You guys are so beautiful 😂 I'm in for a Palesa and mtho marathon today. I'm loving the content, the vibes it's awesome guys. Can mtho start his own channel please, for the boys😂
First time on your channel and I must say I love it when you said (there is no taking a break in this relationship, if we are in it than let it be so) that’s a beautiful boundary gives the next person a very good picture of who they are about to deal with and definitely up to them to decide whether they entering the relationship or not ❤️🙌
Hey boo. Thanks so much for taking the time to watch. I really appreciate it hey ❤ Relationships are complicated, so I just hope our experience helps someone out there or sparks a conversation amongst other couples. Ultimately, we should be straight with each other in order to make it work. Are you with someone or still waiting for the right person?
This video has been recommended to me like twice in the last week; I finally decided to click on it and here I am over here thinking, "He looks like one of the Dube brothers," - whose ministry I came across this week and to my surprise a couple hours later, I find out it is indeed Bishop Benjamin Dube's oldest son. They're such a beautiful people.
Dating. And I beg to differ. It is not solely a man’s decision to get married, but a joint one that only comes when both parties are ready & in God’s timing. We were young when we started dating, and I had way too much going on in my life- knowing that I couldn’t even be the kind of wife he deserved, I told him I was not ready. I can safely say I’m at that stage now where I’ve built myself up into a great woman who will make a wonderful wife & I’m now ready. Some things are worth waiting for especially when you know it will be all worth it in the end ♥️
Mara 13 years🙆🏽♀️anyway great couple🤗. Out of interest what do you guys think about sex before marriage and are you for it or against it as Christians
Hey boo. lol it's 14 now hahaha. I can't speak for my partner as he is his own person, but I can definitely give you my thoughts on it. I was brought up with the notion that one cannot give themselves sexually until they are in a marriage. For me- I respect that and I am totally for it. But, I will say that I believe it's a personal choice that you cannot impose onto another individual. I think once one has matured enough to make wise decisions about their sexual activity, then you can decide for yourself if you are willing to give that precious gift to another individual. You must fully trust someone before having sex with them, and that is tricky in this day and age because people don't value relationships. (Hope this makes sense, it sounded better in my head. It should be a discussion)
@@PalesaLPhillips If it's based on personal choice then Christ IS NOT you alls foundation. Palesa, don't deceive yourself on your Christianity and relationship with God. Jesus said " If you love me, *keep* my Commandments." John I'm saying this in full love. You statements and professions of God is totally contradictory.
Just by living by the word hey. Temptation will always come, you just gotta keep reminding yourself of who you are and stay true to that. Outside people are great, and you will always meet people who will make you think twice about your partner- but it goes back to the 80/20 rule from the movie "Why did I get married". If you know you have built something solid and your person is great, you will not risk it. What a deep question friend lol
Hahahahaha! We had issues because he was really controlling. Plus, I was very young and meeting new people- he hated that I was getting attention from other guys. And right at the perfect time- we broke up.
Lol why are you judging a relationship without knowing the true dynamics? You do know that not everyone aspires to get married, others get married and divorce after some time due to several reasons, others only find true love later in life... And then there's some of us who have been enjoying a life together, building and growing as a couple- BEFORE taking that big step. I would rather be happy in a partnership with a person, than rush things just to meet everyone else's expectations. We're in our own lane.
09:13 😂 sure sis, we believe you 👌🏾
13 whole years!! We love to see a couple that prays together 💕 you guys are so cute 🥺 we’re here for it all 🔥🔥
😂😂😂 Things happen lol
Thanks so much chomi. I appreciate the love. love you 💖
@@PalesaLPhillips I love you 💕😌
😂😂😂part 2, craziest memories you have , and also they day you introduced him to your family and when he did the same
OOH! Nice one b. I need to write that down lol
Would like to see you two with Sihle and Jessica in a video like playing couple games or something like that...I think that would be fun😍💗
That would be fun. I'll invite them and see if they are keen. Thanks boo 😘
Palesa's skin is everything!👌😭❤
Woo chomi! for real though??? 😚 💖 I love you!!!
13:33 I thought he was going to say "& now we're engaged " 😭😭😭❤.
😂 hahaha! Be on the lookout for that! It definitely needs to happen
oooh my gosh me toooooo, yho Mtho she's been hinting on IG, hahah
Finally you got to do this video..we thank 😊 you for taking your time and shoot this one
Hahahaha I literally bribed him. I need to stock up on his favourite items so I can keep bribing him for more videos lol😜
Next video should be about how you met each other's families
I looove this suggestion. Now I gotta bribe him to do the video 🙈😂
@@PalesaLPhillips If he loves us he must do it😂
@@PalesaLPhillips do your thing sis😁😁
Yoh a ke sa le late, but love the story of how u met, safe to say friendship starts most things.. he's so chilled. Keep the vids coming
hahahaha! and you are usually number one ge! what happened? It's because I stopped posting at 3am 😂
You guys are so beautiful 😂 I'm in for a Palesa and mtho marathon today. I'm loving the content, the vibes it's awesome guys. Can mtho start his own channel please, for the boys😂
Hahahahaha his own channel? maybe he must have his own section here- what do you think? Mara thanks so much for all your time hle ❤🤗
Finally 💃💃I've been waiting for this video
Hahahaha! The way I had to beg, plead and grovel for this video to happen lol
First time on your channel and I must say I love it when you said (there is no taking a break in this relationship, if we are in it than let it be so) that’s a beautiful boundary gives the next person a very good picture of who they are about to deal with and definitely up to them to decide whether they entering the relationship or not ❤️🙌
Hey boo. Thanks so much for taking the time to watch. I really appreciate it hey ❤ Relationships are complicated, so I just hope our experience helps someone out there or sparks a conversation amongst other couples. Ultimately, we should be straight with each other in order to make it work. Are you with someone or still waiting for the right person?
❤it's like you knew I've been waiting for this video thank you 💕😍I love it so much what a beautiful story
I'm glad you like it my love 😘
Kumnandi la ekhaya bo❤🥰...and yess give us attention!🤣❤
Bare "Happy wife- Happy life" so they need to make sure all the "Wifeys" are taken care of lol😘
@@PalesaLPhillips exactly 😎🤣
Notification gang 🔥💕
Been waiting for this video 😭🥰
Friend!!! 💖
May the good Lord add many more years into your relationship..You guys look good together ❤🥰
Aww Malebo- Rea leboha hle. Modimo a be le wena 😘
I just love you guys sm!❤
LOVE YOU TOO!!!
I just love you guys. Thank you for sharing your love journey with us ❤️
Aww Nondu- Thank u for taking the time to check it out. Are you in a relationship or still searching for your prince charming?
It's him singing the outro😂
So cute🥺♥️
That's because he made that song. It always helps to have a producer at your disposal lol 😜 Thanks for watching friend!
Looking beautiful as always .May God be with you both at all times ❤️
Thank you so much Katlo🤗 love you
The fave ❤ enjoyed this video of you and your bae. You guys are the cutest.
Thank you friend!! ☺ Really appreciate the support!💖
This was cuuute! 😍❤️
Thanks so much for watching babe. Really appreciate it hle 😘
@@PalesaLPhillips ❤️❤️❤️
😂so we can conclude that Mtho becomes pissed only when he is driving, other than that he is a fun person
HAHAHAHAHA! Best Comment Out here!!! What an observation 😂😂
Love you so much Palesa! 😍
Sino Boo! Love and appreciate you babe 💖
My Armani also says hi.. lol ❤️ Cute guys. Nikhule nikhule
So sweet ❤❤ Thanks so much!
This video has been recommended to me like twice in the last week; I finally decided to click on it and here I am over here thinking, "He looks like one of the Dube brothers," - whose ministry I came across this week and to my surprise a couple hours later, I find out it is indeed Bishop Benjamin Dube's oldest son.
They're such a beautiful people.
Hey gorgeous, thanks so much for watching. I truly believe it was fate lol 😊😘
Beautiful couple.
You're doing well, keep up the good work🤍
Aww thanks so much love!☺
Nofication gang babes ! We here ! ❤❤
Hunty!! You have been right here & you know how much I appreciate that!! 😘
@@PalesaLPhillips And I ain't going nowhere ! ❤🤞
Yessss 💖🥰...I love you two so much
Wena o skhokho saka shem. Love u 💖
Yess my fav couples😍❤️🔥
Say it aint so!? 😱😆😜 Love you boo!
I'm here for this 😭😍🥺🥰🤗❤
Naledi Baby! I appreciate it 😘
Ohhh I like this 🥰🥰🥰🥰I promise I’m not blushing 😊
lol Ips babyyyy! Fancy seeing you here lol 😘
You two define love beautifully
You are so kind friend. He's truly my best friend. I talk to him like 6-8 times a day 😂 he even ends up complaining
@@PalesaLPhillips ohh Lesa😊😍♥️ many pray for that and long for it. Trust you're blessed and inspiring
@@fortunate_lebyane 🤗♥️
Marry the woman already 😍🤓
Bathong!!! lol
Dating or married? There is a huge difference lol.. "my man" .. imagine 13 years and still not calling him husband. He is wasting your best years.
Dating. And I beg to differ. It is not solely a man’s decision to get married, but a joint one that only comes when both parties are ready & in God’s timing. We were young when we started dating, and I had way too much going on in my life- knowing that I couldn’t even be the kind of wife he deserved, I told him I was not ready. I can safely say I’m at that stage now where I’ve built myself up into a great woman who will make a wonderful wife & I’m now ready. Some things are worth waiting for especially when you know it will be all worth it in the end ♥️
Cute!! ❤️
💋💋💋
Mara 13 years🙆🏽♀️anyway great couple🤗. Out of interest what do you guys think about sex before marriage and are you for it or against it as Christians
Hey boo. lol it's 14 now hahaha.
I can't speak for my partner as he is his own person, but I can definitely give you my thoughts on it. I was brought up with the notion that one cannot give themselves sexually until they are in a marriage. For me- I respect that and I am totally for it. But, I will say that I believe it's a personal choice that you cannot impose onto another individual. I think once one has matured enough to make wise decisions about their sexual activity, then you can decide for yourself if you are willing to give that precious gift to another individual. You must fully trust someone before having sex with them, and that is tricky in this day and age because people don't value relationships. (Hope this makes sense, it sounded better in my head. It should be a discussion)
@@PalesaLPhillips If it's based on personal choice then Christ IS NOT you alls foundation. Palesa, don't deceive yourself on your Christianity and relationship with God.
Jesus said " If you love me, *keep* my Commandments." John
I'm saying this in full love. You statements and professions of God is totally contradictory.
I love it here ❤😭
We love you boo 😘
How do you guys maintain a Godly relationship and avoid temptation especially since you both are good looking. How do u deal with groupies?
Just by living by the word hey. Temptation will always come, you just gotta keep reminding yourself of who you are and stay true to that. Outside people are great, and you will always meet people who will make you think twice about your partner- but it goes back to the 80/20 rule from the movie "Why did I get married". If you know you have built something solid and your person is great, you will not risk it.
What a deep question friend lol
Such a beautiful couple🧨🔥♥️
Ncaw thanks boo! 💖
14 what? What the heck? Literally. Yhoooo
Yep. Surprising I know 😅😅
"I'm emotional" as she sings!..
Woo! Wena u don't want me to be great hey. I could be the next Beyonce, but you don't take me seriously SMH😎
aww cute video
Thanks my lurrv!
We are new here 😍
Amazing!! Welcome. I have already set a reminder for your video 😘 Can't wait!!
@@PalesaLPhillips Aww thanks so much. It means a lot x
😂😂😂😂say it ,you had issues with the previous boyfee because of the long hug
Hahahahaha! We had issues because he was really controlling. Plus, I was very young and meeting new people- he hated that I was getting attention from other guys. And right at the perfect time- we broke up.
I hope ya married and not in sin just saying after 13 years
Hi Denise, We are not married and nor are we living in sin. We don't stay together. Hope this clears up any confusion.
@PalesaLPhillips u not sexual active. U don't sleep together?
God bless yah
Danki sisi 🤗
New Subscriber 💌✨
I appreciate it mami 😜
If you are 24years and been dating for 14 years🤔🤔🤔 that mean yall started dating when you were 11years.
hahahaha no I'm not 24. I was 16 when we started dating, so you can do the maths lol
Cutiees
Lover!!! 😘
Oh so nice vlog, you are so inspiring!
I also just made a new video❤
Thank you! Will do!
"Modimo ke paki"..😂
lol showing my true colours hehehe
Thirteen years and still not married?. Yikes
Lol why are you judging a relationship without knowing the true dynamics? You do know that not everyone aspires to get married, others get married and divorce after some time due to several reasons, others only find true love later in life... And then there's some of us who have been enjoying a life together, building and growing as a couple- BEFORE taking that big step. I would rather be happy in a partnership with a person, than rush things just to meet everyone else's expectations. We're in our own lane.
He trusted you to slan him with a brick 🧱 😂😂😂hilarious
Hahahahhaha I can't believe you just said that!
This video felt so authentic. I absolutely loved it🥺🤌🏾.
Thanks Heather! ☺ Your picture looks so beautiful 😍
😊
Lovie 😘😘