They are SHADY!!
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ส.ค. 2024
- ♥Cosmetic Skin Care, Hair Care: treasuremylove...
♥Patreon: / stephaniementor
♥One on One Coaching: www.stephaniem...
♥Donate: paypal.me/ange...
Join Membership
/ @stephaniepsmith
SOCIAL MEDIA
♥Instagram: ...
♥Makeup Channel: / channel
♥Vlog Channel: / channel
♥ www.tiktok.com/@stephaniepsmithpoetry
♥Facebook / stephaniepsmithmotivation
CONTACT ME
♥Support: Support@stephaniementor.com
♥Business Inquiries: business@stephaniementor.com
I love when people underestimate my intellect, because it always leads me into having the upperhand lol. It's so funny when they actually think you're so stupid and naïve, that you would never catch on to their hate when the truth is you've always known. Hate isn't that hard to hide when you're used to receiving it. Playing dumb sometimes, can be such a helpful weapon because it allows them to continue digging a deeper hole for themselves. So whiles they're counting on your "stupidity" you're actually just collecting all the proof you need. And that's exactly how I deal with these types of people.
Yes!!!
Yup!!!
Real talk that's how I always dealt with it. Play stupid to catch the dumb.
So true! I’ve noticed because I have borders I’m getting more respect because I will not tolerate enemy working through people but I walk in love and have seen people start to actually like me.
Silence is a language that speaks very well in one's thoughts but it becomes a mystery to another man's mind
Another thing God revealed to me about this. It’s not that they so much dislike you they dislike the God in you. Anything that is clearly representing God people automatically hate. Bc it’s no real reason for them to dislike you so they act fake bc in reality they can’t admit that they hate God n they look crazy. Bc really it’s them blaming God instead of repenting and saying it’s them.
God doesn’t play about children.. Everything comes to light 💡
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 😂🎉❤
Exactly, then "She's mean", "Who does she think she is" "She be tripping", "I think I'm all that", & "I just do like her (looking for an excuse not to). And mugs wonder why most times I prefer to chill alone quietly than to be surrounded by a bunch of fake, backstabbing mugs. 💯💯💯
Lmboooo at mugs!!! That’s so much better. I like that 😂😂😂
Ain't that it👏🏾👆🏾🎯
Yea, that's why people need to guard their heart, you on point woman. 💯
Guard our tongue also
My grandpa used to always say a still tongue totes a wise head ❤❤❤
AMEN AMEN AMEN,,SISTER,,My great grandmother used 2 say the #SAME THING 🎉❤
I can definitely remember being quiet and the Holyspirit drops gems.
This is one of the reasons me and my now ex-best friend are no longer friends. Mind you I said one. The spiritual discernment hit the nail on the head when I found out the ultimate cut off point where I knew there was no turning back. Men lie, women lie but God don't. ✂️ She had to go. That was the best decision ever.
I can stay quiet for a long time but once I’m finish I’m DONE. Cut, blocked and no return for me!! Then they really are upset because they thought they got away with something!!! It drives them crazy!! I’m at peace ☮️ Their loss, my gain😃💯I will always MOVE ON. 💯
Or take advantage of u. And then they get pissed and say you changed.when u no longer hang with them
It’s important to ask polite questions to hate them into explaining their position. Observant can also be questioning 😉
Amen! Question them with their own words.
This guy I was dating. I can feel he was getting pleasure and his demons were growing off of picking on me & I would have to go away for days, maybe weeks to come back deal with the same negative energy & the enemy would lie and always make me feel bad bc “he’s who I really want” & take up for him until I start ..eating right, getting back in the word, exercising and taking care of myself 100% as the Holy Spirit would guide me to. God does not want us to suffer at the hands of the enemy. I will not, I thank him for his love gifts and power🔥Thank you for your obedience..
That’s a narcissist! Honey run!!! I’ve been there and it doesn’t end well. At all!!! Block him & remove tourself
Amen.... I'm always quiet and usually don't say anything. What you said is true. Yes, my discernment has increased.
There's a lil truth in all sarcastic words.always.amen
We thank God you make our enemies expose themselves and you fight our battles in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 💜 Amen
The second part of this word is so on point🔥🙌🏽👏🏽I know an expression that goes something like: keep giving people rope and see what they’ll do with all that rope you give them...
Last year I started praying for God to remove anything and anyone who was fake in my life, what followed was a series of very disturbing behavior and it was even painful to watch because I wanted to confront and end it all but I had to REMAIN SILENT because I had asked the Lord to remove it and I had to wait on His timing and will. He unmasked the person so badly and in a way that only He can and He does out of love and jealous for His children👑🙏🏽
So true but the thing is when you cut them off they keep asking you why and because you let so many things slide you prefer to stay silent rather than addrssing every issue one by one.
I’m so thankful for you! God bless you. The one who says you’re a fake is the fakest women I have ever listened to btw, took about 3 seconds. It took a lot for me not to tell her how I felt. What a disgrace she is.
👍
Whoooo?!!! Talking about our friend/sister?!! That’s so low down. People really be hating fr fr
Sad story but so true
Facts And Thats Why All Of Them Are About To Get Whats Coming To Them So Let Them Be Petty And Shady Allll They Want 💅🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥
Sister Stephanie I posted a video yesterday about the same topic. Cut people off at the first sign of disrespect. Thanks for the confirmation ‼️
Amen! Disrespect is not tolerated period
It says in bible course joking is wrong. I never thought joking is funny when belittling someone. It definitely shows someone’s true feelings 💜🌈💜
That message was personally for me. ..thank u so much beautiful. Finally somebody understands me❤
Amen!!!! Silence is the best💜
So needed. In the last days men will become lovers of self… I think it’s always been this way but the Devil has been working sooo hard and more people have his narcissistic spirit than ever. I also think God has been working over time bc in the last days God will also pour out His spirit on all flesh, so we finally recognize the gaslighting and that these people are truly lovers of self and trying to make you worship them and not God.
Joke's on them, think about it. Too much energy to pretend. Lord I thank you for discernment, for bridleing my tongue. Thank you for wisdom. Thank you Stephanie for your anointing, your transparency, for being the woman of God, you are. I so appreciate you and your gifts. God bless you ❤
And so the saying goes, "silence is golden". And there is so much wisdom in being silent. It is also believed that we spend 55% of our time in " nonverbal communication". We see a lot when we observe people without saying a word.
This really works! God has been working on my mouth, temper, snd attitude. He has me quiet as just observing people, I’m like ahhhhhhh I see it!
Amen! ♥ Sis. Preach! The light has comes into the world for everyone to see. But people still loved the darkness instead of the light. Because, what they did was so evil. And everyone who does evil things hates the light. Moreover, they will not come to the light, because they are afraid that what they do in the dark will be seen into the light. But anyone who lives by the absolute truth of God steps into the light, so it will be easy to see what he has done with God's mighty power. 👍♥.
This hits home. Amen🙏🏽
The Goal Post Cannot Be Removed From The Stadium!
Yes I’m a very quiet and observant person ..
When someone goes only joking no!! They aren't they mean it
They are like a raunchy joke. Thankyou.
O! M! G! This literally happened to me today by someone i considered close to me.
What happened, actually happened more than 3times. But because IAM slow to speak in anger i said nothing til today. But i was nice about it when i mentioned it to them, and they still denied the situation/issue when i already know for sure what it was because of my “sit back and observe” skills😊
I can’t with these people.
However, thanks for the confirmation Steph because these people definitely tried to make things out like I’m too sensitive….meanwhile I’m already knowing my sensitivity is just my discernment.💛✨
This happened to me yesterday. Thank you for sharing. This just shows me I did the right thing thank you ❤️
As a child of God we all have to experience betrayal
I was silent for 35+ years. Let the light shine on their dirty deeds done dirt cheap.
Yes, it’s the closest person to me. They think that I don’t know what’s going on. But I just waiting for God to end this. In Jesus name.
I'm going through that right now
This is so true, I was at one point a hot head and acted on everything someone did and said when I caught on and even though I knew the truth the would get around others and try make seem like I am trippen or the one that’s flaw. But of course God still exposed them to others. But I learned now to be silent and let things play out no matter how bad I want to speak up.
You just made me see something very important, thank you Stephanie!!!
Amen God exposes to reveal So that we may remove ourselves from these people places & situtions🌟💖🙏💖😇
I’m learning to keep my mouth closed even when it hurts sooooo bad.
Absolutely. .. and the funny thing is they don't know that you know they're what they are truly spewing out of their mouth is truly what is in their heart and how they really feel but is okay as far as I am concerned I know God Will take Care of his children no matter what darkness never prevails that's it that's all⭕⭕
Someone at work - A MAN no less did this to me!!! Called me the “B” word in fact, but did when we were laughing in front of a group setting, and va I was so taken aback by it, that I ignored in the heat of the moment because I didn’t know what to say, but then later in the conversation he called me a “racist” because again we were laughing at something, can’t remember what exactly, but I was using my funny Asian accent-he is Asian and this time he called me a racist and I ignored, but I went home over the weekend and wrestled a lot with it and took it God, didn’t tell my husband about it, but now I’m hearing your video and I received a boatload of information, and I know where I went wrong, but I was told a few things and I am goi g to follow through, one of them is exactly what you said repeatedly “stay quiet” God will right this wrong and I now know to remain professional and don’t deal to him anymore, and to keep being polite/professional, thank you for this video, I feel I SM one of the reasons you were given the word to put this out and reattach one of your old videos to it, thank you! I thought this dude was cool and different but he’s not, God is proving that to me, and given me total confirmation of this, my thing is why do I have a lot of make hater’s, I’ve never seen this do prevalent before, until the last couple of years #smh on how “men” can hate on an actual female 🙄🙄🙄 #thingsthatmakeyougohmmm
Love this word. I’ve been doing this and it’s strengthened my discernment. In this new season I’m in, I need to do this 10x as much. Thank you for sharing this revelation!!
Yeah I had noticed that my brother in Christ had did the samething, but he had came back to me trying to show me something that he couldn't really prove well he had told me that he wanted to fight me back in the day for how I was acting back in the day
So anyways, God bless you, sister Stephanie, and your awesome family 👪 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God with you're encouraging words that you're giving right now 🕊🔥✝️🙌🏾
JUST ON TIME STEPHANIE
Amen I agree with what you are saying. When they know they don't want you. I learned to ignore them and move on because I don't have timeto deal with those that don't know what they want in life. I learned how to do me and be happy. Thanks for sharing this Video. Thanks Amen ❤️🙏🏽👍
True True… silence is key 🤫
Amen. Thank You for this message. I stay quiet all the time.
This is confirmation, had to keep reminding me this every single day! THIS TIME I GOTTA DO IT IN STRENGTH AMEN 🙏 💪 🥰😇
That's what I had to do with a friend whose story started to trip up concerning her constantly running into my person, including a supposed letter from him.
It was about a year after the fake letter, that she was writing a letter to someone and she ran it by me over the phone to check if it sounded ok, so I had her take a pic of it and send it so I could check if the writing style was the same, and it was, also she even said the exact same sentence at one point, which she had put in the other letter supposedly from my person.
This was so hard for me to find out because all her stories messed with my head and emotions as i believed she was truly running into him and everything, and it also showed me that my person never did say anything, and I was back to seeing how he could care less about me.
Which eventually made me realize that just because I love him doesn't mean he is the one God made for me, because there's no way the one meant for me could remain silent and ignore me. I don't like it at all but I'm having to rethink who else may be my person, and whether I've already met him before or have yet to.
Out of anyone else I can think of, there is still one person who keeps an eye on me and keeps checking to see whether I've gotten married, but he knows I love someone else. I know I have a person, and maybe it's that he just isn't in this world. As for anyone else who has toyed with me concerning the person I love... God is watching everything and everything eventually does come out. Just because I don't seek revenge on people who try to hurt me, doesn't mean God lets it slide without consequence. I'm not the only one who pays for things and for people I've done wrong to.
They think they making you look stupid, but by you acting like you Don't know what's going on & keeping quiet, you watching and observing & collecting the evidence you need.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Currently have a person around just like this
Great insightful message for us all to be reminded of or to understand in general thank you for sharing.
💜
Thank you Stephanie🎉 The Beatles say it all let it be 😊
A wise person listens twice as much as they speak.
THANK GOD FOR HIS PEOPLE. THEY ARE A TRUE BLESSING. AMEN N AMEN.🙏💜❤️😇👹👹👹🤡👺👺😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
This is a good word. I kind of do this by accident. It’s my natural freeze/confusion response. It makes people real comfortable real quick. My problem is….what do I do after I notice the pattern? Do I discuss it? Do I cut and run?
Shady...... I'm experiencing this right now.
Yes! This is how i deal w/ppl.. I let them show me who they are that way I can move accordingly. I had a lady that I’ve asked for help from and she jokingly stated that she would take the help from me.. I stepped back and never spoke to her again bc that was her 3rd strike.. and I did it silently bc my discernment is real just like Stephanie stated..let ppl b themselves don’t make a scene just back up.. it’s all cool.. u win some u lose some!!!
Thank you God Jesus Christ Pastor Hon'ble Dr Stephanie P Smith Madam for your Confirmation Blessings in Jesus Mighty Name I pray. Amen Hallelujah praise the Lord. 🙏
I just witnessed a similar situation this past weekend 😮
Not quick to anger but years years years of abuse and still being illegally tracked where I try to lay my head and being called a troublemaker when it's them doing bad things..
If I am not liked? I accept..now leave me alone!!!
Most definitely my sista really works lowkey blessings to you 🤎🙏💫
AMEN! You are so right Stephaie. God bless you sis! ❤⚘
Patience is mother of success. Look at a fools who think they are fooling me. I don't have time for fools amen and amen. Thank you Abba Father and you daughter of Nazareth amen
You are right. I matched his energy today.
Now that’s soo true I’ve been doing that!!!
Thank you so much for the message, Stephanie! May GOD continue to bless you; you are such a blessing and an inspiration!!!
Amen! Timely message! It hurts a lot but it's true!❤
I receive this message in the name of Jesus thank you Stephanie for letting God use you to share this wisdom
I had a "friend" like that in my past.....long story short I had cut ties. Silently
CONFORMATION.... AMEN😢
Thank you. This is true. People get comfortable and careless when I'm silent. I kept all in my memory bank as i am the one who is on the receiving end. They on their part just shoot everywhere without thinking about the trails and consequences. I memorized them without effort as they are non-stop, 24/7.
I try to low key analyze myself. I now crack jokes in my head most of the time when i distract myself from them. When i am left all alone with them, my body resists being silent. I feel like we are communing and i feel them and they feel how i feel about them. It's like i'm short-circuiting. It's cringe. They taught me this feeling, it was developed. But last night, i am starting to realize the effects it may have on me.
You are not lying. It's almost like a defense mechanism, we react this way based off their actions. I do the same things. Your not weird lol😉💪🏽
Thank you for sharing your gifts🙏🏻
✝️
Thanks!
Its so funny how i just clicked on your video and family just tried to shade me AGAIN in group text, this one family member! And discernment is hugggeee for success in this life! Jesus had me read Proverbs the WHOLE Proverbs during my time i needed to see who the people were around me! And let me tellll you! This bible is no JoKE! 😫 im so thankful for my Savior Jesus Christ! I will always give HiM his praise! Ive gotten through everything in this life by his WORD and being obedient! 😢😢😢
This is so helpful , I'm learning! Praise God and God bless you for ur help ❤
Thank you 🙏
I can always see through people’s lies and I can interpret how people react to me when I give them the eagle stare. That’s when they start tripping out.😂 I play the fool to show the other person’s old fox tail
This message is relatable to me. Thank you!+
Literally had this moment yesterday with my narcissist ex. It's all my fault and they never stopped loving me, blah blah blah.
He stayed with me for awhile and all my clothes disappeared. He has 5 13 gallon trash bags full of clothes and he came with very little.
Thank you for sharing. God Blesses you sooooo much.🎉😊
Thanks Stephanie confirmation
Amen you have to watch them and see they reveal themselve
You look beautiful
Thank you Stephanie God bless you ❤️🙏🏾😇
Just like today, in the restroom, when I forced return the obvious fake laugh to avoid catching another case. Because my Heavenly Father Yahuah Almighty ALWAYS has the last laugh & know the WHOLE, real Truth about my current physical condition. 💯🤷♀️💯
God be the Glory n God bless you dear Stephanie for this powerful propetic word of wisdom n knowledge I receive this in Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏🙏❤️🤗
Phewwww Steph our father is goood! This word was for me!!! I tried as much as I could to show her the right way, but she already decided so God said it’s done now!
Amen!!!
Yes, I know who this is!!!
He thinks I don't know the extent of what he is doing!!!
And Praise God!!!!
My Lord is already dealing with him!!
His physical condition is having serious problems, and God will have him removed soon!!!!
Message received blessings queen
This was so good. And so true!!!!
God don’t even have to expose these fools they do it themselves it’s actually so funny 😂😂 thanks for the video Stephanie
Thank You Lord