Loved it. Lol you are so relatable.. I've always been a fan of yours since "Destiny's Child" & it's beautiful to see how far you've come in your life. Keep being you & I'm so happy you have your own TH-cam Channel!
I just truly appreciate her honesty and hilarious personality! I so love celebrities with a realistic mindset that their fans can relate to. I lived alone since 18. I taught myself to live below my means because I grew up poor, and struggling unfortunately. Now at 35 I'm so grateful for having the adult real life experiences from 18 until today. Having no financial and physical support system always since 18 keeps one very humble along with trusting God!👏🏾
I have had the same at 19 years old I never had money 💰 growing up and I had to learn everything myself and no help at all. and still struggling but I would rather do things on my own
@@elenad232 same here I left home at 19 too I went through my share of issues but it taught me the life lessons I needed to grow so I can be an example to my daughters I want them to know they are my greatest accomplishments although I didn't truly get to where I desired to be just yet .
@@elenad232 it makes you stronger I didn't grow up with money but I had a hard working mother who did show me that you can do it whether you're alone or married you have to look out for you before you can help anyone else sometimes we neglect and pour ourselves into others so much we don't take time to have some me time it's nothing wrong with needing time alone to reflect and soul search.
I'm 52 years old and I love watching you. You have a great personality and are very entertaining...along with spitting some life lessons. God bless you and your little ones.
When she said Y’all REALLY DONT’T BELONG TO ME . Y’all belong to god I SHOUTED 🙌🏾🔥🔥 her kids are covered by their mom in god ! People don’t understand how CRITICAL that is anymore
You are SO RIGHT!!! Do not say everything you’re thinking to a man. They ask for Honesty, but you must sensor! I did it and it was aHuge mistake! LOL 😂
Credit is definitely something our community is behind the 8ball on because it’s something a majority of us weren’t taught and we learned about through experience. It was definitely nice to see you talk about that, Toya. I’ve been enjoying these episodes
Some men are not going to allow you to understand them. Lots of men Love a beautiful woman knows how to cook please believe it. They rather eat home than eat in a restaurant all the time.Some men are difficult some women are difficult we all have our faults. Sometimes God ..kept us single for a reason. To allow us to continue work on our in a faults..once we are in the relationship , god make sure we are all the way together before reach out and look for a man actually like the man come to you God knows our love lif everything is on God’s timeYou just have to continue love you ..and spend time with You .🙏🏾🙏🏾💖
I can tell that your parents raised you Right! You deserve a man who loves and respects you. He will also love your children unconditionally. Just wait on the Lord and be of good courage.
I love your honesty and your personality, you are such a light to this world. This is so helpful, at 32 I feel lost and embarrassed about not knowing certain things earlier and paying for it now. I am glad for videos like this because it helps to not feel so alone. I am working through my challenges and I know better things are coming.
I can relate girl I’m 32 too and so many things about life I wish I learned earlier but we’ve got to forgive ourselves and give ourselves grace. We didn’t know what we didn’t know.
This conversation has provided so much confirmation for me. My name is Lisa and I started Greendiggers, a new company with the goal of revolutionizing how women discuss money, manage their money, and prepare financially for their future. I’ve seen so many woman struggle in building themselves up financially. We are providing services to all women. Would you please support us by completing this survey: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeW-0aTmSmjJSha-TNUrDaVhtssiwz8GaMdzq5_-ZamR9h2oA/viewform?usp=sf_link Thanks in advance
"It's not about me losing, it's about me getting rid of" FACTS. I hate this narrative that people repeat whenever famous women end/leave relationship like what if the person wasn't anything to be kept??
Hey Letoya, thanks for being so transparent. I never liked that saying oh she can't keep a man, like it's a pet or something. In my opinion a wise woman walks away when she has the least amount of things/ time to lose which is usually in the beginning. Keep being you sis
I am still learning how to budget and save. I'm continuing with building a great credit score, creating goals as it relates to life changing purchases. I was married for 9 years and I've been divorced for a year. Starting over has been a challenge. I'm 40 years old with two young kids with my oldest being on the spectrum. When I tell you that God has been our provider and protector!? My God has kept me through it all despite the storm. I get weary and feel uncertain sometimes but my kids and my relationship with God has gotten me through. I pray everyday for strength. Thank you Letoya for this video. I'm enjoying your channel.
You are absolutely an Amazing Woman. There is a saying.. "If you never heal from what hurt you. You'll bleed on the people that never cut you." Find the peace within you, find your Climax without the sex.. Blessings..
True story...I remember many years ago I was shopping/styling a few friends at Club Monoco is the Houston Galleria & you walked up to me and asked for advice on what color top to choose. That is such a memorable moment in my life & all these years l8tr to see your style growth...Fly chica you didn't need my help...lol
Yes budgeting and saving and cancelling out what you want versus what you need.. is a great way to budget life, money, and having relations is a great way balance lessons. Thanks again Miss Letoya you helping people out in these streets... Love it..
LeToya I heard about your story with DC today and it's really inspired me what you've overcome and how you kept going. I totally agree about how important it is to leave the wrong man rather than stay when you're miserable. I think a lot of women stay and put up with all sorts of nonsense. My ex was abusive and I've been single since I left 6 years ago, I couldn't bare to deal with that kind of behaviour again. I'm currently out of work so my goal is to return to work and buy a house. I'm good at being frugal but my struggle has always been low income due to managing some health conditions. Glad to have found your videos, I wish you much continued success.
Latoya, just the fact that you realize your "children belong to God" and you are just the vessel to get them here to earth, I had a HAAARD time understanding this, and Im 52yrs old. You're doing good!
Giiiiiiiiiirl you are so SILLY and I love it. I guess the silliness in me loves the silliness in you! The word of God does say that "Laughter does the heart good like medicine.". I LITERALLY laughed out loud several times like I was talking to you on the phone. Thank you for your transparency. The best is YET to come.🥰🙏🏽
I can’t help you on budgeting, it’s still a struggle for me too. But I do know that you can’t be a man’s peace, only God can do that. We are not designed to be their peace, nor are they designed to be ours, that’s a God shaped hole to be filled by God alone. So if a man or a woman is asking you to be their peace, that’s the wrong person for you, they must find their peace in God alone. Psalms 62:1-2. God bless sis.
LETOYA ask better questions of the person you allow in to your life because now you are a package deal. Give yourself more personal Grace. You have the internal power to do so. Allow for that within you. Good Luck.
Toya when you speak about your kids & broken home it speaks to my spirit! When plans are derailed in that manner it's so disheartening. Single parenting days are still tough for me as well, even in another relationship but filling the original void is so hard. I guess God will have to step in for us. ❤❤
I first saw you in Greenleaf, and I loved your acting and now I watch this whole video and it really makes me appreciate you more as an amazing young lady. Bless you and all your families.
I love these videos. It’s great getting to know you. When you said that about your kids not belonging to you they belong to god… wow a word. I am separated but we haven’t divorced yet so I know the pain of splitting two households. Blessings to you and your family.
Money is the seed that God places in our hands to be steward over. We can do what makes it grow and take care of our responsibilities or it can seep through your fingers. I was raised to take care of bills 1st and have GOOD credit. I learned to save something each check and utilize some investment options, 401k, IRA, etc, for your emergency needs and my retirement future. Discernment is required for any relationship, God will have to be my choser going forward and reveal all of that person's character and flags, I am divorced too. You are a great Mama Toya, keep learning, sharing your life, and being Amazing for your babies and YOU! Retail therapy is fun until it's not.... Take care❣️✌🏾
I've def been a fan since DC and now I'm to glad to finally get to see your personality shine through! We didn't have social media back then so I had to imagine what my fave singers were like but girl...you are a whole VIBE. Please keep the content coming!!!
Yea, I'm still learning. My credit is not good at the moment. I'm stuck in a cycle. I love things and like being accepted. Credit approvals pulled me in...too many to have! Praying for financial stability.
I needed to hear this before I toss it up on payday!! Thanks for letting us into your world. I remember buying your solo CD and cheering you on when you hit number 1!! I can't wait to see beauty videos. Love from London xx
You are so candid Letoya. Money is such a tragedy for so many people. I think we all need to learn the money mode. Money is just not compatible with human mode. We have to incorporate Money mode. Different mindset. I think investing helps. I'm no professional and definitely not a Money mogul. Sometimes God has to help with money understanding. Letoya you're such a catch. I think your independence may scare some; but independence is such a great asset. And you're such a good mom. Your concern for your children is impeccable. Yes men do love home cooked meals. Put the love in the food.😄💜
Thank you for being so transparent and sharing your stories with us. Yes personal credit is so important I learned that the hard way through student loans. You dropped some gems and gave really great advice that I will definitely apply moving forward.
A lot learned and you have me dying laughing with the “ARE YOU A WASTE OF TIME?” Let the church say…..😂😂😂 This channel is really a breathe of fresh air
Your personality is just as beautiful as you are. ✨️ You are naturally hilarious and relatable
All FACTS sis!!!!
Loved it. Lol you are so relatable.. I've always been a fan of yours since "Destiny's Child" & it's beautiful to see how far you've come in your life. Keep being you & I'm so happy you have your own TH-cam Channel!
Agreed
My sentiments exactly!
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ "Notice the flags; if they red, Sis, they red" ... I felt that!
LeToya is funny without trying too hard.
I just truly appreciate her honesty and hilarious personality! I so love celebrities with a realistic mindset that their fans can relate to.
I lived alone since 18.
I taught myself to live below my means because I grew up poor, and struggling unfortunately. Now at 35 I'm so grateful for having the adult real life experiences from 18 until today.
Having no financial and physical support system always since 18 keeps one very humble along with trusting God!👏🏾
I have had the same at 19 years old I never had money 💰 growing up and I had to learn everything myself and no help at all. and still struggling but I would rather do things on my own
We live and we learn!
@@LeaveItToLeToya Thanks for understanding and reading my story!😁
@@elenad232 same here I left home at 19 too I went through my share of issues but it taught me the life lessons I needed to grow so I can be an example to my daughters I want them to know they are my greatest accomplishments although I didn't truly get to where I desired to be just yet .
@@elenad232 it makes you stronger I didn't grow up with money but I had a hard working mother who did show me that you can do it whether you're alone or married you have to look out for you before you can help anyone else sometimes we neglect and pour ourselves into others so much we don't take time to have some me time it's nothing wrong with needing time alone to reflect and soul search.
I'm 52 years old and I love watching you. You have a great personality and are very entertaining...along with spitting some life lessons. God bless you and your little ones.
Welcome to the 50 plus club!👍🏾✌🏾😉🙏🏽
LeToya is a beautiful spirit, witty, intelligent, hilarious, and I love your evolution stories. I'm rooting for you sister always.
When she said Y’all REALLY DONT’T BELONG TO ME . Y’all belong to god I SHOUTED 🙌🏾🔥🔥 her kids are covered by their mom in god ! People don’t understand how CRITICAL that is anymore
I live for these videos. One of the most down to earth, relatable celebrities.
You are SO RIGHT!!! Do not say everything you’re thinking to a man. They ask for Honesty, but you must sensor! I did it and it was aHuge mistake! LOL 😂
Oh yes‼️ learned .
Preach🙌🏽
I am still applying this to my marriage.
Credit is definitely something our community is behind the 8ball on because it’s something a majority of us weren’t taught and we learned about through experience. It was definitely nice to see you talk about that, Toya. I’ve been enjoying these episodes
Some men are not going to allow you to understand them. Lots of men Love a beautiful woman knows how to cook please believe it. They rather eat home than eat in a restaurant all the time.Some men are difficult some women are difficult we all have our faults. Sometimes God ..kept us single for a reason. To allow us to continue work on our in a faults..once we are in the relationship , god make sure we are all the way together before reach out and look for a man actually like the man come to you God knows our love lif everything is on God’s timeYou just have to continue love you ..and spend time with You .🙏🏾🙏🏾💖
Your personality is everything. You're like the big sister I never had
I will gladly be everyone's big sister!
Latoya is sooooo beautiful 😍😍😍 she was always the prettiest one in DC. I’m so happy she left that lame he was feeling himself.
I can tell that your parents raised you Right! You deserve a man who loves and respects you. He will also love your children unconditionally. Just wait on the Lord and be of good courage.
I love your honesty and your personality, you are such a light to this world. This is so helpful, at 32 I feel lost and embarrassed about not knowing certain things earlier and paying for it now. I am glad for videos like this because it helps to not feel so alone. I am working through my challenges and I know better things are coming.
You're never alone!
Better things are coming for you Dyshema you aren't alone keep striving it will happen.
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I can relate girl I’m 32 too and so many things about life I wish I learned earlier but we’ve got to forgive ourselves and give ourselves grace. We didn’t know what we didn’t know.
This conversation has provided so much confirmation for me. My name is Lisa and I started Greendiggers, a new company with the goal of revolutionizing how women discuss money, manage their money, and prepare financially for their future. I’ve seen so many woman struggle in building themselves up financially. We are providing services to all women. Would you please support us by completing this survey: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeW-0aTmSmjJSha-TNUrDaVhtssiwz8GaMdzq5_-ZamR9h2oA/viewform?usp=sf_link
Thanks in advance
Your honesty and willingness to be open is what I admire about you.
"It's not about me losing, it's about me getting rid of" FACTS. I hate this narrative that people repeat whenever famous women end/leave relationship like what if the person wasn't anything to be kept??
On point like a #2 Pencil. Wise, Intelligent, Gorgeous, and Perceptive. 😍😍😍😍
I ❤️ this!! Her transparency makes her relatable and lovable!
Ain’t the enemy online shopping?! So convenient and therapeutic! 😆
Hey Letoya, thanks for being so transparent. I never liked that saying oh she can't keep a man, like it's a pet or something. In my opinion a wise woman walks away when she has the least amount of things/ time to lose which is usually in the beginning. Keep being you sis
Well, I'm a very wise w👣man. .
LeToya deserves a GREAT MAN! 🤲🏿
Girl I am with you l was the cash queen and my husband established my credit over the years and l thank GOD for that... thank you for being REAL!!!!
I am still learning how to budget and save. I'm continuing with building a great credit score, creating goals as it relates to life changing purchases. I was married for 9 years and I've been divorced for a year. Starting over has been a challenge. I'm 40 years old with two young kids with my oldest being on the spectrum. When I tell you that God has been our provider and protector!? My God has kept me through it all despite the storm. I get weary and feel uncertain sometimes but my kids and my relationship with God has gotten me through. I pray everyday for strength. Thank you Letoya for this video. I'm enjoying your channel.
“They just wanna be able to… run in to something!” 😂😂😂😂 So true sis! 24/8
You are absolutely an Amazing Woman. There is a saying.. "If you never heal from what hurt you. You'll bleed on the people that never cut you." Find the peace within you, find your Climax without the sex.. Blessings..
"You need a cosigner?😝"😂😂😂
True story...I remember many years ago I was shopping/styling a few friends at Club Monoco is the Houston Galleria & you walked up to me and asked for advice on what color top to choose. That is such a memorable moment in my life & all these years l8tr to see your style growth...Fly chica you didn't need my help...lol
The PERFECT girl talk! 🗣❤️
I look forward to this every week! What relatable content. I feel like I am sitting with my friend!
We are all friends here!
This platinum hair on you is so 🔥
The way she said “ if they red, they red “🤣🤣🤣. Her personality is a whole mood 💛
You really need your own talk show! I love these videos.
I love how candid and open you are! Thank you for this content!
Yes budgeting and saving and cancelling out what you want versus what you need.. is a great way to budget life, money, and having relations is a great way balance lessons. Thanks again Miss Letoya you helping people out in these streets... Love it..
Your spirit and personality is absolutely amazing.
Whew Chile when you started talking about your kids I felt that sis. Thank you for sharing. 💖
Yes the emotions came out.
Yes I cried! 🥹
Is she saying she doesn’t have custody of her children?
@@MISSB2489 they share custody so there are times such as holidays or weekends that she won't be with her children
@@tiffanim2664 oh ok! Thanks for your reply. I can only imagine how this feels as a parent.🥹
LeToya I heard about your story with DC today and it's really inspired me what you've overcome and how you kept going. I totally agree about how important it is to leave the wrong man rather than stay when you're miserable. I think a lot of women stay and put up with all sorts of nonsense. My ex was abusive and I've been single since I left 6 years ago, I couldn't bare to deal with that kind of behaviour again. I'm currently out of work so my goal is to return to work and buy a house. I'm good at being frugal but my struggle has always been low income due to managing some health conditions. Glad to have found your videos, I wish you much continued success.
I am so happy you created this channel! Your honesty and hilarious personality is refreshing🧡!
Glad you're enjoying it as much as I am!!
Love it
Talking about her spending habits especially when younger was so honest and funny..I could definitely relate.
You have to believe what the man is telling you. We aren’t saviors. Yes Letoya….. love seeing you back on your feet.
She’s drop dead gorgeous!
LeTota is very wise for a young woman. You can learn from everyone.
Man I’ve grew up watching you and your journey and to see you and all the ladies of DC thriving makes my heart so happy.
Latoya, just the fact that you realize your "children belong to God" and you are just the vessel to get them here to earth, I had a HAAARD time understanding this, and Im 52yrs old. You're doing good!
That brings a sense of peace and ease once one realises that.
Giiiiiiiiiirl you are so SILLY and I love it. I guess the silliness in me loves the silliness in you! The word of God does say that "Laughter does the heart good like medicine.". I LITERALLY laughed out loud several times like I was talking to you on the phone. Thank you for your transparency. The best is YET to come.🥰🙏🏽
Toya, I am with you. It’s not that I do not know how to keep a man. I just don’t tolerate the disrespect & the BS.
We love you from South Africa
🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Love, how passionate she is about the kids....I'm still the same way. My kids are 34, 44
Toya is absolutely GORGEOUS! Her personality is bomb!
Girl u have a comedian personality.... You cracking me up..🤣🤣.. I can listen to you on a bad day and feel better... 💕
Thank you for your transparency. I love everything about this channel. I can't wait until the next video!!!
See ya next week!
Same! Keep doing you Toya!!
looovvee her that comment about her kids belonging to GOD .. tears rolled right then
She’s such a comedian 😂😂😂 I’m here for it
My new favorite day of the week!!!
I can’t help you on budgeting, it’s still a struggle for me too. But I do know that you can’t be a man’s peace, only God can do that. We are not designed to be their peace, nor are they designed to be ours, that’s a God shaped hole to be filled by God alone. So if a man or a woman is asking you to be their peace, that’s the wrong person for you, they must find their peace in God alone. Psalms 62:1-2. God bless sis.
Girl that was to funny Uncle Sam gon get his bag & you put your bag back lol 😂
You are so down to earth! It's like having a convo with a cool homegirl every time!! 💜😊
I just me some Letoya!! Please don’t change 💜
Latoya We definitely need longer videos PLEASE stop teasing us chilee
Toya, your personal style is really nice.
This hair.....I just LOVE it!
That take a beat and listening to that little voice is big! YES actions truly speak louder than words.
God bless you lady 10:44😊
I’m teaching and talking to my kids now about how important credit is. Another great episode.
Hey Le Toya 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I'm still struggling to save money...I love retail therapy too but I definitely want to be out of debt
Why didn’t I know her personality was this bomb!!! She’s hilarious
1st of all !......hi from Jamaica !.......you're gorgeous ! 😍.....your makeup is flawless !......and your personality is real & hilarious 😂😂😂😂
Ohhh sis! “What do you plan on doing with the rest of your time AND how do I fit into that”!?!? I’m taking this one!! Love this and you 💕
She is jokes! I love her. How come I never realized how down to earth you are?!?! 😁
I love you mamacita and your personality is beautiful
I am here for all of this! Especially the part where you said your children aren't yours, they are God's anyway! Amen!
Toya makes me take a chill pill with this TH-cam channel. I love it! I’m just here to hear her go off🤣🤣❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣❤️ love you Toya!!!
You are an awesome woman with beautiful children. May God continue to sprinkle blessings all over your life 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️
LETOYA ask better questions of the person you allow in to your life because now you are a package deal. Give yourself more personal Grace. You have the internal power to do so. Allow for that within you. Good Luck.
I’m at work but I’ll leave a thumbs up now and watch later 😊😊
Lolsh, that what I did& now I'm back!...so good.
I love the fact you keep it real great advice keep moving forward 💯
Love you LeToya! Been rocking with you since 97'. And you always been real & a beautiful personality that goes along way.
Toya when you speak about your kids & broken home it speaks to my spirit! When plans are derailed in that manner it's so disheartening. Single parenting days are still tough for me as well, even in another relationship but filling the original void is so hard. I guess God will have to step in for us. ❤❤
always liked you girl . much love from Canada !!
I first saw you in Greenleaf, and I loved your acting and now I watch this whole video and it really makes me appreciate you more as an amazing young lady. Bless you and all your families.
I love these videos. It’s great getting to know you. When you said that about your kids not belonging to you they belong to god… wow a word. I am separated but we haven’t divorced yet so I know the pain of splitting two households. Blessings to you and your family.
Money is the seed that God places in our hands to be steward over. We can do what makes it grow and take care of our responsibilities or it can seep through your fingers. I was raised to take care of bills 1st and have GOOD credit. I learned to save something each check and utilize some investment options, 401k, IRA, etc, for your emergency needs and my retirement future. Discernment is required for any relationship, God will have to be my choser going forward and reveal all of that person's character and flags, I am divorced too. You are a great Mama Toya, keep learning, sharing your life, and being Amazing for your babies and YOU! Retail therapy is fun until it's not.... Take care❣️✌🏾
I've def been a fan since DC and now I'm to glad to finally get to see your personality shine through! We didn't have social media back then so I had to imagine what my fave singers were like but girl...you are a whole VIBE. Please keep the content coming!!!
Yeah she was my fave on there as well and her personality is just like I imagined it would be. A whole vibe.
Instant best friend in my head! Appreciative of the rawness. It's refreshing.
Yea, I'm still learning. My credit is not good at the moment. I'm stuck in a cycle. I love things and like being accepted. Credit approvals pulled me in...too many to have! Praying for financial stability.
The man part…Chile I’m with you! Get rid of, not losing!
“Song on the radio but I ain’t got 4 quarters” 😂😂😂 I felt that!
I never had a song on the radio but I know what it like to not have 4 quarters 😩😂😂😂
My best friend is a Pisces as well❤️ that explains why I love your personality so much ❤️
Me too, they're so fun, free spirited and just down to Earth.
I needed to hear this before I toss it up on payday!! Thanks for letting us into your world. I remember buying your solo CD and cheering you on when you hit number 1!! I can't wait to see beauty videos. Love from London xx
Nah, get that budget together, you'll be glad you did!!!! I had to learn to not impulse purchase and budget my money.
You are so candid Letoya. Money is such a tragedy for so many people. I think we all need to learn the money mode. Money is just not compatible with human mode. We have to incorporate Money mode. Different mindset. I think investing helps. I'm no professional and definitely not a Money mogul. Sometimes God has to help with money understanding. Letoya you're such a catch. I think your independence may scare some; but independence is such a great asset. And you're such a good mom. Your concern for your children is impeccable. Yes men do love home cooked meals. Put the love in the food.😄💜
I love how you capitalize on your narrative if anyone is gonna tell it you are. Thanks for sharing with us what a gift 🎁
You are such a Phonmanal Women, beautiful inside out 💜
Sharon is caring Toya keep it coming❤️
I like your honesty and real talk
I feel you girl. I’m right there with you on the money. Help me Jesus
Child you make me feel like I am siting in the room with my cousin talking and learning about life. Thank you lady for being transparent.
This woman is pure entertainment… i be waiting for the uploads!!! I love how relatable, transparent & fun you are. Keep ‘em coming girl 💚
Thank you for being so transparent and sharing your stories with us. Yes personal credit is so important I learned that the hard way through student loans. You dropped some gems and gave really great advice that I will definitely apply moving forward.
A lot learned and you have me dying laughing with the “ARE YOU A WASTE OF TIME?” Let the church say…..😂😂😂 This channel is really a breathe of fresh air