Loads of people here saying they dislike saying what their goals are to their friends because of what they'll say, expected results, etc. As for me as a person I personally like confiding my thoughts to another individual, because I'm an extreme overthinker, Conversations I had months ago I think about what could have been, if I said this or I did that. So saying my goals or ideas to another guy lets me kind of release them and give me a feeling of unloading. Now for life goals, I've told only my closest friends about them, how much I want to be making, the time I'd expect to do it by. and I got close to no support from them. Not in a mean way just in a hyper realistic way. "dude you most likely can't do it, because there's so many others trying why would you make it." and for me its kind of a pushing force, the feeling inside me thinking I wanna do it to prove them wrong. Is so much stronger than people saying, "oh yeah definitely you can do it", It feels so weird to say but agreeing that you could do it kind of feels shallow, like its an automatic response just to be kind but you don't really mean it, but now negative/realistic standards those are genuine feelings that they're telling you, that's what they really feel and think. so in a way proving them wrong is just so satisfactory, even if as I said these are my bestest friends. and I'm not saying their mean or whatever because of it, I acknowledge that its always good to be forward when it comes to big life choices like career goals. It's just that me as a personal thrives in a scenario where I'm the underdog and I have to prove my worth, sad thing is when you do get to your goal its just another day, they don't say oh I'm sorry I didn't believe in you, as for the friends that did, they don't celebrate it with you.. It's just another day, and now that you've reached your goal, you go further than that. and the cycle repeats.
Interesting perspective, I can agree to disagree with most of it, however if it is the thing that provides you motivation and clarity who is anyone to judge it as right or wrong, I personally believe in a good circle of friends is essential in any way even if they can’t understand your vision to the degree you can. However them not celebrating your victories at any point knowing how much it means to you is kinda the only concern I had reading that however it’s hard for us as people to accept criticism and acknowledge our owns labour and by the time we get the fruits it never tastes as good as you had hoped, but in a way that’s also the beauty in it and the fact you can have such enjoyment working towards said goal to prove said thing wrong, I think it’s important to reflect as much as you can cause at the end of the day you are the person who will Get you were you wanna be. Thanks for sharing your story!
You are very underrated, i recently have started to keep things and ideas to myself. As i am a very "a boy who cried wolf" type of person when it comes to projects and ideas, i always share my ideas and projects when i work on them to people or my subscribers but i never really finish them. It doesnt just make me unreliable but it also just makes my subscribers stop watching me as i have teased ideas but i have not finished them as i have not uploaded in 6 months. I had a crazy fall off, and i think this is the reason why. You earned a new sub from me! 🤝
I appreciate the support man, you just gotta keep grinding and reminding yourself of your reason why you started, it took me 6 years to even get a 1000 view video its not impossible it’s just consistency, appreciate the support btw!
the main point of this video really got to me because I had to learn this lesson a few years ago with my friends, I would tell them things I would do and upload and they just really didn't care or just had a mild reaction. it made me realize that maybe it's better just to keep it to myself and go forward from there.
Yeah it’s a brutal realisation, sometimes people genuinely do care but they aren’t good at expressing it to the degree we hope for cause they just don’t understand it or maybe them acknowledging it is there idea of caring which to us makes us feel disheartened, thanks for the support and comments btw!
So I kind of have the problem of over sharing, I had some really good ideas that after I talk about them to people, it’s not that I get upset with their response, but I lose interest in the idea, or don’t commit, and the result isn’t what I pictured, so I just give up. Sometimes this is good, but I have had several video ideas kind of shot down by myself because I want to deliver so much, and have my own standard of quality that I want to abide to, but I don’t think that I can hit that for some reason. I also have ideas in my personal life such as related to motorcycles, that I will start, even all the way to the point of having a entire blueprint, or writing the idea down, researching, etc. And then I just stop. Not because I realize that it’s too hard to do, that it’s not going to have the result that I think it just comes down to that. I have talked about it so much that when I do it, the result doesn’t seem as cool when it’s done.
Kind of ranting at this point, and this isn’t an advertisement for my channel, I’ve lost interest in what this one was focused on. But take a look at my videos as an example, they were focused on RC cars, and such, and I had a few that absolutely took off, and if I had a way to finance and keep up with consistency, I think I really could have kept the ideas, and really taking off much more than I did. The thing that sucks is you know yeah I had a video or two get up to over 20,000 views, and it was amazing, and it proved to myself that I could make videos that with Garner a whole lot of attention. But I flopped. And the reason I flopped, was that I was making content that was different than what the channel seemed to be about. I was seeing that my videos were gaining X amount of views, and I wanted to see that reach on every video, but also wanted too much variety on my channel, and ended up incorporating that way too early and way too soon.
Hey man I understand where you’re coming from, alotta of the time we see something that sparks and idea or it just randomly comes and we try so hard to set it up and think this is gonna be this and that etc but it never ends up getting to that point, part of that is over peoples opinions but it’s also doubt in yourself and these comments from others can create a doubt in yourself that leads even into the things you don’t share so I think it’s important to give yourself your own flowers where you can, keep grinding bro never give up
hey man, all the points you made were so correct. Especially the spike in dopamine that you get from telling people your going to do this and achieve that. Just wanted to quickly ask which songs were used in this video?
Thanks for the support man! Opening song is Zelda’s lullaby remix just the intro, 2nd song is Instrumental to playboi cartis spaceship and the other song was Minecraft c418 songs and rain on my window (I forgot the artists name haha)
Moderation is key. I don’t really like talking about myself to anyone and I don’t try to make the conversation about me when they’re talking about themselves unless they ask questions. It’s kinda a bad thing because I know I give off the perception of the “quiet” person or I’m a closed book. But in reality I’ll talk your ear off, if I’m comfortable with you. I agree about talking about your ideas or aspirations too much, will make you lose inspiration/motivation. I learned to just shut my mouth and don’t talk about my goals to anyone unless I’m close with them. I also learned to have realistic standards. Having high standards, prevented me doing things I wanted to do or I would just stop what I’m doing. Also when other people have high expectations of me, knowing what I’m capable of is the only thing that matters(even if I’m terrible at something). Basically I started to give no fucks what people think and just do me. Doing that and deleting social media makes life so much peaceful. Kinda sad it took me 23 years to realize that but better late than never 🫠
It’s never to early or late to learn these things, but I understand the feeling of wishing it came earlier, irs important to reflect but also important to trust yourself a bit more and remind yourself of where you are now vs then, I don’t think being a “quieter person” is a bad thing but encouraging yourself to challenge your comfort zone in any way is always important, thanks again for watching the video and commenting about your story !
Bros knowledge is fr a level up skill and I don't want to lose exp great video and insurance on a lot appreciate it and will be there for the next.
appreciate the comment! hope to see you around on other vids
Loads of people here saying they dislike saying what their goals are to their friends because of what they'll say, expected results, etc. As for me as a person I personally like confiding my thoughts to another individual, because I'm an extreme overthinker, Conversations I had months ago I think about what could have been, if I said this or I did that. So saying my goals or ideas to another guy lets me kind of release them and give me a feeling of unloading. Now for life goals, I've told only my closest friends about them, how much I want to be making, the time I'd expect to do it by. and I got close to no support from them. Not in a mean way just in a hyper realistic way. "dude you most likely can't do it, because there's so many others trying why would you make it." and for me its kind of a pushing force, the feeling inside me thinking I wanna do it to prove them wrong. Is so much stronger than people saying, "oh yeah definitely you can do it", It feels so weird to say but agreeing that you could do it kind of feels shallow, like its an automatic response just to be kind but you don't really mean it, but now negative/realistic standards those are genuine feelings that they're telling you, that's what they really feel and think. so in a way proving them wrong is just so satisfactory, even if as I said these are my bestest friends. and I'm not saying their mean or whatever because of it, I acknowledge that its always good to be forward when it comes to big life choices like career goals. It's just that me as a personal thrives in a scenario where I'm the underdog and I have to prove my worth, sad thing is when you do get to your goal its just another day, they don't say oh I'm sorry I didn't believe in you, as for the friends that did, they don't celebrate it with you.. It's just another day, and now that you've reached your goal, you go further than that.
and the cycle repeats.
Interesting perspective, I can agree to disagree with most of it, however if it is the thing that provides you motivation and clarity who is anyone to judge it as right or wrong, I personally believe in a good circle of friends is essential in any way even if they can’t understand your vision to the degree you can.
However them not celebrating your victories at any point knowing how much it means to you is kinda the only concern I had reading that however it’s hard for us as people to accept criticism and acknowledge our owns labour and by the time we get the fruits it never tastes as good as you had hoped, but in a way that’s also the beauty in it and the fact you can have such enjoyment working towards said goal to prove said thing wrong, I think it’s important to reflect as much as you can cause at the end of the day you are the person who will Get you were you wanna be. Thanks for sharing your story!
holy crap i loved this. every second and every word resonated with me. you'll see me around from here on out 🤝
Appreciate the support!! I’ll make sure to have some more videos up soon
just found your stuff, ur cool as heck bro, great insight, and really awesome vibes w that gameplay
Love man! Thanks for the support
You are very underrated, i recently have started to keep things and ideas to myself. As i am a very "a boy who cried wolf" type of person when it comes to projects and ideas, i always share my ideas and projects when i work on them to people or my subscribers but i never really finish them. It doesnt just make me unreliable but it also just makes my subscribers stop watching me as i have teased ideas but i have not finished them as i have not uploaded in 6 months. I had a crazy fall off, and i think this is the reason why. You earned a new sub from me! 🤝
I appreciate the support man, you just gotta keep grinding and reminding yourself of your reason why you started, it took me 6 years to even get a 1000 view video its not impossible it’s just consistency, appreciate the support btw!
@@veryunrealistic Thank you, looking forward to whatever you upload next
Very Underrated youtuber. Everything you said helped me understand not to overshare, which is a problem I’ve always had. New sub from me!
Thanks for the support ❤️
the main point of this video really got to me because I had to learn this lesson a few years ago with my friends, I would tell them things I would do and upload and they just really didn't care or just had a mild reaction. it made me realize that maybe it's better just to keep it to myself and go forward from there.
btw I really like your style and videos, earned a sub from me I like the more expressed commentary in this one
Yeah it’s a brutal realisation, sometimes people genuinely do care but they aren’t good at expressing it to the degree we hope for cause they just don’t understand it or maybe them acknowledging it is there idea of caring which to us makes us feel disheartened, thanks for the support and comments btw!
I have been blessed by the algorithm to find this video. Best of luck to you on your ventures!
I appreciate it! Same to you
needed to hear this icl, thanks
I gotchu, keep your head high
So I kind of have the problem of over sharing, I had some really good ideas that after I talk about them to people, it’s not that I get upset with their response, but I lose interest in the idea, or don’t commit, and the result isn’t what I pictured, so I just give up. Sometimes this is good, but I have had several video ideas kind of shot down by myself because I want to deliver so much, and have my own standard of quality that I want to abide to, but I don’t think that I can hit that for some reason. I also have ideas in my personal life such as related to motorcycles, that I will start, even all the way to the point of having a entire blueprint, or writing the idea down, researching, etc. And then I just stop. Not because I realize that it’s too hard to do, that it’s not going to have the result that I think it just comes down to that. I have talked about it so much that when I do it, the result doesn’t seem as cool when it’s done.
Kind of ranting at this point, and this isn’t an advertisement for my channel, I’ve lost interest in what this one was focused on. But take a look at my videos as an example, they were focused on RC cars, and such, and I had a few that absolutely took off, and if I had a way to finance and keep up with consistency, I think I really could have kept the ideas, and really taking off much more than I did. The thing that sucks is you know yeah I had a video or two get up to over 20,000 views, and it was amazing, and it proved to myself that I could make videos that with Garner a whole lot of attention. But I flopped. And the reason I flopped, was that I was making content that was different than what the channel seemed to be about. I was seeing that my videos were gaining X amount of views, and I wanted to see that reach on every video, but also wanted too much variety on my channel, and ended up incorporating that way too early and way too soon.
I feel you man, can completely relate to this..
Hey man I understand where you’re coming from, alotta of the time we see something that sparks and idea or it just randomly comes and we try so hard to set it up and think this is gonna be this and that etc but it never ends up getting to that point, part of that is over peoples opinions but it’s also doubt in yourself and these comments from others can create a doubt in yourself that leads even into the things you don’t share so I think it’s important to give yourself your own flowers where you can, keep grinding bro never give up
this is one of the short few videos you just dont skip on
Those are some sick shaders and textures though not going to lie
Holy moly those graphics 😮😮 and the conversation too…awesome bro
Haha thanks for the support I appreciate it !
hey man, all the points you made were so correct. Especially the spike in dopamine that you get from telling people your going to do this and achieve that. Just wanted to quickly ask which songs were used in this video?
Thanks for the support man! Opening song is Zelda’s lullaby remix just the intro, 2nd song is Instrumental to playboi cartis spaceship and the other song was Minecraft c418 songs and rain on my window (I forgot the artists name haha)
love this vid and the shaders
What texture pack is this?
patrix 32x, link in vid description
Thanks
please... a link to the modpack
Not a modpack, i individually added them all, just watch Asianhalfsquats immersive craft video that’s where I got it from
Moderation is key. I don’t really like talking about myself to anyone and I don’t try to make the conversation about me when they’re talking about themselves unless they ask questions. It’s kinda a bad thing because I know I give off the perception of the “quiet” person or I’m a closed book. But in reality I’ll talk your ear off, if I’m comfortable with you. I agree about talking about your ideas or aspirations too much, will make you lose inspiration/motivation. I learned to just shut my mouth and don’t talk about my goals to anyone unless I’m close with them. I also learned to have realistic standards. Having high standards, prevented me doing things I wanted to do or I would just stop what I’m doing. Also when other people have high expectations of me, knowing what I’m capable of is the only thing that matters(even if I’m terrible at something). Basically I started to give no fucks what people think and just do me. Doing that and deleting social media makes life so much peaceful. Kinda sad it took me 23 years to realize that but better late than never 🫠
It’s never to early or late to learn these things, but I understand the feeling of wishing it came earlier, irs important to reflect but also important to trust yourself a bit more and remind yourself of where you are now vs then, I don’t think being a “quieter person” is a bad thing but encouraging yourself to challenge your comfort zone in any way is always important, thanks again for watching the video and commenting about your story !