Society Expectations
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Society Expectations
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Society: "Don't be poor"
Society: *Is designed to steal all your monies*
You're confused but you got the spirit! Our governments are wasting 15-29% of our income on useless things
@@bdsmgaming3627 serious
@@bdsmgaming3627 Well it's the government who run society
our government steals our money by making us pay taxes just to nuke poor underdeveloped countries🦅🦅🦅🇱🇷
Why tf did I say that
We all know all that pressure goes away when tommy posts
FACTS
Is my pfp toxic?
He not gon fuck u lil bro
Depends on what kind of pressure
@@imtyler99yearsago90 don't think so
A new Tommy video is either about a relatable subject or about topics that matter for the collective minds of society to listen to.
or both.
Same
@@imnotalwaysright84 nah they don't want to 💀
@ImNotalwaysRight and yet they shouldn't
@@TheDarx. please tell me this a joke💀
This video is straight facts. A nice balance of pressures is a good thing, too much of it does no help to anyone but people still need to remember the real world is not nice like that. You can get anywhere if you put your mind to it, just remember to be a respectable human being along the whole way.
shut up cringe pfp
W
No
I will not be respectable
@@64studios74sigma
honestly community college is underrated. yeah it sucks that you feel distant from everyone but it’s better than going to an expensive university and being in debt before you even get out
the answer : scholarship
@@JotaroKujo-ip5wb Join the cartel
@@ernie9538 💀
@@JotaroKujo-ip5wb the answer: organized theft
@@AManWithNoName valid
Facts. And I'll prove it. I'm a psychologist right. So for my final year project, I conducted a study on social pressure and depression amongst Gen Z. It was conducted with members of the Gen Z age cohort in college and high school.
The results showed that kids in public schools (Nigerian public schools) faced little to no pressure in life and so they were more care free and happier compared to their private school counterparts. Private school kids were so depressed, I actually cried while looking at their responses to the questionnaire.
College students was another ball game all together. Almost everyone was depressed. All because of the pressure they were facing. Mostly from their parents and society. The expectations were so high that some people lost hope in themselves.
Societal pressure is no joke and should honestly be talked about more.
Bro those are straight facts, when I lived in Honduras, I studied in a private school and even tho we were in a private school, i feel like my classmates and myself had way more social pressure than Kids that went to public school, most of the Kids that went to public school were just chilling after school meanwhile us private school Kids were all fucking stressed out because of the amount of useless homework that those teachers gave us.
I’m a freshman in college, and while my parents are amazing and I have no qualms with how they’ve raised me at all, society in general is fucked. My car broke down and I legitimately thought I’d have to drop out and move back home because the price to get a new engine was more than I spent on the car in the first place a couple years ago. And it’s a decent car! I bought it in 2018, it’s a 2014 Mustang, and that four year old sports car was cheaper than an engine is now. You used to be able to buy a new car in cash with a part time job. Luckily my mom let me borrow one of her old cars and offered to buy the engine if I pay her back and move home to work over the summer. Every major issue I’ve had since moving out has either been solved by my parents or they’ve given me a plan on how to fix it. But God forbid if I wasn’t born with great parents, society doesn’t care like your parents do, and unfortunately some kids my age are already on their own
Yeah and I'm a millionaire.....not
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Exactly i live in nigeria, and im currently is ss2 and my teachers just keep stressing the fuck out of me
Came in looking for memes, came out with a newfound faith in humanity. (or at least confirmation that there are at least decent people left here) good job man.
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@@josephleebob3828 ok
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@@KoreaMoment k
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My mom always pressured me in to doing sports. She wanted me to be like my sisters. So she made me do gymnastics, cheerleadeing, and track. I didn't wanna do any of them, but I selted with track since I was a good sprinter. I didn't wanna tell her that I didn't wanna do sports, but I was scared she make to be my fault that I was the problem. So I just never said anything. Now she's been less pushy, but still trying to make me do sports.
You might have to let her know at some point
My mom was like that too. I loved playing sports, but school team sports made sports not fun.
@@JohnBillow I agree, they need to be able to decide their own life.
@@imnotalwaysright84you should be 18 when you start looking for a wife, you don’t need to get married that early
@ImNotalwaysRight 23 more like.
Bro it’s especially the foreign parents who think without going to college you’re going to live a crappy life
Ong
@Truth Seeker You are forgetting about traits
@@ernie9538 Trades are great, but a majority of people aren’t suited for them and it requires a lot of hard work and manual labour. So, it rules out a good chunk of people. But if people want to go ahead, then sure
I think it's mainly because a lot of foreign parents are from either a.) wartorn or poverty-stricken countries where education is valued but inaccessible, or b.) countries like China or Japan where going to college is seen as the only way to go about having a happy, decent future.
Parents/Adults really think that when you reach a certain age, you have to be this amazing social butterfly that always goes out and socializes with everyone because every event is soooo interesting and we need participate in all and every event there is!!
Ugh.
im not really defending them but we are two completly diff generation, especially if they were born in a 3 or 4 world country
Your parents want you to have a fulfilling life though
@Truth Seeker sounds tiring ngl
plus not everyone has to be that so-called "social butterfly"
@@amaze_z1953 how do they know what a fulfilling life would look like for me?
F
I did community college for two years honestly the best decision of my life smaller class rooms, Learning skills you may of not been able to learn because the high school itself was on crack. Plus being someone who was a little bit slower than everyone. It taught me the basis of how to do college based papers and finishing them five weeks before the actual due date giving me amply time to edit the paper and getting an easy A in the classes. Now that I have transferred to an actual University all the year two and freshman look for me to advice. While at the same time the professor love having conversations with me.
I'm really proud of you man! You kept it slow and steady instead of pushing yourself witch could have lead to a burnout.
Me personally I learn things crazy fast which also demotivates me from doing anything💀
The worst type of societal pressure is relationship pressure..
In the media, in public etc all you ever see are people in loving relationships while your always alone which makes you feel left out and unloved
I agree even though I am just a random woman.
I'm 19 too and there is a goal that I'm pushing to achieve but the problem is actually finding the motivation to work through it.
I'm 19 too and my only goal is to graduate community College with a computer science degree
keep going king, you’ve got this
I just turned 20 and idk if I should start college
@@Tr1xx same but for an engineering degree
I am 19 too
I feeling the same way too
Society expects too much of people, it’s no wonder so many people are constantly busy and have no time for themselves.
Absolutly, and if you say "f*ck it, I dont want to do that" then you are the biggest monster similair in threat to the collosal titan from Attack on Titan just because in their eyes you are a brat or something.
Ive felt so pressured in my life that I’ve been wearing a mask for over a 1 year in middle school because I get judged for how I look and other things like that. Seeing someone agree with what I’ve had to deal with and not put a random.
Pressure makes diamonds
@@johndalasfox6077 Nah bruh it takes more than just pressure
@@johndalasfox6077 Balance is the key
@@johndalasfox6077 or pressure sometimes just crushes you, best thing to do is to ignore them and focus on maxing yourself
Don't wear a mask
It's also quite sad how we treat each other like robots and expect one another to go through the same patterns of behaviour and all of a sudden be happy. Without actually looking at what this individual really needs mentally, physically, spirituality and so on, like any human being should. But at least we are recognizing these cycles now and can change them.
That's life sorry to say that
@@-error-7936 Man maybe it doesn't have to be
@@chandlenian preach it fam
@@-error-7936 no that's what YOU think life is
@@TheyWantMeGone69 PREACHHHH-
The fact I’m 13 and already worrying about what I’m gonna do past 18 because all my teachers stress me and pressure me on college and my future because they expect me to be super successful or I’ll be homeless and bad if I don’t do college is crazy, even my mother talks about how I’m gonna do my future and discuss to me about how I’m gonna solve money issues, LIKE IM 13, IM TOO YOUNG TOO BE THINKING ABOUT THAT! At least tell me about that shit when I’m 15, I’m basically still a child, I only turned 13 a month ago so I’m very early in teenage age, I should not be thinking about this yet people like to pressure this shit on me! This video genuinely helped me
"why are they all so depressed? it must be the phones!"
@@hoovy1163exactly and then they wonder why some people end up committing suicide and shit the amount of pressure that’s put on people in society is ridiculous
I'm 16 and not really liking living with the stress of the future and what I'm going to do. This is not a happy funny moment I'm living rn☹️
I feel sorry for you! I had that pressure in my school too and hated it to it's guts...
lol I'm 17 and still have no idea what to do
In my senior year of high school. There was these people that would help us with college, and they would never take no for an answer. I was debating about college until they just ruined it for me.
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@@josephleebob3828 on galapagos
@@Sticknub huh
@@josephleebob3828 why is a historical face cringe
what even is your pfp
Trade school is probably the best alternative to college. In my electrical school, you could tell the teacher you were gonna be late and he’d wait on you cuz he understands that life gets in the way. He cuts all bullshit, talks very directly and plainly, and cracks jokes. He even told us about good plans for the future (like Solar being the future, or how much HVAC pays), sometimes we’d even get out early if he finishes the teaching for the day faster than expected. Best teacher I’ve had.
When I stop following what society wants I started to become better than society desire. I don't get why this world wants you to be like a God but that's not you, just be who you want to be and don't listen to what others said on who you should be. Don't let them think for you , think for yourself.
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My friends are pressuring me to make an Instagram to get girls. Quite honestly, I think it's pointless. Why do I need to show off my life to others just so that they could see the type of person I am? Isn't the point of social media to curate your profile and show your life at its highest point? I don't think it would even come close to showing who you really are. And why would I want to look at other peoples lives? So that I can feel shitty about my own? No thanks.
Yeah don't do it. Social media was a fucking BLIGHT on my mental health for quite a handful of years.
Hit the nail right on the head.
Love seeing comments like this don’t do it don’t install it the app is completely fucking pointless and you will regret doing so good job kid.
The pressure never stops, but I always remember life is not guaranteed. I could die tomorrow, so I live for today, and do as I want. Not saying I don't plan for the next year's or work hard, but I make sure I do it for myself first and foremost.
Don't use this excuse.. you'll regret it a lot later down the line with this mindset🤦
I'm a senior and I'm failing school. Thanks for making this video. It reminds me that my life isn't chosen by a letter on a paper.
❤
College is an overhyped scam. Nobody will convince me to go to college. I’ll be a dumbass if it means I don’t go to college. Also thank you for the preach at the end, very motivational
what are you planning on doing instead?
Okay, just go to trade school, a boot camp, or get a degree in something literally any other way. If you have a business opportunity that you are passionate about, getting a certification in a topic related to it/it will help you massively.
I would rather do no more school, fuck that shit
@@Duhgel nah you actually need school
@@robertgardner05 I myself am planning to Become an Author, A Web Author. A private Author, I’m pretty sure that I won’t need some Degree for That
As a history major in college, I can attest that what you do is infinitely more useful than any historian that has ever lived.
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Tommy, idk why but your videos make me laugh so much. Thank you
I hate being pressured into doing shit I probably couldn’t care less about but because my peers won’t stfu about it, I do it just so they can add more shit for me to do to satisfy whatever they see me as in their head and if I don’t do it I’m a disappointment and an outcast I just want the simple life I don’t care about fame, I hate people.
Peers....smh hate that word. It's looming over us trying to suggest that it means friends when it doesn't.
4:50 Yeah, community college is an absolute W. I took 2 years of community college and got my associates--then transferred to university to finish my bachelors. I must have saved about $40k in loans by NOT going to university all 4 years. And the funniest thing to me is that I feel like I got a better quality of education at my community college than my university. 😵💫
When you mentioned time I really became grateful for this channel and life in general thank you tommy I hope we all grow into the better version of ourselves.
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@@josephleebob3828 bot?
@@joaoborgesrodriguesalves6554 nah
*Society explaining why cheaper devices with better usability andmore functions are inferior to expensive phones that are the same as 4 year old phones*
Also some may say: Go and study something that you like and love. And all I can say is, no. Don't do that. Think twice. Because there's a difference between liking something and being good at something. Others might be born with both. And some of us not. Like my case, I persuade IT diploma because I like computers and want to make games and stuff, but once I start studying it, it's tedious, boring and hard to catch up as hell especially when you're weak at maths. Coding? Oh boy you better have chips installed in your brain because at my place, we'll have paper test and you need to write string of codes down on paper. Glad that sem is over.
But what im trying to say is, try to do something that you are good at, you may not like it as much as the other thing but in life, just because you liked something doesn't mean you can be good at it or can handle it. Without realizing you might actually be good at what you hate or has least interest on can because of that you get the upper hand, like a cheat code to boost your way up and somehow make bucks. Remember don't blindly follow what you like instead learn to judge yourself in a healthy way and and decide which subjects fit you and the least pain in the ass for you to handle. It's okey to think about the future but don't go overboard with it like thinking what job you'll get etc. The beard will COME, you just need to set your priorities straight in what you're currently facing. In the beginning you might hate it, but you'll grow to love it. And the opposite, in the beginning you might love it, but you'll grow to hate it.
Plan smart, not plan hard. Keep being the best version of yourself Kings and Queens.
Read this in Tommy’s voice for some reason
go study what you like and love means that you study in what you like doing. if you want to make video games and you go into the IT field without learning what the IT field is about, then how do you expect everything to go your ways?
@@kaikem8649 exactly, I am an artist and I know that in order to be good at drawing whatever I want I have to practice a lot everyday and do boring line drawing excercises on begining of each session, but I do it because I love to draw, its like a relationship
@ImNotalwaysRight no. You should start thinking about your happiness and how do you want to live.
Good advice but some people may be different. I believe you can like something enough to grow to be skilled somewhere but it requires a *huge* amount of persistence and vigilance. It would be better to try out related tasks/internships/whatever to gauge if you would want to do something for life rather than weighing options. The problem with the pressure of career paths is the stress on thinking, when really its better to be doing and proving what works and what doesn't for us.
That kid eating his booger literally traumatised me
LITERALLY LIKE WHY WAS HE STARING SO MENACINGLY 😂
The "kids are trying to act too grown up nowadays" had the most impact on me ive ever had, I just stopped doing what i like, i stopped showiing my real emotions and try to act thougher and say innaproppiatte things like my other homies all just to fit in.
3:38 LOL!!!!!!!!
W millionaire
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Such a great message to spread. More people need to hear this :)
Strive for the crap you want. In all things it better to hope than dispair. Don't be constantly looking for others for their opinions / validation
0:14 made me break down in tears bro
We truly live in a society.
Remember, if you fall in life, stand up, brush yourself up, never give up, and say "Fuck it we ball."
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thanks bro I needeed this rn
Fella's always make ur own choices. Within the constraints that life places on ya'll of course.
Don't worry to much about greatness and shit. Barely anyone is lucky enough to reach it. Just focus on gaining/maintaining what you need and finding a semblance of peace/satisfaction in life.
Those are my expectations for you.
Have a good one and always remember:
Everyone is a loser even if they don't admit to it. Except for my local homeless guy bertus. He's cool.
We truly do live in a society
7:55 bro just spittin it, nah politicians are too crazy they be gone in the next 10 years and leave with some shit snd war fighting each others.
Fr, I hate both sides of political. They both spew bullshit
1:16 Green is just a better color than blue. Why would you want to downgrade to a worse color?
You've just disrespected every Chelsea fan on the planet
And I love it
I am Muslim and Prophet Muhammad's favorite color is green
Well said Tommy I’m only 23 & I ain’t got shit figured out but I got faith in my longevity ik imma run it up real soon 🙏🏾
I’ve learned that succumbing to pressure leads to failure- even when you conform with the “norm” people will always find something to judge because they’re miserable with their own lives.
You go to college but realized your certain career could’ve been taught online or for a school with lower tuition, but stayed for the sake of reputation which no one cares about in the actual job industry. You earn a job but don’t make time to enjoy your own hobbies now that people are asking you to get a date, get out more, or when you’ll be married.
Then you spend tons of money on marriage only to see the relationship fall out and now you’re a divorced parent with kids and have to work 10x more to pay off your eternal debts you “thought” were necessary for survival. Such an unfulfilling life I wouldn’t wanna see myself into :/
"Low-key speaking facts fr"
-Martin Luther King Jr
I am 39 years old and this dude is spitting straight facts, boomers have zero clue what young folk got to deal with days and I get into arguments with them all the time, next time I will just send this video hahaha
me being a senior and I still don’t know what I want to study in college is stressing me out and makes me have breakdowns every now and then💀
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Shoutout to all the parents for knowing we're guaranteed to suffer in this life and still gave birth to us that's some real shit 💯🔥
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dude everytime you upload. stuff that happens in my life disappears for how long your video is, it's just relatable. thanks tommy!
6:09 caught me off guard
Bro this video could not have been recommended to me at a better time in my life. I've been feeling really under the weather and depressed lately because I've been stressed out as FUCK by pretty much all the things you talked about in this video and more. Watching this let me take a step back from everything and just have a good laugh about it all, and now I feel better already :) genuinely thank you bro for making this, it's nice to be able to relate to and feel validated by somebody who's walking the same general path I am in this life.
That booger kid in the beginning caught me so off guard
I squinted
Honestly when Tommy uploads it just makes our days better, bro's content is so frickin entertaining, Bro could make an episode about how he hates wind and it will be so fun.
Man, what you’re talking about is exactly what’s been on my mind these days.
I’m not pressure too much by others but I’m pressured a lot by myself based on what I feel I should be doing. Pressure can be a good thing but it can be pretty stressful too. I feel like I’m boring and that I should be better but I’m not doing enough and I constantly compare myself to others and I take everything like a challenge. I challenge myself to be superior other people which is a good thing because I’m working on myself and making myself better but also a not so good thing.
The motivational speaker we didn't know we needed
5:38 calm down man you contribute for our entertainment
Yeah that is true
2 years ago I had a break down that I didn't get accepted into a college and all my friends were already ahead of me.. I was the youngest of my classmates back in 2020
Rn I'm saving money and Appling to several colleges in case one doesn't work out and FAFSA, I'm 20 and Im gonna be okay, met this 23yo girl from Romania who is a freshman and helped me quite a bit
I like to head to uni btw :3
Dis man extremely underated, he deserves more subs
This is extremely relatable sometimes we just want to freeze time just so we can enjoy life without worrying about a single thing
When Tommy posts you already know it's gonna be a good day
due to me getting sick when i was reaching around 18, I now have guardianship to help me until i can deal with all this. thanks mom and dad!
Whenever I saw the tiltle society expectations I immediately of all of those stupid joker things that are like "society doesn't except me" what has the internet done to me
really enjoy your channel. other commentary channels just get into doom posting territory, and yours just feels fun
Like my parents forced me to grow up fast now that i have a year left to decide wtf i want to do and i feel like i didnt enjoy my childhood enough
Join the Cartel
You're one of the most entertaining TH-camrs on the platform, keep up the good work.
Dude im downbad rn ( flu, seasonal depression and mdma crash combined) and this video really helped me, thanks man.
Thank you for this upload, there are some really true and relatable topics mentioned here.
5:33 Woah woah woah TH-camrs aren't useless to society. Depending one how they use their platform they can teach people how to act and rase awareness of whats happening.
2:30 based, prison industrial complex isn't talked about enough
This is actually a very good and relatable topic to talk about, thank you very much Tommy
as a person whos future who wants to be a doctor in the future, im probs never even gonna be a doctor cause i suck at society and then ill be a fat discord moderator.
Tommy speaking the straightest facts I've ever seen
This video is great despite crashing my mood with the college talk.
Your vids are so relatable bruv, love your content my man 💪🏾
Tommy how do you manage to be so informative, entertaining, and funny at the same time
I can unwind know hearing Tommy talk about society
idk why, but the title makes me think about the r/im14andthisisdeep subreddit and the "we live in a society" shit
“Your classmates see your hard. Your homies sees your hard. Your crush sees your hard. Your teacher sees your hard. Life is hard.” 😂 Speaking as a high school sophomore, that’s pretty much middle school in a nutshell
This shit actually gives me hope
I dealt with these pressures in a... very dark way. It works, but at the cost of people questioning my sanity
@@Shinyghost5643 Better not to ask ☠
i wanna ask what you did but at the same time i dont
Tell us
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Bro ?
This man is spitting facts!
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thank you brother, this shit is life changing
thanks Tommy for this video! time to start my joker arc
Tommy’s Joker Arc begins
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It’s not society’s fault it’s a person who doesn’t wish to do something and work hard
This the most relatable video I’ve seen all year.
congrats for hitting 300k tommy. It's been a great year for the channel
ive reached a point where sleeping 3 hours for grades and other stuff is almost daily and i live only to see the next weekend, vacation/break or even just the next day
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Same except I sleep 5 hours because of insomnia
I cant even explain how relatable the part about google duo was.
just discovered you through this video and holy shit your editing is holy and this video is so entertaining yet powerful. God damn.
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19 and improvising for the first time in life. This really put things into perspective, thanks
I am 15 and I quit middle school in 8th grade (also has autism) ever since I quit I have gotten hate from everyone that wasn't my parents, my brother says that I am not gonna make it in life before 20
This video really did make me think hard about it and I realised that I need no worries besides my health, it is the most important thing in the world, then Homeschool and then TH-cam/Gaming
This video gave me hope to do this and not be super rich but atleast get good enough cash for my life
Wtf stop lying bro you literally make no sense
nah bro go to school you're legit 15
im 15 and i must question how and why you even came to this point and what even are your plans for the future
@@bruurb786 idk
@@splitsee2526 bruh its been a year you still dont know😭😭😭
That pacer test had me like sonic and pushing down everyone that didn't hit 70
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As always thanks man I needed that.
If I could absorb all the stress that my favorite TH-camrs have and replace it with my happiness, I would be completely sad. No friends, no happiness, and just tired.