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  • @ellaobans8727
    @ellaobans8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Mel-Phleg here, I used deny it but while researching for my book I published last year, I had to accept it because that's the first step to live above my temperaments.
    Thank you so much ma, this is comprehensive enough.🌹

  • @eyes9860
    @eyes9860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I’m definitely phlegmatic...in fact I’ve never ever heard a more accurate description of my personality and how I am inside. This is actually crazy spot on.

  • @korankyewaa247
    @korankyewaa247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you so much ma!
    Please we would like another version that teaches temperament compatibilities for marriage and teamwork. Thank you once again

  • @uncledotun
    @uncledotun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Read 'Why you act the way you do' by Tim Laye. He described the temperament nature of human very well.

    • @oluwasanmiidowu
      @oluwasanmiidowu ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The book changed my life. The blessed part is that the author kept emphasizing how important the Holy Spirit was for balance notwithstanding the temperament.
      God bless Pastor Mildred for doing a great job explaining this too.

  • @blessingsbelle7619
    @blessingsbelle7619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😆 OH BOY...VERY REVEALING! I LOVE HOW YOU USE SCRIPTURE TO DESCRIBE EACH TEMPERAMENT, & HOW YOU'VE LEFT US WITH HOPE VIA THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT. KNOWLEDGE OF TEMPERAMENTS, LIKE THE LANGUAGES OF LOVE IS GREAT ON PERSONAL & CORPORATE LEVELS. THANK YOU!!! 💃

  • @chidinmaoti8025
    @chidinmaoti8025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you ma for this message l have gotten so many revelations about myself@melancholy, yes ma carry everything on my head but the holy spirit is helping me reduce so many of this especially on the side of depression, and now l enjoy peace of mind despite everything and knowing fully well that perfection does not exist, thank you for this beautiful message and God bless you.

  • @aweleanigekwu8291
    @aweleanigekwu8291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I neva even watch am...I just Love Pastor M🤗...oya make I settle down watch am. Pastors K and M we love una for Connecticut oooo.. come and bless us here. You are welcome. My Pastor knows una but neva meet una!😊

  • @tomiwafaith
    @tomiwafaith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m definitely phlegmatic.. so calm & chilled. I don’t like problem or whenever people are upset too. I like to take things easy with no stress either

  • @agnesadeoye5418
    @agnesadeoye5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Melphleg please gather here😄😄😄😄

  • @florencenkiru7274
    @florencenkiru7274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My personality is melancholy
    Very well detailed message
    Thank you for sharing ma'am

  • @samgtabu
    @samgtabu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This teaching was so well delivered.

  • @patricia.nasike
    @patricia.nasike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "He that believeth shall not make haste" 😄😄😄😂 yesss.

  • @user-ur7km9fx2c
    @user-ur7km9fx2c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The way pastor M brings the bible home is for fantastic! The way she described the bible stories is just 👌

  • @ibfrancistoomuch7408
    @ibfrancistoomuch7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    When you train humans to understand human behaviors they’ll start living in peace

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brilliant message!!
    Love how she tied scriptures (with precision) to each temperament!!
    God blessed Pastor.K with this woman!!
    Pastor.M is another 5Bs woman {Born again; Baptised in the Holy Ghost; Beautiful; Brains; and Bonds well}.
    Who said 5Bs women no dey?
    Another proof that: you will find who you're looking for!!

  • @mimatakon1640
    @mimatakon1640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t wait 😇😇
    I’m a melancholy 🥰🥰

  • @Nuellalove
    @Nuellalove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I waited so long for this 🥺
    I’m phlegmatic btw

  • @amakachukwu2304
    @amakachukwu2304 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow 😲.. this is really me. Now I am sure I am a melancholy.

  • @faustinanyarkokoduah6634
    @faustinanyarkokoduah6634 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you woman of God

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greater you go mummy, I 'm melancholy you just preach me 😄💯 thanks

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m 100% Melancholic. My melancholic nature is also melancholic. 😊
    Perfectionist, excessive planner, organized, analytical, and with the help of the Holy Spirit, I am perfect in Christ. ❤

  • @VanEssa-el7so
    @VanEssa-el7so 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂 l now understand why l like sitting on the fence every time. 80% phlegmatic l remember the day l was forced to buy tickets to go to club l just agreed and bought the ticket(expensive) for peace to reign. l knew l was not going but l planned with them and went missing on the day. 🤣🤣🤣 l am always in trouble

    • @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz
      @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now I know why I procrastinate a lot🤔 and why I can please everybody and displease myself 🤦 #phlegmatic#

  • @nana_ama_rose
    @nana_ama_rose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way I condemn myself to God I think He is seeing me as Moses reincarnated 🥲.

  • @tehillarbanda1930
    @tehillarbanda1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Phlegmatic for life🤣🤣🤣peace!!

  • @chiomadayo-matt6901
    @chiomadayo-matt6901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So I've been a Melancholy all these years and thought I was sanguine. Thank you ma for opening my eyes

    • @TheHelpedWoman
      @TheHelpedWoman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol a sanguine and mel are opposites, how do you confuse that?

    • @uncledotun
      @uncledotun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everyone has a portion of each temperament. You can't be a full melancholy, sanguine, choleric and phlegmatic. Two of it that you developed will be dominant while the others will be recessive. Read this book by Tim Laye "Why you act the way you do". It will help you know how you relate with human.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uncledotun Yeah. And spirit controlled temperament by the same author🥰

    • @matildaafifetse2649
      @matildaafifetse2649 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @thelilinuel
    @thelilinuel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've been a little unsure about my temperament until today. She discribed me in minutes. I'm a proud Mel! Thank you Pastor M! ❤️

  • @BlessedLPT.
    @BlessedLPT. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Where are all my MelChors🗣🗣🗣

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazingly inspiring

  • @HikatekileTshimbana
    @HikatekileTshimbana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm definitely a melancholy!❤

  • @faustinangozichukwu1343
    @faustinangozichukwu1343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much ma

  • @demaestro012
    @demaestro012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am definitely a Phleg-Mel.

  • @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859
    @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm just laughing all through the video watching this woman describe my life in 30minute.

    • @esungebernice9973
      @esungebernice9973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I relate oh
      Mel for this life

    • @nnonyelugracechidiebere9703
      @nnonyelugracechidiebere9703 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mummy you are too good,I am a peaceful phlegmatic you really describe me,thank you for opening my eyes..

  • @IamTheRarestGem
    @IamTheRarestGem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am primary a Phlegmatic and secondary a melancholy.
    I can't understand why someone will not put things back in the place I put them in the first place. At home they think I am dominantly melancholy because of this 🙆🙆🙆
    "If you cannot do it the way I do then its not good enough." Is that a perfectionist there 🤔

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂 my children are tired of me already. No matter what i told them to do i will still do it all over again🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @IamTheRarestGem
      @IamTheRarestGem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@agnesadeoye5418 😂😂😂😂😂
      The Holy Spirit is working on me reminding me of our uniqueness and that we are not born knowing everything, we all learn and with time perfect our craft.
      I pray He helps you too.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamTheRarestGem Amen🙏🏾 Thanks for sharing🥰

  • @kemisjourney
    @kemisjourney ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Finally learning to accept my MEL-PHLEG temperament. Thank you PM ❤

  • @qmina1
    @qmina1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Originally Mel-Phelg ... now with a dash of Chol which I truly believe has been a blessing in balancing/strengthening my personality more 🤗

    • @joshuaadeolu5553
      @joshuaadeolu5553 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes exactly same here too. I was just saying now is it possible for one to have a bit of 3 temperaments. This is a lovely confirmation 😊

  • @patriciadavid7177
    @patriciadavid7177 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Phlegmatics would be plenty in the UK then. UK is Phleg country

  • @parbeyphyllis5590
    @parbeyphyllis5590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mum you are a gem 🤗🤗🤗full of grace and wisdom. More grace upon grace 😍much love Pastor M

  • @Emma4dfuture
    @Emma4dfuture 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Before I even begin to watch, let me just say that I was about checking for videos on temperaments. Then I was about checking PK's channel. Then the Holy Spirit nudged me to type just your name, and boom! The first item in the search result is this video.
    Thank you for this! E get why.

  • @donbaker007
    @donbaker007 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bravooooooo

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you mama, please my question is can someone's temperament change as they grow?

  • @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881
    @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Proudly PhlegSan

  • @eyitayosharon1546
    @eyitayosharon1546 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Over the Years, I alwys asked myself! Why I'm so hard on myself, why I alwyz find fault in everything 😪 why if I have issues with people, they usually never bothered to call me or want me back, all my exes wen we had quarrel alwys accused me that I'm too hard on them, I don't appreciate them, I looked down on them & I wondered whenever we broke up, they will be very happy & blocked me everywhere & nvr make frds with me again😭💔 Now I know I'M A MELANCHOLY & nvr knw! I'm jst myself with this character. Oh God help me to work on myself & give me someone that will help me to Change for good. I'm so sad😥😔 & depressed

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a phlegmel

  • @morahsheryl.i.1313
    @morahsheryl.i.1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mel-phleg here.
    I just love yhu ma. Most times I feel you are talking to me directly. Thank you for the insight always.

  • @binuefabiolag9907
    @binuefabiolag9907 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Melphlegsang 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Dey like I even get small choleric traits 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sapphire78blue
    @sapphire78blue 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am definitely a melancholi

  • @HBrifo
    @HBrifo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watched this last 2 Fridays ago and my life have been changed 🤯.. This message is like the Gospel... very liberating..
    I didn't know how key it was to know and understand oneself until I watched this. I'm a MelPhleg, but stronger on the Mel.. and I've been so hard on myself and blame myself a lot that it was driving me into depression ..
    Please let's not just watch this but share as well

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's know that it is only God that can change us.. So let's lean to God to receive strength and Grace to overcome our various personality and personal weaknesses... and His grace and Wisdom on how to harness our Strengths for His glory..and his Kingdom ... we have eternity in mind😍.
      And if you're sharing to an unbeliever be sure to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ to them.. no amount of motivational talk can change a person but Christ, so teach them give themselves to Christ and to lean in to the Holy Spirit to help them overcome their weaknesses not just those "you can do it" motivations

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      For my Mels here 😃👋🏾, this song by for KING & COUNTRY titled "Control" really taught me that, I have to learn to GIVE UP CONTROL to God.. I won't always get it PERFECT, so in all my plannings, I have to give up Control to God, and be FLEXIBLE to His leadings🙏🏾.
      One of the duo, Joel Smallbone, opened up about his control addiction and how God taught him which led to the production of the song "CONTROL"
      This version of song was recorded in a Concert, and Joel shared his story at time stamp 22:09.. link th-cam.com/video/RLk66XHE3ak/w-d-xo.html. Song itself starts at 25:25 during the concert
      The song only, CONTROL recorded is on this video link th-cam.com/video/E4wusq61dmw/w-d-xo.html
      But do well to follow his story from the concert show at the beginning.
      God bless you Joel for sharing, God bless you For King & Country

  • @Dworkchannel
    @Dworkchannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh Pastor M! The way you break down the scriptures🔥🔥❤️ I am blessed watching this.

  • @erinmaonwuchekwa
    @erinmaonwuchekwa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Melancholy +Choleric

  • @rekiyaE
    @rekiyaE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm a choleric-melancholic. Though my melancholic is 32% but i really appreciate it, it helps with my dominant choleric side.

  • @EttaDaniel
    @EttaDaniel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you momma.... You just blessed my life this night

  • @ireenchewe8261
    @ireenchewe8261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just realized am a melancholic 😅😅no wonder I find it difficult to socialize

  • @Joshua99911
    @Joshua99911 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Question please.
    Is it proven that someone can function in the realm of these four temperament?
    I seem to alternate between the four temperaments; depending on who and what I am dealing with.

  • @blessingandrew1751
    @blessingandrew1751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't even know what my temperament was before now.... 😂😂😂 I'm phlegmatic
    Wow😂

  • @Thetanyael
    @Thetanyael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    melancholic as charged Ma’am

  • @ifeyinwaobienu
    @ifeyinwaobienu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's unique that men and women have different traits, now throw in temperament into the mix🤦🏽‍♀️... Jeez! It's no wonder you're given a marriage CERTIFICATE 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Only God can give you "expo" to succeed in that institution 😌😏

  • @adebanjofolashade8165
    @adebanjofolashade8165 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so melancholic even my melancholic is melancholic

  • @suzanpaul1860
    @suzanpaul1860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you ma.
    You described me perfectly. I am phlegmatic.

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where can we get the one where she taught the previous one about the extroverts. Please help

  • @nokulungamoyo2296
    @nokulungamoyo2296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm Melancholy + Choleric. I get shocked a lot by the things people do... or do not do 😅

  • @gladnessparadiso2412
    @gladnessparadiso2412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Pastor M...I'm really enjoying this sermon and getting to know my own temperament and those of my family and friends....
    I am a phlegmatic and I no like wahala 😍

  • @adaobiobi4658
    @adaobiobi4658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think I am phlegmatic. Then again, mama explains that phlegmatics always have the backs of their loved ones and can do anything which I agree but then again, they are self preserving?

  • @joshuaarthur-yartel1553
    @joshuaarthur-yartel1553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing exposition. I'm really blessed by your teaching. God bless

  • @rumeokodili5063
    @rumeokodili5063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im melancholy and hubby phlegmatic

  • @patrakirungi4851
    @patrakirungi4851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u for this. Blessings from Uganda 🇺🇬 🙏

  • @chidiebereamujuogu4417
    @chidiebereamujuogu4417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a perfectionist

  • @DinmahMichael
    @DinmahMichael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh by the way they stole my biology note in school. Very detailed with drawings

  • @emmanuelajenny22
    @emmanuelajenny22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My temperament well defined....peaceful phlegmatic lol...

  • @nwajuoginikachy7952
    @nwajuoginikachy7952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think I'm a blend of San+phlegmatic

  • @zaria2turay968
    @zaria2turay968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The phlegmatic in me ehn😂🙌🏽

  • @danielvifa510
    @danielvifa510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very interesting

  • @akinwaletosin8619
    @akinwaletosin8619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you greatly Pastor M.

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just disected me as a phlegmatic

  • @DinmahMichael
    @DinmahMichael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow thank you pastor M for youniversity... It was really eye opening to me and has made me understand me better

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow!!!
    I'm so blessed by this!! Thank you so much

  • @davidejeh4884
    @davidejeh4884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a phelgmatic

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Noone taught this tittle better!!!!
    Thanks pastor❤️

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely community, please I'd like to ask if one of your mantras is: '#Do You; knock yourself out; just don't touch me or cross into my private space or boundary' is that a phleg, a Chol or a mel? And is that mantra faulty? If it is why?

  • @LoisPrunelle_
    @LoisPrunelle_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this Woman❤️🔥. You are blessed Pastor M.

  • @kongnyuisonita5055
    @kongnyuisonita5055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melphleg here

  • @HildaZion
    @HildaZion 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @HildaZion
    @HildaZion 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @dackwiszytv9368
    @dackwiszytv9368 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a phlegmatic and you just described me A to Z😅

  • @dessyonoja7025
    @dessyonoja7025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reminder set! I can't wait

  • @blessingchukwu9074
    @blessingchukwu9074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm phlegmatic

  • @AbbyTheCreator_
    @AbbyTheCreator_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a phlegmatic I’m just laughing 😂😂😂

  • @Jen_makes_ppt
    @Jen_makes_ppt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems the melancholic temperament is the most controversial among the four.

  • @DrEzinneErhirhie
    @DrEzinneErhirhie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Phlegmatic women are what people call wife material.They'd never argue or be career conscious

  • @joshuaanarah7822
    @joshuaanarah7822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mama,how did you know me? I am phlegmatic that is me😊

  • @idowumarvellous5881
    @idowumarvellous5881 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think we should add HolyGhostmatic

  • @giwajohn847
    @giwajohn847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything said about Melancholy is so true...

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful message. I'd really love it if the prayer sessions are also included

  • @ifeomaaniagbaoso9826
    @ifeomaaniagbaoso9826 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I'm phlegmatic 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Its_lady_tee
    @Its_lady_tee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Pastor Mildred.

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a Phelg😫😫😫😫

  • @timbam1000
    @timbam1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since anger is among the tendency of melancholics, am I sure I'm a melchol?! 🤔

  • @kellynjinkeu6320
    @kellynjinkeu6320 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the way you dissect the Word Ma'a

  • @mela_tyibz
    @mela_tyibz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yhoo I'm such a phlegmatic 😭

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare ปีที่แล้ว

    Well explained insights 👍

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband is a choleric/melancholy