You underestimate the mental gymnastics and self deceptionn such people go through to justify their actions. They don't just internalize "hahah kicking puppies is fun", they internalize "those dogs were coming right for me, I've seen them bite before, they're some kind of pitbull". That's how you know aita is fake 90% of the time
The godly logic of saying that we don't need any more men's only spaces rn, but that men aren't making enough men's only spaces where they can learn to be more sociable and comfortable being emotional around other men, while also saying other people are dipshits for saying that men's spaces have been taken away from men, is the most big brain logic of all time. That entire last 2 minutes of the video was the most begging the question shit ever lmao. It's like his take on scalping, but then he goes onto a podcast the next week and gives the perfect argument against scalping.
Honestly kind of confused by the last part of this video. Could be misinterpreting but seemed like Destiny was saying we don't need anymore male spaces because they are all filled with incel losers that hate women, which I guess is a take. But also he 100% agrees with the original tweet about men not making enough male spaces or communities in order to socialize and make friends.
I think I kind of agree with Tiny in the sense that the last thing these incel types need is more spaces where no interaction with women is occurring. This is generalizing a bit but I would be willing to bet that the average young man who identifies as an "incel" is inhabiting majority male spaces everywhere they go. So in that sense Tiny is absolutely right about not "needing" more male spaces for these kinds of men because unfortunately they typically only serve to be an echo chamber for anger and hate.
I gave my ex gf a dead cat on my second date and even I cringed at the orchids and color coded hallmark.😥 Technically for her it was the first date because she was sleeping when we had our first. And technically its only theoretical cringe because I dont feel feelings.
I think (and maybe this is paradoxical) we need more “safe” “mixed gender” spaces for men (i.e. that are healthily male coded or embrace healthy male expressions, and dont seek to feminize the male participants)
Agreed, but forget the "mixed gender" bs. There are men and women and males spaces should not be hijacked by females that inherently cannot understand the male experience. Also these spaces should be made by men for men. Not by women for men or else they'll teach that men are inherently toxic and violent because of crime rates while ignoring the 99% that are civil and stuff. But you may agree since you don't think it should be feminised, same with therapy which could help men if adjusted to fit their needs which women to this day ignore and say it's a them problem not a therapy problem..
So true, the only positive male spaces I see irl are usually somewhat feminine (either it’s the guys themselves or the activities they do), which is fine, but I think it can be a turn off for men who are more traditionally masculine.
AITA threads are insane and almost certainly 90% fake. Half of them are like “I gave my wife a car for our tenth anniversary but she said it was the wrong colour and drove it off a cliff with one of our dogs inside (the one that likes me more) and her friends say I should’ve known what colour she wanted and I should do better next time, AITA?”
This is insane. The guy came on a bit too strong but thats it. Simply pointing that out and having another date would have been fine. He came on too strong and she over reacted like a complete self indulged psycho. He dodged a bullet there, maybe she did too but he definitely dodged a narcissist bullet.
Where tf is the video where hasan says if u get raped by an immigrant u shouldnt report them because they can get deported?! I can’t find the video but I remember hasan saying it on destiny’s channel. A glazer doesn’t believe me and I just wanna show her how messed up he is
He says men and women have more similarities than they do differences so ig we can ignore the extremely common trends we observe . He's too progressive here in favour of women..
@@MichealScotch He says we have more in common than the red pill people think, not that there are no differences at all. The red pill guys talk about women as if they're a completely different species. But specifically in regards to this video; an obvious difference (that he's always pointing out), is how women have to take extra steps to keep themselves safe from shitty and/or dangerous men. He always says, most men don't understand the daily woman's experience of "I want to see this guy again but I don't know if he's a safe partner or not". Shit testing to see how a man respects a women's boundaries is a good way to find out. Getting even more specific, in this video, he said the woman shouldn't have given him her building code, so this isn't an example of a shit-test he'd be in favour of. He's got into loads of shit before for telling a women they're regarded for doing x behaviour. He does, (what most liberal/progressive people would call) victim blame quite often. He doesn't favour men or women in these scenarios, he always looks at it case by case.
@Narcissistic_Penguin well to start with what he said about ghosting is just so stupid. People do things that might make someone uncomfortable unknowingly all the time, if noone tells them what they did wrong how will they improve.
@@4598-c9l In a perfect world, I totally agree with you. Both men and women should be better at being more direct with how they're feeling and what they want. But it's a nuanced issue no? Destiny gave a good justification for why he thinks women should ghost, what do you think about the reason he gave?
She wasn’t even serious about dating haha she’s playing the numbers game like a child she probably has bare options and will get any man she actually wanted
@@RiamuBerru personally i think he was steelmanning her side way too much. a lot of the reason that situation happened was her fault(though both sides are in the wrong and dumb.) and generally my disagreement with destiny on some basic points, like how id see a woman like that as a red flag, literally a "playing games" type of woman, like how she gave the guy her apartment code, so fucking retarded.
Destiny is 100% correct here. Giving someone permission to do something does not give you infinite permission in the future. She gave him her building code (which he admits is dumb) that evening but that doesn't mean he can continue to turn up whenever he wants and use the building code again. Especially after only 4 DAYS. ESPECIALLY when he knows she has another date that evening!! I'm not a woman but I can easily put myself in her shoes and feel weirded out by that.
16:00 these tweets btw are true. The terms "bro", "guys" and "gay" even are also used for women too and keeping them inclusive but its not the same the otherway around in every way of life. Men have to always include women but women dont for men ever. We always consider womens opinions but if its something related to women like abortion or anything really then its "womens opinions matter only". Also destiny saying "i would say the same about women if they had similar problems like mens spaces"...going to ignore rad fems and r/2xchromosomes???? Nice one dude.
I’m sorry that girl doesn’t wanna date she just wants a hot ass guy cuz guess what if she was interested in you she wouldn’t give a fuck. Taking the time out of your day to do that sorry destiny you are wrong on this cu. most of the women I’ve dated I’ve done something like this not end up there house but pretty close. It’s not personally opinion you need to chat with working class women rhat don’t have their life handed to them
@@epicsupremebapedope4202 haha if so then idk why I have good friends as girls that somewhat repeat the same shet. I’m sorry you live with rich wealth snobs bro but working class women don’t work like how destiny says or anything lol 😂 destiny pretty much dated only fans chicks that has no accountability in there life from there parents. You can tell by how they treat people around them
Like 90% of AITA posts are either fake, ridiculously one-sided, or just the person telling their while life story
You underestimate the ability of people to do stupid stuff and not see anything wrong with it.
You underestimate the mental gymnastics and self deceptionn such people go through to justify their actions. They don't just internalize "hahah kicking puppies is fun", they internalize "those dogs were coming right for me, I've seen them bite before, they're some kind of pitbull". That's how you know aita is fake 90% of the time
yup
blocked on LinkedIn is insane
the insane thing is, he went on linkedin and checked lol
First off why TF would you even use linked in for relationships?
showing up with flowers and a love letter to someone's home who haven't even known for a week is insane and she was right to be turned off.
Flowers and a card after a good date is completely reasonable - wtf is wrong with you?
The godly logic of saying that we don't need any more men's only spaces rn, but that men aren't making enough men's only spaces where they can learn to be more sociable and comfortable being emotional around other men, while also saying other people are dipshits for saying that men's spaces have been taken away from men, is the most big brain logic of all time. That entire last 2 minutes of the video was the most begging the question shit ever lmao. It's like his take on scalping, but then he goes onto a podcast the next week and gives the perfect argument against scalping.
Honestly kind of confused by the last part of this video. Could be misinterpreting but seemed like Destiny was saying we don't need anymore male spaces because they are all filled with incel losers that hate women, which I guess is a take. But also he 100% agrees with the original tweet about men not making enough male spaces or communities in order to socialize and make friends.
What’s wrong with his take on scalping? It’s basic market force.
There are men-only spaces. It's usually a prog show. And there are many of these in a big city
Scalping is based
I think I kind of agree with Tiny in the sense that the last thing these incel types need is more spaces where no interaction with women is occurring. This is generalizing a bit but I would be willing to bet that the average young man who identifies as an "incel" is inhabiting majority male spaces everywhere they go. So in that sense Tiny is absolutely right about not "needing" more male spaces for these kinds of men because unfortunately they typically only serve to be an echo chamber for anger and hate.
I gave my ex gf a dead cat on my second date and even I cringed at the orchids and color coded hallmark.😥 Technically for her it was the first date because she was sleeping when we had our first. And technically its only theoretical cringe because I dont feel feelings.
You weren't lying when you told her you'd kill that pssy were you?
Back up there, chief. You gave your former gf a dead cat on a second date?
@@michaelh13think ya missed the date rape jk but ya what’s up? a dead cat not chill bruh
based
@@michaelh13 thats a first month anniversary thing at the EARLIEST
I think (and maybe this is paradoxical) we need more “safe” “mixed gender” spaces for men (i.e. that are healthily male coded or embrace healthy male expressions, and dont seek to feminize the male participants)
Agreed, but forget the "mixed gender" bs. There are men and women and males spaces should not be hijacked by females that inherently cannot understand the male experience.
Also these spaces should be made by men for men. Not by women for men or else they'll teach that men are inherently toxic and violent because of crime rates while ignoring the 99% that are civil and stuff. But you may agree since you don't think it should be feminised, same with therapy which could help men if adjusted to fit their needs which women to this day ignore and say it's a them problem not a therapy problem..
So true, the only positive male spaces I see irl are usually somewhat feminine (either it’s the guys themselves or the activities they do), which is fine, but I think it can be a turn off for men who are more traditionally masculine.
AITA threads are insane and almost certainly 90% fake.
Half of them are like “I gave my wife a car for our tenth anniversary but she said it was the wrong colour and drove it off a cliff with one of our dogs inside (the one that likes me more) and her friends say I should’ve known what colour she wanted and I should do better next time, AITA?”
It's all fake stories
I can confirm, that sub requires no verification and I’ve wrote bait there just to entertain myself for a few minutes
The flowers I think is a sweet gesture the delivering it to her doorstep while she was not there is not.
Why?
@@henryburton6529becuase you are dating not in a committed relationship.
She gave him the code to her apartment wtf
Haha yeah true! What an idiot! This means he can continue turn up unannounced and enter her building whenever he wants! Stupid woman am i right?
to her apartment building, not her apartment
This is insane. The guy came on a bit too strong but thats it. Simply pointing that out and having another date would have been fine.
He came on too strong and she over reacted like a complete self indulged psycho. He dodged a bullet there, maybe she did too but he definitely dodged a narcissist bullet.
He’s dead, so I don’t think he’s doing much dodging
Reddit is literally cooked.
Where tf is the video where hasan says if u get raped by an immigrant u shouldnt report them because they can get deported?! I can’t find the video but I remember hasan saying it on destiny’s channel. A glazer doesn’t believe me and I just wanna show her how messed up he is
Wait didnt destiny literally say hes transactional in relationships? And now hes blaming dudes for being the same way.
Eh i’ll take it
Destiny has terrible takes on gender dynamics issues. Sounds so beta and simpy all the time.
He says men and women have more similarities than they do differences so ig we can ignore the extremely common trends we observe . He's too progressive here in favour of women..
What specific bad advice did he give here?
@@MichealScotch He says we have more in common than the red pill people think, not that there are no differences at all. The red pill guys talk about women as if they're a completely different species. But specifically in regards to this video; an obvious difference (that he's always pointing out), is how women have to take extra steps to keep themselves safe from shitty and/or dangerous men. He always says, most men don't understand the daily woman's experience of "I want to see this guy again but I don't know if he's a safe partner or not". Shit testing to see how a man respects a women's boundaries is a good way to find out.
Getting even more specific, in this video, he said the woman shouldn't have given him her building code, so this isn't an example of a shit-test he'd be in favour of. He's got into loads of shit before for telling a women they're regarded for doing x behaviour. He does, (what most liberal/progressive people would call) victim blame quite often. He doesn't favour men or women in these scenarios, he always looks at it case by case.
@Narcissistic_Penguin well to start with what he said about ghosting is just so stupid. People do things that might make someone uncomfortable unknowingly all the time, if noone tells them what they did wrong how will they improve.
@@4598-c9l In a perfect world, I totally agree with you. Both men and women should be better at being more direct with how they're feeling and what they want. But it's a nuanced issue no? Destiny gave a good justification for why he thinks women should ghost, what do you think about the reason he gave?
She wasn’t even serious about dating haha she’s playing the numbers game like a child she probably has bare options and will get any man she actually wanted
Ghosting someone that knows where you live sounds unwise
Rare destiny L take.
*Common. He has been taking Ls with his Israel v Palestine takes for over a year now
What part was an L take?
@@RiamuBerru personally i think he was steelmanning her side way too much. a lot of the reason that situation happened was her fault(though both sides are in the wrong and dumb.) and generally my disagreement with destiny on some basic points, like how id see a woman like that as a red flag, literally a "playing games" type of woman, like how she gave the guy her apartment code, so fucking retarded.
@@Sid00077 lol ok
Destiny is 100% correct here. Giving someone permission to do something does not give you infinite permission in the future. She gave him her building code (which he admits is dumb) that evening but that doesn't mean he can continue to turn up whenever he wants and use the building code again. Especially after only 4 DAYS. ESPECIALLY when he knows she has another date that evening!! I'm not a woman but I can easily put myself in her shoes and feel weirded out by that.
16:00 these tweets btw are true. The terms "bro", "guys" and "gay" even are also used for women too and keeping them inclusive but its not the same the otherway around in every way of life. Men have to always include women but women dont for men ever. We always consider womens opinions but if its something related to women like abortion or anything really then its "womens opinions matter only".
Also destiny saying "i would say the same about women if they had similar problems like mens spaces"...going to ignore rad fems and r/2xchromosomes???? Nice one dude.
14:04
I’m sorry that girl doesn’t wanna date she just wants a hot ass guy cuz guess what if she was interested in you she wouldn’t give a fuck. Taking the time out of your day to do that sorry destiny you are wrong on this cu. most of the women I’ve dated I’ve done something like this not end up there house but pretty close. It’s not personally opinion you need to chat with working class women rhat don’t have their life handed to them
Weirdo self report.
@@epicsupremebapedope4202 haha if so then idk why I have good friends as girls that somewhat repeat the same shet. I’m sorry you live with rich wealth snobs bro but working class women don’t work like how destiny says or anything lol 😂 destiny pretty much dated only fans chicks that has no accountability in there life from there parents. You can tell by how they treat people around them