@@user-en1zc5vd6y It´s not odd that they leave out the wives/women opinions because it will contradict the image the TV programme is trying to pass off as all men in Cameroon are dominant and their wives are submissive, which in reality is very far from the truth. Maybe back in the old days it was mostly true but today this narrative is laughable. I am a Cameroonian lady and I can garantee you it is NO LONGER the case. I hate it when a whole country gets generalized and painted in a particular light just to fit a narrative for their "reality TV". Wives in Cameroon are not ALL submissive and not ALL husbands are dominant. It does exist but it is not the NORM like indicated here.
Good job Kobe. Emily is not perfect, but if u marry in to a mixed culture, it has to be a compromise. However for Cameroon, the country would be more progressive if they just let their women be part of the economic workforce, rather than cooking for you, preparing a bath, and giving/taking care of the kids. 😊
@@Nono38-jj1tk nope. I work fulltime and i dont send my child to daycare. I have sitter yes. But im in a home office working 7am-4pm and earning 6 digits. My hubby and i are equals on finances and home/child responsibilities. After work, im a fulltime mom and no one can tell me someone else is raising my child. What’s wrong about that? I guess we all know which countries are stuck in the old world and still in lot of poverty coz they treat their women like in the 1800s. 😉
Who told you women in Africa don’t work? Guess what, Africa, in Liberia, there is woman president and American cannot even give a woman a chance to be a president. You Karen’s needs google lol. I am Kenyan and living in Canada, even when I was in Kenya, I had my kids, and a nanny and worked in corporate. Little research would help
@@pn4640 did i say Kenya? I was talking about Cameroon. Coz the topic was about Kobe’s friends saying their culture was all about their women being submissive and how they expect their food and baths be ready when they get home. That’s not women are for. FYI, im not a Karen, i also come from a country with women having been as president. Not sure why ur mad at when im trying to defend women hehe and how they can work and still be effective parents. A little reading could help too. 😅
So u decided to assume everyone of 54 countries in Africa treat their women like that.what Ignorance and who told you that we are all poor? Get your self informed cos whatever he's friends said is extreme and not real the picture. I have seen how women like Angela behave but I don't assume every women behaves like that in America
Maybe that friend plucked his wife from a rural area with no education, because I don't know which Cameroonian women he's referring to. That country is known for its people, both men and women, being go-getters and very successful in academia and corporate professions. Good on Kobe for not being influenced by nonsense
It´s not odd that they leave out the wives sides because it will contradict the image the TV programme is trying to pass off as all men in Cameroon are dominant and their wives are submissive, which in reality is very far from the truth. Maybe back in the old days it was mostly true but today this narrative is laughable. I am a Cameroonian lady and I can garantee you it is NO LONGER the case. I hate it when a whole country gets generalized and painted in a particular light just to fit a narrative for their "reality TV". Wives in Cameroon are not ALL submissive and not ALL husbands are dominant. It does exist but it is not the NORM like indicated here.
Those friends need to just be friends and not try to be therapists. One thing life has taught me is to be respectful and caring towards my friends’s choices even if sometime you may not like their spouses. Your friends need more support from you especially when they have kids with these spouses. Staying or not staying with a spouse is their decision- not yours.
You've evolved your friends are stuck...I AM a black South African woman...therefore I am African and our men are not treating us like their maids as your friends are saying...WE are equal partners both very playing very important yet different roles In a relationship... Proud of you Kobe for protecting your wife...❤
Emily and Kobe have a good understanding of difference in culture WAY better than other couples we have seen on the show which will make them last longer
Much respect to Emily's parents. Her father loves her and he also loves Kobe and his grand kids. In order for A male to be a king., he has to have a castle and a thron!
although I disagree with kobe's friends (who seem to be terrible husbands btw), even by our standards emily is seems naggy and bossy. American or not, she needs to work on her attitude. kobe seems to be a good team player, emily, not so much
Kobe is a sweet guy. He knows the culture difference and he respects that. Maybe he likes his wife being equal. It seems that Emily isn’t as bossy as she used to be and it makes their marriage stronger. Happy for Kobe to go back and have his family meet his family He’s so laid back, can’t imagine him getting very angry. Emily’s parents are great people
I get tired of hearing the culture is different. No, sweetheart, if she is not working, she should have all that ready when you get off work. Emily is a spoiled brat. Regardless of he race.
I agree with his friends! Kobe has been unhappy since day one, no one is corrupting Kobe, Kobe himself stated this in the beggining if people were payong attention, i dont like the Emily treated him but her familyy was on her side of course smh so why cant his friends be on his own side!
Kobe, you are a good man. You have good in-laws that aceepted you in America. Don't let your friends destroy your marriage. You guys love each other. You don't live in Cameron, you live in America with America wife. For me you are one of best couple on TLC.❤❤❤
Kobe is a good guy- he defend his wife and their way of relationship, that is not their business, plus happy people do not critisize and put their foot in another relationship, Kobe seems to be happy and they are not, so probablly if they will not exploite their wifes and make them hapier human being their life will be better too? they are adorable-Kobe. Emily , the children and he parent, i suppose the friensds are just envious,and the just cover up this with fake concern and care and traditions
Truthfully, I would be more concerned about those so-called friends I think they’re just jealous The truth is that country is not very appealing in so many different ways
He also doesn't live in his OWN house. He lives with her parents so... he wouldn't be head of the house anyway. Kobe I think it's the best husband on this show
The friend saying: a man is the king of his house. yep... 'his house' and as far as I know Kobe lives in the basement of the house of his inlaws. Nothing wrong with that. But maybe his friend need to realise you need a house to be able to be a king in your house? :-) And: I really like Kobe and Emily!!! Fun to watch on TLC. Hope they get their own house soon.
Koby you are a good man the rest of Africa men living abroad need to follow your steps because living especially in America is hard but they want their wife to comeback home after work hard to cook and do everything in the house and they don’t do anything.
I know Emily she is intentionally rude she's a spoiled brat look how many years they are still living with her parents and knocked up again she has a daddy wrapped around her finger, a man on the other hand wants a golden ticket, and he's got it but he cannot leave her for another 3 years, I hope TLC follows this farce❤❤❤
Really,why are they not happy for him with the kids. Are they suggesting to him to leave his family and married Cameroon women where in this world are they leaving now . I think they are jealous. A good friends can not give bad advice to a friend they love so much. This is nonsense with their Africa mentalities. I hope Kobe will not going to follow their advice. Marry this don’t marry this that’s Africa, that’s how they are.
Yes my Africans brothers are seeing,hear pepper 🌶️ in this white ladies hands but when it comes to African women they can't take half of it that's when they will remain you "am the head of the house"
I like Kobe, he seems very sincere.
He is a nice guy indeed…
I feel bad he’s with Emily - she’s SOOO bossy and annoying !! She had no respect for his friends and their culture !
Damn i wish my husband could shut down people like that in respect of our marriage like kobe just did.
Me too😢
He didn't shut down anything. He couldn't defend her. He knows his friends are right.
That's because he is a man and not a b
so agreed
He’s a good one.
Very good husband. Don’t let anyone to corrupt you.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Would be a woman to say something like that😂😂😂😂
I am Cameroonian, his friends opinion aren’t that of most men in Cameroon. Btw am married to a Cameroonian and we respect each other.
Good on you bro. Am East African and sometimes I feel like the west African way of life is a bit too rigid. Glad to know I’ve been generalizing
@@user-en1zc5vd6y It´s not odd that they leave out the wives/women opinions because it will contradict the image the TV programme is trying to pass off as all men in Cameroon are dominant and their wives are submissive, which in reality is very far from the truth. Maybe back in the old days it was mostly true but today this narrative is laughable. I am a Cameroonian lady and I can garantee you it is NO LONGER the case. I hate it when a whole country gets generalized and painted in a particular light just to fit a narrative for their "reality TV". Wives in Cameroon are not ALL submissive and not ALL husbands are dominant. It does exist but it is not the NORM like indicated here.
His friends opinion is shared by 90% of Cameroonian men.I am from Cameroon too.Stop that bs.
That tlc stuff has post slavery tones...Kobe's wife name is Emily; not white woman..
Good job Kobe. Emily is not perfect, but if u marry in to a mixed culture, it has to be a compromise. However for Cameroon, the country would be more progressive if they just let their women be part of the economic workforce, rather than cooking for you, preparing a bath, and giving/taking care of the kids. 😊
You think the children should be raised by daycare centers?
@@Nono38-jj1tk nope. I work fulltime and i dont send my child to daycare. I have sitter yes. But im in a home office working 7am-4pm and earning 6 digits. My hubby and i are equals on finances and home/child responsibilities. After work, im a fulltime mom and no one can tell me someone else is raising my child. What’s wrong about that? I guess we all know which countries are stuck in the old world and still in lot of poverty coz they treat their women like in the 1800s. 😉
Who told you women in Africa don’t work? Guess what, Africa, in Liberia, there is woman president and American cannot even give a woman a chance to be a president. You Karen’s needs google lol. I am Kenyan and living in Canada, even when I was in Kenya, I had my kids, and a nanny and worked in corporate. Little research would help
@@pn4640 did i say Kenya? I was talking about Cameroon. Coz the topic was about Kobe’s friends saying their culture was all about their women being submissive and how they expect their food and baths be ready when they get home. That’s not women are for. FYI, im not a Karen, i also come from a country with women having been as president. Not sure why ur mad at when im trying to defend women hehe and how they can work and still be effective parents. A little reading could help too. 😅
So u decided to assume everyone of 54 countries in Africa treat their women like that.what Ignorance and who told you that we are all poor? Get your self informed cos whatever he's friends said is extreme and not real the picture. I have seen how women like Angela behave but I don't assume every
women behaves like that in America
Spoken like a true boss
Ssoooooo proud of Kobe. He is so evolved. A real man. Great husband.
He was already evolved
….Kobe needs to stop worrying about his friends #FuckThem
Maybe that friend plucked his wife from a rural area with no education, because I don't know which Cameroonian women he's referring to. That country is known for its people, both men and women, being go-getters and very successful in academia and corporate professions. Good on Kobe for not being influenced by nonsense
You are not from Cameroon but if you are....u have been contaminated😂
Kobe is a bery wise man.
Emily would annoy men of any culture!
This, she’s been this way from
Day 1. If she didn’t get pregnant he wouldn’t have married her. She also made the first move.
I LOVE how he protects and takes care of his wife. Sweet, loving man🥰🥰
It's odd that the wives sides are not TRULY shown or shown at all whatsoever...... 💁💁
It´s not odd that they leave out the wives sides because it will contradict the image the TV programme is trying to pass off as all men in Cameroon are dominant and their wives are submissive, which in reality is very far from the truth. Maybe back in the old days it was mostly true but today this narrative is laughable. I am a Cameroonian lady and I can garantee you it is NO LONGER the case. I hate it when a whole country gets generalized and painted in a particular light just to fit a narrative for their "reality TV". Wives in Cameroon are not ALL submissive and not ALL husbands are dominant. It does exist but it is not the NORM like indicated here.
These two people are a gaslighters
Those friends need to just be friends and not try to be therapists. One thing life has taught me is to be respectful and caring towards my friends’s choices even if sometime you may not like their spouses. Your friends need more support from you especially when they have kids with these spouses. Staying or not staying with a spouse is their decision- not yours.
They have 3 kids. He can’t leave her that easily
Look at all those KINGS WITHOUT A KINGDOM!
YES Kobe! You are a great man
You've evolved your friends are stuck...I AM a black South African woman...therefore I am African and our men are not treating us like their maids as your friends are saying...WE are equal partners both very playing very important yet different roles In a relationship...
Proud of you Kobe for protecting your wife...❤
Kobi the man... Love you... 💯
Cameroon men sound really cool even though they raising concerns in future they doing it respectfully!
Kobe really is a balanced,confident guy!Emily should consider herself lucky they seem to have a good thing going!
Emily and Kobe have a good understanding of difference in culture WAY better than other couples we have seen on the show which will make them last longer
Proud of Kobe
Much respect to Emily's parents. Her father loves her and he also loves Kobe and his grand kids. In order for A male to be a king., he has to have a castle and a thron!
although I disagree with kobe's friends (who seem to be terrible husbands btw), even by our standards emily is seems naggy and bossy. American or not, she needs to work on her attitude. kobe seems to be a good team player, emily, not so much
Emily she is a good wife just a bit ignorant I love her as a mother. As a daughter and wife 😂Humm you right actually
Kobe is a good guy and father🇨🇦👏🏽💎😘❤️💙🇮🇱👏🏽🙏🏽😘
Kobe is a sweet guy. He knows the culture difference and he respects that. Maybe he likes his wife being equal. It seems that Emily isn’t as bossy as she used to be and it makes their marriage stronger. Happy for Kobe to go back and have his family meet his family
He’s so laid back, can’t imagine him getting very angry. Emily’s parents are great people
I get tired of hearing the culture is different. No, sweetheart, if she is not working, she should have all that ready when you get off work. Emily is a spoiled brat. Regardless of he race.
I like Kobe! He understands that he needs to fit into our culture since he is living here in the US.
It's not possible to get a good impression from Emily!
Good job Kobe, keep doing what is best for your beautiful family
Good for you Kobe because you have a wonderful family here in the States
Solid man!!
Am African but even I find some of these views extreme
Emily is a lucky girl ❤ her husband is wonderful.
It is too late to worry . They have been married for years now with kids
Kobe is a good husband.
I agree with his friends! Kobe has been unhappy since day one, no one is corrupting Kobe, Kobe himself stated this in the beggining if people were payong attention, i dont like the Emily treated him but her familyy was on her side of course smh so why cant his friends be on his own side!
Are you joking? He looks about as happy as can be!
@MissAnkh_ah no im actually not joking he's faking is what I think, cause that was a constant issue in the beginning
Kobe open your eyes and think. You have frenemies!!!
He is such a good man
Kobe, you are a good man. You have good in-laws that aceepted you in America. Don't let your friends destroy your marriage. You guys love each other. You don't live in Cameron, you live in America with America wife. For me you are one of best couple on TLC.❤❤❤
Kobe is a good guy- he defend his wife and their way of relationship, that is not their business, plus happy people do not critisize and put their foot in another relationship, Kobe seems to be happy and they are not, so probablly if they will not exploite their wifes and make them hapier human being their life will be better too? they are adorable-Kobe. Emily , the children and he parent, i suppose the friensds are just envious,and the just cover up this with fake concern and care and traditions
It's time for other cultures to catch up and update. It's 2024! There is no reason for a woman to be submissive anymore.
I love him!❤
This is so staged to stirr drama, lol
Truthfully, I would be more concerned about those so-called friends
I think they’re just jealous
The truth is that country is not very appealing in so many different ways
He also doesn't live in his OWN house. He lives with her parents so... he wouldn't be head of the house anyway.
Kobe I think it's the best husband on this show
The friend saying: a man is the king of his house. yep... 'his house' and as far as I know Kobe lives in the basement of the house of his inlaws. Nothing wrong with that. But maybe his friend need to realise you need a house to be able to be a king in your house? :-) And: I really like Kobe and Emily!!! Fun to watch on TLC. Hope they get their own house soon.
His friends don’t know how good Kobe has it living in Emily’s parents basement. Plus they have 3 kids now, he won’t leave anytime soon.
Kobe is the best. He gets what it truly means to be the man of the house.
Well he has to get his own house to be King of it.
Hes starting to lose his accent some. He sounds much clearer.
What a good husband 😅😊 she better be nice
Koby you are a good man the rest of Africa men living abroad need to follow your steps because living especially in America is hard but they want their wife to comeback home after work hard to cook and do everything in the house and they don’t do anything.
This is the only man to come from Africa on this show that's nice and normal
Who cares what his friends think.. Kobe is living his new life in the USA with his family…
Cobe s you just gain this channel subscribe.. kobe good job. . Relationship is partnership yes
It look like he put more into the relationship than her
They are so jealous, Kobe obviously has it good in the States and they know it!
Lawd Michael's friends show up again?
Why did kobe let them mess his hair up like that.
I know Emily she is intentionally rude she's a spoiled brat look how many years they are still living with her parents and knocked up again she has a daddy wrapped around her finger, a man on the other hand wants a golden ticket, and he's got it but he cannot leave her for another 3 years, I hope TLC follows this farce❤❤❤
That’s not a friend
His friends sound jealous because no one wanted to bring them to America. At the same time, Emily is annoying and bossy.
As a man u have to have a voice though Emily is super rude and disrespectful to even u as her husband.
I personally think Colby won the lotto
War everywhere poverty
Kobe's wife name is Emily, NOT white woman...
That friend is jelaous
Lol they just wanna bring him down. Fail!
Really,why are they not happy for him with the kids. Are they suggesting to him to leave his family and married Cameroon women where in this world are they leaving now . I think they are jealous. A good friends can not give bad advice to a friend they love so much. This is nonsense with their Africa mentalities. I hope Kobe will not going to follow their advice. Marry this don’t marry this that’s Africa, that’s how they are.
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Stay out there business
Yes my Africans brothers are seeing,hear pepper 🌶️ in this white ladies hands but when it comes to African women they can't take half of it that's when they will remain you "am the head of the house"
LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEE WHAT KOBE SAID
RESPECT PALESTINE 🇵🇸❤️🇵🇸❤️🇵🇸❤️