1) Not trying to Adjust oneself. But trying to change others. - But remember if u can't change yourself, then how can u change others. 2) Ignore small fights and don't stretch it unnecessarily. Behave maturely. 3) Never expect anything from others. Expect from yourself first. 4) Don't take each other for granted. 5) Don't expect that the other partner will understand and read mind and heart. Rather speak frankly and straight forward. 6) Don't become Overpossessive or Dominating. Give space to other partner. 7) Complaining and Criticizing Bad or wrong habits always. 8) Make budgets and planning before hand. Avoid unnecessary expenditure. 9) Avoid any kind of presumption and Assumption about anything and avoid quarrels. 10) Clear things before hand, don't keep secrets. Once trust is broken it becomes difficult to regain. 11) Always make foundation strong. Stay together. And keep your relationship healthy and strong.
Acceptance and forgiveness should be in greater amount in us. So that we always do the good without analysing that what our partner or in laws are doing or saying... We can't control someone's life and behavior. To live a happy always do your duty as a good human.. Great people never think about what they gave and what they lost... 😊
I think sasural walo ko ek comfort env dena chahiye..ye mere sath hota ki expectation mujhse bahot hoti h lekin kbhi mein expect nhi kr skti...mother in law mujhe and mere husband ko bahar nhi jane deti sath me..itni strictness ki ghutan hoti h🙏 mene bhi kuchh socha nhi tha jane se phle...
Mam meri bhut jald shadi hone wali h aur maine ye thumbnail dekhkr video dekha ,aap bahut achhi aur knowledgeable video banate h jo logo k liye bhut helpful hote h ,mai god se prey krta hu ki apko hamesha salamat rakhe ,you are such a great person 🙏🙏👍
Namaste, ma'am. Priority attached by each partner towards the other may need to be the 1st point. Next comes communication. Efforts of one partner to know the other better must be reciprocated in absolutely clear terms. Neither will wait indefinitely for the other to respond in a positive manner; this may be construed to be lack of interest in developing the relationship and will have very long term effect. Opaque or casual responses at this time will have a lasting effect on the relationship. Both partners have to communicate with complete openness; questions need to be asked and answers need to be given in a friendly way by each partner, to sincerely try to know more about the other.
Meri saddi 18 Jun 2021 huai...lekin mujhe bahut acchi sashural mili hai.husband bahut hi gusse wale hai but jaldi hi man jate hai....thanks mam 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻very good
I am newly married girl (1 month ).... Mam... Aapne jo v btaya sach me bahut hi sahi btaya... Starting wali mistake to maine v 1 month se kiya h... Esliye Mai aapke baato se puri trh se agree hu... Mere andar v kafi inmaturity bhari h.. par mere husband bahut samjhdar h.. and bahut mature h... Aapne jo jo bat samjhayi wo v mujhe ye sab samjhate h... aapka ye video mere liye kafi informative rha... Mai aaj se hi apna relationship me kafi changes Lana suru krungi.. or apna relation best banaugi..🥰🥰🥰 thank you so much mam tqs a lot from bottom of my heart... 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much mam for your Advice ... Aapne bahut aache se samjhaya bilkul maa ki tarha. I love you so much mam.... mai puri koshish krungi apne aap ko change krne ki 🙂 apki ye Advice mere bahut kaam aaegi... 😗😗
Mam meri saas sasur se bhut achi banti hai but husband se ni ban pa ri n husband ko chid hoti hai ki unki mummy muje jada q pasand karti hai.. he is only child n I think he is jealous of me😂😂
Mam apki saari baate mujhe bahut achi lagi agr ye sare couple follow kre toh life me 💯 koi problem nhi ho skti ...ye hme lgta hai Mai kosis karugi apni Shaadi k bd ye rule follow kru ...😍
I love watching your videos, it helps me to improve myself and focus on things I should work on. Things said by you are simple and logical, unfortunately somewhere down the line couples don't follow basic and gets way to emotional to small things like Who said what even after many years brings dead matters from past which has no relevance to current matter and things gets escalated. You are making really nice videos. Keep it up your good work, Thanks
Husband kabhi wife ki mummy papa ko apna nhi manta & jubki wife sas sasur Ka apna maan leti h Ek or Baat Hus. Kahte h tumhari mummy,, tumhare Papa,, tumhara bhai,, etc. jubki wife humesha ye hi kahti h mummy ji ,,,papa ji etc.
Mam can u suggest what to do if a wife demanding much money in this covid situation where pay is still cutting...for her sisters wedding...all gold things,,she said if she not gifted...sasural Walon ko represent karige to mayaka wale dekhne....jabki sasural mein koi ni hai..😀.just saying husband earning is more,but much salary goes in debt.🙏... Mam ab little doubt ho Raha hai ....ladki ne paison ke liye hi Shadi ki hai..
Mam meri sister ki abi shadi ho ne wali he wo kafi dari sehmi si rhti he ki pta nhi uske sasural wale kaise honge wo waha naye ghar me naye logo ke bich khud ko dhal payegi ya nahi uski arranged marriage he wo uske pati ko bi bilkul nahi janti uske bare usko kuch v pata nahi he wo n hmesa darti he ki shadi ke bad kya hoga
Very nice 👍 thanks Di💞 Dono ko understanding hona chahiye phir baat banegi.. agar akali wife jayda samaj jaye tou bhi theek hai.. Kyonki wife akali hai or dusri taraf poori ki poori teem hai jinka mindset same hai ! So women can you show the single person wisdom ? Go for it.. you can do it. Vaise bhi acting ka zamana hai ❣️
❤️💚❤️aap jaysa bata rahi h same mera sath aysa he ho raha h .1 year hua nhi h or Mai husband ko pura tarah se samajh nhi payi .utna hamlog me baat nhi hota.husband khud sab kuch puchenge tab na Mai apne bare bataungi ....
Mam exam hone wala hai mera koi na koi aaker rehne lagte hai akele sara dekhta padta hai usme sasu ma hr chij ke liye comments krti hai thoda bhi nhi smjhti joki mai sara kam or khana timely bna deti Mai padhaii ke sath sath parivar ko bhi time deti hu yaha 1 bje raat tak jage rahenge let se sote isse or problem hoti Kuch smjh nhi aata kaise padaii kru
@@MonicaGupta husband kuch nhi bolte kehte hai aapko parivar or padhaii dono dekhna hai mere pass capacity nhi hoti jb jyada kam kr leti hu toh padhaii me mann nhi lagta so jati hu😔
Ma'am aapke saare videos relate karti hu...soch rahi hu yahi video nau saal pehle sunn liya hota ..toh aaj situation alag hoti hai...apne 3 years pehle hi upload kia he😢
Haa mam hamaeri shadi ki baad nanad ney conflict created kiya aur ab 10yr hogai per sàs pati mujhe galt hi samajtey hai aur pati rahety hI mere sath per kuch na boltey hai Aur khuch batatey hai.... Mai bahut try karti hu ki normal behave karney ki per pati kuch nhi aur jada duaman ki taraha rahey tey hai diii😌😰 bus two children k wastey sab kuch bardaash kaarti hu.... Meri mummy papa ki bhi halaat financial tik nahi hai bahut bejathi kartey hai pati.... Saas 24 hrs phone karti hai aur sab galat baat merey bare may bolti hai husband ko.... Aur wo unka sun kar mujhe bahut daatey hai
Hello Mam.. Meri three months phle shadi hui hai lekin jaisa aap bta rhe h video me kuch ladai jhagdo or 2no ke egoes or husband ki family ki burai krnese husband k man ne bht man mutav hogya h.. but muje shadi k bad aake pta chala ki mere mother in law depression patient h or bht tokti h sb chijo ko leke.. Isliye me upfront apne husband ko bolti hu.. but unhe bura lgta h or in wjah se hmara relationship kharab hotha h ladai hoti h 1 week tk 1 dusre se baat ni krte.. usme kya Krna chahye please help me please
Husband ke liye hum apna sab kuch chod kr aae ,unke liye kitna b krlo ek zagda hone pr wo sab kuch Bhool jate hai aur aise behave karte hai ki hum unke life me koi important nahi rakhte aur life me hai ya nahi aise na bat na call na msg agr dur honge to ,kya kare 😕
1) Not trying to Adjust oneself. But trying to change others. - But remember if u can't change yourself, then how can u change others.
2) Ignore small fights and don't stretch it unnecessarily. Behave maturely.
3) Never expect anything from others. Expect from yourself first.
4) Don't take each other for granted.
5) Don't expect that the other partner will understand and read mind and heart. Rather speak frankly and straight forward.
6) Don't become Overpossessive or Dominating. Give space to other partner.
7) Complaining and Criticizing Bad or wrong habits always.
8) Make budgets and planning before hand. Avoid unnecessary expenditure.
9) Avoid any kind of presumption and Assumption about anything and avoid quarrels.
10) Clear things before hand, don't keep secrets. Once trust is broken it becomes difficult to regain.
11) Always make foundation strong. Stay together. And keep your relationship healthy and strong.
Thanks NIDHI JAIN 🙏🏻🙂
Acceptance and forgiveness should be in greater amount in us. So that we always do the good without analysing that what our partner or in laws are doing or saying... We can't control someone's life and behavior. To live a happy always do your duty as a good human..
Great people never think about what they gave and what they lost... 😊
🙏🏻🙂
I think sasural walo ko ek comfort env dena chahiye..ye mere sath hota ki expectation mujhse bahot hoti h lekin kbhi mein expect nhi kr skti...mother in law mujhe and mere husband ko bahar nhi jane deti sath me..itni strictness ki ghutan hoti h🙏 mene bhi kuchh socha nhi tha jane se phle...
Mam meri bhut jald shadi hone wali h aur maine ye thumbnail dekhkr video dekha ,aap bahut achhi aur knowledgeable video banate h jo logo k liye bhut helpful hote h ,mai god se prey krta hu ki apko hamesha salamat rakhe ,you are such a great person 🙏🙏👍
Namaste, ma'am.
Priority attached by each partner towards the other may need to be the 1st point. Next comes communication. Efforts of one partner to know the other better must be reciprocated in absolutely clear terms. Neither will wait indefinitely for the other to respond in a positive manner; this may be construed to be lack of interest in developing the relationship and will have very long term effect. Opaque or casual responses at this time will have a lasting effect on the relationship. Both partners have to communicate with complete openness; questions need to be asked and answers need to be given in a friendly way by each partner, to sincerely try to know more about the other.
I'm newly married we will definitely watch tonight di.
😲Baap re baap married life mein itni problems hoti hai mujhe nahin karna shaadi 😂 Aaj mummy ko bolunga ki mere liye koi ladki ne dhund
Isse bhi lakh Guna zyada 😅
Ulta married life achi hain
Meri saddi 18 Jun 2021 huai...lekin mujhe bahut acchi sashural mili hai.husband bahut hi gusse wale hai but jaldi hi man jate hai....thanks mam 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻very good
बहुत बढ़िया... ढेर सारी शुभकामनाएं!
Shuru shuru mein esa hi lagta hai
Mam you are doing a grand job...
Now a days today's generation needs this...
Thanks BABITA PADHI 🙏🏻🙂
I will be married on 21 feb.thank you your precious advice.
बहुत सारी बधाई👍🎉🎉🎉
@@MonicaGuptaThank you mam.
Mere bestie ki bhi 21 Feb ko h mrg 🥰
💐
@@Bawramann12congratulations bolo mere taraf se 🎉🎉
I am newly married girl (1 month ).... Mam... Aapne jo v btaya sach me bahut hi sahi btaya... Starting wali mistake to maine v 1 month se kiya h... Esliye Mai aapke baato se puri trh se agree hu... Mere andar v kafi inmaturity bhari h.. par mere husband bahut samjhdar h.. and bahut mature h... Aapne jo jo bat samjhayi wo v mujhe ye sab samjhate h... aapka ye video mere liye kafi informative rha... Mai aaj se hi apna relationship me kafi changes Lana suru krungi.. or apna relation best banaugi..🥰🥰🥰
thank you so much mam tqs a lot from bottom of my heart... 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
Maine bhi 2nd month me husband pr chilla diya..... Ab bahut sochti hu. ...
Sab sahi h ab.. But mujhe lgta h ki hmne sab kharab kr diya sasural me. I
🙄
Mam joint family mai kaise adjust kre ispr ek vedio bnaye
Hello mem namaste
Meri shaadi Abhi 1 mahine pehle hi hui h
Aapki video bhaut helpful h hm Jaisi new married couples k liye
Thankyou for this video 😊
थैंक्स।बहुत सारी बधाई👍😊
Thank you so much mam for your Advice ... Aapne bahut aache se samjhaya bilkul maa ki tarha. I love you so much mam.... mai puri koshish krungi apne aap ko change krne ki 🙂 apki ye Advice mere bahut kaam aaegi... 😗😗
😊👍🙏💐
Mam meri saas sasur se bhut achi banti hai but husband se ni ban pa ri n husband ko chid hoti hai ki unki mummy muje jada q pasand karti hai.. he is only child n I think he is jealous of me😂😂
U lucky
Mam apki saari baate mujhe bahut achi lagi agr ye sare couple follow kre toh life me 💯 koi problem nhi ho skti ...ye hme lgta hai Mai kosis karugi apni Shaadi k bd ye rule follow kru ...😍
Yes me 2
Na teri shaan km hoti
Na tera rutba kam hota
Jo gussa me kaha tune
Wo haskr kaha hota❤️
🙏🏻
absolutely right mam ,but reality me ye savi points kisi marriage me nhi milta mam..
Mai khud ko badalne ki kosish karti hoon.🙂 Pehle mai nahi karti thi.😐
और आप कर भी सकती हैं बखूबी👍😊
@@MonicaGupta aapka haath rahe sar par..🙏
Hii mam, God bless u ❤ mam. Your way of taking so impressive 😍 u teach everything like a mom.. Luv u mam ❤
Thanks a lot
Thanks too u mam.
I love watching your videos, it helps me to improve myself and focus on things I should work on.
Things said by you are simple and logical, unfortunately somewhere down the line couples don't follow basic and gets way to emotional to small things like Who said what even after many years brings dead matters from past which has no relevance to current matter and things gets escalated.
You are making really nice videos. Keep it up your good work, Thanks
Mam ap ek dam maa ki trha samjhate ho 🤗
Lagraha hai ki mere hi bat ho rehi hai...Mere sadi v abhi 7 months hi hue hai....Thank u so much mam😊
💐😊
Husband kabhi wife ki mummy papa ko apna nhi manta & jubki wife sas sasur Ka apna maan leti h
Ek or Baat Hus. Kahte h tumhari mummy,, tumhare Papa,, tumhara bhai,, etc. jubki wife humesha ye hi kahti h mummy ji ,,,papa ji etc.
जी होता है अक्सर
Haa abilkul yar,, jabki unka bhi farz bnta jyada n toda sa hi
Sahi baat h😌😌
I am waiting for your sweet n smooth advice mam 😊
Thanks Rajalaxmi Mohapatra 🙏🏻🙂
Mam can u suggest what to do if a wife demanding much money in this covid situation where pay is still cutting...for her sisters wedding...all gold things,,she said if she not gifted...sasural Walon ko represent karige to mayaka wale dekhne....jabki sasural mein koi ni hai..😀.just saying husband earning is more,but much salary goes in debt.🙏...
Mam ab little doubt ho Raha hai ....ladki ne paison ke liye hi Shadi ki hai..
आपकी बातें बहुत बहुत बहुत प्यारी लगी आप और आपका परिवार सदा खुश रहे
🙏🏻🙂
Thanks for sharing a such ground level knowledge.
So nice of you
Mam, aap bhut hi aache se samajate ho
I love ur all videos .......
Thanks dhruvin bhatia 🙏🏻🙂
Mam meri sister ki abi shadi ho ne wali he wo kafi dari sehmi si rhti he ki pta nhi uske sasural wale kaise honge wo waha naye ghar me naye logo ke bich khud ko dhal payegi ya nahi uski arranged marriage he wo uske pati ko bi bilkul nahi janti uske bare usko kuch v pata nahi he wo n hmesa darti he ki shadi ke bad kya hoga
Very nice 👍 thanks Di💞
Dono ko understanding hona chahiye phir baat banegi..
agar akali wife jayda samaj jaye tou bhi theek hai..
Kyonki wife akali hai or dusri taraf poori ki poori teem hai jinka mindset same hai !
So women can you show the single person wisdom ? Go for it.. you can do it.
Vaise bhi acting ka zamana hai ❣️
🙏
❤️💚❤️aap jaysa bata rahi h same mera sath aysa he ho raha h .1 year hua nhi h or Mai husband ko pura tarah se samajh nhi payi .utna hamlog me baat nhi hota.husband khud sab kuch puchenge tab na Mai apne bare bataungi ....
AWESOME Speech evey married couple should watch this
I relate my life. Meri shaadi ko 5 years ho gye h. Abhi tk hota h kha tak adust kru.
Hey bhawna ji
Mam please ek vedio bnaya ki husband wife ko futures plans aur married life kasa set kra please btaya mam???
Respect from Pakistan 🥰🥰 your explanation way is very nice 👍 extremely need your vedio and very effective contents
🙏😀
Thank you mam meri shadi April main h mene bht kuch sikha hai
बहुत सारी बधाई आपको 💐👍
comgrats...meri bhi aprail me h
Hello Mam Aapke aapke video dekhe bahut impress hue mai .. After marriage muje bahut help karega Thanku👍😍
Mam sasural me koi nhi smjhta ki comfortable manage kr rahi ya nhi
Very nice mam 💞👍
कौन नही समझता ? वजह क्या है ??
Mam exam hone wala hai mera koi na koi aaker rehne lagte hai akele sara dekhta padta hai usme sasu ma hr chij ke liye comments krti hai thoda bhi nhi smjhti joki mai sara kam or khana timely bna deti
Mai padhaii ke sath sath parivar ko bhi time deti hu yaha 1 bje raat tak jage rahenge let se sote isse or problem hoti
Kuch smjh nhi aata kaise padaii kru
आपके पति का क्या कहना है ???
@@MonicaGupta husband kuch nhi bolte kehte hai aapko parivar or padhaii dono dekhna hai mere pass capacity nhi hoti jb jyada kam kr leti hu toh padhaii me mann nhi lagta so jati hu😔
Thank u ma'am 😊aapki baate sun kr bhot sukoon milta h
Sahi kaha mam koi baat bigad jaye to banda ek month tk baat nhi krege bolte h aisa nature h mera..
जी
Bahut hi accha....👌👌..jese ki aap badi bahan ho....hamari....love you didi...❣❣
U r my guide my for my future happy married life ty so much for teaching me this important thing
Hii
Best guidelines
🙏
Your video is very helpful 👍. Thank you so much mem🙏🙏
Super... Mem baht ache se smjaya aapne ....❤️
धन्यवाद रेखा😊👍
You keep balance between tradition and modern view
Will be married on 19 April
Thanks mam nice line🥰🥰🥰
बहुत सारी बधाई🎉🎉🎉
@@MonicaGupta thanks mam🙏👍
Thank you so much mam for the great advice👌👌👌💖
🙏🙏
Wow mam ..... really helpful for me👏👏
Glad to hear that
Thank you mam very helping vdo every new couples
Thank you so much Ma'am! Please keep supporting me similarly.
Ma'am aapke saare videos relate karti hu...soch rahi hu yahi video nau saal pehle sunn liya hota ..toh aaj situation alag hoti hai...apne 3 years pehle hi upload kia he😢
🙏🏻
Thank you, madam for guidance...
Awesome advice mam...
Khul kar baatchit donone karni chahiye na mam...agar bas ek khulkar baat kr rahi hu or husband khulkar baat nhi karte ...bas Hamari khulkar kahi batonka exactly opposite kre to kya karna chahiye?
आप वजह देखिए कि क्यों बातचीत नही होती...
Shat shat naman
Mam u r doing a great job..
It is the biggest social service
Thanks drshaival 🙏🏻🙂
Awesome advice
Good advice ma'am.....thank you..for your valuable information....
👍😊
Bhot acha explain karte ho ap 👌👌
बहुत अच्छे से समझाया है आपने
धन्यवाद मेडम
Shadhi ka toh pata ni mame but
Jankari honi chahiye thanks mame
Superb..thank u so much Ma'am
wow really decently conveyed the ideas, lovely monica ji.
Mam aap Jo bhi advice deti he vo best he
Bahut acchha.
Thank you Mam.. Bless 🙏all
Tq mam apki tips sun k mujha bhot acha feel aaya 🤗🤗
Thanks Señorita RajputaNi 🙏🏻🙂
Really motovating thanks mam..
Absolutely great video🙏🏻
Thank you 🙌
Haa mam hamaeri shadi ki baad nanad ney conflict created kiya aur ab 10yr hogai per sàs pati mujhe galt hi samajtey hai aur pati rahety hI mere sath per kuch na boltey hai Aur khuch batatey hai.... Mai bahut try karti hu ki normal behave karney ki per pati kuch nhi aur jada duaman ki taraha rahey tey hai diii😌😰 bus two children k wastey sab kuch bardaash kaarti hu.... Meri mummy papa ki bhi halaat financial tik nahi hai bahut bejathi kartey hai pati.... Saas 24 hrs phone karti hai aur sab galat baat merey bare may bolti hai husband ko.... Aur wo unka sun kar mujhe bahut daatey hai
Thanks mem.. mem mujee app ka video accha laga ❤️👍🙏🙏👌
Bhut acha boli h MDM mere sashural me h thanks 🙏
Awesome Guidance mam👌👌
मैम मोनका जी आप बहुत अच्छी तरह से समझाती हो 🙏🙏धन्यवाद आप बहुत अच्छी बतें बती हो💐💐👌👌👌💖💖💖💖👍👍👍💐
Meri shadi hone wali h
Aapki videos se mujhe bhut himmt milti h 😊
बहुत बहुत बधाई 💐
@@MonicaGupta Thank you mam
Very nice mam ji aapke smjane ka trika bahut acha lga
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
@@MonicaGupta mam ji baar baar ek he chiz k baare m sochna es pr ek video bnao plz aap jo smjati h bahut ache se smj aati h
My wedding is on 14th May 2022,thanks for the video
Thankk You Soo Much ma'am 💓 😘
😊🙏
Your jus awesome. I wished I would have watch it before marriage
कोई बात नहीं.. जो हुआ सो हुआ...
Hello Mam..
Meri three months phle shadi hui hai lekin jaisa aap bta rhe h video me kuch ladai jhagdo or 2no ke egoes or husband ki family ki burai krnese husband k man ne bht man mutav hogya h.. but muje shadi k bad aake pta chala ki mere mother in law depression patient h or bht tokti h sb chijo ko leke..
Isliye me upfront apne husband ko bolti hu.. but unhe bura lgta h or in wjah se hmara relationship kharab hotha h ladai hoti h 1 week tk 1 dusre se baat ni krte.. usme kya Krna chahye please help me please
Thank You 🙏😊
🙏👍
Thanks man very nice s🥰uggestion
👍
Lovely mam sari bate important h, Janna samajhna bhutt jaruri h,, tq🍫🤗😘😘love u mam
😊
Mam aap bhutt Acha kaam krr Rhee hain.....
You're so welcome!
Very informative video👌❤️
🙏
My wedding is on 29 Nov and guess what? YT suggested me this video.😂
Thanks 😊 you so much mam or this motivation speech
Excellent 👌 explanation mem..
Husband ke liye hum apna sab kuch chod kr aae ,unke liye kitna b krlo ek zagda hone pr wo sab kuch Bhool jate hai aur aise behave karte hai ki hum unke life me koi important nahi rakhte aur life me hai ya nahi aise na bat na call na msg agr dur honge to ,kya kare 😕
Very helpful video
Glad you think so!
Aapny mam bhut auchi jankari btai I hope jo new log ho jo ni huye ho un sb ky bhut auchi jankari apny btai thank you mam
🙏🙏
Only fools get married. Nobody needs anybody. Everybody is already good on their own.
Marraige is beautiful.. family is everything
Ok so you are not greatful to your parents for getting married 🤔
Monika mam GM 🙏 ,mam Mari sadhi 23/02/023 ko hone wali hai so Mane aapke video se bahut kuch shikha hai so that's for you mam ❤️ se 🙏🌟🌟
Very helpful Ma'am
Aapki guidance hmare liye bahut important hoti hai Ma'am
😊👍
hello monika mam I really love your vedios and voice ...you are so much talented
Thank you so much 😀
Mam sach Mai ap bhut Achi bati baati ho sach Mai bhut Kuch sechni ko milta hai 😘☺️☺️👌
Well said surely will follow these tips thank you ma'am
Thanks Amreen Fathima 🙏🏻🙂
Bahot accha laga
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