Building strong children | Ranbir Puar | TEDxRenfrewCollingwood

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  • @Santiago-5107
    @Santiago-5107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Her voice is so Motherly. Her messege so pure and clear.

  • @missVierzehn
    @missVierzehn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a great person she is. So strong after what she's been through. It's horrible for a child to grow up without love because it's always blaming itself and she made something great out of her own suffering.

  • @becomewhoyouwant7656
    @becomewhoyouwant7656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely understand her rythm of speaking. She is a mother, a parent. I feel her because I am a dad and think about my little ones all the time.

  • @michaelbakkie5242
    @michaelbakkie5242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I always felt my father was ashamed of me. But my time in the army taught me I was a leader and was valued. This knowledge carried me through life.

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus

  • @sunitam7505
    @sunitam7505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very emotional...speaker was not just speaking, but reverberating her inner thoughts!

  • @JoAnnePeaceMind
    @JoAnnePeaceMind 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She is pretty. Her voice and the words is so amazing that speak the true of what children are facing now in this arena. I am looking forward more speaker that speaks to help children in need.

  • @gipereira82
    @gipereira82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much. Those words moved me. We all can related. I want to be better for myself and my 2 year old daughter. I want to teach her to put herself first and treat herself with love and compassion. I didn't do it all my life, but I can still do my best to show her one example of a happy mother.

  • @xstormzygd200
    @xstormzygd200 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ranbir is a kid in my classes mom she as came and did this with us, she has maid her kids great her boy ..... always is happy and always makes you feel better, she is a lady that is a life changer.

  • @gabrielgkabelen9824
    @gabrielgkabelen9824 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feel so blessed of having a loving father and a very super and wonderful carrying mother.

  • @JoAnnePeaceMind
    @JoAnnePeaceMind 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ranbir, you are a strong child in your family. Thank you for saving more children to come. God Bless You.

  • @arg3828
    @arg3828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a talk Ranbir!!!!! This message should go beyond generations.

  • @aleksandarkrastev5879
    @aleksandarkrastev5879 9 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I love TED conferences, they are very educating

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus

  • @cambriahartman3112
    @cambriahartman3112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Ted talks and the people that are standing out for themselves and don't care what other people say about them. I agree that we all have our own ways being ourselves and becoming something we should understand in the future.

  • @BoomerAnn
    @BoomerAnn 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    One of the most powerful talks I've seen yet.

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boomer Ann yes! 👏👏🎉👍😀😮

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How does this not have more views?! Definitely in the top 5 Ted talks that are the most profound impact.

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wendi, I appreciate your kind words.

    • @devarly
      @devarly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true. Couldnt agree more. She'd just made me realize we spend most of the times working with so many aspects of self help, but forgotting the most important root of cause, which is our self image

  • @Funandconsciousness
    @Funandconsciousness 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As more and more people wake up and realize that most of us are far more than we were ever led to believe, and come to know that we are all parts of God, we will far more easily build strong children. Good talk, Ranbir. Love your passionate delivery!

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Funandconsciousness...your words got to the root of our message so very well. I appreciate your support!

  • @moeazam6358
    @moeazam6358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The actual talk and advices part starts at 12:04

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you

    • @redigloo1277
      @redigloo1277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Motasm Abu Mughli thank you!

  • @meldiviq6841
    @meldiviq6841 9 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    We need more people like you!!!

  • @deepasiddharth7385
    @deepasiddharth7385 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the last few lines especially ' I am bigger than this (the problem)'...an inspiring talk about building up a colorful self-image👍👏👏👏

  • @MentalHealthCalmingSoundsRelax
    @MentalHealthCalmingSoundsRelax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this ❤️ Type of mentors I’d love my future kids to have

  • @marijo1013
    @marijo1013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wish there were some strategies taught on how to help kids improve their self image

    • @SuperExcuse
      @SuperExcuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      marijo1013 there is no school of strategy of how to bring up children 👶 but majority of the parents aren’t bad parents unless the parents had mental issue or extreme use of drug substances

  • @dakotakohn8011
    @dakotakohn8011 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She really needs to narrate audio book her voice is so soothing😂

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much for your kind words! I haven’t narrated any books yet but I do have a Podcast called “Living Light Radio”.

    • @alyssacp1297
      @alyssacp1297 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she sounds out of breath haha it's bugging me

  • @Editalaverdyan
    @Editalaverdyan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow..... I can relate and it shows why we are in the psychology field ourselves!!!!

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, and keep up the good work. Every person that gets a little help from the collective mission we all have helps in the long run!

  • @vdimitra
    @vdimitra 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Great speech, great message. Thank you

  • @sundeepmalwiya8407
    @sundeepmalwiya8407 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is a wonderful method to educate ourself

  • @Actidad
    @Actidad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I agree that having a positive self image is paramount, but she missed the key point! An active, engaged dad is the most important contributor to a positive self image.
    Look at the numbers kids without active dads fair horribly, especially boys.
    We have to empower dads to be there for their kids.

    • @Livetoeat171
      @Livetoeat171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actidad NOT TRUE....not only boys!

    • @imperialduran
      @imperialduran 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Important for sure but not the key point. But important no doubt

    • @jeenabipin
      @jeenabipin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Self image can be made on one's own. Active dads cannot.

    • @arcticawesome2444
      @arcticawesome2444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Active dads are NOT the key problem.

  • @pixels3314
    @pixels3314 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for your insight

  • @grandmasangels3203
    @grandmasangels3203 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great talk. I enjoyed hearing your story...Speaking from a youths point of view...

  • @chrisjohnson9356
    @chrisjohnson9356 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How wonderful it is!! I really enjoyed it!

  • @noughtsshadow5219
    @noughtsshadow5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Really impressive and useful. Thank you dear Ma'am

  • @lgvideolibrary
    @lgvideolibrary 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your courage and for following your passion to help lift others

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Louise.

  • @王子-r2w
    @王子-r2w 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    very touching.

  • @nidac9420
    @nidac9420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was one of many people that did not grow up in a way it should have been. It is not easy when you have a life scar, but there are couple things you could do. Forgive, get professional help, and move on.

  • @beckamax74
    @beckamax74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her talk was great. But forgot to put in the lesson on how to build stronger children. I could really use this for my 2 daughters right. We are at a critical point and I don't know what to do.😣

    • @honeybrendamusic
      @honeybrendamusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Positive self image
      I am bigger than this
      Life is about connections , your ability to give and receive love
      Emmotinal nourishment

  • @hathu-hy8bb
    @hathu-hy8bb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome teaching ❤

  • @GaveMeGrace1
    @GaveMeGrace1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @mariesolveig6354
    @mariesolveig6354 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yay Nanaimo!

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes :) Love my hometown.

  • @kanchanasavithri7532
    @kanchanasavithri7532 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for the great message

  • @Jumi911
    @Jumi911 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome thanks

  • @sampeterson1088
    @sampeterson1088 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great ideas, hope we see them in action soon

  • @marryford3894
    @marryford3894 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great personal !

  • @jonathansamuel1721
    @jonathansamuel1721 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Style class and big hearth in one person !

  • @safia7104
    @safia7104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:15 when I was 7 yo
    Omg I think this gonna be emotional ....

  • @tatafaderica7215
    @tatafaderica7215 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for the video..

  • @emilytompson3065
    @emilytompson3065 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video as always.

  • @swethavenkataraman6693
    @swethavenkataraman6693 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! You are amazing

  • @catcato8716
    @catcato8716 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so beautiful, it made me cry.

  • @kristyanyankov302
    @kristyanyankov302 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One amazing video!

  • @alexandreitaguaiporto
    @alexandreitaguaiporto 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    marvelous

  • @AnnaEldho
    @AnnaEldho 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good one

  • @xin-xinmah8517
    @xin-xinmah8517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Rengfew collingwood, may I know how to go about receiving training the way you help the children? I am a counselor volunteering at Focus on the family Malaysia. Thank you.

    • @xin-xinmah8517
      @xin-xinmah8517 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can be reached at xinxin@family.org.my

  • @thelondoners-lifeisart
    @thelondoners-lifeisart 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% enough cotton wool and masks 🎭 We need to completely overhaul the way we look at caring for ourselves and for our children.
    Take this opportunity to learn - grow and pivot.

  • @roy892
    @roy892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I said "i wanna die" at the age of 9, i stop acting like a kid at 12 and im only 14 covered in scars cuz of my family. I had to move schools so my safe place was gone since my family has just gotta worse. Especially my mom since she thinks I'm confused since I say i wanna be a guy and im girl.

    • @emilykirkman8468
      @emilykirkman8468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m praying that God’s peace will envelope you ❤️

  • @ivankalchen982
    @ivankalchen982 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just wonderful really liked it!

  • @tammymccarthy1204
    @tammymccarthy1204 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is there any Ted talks on children that’s been left behind, My nephew is 19, Both his parents are incarcerated. Yet I have not found any help with helping this child. It frightens me

    • @MentalHealthCalmingSoundsRelax
      @MentalHealthCalmingSoundsRelax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This must be hard on you. God be with both of you

    • @t.r.1457
      @t.r.1457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please find him professional help / therapy.

  • @bwyyc2886
    @bwyyc2886 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the root cause of the worsening mental health in children today? Just bad parents who are damaging their children ‘s self image? Are we just becoming worse parents? And what’s the root cause of that?

  • @F-Taheri
    @F-Taheri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 33 and have zero self esteem and negative self image.

    • @diverstalent
      @diverstalent 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fay Taheri thank you for sharing. It’s quite a statement about yourself. I am wondering.. in which behavior does this result? How does this show in your day to day behavior?

  • @jlopez628
    @jlopez628 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved it!!...thank you!!...

  • @Pablo-pd2gr
    @Pablo-pd2gr 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So what are the actual advises besides the trampoline analogy?

  • @beautifulcatastrophe
    @beautifulcatastrophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤯😭😢

  • @moonicy5413
    @moonicy5413 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need les bullys and really mean people so thing like thing and other thing like sad and dead child.

  • @krainey
    @krainey 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So she remembers her parents wailing when she was born .........

    • @user-hi6nm9od2l
      @user-hi6nm9od2l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sure this is something she’s been told since day 1

  • @sakib2249
    @sakib2249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    but you are talking about the problem. not the solution.

    • @isihosena635
      @isihosena635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She does talk about the solution: strengthening children and preventing emotional hurt for them so there are less problems later in life.

  • @alonalatouche1070
    @alonalatouche1070 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haitian

  • @fatimaelmahdy6287
    @fatimaelmahdy6287 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Arabic translation please

    • @RanbirPuar
      @RanbirPuar 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      We'll try to find a way to get the translation. Sorry about that.

    • @sarahspencer4913
      @sarahspencer4913 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message me if still needed

  • @lin018
    @lin018 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bad speech.. attempt to drive emotions to a different state instead deliver intended content. The emotion manipulator in speech is a weak sign.

  • @RoxanneDSwaim
    @RoxanneDSwaim 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    in the beggining she sounds like a on-call operator lol

  • @johnptere5962
    @johnptere5962 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    it always infuriates me to see people under 21 who are parents... like if you're still a kid you should not rase kids

    • @adelej.salvato1576
      @adelej.salvato1576 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      are you f**** kidding me? so its better to have kids when your 50 and cant take them play in the park cause you get tired on the 5th minute?

    • @johnptere5962
      @johnptere5962 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      tell that to the 23- year old parent of 2 klids who get yelled by them in the super market

    • @adelej.salvato1576
      @adelej.salvato1576 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      oh shut up just because some people suck at it it doesnt mean everyone should wait till their 30/...

    • @johnptere5962
      @johnptere5962 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      why dont you go and get knocked up then? #youjusttalk

    • @adelej.salvato1576
      @adelej.salvato1576 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      douche