There are really so many ways to live. Just look at the Americans, so why can we not do the same? Of course, you can choose whatever life that has meaning and purpose that you want. But you do have to keep in mind decency, respect, and responsibility. And to understand these well, you have to learn. Learning is not just about hearing something and agree, but it requires the understanding and the applications. And some learning is much harder that takes repetitions or an understanding of the wider and more connected scope. This is why life is a continue stream of learning. Of course, one of the biggest issues of life is taming the desires. The things that just drives us crazy to want, and want, and want, and does pushes us to limits of normality. And if we are not careful, we fall off and are lost. Protect yourself, extended desires are not that important. The fascination degrades as soon as possession is obtained, and only a matter of time before it has very little value at all. Look at these things from moderation, and only pursue when it still aligns with the good sense of morality.
Me and my siblings have a extremely rough life too due to our parent divorcing. We got all the same hate criticism due to their faults even though we're not like them. People don't know how stressful it is because they don't wear our shoes. Hearing stories about a sad life doesn't cover 50% of the true in hand experience. Sorry for you sister may God bless you and your sister.
Nrog koj/ nej cov nus muag zoo siab uas nej rov Tau sib sau los sib hlub lawm,,,Ntawm koj txiv ces txhob chim 2 heev,. Tos koj niam nkawd ho sib nrauj los ntshe twb Yog Tim koj niam nkaus 2 xwb,,,vim koj niam pheej nqhis 2 mus deev cov txiv neej txhua Tus ..
Your mom got nice job but she doesn’t know how to control. Don’t worry about your mom LIFE just don’t fellow your mom foot steps at all matters. Hopefully god n Buddha will lead your way. My kids also same age of you too. Hopefully ALL holy things in this world will lead you n your sister better…
So sorry you and sister have to go through so much. Learn from your mom's mistakes and doing and don't be like your mom. Yes, you are right, your fate and destiny are your own. Bless you and your sister. Your mom is a mean, irresponsible, and not a mom at all. Her fate and destiny are her own. Shame on her and she should be ashamed of herself that is when she is old and useless, just don't take care of and love her when that time comes.
Forge your own path sister and never let your past hinder you from living the life you wanted. Think of it as you live for yourself and those who never got the chance to see the sun rise.
Koj niam yog ib tus maum dev xav tau tog loj xwb. Nws thiaj nrhiav kiag tus kev, nrhiav kiag tus dawb, nrhiav kiag tus dub. Cov neeg mus church los yog yus tsis them nyiaj rau lawv lawm ces lawv yeej tsis kam log.
Wow thaum kuv g tau hnov neeg cov neej kuv phej xav tias txhua2 tus leej niam ces yeej good parent all the time even she a single parent.tsuas yog txiv neej thiaj coj cwj pwm phem xwb . Hlub neb 2 tug me viv ncaus ntsuag ciaj os .kuv los dhuav2 cov tuaj church kom tau neeg leg lub ntees xwb kawg li thov yog nej twb g ntseeg Vt Es thaum tuag mam coj pov 6 pawg ntseeg leg tas tseem tuaj muab hais tias coj ua kev cai dog dig mus g txog chaw tub2 qaug cov ntseeg sawv daws li ov
Hahahaha, only men thiaj lis phem xwb?? Hahahaha koj paub tsawg tshaj os! Hmong women who have very bad cwj pwm poj laib khib xuab mas ha ya coob os!!!
Thaum twg koj n7am tuag c4s neb ib viv ncaus yeej tau los tha ko koj niam ntag lis mas me naib aw. Cov niag neeg tsis txawj xav li koj niam ces tsis paub yuav muab lub neej xaus rau qhov twg os mog. Kav tsij rau suab ntso ua yus lub neej kom zoo zoo xwb os nawb.
Who are we to judge for those who attending church, whether they comes to church or not we should love them, so very sorry about you and your siblings, I’m raising my grand children as well due to their parents divorce too..
U poor sisters. I'm so sorry that u and your sister went thru so much. Pab hlub neb kawg li os. Rau rau siab ua neb lub neej kom zoo zoo nawb. Best wishes to u both. 💕
Don’t understand regarding about you said now you and your sisters had found your two brothers so that mean your mother did had two son too right or two brothers you have just a stepbrother, you are a tough girl can live independently so god will bless you thank you for sharing.
You’re the only person to say this. I hate how if the story is about a hmong man screwing around and neglecting their children, all the comments would blow up by women talking sooooo much crap about hmong men. But when it’s a hmong woman who is a screw up, all the Hmong women pretend to just skip over that fact, and say something like “feel so sad for you and your sister, feel bad for your childhood, etc”, but never do any hmong woman ever condemn the Hmong woman in the story who is a total fuk up. Thank you for stating the fact that the woman in the story is a horrible woman and mother! She is the perfect example of khib xuab!! And perfect perfect example of what a hmong woman should NOT be.
So sorry about your rotten childhood with your irresponsible mother. As you said, learn from your mother's mistakes and avoid walking in her path when making your life decisions. It's good that you and your sister reconnected with your two brothers. Good luck to you and your younger sister.
You’d be surprised to see how many Hmong Christians talk badly about divorced Christian Hmong women behind closed doors. To hell, I witnessed a lot of moms lecturing their daughter(s) to be a child of god bc so and so at church is a divorcee or a s*** for having a child out of wedlock. The list goes on. It’s just horrible how most of them love to put on a show that they’re morally superior and are quick to caste stones on other ppl without checking their nasty attitude behind closed doors.
Ntuj aw!!! Cas koj niam yuav txawj xuaj ua luaj li os ..!! Koj niam mas thiaj txawj RUAM tiag npaud li Lauj!! Tseem mus tham txiv mos ab Tim nplog thiab os...??
We don't need any religon or belief to die....we all will either die at home, in the hospital or senior home...why worry...it is not Laos or Thailand...it is just bs when people use religon or belief to convert people..
I've known 2 women who were like this mother. It takes them to REALLY REALLY hit rock bottom to find the reason(s) to change themselves. The saddest thing is these women introduced so many random guys to their young children - absolutely very unhealthy! You and your sister saw firsthand how your mother is. The only way not to fall into that route is to stray far from it and live a successful life. ❤
peb tej tub tej ntxhais tuaj nyob teb chaw vammeej no ces muaj muaj peev xwm tham dub tham dawb tham America India tham karean tham txhuas haiv neeg li lawm as.
aubyaub me ntxhais aw....kojniam tso dawb tshom kojniam thaj av, dub los tshom kojniam thaj av, dub thiab dawb es lawv cov qau lojliloj ntevlintev es tshum txog ntua kaussiab xwb es uacas yuav rhuavplu tag npaum li lauj. Kojniam ces zoo li niag maumdev nawj. maumdev ces ntau tus txivdev nce, uacas nws yog ib tus nurse no es nws yuav xyaum mus ua niag maumdev lawm os me txhais aw. nws phem dhau lawm ces muab nws xa mus cuag poj cuag yawm xwb mas..cov niag maumdev zoo li kojniam mas nyob los nyav av xwb nawj me ntxhais..
Me ntxhais aw...mloog koj zaj no mas hlub neb 2 viv ncaus heev li os. Lub neej sib nrauj sib tso yeej muaj puv ntuj, tab sis muaj ib txhia leej niam ces nws txawj hlub txawj tiv thaiv nws tej me nyuam ces txawm sib nrauj lawm los tej me nyuam kuj tsis txom nyem tsis raug zej zog ntxub. Koj niam yog hom leej niam uas thaum tsis muaj tus txiv lawm nws tsis nco hlub nws tej me nyuam nws tsuas nrhiav kev lom zem rau nws tus kheej xwb es neb 2 viv ncaus thiaj li raug luag teb luag chaw ntxub hais tsis zoo rau neb. Zoo siab tias hnub no neb tsis txom nyem lawm os.
There are really so many ways to live. Just look at the Americans, so why can we not do the same? Of course, you can choose whatever life that has meaning and purpose that you want. But you do have to keep in mind decency, respect, and responsibility. And to understand these well, you have to learn. Learning is not just about hearing something and agree, but it requires the understanding and the applications. And some learning is much harder that takes repetitions or an understanding of the wider and more connected scope. This is why life is a continue stream of learning.
Of course, one of the biggest issues of life is taming the desires. The things that just drives us crazy to want, and want, and want, and does pushes us to limits of normality. And if we are not careful, we fall off and are lost. Protect yourself, extended desires are not that important. The fascination degrades as soon as possession is obtained, and only a matter of time before it has very little value at all. Look at these things from moderation, and only pursue when it still aligns with the good sense of morality.
Me and my siblings have a extremely rough life too due to our parent divorcing. We got all the same hate criticism due to their faults even though we're not like them. People don't know how stressful it is because they don't wear our shoes. Hearing stories about a sad life doesn't cover 50% of the true in hand experience. Sorry for you sister may God bless you and your sister.
Neb niam mas Liam tshaj li os.
😢😢😢😢 I'm glad there's was a happy ending
Feem ntau mas peb Hmoob cov tub thiajli coj raws leejtxiv, li hais os; lubnoob yeej poob tsis deb ntawm hauvpaus ntoo. Tabsis peb cov Ntxhais mas feem coob lawv yeej muaj lawv hmoov noj lawv hmoov. Txhob tusiab os mog. Kuj tsis totaub haistias cas koj niam twb kawm tiav Nurse diam es xeebceem ho phem ualuaj li thiab.
Nrog koj/ nej cov nus muag zoo siab uas nej rov Tau sib sau los sib hlub lawm,,,Ntawm koj txiv ces txhob chim 2 heev,. Tos koj niam nkawd ho sib nrauj los ntshe twb Yog Tim koj niam nkaus 2 xwb,,,vim koj niam pheej nqhis 2 mus deev cov txiv neej txhua Tus ..
Tusiab tiag2 o mloog kj zaj no na
Your mom got nice job but she doesn’t know how to control. Don’t worry about your mom LIFE just don’t fellow your mom foot steps at all matters. Hopefully god n Buddha will lead your way. My kids also same age of you too. Hopefully ALL holy things in this world will lead you n your sister better…
❤can’t wait for ur story sis
Hi there, sister. Thank you so much for your support❤
Tej zaum neb niam Liam Liam es neb txiv nkawv thiaj lis sib nrauj os.
So sorry you and sister have to go through so much. Learn from your mom's mistakes and doing and don't be like your mom. Yes, you are right, your fate and destiny are your own. Bless you and your sister. Your mom is a mean, irresponsible, and not a mom at all. Her fate and destiny are her own. Shame on her and she should be ashamed of herself that is when she is old and useless, just don't take care of and love her when that time comes.
Forge your own path sister and never let your past hinder you from living the life you wanted. Think of it as you live for yourself and those who never got the chance to see the sun rise.
Koj niam yog ib tus maum dev xav tau tog loj xwb. Nws thiaj nrhiav kiag tus kev, nrhiav kiag tus dawb, nrhiav kiag tus dub. Cov neeg mus church los yog yus tsis them nyiaj rau lawv lawm ces lawv yeej tsis kam log.
Wow thaum kuv g tau hnov neeg cov neej kuv phej xav tias txhua2 tus leej niam ces yeej good parent all the time even she a single parent.tsuas yog txiv neej thiaj coj cwj pwm phem xwb . Hlub neb 2 tug me viv ncaus ntsuag ciaj os .kuv los dhuav2 cov tuaj church kom tau neeg leg lub ntees xwb kawg li thov yog nej twb g ntseeg Vt Es thaum tuag mam coj pov 6 pawg ntseeg leg tas tseem tuaj muab hais tias coj ua kev cai dog dig mus g txog chaw tub2 qaug cov ntseeg sawv daws li ov
Hahahaha, only men thiaj lis phem xwb?? Hahahaha koj paub tsawg tshaj os! Hmong women who have very bad cwj pwm poj laib khib xuab mas ha ya coob os!!!
Tsis hais poj losis yawg nrauj, yog yus muaj menyuam nrog yus nyob. Yus yuav tsum muaj yus cov menyuam ua #1. Zaj no yog qhia tias tus niam yog neeg li cas lawm.
Thaum twg koj n7am tuag c4s neb ib viv ncaus yeej tau los tha ko koj niam ntag lis mas me naib aw. Cov niag neeg tsis txawj xav li koj niam ces tsis paub yuav muab lub neej xaus rau qhov twg os mog. Kav tsij rau suab ntso ua yus lub neej kom zoo zoo xwb os nawb.
Who are we to judge for those who attending church, whether they comes to church or not we should love them, so very sorry about you and your siblings, I’m raising my grand children as well due to their parents divorce too..
U poor sisters. I'm so sorry that u and your sister went thru so much. Pab hlub neb kawg li os. Rau rau siab ua neb lub neej kom zoo zoo nawb. Best wishes to u both. 💕
Don’t understand regarding about you said now you and your sisters had found your two brothers so that mean your mother did had two son too right or two brothers you have just a stepbrother, you are a tough girl can live independently so god will bless you thank you for sharing.
What a horrible woman/mom. She's her own downfall.
You’re the only person to say this. I hate how if the story is about a hmong man screwing around and neglecting their children, all the comments would blow up by women talking sooooo much crap about hmong men. But when it’s a hmong woman who is a screw up, all the Hmong women pretend to just skip over that fact, and say something like “feel so sad for you and your sister, feel bad for your childhood, etc”, but never do any hmong woman ever condemn the Hmong woman in the story who is a total fuk up. Thank you for stating the fact that the woman in the story is a horrible woman and mother! She is the perfect example of khib xuab!! And perfect perfect example of what a hmong woman should NOT be.
So sorry about your rotten childhood with your irresponsible mother. As you said, learn from your mother's mistakes and avoid walking in her path when making your life decisions. It's good that you and your sister reconnected with your two brothers. Good luck to you and your younger sister.
Those church member's are not really God's believers. I thought that church people doesn't judge others? They really need to truly believe in God.
You’d be surprised to see how many Hmong Christians talk badly about divorced Christian Hmong women behind closed doors. To hell, I witnessed a lot of moms lecturing their daughter(s) to be a child of god bc so and so at church is a divorcee or a s*** for having a child out of wedlock. The list goes on. It’s just horrible how most of them love to put on a show that they’re morally superior and are quick to caste stones on other ppl without checking their nasty attitude behind closed doors.
Koj niam ces yog ib niag Poj Mebcab PojLaib loj xwb os. Leejtwg hais rau nej haistias yus coj yus ob tug ntxhais twb kawm High School lawm mus nrog luag nyob es yuav tseev kom luag muab luag tej Vajtse Business rau yus lubnpe na? Ruam pob. Kuv li yog kuv yog Koj niam mas, tsuav tau ib tug leejtxiv hlub hlub yus ob tug ntxhais thiab yus muaj Tsev nyob xwb. Lawv tej nyiajtxiag, tej Business lawv PogKoob YawgKoob tsim los rau lawv, kuv yeej tsis ntshaw tsis txeeb li os. Tab tseem lawv yuav muab pub kuv los ntshe kuv yuav feel guilty thiab. Vim lawv tseem muaj niam muaj txiv muaj ntxhais.
rau siab rau koj lub neej xwb mog
Ntuj aw!!! Cas koj niam yuav txawj xuaj ua luaj li os ..!! Koj niam mas thiaj txawj RUAM tiag npaud li Lauj!! Tseem mus tham txiv mos ab Tim nplog thiab os...??
You two were not the ones and only kids in this position to endure your hardship of life.
We don't need any religon or belief to die....we all will either die at home, in the hospital or senior home...why worry...it is not Laos or Thailand...it is just bs when people use religon or belief to convert people..
I've known 2 women who were like this mother. It takes them to REALLY REALLY hit rock bottom to find the reason(s) to change themselves. The saddest thing is these women introduced so many random guys to their young children - absolutely very unhealthy!
You and your sister saw firsthand how your mother is. The only way not to fall into that route is to stray far from it and live a successful life. ❤
It takes two to make a baby. Where is the father?!
peb tej tub tej ntxhais tuaj nyob teb chaw vammeej no ces muaj muaj peev xwm tham dub tham dawb tham America India tham karean tham txhuas haiv neeg li lawm as.
And what is wrong with that??
And what is wrong with that??
Poj hmoob khib xuab qias neeg! Uas raus poj niam hmoob txim txiaj poob ntsej muag.
Ntshe neb ncawg nws because the swimming pool? And he’s the owner
Wonder if i knew these 2 sisters at 1 time, no?? Their mom was tall dark n hot. They dont look hmong tho. More like laos cambodian girls
You'll be like your mom
Like mother, like daughter
Neb niam ces yog ib niag pog hunker ?
aubyaub me ntxhais aw....kojniam tso dawb tshom kojniam thaj av, dub los tshom kojniam thaj av, dub thiab dawb es lawv cov qau lojliloj ntevlintev es tshum txog ntua kaussiab xwb es uacas yuav rhuavplu tag npaum li lauj. Kojniam ces zoo li niag maumdev nawj. maumdev ces ntau tus txivdev nce, uacas nws yog ib tus nurse no es nws yuav xyaum mus ua niag maumdev lawm os me txhais aw. nws phem dhau lawm ces muab nws xa mus cuag poj cuag yawm xwb mas..cov niag maumdev zoo li kojniam mas nyob los nyav av xwb nawj me ntxhais..