" and then when it came back to him, he just said "I think I'm a pretty well-rounded guy". I don't really understand talk show hosts who honestly believe that people really care about them when it's actually the guests that are important.

    • @imalimabean6686
      @imalimabean6686 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha. Keeps it interesting

  • @olgadyatlik5736
    @olgadyatlik5736 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    love Matthew's talks! :)

  • @koshkloud9
    @koshkloud9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mr. Hussey 😍😍😍

  • @tarotspeak682
    @tarotspeak682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for providing a mindset to face the knockdown around us at 17:13. That's really helpful to me. Especially I'm struggling with changing my self image in some area. 🙆

  • @sarahpius2533
    @sarahpius2533 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love listening to your video in TH-cam,u are the best

  • @Sagar-oc3nw
    @Sagar-oc3nw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the way u think and I appreciate it

  • @chiedoziendubizu7033
    @chiedoziendubizu7033 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this bro

  • @jessiska2468
    @jessiska2468 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this conversation. I believe no matter what happens the love of God and my faith for Him is my core confidence

  • @desh1512
    @desh1512 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just what I needed today

  • @violaa6652
    @violaa6652 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Hard to listen this to interview without wanting to put tape Elvis's mouth! 🙊

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Viola A : You are Adorable!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @divinagracialozadadaguiso4803
    @divinagracialozadadaguiso4803 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice Matthew!!

  • @ria1606roy
    @ria1606roy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Confidence is a much needed asset...but at most times useless without competence! (Hussey's words not mine)

  • @catherinecollins6730
    @catherinecollins6730 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohhh this is brilliant - I also over-relied too much on my work :(

  • @mrmakeshft
    @mrmakeshft 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It doesnt really matter what you post, but its about capturing a positive angle in the photo and then taking the negativity and positivity, because your welcoming feedback

  • @carolineoram5734
    @carolineoram5734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks i like core confidence be kind to myself

  • @sejalkothari6687
    @sejalkothari6687 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of love and likes :)

  • @lilpebbly14
    @lilpebbly14 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Give me more please!

  • @toonicetobeunreal
    @toonicetobeunreal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Matthew is very intellectual! xD

  • @mahshidamerian8116
    @mahshidamerian8116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best speeches from matt ever .... i was crazy about it & had listened to it several times ... it was all about things that i had searched for them everywhere but couldnt find ... thank u matt ... but how could i download that free chapter for confidence that u mentioned ??

  • @dare98
    @dare98 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mathew was so classy during this interview lol

  • @noziphowabatagore3765
    @noziphowabatagore3765 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love and desire. Love is coming together. Desire exists in the space between you. No space no desire anymore. I don't know everything about you. The death of a relationship is when you know everything.

  • @jasdn93bsad992
    @jasdn93bsad992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Learn to love your mistake."

  • @munmundas0506
    @munmundas0506 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    True

  • @googleuser9753
    @googleuser9753 6 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    The male host needs to be secure with not being the center of attention. He keeps cutting off Matt & inputting his own thoughts

    • @fionajansen4615
      @fionajansen4615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah, I noticed that in another vid with Mattew there too.

    • @fishautawater73
      @fishautawater73 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matthew is such a gentleman

  • @fieldsofyasmine6255
    @fieldsofyasmine6255 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i cant seem to find those videos on the elvis duran website?

  • @Sub69ronnischrevel
    @Sub69ronnischrevel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    The interviewer should be in a different job. He’s got attention deficiency.

  • @gennmariezam923
    @gennmariezam923 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mathew discuss more about men meeting online who are intellectuals and gentlemen but prefer that women speak to them with respect and be prudent in their words. This is a Professional Engineer in his 50s/ A man who states he cannot be cajoned not knowing what direction the wind blows!!

  • @rajigopalan3018
    @rajigopalan3018 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey
    Mr Hussey, if there's anything I like on your face, it's your beautiful , broad forehead! It's so cute! And your "laugh" reminds me of an Indian actor.

  • @bellatrix336
    @bellatrix336 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The interviewers on this show are soooo annoying

    • @emmaj1384
      @emmaj1384 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That woman doesn't need to shout or cackle all the times

    • @GabbyOglesby
      @GabbyOglesby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Real talk

  • @ayeshhas5641
    @ayeshhas5641 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I over rely on my looks 😔 as confidence.

  • @distefanolinonoka3567
    @distefanolinonoka3567 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is trust in God inner confidence?

  • @rethinkreuserecycle
    @rethinkreuserecycle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Matthew, next time please sign a contract with your interviewers that they will remain silent unless they have your permission to speak, and even then, what they say has to be relevant and to the point! Elvis, please do some research on how to do a better show!

  • @kericorley9387
    @kericorley9387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Matthew I think I might be your Mumz American version. 3 sons, same values. Would be interesting to know if you have Corley lineage, never married.

  • @anna-vv1vn
    @anna-vv1vn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m going to ask the guy out that I wanna ask out before 2019 and I’m going to tell my sister that is 42 that it is ridiculous to not respond to texts even if she isn’t going to do what is asked at least I will know she doesn’t want to do it...

  • @fionajansen4615
    @fionajansen4615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this vid and info. And yes, this Elvis dude is f*cking annoying, yet the 2 clips on his show are the best I've seen from Matthew. Maybe he just does better in a 'being interviewed' setting than on his own. Some people are like that, and need someone there to get us going and get us to deliver top quality. Matthew himself once admitted he is not a natural, so it would make sense that a good sidekick brings out the best of him. On his own is okay, but the stuff that he's come up with in these 2 vids with annoying Elvis Duran is really some of Matthew's best. Also much much better than the radio show he does on his own.

  • @diphylleiajjong8858
    @diphylleiajjong8858 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the girl's laugh sounds like demi lovato's kind of haha

  • @alphalogos3942
    @alphalogos3942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    could someone tell this guy to shut up and let Matthew talk????

  • @ammiecarlson9106
    @ammiecarlson9106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are Fucking Adorable

  • @yvelinelegagneur1071
    @yvelinelegagneur1071 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Matthew Hussein is insightful. . . But, PLEASE, HOSTS(!), allow him to speak and give his expert advice without CONSTANTLY interjecting. PLEASE.

  • @elsiri1187
    @elsiri1187 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the host is terrible.. he always tries to make people feel uncomfortable, it's terrible to see..

  • @bonnie1097
    @bonnie1097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Elvis Duran please stop interrupting so much. It's painfully frustrating.

  • @beyourbest27
    @beyourbest27 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Matthew ( i place it here because its a new video and i feel youre most likely to respond on the new)
    After months he reached out to me based on my cover photo on facebook because its a cat and he loves cats. This was it :
    HE:
    Since when do you have a cat ????
    18 OKTOBER 17:25
    You've accepted invitation to connect through messaganer
    Me:
    Since i stood up out of my grave you know :)
    18 OKTOBER 18:28
    * I said nothing no more for days, it was silent, guess he doesnt know what to say **
    He:
    Oke
    Wonderful cat you have he's beautiful☺
    18 OKTOBER 21:18
    Me:
    It's not mine , he just loves me.
    19 OKTOBER 8:38
    He:
    Thump up.
    24 OKTOBER 18:13 (tuesday)
    He after few days on sunday :
    How is it with your school
    Do you have your diplome already
    How is it with your driving license ?
    ZO 8:18
    ** i didnt respond for days **
    He:
    Heey, do you like to go for a walk ?
    If you got time.
    Yesterday he saw me walking, after i went home, he blocked me again, and also covered his facebookfriends for everyone to see. He may thought about me not looking that amazing anymore. Because lately im exhausted because of all the things i have to do. Also, i can not answer the questions above because i dont have any yet.

    • @toonicetobeunreal
      @toonicetobeunreal 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh, girl, why u didn't respond him? I believe he thought that he got rejected by you

    • @beyourbest27
      @beyourbest27 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Too Nice to Be Unreal thanks for your good intentions to help me. I rather want advice of an expert. You know people can take you for granted once they know you will always come back or respond. i want to teach him that he should fight for me and im his priority not his last option

  • @crl1212
    @crl1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matthew is so polite, while the host is so rude by not listening, making the DUMBEST jokes, and talking just for attention without adding anything useful.

  • @jasminaina8707
    @jasminaina8707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matthew was interupted sooo many times , it was Terible

  • @agustinaaguirre2118
    @agustinaaguirre2118 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dejen que hable Matthew Hussey . No me gusta cuando interrumpen tanto o sea estamos escuchando algo interesante

  • @nenadroza
    @nenadroza 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    He may need to scrap that Louis CK reference from his spiel. Yikes!

  • @all1nerd377
    @all1nerd377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This how NOT to interview someone.

  • @gayleneflower7711
    @gayleneflower7711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Matthew your great, but the narrator dude is really overbearing and annoying

  • @jessli5270
    @jessli5270 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Elvis guy is going through some mid life crisis. Attention freak. This is not your stage. Stop interrupting people's train of thought. It's frustrating that you keep going off tangent. makes you look really bad and insecure.
    Let the guest state his point.

  • @myamyintzuwinlatt718
    @myamyintzuwinlatt718 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reading the comments, obviously I am not the only one who thinks the host is annoying

  • @donnatoots
    @donnatoots ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT THE HELL????? So you think it's o. k to Laugh at a vulnerable woman alone with mental health and directly exsasabate it????? HOW COULD YOU??????

  • @donnatoots
    @donnatoots ปีที่แล้ว

    WTF is this sposed to be other than DIRECT GASLIGHTING???? Mathew Hussy I can not believe you of all people could ever be a part of something as CRUEL and TORTURING Like that!!!!