This date was a DISASTER. (story 47)
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- Welp... Things are not going as planned. Life as a solo female van lifer has its struggles, including dating break downs, and the general chaos of life on the road.
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Wife passed a few years back, just now getting to where I can sit down alone in a restaurant and not feel too weird about it.
itll get there took me a while myself
Bless you!
Mourning loss, takes so many shapes. Salute to you being comfortable...with you, wherever you find yourself.
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There is no time limit when healing me to hun still hard to be without...xoxo
There is no time limit when healing me to hun still hard to be without...xoxo
@Joelmopar
I lost mine a year ago Sept 21. I’ve never dealt with such a loss. I understand and know what you’ve gone thru. I’m praying for ya brother!
Happy 2 year anniversary with Rio! Love that you saved her life. She watches your every move and must be such a joy to have around.
My ex-wife abandoned me and our daughter who at the time was only 9 years old. As a single parent I had no problem devoting my time to raising her. Now that she’s older I frequently find myself alone. I have not dated since my ex-wife left. I don’t have the courage to go out and eat alone or go to the movies. I applaude you for having that courage.
Go for it… live
Edwin I was so moved by your post I felt compelled to respond...... I know how incredibly difficult it is to meet a nice lady as we move into middle age.... especially going out alone as a man b/c of a perceived "Creep" factor..... I find when you go "Out" & the sole objective is meeting someone it's incredibly stressful b/c it creates so much pressure & who can act natural under those circumstances so seek to eliminate those conditions.....
Something that worked for me was donation Charity.... Pick one or two local Charities or perhaps an Art Museum or a local University, Hospital or Church & make a small monthly donation & you will often be invited to fund raisers, balls, dinners & so on.....
This is a fantastic way to make new friends & meet single / divorced women on a comfortable footing..... First, it's a great cause & your motive for attending is altruistic so it's a Natural conversation starter - ie.... how did you get involved w/ Children's Hospital of Philadelphia or what inspired you to get involved w/ the Philadelphia Museum of Art.....
Another excellent opportunity is signing up to learn a particular type of Dance: Ballroom Dancing, Salsa, Samba & so on...... The reason this is such a good possibility is b/c the instructor will often offer to do Group lessons by Age category & Skill level so there are always singles who come alone & a "beginners course is very low impact & the teacher will match everyone w/ a partner RANDOMLY - so there is No pressure
Signing up to learn a Foreign Language or a Book club are also Excellent opportunities
If you are truly brave - beginners Yoga is a similar construct
Another opportunity is over the internet you can search for Group events like Movies or Hiking or Casino trips or Biking......
& finally much like Charity involvement , you can Volunteer - local Churches & Hospitals often organize events or drives to help Homeless different seasons / struggles or if you are more of an animal person perhaps you can volunteer a few hours a week a week or month at a local animal shelter
If you are involved in business in any way a Great way to meet people & connect is through the the local chapter of the Chamber of Commerce chapter...... Chamber of Commerce provides Innumerable opportunism to meet & connect w/ the most diverse group of people you can possibly imagine
No mater which direction you choose, I know from personal experience that the MOST difficult obstacle is choosing just One & getting started....... So pray for Grace & Courage & I'll do the same
I wish you the very best & Always remember when that Fear grips you that there is a shortage of Good, Family first men out there - so these wonderful single / divorced ladies WANT to meet you & build a friendship & the Romance & Chemistry requires no effort on your part b/c when it happens nothing can stop it & when it's absent nothing can manufacture it 😁😁
@@jackzeldon2883 Great ideas!
Edwin,
I’m in the same boat. I go to a card game twice a week. You should try something like that. I get a real high from it.
I start with, going to the movies first. Book your ticket online. Show up, get scanned in. Theater is dark. No one fusses.. Presto you did! Your first outing All By Yourself.
Who knows. You might meet someone afterwards.. just linger about a bit.
I just discovered you on TH-cam and boy am I glad I did. You are wise beyond your years. I just love Rio and had no idea about her story. One would never guess she was in such poor condition. The two of you are thriving together!! Xoxo
Yes, her and Rio make a good team. I like their relationship.
Your date was beautiful, witty, creative, poetic, and honest. I would call that a success! 🏆😉
So relate to your relationship with Rio. Sometimes life brings a dog in to your life that is destined to be with you. It is magic and a blessing.
I agree!! We are blessed to have fur babies in our lives. 💕
I LOVE going on dates with myself! I often go to the city just to see around bookstores and streets and eat by myself and people watch. NOTHING to be ashamed about! What a beautiful place you´re at!
Hannah Montana is that you girl? ☺️
I prefer going I a bookstore alone. I read in a quite place. It's a great stress relief.
LOVE that you took yourself out on a date. Do that often. ❤
You wasn't alone you took everyone of us with you!
weren't*
True.
Stop simpin
@@youareindenial4413 some men are so thirsty arent they.
I feel company whenever I read comments online, doesn't exactly mean I'm not alone.
I thought I was the only "people watcher" glad I'm not alone. I myself live alone and can relate to a lot of the personal issues you've dealt with. Enjoy watching all your videos!
Remember, your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth..Follow your heart and do the things that make u happy..🙏💙
She did follow her heart & it brought her disaster.. the Bible says “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” Jeremiah 17:9 ❤️ Follow Jesus Christ, there’s Hope & Life in Him 💝 there’s a empty void in us only He can fill.
@@UhOhStevie lol oh good lord (pun intended) .... If you disagree with the way she lives her life, why watch? Or is it bc you're using the excuse that you're here to evangelize? Just to hopefully "plant a seed" for you.... here are some things I learned after leaving evangelicalism: My heart is not wicked, it is not deceitful, I am not broken, I am worthy, I am whole, and I am enough.
@@amberwentwhere Wise response to an unwelcome proselytizer.
@@UhOhStevie pfft
@@amberwentwhere it wasn’t hate speech, I was spreading life & hope in this fallen world🕊 What Jesus offers us is so much more than the world ever could, & what He offers is eternal life. God has so much love for us!
Hope your channel grows. Not only do you present your content in a unique way, but you seem like a genuinely good person.
She's beautiful outside and inside too.
I lived on the road a long time doing van life before van life was cool, only my van had 18 wheels. Ive done things alone, but to experience something and share that experience with someone else is not even comparable. After years of being alone and unable to throw myself into work (due to a work related injury 2 years ago) to forget im alone, its wearing on me. Thank you for sharing your adventure, i may have not been there to share dinner with you, but i enjoyed eating with you. Stay safe!!
thank you for all that you did for Rio. two beautiful souls exploring nature together 😊
You are both adorable and blessed. I didn’t know Rio her story but she’s one happy dog now !
Thnx for sharing 💕
So I’m an over the road truck driver and I find myself being very hard on myself. At times I am my own worst critic. I recently found your channel because of a recommendation from TH-cam on the trucks tab, and I’m so glad I did. You have touched on some of the struggles I’ve had out here on the lonely road. I wish you well on the road and safe travels.
Wow Alyssa, this video made me smile. I am so happy to see a young lady have the confidence to share a personal experience like this with strangers. Your truly an AMAZING young lady!
Well said Ralph 👍🏻
Stop simpin
Great to see you’re enjoying central Oregon and all the amazing things this area has to offer!
The story on Rio was sad, yet so amazing to see her running around! Glad you took yourself on a date, YOU DESERVE IT!!
After divorcing it took me a while and quite a bit of courage to be comfortable having adventures by myself. Now I do what I want and when. I’ve even traveled internationally by myself and the feeling of empowerment is amazing. Go girl.!
Congratulations on your two year anniversary with Rio! Today marks two years with my two rescues, Sid and Lucie, who have truly saved my life. I don't know where I would be without them. Here's to many more happy years with you and your gal! ❤️
Thanks for sharing! Bachelor is one of my favorite places on earth : ) This was the first summer in years I didn't make it over there...it was nice to see it through your journey. Thanks for sharing!
You looked glorious on your date (as always) and I agree with your sentiment that there is too much societal pressure to be part of a couple - it pushes people into unhealthy relationships a lot of the time and thwarts ambition. It happens when it happens...until then just keep living your best life ❤
I'm sure if her "date" was a bad boy then she would fall head over heels for him.
Brighter days ahead girl...youre soo ahead of the game when it comes to emotional intelligence and self awareness. You are a treasure
How so? She's just bragging about her single life in order to conceal her real feelings of being alone.
Glad you worked out the mechanical issues , not knowing is never good. You picked out a great dress. Plus the dinner was so special. So happy for you that your enjoying you and the life you've created.
I have just watched some of your videos for the first time. Thank you so much for sharing so much of your life. I am really enjoying listening to you and hearing of your trials and tribulations. I am looking forward to viewing more.
It was fun seeing you up at Mt Helen's. Oregonian here...Amazing seeing how life rebuilds after such tragedy. I remember the day she blew and watched from my grandparents yard in Milwaukee ontop of the hill. Haven't been up there since my early 20's and have been recently talking about going so seeing this really excited me. Definitely want to go to the restaurant, looked wonderful.
I lived in Bend and moved away in 1998 because it got to big and busy for me. It is truly beautiful around there but too many people, traffic. I now live in Joseph, Oregon in a town of 1000 people and not a single stop light in the county. How nice. I hate stop and go traffic. Like Colorado here in Joseph with tall mountains, a big beautiful lake on the edge of town. Alyssa, you handled your bus problem wonderfully. Fun to see your other side. Also fun to go with you on the date and also see beautiful South Sister from the lake. Thanks for sharing.
But, it WASN’T a disaster…you had a lovely time!!! And I sure enjoyed watching, as usual!!! Thanks for always taking us there with you!!
Right but people click quicker for... Disaster! 🙀
Then it all worked out fine😍👌👍
Thank you for the video. I love the "love lesson", sometimes the simplest of answers can fix the biggest issues.
It makes me very happy to know that you decided to do something for yourself, you deserve it. I think you should also consider a Spa day for yourself. That meal on top of the mountain looked fabulous, and healthy and delicious.
New fan. Great video. Keep up the good work. Retired early (53) and getting into the Overlanding/Van life.
Dine by yourself after a chairlift ride - good for you! Looks like a nice dinner. Your dress is fantastic. I'm happy for you that you did that. So...your date wasn't a disaster! About Rio - you really did give your dog a whole new life. Glad your electrical issue was solved. Cheers. As I've said in the past, your bus interior is really so impressive.
Farm raised Salmon is a disaster- big time. Trust me on that one. Quite toxic. I study nutrition for years and you can take what I say to the bank.
Alyssa,
Your videos are truly amazing. I’m living vicariously through your journey. Thank you for bringing a smile to the viewer’s hart.
My wife passed away in 2004. Sometime I sit in restaurant by my self and take long drive to. It’s so relaxing that I sat at the beach eating fruit and enjoying the ocean breeze.
Love rio & may you both always be safe & blessed on the road 💞
Stunning simple dress worn by a Stunning brave woman! Rio thought her Mama looked awesome too! Enjoy Descend on Bend Alyssa!
I love the concept of a solo date and you looked amazing 👏
Men are terrible, we don't need them.
Alyssa, I wouldn't say that was a disaster, but rather some glitches overcome and the date was stunning. You looked so great in the simple dress, so beautiful. I liked what I felt in this video as you enjoyed your alone time, that you are comfortable in your own skin and your relationship with yourself. I loved the happy, contented look on your face! Good luck with the repairs, God bless you and keep you safe and happy 💖🙏
OMGGGGG I HAD NO IDEA YOUR DOG WAS IN THAT KIND OF SHAPE BEFORE YOU GOT HER
THANK GOD YOU RESCUED HER. OMGGG BLESS YOU FOR GIVING HER A LOVING,NURTURING HOME. SHE SO DESERVES IT AND YOU SO DESERVE HER. AS I SEE ,YOU GUYS BRING SO MUCH LOVE AND JOY TO EACHOTHER'S LIVES.
LOVE YOU BOTH AND GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU BOTH HAPPY AND SAFE ALWAYS. XOXOXOX
CHEERS TO A LONG AND HAPPY LIFE TOGETHER
LOVE YOUR ATTITUDE AND OUTLOOK ON LIFE. YOU ARE AN INDEPENDENT SECURE YOUNG WOMAN. YOU WILL MEET YOUR PRINCE CHARMING AND HE WILL MEET HIS PRINCESS. I LOVE HOW YOU DO ALL THE THINGS PEOPLE DO WITH A PARTNER. I BET MOST PEOPLE WISH THEY CAN BE LIKE YOU. NEVER CHANGE.
Haven't been on youtube in a while but so happy to see you as my first recommended video when I logged on! Glad to see you are doing well, despite some hiccups. Love you and sending all my love!
I love the way you are with Rio. I had to put my dog down 2 months ago and it’s exactly like a human loss. I still can’t see a dog without wanting to cry 😅 it makes me so happy to see you love Rio so much ❤️
Learning to go to restaurants and eating by myself was hard to do at first. Now I enjoy doing it, and I enjoy being alone also.
Wow you clean up so so beautifully you are so amazing describing going on a first date with you AND no your not alone,WE are with you too! You make my soul soar, I wish that I were out there investagating life already but I'm still doing my camper renovation and self resurrection but I will be out on my adventure soon. But your series is wonderful I am so glad I found you. And yes you should occasionally spray down relays and connections with battery connection cleaner, I also hade a Ford f 250 diesel dually and the relays have done me the same way honey so pls take time to clean and check all of your connections regularly (safe travels dear)
Thank you for sharing Rio's story. What a happy dog!! I love listening to your philosophy on life, you sound like an old soul in a young body. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful comments.
It's amazing how important it is to be able to "take yourself out". I think most people struggle with that and glad you showed you taking care of yourself! It took me a LONG time to feel okay with that and now I really enjoy it. Don't get me wrong I do like being with people - but it isn't needed.
Great story. It’s amazing how dogs become a important part of our lives. 😍
Rio’s face when you said you made a reservation for one. Haha so precious.
Love your videos, girl. Been binging them since I found you recently. Thank you for being so authentic and taking us thru your real life adventure. 🙏💕
Just from watching your videos and the way you and your pup are. I think some things are just really meant to be. And I think you two were meant too find each other at the right time. So a big happy anniversary to you both. All of life's best to you both.
I had the same electrical problem with my Suzuki for almost a year off and on. Mechanics kept telling me it was a loose terminal or that my battery was no good. Finally tracked down the relay connection problem myself. Good that you had a Ben to provide expertise.
I also travel alone a lot so take myself on "dates" and people watch. More common for people to do in diners and the like but taking yourself to a fancier restaurant hits a little different.
Great that you can love yourself and Rio.
You looked so pretty on your date! I started going on dates by myself too when my girl left me just a few weeks after my parents passed away early this year. If it's just you on a date it's a good place to think about things in peace. There's no shame in that.
So glad you saved your little dog. She adores you. New sub here. Love your channel ❤
Alyssa, lately I had watched some of your older videos from the first bus on the road adventures and you had a little chat with Philip and Lidia at TinyFest. Well I see Lidia put out a video very lately talking about her and Philip having parted ways. In my mind the last two and a half years have sure had a play in relationship problems and life stress as per so many loosing their jobs and financial struggles, the insane major increase in cost of living etc and its taken its toll on people. Another couple I just thought of or at least she ( Christian Schaffer ) living van life that has a channel, she and her boyfriend have parted ways a few months back. Two people living in a small space constantly 24/7 with no personal time to ones self could drive a person batty. Its probably why some couples who actually have the funds build a house and lets say a separate garage to tinker in with a rec room with facilities above that becomes the males "Man Cave" and can invite other guys over and so forth so the couple doesn't end up strangling each other !.
Relationships require work, sacrifice and sharing of all things physical, spiritual and economic. Thats why I'm happily single. I spend time doing everything I want, when I want and without worry over someone elses psychic troubles. Life is good!
@@douglasbruce6491 I never found the right person, oh sure she may be out there but the odds were against me in the fact of where I live and what I do for a career which doesn't fit the wants of a lot of women ( I grain farm ) and was never one who was out there searching ( so not into the bar scene at all ) and so the relationships were few and not the right compatibility to pursue a life long commitment with.
I think what a lot of people miss is that all relationships fail EXCEPT the last one. We keep working though people and situations until we finally find one that works. Most don't. But as you say, it takes a lot of sacrifice and a lot of work on both sides. One big thing is having the discernment to actually choose the right person. The other big thing is actually being the right person.
Well l can only speak as a married person of 14 years whose relationship started with someone in another country 3 years before that. Being separated by 1200 miles me London UK, my wife originally Bialystok Poland. It's the little things in life that make the relationship. Doing something for your other half. Sharing, caring, buying a simple bunch of Rose's. I unlike other men treat my wife with respect, buy her flowers once a week, or occasionally something more expensive bottle of wine, take her and the family out. Most men only buy flowers, chocolates, wine or theatre tickets when they have done something wrong. Why wait to do so.ething wrong do the right thing first. After three years of only seeing each other at holiday times and not originally having whatsapp only writing letters to one another. We got together. 3 months after that l proposed and we got married that was 14 years ago 12th July. Two years after that l got married again to the same person but In a Polish church on the 12th August just because we could. Sometimes your have to give a little to take a little and lock down and covid was a huge step back. So many people are Sueing the pharmaceutical companies and others for lick down in the US. But the uk we are not even though that was our one disagreement to have the vaccine or not. My wife didn't have the vaccine until she was forced by her employer to have it. I on the other hand have had numerous medical problems pluracy, sepsis and covid pneumonia all at the same time and covid very nearly killed me so l had the vaccine so far no side effects unlike others. So that was our one and only disagreement. In life it's what you make of it. I am not religious, my wife is does it matter not really. So you just have to be who you are, where you are and size of space doesn't matter if you truly love each other.
@@jonothandoeser Truth. I didn't find my person until I was 31. I had so many friends by then that had already gotten divorced. It was when I finally resolved myself to just concentrate on myself, learning what I truly wanted, being truly alone that I met my now husband. We've been married for 23 years so far.
I think of the millions of men who would have loved to have been there to enjoy your company. I live full time in my 38 footer and enjoy my solitude, but it does get lonely when dining out. Thanks for sharing!
A heart felt wonderful story and experience here and as always, I just love Rio and I am so happy You got Your bus fixed! God bless you both!
After finding you on TH-cam, I feel much better about sharing my weekends with my dogs and cat and nobody else ❤
Lyss, your complextion has sweetened out of self love. This signs you very lovable woman and a mother in a loving relationship.
I watched this video a few days ago and decided just to ponder it. Great job by the way in diagnosing the electrical issue, those are the worst and you got way WAY closer to the solution than pretty much any people I know who consider themselves mechanically inclined.
As for treating your single self kindly and respectfully, it looks like you are feeling a little bit lonely but still in a good place emotionally in life, having a dog really helps with centering us physically and emotionally. Great job again!
And now a little advice finding and keeping a partner. It's pretty simple, find someone who treats you lovingly with the same kindness, respect, admiration, and friendship the way you treat your wonderful furry friend then you will have a great life. Never settle for anything less. Be safe out there...
Rio is so lucky to have a mom like you.I'm glad you found each other. That date was just what you needed. Always take care of yourself. So happy you got the van issues fixed. Thanks for the ride along 😎
I've watched several of your videos here and there the last few weeks. Finally subbed. Of all the van lifers on youtube, I find your take on life in general, and the things that unfold, the most relatable. You don't try to sugarcoat the experience, while also balancing in the beauty and poetry of simply being alive and here to experience all of this. Great episode. Looking forward to sharing more adventures with you!
Loving yourself can be a challenge...... Also it can be the most rewarding.....Bless you Lyss.... :-)))
Seems like you and your dog are living you best lives much respect stay safe
I'm 65, been divorced 25 years. I do most things alone but have time with family and friends too. It does get lonely though
Just got back from a last minute three day trip to the beach, writing swimming beach glass search hammock painting movie lighthouse pier and beach walks, mass at local churches ~ very blessed and renewed
Hello Alyssa, I really look forward to your videos. You're an amazing inspiring beautiful woman. Although I've lost my dearest last December. Loneliness I endure regularly when home, you give me hope in mental peace when I follow you. Thanks Alyssa warm sincere greetings from Rockingham Western Australia.
Hello Alyssa, thanks for your reply, ain't sure what you meant by telegram.
I didn't know the back story on Rio I'm so happy you found each other and she's a happy healthy dog now God bless
Glad there was no disaster, love how you enjoying yourself and appreciating the romance that is while being hopeful of what's to come ;-)
Good for you! You took yourself on a date and it was a positive experience!
Thanks for sharing. I fell in love with my fiance when our little boy got sick. The challenge became the blessing. Thanks for sharing your experience with your dogs medical problem
I love your date dress, you look adorable 🥰
Very impressive attitude and perspective on life. Wish you all the best with your travels and finding that one persons to add new dimension to your life journey.
Your dog Rio was meant to be with you, I wish her many more years of happiness with her angel rescuer.
I love an Old fashioned as well, good choice, and my mouth was watering over that meal. We all need to treat ourselves once in a while and reflect on how good life really is.
Glad you found your electrical connection problem, those little things can create a lot of stress and it's nice to be able to reflect back that it wasn't as big of a deal as if felt at the time.
Good luck and safe journeys for you and Rio!
No shame in going on a date by yourself. That is the one person you'll have, no matter what. So you'll have time to get to know and love who you are. :)
BLESS you for saving Rio... she's BEAUTIFUL-- and wonderful bundle of love. Glad you have her with you on the road. I'm 67 now and in bad health-- and i get to LIVE that live- a little bit-- through YOU.. THANK YOU..
i’m 65 and do everything alone. i go camping alone but i bring comforts to enjoy. eating alone in restaurants is a favorite because i choose what i want and not worry about someone else’s pocket. it’s the freedom of go when you want and be responsible where you’re at.❤
Saving Rio was such a wonderful gift for both of you! two besties! I could not live without my dog kids
God you look great in that dress. Dont be critical of yourself. You're a cool person. Be content with all and who you are. Be good enough for you. Not everybody else. You have a lot to be proud of and thankful for. You make life an adventure as it should be. Thanks for sharing the beautiful Oregon scenery. Wish I was there.
Lyssa, you are an amazing person . You and Rio are so lucky to have found each other .Some of favorites dates and memorable moments have been when i was alone .Your someone is out there will enter your life when the time is right. Glad the issue with the van was a simple fix .
Life is challenging. Meeting someone of the opposite seems who you can connect with in these times is near impossible.
Was married to a very good woman that changed after marriage. Been divorced 12 years now. Went on dates with 4 women since. 2 of the 4 was 1 date. Latest was for several months, nothing of substance happened as we lacked a connection. Then the one I knew the longest and was interested in, revealed herself to be a waste of time.
If you feel something is off initially its probably best to move on and follow your own purpose. Society has seemed to made relationships deeply non-valued in today's world. Its sad.
Marriage and family were high priorities in my life trying to live by God's values. I feel that has passed me by at this point.
Hang in there Gary! All things are possible with God, I believe you can meet someone again! NEVER give up on your dreams.... if you are alive it's not too late!
@@krih8212 Well at 55 in feb a brain injury and fractured back in 3 places , having kids is pretty unrealistic. I've learned that dating with kids already isn't for me.
Keeping it real.
Your story is actually more common than you think. Your not Alone Bro. 👊👊
For those of us living in the battle grounds of this messed up society/culture relationships are at best impossible. There are many good people still around, just connecting is difficult. I'm puzzled by the nomads extremely lucky to be so far away from the nonsense, yearning for connection themselves. Relationships are give and take, up n df owns and helping to be best person one can be. Living in warped society it's difficult to see the reality cause how shaped we are conditioned. See a trend when man thinks God isn't related to anymore? Left to ourselves were chasing the wind wanting to be loved not actually knowing we are!
@@gma729 never claimed i was alone in situation. I said it was hard to find a match.
I enjoy your videos. They are moments of reflections for me in my life . Safe travels to you and your companion 🐕. God bless.
No disaster? Looked like a wonderful dinner date to me! Cool chair lift ride to enjoy an amazing dinner. What matters is you value yourself enough to just enjoy life, going anywhere, doing anything, not "needing" someone else along in order to do it. Except for the bus hiccup looked like a fabulous way to spend an evening.
Thank You for sharing parts of your travels. May you always be in Peace and remain safe. 🙏
I'm a decent guy and I can't even get a date.The bad guys get a chance,the good guys don't.
Nice guys finish last is not just a saying. Women, just like men, don't want a boring partner. They gravitate towards the "bad boys" because they like the excitement. If you had choice between a goody goody woman who is a teacher or a crazy girl who rides a motorcycle, which would you choose?
@@TonyMontanaDS Sorry mate ,I'd prefer the goody teacher lady.Im not in to tattoos on a women.I like a strait decent lady even if she is a bit hippyish,women who are gravitate towards a bad guy are dunb.And even decent guys can be interesting.thanks for your response, Peter Scott O'Donnell from Forster NSW Australia 👍
Women who go for the bad guys should ask them selves why?Dumb.
@@peterscottodonnell7290 Enjoy being single!
Ouch. The food looked amazing. I remember my journey with my dogs. I hope you find your 'peace/piece'.
As gorgeous as you are, I’m not sure how you manage to avoid/prevent/stay single. Love the videos.
Being single is a choice. One should not surrender one's sacred self solely to conform. One blossoms in self-love and has more to give when the "right" one enters one's life. Beauty can thrive in solitude and then can share more fully from the experience of self-growth. "Know thyself."
@@lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment 🙄
@@amylee6038 Fortunately, each person can take the path most appropriate for them. Not everyone values the same things. Not everyone's success is rooted in the corporeal. Namasté.
@@amylee6038 May I ask where is your country?
One thing I have learned in my life is that everyone, of all races and nationalities and ethnicities and religions, basically want the same thing. To love and be loved. For who they are, not what they are.
Many fall victim to the vagaries and illusions and distractions and outright lies of society.
Some few listen to a wiser and more loving and universal truth.
If you are happy, all is well.
Peace and blessings. Namasté.
@@amylee6038
Am I permitted to empathize with your past? Am I permitted to agree with many points you have raised? Clearly, another perspective is not welcome.
Peace and blessings.
An Old Fashioned and people watching, my kind of girl. And the rest of that dinner, OMG it looked amazing, especially with those views. Will definitely have to check out that place someday. As someone who was solo for a long time, don't worry about others, you do you and keep being your amazing self. Your power issue totally reminded me of my old '03 7.3L F250 solenoid ghost issues. Glad these obstacles don't stop you from doing what you love. Keep going! Sniffari - LOL, totally using that for our dog now.
I would say that date fully lived up to your expectations and you got everything out of it that you could have wished for: You looked absolutely stunning, ate some great food with fantastic vistas, and you walked home to your favorite companion.
Technically speaking that date was great. Not envious at all 😄
Truly you are absolutely adorable and when you find your soulmate he will be the lucky one, that find such a confident, capable beautiful woman.
Glad to hear you got that power issue sorted out. Check to make sure you have your shifter in the park position properly. I did the same thing and thought it was a bunch of other issues. Checked ignition, starter relay, starter etc. no start. It was partly in reverse so it would not do anything.
You are a very beautiful person. In more ways than one so I’m glad you’re enjoying your life on the road and I envy you, it sounds like so much fun. I can’t go on the road so I’ll continue to live it out through your videos,thanks for the view and sharing your life with us!
Looks like you and Rio were meant to be together! Thanks for helping her and giving her the life she deserves! Life holds many mysteries for those who follow their dreams like you do! I cannot wait for the next update and you make sure and stay safe on your travels!
Great channel. Love your videos. Thanks for sharing as your life unfolds.
To each their own, and I admire her uniqueness. A partner has both good and bad impacts, and same for them, you just have to be willing to give in and accept. I understand her love for her dog, I also find most love in my little dog too.
Great video Alyssa,
Glad you're feeling a bit better in yourself. Future reference, regards intermittent or sudden loss of power it's often a bad connection to the battery or similar, always a good place to start check all the connections starting with the battery and work your way down the line if you're able to. (I had same on my BMW thought was a major problem tuned out the ground wire was loose where it attached to the body of the car) miraculously found it myself as was stranded.. (bolts/terminals/plugs can work loose especially if you're going over rough terrain like you are).. Have a great week!
Cheers from London 👍😎🏴
I give you a lot of credit. I've been alone for 10 years and I don't go out alone when I should. So good for you being so brave.
Thank you for all your videos. I love the scenery on the road. And that beautiful dog. I just rescued a Lhasa apso two years ago. I love my little Sophie.
I have had many days that came to surrendering to self. Then start a new and exciting look into improving me and it was relaxing.
Ahhh the story of Rio,she’s a beautiful girl!! Glad your bus is good now and sooo happy to hear you went to Descend!! Enjoy ✌️🌼
You changed your dogs life to understanding love and trust. So great full you rescued her👍
we are all people watching.. so nice you could do this for yourself. Also appreciate those scenes with your fantastic dog... what a relationship!!!
What a wonderful thing you did saving Rio's life. So happy for both of you.
The hardest lesson in life to learn is to be happy in the moment. If you let the small stuff pile up and bother you, life becomes a disaster. Even the downside has silver linings! We NEVER grow without adversity.
Keep focusing on yourself Lyss, your growth, and becoming totally comfortable in your own skin and knowing yourself in all circumstances as a woman and a human being. That is what needs to come first in life not last like it does for many the way our culture is designed. Many people who live that "conventional life" you speak of......high school, college, get married, house, kids, career and build a life, retire, die.....get so caught up in trying to do what is "expected" of them that they fail to grow much beyond where they are in their early 20s. And many of them are miserable along the way yet will continue their patterns and life since they know nothing else and it is scary. They refuse to change because they feel that is what is expected of them by their family, friends, and culture in general. It is that "quiet desperation" and surface level "faking" of a fulfilled life and happiness that is very obvious to someone who has taken the time like you are doing to become their own person outside the conventional belief systems of our culture. To be honest, it personally almost makes me ill sometimes being around it being at my current point of life. I see it every day in people who are very old and yet still trying to figure these things out and have still not matured much past those early 20s years. Very sad. Ultimately though, know yourself, be yourself, and maybe the only thing worth sacrificing some happiness for in life is true unconditional love that is mutual and equial with another person. But you have to find that first which of of course is very much not easy in this day and age. That of course is a another conversation all together and could write a book. Either way, God bless you Lyss and Rio and keep doing what you are doing. You are on the right path even if you sometimes question it. How do I know? Humbleness where you are....quote from you: "I dont have the answers". That is an old soul statement because non of us do and the more we admit that fact the more we will grow trying to figure some of this all out instead of pretending we know it all.
Beware though of the people who profess to have all the answers at any stage of life. Often in the end they really have even less answers then most. Like what is wasting a life? GOOD QUESTION! Yet it is a common statement from people who are really jealous of people living outside of the conventional expect life within our culture. They are miserable and sad so they try to make others feel less to make themselves feel better. Just remember that if anyone ever tries to make you feel like you are less because of the life you are leading. God bless and safe travels,
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