we explore the controversial topic of why foreign men should think twice before dating Asian girls Would you date someone despite the enormous criticism you get here and there? Despite the bridge that culture paints between you both? Men who've dated Asian girls would know better"
Relationships between two peoples of different cultural backgrounds only work if you're both rebels; independent thinkers; trailblazers; courageous and transcendent. All great qualities! ✌️
Thank you for that breakdown and you’re so right just watching the dramas I see how invested the whole family is in the marriage and relationship so I can just imagine when culture is thrown in the mix 😬hopefully they can learn to be a little more lenient like Nyce did for you😊she’s special and a one in a million 😊you chose well because imagine how open minded you’ll both raise your daughter 😊❤
Marrying into a totally different culture and its people is a daunting challenge, so you cannot say you did not expect it. But if you truly love the person as your husband or wife, who cares. Maybe it could be that you two as a couple can demonstrate that Love conquers all and that true love matters the most for personal happiness!
You started a second channel? Well, I'm very behind--trying to switch countries is time consuming as you know. Wished you all great health and good fortune as always.
Great video! However you use the term Asian very broadly. I think what you mean to say is Chinese. I’ve dated girls in Thailand and Vietnam with no problems. However china is known for being one of the most racist Asian countries alongside South Korea….at least in terms of dating
Once you peel the onion, Thailand and Vietnam are very similar. Not the same but similar. The Philippines is the outlier but also with some tendencies...
Asia is only a whole but some differences somehow. Applies just in a degree of more or less. I haven't dated lot's of Asian girls in the past but my understanding and living with people gives me no doubt. Philipines are somewhat more different. More self dependent and not much family influence. China Korea and Japan trust me I can never go wrong on this
Hello I am French but I understand you.I send message before and I say your girl is géniale en Français dans le texte.Votre compagne est juste géniale !en français on dit, « rien à foutre ».Nous sommes au 21siècle et beaucoup sont restés en arrière!prenez soin de vous ❤from France
Bonjour mon frere je suis heureux de vous voir sur ma chaine vlog. Heureux que vous aimez mes videos et comprendre bien Ce pendent ne laissez pas un point de vue deformer votre ambition. Prendre soin frere Beaucoup D'amour a vous et a la France
The old saying goes, "You can't please everyone," and you shouldn't try because it's all about you! It's about your environment and the people that you allow in it. The people on the internet are there for entertainment or what is called trolling. The females that I dated over the years, none of the mothers liked me, not a one! 😅
Hi Mike!.. As a black who has traveled the world it really depends on the country.. It’s not so challenging dating/marrying Asian women in the Philippines and Thailand as it is in China..
I have lived in the philipines a short while however, Not as long as China. My understanding and dealing with people cannot get me wrong Philippines are less reserved when it comes to dating and marriage. Family influence in relationship and marriage is less and they are more open minded. Society challenge won't be an issue even if you're a foreigner.
Mike , mariage entre different culture , il faut faire beaucoup de compromis entre eux . Un mariage est une loterie . Il ne faut pas faire attention aux critiques . C'est tres dur mais faut vivre heureux ensemble , c'est mon cas et pour une duree de 46 ans ! Le covid a gagne ,!
I think your title shouldn't reference Asian girls, as you specifically are talking about Chinese girls. Each country has their own culture, an "Asian" woman in China has a different mindset than one in Malaysia, Thailand, Laos or the USA, due mostly to the culture they grew up in, the same goes for the men. Unless they have lived abroad and experienced other cultures, there is nothing else for one to draw reference from. If both people truly love each other and are mature, they will fight for their relationship, regardless of what others believe. People in the same culture have issues in relationships and marriage due to miscommunication, lack of respect and understanding. Mixed cultural relationships will have challenges if priority is placed on what others think, more so than how to make the relationship work for both. If the family sees their child being treated well by the other party, they will accept (if they are not it solely for profit) them. Good luck with your relationship and hopefully it works out well long term.
IF YOU WERE DATING AN AFRICAN WOMAN FROM A DIFFERENT AFRICAN COUNTRY, IT WOULDN'T BE NO CHALLENGE. AFRICAN CULTURE IS ALMOST THE SAME ACROSS THE BOARD. A CAMEROON MAN CAN EASILY FIT IN A REMOTE VILLAGE OF SOUTH SUDAN OR SENEGAL, JUST LANGUEDOC-ROUSSILLON BARRIER ONLY. BUT AS SOON AS YOU CROSS OVER TO A DIFFERENT CONTINENT, EVERY CHANGES AND BECOMES EXTREMELY DIFFICULT ESPECIALLY DATING AND MARRIAGE
Your wife is a keeper not a gold digger. There will be racist/haters in every country but as you probably already know china and south Korea are known to be the most racist. Great video. 👍 btw what happened to all your other video's?
Dating any culture outside your race will have same criticism. Black men with whom ever always get judged. I was the only black man in an Austrian village in 1994. Now I live and have kid in Asia. I don't see the point of this topic in the video
@@jani1321 Mike has been to Brazil and has seen (I'm sure) just how open that society is with public displays of affection. Conversely, Asia (though it is a continent) is not open with public displays of affection almost as a whole (I cannot think of any outliers). I used Brazil to exemplify an extreme situation where there may be displays of public affection in other South American countries but none as stark as Brazil. I realize (sir or madam) that one is a country and another is a continent... This justaxposition (unsurprisingly) went over your head... Good day and good luck to you.
Understanding a culture doesn't mean you have to accept or like it. When starting date people from different cultures and in there country, they won't understand the why you culturally and only wants you accept half the culture, because your from a different culture. Example, Japanese women's why of thinking about cheating is different than French girls thinking.
Mike l feel if you lve a woman and she love you 😍 time will tell , lam 72 yrs young Mike and dated good and bad woman, but my mom said being in love alone is not good for you love someone who love you
I am definitely sure you knew that was going to happen when you started dating outside your race not to sound racist but these are the things that black men put up with no matter where they go all over the world. now some one Asian country is looking for black men to come over repopulate their culture. We all know why women of different cultures date outside their race because they didn't have enough of their men and their country so they look for a black man as a savior Knight. I say you should be proud of what you doing no matter what somebody says as long as it comes to the heart. No different than it happens in America so why would you be surprised.
Words matter my friend. It's our shared responsibility to speak the absolute truth. Dating a Chinese girl vs dating in Thailand or the Philippines (for example) is radically different. Also, the only absolutes in life are death and taxes. Using the word "NEVER" in your title represents a cynical attempt to bait clicks. Life isn't binary. We need more nuance.
The Title reads: "why you should NEVER date ASIAN girls if you're a Foreigner". And the first thing out of your mouth is : "don't get me wrong, I'm not discouraging you from dating Asian girls". You just Lied, yes you are discouraging men from dating Asian girls, Read your Title again.
@@jani1321 He Lied. Women do the same thing, look at how much makeup they put on just to catch the guys "attention". So you 're the type of women to say: "don't pay attention to the makeup, she puts it on to hide how she really looks uh?
Your thumbnail title says, "Why you should NEVER... (all caps) Why? Why? You dated an Asian why not anyone else? You say that you don't care because you're strong. Why do you think you're the only one that can handle negative social media? The one thing that I dislike what you're doing is that you've gone and met a beautiful Chinese girl, and enjoying a successful relationship but then you turnaround and try to discourage other guys from doing what you did. Do you think that you're the only strong guy around? There are guys who've been through much more than you have. Thumbnails like yours causes your channel to lose credibility. I've been watching your channel a short time and I'm already disappointed.
Why do you glamorize dating an Asian girl when you can date your own race. They are racist and bigot and you saying this shows you having a low selfesteem moreover dating an Asian isn't an achievement so be yourself and stop these nonsense bout other races!
This video is based on experience and a point of view. Trust me on this I'm not asking you to take anything that does not apply to you If at anytime you had an unpleasant experience watching Black in China vlog, I'll advice you to discontinue. I'm not here to be liked by you or act the way you feel pleased. I come out fair and transparent. Good day and good luck.
The title is fitting, stop the nonsense! The majority of interracial relationships fail, and the failure rate is far greater in China. He’s sharing what he experiences in China. Mike isn’t obligated to none of his viewers. Mike, it would be a good idea to have your girlfriend join the conversation to offer a different perspective. 🤙🏽
Hi bro, thanks you for your honesty i appreciate it. I am Cameroonian too and i would to have contact with you because i would like to travel in China. Let me you Instagram. I wish you all the best
we explore the controversial topic of why foreign men should think twice before dating Asian girls
Would you date someone despite the enormous criticism you get here and there?
Despite the bridge that culture paints between you both?
Men who've dated Asian girls would know better"
Relationships between two peoples of different cultural backgrounds only work if you're both rebels; independent thinkers; trailblazers; courageous and transcendent. All great qualities! ✌️
That's the word, if you both are rebels. indipendent
best comment bruh!!!
Thank you for that breakdown and you’re so right just watching the dramas I see how invested the whole family is in the marriage and relationship so I can just imagine when culture is thrown in the mix 😬hopefully they can learn to be a little more lenient like Nyce did for you😊she’s special and a one in a million 😊you chose well because imagine how open minded you’ll both raise your daughter 😊❤
Exactly!!
Thank you so much for your insight into your relationship-cultural differences and things to look out for in mixed-cultural relationships.
It's good that this made sense to you
Thanks for sharing your Truth. I heard the same story from friends who had traveled and dated Asian Girls
At black in China vlog we go more transparent and put viewer experience at first priority.
It's the internet ignore it.
Live your life.
Marrying into a totally different culture and its people is a daunting challenge, so you cannot say you did not expect it. But if you truly love the person as your husband or wife, who cares. Maybe it could be that you two as a couple can demonstrate that Love conquers all and that true love matters the most for personal happiness!
absolutely undeniable. The degree of love and understanding might determine the outcome
Underatnding such differences in advance is crucial
The opportunity to marry my Asian girl has turned out to be the very best decision that I ever made without even having to think twice about it! 😮😊
Loving the vlogs ❤
From the start you did very good about your situation !!!, and your wife supported you , well done with your nice family 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You started a second channel? Well, I'm very behind--trying to switch countries is time consuming as you know. Wished you all great health and good fortune as always.
Thank you for keeping it real
Thank you for this message it is needed. I have been watching for sometime your vlogs and it is a understanding .
right. 😀
Great video! However you use the term Asian very broadly. I think what you mean to say is Chinese. I’ve dated girls in Thailand and Vietnam with no problems. However china is known for being one of the most racist Asian countries alongside South Korea….at least in terms of dating
Once you peel the onion, Thailand and Vietnam are very similar. Not the same but similar. The Philippines is the outlier but also with some tendencies...
Asia is only a whole but some differences somehow. Applies just in a degree of more or less.
I haven't dated lot's of Asian girls in the past but my understanding and living with people gives me no doubt.
Philipines are somewhat more different. More self dependent and not much family influence. China Korea and Japan trust me I can never go wrong on this
@@mykalhenry Legends understand better
@@blackinchinavlog11yessir, been doing this for a minute...
Glad you addressed the ignorant people and their issues
Excellent message, Mike. 👍
Glad you think so!
Hello I am French but I understand you.I send message before and I say your girl is géniale en Français dans le texte.Votre compagne est juste géniale !en français on dit, « rien à foutre ».Nous sommes au 21siècle et beaucoup sont restés en arrière!prenez soin de vous ❤from France
Bonjour mon frere je suis heureux de vous voir sur ma chaine vlog. Heureux que vous aimez mes videos et comprendre bien
Ce pendent ne laissez pas un point de vue deformer votre ambition. Prendre soin frere
Beaucoup D'amour a vous et a la France
It not your job to prepare adults about experiencing relationship in another country , Just stay blessed with wonderful family you have.
Undeniable, but it's my part to clear my viewers doubts in a transparent stand point
There are 48 countries in Asia and china may not be the right representation of the whole. This is selective and subjective views.
Yes, East Asians are more racist and closed-minded.
The old saying goes, "You can't please everyone," and you shouldn't try because it's all about you! It's about your environment and the people that you allow in it. The people on the internet are there for entertainment or what is called trolling. The females that I dated over the years, none of the mothers liked me, not a one! 😅
haha. I must call you legend for dating girls and not liked but any of the mothers. You Carry the Ballon D'or lol
I'll just date has many for my plessure , But won't get married to them!😎
Thanks for sharing
Hi Mike!.. As a black who has traveled the world it really depends on the country.. It’s not so challenging dating/marrying Asian women in the Philippines and Thailand as it is in China..
Exactly that's what I wrote earlier....China is it's own beast in itself....
China is a very closed society… but people are good and bad wherever you go
I have lived in the philipines a short while however, Not as long as China. My understanding and dealing with people cannot get me wrong
Philippines are less reserved when it comes to dating and marriage. Family influence in relationship and marriage is less and they are more open minded.
Society challenge won't be an issue even if you're a foreigner.
Mike , mariage entre different culture , il faut faire beaucoup de compromis entre eux . Un mariage est une loterie . Il ne faut pas faire attention aux critiques . C'est tres dur mais faut vivre heureux ensemble , c'est mon cas et pour une duree de 46 ans ! Le covid a gagne ,!
I think your title shouldn't reference Asian girls, as you specifically are talking about Chinese girls. Each country has their own culture, an "Asian" woman in China has a different mindset than one in Malaysia, Thailand, Laos or the USA, due mostly to the culture they grew up in, the same goes for the men. Unless they have lived abroad and experienced other cultures, there is nothing else for one to draw reference from. If both people truly love each other and are mature, they will fight for their relationship, regardless of what others believe. People in the same culture have issues in relationships and marriage due to miscommunication, lack of respect and understanding. Mixed cultural relationships will have challenges if priority is placed on what others think, more so than how to make the relationship work for both. If the family sees their child being treated well by the other party, they will accept (if they are not it solely for profit) them. Good luck with your relationship and hopefully it works out well long term.
IF YOU WERE DATING AN AFRICAN WOMAN FROM A DIFFERENT AFRICAN COUNTRY, IT WOULDN'T BE NO CHALLENGE. AFRICAN CULTURE IS ALMOST THE SAME ACROSS THE BOARD. A CAMEROON MAN CAN EASILY FIT IN A REMOTE VILLAGE OF SOUTH SUDAN OR SENEGAL, JUST LANGUEDOC-ROUSSILLON BARRIER ONLY. BUT AS SOON AS YOU CROSS OVER TO A DIFFERENT CONTINENT, EVERY CHANGES AND BECOMES EXTREMELY DIFFICULT ESPECIALLY DATING AND MARRIAGE
@@mufunyiibrahim3655 so true. In Africa we have a very similar culture within countries.
I want an Asian girl I don’t care where she is from just anywhere in Asia. 😌
Your wife is a keeper not a gold digger. There will be racist/haters in every country but as you probably already know china and south Korea are known to be the most racist. Great video. 👍 btw what happened to all your other video's?
Dating any culture outside your race will have same criticism. Black men with whom ever always get judged. I was the only black man in an Austrian village in 1994. Now I live and have kid in Asia.
I don't see the point of this topic in the video
2:36 they are jealous clearly.. let them drown in their hate.
It’s cool bro take their women and laugh whilst the haters hate
Asia does not express public displays of affection, unlike Brazil.
True they are more reserved.
Brazil is part of America, south America, not Asia
@@jani1321 Mike has been to Brazil and has seen (I'm sure) just how open that society is with public displays of affection. Conversely, Asia (though it is a continent) is not open with public displays of affection almost as a whole (I cannot think of any outliers). I used Brazil to exemplify an extreme situation where there may be displays of public affection in other South American countries but none as stark as Brazil. I realize (sir or madam) that one is a country and another is a continent... This justaxposition (unsurprisingly) went over your head... Good day and good luck to you.
Understanding a culture doesn't mean you have to accept or like it. When starting date people from different cultures and in there country, they won't understand the why you culturally and only wants you accept half the culture, because your from a different culture. Example, Japanese women's why of thinking about cheating is different than French girls thinking.
Mike l feel if you lve a woman and she love you 😍 time will tell , lam 72 yrs young Mike and dated good and bad woman, but my mom said being in love alone is not good for you love someone who love you
I am definitely sure you knew that was going to happen when you started dating outside your race not to sound racist but these are the things that black men put up with no matter where they go all over the world. now some one Asian country is looking for black men to come over repopulate their culture. We all know why women of different cultures date outside their race because they didn't have enough of their men and their country so they look for a black man as a savior Knight. I say you should be proud of what you doing no matter what somebody says as long as it comes to the heart.
No different than it happens in America so why would you be surprised.
Words matter my friend. It's our shared responsibility to speak the absolute truth. Dating a Chinese girl vs dating in Thailand or the Philippines (for example) is radically different. Also, the only absolutes in life are death and taxes. Using the word "NEVER" in your title represents a cynical attempt to bait clicks. Life isn't binary. We need more nuance.
So you're saying don't date them because of other people? You will have jealous haters in you own country.
The Title reads: "why you should NEVER date ASIAN girls if you're a Foreigner". And the first thing out of your mouth is : "don't get me wrong, I'm not discouraging you from dating Asian girls". You just Lied, yes you are discouraging men from dating Asian girls, Read your Title again.
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
YALL, don't pay much attention to the title, it's just to catch people's attention
@@jani1321 He Lied. Women do the same thing, look at how much makeup they put on just to catch the guys "attention". So you 're the type of women to say: "don't pay attention to the makeup, she puts it on to hide how she really looks uh?
take me shopping. You are talking about Golddiggers.
lol
Your thumbnail title says, "Why you should NEVER... (all caps) Why? Why? You dated an Asian why not anyone else? You say that you don't care because you're strong. Why do you think you're the only one that can handle negative social media? The one thing that I dislike what you're doing is that you've gone and met a beautiful Chinese girl, and enjoying a successful relationship but then you turnaround and try to discourage other guys from doing what you did. Do you think that you're the only strong guy around? There are guys who've been through much more than you have. Thumbnails like yours causes your channel to lose credibility. I've been watching your channel a short time and I'm already disappointed.
Why do you glamorize dating an Asian girl when you can date your own race. They are racist and bigot and you saying this shows you having a low selfesteem moreover dating an Asian isn't an achievement so be yourself and stop these nonsense bout other races!
This video is based on experience and a point of view. Trust me on this I'm not asking you to take anything that does not apply to you
If at anytime you had an unpleasant experience watching Black in China vlog, I'll advice you to discontinue.
I'm not here to be liked by you or act the way you feel pleased. I come out fair and transparent. Good day and good luck.
The title is fitting, stop the nonsense! The majority of interracial relationships fail, and the failure rate is far greater in China. He’s sharing what he experiences in China. Mike isn’t obligated to none of his viewers. Mike, it would be a good idea to have your girlfriend join the conversation to offer a different perspective. 🤙🏽
Hi bro, thanks you for your honesty i appreciate it. I am Cameroonian too and i would to have contact with you because i would like to travel in China. Let me you Instagram. I wish you all the best
Glad you like this video. my bro.
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