i also have a fear of abandonment, but for me, instead of stopping myself from getting close to others, i try to hold onto them as tightly as i can and end up pushing them away in the process. we all have dumb things our minds do, but i hope you're able to find someone who makes you feel like they arent going to run away. everyone deserves someone who they can be their entire self with
Thank you for sharing this. It’s refreshing to see someone open up so authentically. And I’m sorry that someone you felt you loved treated you so poorly. You are very pretty and have a great personality, so I am sure you would make a good man very happy one day.
Yeah you right Ren dou shi fuzz de..but never loose hooe because I do admire someone with brains…is not easy to find but not hard to get…you have skills that not even me might have, makes you special person…many people so busy schechules missed the importance in life and can not see pass a good moment or even a good person. I always admire how smart you are with great skills…
I am not the one you are talking about in the video. But when I lived in Beijing I talked to you on dating app, you said you were really interested in poetry but when I talked about it you seemed not to want to say anything. I found this video today and realized it was you.
Come to Shanghai. I can help. 😂 But no, you make a good point. Before I came to China, I was talking with a girl from Hong Kong. For some reason after hanging out for a month of going on steady dates, she ghosted me out of the blue. That was the sign for me that I should take this job and move overseas.
@@LearnChineseWithDolores Well if we were on a date, for example walking along the beach after dinner, and I held you close, and put my hand on your cheek, and spoke your name softly into your ear, that would mean I like you very much.
If you ever visit San Francisco in the near future, I would love to meet you. I would ask to be your bf for at least one day. Try me out! At the very least, I will play guitar and sing songs for you. :)
i also have a fear of abandonment, but for me, instead of stopping myself from getting close to others, i try to hold onto them as tightly as i can and end up pushing them away in the process. we all have dumb things our minds do, but i hope you're able to find someone who makes you feel like they arent going to run away. everyone deserves someone who they can be their entire self with
Thank you for sharing this. It’s refreshing to see someone open up so authentically. And I’m sorry that someone you felt you loved treated you so poorly. You are very pretty and have a great personality, so I am sure you would make a good man very happy one day.
Thanks so much!
Don't let fear hold you back! Be brave and be confident!
别难过呢，老师。身体健康最重要。您真漂亮也有才能。可能很快有一个男人好好珍重您
Be Strong 💪💪💪
(I’m a newbie😅)
Yeah you right Ren dou shi fuzz de..but never loose hooe because I do admire someone with brains…is not easy to find but not hard to get…you have skills that not even me might have, makes you special person…many people so busy schechules missed the importance in life and can not see pass a good moment or even a good person. I always admire how smart you are with great skills…
Laoshi : A person who loves you will never tell you because he can't bear to be rejected by you
I am not the one you are talking about in the video. But when I lived in Beijing I talked to you on dating app, you said you were really interested in poetry but when I talked about it you seemed not to want to say anything. I found this video today and realized it was you.
@@AndrewBirse maybe because I’m not really familiar with English poetries. Sorry about that.
@@LearnChineseWithDolores Still really cool to see you here though. Would like to know more about your journey.
@@AndrewBirse ok! I’ll try to post more of journey
@@LearnChineseWithDolores Or just tell me directly.
@@AndrewBirse how😂
对, 有时很复杂的！ 😔
妳的诚实我欣赏。这些男生可能是三分热度。道理讲很有意思。feel free to correct my grammar. I hope I said it right
很多男人要跟你在一起，例如我，
多男人不是勇敢的。
I feel that
Come to Shanghai. I can help. 😂 But no, you make a good point. Before I came to China, I was talking with a girl from Hong Kong. For some reason after hanging out for a month of going on steady dates, she ghosted me out of the blue. That was the sign for me that I should take this job and move overseas.
Wow! Hope you feel better and find someone who will never do that to you.
祝你早日找到好归宿❤
你只要找奔放就行，他单身还有有钱，你还是应该考虑吧
Don't change your God-given nature for a man. If you are passionate and loving and the man leaves, he is not the right one for you.
@@francismaloney7081 你还是在公共评论上说出来吧，你发了这种的答案给我干嘛呢？
😂😂😂😂
Dolores, why are you so cute and smart? What does it mean if I whisper your full name softly in your ear?
What does it mean? 😂 I’m not that smart to understand 😆
@@LearnChineseWithDolores Well if we were on a date, for example walking along the beach after dinner, and I held you close, and put my hand on your cheek, and spoke your name softly into your ear, that would mean I like you very much.
If you ever visit San Francisco in the near future, I would love to meet you. I would ask to be your bf for at least one day. Try me out! At the very least, I will play guitar and sing songs for you. :)
Wow that is such a poignant video you made