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It has been one month without contact. I think it was the best thing that could have happened, even though it wasn't my decision to cut our contact. He wasn't the version I wanted and things didn't go the way I wanted. I really need to focus on myself and build myself up. I deserve so much more and I have to be the prize. I won't chase anymore. No one is going to be like me and he won't love anyone as much as me and I just know it... He's so scared of losing me... I just really need to find a way to let go of the past. It still haunts me time to time...
You do deserve the best and when you start providing yourself that, that is when it will happen for you. He wants you and when you let go of that past by becoming indifferent to it, you will have all your blessings flood in.
@@MindOverThisMatrix hi Matt 👋 these rules apply to people who are married but havin an SP they want to settle down with and were in a situationship but now in no contact which was initiated by them .I was the chaser after v fell in love b4 v fell in love he was the chaser and now in no contact since December end ..I know I deserve the best and not this version of his..thanks in Advance Matt .Also can I consider this as the bridge 🌉
We live by faith and not by sight!! It’s quoted in the scripture. Get your eyes fixed on the end result and not on the storm ⛈️ the wind or the waves!! I love this video ❤
Finally one of these coaches talks about if you have a kid together thank you for explaining that !!! No one was talking about that pov and I felt so lost.
From India from small town the place still women are not allowed to think about their own happiness. Thank you so much brother... You give me back my energy Today 🙏🏻
@@MindOverThisMatrix then also with this technique is this possible to creck super egoistic parson mind. Please make a video on tackle super egoistic parsonalty. Please 🙏🏻
In my honest opinion, this is one of your best videos! The way you explained everything, it just clicked. All you gotta do is put the main focus on you and realize you manifest all the time without thinking about it. There is so much power in no contact and it provides a sense of balance and peace and redirecting all your energy back to yourself. Like Matthew said, you are UNFORGETTABLE. Remember that. ❤
Thank you! I apprecaite that! It is an extremely useful tool to be able to step back into the power of who you are. With self love comes strength, with strength comes faith and with faith comes the actualisation
Each and everything you said is true❤no contact always help me to get my person do whatever i wanted them to be.. take your time weeks or days but remember there is always moment behind the scenes
That's so true. I feel so much better about myself and him in no contact. I'm finally able to focus on what's the best for me. Before my manifesting was interrupted all the time by his breadcrumbs and me feeling like nothing is working. I was reacting to the 3d a lot and it was hard not to. Now I'm more clear in my mind about who I am and what I deserve. I believe we both needed that in order to calm the story down and move on in the right direction. I know I'm doing it for myself, I needed that to remind myself my worth and that I don't need to chase anything, it's already mine 💯
Excellent advice, Matthew. In NO contact for 3 months. I believe in balance. ☯️ my self-concept is finally where it needs to be. It will happen when it’s meant to happen.🔥🔥
It naturally comes to a point that I think “no contact” is better for my mental diet and for me not to react to the 3D I used to worry about it but now I know I can get my person.
It's been 2 years of no contact. My own negative fearful thinking created/manifested exactly what I feared...him choosing someone else. I eventually started working on me, stopped wavering (as much) ,and tried (still trying) living in the end, but because so much time has passed, it's hard for me to see past my current reality. Although my heart doesn't want to, sometimes I feel like giving up. I wish I would've known about law of assumption a lot sooner. Thanks for the video. I recently came across your channel and subscribed, so now I'm binge watching 🙂
One thing I find is helpful is to accept your reality but not you're fate. So, the 3D is there because of old thoughts So, it is very much real. However, it is not set in stone. Just because it is one way today does not mean it has to stay that way. So, accept it to exist (this, i find, helps to release the need to ignore) but then speak your new life into existence. Thank you for supporting the channel!
@passionateone72 great to see your comment here..I just hit the 2 year mark as well....I did reach out a few times and got no reply (she last told me she needed time to think) Spiraled a bit but going to focus on positive thinking....
Thank you so much for this. I've watched several videos on no contact, and this is the best. I was doing it wrong, but now i will do it right - FOR ME. Thanks again! ❤ Oh, and I just subscribed.
Whoa I manifested this video. Thank you! I decided to stop going no contact, so I muted him and I was afraid he will forget me. Your video is well timed!
Before entering this video I was in tears. I know the whole theory and I think that I have gotten better in terms of not being identified with my negative thoughts as much. However, I manifested my sp in an undesirable manner, we are currently in no contact and sometimes I check with the 3d to see if there's any movement - I know that the 3d is a reflection of who we are but the fact that I see nothing after months trying to embody that version of myself, makes me feel frustrated. You explain things so well and in a logical way that puts my mind at ease and for that I have to say thank you 💜.
I've just gone no contact and I feel so much more balanced and in control... if he wants to chase me then that's fabulous but it's not the reason I did this... thanks for the validation 😊
Matt you are a godsend! The timing of your videos is always on point and I really needed to see this one. It has given me much needed insight, inspiration and confidence! You are amazing!
@@MindOverThisMatrix Coach Lee & Chris Seiter of "Ex-Boyfriend Recovery" are 2 TH-cam coaches i used to follow before i found the Law of Assumption and both of those coaches push No-Contact but they don't explain it as well as you did and they also don't instill as much confidence in the process as you did... on the contrary, they kind of make their viewers feel like losers, but your confidence in the process was powerful and very much appreciated. I can only say that I've heard dozens of coaches talk about No-Contact, including Coach Lucia of "The Art of Love" (who even has a "No-Contact Army" member group), but it never quite clicked for me until this video. I wish you could link your No-Contact video in those coaches' comment sections. It would help SO many people who are in pain over their exes.
You are a great content creator. It's really cool to see you grow and your vids are getting better and better. You see one video and think...wow that's the best video he's done then you do another video that tops the last...keep up the great work
@@MindOverThisMatrix I will share if the end is fully confirmed into the end desired state. You are a big part of this journey! Matt, have this autunitic style of teaching and is easy to understand. He uses language and analogies that everyone can relate to and understand. he made a big difference in my life and I would highly recommend his work to anyone.
I'm going to love this video. It's already been watched twice! Your explanation is clear as crystal 💙. I've been struggling where to start my manifestation after happening no contact with SP (as he's ghosting me) so we don't meet now and social media is the only way of talking each other. Now I think that it's right path to directly focus the end result (committed relationship) with self concept more than manifesting "get a text messages from SP", "get a call from SP" and other micro manifestations. Am I correct?
I’m just a few minutes in Matt and I bet that before the end of the video I can say all you’ve said I am already doing in a full blown positive way 👍👍.
@@MindOverThisMatrix . I bet you are glad Katie understands what you did and understands the process. Matt how is it that once the script is flipped they know or have these feelings to come to you, where as before they wanted to not look back.
@@Sundariiiiiiiiiiupdate is she’s been back in my life a few times since you asked, I am in a really good place and I still know what I am doing, working on myself and living in the end state where I see us together will happen, I still know she is the love of my life and she knows this too she’s just got to conform and come to me the way I want her too.
Really needed to hear this, was deep. I just miss my boyfriend so much since he left me 3 months ago. Been in contact for over 2 months. Feels so strange 😢
I feel like I could listen to your voice for hours. There is just something about what you say thats just that much more believable as compared to the other coaches I've watched the videos of. If its possible, please make some guided meditation videos on specific topics like how to attract your SP, money etc. Really appreciate your videos. Thank you! ❤️
Watching this video is so interesting. I thought I manifested him and he actually manifested me! (Or we manifested each other). Although he did say, he was working on him for us to be.... So I guess it makes sense. Kinda... But becareful what you wish/ask for as when it comes it can be overwhelming/scary.
Yeah, there is always an element of needing to be sure your desire is the best thing for you. You could find yourself in situations you don't like because you've followed ego or.pride
Well i'm really optimitsic. I have not done NC after the breakup just a month after, but yesterday 1 month after the month of NC she wishes me Happy Bday. I just found the LOA now, so i'm pretty sure that just the work on myself was enough for her to receive the message. I was subconsciously working on my Self Concept, so yes, that's the answer because i am not clingy or desperate for her. I am pretty confident now. Matt, just a question, in my case when she reopened the contact, should i engage more ? because i like to talk with her but i don't know if me starting a conversation would be like me giving her my power.
@@MindOverThisMatrix Man now that i thought more, i have some work to do on myself first. i will let some more time pass, maybe one or two months then i will reach out to her. I really don't have anyhthing to lose anyway and i don't care that much with the result
U ve explained no contact so well, it Wil just take time 4 it 2 sink in, I am in my 7th day of no contact & fighting de urge 2 call him, it's so hard, but I was tired of him treating me like gabbage(south Africa)
Thank you for the kind words! So, you deserve the best and by extension means you should never pay attention to anything that doesn't provide the best. If you reach out before he conforms, you will just get the same as you did before.
I wish I had known this info a couple of months ago I wouldn't have insisted as much or at all. I guess anything is possible and assuming the end result is still on the table. Thank you.
No contact is good for you if not being in contact with them helps you with your manifestation more so than being in contact with them. Your internal state is what matters. So, if being in no contact helps your state of consciousness align with the end result, thn it is worth it.
Thank you very much for Let Me know that many guys so there are many coachers they couldn't explain that but this explanation is the best for me to fit
My situation with my sp is this. She’s a coworker and we really hit it off at work. We would visit each other and really enjoy each other’s company. I found out last May that she’s engaged, but heard that circumstances don’t matter. Lately there been less communication from her and the other day, when I was mentioning my martial arts she told me I was obsessed. I bumped into her at the end of that day and she was kind of quit. I really love this woman. Would no contact be good in this situation? Or any other advice.
So, with manifestation, the aim is to reside in the end result as consistently as possible and remove the things in your life that are stopping you from doing that. So, do you feel no contact would help you live innthe end better?
What if they are contacting us but still As the version we don’t want? Do we ignore? I also see him weekly at nursing school. How do I interact in person?
For me personally, and take this with a pinch of salt as everyone is different, if they were not the version I desired, I would either respond kindly but nonchalantly or not respond at all, because you'll want to keep your focus on the end result.
So, going no contact on someone and ignoring the 3D while at the same time thinking from the relationship and knowing your worth in that relationship will manifest the desired result.
Essentially. It is about bringing it all back to you and building up your worth, building up your sense of self and building up what you assume to be true about the relationship
Should I delete my SM accounts? I have been thinking of doing it just to focus more on myself and my healing. I catch myself going onto her profile everyday as part of my subconscious..
If you find that by having it is triggering you more than it is benefitting you, I would say it is worth removing. However, this is your choice to make
With my partner, not long. With other people I have manifested back, or at least contact with, some ranging from months to years. There is never too long until you decide it is too long
It will work any time. Creating your reality and building a better self belief in yourself would work at any time. You can do it in no contact and while not in no contact. However, there are better ways to do it, which I hope i captured in this video.
@Mind Over This Matrix You did a great job, we're only in one form of contact, But I am not reaching out. When would you say, you feel inspired to take some action. As you mentioned it in one of your other videos?
Same people just enjoy to chased🤞and I hope while running thy don't get what thy want😂...... Cut mental ties that not easy Im only good with that wen I'm done with you not a joke🤞
@@MindOverThisMatrix honestly the reason why i dont want to unfollow them is because i feel like i wont be able to get them back . which is all the more reason why i should i unfollow them right ahahha , i am not afraid to just resisting it , thought i will start off small with muting them
What if they stopped talking to you and said they want nothing to do with you anymore and it's been a few years. Should we still just go straight to the end?
Hello Matt! If I'm in No contact should I hide my Instagram stories from him? He is watching all of them. Sometimes I watch his stories too. Is this OK ? 😅
Well, it doesn't really matter much. The main thing is if you're trying to get him to watch them or you're doing it from a place of 'keeping tabs' on him
No. I am saying you should take your power back by not mentally chasing them. A lot of the time, people will go no contact hoping, praying and begging that their person reaches out to them. I am saying to go no contact to give yourself the space to live in the end of the relationship being how you want and leave the unconformed version of them behind.
Not too long. However, that reconciliation wasn't my main focus. My focus was to be together better than before and it took a few months for that to come into fruition
Sammmy ingrim tells us the no contact is on limiting beliefs bc if you have then already why can’t we text them??? That doesn’t make sense and yeah no contact is good for a bit but if we know we already have them then we don’t have to not talk to someone we already have
Going No Contact is not a rule as Sammy says it is, it's an option when it comes to manifesting an sp. If physically distancing yourself from your sp makes it easier for you to work on your self concept and live in the end of being lovingly partnered with your person, then going No Contact is for you, but no one here is saying that anyone has to do this. It's simply an option and, as Matthew would testify, it is extremely effective when used correctly, meaning if one uses this time wisely rather than using this time to stalk their sp's social media, wondering what their sp is thinking and feeling now that they are no longer reaching out to them, and using No Contact as a mind game in order to manipulate their sp into reaching out, in other words, mentally chasing their person. Manifesting an sp can be very challenging because of how triggering their behaviour and our circumstances can be so, for some people, going No Contact is a good idea. Especially if someone is manifesting hot and cold behavior from their sp which can feel very detrimental to one's mental health. It's all about doing what resonates with you
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“They were lucky to have me in first place” Yesss!! Making this one of my affirmations bc it’s true! 💅🏽
Aha too right! 😁
My SP's birthday is in a few months. It's a BIG milestone. After watching you, *I Don't. Give. A. F.* Thank you!
Aha that's awesome!
“You can call me what you want but you can never call me forgettable” -NF
Absolutely!
It has been one month without contact. I think it was the best thing that could have happened, even though it wasn't my decision to cut our contact. He wasn't the version I wanted and things didn't go the way I wanted. I really need to focus on myself and build myself up. I deserve so much more and I have to be the prize. I won't chase anymore. No one is going to be like me and he won't love anyone as much as me and I just know it... He's so scared of losing me... I just really need to find a way to let go of the past. It still haunts me time to time...
You do deserve the best and when you start providing yourself that, that is when it will happen for you. He wants you and when you let go of that past by becoming indifferent to it, you will have all your blessings flood in.
@@MindOverThisMatrix hi Matt 👋 these rules apply to people who are married but havin an SP they want to settle down with and were in a situationship but now in no contact which was initiated by them .I was the chaser after v fell in love b4 v fell in love he was the chaser and now in no contact since December end ..I know I deserve the best and not this version of his..thanks in Advance Matt .Also can I consider this as the bridge 🌉
Ditto 100%!
@@MindOverThisMatrixwhat do you mean by being indifferent to it
Any update?
We live by faith and not by sight!! It’s quoted in the scripture. Get your eyes fixed on the end result and not on the storm ⛈️ the wind or the waves!! I love this video ❤
Yes, absolutely! Power comes from being able to look past the facade of old thinking.
Finally one of these coaches talks about if you have a kid together thank you for explaining that !!! No one was talking about that pov and I felt so lost.
I am happy to help!
From India from small town the place still women are not allowed to think about their own happiness. Thank you so much brother... You give me back my energy Today 🙏🏻
Oh that's a shame! However, I'm glad you've taken your energy back!
@@MindOverThisMatrix then also with this technique is this possible to creck super egoistic parson mind. Please make a video on tackle super egoistic parsonalty. Please 🙏🏻
In my honest opinion, this is one of your best videos! The way you explained everything, it just clicked. All you gotta do is put the main focus on you and realize you manifest all the time without thinking about it. There is so much power in no contact and it provides a sense of balance and peace and redirecting all your energy back to yourself. Like Matthew said, you are UNFORGETTABLE. Remember that. ❤
Thank you! I apprecaite that!
It is an extremely useful tool to be able to step back into the power of who you are. With self love comes strength, with strength comes faith and with faith comes the actualisation
Each and everything you said is true❤no contact always help me to get my person do whatever i wanted them to be.. take your time weeks or days but remember there is always moment behind the scenes
Absolutely!
That's so true. I feel so much better about myself and him in no contact. I'm finally able to focus on what's the best for me. Before my manifesting was interrupted all the time by his breadcrumbs and me feeling like nothing is working. I was reacting to the 3d a lot and it was hard not to. Now I'm more clear in my mind about who I am and what I deserve. I believe we both needed that in order to calm the story down and move on in the right direction. I know I'm doing it for myself, I needed that to remind myself my worth and that I don't need to chase anything, it's already mine 💯
That's awesome! I am happy for you!
Excellent advice, Matthew. In NO contact for 3 months. I believe in balance. ☯️ my self-concept is finally where it needs to be. It will happen when it’s meant to happen.🔥🔥
It absolutely will! You deserve the best and you will get it
Yes I went no contact…he is now trying to reach out. I know he needs to apologize
That’s a start!
It naturally comes to a point that I think “no contact” is better for my mental diet and for me not to react to the 3D
I used to worry about it but now I know I can get my person.
Absolutely! If it frees your mind a little, it is much better for you!
ABSOLUTELY!!
It's been 2 years of no contact. My own negative fearful thinking created/manifested exactly what I feared...him choosing someone else. I eventually started working on me, stopped wavering (as much) ,and tried (still trying) living in the end, but because so much time has passed, it's hard for me to see past my current reality. Although my heart doesn't want to, sometimes I feel like giving up. I wish I would've known about law of assumption a lot sooner. Thanks for the video. I recently came across your channel and subscribed, so now I'm binge watching 🙂
One thing I find is helpful is to accept your reality but not you're fate. So, the 3D is there because of old thoughts
So, it is very much real. However, it is not set in stone. Just because it is one way today does not mean it has to stay that way. So, accept it to exist (this, i find, helps to release the need to ignore) but then speak your new life into existence.
Thank you for supporting the channel!
@@MindOverThisMatrix Thank you so much. I’m trying to and I know with time it’s going to get better and I’ll have a success story to tell you😁
@passionateone72 great to see your comment here..I just hit the 2 year mark as well....I did reach out a few times and got no reply (she last told me she needed time to think)
Spiraled a bit but going to focus on positive thinking....
I don’t even think I want him anymore. I love myself so much, and I know I deserve so much, I won’t settle anymore.
Thats good to hear!
You are the pewdiepie of manifestations! Love u man
Aha thanks
Hands down, best video on TH-cam.
Thank you!
Thank you so much for this. I've watched several videos on no contact, and this is the best. I was doing it wrong, but now i will do it right - FOR ME. Thanks again! ❤ Oh, and I just subscribed.
Youre veryw elcome! It's my pleasure! Thank you for the support!
How can I love this video a thousand times?????? This really resonates with me! I believe in 'no contact ' so much
If you like this one you're going to love the more recent video I did th-cam.com/video/JQQWqIa_87U/w-d-xo.htmlsi=4AMQirq-y7-YvL2e
Whoa I manifested this video. Thank you! I decided to stop going no contact, so I muted him and I was afraid he will forget me. Your video is well timed!
Youre welcome! I hope it really helps you out!
He won't forget me. That I know because I'm unforgettable
Absolutely!
wow. Ive been mentally chasing. Thank You so much for the epiphany
You're very welcome!
Before entering this video I was in tears. I know the whole theory and I think that I have gotten better in terms of not being identified with my negative thoughts as much. However, I manifested my sp in an undesirable manner, we are currently in no contact and sometimes I check with the 3d to see if there's any movement - I know that the 3d is a reflection of who we are but the fact that I see nothing after months trying to embody that version of myself, makes me feel frustrated. You explain things so well and in a logical way that puts my mind at ease and for that I have to say thank you 💜.
Thank you for the kind words! I am glad it helps. you've got this!
I like the explanation with the "balance", good for people who need something for their logical mind.
btw. love how the channel keeps growing :)
Thank you! I apprecaite the support.
Probably the best video on getting sp back, ever
Thank you!
This is so well explained! Thank you so much. it is so important to remember that I need to sever the mental ties!
Thank you! I am happy to help
We're in no contact for 7 mo's until now..I know he loves me so much...in my heart and in my mind he missed me so much.Its done.Im his forever.
That’s good but stop counting the time of the thing you don’t want to experience
I've just gone no contact and I feel so much more balanced and in control... if he wants to chase me then that's fabulous but it's not the reason I did this... thanks for the validation 😊
Youre very welcome! That sounds like a plan. You've got this!
This is going to be tough... but i think it is the right thing to do.
You've got this!
"Its just you and your thoughts"❤ This is my new fav video
Absolutely!
I'm the goddess queen of my reality and I'm my special person, not anybody else
Absolutely!
Matt you are a godsend! The timing of your videos is always on point and I really needed to see this one. It has given me much needed insight, inspiration and confidence! You are amazing!
Thank you! I apprecaite the kind words, I reall hope it helps!
This was well put people do no contact with no confidence like you’re forcing yourself not to chase them
I agree. There are definitely better ways to do it
you are so clear and so passionate about what you do.brilliant coach.
Thank you! I appreciate the kind words!
Getting ready to treat myself like a princess from this point on!! 💚🧡😸
Awesome!
Best & most thorough explanation of no-contact, and the reasoning behind it, ever... thank you 🙏
Thank you!!
@@MindOverThisMatrix Coach Lee & Chris Seiter of "Ex-Boyfriend Recovery" are 2 TH-cam coaches i used to follow before i found the Law of Assumption and both of those coaches push No-Contact but they don't explain it as well as you did and they also don't instill as much confidence in the process as you did... on the contrary, they kind of make their viewers feel like losers, but your confidence in the process was powerful and very much appreciated. I can only say that I've heard dozens of coaches talk about No-Contact, including Coach Lucia of "The Art of Love" (who even has a "No-Contact Army" member group), but it never quite clicked for me until this video. I wish you could link your No-Contact video in those coaches' comment sections. It would help SO many people who are in pain over their exes.
I definitely find it easier especially when it comes to hot and cold. You can fix that internally way easier .
100% I completely agree.
You are a great content creator. It's really cool to see you grow and your vids are getting better and better. You see one video and think...wow that's the best video he's done then you do another video that tops the last...keep up the great work
Thank you for the kind words! I really appreciate them! I will continue to do my best.
You are absolutely God sent i love your vedios they give me so much clarity my mind set has shifted ao much 😊❤More power to you
Thank you for the kind words! They're deeply appreciated
Brilliant as always. The bridge of insident is unfolding so beautiful on my side.
Thank you! That's awesome!
@@MindOverThisMatrix I will share if the end is fully confirmed into the end desired state. You are a big part of this journey! Matt, have this autunitic style of teaching and is easy to understand. He uses language and analogies that everyone can relate to and understand. he made a big difference in my life and I would highly recommend his work to anyone.
I'm listening to this video on repeat. I really appreciate this information, thank you 🙏
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I'm going to love this video. It's already been watched twice! Your explanation is clear as crystal 💙. I've been struggling where to start my manifestation after happening no contact with SP (as he's ghosting me) so we don't meet now and social media is the only way of talking each other. Now I think that it's right path to directly focus the end result (committed relationship) with self concept more than manifesting "get a text messages from SP", "get a call from SP" and other micro manifestations. Am I correct?
Thank you for the kind words! However, yes, you're exactly right!
I’m just a few minutes in Matt and I bet that before the end of the video I can say all you’ve said I am already doing in a full blown positive way 👍👍.
If that's the case, you're doing great
@@MindOverThisMatrix . I bet you are glad Katie understands what you did and understands the process. Matt how is it that once the script is flipped they know or have these feelings to come to you, where as before they wanted to not look back.
@@MrTheomighty1hi how are things going
@@Sundariiiiiiiiiiupdate is she’s been back in my life a few times since you asked, I am in a really good place and I still know what I am doing, working on myself and living in the end state where I see us together will happen, I still know she is the love of my life and she knows this too she’s just got to conform and come to me the way I want her too.
Really needed to hear this, was deep. I just miss my boyfriend so much since he left me 3 months ago. Been in contact for over 2 months. Feels so strange 😢
I can imagine! However, everything is up for change! You've got this!
I feel like I could listen to your voice for hours. There is just something about what you say thats just that much more believable as compared to the other coaches I've watched the videos of.
If its possible, please make some guided meditation videos on specific topics like how to attract your SP, money etc.
Really appreciate your videos. Thank you! ❤️
Thank you! I really appreciate those kinds words! They honour me.
I can definitely add those to the list of video requests!
Second this 🙌🏻
This is such a good video! I wish I would have found this video when my SP and I broke up but I will start applying these principles now ❤
Thank you! I appreciate that! Well, hopefully you'll be able to take it forward with you and kill the game :)
wow so much of a information 😲 nearly watched all videos of this channel cant wait for the new ones
Oh wow that's a whole lot of videos aha I hope your brain isn't frieed!
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You are great my friend ❤️ I hope your channel gets bigger you deserve it ✨
Thank you! I really appreciate the kind words!
Great explanation & a game changer. I wish you a lot of subscribers because you deserve it
Tha k you! I really appreciate the kind words
Great pep talk! Thank you!
You're welcome!
Need to hear this today. Have been wavering.
Hopefully it helps get you back on the straight and narrow. You've got this
Yes !! Very empowering! Thank you !!!💖‼️
Youre welcome!
Watching this video is so interesting. I thought I manifested him and he actually manifested me! (Or we manifested each other).
Although he did say, he was working on him for us to be.... So I guess it makes sense. Kinda...
But becareful what you wish/ask for as when it comes it can be overwhelming/scary.
Yeah, there is always an element of needing to be sure your desire is the best thing for you. You could find yourself in situations you don't like because you've followed ego or.pride
Thank you for this
You're welcome!
17:28 😂😶 I loved it Happy Birthday who gives a fuck 🤣
Aha it's true though!
Well i'm really optimitsic. I have not done NC after the breakup just a month after, but yesterday 1 month after the month of NC she wishes me Happy Bday. I just found the LOA now, so i'm pretty sure that just the work on myself was enough for her to receive the message. I was subconsciously working on my Self Concept, so yes, that's the answer because i am not clingy or desperate for her. I am pretty confident now. Matt, just a question, in my case when she reopened the contact, should i engage more ? because i like to talk with her but i don't know if me starting a conversation would be like me giving her my power.
If she reached out to you and you felt it was positively in line with your end result and itwas enough for you to engage, go for it.
@@MindOverThisMatrix Man now that i thought more, i have some work to do on myself first. i will let some more time pass, maybe one or two months then i will reach out to her. I really don't have anyhthing to lose anyway and i don't care that much with the result
U ve explained no contact so well, it Wil just take time 4 it 2 sink in, I am in my 7th day of no contact & fighting de urge 2 call him, it's so hard, but I was tired of him treating me like gabbage(south Africa)
Thank you for the kind words! So, you deserve the best and by extension means you should never pay attention to anything that doesn't provide the best. If you reach out before he conforms, you will just get the same as you did before.
Love this !
Thank you!
I love this video. It's what I need to hear. Thank you 😊
You're welcome! It's my pleasure.
Your Explanation Has Improved So Much, Love It!
Thank you. I appreciate that. I have been trying to work on my videos
I wish I had known this info a couple of months ago
I wouldn't have insisted as much or at all.
I guess anything is possible and assuming the end result is still on the table. Thank you.
It absolutely is still on the table! You're very welcome!
Great appreciation to you 🙏
Thank you!
Your Universe Is Built Upon Your Thoughts! - Matt
Aha write it in history books lol
Ok it makes perfect sense what if there is a third party, should i still go no contact? Please reply Matt, i know it's an old vid.
No contact is good for you if not being in contact with them helps you with your manifestation more so than being in contact with them. Your internal state is what matters. So, if being in no contact helps your state of consciousness align with the end result, thn it is worth it.
Thank you very much for Let Me know that many guys so there are many coachers they couldn't explain that but this explanation is the best for me to fit
I'm glad to help! I hope it makes a difference!
My situation with my sp is this. She’s a coworker and we really hit it off at work. We would visit each other and really enjoy each other’s company. I found out last May that she’s engaged, but heard that circumstances don’t matter. Lately there been less communication from her and the other day, when I was mentioning my martial arts she told me I was obsessed. I bumped into her at the end of that day and she was kind of quit. I really love this woman. Would no contact be good in this situation? Or any other advice.
So, with manifestation, the aim is to reside in the end result as consistently as possible and remove the things in your life that are stopping you from doing that. So, do you feel no contact would help you live innthe end better?
Eye-opening suggestions. Thank you!😁
Youre welcome!
This is so good thank you for your teaching
Youre very welcome!
Thanks Matt !! Really needed to hear this 😢😊
Youre very welcome!
Much need.. my sp really starts telling that i am getting mad for him i cried alot after listening this but now i do what can i do❤
Stay focused on that end!
"Happy Birthday who cares" 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
Lol oops
I'm too amazing to be forgotten.
You are indeed!
This is so on point
Thank you!
Thank you! 🙏🏾
You're welcome !
“Happy Birthday, Who gives a f-ck??” 😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
🤣 it's true though aha
@@MindOverThisMatrix agreed! This hit too close to home 🤣 Had to just laugh at myself 😆
What if they are contacting us but still As the version we don’t want? Do we ignore? I also see him weekly at nursing school. How do I interact in person?
For me personally, and take this with a pinch of salt as everyone is different, if they were not the version I desired, I would either respond kindly but nonchalantly or not respond at all, because you'll want to keep your focus on the end result.
Wow absolutely love this video!
Thank you!
Amazing again!
Thank you!
I LOVE IT 😅 happy birthday - who gives a f**k 🤣
lol happy to help
Great video!
I chased for 3 months....on a 5 month relation ffs (and i never chased before ffs)...
....too late to start this...?
No it is never too late
I wish i could like this video 100x
That'd be cool aha
So, going no contact on someone and ignoring the 3D while at the same time thinking from the relationship and knowing your worth in that relationship will manifest the desired result.
Essentially. It is about bringing it all back to you and building up your worth, building up your sense of self and building up what you assume to be true about the relationship
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
You are welcome!
Should I delete my SM accounts? I have been thinking of doing it just to focus more on myself and my healing. I catch myself going onto her profile everyday as part of my subconscious..
If you find that by having it is triggering you more than it is benefitting you, I would say it is worth removing. However, this is your choice to make
How long were you in no contact? A lot of people (I know it’s all noise) say x amount of time passes, so move on bc so and so is done w/ you.
With my partner, not long. With other people I have manifested back, or at least contact with, some ranging from months to years. There is never too long until you decide it is too long
I loved it thank you so much ✌️❤️
Awesome! I am glad you did!
Great video Matt, would this work even after one year away from each other?
It will work any time. Creating your reality and building a better self belief in yourself would work at any time. You can do it in no contact and while not in no contact. However, there are better ways to do it, which I hope i captured in this video.
@Mind Over This Matrix You did a great job, we're only in one form of contact, But I am not reaching out.
When would you say, you feel inspired to take some action. As you mentioned it in one of your other videos?
Same people just enjoy to chased🤞and I hope while running thy don't get what thy want😂...... Cut mental ties that not easy Im only good with that wen I'm done with you not a joke🤞
Fair enough!
So do you communicate that you are going no contact ,do you just ghost , or just stop reaching out ?
That will depend on the situation. If it is necessary to, do so.
is unfollowing them necessary? i decided to mute their posts and stories
You dont need to unfollow them. Only do what feels right to you and what would aid you in bringing that energy back to you
@@MindOverThisMatrix honestly the reason why i dont want to unfollow them is because i feel like i wont be able to get them back . which is all the more reason why i should i unfollow them right ahahha , i am not afraid to just resisting it , thought i will start off small with muting them
What if they stopped talking to you and said they want nothing to do with you anymore and it's been a few years. Should we still just go straight to the end?
I would recommend it, yeah. The end result is key. However, dont forget to live your life and be happy.
Hello Matt! If I'm in No contact should I hide my Instagram stories from him? He is watching all of them. Sometimes I watch his stories too. Is this OK ? 😅
Well, it doesn't really matter much. The main thing is if you're trying to get him to watch them or you're doing it from a place of 'keeping tabs' on him
i dont understand, u are saying i should get my power back by not thinking about them? but i shall think how our relationship is perfect?
No. I am saying you should take your power back by not mentally chasing them. A lot of the time, people will go no contact hoping, praying and begging that their person reaches out to them. I am saying to go no contact to give yourself the space to live in the end of the relationship being how you want and leave the unconformed version of them behind.
Does anyone know how long he and his gf were separated for?
Not too long. However, that reconciliation wasn't my main focus. My focus was to be together better than before and it took a few months for that to come into fruition
Even if you not in the same country...
No reason why not
Sammmy ingrim tells us the no contact is on limiting beliefs bc if you have then already why can’t we text them??? That doesn’t make sense and yeah no contact is good for a bit but if we know we already have them then we don’t have to not talk to someone we already have
Then text them.
Going No Contact is not a rule as Sammy says it is, it's an option when it comes to manifesting an sp. If physically distancing yourself from your sp makes it easier for you to work on your self concept and live in the end of being lovingly partnered with your person, then going No Contact is for you, but no one here is saying that anyone has to do this. It's simply an option and, as Matthew would testify, it is extremely effective when used correctly, meaning if one uses this time wisely rather than using this time to stalk their sp's social media, wondering what their sp is thinking and feeling now that they are no longer reaching out to them, and using No Contact as a mind game in order to manipulate their sp into reaching out, in other words, mentally chasing their person.
Manifesting an sp can be very challenging because of how triggering their behaviour and our circumstances can be so, for some people, going No Contact is a good idea. Especially if someone is manifesting hot and cold behavior from their sp which can feel very detrimental to one's mental health. It's all about doing what resonates with you
How long we have to do no contact ?
I’m doing all visualisation and did 33 for 3 days …
He blocked me , no way to contact . Please help me
I advise it until your desire comes in or until you're fully outcome independant. Are your thoughts positive outside the visualisations?
Thank you so much for the reply . How to have positive thoughts?