Jay raising my standards for men

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  • @yannahvale99
    @yannahvale99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1526

    It warms my heart knowing there's someone like him in this world; the kind of artist we can be truly proud to stan. I'm so touched by his whole personality. Jay impressed me and held a very special place in my heart since the very beginning.

  • @serixirose7575
    @serixirose7575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    He is so sweet, reliable, and thoughtful. He is handsome and cool but also cute. He is so expressive and his heart is soo pure

  • @vk0903
    @vk0903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    first off, why doesn't this have more views!???
    jay is so mature and wise for his age. considering him being the only child, his parents and the environment he. grew up in taught him so much value and manners. i love him, i love how he unconsciously helps people around him because that's just how he is. i love how he's not only wise but also a crackhead and haves fun. there's so much goodness to list about him and i really hope people see that too and appreciate/support him

    • @choidanielle12
      @choidanielle12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YES ikr as an only child i wish to be like him, its especially hard to not be spoiled

  • @lvrjay
    @lvrjay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    He's such a good influence I saw myself adapting some of his habits and personality traits and I learn a lot from him. He's the best I love him.

  • @vasudhadongare8586
    @vasudhadongare8586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Jay is so young still and yet he is so mature and caring at this age🥰

  • @helloire6843
    @helloire6843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    He's way younger than me but I feel like at some points the way he thinks, he's like more mature than me. I love him for that.

  • @Carat-Engene_1004
    @Carat-Engene_1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Let’s praise his parents for raising this best boy well!! Jay is the best guy 💕

  • @nandinipriyadarshinijana7032
    @nandinipriyadarshinijana7032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I remember when I was a baby Engene when Jay did this counseling session. And I was so touched. As someone who dreams of becoming a psychologist, and someone who listens to others, I was so touched to find someone just like me. I had never ever saw or heard of any idol going live just to listen to others worries. He's really so altruistic. Since my feelings for him just became bigger and bigger. He's my bias now along with Sunghoon
    And I hope he and other members get well soon

  • @lautho3254
    @lautho3254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    the way i cried during Jay's Counseling Center. Engenes were all crying during that night 🥺

    • @N_Royalty
      @N_Royalty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Since I'm trying to learn about Enhypen I saw your comment and I went to look for that Vlive🥺... okay I have to say that was the most precious, heartwarming and genuine interaction I've ever seen 🤞😭... this man is so precious... I can't 😭❤️

  • @28andee
    @28andee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He is wise beyond his years, very considerate and compassionate. A real idol, indeed.

  • @laveenagupta4683
    @laveenagupta4683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This person's existence is enough to show how beautiful and pure a human can be !

  • @joannecaranto9006
    @joannecaranto9006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    he's such a caring person- if you only watch their performances you might see him just as handsome and charismatic, but he's so much more than that- he's thoughtful, understanding, sweet, and- just a masterpiece. He's so wise and he loves to give his time and help to others, but what really sets him apart is how considerate he is- thank you for counseling us, Jay, thank you for lifting us up and giving up positivity- you make me hopeful for the future, you make me want to be more like you- a kind person and an understanding soul.

  • @larasun351
    @larasun351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    He's such a husband material , also he's one of unique & heartwarming idols I've seen in my whole life ♡ jay ♡

  • @babymochi5198
    @babymochi5198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    he is so mature and kind... i wish i could find a man like jay

  • @choidanielle12
    @choidanielle12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    we should all try to be such a nice humam like Jay ! this vid really warmed my heart and made me feel so happy . lets be honest jay is legit husband material LOL i hope he keeps on inspiring others.

  • @jessiesandhu7872
    @jessiesandhu7872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Only part way through this video, but crying at 4:07 - "In this world, every person has the right to become happy" - This hit hard 😭❤️

  • @sotaine
    @sotaine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i'm here to remind myself why jay is my bias

  • @Vor567tez
    @Vor567tez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I love how observant and attentive he is. Making sure Sunoo and Jungwon have something to eat and Niki isn't holding something dangerous.
    This man is the best. ❤️❤️

  • @cheyloveskhao
    @cheyloveskhao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    It's about to be one year since I got to know him and these 6 months, he has made this special place in my heart, a major impact in my daily life too. The more I get to know him better, the more my respect for him goes up.He is the first idol I have ever seen, asking his fans to share their concerns and worries and wanting to listen all of them and comfort them, give them support and help them with everything he can. He just breathes comfort and kindness all the time. He is the most kindest and thoughtful person I've even known. Everyone needs someone like jay in their lives. Jay not only wants them who he cares for or engenes but also Everyone around the world to be happy. He keeps getting my standard as a human higher.🥺❤️

  • @justacarat2638
    @justacarat2638 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Don't let your pride and arrogance get in the way of your future." That is such an important thing to remember!! Also considering relationships

  • @sasahearts07
    @sasahearts07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Whoever that gets to marry this boy will be the luckiest being to ever exist so hopefully they reciprocate the exact amount of love he gives… no lie haha

  • @yannahvale99
    @yannahvale99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    He really is a great guy ♡

  • @kworldinformednews4
    @kworldinformednews4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Yes! Jay is such a good, cool person. His inner and outer beauty and kindness are a huge part of why I like ENHYPEN so much. They are a perfect group.

  • @babymochi5198
    @babymochi5198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i really admire him. since i-land he has been my bias. he just has this aura that is so attractive for me like, not only his handsomeness but also his personality, way of thinking and doing things. i really hope i can meet him one day and tell him how much he means to me. he is so precious!

  • @yangyangexo-l5214
    @yangyangexo-l5214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Damn man made me bawl my eyes out istg😭

  • @ENHYPENhasTheBestDiscography
    @ENHYPENhasTheBestDiscography 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I stan and love the right man. PARK JONGSEONG THE STANDARD 😭💖

  • @drainaxx7584
    @drainaxx7584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    halfway to the vid and i already can't take it ;_____; he's really sweet and thoughtful. i really hope he and the whole of enhypen are always filled with positivity

  • @theplanethaskimnamjoon
    @theplanethaskimnamjoon ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jay just got added to my "Don't settle unless you find someone like" list. Seokjin and Hoseok are already on my list and now Jay is finally included.

  • @hanji._.verse8
    @hanji._.verse8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How can someone be so attractive when they're just cooking I can't anymore 😭 he's going to be a great father someday

  • @xyxlowlucy7002
    @xyxlowlucy7002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Always when i look for Jay appreciation videos, I find nothing but funny moments🥲. I'm glad I found this video. Jay is truly a precious human being who deserves the best and I am proud that he is my bias💗. I will always be supporting him and praising him as he deserves🌟👑

  • @parkseo_16
    @parkseo_16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can listen to him talking all day long....like for infinity🙂🤧💚

  • @rp4806
    @rp4806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Jay is cool and handsome
    Same time super cute . 😭 i am really proud of him . He is amazing ❤️

  • @enhagene2882
    @enhagene2882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    To be honest jay is sweet and his heat is so pure that sometimes I really want him but knowing that I never can I would atleast want to have someone like him, but then I remember there is no park jongseong other than our in this world 🦋 ❤️ seriously you are making my standards too High jay ✋🏻😭💕

  • @goodday127
    @goodday127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i how how positive and mature engenes are in the comment section, makes me proud to be one of them

  • @ipotatoyou8954
    @ipotatoyou8954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    *falling to my knees crying because I can never find another man as perfect as him*

  • @shimray9024
    @shimray9024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wah Jay forever ma fav no one compares u stand alone 💙

  • @emilielajenette9132
    @emilielajenette9132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    He's too precious for this world 🥰

  • @mkontkanenn
    @mkontkanenn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nah I'm literally crying. It's incredible how amazing person he is

  • @noor-ji7we
    @noor-ji7we 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I actually sobbed while reading his letter. I think he might become my ult bias

  • @dabrickycoconut
    @dabrickycoconut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Lord, pls make a duplicate. I need one. WE NEED MORE OF HIM!

  • @kidzone0510
    @kidzone0510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He is so precious like he is so talented, knows everything and all. I've been into kpop for years and I'm a proud multi-fan but Jay was the only one who caught my eyes like genuinely kind and considerate to others. He's personality is reflective of how his parents brought him up. He's so mature and wise in all his ways! Such an angel indeed.

  • @anincompooppy
    @anincompooppy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    omg a video about jayyy thankyouu this is so wholesome, park jongseong we love u

  • @enha_future_of_kpop
    @enha_future_of_kpop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Cuando Jay escribió esa larga carta, recuerdo que estaba pasando por un muy mal momento. Recuerdo que sentí que la escuela estaba acabando conmigo y por un momento quise echar todo por la borda, me auto percibía como una persona incompetente y que no era suficiente para toda la carga y presión que había encima mío. Esas palabras me trajeron tanta calma y empece por trabajar en mí misma, y Jay tenía razón cuando dijo que el mundo cambiaría para nosotros si tratábamos siempre de ver las cosas buenas de la vida. Muchas gracias Jay, te quiero mucho.

  • @ARS0NDEVIL.
    @ARS0NDEVIL. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    YES MORE JAY APPRECIATION

  • @lisap1570
    @lisap1570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Protect this precious soul ❤
    Jay is a kind and righteous person, such a lovely man ❤

  • @chrissietan7186
    @chrissietan7186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i could say that i don't have a bias in enhypen bcs i love all of them. but i will say that jay is my IDEAL MAN. that's why i already accepted the fact that i'll grow old alone and it's fine with me.

  • @irisfriese9771
    @irisfriese9771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just came to the realization…that we lived in the same city, in the same time frame. Heck, probably passed by in baby strollers. Both born on the same day of the year. Both have similar personalities. Now that’s cool man

  • @peachyhey7364
    @peachyhey7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If ever in the future I'll get married and have kids (im 20btw) I want to raise my kid just like Jay. To always be humble, have fun in life and teach him how to be responsible.

  • @trizinsakya9040
    @trizinsakya9040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's why he is my favorite Idol of all time, Park Jongseong has something special and I'll be always grateful for his existence ❤️💕♥️♥️

  • @NaiaraM02
    @NaiaraM02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    never thought a youtube recommendation can make me cry so much. i lost it at the long weverse post ☹️ you really can see right through him. he has this very pure and kind soul. i can see that he's genuine. i'm not even an engene but yall should protect this man at all costs.

  • @Carolina-cm6nu
    @Carolina-cm6nu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm just continually in shock at how loving, kind, responsible, and genuine this man is. There are idols and figures with good character and there are people like Jay. I haven't seen another idol stand out so much in the realm of character as he does, don't get me wrong there are others with sweet demeanors and good morals but Jay just has an unmatched strength to his beliefs and love for others that blows me away every time. He's taught me so much I can't even explain. Thank God for people like him

  • @parkheehyo3849
    @parkheehyo3849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This really warms my heart and my soul! Thank you Jay and thank you engeneism for making this video. I'm sincerely looking forward for the next part of this series. Thank you again ❤❤❤

  • @dandelionred5571
    @dandelionred5571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My one and only favorite idol 😍

    • @dav7490
      @dav7490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same😊

    • @xyxlowlucy7002
      @xyxlowlucy7002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same🥰... He's really one of a kind💗

  • @ullamolina2007
    @ullamolina2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every time I see Jay, “Whatta man” goes blasting in my head. What a mighty good man indeed

  • @gloviasempra5856
    @gloviasempra5856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love his everything. Safe place

  • @underthesameskyy
    @underthesameskyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i'm not an engene (i know some of the members as some of my fellow friends are) but this video came up on my homepage and i just decided to watch it. i didn't expect for this video to actually bring tears to my eyes and i'm only three minutes into watching this-
    those replies/posts that jay posted, i appreciate it all. for someone who's been having tough times especially as of lately, i felt comforted. thank you, jay. thank you so much for saying those words.
    and to the person who made and post this video, thank you. i wouldn't have come to know of this side of jay and i mostly feel comforted. so really, thank you.

  • @NyzButterfly
    @NyzButterfly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The real question now is how to not fall in love with this man?
    The more I get to know him the more I fall in love with his personality. This man is intelligent,altruistic,charming,well mannered,funny,charismatic and kind. Sometimes I wonder if he's real?!
    When I see some people making fun of him or those who treat him just like a meme,It puts me out of myself!
    In only ONE MONTH I was able to discover all these facets of his personality so I can't understand why people see him just like the clown of the band/group when he's much more than that. I hope that more people can see this video to find out who Park Jongseong really is and that more people would appreciate him because he deserve it.
    I will be by your side until the en Jay!

  • @nicnicxun
    @nicnicxun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was so impressed when he sense that sunghoon was scared and immediately he said that it's okay if you are fear to do that. Hope I can have a younger bro like him too🥰

  • @peachyhey7364
    @peachyhey7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yoooo this makes me so emotional 😩 he literally deserves the best things in life!! Rooting for you always Jay!! 🤍

  • @itsasmallworld8882
    @itsasmallworld8882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    THE STANDARD

  • @nramlnaazz7395
    @nramlnaazz7395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Jay is the perfect man

  • @raka7743
    @raka7743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    people who can cook make my heart go like badump: jay , jin, yoongi, wooyoung etc

  • @denisisolivo8996
    @denisisolivo8996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jay is like our personal therapist

  • @hiyaweeb7570
    @hiyaweeb7570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wish jay could cook for me every day

  • @N_Royalty
    @N_Royalty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awww 🥺❤️... this man is so precious 😭❤️

  • @roses_are_rosies-g4h
    @roses_are_rosies-g4h ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfect title! Jay is just really so special. I love him so much. He has such a warm soul. His long message for engenes hugged my heart really tight. his words were everything. Hes always been an angel. How can someone like him exist? TT

  • @tanyatorres2461
    @tanyatorres2461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My standards in men just keeps getting higher!! Park Jongseong is the standard y'all 😭😭😭

  • @safdghjklyftdrseawehhjk
    @safdghjklyftdrseawehhjk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Deep down, we're all Jay simps. SIMPly because Jay is Jay.

  • @chhuantei9605
    @chhuantei9605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jay is the friend we all need 😭😭😭

  • @Winter_Bear-Tae
    @Winter_Bear-Tae ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jay is the sweetest person imaginable, his kindness towards his members and loyalty to his family make me so happy. Love you Jay!! ❤❤
    Also, I believe he makes us all realize just how high our standards for men are and then realization hits and we realize just how single we feel 🤣

  • @diamondzieman5508
    @diamondzieman5508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chef Jay is so stunning to watch. The standard is high, yes. I think he's very thoughtful probably because of his culture and his the way his parents raised him. It was probably in the environment he grew up in was where he was taught good manners... That's why we joke about the CEO vibes haha

  • @hannahyew7936
    @hannahyew7936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    wtf i love him :,(

  • @minnumin9324
    @minnumin9324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think you have created such a great video .... It really motivated me to set high goals and work hard no matter what the results... Apart from entertainment this kind of motivation is just amazing 🥺
    Thank you so much 🥰💘

  • @miaamalia498
    @miaamalia498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As Jay stan, i subscribe you for this heartwarming video ❤️

  • @linasbubble
    @linasbubble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    hes such husband material

  • @laura79613
    @laura79613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woow...oh my gosh. He's setting the standards, not just for men, but humanity, so high. Woww. I even have no words😂. I'm so pleasantly surprised.
    I and everyone who got the chance to know Jay, we should count ourselves lucky. There's not many human beings like him. I've probably never met someone as kind, considerate and wise as he is. The other people I feel are like this are BTS whose words and presence always comfort and encourage me. But in real life, I haven't met anyone like them yet. I'm not surrounded by anyone like them. So I'm grateful that I got to know such amazing people exist through Kpop. I'm so grateful. Wow. Thank you making this video. I'm going to graduate from a casual listener to an actual Engene now.

  • @Iamdumbhel1
    @Iamdumbhel1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man this is so wholesome I love how he cares for his members and let them know they can feel comfortable with him whenever they want he let the members know he doesn't mind it so cute when jay spoils sunoo and it was so cute when he let niki stay with him😭 if i can't find someone like him I Don't want anyone else because men , not trying to be rude but they treat us nice but some treat some bad some don't care some go overload of care mostly with jealousy but jay he cares about you , he so kind this is so cute watching him teaching the older members and the younger members he like dad he so kind and cute I am living for it , this just warm my heart so much that they're actually people like this💖

  • @zimmbdo1965
    @zimmbdo1965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanku for this video, also Jay raising the standard way too high a precious soul ❤️

  • @offgunyizhanbiblebuildand9853
    @offgunyizhanbiblebuildand9853 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to thank his parents for raising such a wonderful guy like him. He has one of the kindest hearts in the world. And we only have one Park Jongseong in the world too. I'm so lucky to meet such a very beautiful human, but unluckily I can't have him. We can't, there will be just one luckiest human that will be with him in this lifetime. And the people in Jay's life, his fily, enha, friends and relatives are lucky to have him. 🥺

  • @nnogrunge
    @nnogrunge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How can a man be so perfect?

  • @ynahverse9654
    @ynahverse9654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud Jay and I love him so much.

  • @blume7755
    @blume7755 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    what a well raised man. a true idol
    i just wanna hug him

  • @kpopplanet2907
    @kpopplanet2907 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:08 The post makes me tear up, this is so sweet.

  • @jjongjay
    @jjongjay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm crying over this video😭

  • @sabitapun4964
    @sabitapun4964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rather than saying he is my bias, I feel relaxed relieve & happy watching him every time . I personally feel if someone brings smile in your face it’s worth loving him. You always boost up my energy I will always support you keep loving you my angel JAY❤️

  • @mayagel9510
    @mayagel9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jay me hace querer ser mejor persona y por primera vez me siento así, es más que un idolo.

  • @sherinj8974
    @sherinj8974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jay raised my standards up so high its actually crazy he literally cooks and cleans for his member regularly, always thinks of others, tells fans good messages constantly, and is a regular donator to Unicef, he is the sweetest human being and literally loves everyone, jokes around with everyone and protects his loved one continuously, he is the standard and nobody can tell me otherwise. He literally is so damn amazing the patience this man has is absolutely amazing

  • @angmiming
    @angmiming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks for making this video about jay. I just recently knew about enhypen and guuurl, I didn't know how Jay just came through. And by that I mean his message, I feel like it's a hug. His letter, it just hit the spot. I find it really touching. It somehow gave me courage to gather up my thoughts and make a step, move forward as he said, and it gave me some kind of power or a push to go on and believe in myself. That it can be dark sometimes but there will always be light.
    me after watching this: Damn Jay, I was about 100% ready to give my heart to Riki but then... Now I think you have it 😭🥲🥰😍😍

  • @fiona_x_en
    @fiona_x_en 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you thought the video was gonna be a joke and then your enitre perspective on life changes. 😗😗

  • @shxna
    @shxna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I was tearing up throughout this entire video, especially at the letter!! My fave is when he talks directly to Sunghoon about it being okay to be scared. I played that part so many times. He's such a good guy 😭 It's not even about being the standard, he's simply a wonderful human being. I feel like I've learned from him. What a beautiful person inside and out 💗💗💗

  • @chimchimchococones
    @chimchimchococones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    aside from being my kpop bias, he inspires me to be a better version of myself. i hope i can be someone else's ideal person 😂.

  • @28_kangxxie
    @28_kangxxie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this made me cry because i will never be able to actually go to a fansign or a virtual one because im too young . as soon as i get a driving license im gonna go see them if they havent disbanded yet..😖 AHHH NEVERMIND MY PARENTS SAID I CAN GO TO A CONCERT EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • @peachyhey7364
    @peachyhey7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching these types of video makes me realise that maybe Jay is an introvert although his mbti says extrovert but deep down i feel like he's lowkey intro

  • @ExLibris-Alys
    @ExLibris-Alys ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s such a kind and lovely person 💛

  • @missscha3372
    @missscha3372 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is really... Precious. One in a million. 😭

  • @amaatobrah
    @amaatobrah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love jay

  • @jeonjjongry0297
    @jeonjjongry0297 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so proud that my biases are high quality, they are the best man I've ever seen. And also I don't think there won't be any more kind of them.

  • @nivsharma4614
    @nivsharma4614 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's just so good to listen to this,this really made my eyes teary. But how does he get the motivation to be so strong and sensible and caring ❤❤just lots of love for him and no one should hate him ❤ he's not made for that and no one is

  • @meanttobe1854
    @meanttobe1854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    at this moment I'll live single

  • @alankritahaha
    @alankritahaha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ahhh i love him so much