Always remember kids, cheaters care for one person and one person only. THEMSELVES. Its me, me me all the way to the bank until consequences come whit the bill and then their sorry. But its never about YOU. You cant fix that type of a mindset via forgiveness.
I’ve heard people say that cheaters never change, but I always wondered if that’s true. Like, can people really be THAT selfish? It’s scary to think that someone could hurt the person they’re supposed to love and not even feel bad until they get caught.
@revengesparked oh some of them change. But here's the thing. Pepol chenge because they experience negative consequence to ther action's. Really, if ever do we haw a come to Jesus moment on our own. There is a chance that down the road fron you, they will grow up enough to pull ther head out of ther ass. But that is unlikely to happen if you stay. There immature at best, and you forgive them serves to nulify the lesson once emotions settle thats why it keeps happening again and again in 90% of case's. In order to teach them life's not just about them, you need to demonstrate care about yourself. Push this falls clay god off its pedestal and let its pride shatter. It's the best for both sides. Ther immature selfish children in adult bodies that never learnd the normal way and now are destined for a crash course. And your dam right its scary
I suppose it depends on if it's a very young infant. But an older child, hell no. That isn't a 'reminder' or a 'symbol' of cheating. That's a person and you're traumatizing them. And the grandparents have no excuse. Why are they disowning the child?
The Child has a Dad and it's not OP. You wanna raise the children of your partner that he has with the wife who he cheats you with? I highly doubt that
@@Lichmaster_1 yes, I would, if that child knew me as the ONLY PARENT IN THEIR LIFE. Men are just out there *proving* that they view children as _property and possessions_ , not actual real living beings- the OP is total ish and if I knew a man who did this to their vulnerable child I would know NEVER to have a child with that man nor to get into a relationship with him. What a totally revolting manchild.
The OP is absolute garbage for what he did to his son, plain and simple- that poor boy being rejected by the only loving father he’s known all his life, for something he had NO control over. The men and pick me women defending his actions are also garbage.
🔥✊🏾That Is Bull💩!!…It’s Not His Child!!…PERIOD!!…How You n Another In These Comments Spitting The 💩 Your Saying …So He Has To Be TOURTURED More In His Life From Toxic Brother By Raising Brother’s Child And Being Around A Wife Who Cheated Twice B4 She Started F🤬king Husbands Brotha…NARCISSIST Is The Title For You n 🤔ther Commentor!!…Nuff Said!!…👊🏾💯
He has a right to protect his mental health. It's already devastating that he was betrayed by his wife, the brother that was basically his lifelong tormentor, and now he has to raise and bw financially responsible for the child of his bully too? So he's not allowed to separate himself from the situation so he doesn't go postal? Speaking of selfish, selfish is lying, cheating, deceiving and paternity fraud. Plus OP is definitely getting a divorce, so imagine having to fight for custody and visitation with a mother and father who only care about themselves and have zero qualms using their child for financial gain. OP is the one who was wronged, it's not his job to fix any part of this mess, including continuing to father and support this child
🔥✊🏾That’s Bull💩!!…Slept With Brothers Wife TOURTURED Brother Growing Up!!…N Yall On OP For Not Taking Care Of A Chii That’s N🤬T His!!…Dang Narcissis!!…Nuff Said!!…👊🏾💯
Never stay together for the kids
Always remember kids, cheaters care for one person and one person only. THEMSELVES. Its me, me me all the way to the bank until consequences come whit the bill and then their sorry. But its never about YOU. You cant fix that type of a mindset via forgiveness.
I’ve heard people say that cheaters never change, but I always wondered if that’s true. Like, can people really be THAT selfish? It’s scary to think that someone could hurt the person they’re supposed to love and not even feel bad until they get caught.
@revengesparked oh some of them change. But here's the thing. Pepol chenge because they experience negative consequence to ther action's. Really, if ever do we haw a come to Jesus moment on our own. There is a chance that down the road fron you, they will grow up enough to pull ther head out of ther ass. But that is unlikely to happen if you stay. There immature at best, and you forgive them serves to nulify the lesson once emotions settle thats why it keeps happening again and again in 90% of case's. In order to teach them life's not just about them, you need to demonstrate care about yourself. Push this falls clay god off its pedestal and let its pride shatter. It's the best for both sides. Ther immature selfish children in adult bodies that never learnd the normal way and now are destined for a crash course. And your dam right its scary
Caleb would have been shown a full MMA fight with me
Not Dad calling her a whorrrre😂😂😂
Everyone sucks here. How anyone can turn their backs on their child baffles me....biological or otherwise.
I suppose it depends on if it's a very young infant. But an older child, hell no. That isn't a 'reminder' or a 'symbol' of cheating. That's a person and you're traumatizing them. And the grandparents have no excuse. Why are they disowning the child?
Take care all abandone child in world, after that we talk again
@@razofdead Lol...yeah, because that is exactly the same as turning your back on a child that thinks you're their daddy
The Child has a Dad and it's not OP. You wanna raise the children of your partner that he has with the wife who he cheats you with? I highly doubt that
@@Lichmaster_1 yes, I would, if that child knew me as the ONLY PARENT IN THEIR LIFE. Men are just out there *proving* that they view children as _property and possessions_ , not actual real living beings- the OP is total ish and if I knew a man who did this to their vulnerable child I would know NEVER to have a child with that man nor to get into a relationship with him. What a totally revolting manchild.
This story again?
The OP is absolute garbage for what he did to his son, plain and simple- that poor boy being rejected by the only loving father he’s known all his life, for something he had NO control over. The men and pick me women defending his actions are also garbage.
🔥✊🏾That Is Bull💩!!…It’s Not His Child!!…PERIOD!!…How You n Another In These Comments Spitting The 💩 Your Saying …So He Has To Be TOURTURED More In His Life From Toxic Brother By Raising Brother’s Child And Being Around A Wife Who Cheated Twice B4 She Started F🤬king Husbands Brotha…NARCISSIST Is The Title For You n 🤔ther Commentor!!…Nuff Said!!…👊🏾💯
That's bs mom shouldn't have cheated with the brother. That's the father you should be mad at
Biological son or not. . Hes the only father that child knows.. How can he walk away from him?? VERY SHELFISH. These people need Jesus...
Brother and wife are to blame. I can’t judge him because sometimes people hurt us so bad we break.
Ok and wut about the real dad who’s willing to let his son get raised by another man???
He has a right to protect his mental health. It's already devastating that he was betrayed by his wife, the brother that was basically his lifelong tormentor, and now he has to raise and bw financially responsible for the child of his bully too? So he's not allowed to separate himself from the situation so he doesn't go postal?
Speaking of selfish, selfish is lying, cheating, deceiving and paternity fraud. Plus OP is definitely getting a divorce, so imagine having to fight for custody and visitation with a mother and father who only care about themselves and have zero qualms using their child for financial gain. OP is the one who was wronged, it's not his job to fix any part of this mess, including continuing to father and support this child
Jesus says that Shelfish is a species of fish and that you should not use his name for your emotional crap
🔥✊🏾That’s Bull💩!!…Slept With Brothers Wife TOURTURED Brother Growing Up!!…N Yall On OP For Not Taking Care Of A Chii That’s N🤬T His!!…Dang Narcissis!!…Nuff Said!!…👊🏾💯