शादी करने की सही AGE क्या है ? WHEN TO MARRY?

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  • @Kidsdreamstories77
    @Kidsdreamstories77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1264

    Jo Jo jinse shadi Karna cahte h unki shadi unse ho Jaye or aap sab Jivan Bhar khus rahe.

  • @JL-hz3sv
    @JL-hz3sv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    जो भी प्यारी आंखे अभी मेरा Comment पढ़ रही हैं ईशवर उनके माता पिता को लम्बी आयु प्रदान करें. जय श्रीराम🙏

    • @godshivamgupta
      @godshivamgupta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      जय श्री राम
      हर हर महादेव

    • @prabhadwivedi5432
      @prabhadwivedi5432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bhut hosiyar ho Bhai ........same to you ..I wish the same for ur parents

    • @rutujamahajan2321
      @rutujamahajan2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God blessuu nd ur family

    • @dheeraj4414
      @dheeraj4414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you too.👍

    • @Manchala264
      @Manchala264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      धन्यवाद 😊

  • @shwetaredkar734
    @shwetaredkar734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +655

    I am 35 and unmarried. Tbh, I am so happy within myself, no tension. At the age of 25-26, I never felt the need to marry. I don't feel even now. Instead, i focussed on my career and pursued Ph.D.

    • @saba.5132
      @saba.5132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Hi! Mam it is very good decision coz u r happy with your decision but sometimes our parent are worried about our age n all I m 24 n my relatives n neighbours consider me like old lady, mam how u decided to not marry ?? I felt so +ve after seeing your cmnt

    • @shivani5730
      @shivani5730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@saba.5132 u think ignore kero or apna kam kerte rahe😊😊

    • @saurajshukla5388
      @saurajshukla5388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Karo karo Ph.D karo😁😁

    • @meghnac1564
      @meghnac1564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      People like u r inspiration ❤️

    • @nidajutti1972
      @nidajutti1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@saba.5132 aray 24 may log old kese samajh sktay hy are u okay

  • @Khushisharma-vk8bg
    @Khushisharma-vk8bg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    God sabhi ko unki Pasand ka or unki family ki Pasand ka partner mil jaaye🙏🙏🙏🙏💝

  • @startmyvideos6
    @startmyvideos6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +891

    दिल से बताऊ तो आज के समय मे कोई शादी ही नहीं करना चाहता

  • @puneetkaur8978
    @puneetkaur8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Mai Ek dum sahi jagah aayi hu .....Har din kuch na kuch sekhne ko mil raha hai ...Very nyc video sir....🙏👍👍💖🌹

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, God bless you :)

    • @RealDostVerified
      @RealDostVerified 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *Love_life_problem_Solved_by_Priyanka*
      #Mindsmagicbypriyankabaid
      💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

    • @abirkhan8721
      @abirkhan8721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kya kya seekleeya kitani age aapki kya sadi ho gaye yha karni hai

    • @knowledge2.071
      @knowledge2.071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Puneet ji aapko kya seekhne ko mila please tell me

    • @Manishkumarsingh83065
      @Manishkumarsingh83065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💋❤💋❤

  • @vijaygofficialhajipur
    @vijaygofficialhajipur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    हम गरीब की बेटी से विवाह किया हूँ
    बिना दहेज का
    South movie देख कर
    अमीरों को हमेशा गरीब की बेटी को अपनाना चाहिए, अनार्थो को अपनाना चाहिए

    • @vijaygofficialhajipur
      @vijaygofficialhajipur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rebel
      PRABHAS

    • @shuyashverma4255
      @shuyashverma4255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mere liye bhi ek garib ladki khoj do bhai

    • @sumankumar-pm5fr
      @sumankumar-pm5fr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mai bhi karugi garib ladke se

    • @shuyashverma4255
      @shuyashverma4255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sumankumar-pm5fr humse sadi karogi

    • @rkbharti2716
      @rkbharti2716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      बहुत सही हो भाई 👍👍सभी को ऐसा ही करना चाहिए

  • @himanshijain446
    @himanshijain446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I'm 29 still unmarried , earlier I didn't want to marry but now I want to marry the person I love but my family is against it ...so now I'm still waiting for the day of my Marriage...hope so God fulfils my dream

    • @hr3295
      @hr3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too..Hope for the best 🤗

    • @SukhrajKaur-jm7zd
      @SukhrajKaur-jm7zd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me to

    • @sumitsood9708
      @sumitsood9708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I m 31 unmarried n happy

    • @mohdshaikh4044
      @mohdshaikh4044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bro your parents will give permission to married that girl' no problem everything going to okay 👏💪

    • @greater9541
      @greater9541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U all are dipressed .u know don't lie.

  • @karanthakur5172
    @karanthakur5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I believe that 28-32 is tge best age for marriage after looking all pros and cons
    I came to this conclusion

    • @vishnuprabhakar7327
      @vishnuprabhakar7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I also think so in general,probably.

    • @yogeshsharma9182
      @yogeshsharma9182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Government job mandatory ha

    • @karanthakur5172
      @karanthakur5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@yogeshsharma9182 mandatory toh aap apne perspective sai bolre hai but
      I agree that u have to be a good earner

    • @triptimehra9205
      @triptimehra9205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you 😎👍

    • @jhonsaxon876
      @jhonsaxon876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yogeshsharma9182 Now except jobs under public service commission all other government sector services except few are going to be private so take out this stereotype.

  • @swastman2
    @swastman2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I'm a 34 yr old bachelor . Earlier I didn't want to get married because of the responsibilities , fear ,tension involved like you said in the end. Now my mentality has changed , I'm settled and ready to tie the knot.

    • @HelloHello-ft6fz
      @HelloHello-ft6fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M 32 yrs old..same problem I had

    • @sumitsood9708
      @sumitsood9708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I m 31 n unmarried

    • @ForwardThinkers470
      @ForwardThinkers470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am suffering same problems i am 25 years old

    • @jay_bhim__
      @jay_bhim__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂you should meet with any doctor

    • @RAHULSINGH-cz5zm
      @RAHULSINGH-cz5zm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ForwardThinkers470 abhi aur 5-7 saal hath me hai masti karo kyu baichan hai

  • @bohemiansoul584
    @bohemiansoul584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    मैं यहां उनको खोजने आया हूँ जो कमेंट पढ़ने वाली दो प्यारी आँखों वाले के माता पिता कि आयु लंबी कर देते हैं और पक्षियों को पानी देने आए हैं।

  • @MN-lk9lw
    @MN-lk9lw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Always take self decision with responsibility and you will never regret at all , if you have decided the things in a best way , believe in yourself is like self realization and satisfactional decision for your own. 👍

  • @varshakhandelwal4795
    @varshakhandelwal4795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Shi bt hai sir every age group marriage has its pros and cons. Like your thought and it's easy for me to understand each and every aspect of life with ease. Thanks a lot

  • @AbCd-xz4nf
    @AbCd-xz4nf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Whatever be the age both the partners should be financially independent so that if due to some reason marriage doesn't work then both are free to walk out. In earlier days couples especially women are forced to carry on with bad marriages because of financial dependency.

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well said

    • @madhusmitasethi7174
      @madhusmitasethi7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @neharani6669
      @neharani6669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @ajaydundsiapple1613
      @ajaydundsiapple1613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnubhavJain hi sir main South Indian hu or meri girlfriend North Indian hey (up) hum donno social networking site main milgaye or hamara Love start hogaya . Sir hum donno ek dusare se bhoth pyar Karte hain but meri gf bramin hey or main different cast belong karta hu or mera age Just 26 started and she's 23 sir but meri gf ke ghar main inter caste marriage or love marriage keliye allowed nahi hey oh bol bhi nahi Sakti . But oh borahi hey tum aake direct mera pappa se intro karlo or cast brahmin hey bholo or hum shadi karlenge bolrahihey . Sir pls help me suggest me what do sir pls . Kya hum hamare pyar keliye jut bhol saktain hey or main bhi nahi rehasakta hu uski bina or oh bhi bolarahi hey jaldi shadhi karenge . Sir main bohoth tention main hu .Pls give me suggestions sir pls🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @jitendramalhotra3654
      @jitendramalhotra3654 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ajaydundsiapple1613 Maturi nhi h wo.. Pyar ka nasha h bs

  • @AmitKumar-dx5eg
    @AmitKumar-dx5eg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Aaj kal single rah ke kon injoy krna chahta hai 😀😀😀

  • @AnkitaSingh-ry6ci
    @AnkitaSingh-ry6ci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Moral: Get married b/w 20 to 30 after being independent and mature enough to take responsibility 😊

    • @vikramdevofficial2381
      @vikramdevofficial2381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂Hmm

    • @rahulbhavsar5077
      @rahulbhavsar5077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Marriage is very bad thing

    • @guarav3560
      @guarav3560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rahulbhavsar5077 for boys only 😂

    • @devanshukumar821
      @devanshukumar821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shadi krne se baki ladkiyo ke liye drwaje bnd ho jate hn 😕

    • @snehajain4176
      @snehajain4176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes i wanted to get married at the age of 27 just like my mother

  • @pradipmalakar8159
    @pradipmalakar8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ur 💯% sir, sir iam bengali(hindu). Iam in 22 years when iam maary, this time my wife age 19. Now 14/03/2021 I hv complete my mariage life 10 years. My age now 32, I hv two child my boy 9years and my girl 5years. Ur right sir.

  • @abhirupchakrabarty9918
    @abhirupchakrabarty9918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I think a man's age must be 27-33 for marriage and a woman 25-30 . It's parfect . With 3-5 yrs min age difference .

    • @dobetter02
      @dobetter02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Age difference is not compulsory

    • @sanjuktasamanta2746
      @sanjuktasamanta2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why so.??.its your opinion.
      Age gap is not necessity. A man can get married with a woman elder than him or a woman of same age.

    • @vineetkumarpal4721
      @vineetkumarpal4721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely right

    • @ashuvijay7031
      @ashuvijay7031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meri age 31 h abhi govt lecturer bana hu.. Or main 1-2 sal baad shadi karna chahta hu q ki shadi se pahle main apni body ko fit karna chahta hu.. Kya 32-33 ki age me shaadi karne par kahi late to nahi ho jaaunga ??

    • @guarav3560
      @guarav3560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ashuvijay7031 nhi bhai,
      In today's age it is normal age 🙏

  • @jaswantkaur6559
    @jaswantkaur6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hello Sir,
    Aapki baatein sun kar bahut aachi lagi.
    I got married at the age of 22 while I was still studying and doing my teachers training . Being the youngest of 5 siblings ,I was pampered and never involved in family matters. I was absolutely immature . Mine was an arranged marriage , and there was no scope of self decision, besides all my sisters had arrange marriage, and I was so stupid that I didn't know that I should be having any say in this matter. It was parents decision and I am suppose to obey them .
    This year I have completed 25 years of marriage .My husband is very good human being , very loyal and honest .
    Shaadi ke baad training bhi chut gayi and job karna to chodo ,dress code bhi sirf salwar kameez par hi simit rah gaya .
    My daughter is 24 years of age , but she says that she would never want a husband like her dad , because according to her he is a good human being but he has failed to be a good husband and good father to a daughter. She tells me that you should have walked out of this marriage long time back.
    According to her it is not necessary that every good man has to be a good husband.
    Vo khud bhi shaadi ke naam se darti hai , and she would well love to be single than letting her life to be controlled by someone else.

    • @Sharmarohit01234
      @Sharmarohit01234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am 35 years old and plan to get married this year. I have happily lived in US also during my bachelor time. I am satisfied with my life and happy. Ready to share and radiate my happiness and love now with my soulmate. She is a doctor and I am an Engineer.

  • @sunnynetam4542
    @sunnynetam4542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    अनुभव जी आप तो अनुभव की ख्याति लिए बैठो हो..👌👌

  • @maneeshkumar342
    @maneeshkumar342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aap ekdam suitable bol rahe hain...
    Kafi raahat milti hai aapke answer sun k..

  • @flywithpraveen7878
    @flywithpraveen7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sir maine btech kr ke turant intercaste marriage kr Liya ghr wale negative the ..Lekin aaj Mai khsh hu Apne decision se at 25 years. Aur aaj Mai foucus kr pa rha hu Apne career me

    • @ashishsain7850
      @ashishsain7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good bro me bhi intercaste marriage krunga

    • @_GyanMarg
      @_GyanMarg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kohi khus hai sunkar hi mujhe bhi khusi hota hai, Best of luck bro.

    • @priyankayaduvanshi5629
      @priyankayaduvanshi5629 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man gye Ghar vale

    • @ashishsain7850
      @ashishsain7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@priyankayaduvanshi5629 ji ghar valo ko mane bhut samjhaya h tb unko smjh aya ki hm log insan h Or caste nhi hote or samaj hme kuch nhi deta

    • @yunusansari1667
      @yunusansari1667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ap dono khush hai sada khush rhye yahe dua hai rab se

  • @hashimshaikh374
    @hashimshaikh374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Main 25 saal ki hun Apki baat sun k mujhe thori himmat mili h

  • @deepmaladangi8549
    @deepmaladangi8549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank-you sir...your kids are really lucky to have you

  • @sonalisarkar2261
    @sonalisarkar2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you sir, I am used to listen that I have to completed my studies before the age of 25, I am very confused, but after seeing your vidio, I feel comfortable.

  • @AkashDeep-uh8ti
    @AkashDeep-uh8ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Saadi ke liye mental prepare hona bhi bahut jaruri hai

  • @travel_girl_muskan
    @travel_girl_muskan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ma 24 saal ki hu mene Graduation BCA me ki ha or technical field me hu iske ilawa me govt job ki tyari kr rhi hu but success nhi mil rhi parents bol rhe govt ladke se shadi krwa dete ha but mujhe drr ha samne wala ladka kesa hoga meri married lyf kesi hogi aage ja kr ma koi decision nhi le pa rhi 😢

  • @Hrushikesh_Shankar
    @Hrushikesh_Shankar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I married at the age of 23 i experienced all the pros and cons you discussed in this video.

  • @h.n.gadhvi
    @h.n.gadhvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Sir today you have discussed on very sensitive topic.

  • @preeyankazha6629
    @preeyankazha6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What a clearity in thought ❤️❤️❤️

  • @funandenjoy6771
    @funandenjoy6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My age is 40 and I am earning in crore because I have never focused to get married soon and I am enjoying my life .

    • @aninditadevi1111
      @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That... should be the purpose

    • @funandenjoy6771
      @funandenjoy6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aninditadevi1111 my purpose was only to make my life bright and after 1year I am going to elect the election of MLA

    • @aninditadevi1111
      @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@funandenjoy6771 then I wish you the best. Hope you know your worth in life, because that is the most important goal of being a human. Good luck.

    • @funandenjoy6771
      @funandenjoy6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aninditadevi1111 Thanku

    • @funandenjoy6771
      @funandenjoy6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where do you live

  • @aninditadevi1111
    @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I'm depreesed because I was almost got married to a 32 years old person when I myself am not 20 fully. He was a well settled person I agree but I don't think I need a partner. Thank god it's called off now because he couldn't wait for a year, means I wouldn't have completed my degree

    • @itsmemukesh8864
      @itsmemukesh8864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your age ?

    • @aaokabhihavelime1234
      @aaokabhihavelime1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations to u. Now u can enjoy your life

    • @aninditadevi1111
      @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aaokabhihavelime1234 I still am unsure because being an Indian girl, from a middle class family, is just the stereotype to be the victim in this. I'm confused. That's all. Wanted nothing but to look out to my parents but I'm fading my faith myself. Now that ain't a good thing! But thank u, for your concern

    • @aninditadevi1111
      @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itsmemukesh8864 19 running

    • @aaokabhihavelime1234
      @aaokabhihavelime1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't have any concern. I'm happy for u. 20 is not an ideal Age for marriage for anyone.

  • @manjitsarangi2603
    @manjitsarangi2603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Excellent lecture .
    This 💯 real.🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @sarakhanam6334
    @sarakhanam6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir abhi abhi 17 years ki hu jab Mai 14 years ki thi mere parents ne forcefully MERI Shaadi kardi thi aur us din se aaj tak Mai sasural waalon ke tanein aur baatien sun sun Kar bhot tang aa chuki hu aur jab mai bolti hu mujhe divorce Chahiye to wo log mujhe divorce Lene nai dere mere parents ..... Bhot torcher Kar rahe hai wo log ... Sir Kuch boliye mujhe Mai Kaise handle karo ye saari cheeze itni choti Umar .... Aur to MERI parents ne mujhse double age boy ke saat Shaadi ki hai ..... Sir mujhe har cheez se depression se symptoms dikhtien hai plzzz sir help me help me sir 😭😭😢😢🥺😢🥺😢🥺🥺😢😓😫😩😩😩😭😭😭

  • @Tejashvinee
    @Tejashvinee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    मरने से पहले कर लेना चाहिए बस 🤣🤣👍👍👌🤣😂👍😂👌🤣👍

  • @BADSAHMAHAN
    @BADSAHMAHAN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am 35 no settle, kamchalau job, aj tak koi girl friend nahi, hal hi me crush ki shadi ho gayi bt I am happy koi ghai nahi shadi karenge par ishq ke sath.. 😊

  • @meenajain873
    @meenajain873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Correct. Nice video. Ur inspiration for today's generation. Keep Going

  • @neetumishra7302
    @neetumishra7302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sir.. I've been following your Channel since last month..your videos are most valuable for me..I don't miss your single video 🙏

  • @ajn5811
    @ajn5811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    आजकल शादी वाले काम शादी से पहले हो जातै है

  • @gytv_ok
    @gytv_ok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    होंसला मत हार गिरकर ऐ मुसाफिर। अगर दर्द यहाँ मिलता है तो दवा भी यहीं मिलेगी।🙏👍🙏

  • @bharatjharbade198
    @bharatjharbade198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello sir👌👌🙏🙏bilkul sahi kha aapne ....me agree karta hu....mere saadi bilkul sahi time par hui hai 30+ aur aaj me bahot khush hu....mujhe yesa lagta hai insan ko sadi (boy) ko 31.32 par sadi karna chaye...

  • @soniaagrawalstoryteller
    @soniaagrawalstoryteller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    *बिल्कुल सही कहा आपने*

  • @wanderlyfanni1013
    @wanderlyfanni1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you sooo much anubhav sir ....... Last year I got married with love of my life and we are happiest ❤️ thankuuuuu

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      All the best, God bless you :)

    • @wanderlyfanni1013
      @wanderlyfanni1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnubhavJain thankuu you sir aapki insta I'd hai kya

    • @RealDostVerified
      @RealDostVerified 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Love_life_problem_Solved_by_Priyanka*
      #Mindsmagicbypriyankabaid
      💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @AnilKumar-yi1px
    @AnilKumar-yi1px ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 30 years old. Gaon balo ne gr balo ne presaan kr diya tera rista n hoga koi ladki nhi milegi ab. Dunia jayenge bhaad m paisa kmana suru kr diya h. Ab koi b girls mere se sadi kregi ais kregi aapki vidio n bhut motivat kiya muj thanku

  • @aninditadevi1111
    @aninditadevi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    And I won't leave my study, I'm trying to look happy outside but I'm actually afraid that it will happen again, this proposal of marriage

    • @richasharma581
      @richasharma581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't worry focus on study

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay strong, fight it out.

    • @ankurimaborah4119
      @ankurimaborah4119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel you girl, nobody can force you marry just b strong n continue Ur studies n remember u need to hv a job immediately after graduation...start preparing now itself for jobs

    • @arhahudiloparraajkarneraaj2639
      @arhahudiloparraajkarneraaj2639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ankurimaborah4119 maza lete hoge

  • @TTR_LEGENDS
    @TTR_LEGENDS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aaj kal insan ki age hi 50-60 reh gye hai so 25-30 tak marriage kar leni chihye taki bacho ki shadi apne jete ji dekh sakein...

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bhai ye statistics kahaan se aaye? 70 ke kareeb hai India me life expectancy.
      Aur agar bacche kam age me shaadi naa karna chhahen to?

  • @ManojKumar-mm2mi
    @ManojKumar-mm2mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm 38 years old..but hme aaj tk koi dukkh ya tension nhi h...maje m life kat rhi h... Koi tension nhi h ...mera yehi manna h..k shadi ho gai to v problem nhi .....aur Agr n as Hui ...yo v koi problem nhi ......jaisi zindagi chal rhi h ...usi me mast rho ...☺️☺️

    • @kdsinghrajput8910
      @kdsinghrajput8910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bhai sadi kar dukh tenson sab aa jayega fir aisa lagega ki kat hi nhi rhi hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ManojKumar-mm2mi
      @ManojKumar-mm2mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Honestly bole to single rhne m hi achha hai....

    • @ac9158
      @ac9158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sirf unke liye acha h jinka friend circle or family se strong bond ho wrna introvet or logo se khatpat ho jati h easily toh ese log easily depression me chle jate h or fir regret krne wala hota h esa fesla

    • @NeelamSharma23500
      @NeelamSharma23500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Q apki shadi q ni huyi avtk... Jobless reason to ni hoga...!!!

    • @rangnath1
      @rangnath1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sahi kaha

  • @gyanthorahatke3294
    @gyanthorahatke3294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    yesterday I had searched about this topic and today you have crleared my daubt very apparently...thank you sir

  • @BLINDMOSKOV
    @BLINDMOSKOV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bhai hamare yaha agar bande ki age 25 se up hoti hai to us bande ko ladki milna bahut hi muskil hai chahe fir vo kitna bhi kabil ho

  • @parulchauhan1144
    @parulchauhan1144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Same thoughts mere hain sir...... Shadi tb kro jb aap mentally kisi ko support krke aur khud ko sambhal kar life spend kar pao

    • @strong4568
      @strong4568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ryt mam especially girl ko aware rehna chahiye Shaadi jese matters m.log jhut bol k km age dikha dete h jbki unki age jyada hoti h

  • @bunnysv3471
    @bunnysv3471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sir, ur content is excellent. Pls try to improve ur thumbnail sir. Just a request

  • @srkstark4891
    @srkstark4891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi sir your way of speacking is very straight forward and thanks for giving such useful information for people like me who are in his 20s

  • @sudeshnamaity1474
    @sudeshnamaity1474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awesome video.... thank you sir🙏 you are inspiring in my life 🙏

  • @beingrajat2127
    @beingrajat2127 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shaadi tab tak naa kre jab tak khud se yeh question ka jawaab naa mile who I'm and what is our ultimate goal in life shaadi bahut he chota topic hai es par dusre se salah aur hod me zindgi barbad naa kre

  • @rsmotivation9234
    @rsmotivation9234 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mene 20 saal ki age me 18 saal ki ladki se shadi kr li h 😊

    • @pawanpandey4437
      @pawanpandey4437 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Raju sample kitne nikle 😂abhi tak

  • @jyotiaswani2927
    @jyotiaswani2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Well said ,thanks for guidance Sir 👏

  • @kajalpati9603
    @kajalpati9603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir apke videos ki sabse best bat hai ki your videos are to the point and crisp❤️❤️❤️ U don’t talk idhar udhar ka lamba chauda shits....

  • @ManojKumar-mm2mi
    @ManojKumar-mm2mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm fully agree with you sir..... very good information....shadi Aap jb chahe tb hi kre.....

  • @manjeetsir9570
    @manjeetsir9570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anubhav Jain sir is sadi ka ek awataar hain..jo cheezein bohot saalo se nhi samajh aa rhi thi ya koi guide nhi krta tha..aj itni saari cheezein sunkar jeene ka haushala mi gya h..suicide krne ke kayi baar dil kiya tha..lekin apki videos se bohot jada help mili h.. specially negativity ko lekar .... negativity se kaise khud ko safe rakha jaye....etc..bohot sare videos sir apke dekhein.hain..aur hajaro saal jiyo..ye meri dua h

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you, hamesha khush raho , muskurati raho :)

    • @manjeetsir9570
      @manjeetsir9570 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AnubhavJain thank you sir..lekin mai boy hoon..sir..

  • @aarnamishra6237
    @aarnamishra6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    मैं 27 से 35 सही मानती हु age... Marriage की मैं खुद की age भी ज्यादा समझ रही 27 तक लड़की को करना चाहिए इसलिये अब मैं नहीं करना चाहती थी but कर रही...फैमिली प्रेशर... मेरा करियर नहीं आया मेरे मन का सपोर्ट नहीं इसलिये कर रही... मैं age gap 5,6 sahi samjhti hu.. Usse uper mujhe mere vichaar per sahi nahi lagti... 📝 sab alag alag sochte hai mera khud ka ye manna hai apne liye

  • @bankingworld910
    @bankingworld910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Sbse phele apna carree bnana jaruri h kyuki pyaar se jarurate puri nhi hoti h ek acchi life jeene ke lye paise bhi utne he jaruri h jitna pyaar. Islye phele CARRER fir SHAADI

    • @rahulsadhukhan2040
      @rahulsadhukhan2040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly. .

    • @vsdewangan4429
      @vsdewangan4429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @RohitSharma-bp5zz
      @RohitSharma-bp5zz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mera carrier ban chuka h par mera Lund or mera Shareer bhut kamjor ho chuka h main kya karu?

    • @kantarayi8767
      @kantarayi8767 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mere think bhi yhi hai phele carrer fir sadi

    • @336atifnoman7
      @336atifnoman7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RohitSharma-bp5zz bhai bachpan me hi shadi karlena chahiye tha aap

  • @Raja_v2.0
    @Raja_v2.0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Very Good topic to emphasize our concerns which is sometimes confusing.

  • @soniaagrawalstoryteller
    @soniaagrawalstoryteller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    *carrier आज शादी से ज्यादा important हो गया है average शादी की age जो 23 से 28 वर्ष थीं पिछली century मे अब लोग late शादी करते हैं फिर stress के कारण infertility का शिकार होते हैं और फर्टिलिटी treatments कराते हैं 😊*

    • @swaranginaik2847
      @swaranginaik2847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Carreer shadi se important hai. Hum independent ho jate hai which is most important

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I think career is more important than marriage in today's world.

    • @soniaagrawalstoryteller
      @soniaagrawalstoryteller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AnubhavJain *balance in life is most important carrier और family life मे balance करना लोगों को तभी आएगा जब education system boys girls दोनों के लिए cooking and home management भी as a compulsory subject रक्खे पैसा कमा कर क्या फायदा जब घर मे कपड़े ढूँढने पड़े और बाजार का unhygienic खाना खाना पडे नौकरों को भी सिखाना पड़ता है*

    • @MUKESH9627
      @MUKESH9627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ye sb apki story me hota hoga fertility vertility

    • @thedoublep
      @thedoublep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MUKESH9627 infertility is real , impotency hoti hai kuch logo mai , but adopt karna bhi choice hai , why to bring more population when you already have so much and it's growing day by day....

  • @anujdimple
    @anujdimple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mere frnd ki shadi 22 ki age m ho gyi thi but ooski job shadi ke 6 saal baad lgi.... Goverment job...

  • @srikoushiknath4927
    @srikoushiknath4927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 19 age but I think ..leve this think s god❤️❤️❤️...god will do

  • @CGL419
    @CGL419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Top notch..
    Superblyyy explain...
    Pyar vyar sb धोखा है पढ़लो भाई, अभी मौका है,,
    धन्यवाद sir

    • @kantarayi8767
      @kantarayi8767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @anurag6190
      @anurag6190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      7 saal se vacancy nahi aayi Jharkhand may ... पढ़ के क्या उखाड़ लिया 🥺😢

  • @palsharma2634
    @palsharma2634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Sir ...jo pyar krte hai unse alg hone ki feelings ko ek simple line me kisi ko btana ho ki kitni painful or ghutan bhari hoti hai to kaishe btaynge .. 😊

    • @kdsinghrajput8910
      @kdsinghrajput8910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sanse rukna hi maut nhi hai maut wo hai ki sanse chalti rhe aur apna pyar sath na ho

    • @anilmaths956
      @anilmaths956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      sahi kha....isko jo jhelta hai wahi samajh sakta hai..

    • @spritualmantra2000
      @spritualmantra2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm 😓

  • @JaswinderSingh-rz2xo
    @JaswinderSingh-rz2xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mind blowing sir ....Im 33 year old but bachelor ...I just want settle before marriage. Thus I think quiet necessary to live happily with wife..

  • @rubinanawazrampuri1730
    @rubinanawazrampuri1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bilkul simple or shi tareeka hai baat karne ka...mtlab koi our nhi...samandar jinta gehra hai na utna hi shant hota wahi tareeka aapki baaton me...

  • @anushriiahir5019
    @anushriiahir5019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jo hoga wo likhit h jisko b life me aana h aake rahega or jana h wo jake rahega 😁
    Ap jab ❤️ se readdy ho tab kro bas or ache se nibhao 😁
    Well acha bataya apne god bless

  • @kalakaarkartik3543
    @kalakaarkartik3543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am getting married next Year. ....-Age 25 😊😊

    • @diksha5115
      @diksha5115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrets bro👏🎉🎉all the very bst for uh both to the happy happy future😊

    • @kalakaarkartik3543
      @kalakaarkartik3543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@diksha5115 thank you ☺

  • @poojamathur5470
    @poojamathur5470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks
    U r best motivational speaker..
    Thank you so much

  • @globalfox8390
    @globalfox8390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i think best ageis 25-30 age for men and 18-25 for women😊

    • @Ram-ue6bu
      @Ram-ue6bu 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right ji

  • @AdityaKumar-oq2kt
    @AdityaKumar-oq2kt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    27 to 33 best age for marriage..

  • @Ashok.Prajapati
    @Ashok.Prajapati 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shadi ho nahi rahi sir ...age nikal rahi he ab ...job bhi kar raha hu .... competitive exam ki preparation bhi kar raha hu ...28 age he currently....

    • @Ashok.Prajapati
      @Ashok.Prajapati 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anurag nahi mil rahi bhai ... mummy ki health thik bhi nahi rehti to wo bhi tension leti he ..ki jaldi se karva du ...but........☹️

    • @thedoublep
      @thedoublep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Waise tumhari age utni bhi nhi hai , tum 30 tak wait karo , I hope koi sahi ladki zindagi mai aaye

    • @Ashok.Prajapati
      @Ashok.Prajapati 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thedoublep but 30+ ke baad bhi koyi na mile to ..???

    • @kesharisidar7876
      @kesharisidar7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ashok.Prajapati bhai sanyasi ban jao

    • @kesharisidar7876
      @kesharisidar7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anurag best of luck bro 😀

  • @pallavi1113
    @pallavi1113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mai 32 ki ho gai hun, job bhi nhi mil payi i hai, relatives toh baad ki baat hai mummy hi kehti hai kab tak hamare sir pe sawar rahogi? Mai kya karu sir? Please help me.

    • @kdsinghrajput8910
      @kdsinghrajput8910 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Job k liye try karo ya pahle sadi kar lo fir job dekho

    • @ashishsain7850
      @ashishsain7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      32 ki age me aapko maariage kr leni chaiye uske bad aapko jo krna h kr skte h

    • @birnrmqueen3235
      @birnrmqueen3235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here 33 k hai no job no marriage full stress depression family is mentally torture to me no support just living life

    • @ashishsain7850
      @ashishsain7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@birnrmqueen3235 aap aapko marriage kr lena chaiye

    • @priyaranjan3176
      @priyaranjan3176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation here also..m also a girl,same age, having no job preparing govt jobs.with.mrg pressure..wht shuld I do

  • @priyarajputpriyarajput9621
    @priyarajputpriyarajput9621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Sabse bari problem to cast h😓😓😓😰😰😰😰😰😰😰

  • @dharijony4916
    @dharijony4916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    कम age में expectations शब्द का मतलब भी नही पता होता...किसी के साथ जुड़ के, उसकी आंखों से दुनियाँ देखना शुरू कर देते हैं
    अबोध प्यार होता है इस उम्र का।
    18-24 साल के इंसान को प्यार के नाम पर पागल बनाया जा सकता है, और जिंदगी कट जाएगी उसकी इसकी पागलपन में खुशी से,
    पर 35 साल के आदमी या औरत का परिपक्व दिमाग हर रंग देख चुका होता है...प्यार भी तोल-भाव कर के करता है।
    कोई झुकने को तैयार नही होता...समय ने सबको इतना मजबूत बना दिया होता है कि खुद से खुद को पाल सकते हैं।
    इस उम्र में औरत भी मर्द की तरह व्यवहार करने लगती हैं। लंका लग जाती है इस उम्र में शादी करने में 😅

  • @DJ-sp8ek
    @DJ-sp8ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    एकदम हंड्रेड परसेंट सही बात बोला आपने और भी बहुत सारी बातें से नहीं बोले वह भी अच्छा किया आपने मेरे पास उसके लिए सब स्टोरी है पूछो तो

  • @rajeshwarankam1488
    @rajeshwarankam1488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dekho yaar mai toh ye manta hu ki life agar set hai achha kasa paisa hai aur hame agar pura 100 percent trust ho ki ham ane wali ko kush aur khudko aur apne maa baap bachonko kush raksakte hai tabi karni chaiye nhi toh agar ye sab nhi hosakta toh yaar life enjoy karo chote chote kushiyon me kyuki kal kisne dekha hai jo hai aj hai aur abhi hai enjoy the life aur ham career padhai aur sadhi ye saab ko lekar itna chintit hojate hai ki ham bhoool hi jate hai ki ye life hai kiski journey kaha tak hai kuch pata nhi so cool and enjoyyyyyyyyyyyy😎

  • @sauravthakur7054
    @sauravthakur7054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sadi ki koi age nhi. Jab successful and powerful Ho jao kar lo, jitna krna hai, jis se Karna hai!! 😶😶

  • @narendra_ughade
    @narendra_ughade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Really informative. Bhaiya I like your practical approach.

  • @TheKingRajbhar105
    @TheKingRajbhar105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir Meri Age 20 Years Toh Kiya Mujhe Sadi Kar Leni Chahiye

  • @hemantpatro9861
    @hemantpatro9861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mera age abhi 39 yrs h to shadi k liye kitna age ki ladki sahi rahegi..... ?????

  • @IndSefron4975
    @IndSefron4975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    मैंने ३६ मे शादी की और आपकी बाते सही है

  • @hindutva395
    @hindutva395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    लड़को को मीडियम तय 22 से 26 तक शादी कर लेनी चाहिए एवं लड़कियों को 18 से 24 तक शादी कर लेनी चाहिए लेकिन शादी करने के बाद मां बाप से अलग नही होना चाहिये

  • @amoghgoyal3513
    @amoghgoyal3513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ek baay auur hei ki agar 30's tak wait kiya auur ye jaroori nhi ki 30's mei settle ho hi jaaoge to marrige mei bhout problem aayegi.

  • @anshutomar7950
    @anshutomar7950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are right dear I agree with you sir 🤗👍👍👌👌

  • @CVM3838
    @CVM3838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    थैंक यू सर लेकिन मुझे ऐसा लगता है लाइफ में सेटल होने के बाद शादी करनी चाहिए शादी की सही उम्र 28 से 32 आज की 21 वी सदी के अनुसार सही है

  • @richagaikwad4661
    @richagaikwad4661 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    कुछ भी कह लो लेकिन एक बार लड़की 30 पार हो गई तो उसकी शादी होना बहुत मुश्किल है- ऐसा नहीं कि उसको लड़के नहीं मिलेंगे, लड़के मिलेंगे लेकिन कामयाब और अमीर लड़के नहीं मिलते.. गरीब नाकामयाब लड़का तो किसी भी उम्र में मिल जाएगा क्योंकि वैसे हि इन लड़कों को लड़की नहीं मिलती- लेकिन कामयाब मर्द भूल जाओ

    • @kundansharma6747
      @kundansharma6747 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yar tu to ladko ka dhazji uda di 😂😂😂😂

    • @pawanpandey4437
      @pawanpandey4437 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Old saman ko leta h sb fresh lete hai aaj kl😂

  • @archanaagrawal9524
    @archanaagrawal9524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir plz i want to talk to you sir.. Sir mere parents shadi krne wale h jabardasti sir hm kya kre sir hm marwadi aur mera frnd yadav to wo lg nai maan re caste dkh kr

  • @tanwarsingh1636
    @tanwarsingh1636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Early 20s m engagement.. after....three four year long relationship...after that..marriage...be a better idea..

    • @thedoublep
      @thedoublep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Then at what age should we set career in your opinion ??

    • @yoginagowda7410
      @yoginagowda7410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      20 s kyu? .. Child marriage better hn...

  • @mrunalpatwardhan7211
    @mrunalpatwardhan7211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bhaiya.. Thank u soo much from bottom of my heart.. No words for u.. And ur nobel work.. Dhanywad... Charansparsh bhaiya

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for so much love and respect Mrunal, God bless you :)

  • @tychunm8171
    @tychunm8171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😱..So good explained sir, thanks u very much..❣️🙏🏻🥰

  • @kuldeepcheema8428
    @kuldeepcheema8428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir 30 maay bahut problem ati ,jaldi nai rishta milta hai mujay pta meri family kitni tention maay hai

  • @luvkumar5096
    @luvkumar5096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How to check if a girl/ boy is just passing time in relationship or is real ?

    • @itsurgirlmohini642
      @itsurgirlmohini642 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apne dil ki suno.. Usse satik jawab koi ni dega.

  • @sapnaprasad6863
    @sapnaprasad6863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    M 26...bt I don't want to marry...meri younger sister ne krli h bt mjhe bilkul b trust Ni h marriage lyf me...sir plz shadi m age difference k upar video bnaiye....

  • @The_nanoCouple
    @The_nanoCouple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Under 25 Kro shadi.. Sath me grow kro.. Jldi settle ho Jao.. Aajkl age 60 hi rh gyi h.. 30-35 tk krke kb jioge.. Kb Bcche Kroge..maza Nhi h.. Crez Khtm.. Esliye time se shadi kro.. 20 se 25 me

    • @The_nanoCouple
      @The_nanoCouple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kamalverma9646ha... Dekho ydi shadi krni hi h to time pe Kro.. So that enjoy Kr Paoge togetherness.. Otherwise clear rho.. Kro hi mt

  • @hemantpatro9861
    @hemantpatro9861 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mera age 39 h kya shadi kar le problem hoga kya???