I have some of these red flags. But the one that I feel compelled to correct is the no friends one. Having no friends is a product of housing instability and having to move cities frequently, at least in my life. Also, a lot of friends just fall off, we just lose contact rather than it being intentionally snipping them out. We’d still be happy to see each other if we randomly bumped into each other but staying in touch isn’t really a priority
I will say, i think some red flags are fine. I cant expect anyone to not have a few red flags including myself. If i followed this to a T id have zero friends ever, id probably be alone always. Personally effective communication when a red flag comes up and results of that communication is whats important to me. Unless its victim mentality I run from victim mentality
Yes, exactly! Most of the time, it depends on the context. Otherwise, let’s be honest-we’d all be single and with no friends 😄 thanks a lot for your comment! :)
Some people are introverts , and like being mostly alone , having no friends is NOT AN "AGENDA" AGAINST SOMEONE !!! ITS A PERSONAL LEGIT PREFERANCE ,AND A CARECTER !! STOP WITH THOSE STUPID DECLERATIONS !!!
That’s completely true! I agree with you-the problem with this topic is that it “generalizes” a lot without additional context. Sorry it made you feel this way, and thank you for your feedback! 🙌
I have some of these red flags. But the one that I feel compelled to correct is the no friends one. Having no friends is a product of housing instability and having to move cities frequently, at least in my life. Also, a lot of friends just fall off, we just lose contact rather than it being intentionally snipping them out. We’d still be happy to see each other if we randomly bumped into each other but staying in touch isn’t really a priority
If you chase perfection you will end up very hurt and alone.
Yup, everyone has red flags, the ones your willing to tolerate is up to you
Using this video for self reflection 💜
lmao she checked 30 out of 37 boxes lol
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Kindly show her the door out 😂😂
Thank you for this 🫡🚩
I will say, i think some red flags are fine. I cant expect anyone to not have a few red flags including myself. If i followed this to a T id have zero friends ever, id probably be alone always. Personally effective communication when a red flag comes up and results of that communication is whats important to me. Unless its victim mentality I run from victim mentality
Yes, exactly! Most of the time, it depends on the context. Otherwise, let’s be honest-we’d all be single and with no friends 😄 thanks a lot for your comment! :)
0:03 well that's not always true
People with BPD are usually like that, but it's not like they're terrible partners because of that
Opinion . everything is that.
The longer i watch the video the more i'm convinced it could be real this time❤️
Some people are introverts , and like being mostly alone , having no friends is NOT AN "AGENDA" AGAINST SOMEONE !!! ITS A PERSONAL LEGIT PREFERANCE ,AND A CARECTER !! STOP WITH THOSE STUPID DECLERATIONS !!!
That’s completely true! I agree with you-the problem with this topic is that it “generalizes” a lot without additional context. Sorry it made you feel this way, and thank you for your feedback! 🙌
The fact that the one I was debating and needed reassurance on came out first :0