It’s not toxic to ruminate on an unresolved issue. Things have to be processed or addressed whether with the individual or within oneself. Spiritual community gets caught up in calling anything that isn’t sunshine and rainbows toxic, which can be that in and of itself… (toxic positivity, which almost rejects anyone going through a thing or acknowledging the muck). Anyway. People don’t understand just how aware we are, nor what accepting all stages looks like. But everyone must process their crap for however long they need to (not feeling rushed by another). then one day they’ll decide on their own terms, “it is done!” Depends how many times a person showed a shitty character to a Pisces & how deep it went… we can be hurt for a few weeks, months, or just walk away cold and not think about you because we mourned the end during the relationship! -Pisces don’t cry in the way/for reasons those TH-cam astrologers claim we do.
It’s not toxic to ruminate on an unresolved issue. Things have to be processed or addressed whether with the individual or within oneself. Spiritual community gets caught up in calling anything that isn’t sunshine and rainbows toxic, which can be that in and of itself… (toxic positivity, which almost rejects anyone going through a thing or acknowledging the muck). Anyway. People don’t understand just how aware we are, nor what accepting all stages looks like. But everyone must process their crap for however long they need to (not feeling rushed by another). then one day they’ll decide on their own terms, “it is done!” Depends how many times a person showed a shitty character to a Pisces & how deep it went… we can be hurt for a few weeks, months, or just walk away cold and not think about you because we mourned the end during the relationship! -Pisces don’t cry in the way/for reasons those TH-cam astrologers claim we do.
Sounds like the rest of us. It's a form of release. Consider that a healthy thing most don't understand