I was going to say that. After my mom had my sister the nurse wasn't changing her right. They were cloth diapers and the way that she was pinning them she wasn't protecting the baby from being pricked. My mom taught the nurse how to change a diaper. I was 10 when my sister was born. My mother would never have me change a diaper without teaching me how to do it. You need to remind your niece to watch the baby at all times so they don't fall off the changing table. Niece might have been comfortable changing the baby if she knew how.
Maybe just rent an entire RV. Park it in the parking lot of the venue. Then run back and forth. Because they expect you to stay in the cabin doesn't mean you should stay in the cabin
My mother and aunt decided I was going to be the one to get pregnant in high school. They made a bet on it. Not whether but when. My cousin announced she wanted to be a lawyer and the next week she got pregnant and I laughed. My mom said that was mean and she could still be a lawyer. I told her no she couldn't. She was raised in a home where neither parent was motivated to work and she's not smart enough, remember she didn't get a letter. She dropped out of high school. I suspect she became a CNA and that's where she maxed. My sister also got pregnant in high school but that didn't make it into the family catch up letter
If you work from home is the same as working at the office. You dont have time to look after a baby. You dont take your baby to your workplace. So working from home you need a nanny. Not a niece.
The dad that wants his ex to mother the kids he had with the woman he cheated on her with? Can't he just find a new woman to mother them? He had no problem getting a new woman while he was married, why not now? Also, to an adult who has had a kid, changing a diaper is not a big deal. To an 18 year old who has possibly never done it and wasn't planning to, it can be a very big deal. But how do you know from a nanny cam that a diaper change is needed? Unless there was an explosion, but then it is not a "little" favor.
No but you need to rethink how to pack for the weekend. First rent a trailer. Add a generator and extra fuel. Get a nice cook plate a couple of ice chests for kid friendly foods. Down load lots of movies and kid vids extra blankets and smashmellows. Get a tent for the living room. Don't go prepared to be miserable. Make sure everyone knows that no drunk people will be allowed into the cabin. Just make them the party at the other place. Take lots of hot chocolate
Dad is going to do the same with this second family and it'll be easier this time because the kids aren't his. He didn't like being. Family man the first time and dropped half his debt on his wife. He's going to to the same thing to new wife, they aren't even his kids, so that will make it even easier and he'll get rid of half his debt again
Do you think the wife will want to stay married? Talk about stress. I'd divorce him after this time especially after your dressing down because now she knows that no I ye will ever hold him accountable for his own actions. She can't be with him 24/7. He's a big boy, diabetes type 1 is self managed, always not parent or wife managed. There's a good chance your brother is a lemming and no one can stop him from unalive himself
OP I would advise you to try to get a good paying job and if you can't stay low contact with them and try to save up some money with your brother and your mother to help he has no right to you and no business knowing what you guys are doing try to put up a savings account in case of a mustard seed because that's what I got 💲💲💲 because you always want to make sure that you have money that you can use and somewhere down the line when your brother gets older I will invite you to possibly put up a savings account for him or a emergency funding his name only and if you like to put one up in your mother's name that no one can access but you and your brothers and your mother that way you guys know that you guys are all well taken care of
i would have told judge that these forced visits wont be fun for "dad" (nowhere does it say that i have to be nice to anyone in that home)
SHE HAS HER OWN FATHER
Has your brother taught your daughter how to change a baby? It's his kid, if he felt he was going to need her help why did he teach her what to do?
I was going to say that. After my mom had my sister the nurse wasn't changing her right. They were cloth diapers and the way that she was pinning them she wasn't protecting the baby from being pricked. My mom taught the nurse how to change a diaper.
I was 10 when my sister was born. My mother would never have me change a diaper without teaching me how to do it.
You need to remind your niece to watch the baby at all times so they don't fall off the changing table. Niece might have been comfortable changing the baby if she knew how.
Maybe just rent an entire RV. Park it in the parking lot of the venue. Then run back and forth. Because they expect you to stay in the cabin doesn't mean you should stay in the cabin
My mother and aunt decided I was going to be the one to get pregnant in high school. They made a bet on it. Not whether but when. My cousin announced she wanted to be a lawyer and the next week she got pregnant and I laughed. My mom said that was mean and she could still be a lawyer. I told her no she couldn't. She was raised in a home where neither parent was motivated to work and she's not smart enough, remember she didn't get a letter. She dropped out of high school. I suspect she became a CNA and that's where she maxed. My sister also got pregnant in high school but that didn't make it into the family catch up letter
OP MADE THE SAME
DEAL WITH BOTH CHILDREN, THE SON
GOT HIS REWARD
FAIR + SQUARE THE
STEP-DAUGHTER SHE WANTED TO GET
THE REWARD WITH
OUT EARNING IT.
If you work from home is the same as working at the office. You dont have time to look after a baby. You dont take your baby to your workplace. So working from home you need a nanny. Not a niece.
The dad that wants his ex to mother the kids he had with the woman he cheated on her with? Can't he just find a new woman to mother them? He had no problem getting a new woman while he was married, why not now? Also, to an adult who has had a kid, changing a diaper is not a big deal. To an 18 year old who has possibly never done it and wasn't planning to, it can be a very big deal. But how do you know from a nanny cam that a diaper change is needed? Unless there was an explosion, but then it is not a "little" favor.
No but you need to rethink how to pack for the weekend. First rent a trailer. Add a generator and extra fuel. Get a nice cook plate a couple of ice chests for kid friendly foods. Down load lots of movies and kid vids extra blankets and smashmellows. Get a tent for the living room. Don't go prepared to be miserable. Make sure everyone knows that no drunk people will be allowed into the cabin. Just make them the party at the other place. Take lots of hot chocolate
Tell your on nurse who you want iin the del. room. Mom rules.
That's some single mom shit .
OP you dad matrix is none of your concern I will possibly like you when you get old enough just to cut contact with your dad
Dad is going to do the same with this second family and it'll be easier this time because the kids aren't his. He didn't like being. Family man the first time and dropped half his debt on his wife. He's going to to the same thing to new wife, they aren't even his kids, so that will make it even easier and he'll get rid of half his debt again
I KNOW HOW OP FEELS
BCAUSE SHE WAS BULLIED SO MUCH BCAUSE I WAS BULLIED
MOST IF NOT ALL MY LIFE.
Do you think the wife will want to stay married? Talk about stress. I'd divorce him after this time especially after your dressing down because now she knows that no I ye will ever hold him accountable for his own actions. She can't be with him 24/7. He's a big boy, diabetes type 1 is self managed, always not parent or wife managed. There's a good chance your brother is a lemming and no one can stop him from unalive himself
OP I would advise you to try to get a good paying job and if you can't stay low contact with them and try to save up some money with your brother and your mother to help he has no right to you and no business knowing what you guys are doing try to put up a savings account in case of a mustard seed because that's what I got 💲💲💲 because you always want to make sure that you have money that you can use and somewhere down the line when your brother gets older I will invite you to possibly put up a savings account for him or a emergency funding his name only and if you like to put one up in your mother's name that no one can access but you and your brothers and your mother that way you guys know that you guys are all well taken care of