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  • @NuanceSociety
    @NuanceSociety 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    09:13 😂 sure sis, we believe you 👌🏾
    13 whole years!! We love to see a couple that prays together 💕 you guys are so cute 🥺 we’re here for it all 🔥🔥

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 Things happen lol
      Thanks so much chomi. I appreciate the love. love you 💖

    • @NuanceSociety
      @NuanceSociety 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips I love you 💕😌

  • @tanyatsako6354
    @tanyatsako6354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂😂😂part 2, craziest memories you have , and also they day you introduced him to your family and when he did the same

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OOH! Nice one b. I need to write that down lol

  • @cholarmukuka3841
    @cholarmukuka3841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Would like to see you two with Sihle and Jessica in a video like playing couple games or something like that...I think that would be fun😍💗

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That would be fun. I'll invite them and see if they are keen. Thanks boo 😘

  • @lungeloo.z
    @lungeloo.z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    13:33 I thought he was going to say "& now we're engaged " 😭😭😭❤.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂 hahaha! Be on the lookout for that! It definitely needs to happen

    • @LoratoLuluTiro
      @LoratoLuluTiro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oooh my gosh me toooooo, yho Mtho she's been hinting on IG, hahah

  • @katlolore84
    @katlolore84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Next video should be about how you met each other's families

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I looove this suggestion. Now I gotta bribe him to do the video 🙈😂

    • @katlolore84
      @katlolore84 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips If he loves us he must do it😂

    • @LoratoLuluTiro
      @LoratoLuluTiro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips do your thing sis😁😁

  • @akhoyengama8501
    @akhoyengama8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Palesa's skin is everything!👌😭❤

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woo chomi! for real though??? 😚 💖 I love you!!!

  • @kgaboktm7582
    @kgaboktm7582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally you got to do this video..we thank 😊 you for taking your time and shoot this one

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahaha I literally bribed him. I need to stock up on his favourite items so I can keep bribing him for more videos lol😜

  • @KingKutlwano-u2u
    @KingKutlwano-u2u ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so beautiful 😂 I'm in for a Palesa and mtho marathon today. I'm loving the content, the vibes it's awesome guys. Can mtho start his own channel please, for the boys😂

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahahaha his own channel? maybe he must have his own section here- what do you think? Mara thanks so much for all your time hle ❤🤗

  • @NuanceSociety
    @NuanceSociety 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang 🔥💕
    Been waiting for this video 😭🥰

  • @marianngonga3490
    @marianngonga3490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time on your channel and I must say I love it when you said (there is no taking a break in this relationship, if we are in it than let it be so) that’s a beautiful boundary gives the next person a very good picture of who they are about to deal with and definitely up to them to decide whether they entering the relationship or not ❤️🙌

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey boo. Thanks so much for taking the time to watch. I really appreciate it hey ❤ Relationships are complicated, so I just hope our experience helps someone out there or sparks a conversation amongst other couples. Ultimately, we should be straight with each other in order to make it work. Are you with someone or still waiting for the right person?

  • @leharv17
    @leharv17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yoh a ke sa le late, but love the story of how u met, safe to say friendship starts most things.. he's so chilled. Keep the vids coming

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahahaha! and you are usually number one ge! what happened? It's because I stopped posting at 3am 😂

  • @katlolore84
    @katlolore84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally 💃💃I've been waiting for this video

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahaha! The way I had to beg, plead and grovel for this video to happen lol

  • @KollectiveCwithK
    @KollectiveCwithK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤it's like you knew I've been waiting for this video thank you 💕😍I love it so much what a beautiful story

  • @blantinahqaoka9717
    @blantinahqaoka9717 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fave ❤ enjoyed this video of you and your bae. You guys are the cutest.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you friend!! ☺ Really appreciate the support!💖

  • @Livelovelaughkarabo
    @Livelovelaughkarabo ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love you guys sm!❤

  • @nondumisoshange3984
    @nondumisoshange3984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love you guys. Thank you for sharing your love journey with us ❤️

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww Nondu- Thank u for taking the time to check it out. Are you in a relationship or still searching for your prince charming?

  • @malebogowesi649
    @malebogowesi649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May the good Lord add many more years into your relationship..You guys look good together ❤🥰

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww Malebo- Rea leboha hle. Modimo a be le wena 😘

  • @katlolore84
    @katlolore84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking beautiful as always .May God be with you both at all times ❤️

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Katlo🤗 love you

  • @lesegomokhothu6152
    @lesegomokhothu6152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's him singing the outro😂
    So cute🥺♥️

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's because he made that song. It always helps to have a producer at your disposal lol 😜 Thanks for watching friend!

  • @ka.leina.ke.mmimam
    @ka.leina.ke.mmimam 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful couple.
    You're doing well, keep up the good work🤍

  • @nobesuthugubevu6642
    @nobesuthugubevu6642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was cuuute! 😍❤️

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for watching babe. Really appreciate it hle 😘

    • @nobesuthugubevu6642
      @nobesuthugubevu6642 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kalishadee8925
    @kalishadee8925 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has been recommended to me like twice in the last week; I finally decided to click on it and here I am over here thinking, "He looks like one of the Dube brothers," - whose ministry I came across this week and to my surprise a couple hours later, I find out it is indeed Bishop Benjamin Dube's oldest son.
    They're such a beautiful people.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey gorgeous, thanks so much for watching. I truly believe it was fate lol 😊😘

  • @tanyatsako6354
    @tanyatsako6354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    😂so we can conclude that Mtho becomes pissed only when he is driving, other than that he is a fun person

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHAHAHAHA! Best Comment Out here!!! What an observation 😂😂

  • @noluthandotshabalala4403
    @noluthandotshabalala4403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kumnandi la ekhaya bo❤🥰...and yess give us attention!🤣❤

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bare "Happy wife- Happy life" so they need to make sure all the "Wifeys" are taken care of lol😘

    • @noluthandotshabalala4403
      @noluthandotshabalala4403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips exactly 😎🤣

  • @sinothilejiyane2278
    @sinothilejiyane2278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you so much Palesa! 😍

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sino Boo! Love and appreciate you babe 💖

  • @Joseph-zd7kg
    @Joseph-zd7kg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dating or married? There is a huge difference lol.. "my man" .. imagine 13 years and still not calling him husband. He is wasting your best years.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Dating. And I beg to differ. It is not solely a man’s decision to get married, but a joint one that only comes when both parties are ready & in God’s timing. We were young when we started dating, and I had way too much going on in my life- knowing that I couldn’t even be the kind of wife he deserved, I told him I was not ready. I can safely say I’m at that stage now where I’ve built myself up into a great woman who will make a wonderful wife & I’m now ready. Some things are worth waiting for especially when you know it will be all worth it in the end ♥️

    • @VuyiswaGayiWilliams
      @VuyiswaGayiWilliams 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@PalesaLPhillipsYHO sisi do you read the Bible because you don't call anyone your man unless you are married but ke if that is your perspective of the bible🤔

  • @adelinedubois7694
    @adelinedubois7694 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Palisa 13y is a long time you shud start thinking of marriage I know you have a career but the longer you wait the older you get. Start now you make a beautiful couple and bishop will be pleased

  • @shirleyjantjies6268
    @shirleyjantjies6268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nofication gang babes ! We here ! ❤❤

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hunty!! You have been right here & you know how much I appreciate that!! 😘

    • @shirleyjantjies6268
      @shirleyjantjies6268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips And I ain't going nowhere ! ❤🤞

  • @nalediwelkom2411
    @nalediwelkom2411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here for this 😭😍🥺🥰🤗❤

  • @fortunate_lebyane
    @fortunate_lebyane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two define love beautifully

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so kind friend. He's truly my best friend. I talk to him like 6-8 times a day 😂 he even ends up complaining

    • @fortunate_lebyane
      @fortunate_lebyane 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips ohh Lesa😊😍♥️ many pray for that and long for it. Trust you're blessed and inspiring

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fortunate_lebyane 🤗♥️

  • @Cindy_Hadebe
    @Cindy_Hadebe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess my fav couples😍❤️🔥

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Say it aint so!? 😱😆😜 Love you boo!

  • @_ipeleng__
    @_ipeleng__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohhh I like this 🥰🥰🥰🥰I promise I’m not blushing 😊

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol Ips babyyyy! Fancy seeing you here lol 😘

  • @cholarmukuka3841
    @cholarmukuka3841 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yessss 💖🥰...I love you two so much

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wena o skhokho saka shem. Love u 💖

  • @silindilesithole2237
    @silindilesithole2237 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Armani also says hi.. lol ❤️ Cute guys. Nikhule nikhule

  • @mdalymagic7861
    @mdalymagic7861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mara 13 years🙆🏽‍♀️anyway great couple🤗. Out of interest what do you guys think about sex before marriage and are you for it or against it as Christians

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey boo. lol it's 14 now hahaha.
      I can't speak for my partner as he is his own person, but I can definitely give you my thoughts on it. I was brought up with the notion that one cannot give themselves sexually until they are in a marriage. For me- I respect that and I am totally for it. But, I will say that I believe it's a personal choice that you cannot impose onto another individual. I think once one has matured enough to make wise decisions about their sexual activity, then you can decide for yourself if you are willing to give that precious gift to another individual. You must fully trust someone before having sex with them, and that is tricky in this day and age because people don't value relationships. (Hope this makes sense, it sounded better in my head. It should be a discussion)

    • @shaymay2892
      @shaymay2892 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@PalesaLPhillips If it's based on personal choice then Christ IS NOT you alls foundation. Palesa, don't deceive yourself on your Christianity and relationship with God.
      Jesus said " If you love me, *keep* my Commandments." John
      I'm saying this in full love. You statements and professions of God is totally contradictory.

    • @VuyiswaGayiWilliams
      @VuyiswaGayiWilliams 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@PalesaLPhillipsit is not based on anyone's opinion but on the word of God, please don't try to be polite and the dating is totally wrong.Paul does say though in the bible(1 Corinthians 7 vs 16)if a man cannot control his passions let him marry. God does not compromise his word just because one is a celebrity please this "New Age Woke what what is luring people away from the true word of the living God. A no to God is a no not maybe. So just like Jesus never dated us but through his blood he paid the price and took us as His bride. This is not good for the young generation because they will thing just because Bishop Dube's son is doing it its right.I love the Dube brothers and don't have anything against them but if their conduct is against the word I can't compromise that. And this talk of breakups and what not..who taught you that😢

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shaymay2892 Hey darling, I must have missed this response because I would've definitely responded. With all due respect- you cannot speak for me or my relationship. One thing I will not tolerate on this channel is disrespect, because I've always extended grace to others. Having said that- I will go back to my initial response. If you could read to comprehend the fact that I said "I am totally for waiting for marriage" that is what I said I believe in. I furthermore said- I cannot impose "MY" beliefs on someone who chooses to do things different. This is what's wrong with society (esp. with social media because you can hide behind a profile), you're too quick to judge, without knowing people's journeys, mindset or even circumstance. Would God encourage that? Get to know and thrive understand people's opinions and have a respectful discussion. I'm sure you remember what it was like debating at school. Same rules apply. Have a good day and apologies for the late response.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@VuyiswaGayiWilliams Hey Vuyi- Yho Kuningi hey & I honestly don't know where to start hey- But let me try... I am going to assume that you are Christian right? So you mean to tell me- in your years (however old you are) You never dated a man? A man has never courted you? regardless of the time... Unless, you believe in arranged marriage- which would a completely different topic. I'm failing to understand if you have a problem with Mtho dating, or dating for this long? Please explain, cause it really sounds like you don't believe in romantic relationships. How else are people supposed to marry if they don't date? And what was wrong with us saying we've never broken up- please clarify for me. And lastly, I don't see what us dating has to do with you liking the Dube Brothers. What 'conduct' are you on about?There are people committing crimes, infidelity, wicked things in the world- but your issue is a Godly couple that is committed to each other. Make it make sense.

  • @sandisiwehlengwa9788
    @sandisiwehlengwa9788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do you guys maintain a Godly relationship and avoid temptation especially since you both are good looking. How do u deal with groupies?

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just by living by the word hey. Temptation will always come, you just gotta keep reminding yourself of who you are and stay true to that. Outside people are great, and you will always meet people who will make you think twice about your partner- but it goes back to the 80/20 rule from the movie "Why did I get married". If you know you have built something solid and your person is great, you will not risk it.
      What a deep question friend lol

  • @lungeloo.z
    @lungeloo.z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it here ❤😭

  • @silindilesithole2237
    @silindilesithole2237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cute!! ❤️

  • @TheIrieman15
    @TheIrieman15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marry the woman already 😍🤓

  • @andilesithabile
    @andilesithabile 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh so nice vlog, you are so inspiring!
    I also just made a new video❤

  • @sugarplum3696
    @sugarplum3696 ปีที่แล้ว

    14 what? What the heck? Literally. Yhoooo

  • @LoratoLuluTiro
    @LoratoLuluTiro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    aww cute video

  • @denisedickerson422
    @denisedickerson422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope ya married and not in sin just saying after 13 years

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Denise, We are not married and nor are we living in sin. We don't stay together. Hope this clears up any confusion.

    • @Mjkamimi
      @Mjkamimi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@PalesaLPhillips u not sexual active. U don't sleep together?

  • @BarberLoveFamily
    @BarberLoveFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are new here 😍

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing!! Welcome. I have already set a reminder for your video 😘 Can't wait!!

    • @BarberLoveFamily
      @BarberLoveFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PalesaLPhillips Aww thanks so much. It means a lot x

  • @cleoshabalala5541
    @cleoshabalala5541 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New Subscriber 💌✨

  • @buhlebenkositshuma7475
    @buhlebenkositshuma7475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless yah

  • @mphomogorosi5582
    @mphomogorosi5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I'm emotional" as she sings!..

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woo! Wena u don't want me to be great hey. I could be the next Beyonce, but you don't take me seriously SMH😎

  • @sandisiwehlengwa9788
    @sandisiwehlengwa9788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are 24years and been dating for 14 years🤔🤔🤔 that mean yall started dating when you were 11years.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahahaha no I'm not 24. I was 16 when we started dating, so you can do the maths lol

  • @paulinefonglyewquee1349
    @paulinefonglyewquee1349 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Please stop kissing the dog. it's so unhygienic. Remember, it's not about looks and fashion.

  • @Mikhenso25
    @Mikhenso25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cutiees

  • @tanyatsako6354
    @tanyatsako6354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂😂say it ,you had issues with the previous boyfee because of the long hug

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahahaha! We had issues because he was really controlling. Plus, I was very young and meeting new people- he hated that I was getting attention from other guys. And right at the perfect time- we broke up.

  • @mphomogorosi5582
    @mphomogorosi5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Modimo ke paki"..😂

  • @sakymahmoud3639
    @sakymahmoud3639 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thirteen years and still not married?. Yikes

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol why are you judging a relationship without knowing the true dynamics? You do know that not everyone aspires to get married, others get married and divorce after some time due to several reasons, others only find true love later in life... And then there's some of us who have been enjoying a life together, building and growing as a couple- BEFORE taking that big step. I would rather be happy in a partnership with a person, than rush things just to meet everyone else's expectations. We're in our own lane.

  • @kgweranoletshedi4428
    @kgweranoletshedi4428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He trusted you to slan him with a brick 🧱 😂😂😂hilarious

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahahhaha I can't believe you just said that!

  • @Girlsgirl29
    @Girlsgirl29 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful couple🧨🔥♥️

  • @heathermokwebo2873
    @heathermokwebo2873 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video felt so authentic. I absolutely loved it🥺🤌🏾.

    • @PalesaLPhillips
      @PalesaLPhillips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Heather! ☺ Your picture looks so beautiful 😍

  • @Louthickchicks
    @Louthickchicks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊