100% agree. When I was in college, I used to lock myself in a room for months to study for exams. And when the exams were over and I started having social interactions, I knew what I wanted to say but I would fumble my words. Speaking is a motor skill. You need practice.
The problem is not the speaking. It’s translating from the mind to the mouth. Thoughts are much faster and more abstract than words, so you need to find a way to slow down and organise your thoughts with a particular rhythm so they can “flow” to your mouth.
I recently came to realize that because I spent a lot of time by myself when I was little I learned to be by myself and think but not express my thoughts or feelings. I thought I was shy but I think my mom and dad didn’t teach me to interact with other people from a young age. I played with kids my age but that didn’t translate into making me expressive. I think it’s something that needs to be trained by parents from an early age. I encouraged my daughters when they were little - to introduce themselves to adults and carry on small conversation. They both grew up extroverted and comfortable expressing themselves. Im so proud of them. As for me, I’m work in progress.
Some parents are great, but they were educated the same, so they didn't know how to handle the education of their children when it came to socialization. They weren't thought either. I don't want to blame my parents, I love them, but because I'm shy and introverted without friends in my 33, partially, it's their fault too.
So on point . When i was young parents didn't allow me to go out . Praised me cuz i was calm and not so talkative . Ended up being a shy introvert don't know how to express myself . Now that i have grown up they suddenly expect me to be all talkative and friendly which is so difficult now
Same, my father is a introvert,so he did not used to let me play with other children when I was a child and after changing school each 1 or 2 years, I slowly got used to be shy and not confident so start speaking less but fast. Now I can't speak few words in hindi clearly, let alone English.
I passed my job interview yesterday and the interviewer himself was shocked when he knew it's my first time applying for the bpo industry. I just watch vinh videos and I improved my command in English a lot
Same. I was like a stutterer back when I was in senior high. When I went to college, I made it a goal to change AND I ACTUALLY DID. I became the life of the party and people admired me. Then covid happened and yeah, I'm a stutterer again.
@@ashrunzeda4099 I wouldn't say I was that confident in school before covid after that when I started my sophomore year I couldn't get look people in the eye and it took me another year to show people my face without a mask
Thinkers have a hard time conversing because we are focused on the persons authenticity of their intentions. Thinking is better than overly speaking and end up not noticing strange behaviors.
I’m both happy to be understood and frustrated that I didn’t learn this. I often feel so profound within but when I speak it’s just… nonsense. It’s a major insecurity of mine.
What a learning experience this is, the way he looks at him and how he radiates empathy in such a sincerely and profound way with his body language, the words and the volume of the voice... I heared everything he said but how he said it is what blows my mind, what a good speaker
Yeah, my childhood was not so good and I was the quiet kid who would play alone in a corner. My observation skills are insane but I used to struggle a lot and relied on my best friend (an extrovert) to do all of the talking. Then I started working in a call center to support myself through college and it took me solid 3 years to make that mind and mouth connection. Keep in mind that it took me 3 years of talking with strangers for 4 hours a day to have a good connection and I’m still working on it to be great.
If someone gets you mad enough where fear leaves you from having to be cautious and trying to sugar coat every word, the words will flow out of you like water in perfect sync with the brain.
I grew up as a single child and my father was mostly out for work. And I didn't have many friends where I lived. So I grew up as an introvert. But my communication skills are still good. And I think the main reason behind that is that I learned to talk to myself as a kid and I still do. Doing even that is enough in my opinion, because in the end all that matters is how you speak and articulate, not who you are talking to.
I've recently started to see how vital communication is in any type of relationship. Without proper communication, neither party truly knows the truth behind someone's action. I wish us all to get better at communicating with one another ❤
This is exactly my problem, I overthink all the time and have trouble making conversation sometimes, but I’ve been getting better and better these past couple years
Ahh you described my plight accurately. Since childhood I was not encouraged to speak my thoughts, and hence over the time my mind generates thoughts at the speed of light but I haven't been able to say it aloud and it shattered my confidence
When I was young and I think like this still. The less someone knows about me, the better I sleep at night, because there is less for others to use against me. I know it is stupid, but it actually helped me cope with anxiety.
It's not stupid, I find it interesting on the contrary. But there is a point on which we are all mistaken: other people think much LESS about us than we imagine. They care much LESS about us than we think. Tell me how many strangers you crossed today that you could describe? Even if they looked a little original or strange or funny. You don't think about it or only 2 seconds, then you move on. Would you imagine that they should worry about your judgement about them? No. Even for people that we know, actually. I think you should try to open, progressively, to people you think you can trust. You will realize you don't risk much and it will open you some possibilities. Of course sometimes you will be disappointed. Be ready for it. It will not kill you.
The most impressive thing about the way he talks is that not only the wording, the tone and the voice are extremely well orchestrated, but the body language sync sooooo well as well. Truely impressive
I taught advanced English in high school and was surprised that so often the students who wrote the most brilliant papers hardly ever made a contribution in class. I know it’s possible it took them longer to think over there writing but I believe they had any good insights on the spot. I don’t mean to sound nasty, but there were some kids who just loved to talk in class and their comments were good but not great and some were very confusing. I sometimes wondered if those sharper kids were afraid that were going to sound like that.
Strongly agree with his view When I was young I didn't talk , I just used to avoid any social gatherings and most of the time remain silent and bcoz of these I'm really struggling in communicating with h others
The method Vinh thought before will work here and that's talking more slowly which I do at work since I also got the same problem. Talking slowly gives me more time to parse my thoughts before it comes out coherently.
I’m told that I didn’t speak to anyone except my mom a little bit until I was about 4. I was still painfully shy after that until I hit my teens, then slowly started to revert back to not speaking much. It’s true you either use it or lose it.
OMG thank you. I wasn't really allowed to speak throughout my childhood and even as an adult woman. I was in toxic relationships from the beginning of my life until very recently, whose primary tactic(one of them) was to deprive me of my voice
ELijah Muhammad says think at Least 5 times before thought, we can remember 5 to 9 eLements of memory short term, don't believe anything unLess you've gone through each debunking each other's statements and debunk of the debunk, and debunk of the debunk of the debunk, 5 to 9 times
Thats exactly what happens to me rn I never got to speak a lot because everyone around me kept speaking so much and never let me speak out.... In school...with my parents...in my family... I learned to keep it short and now struggle to speak more then 3 sentences in a row.... The only time where there is no barrier is when i am really really confortable...
This is so true! As an only child and introvert, I think A LOT but never have to articulate my thoughts to anyone. Therefore public speaking is so much more difficult for me.
Very deep insight! Mastering the mind and mouth connection, is an effective communication skill. It helps in putting out your word with confidence and making yourself heard!
Sir bcz of your awesome advice I gave a Tedtalk today at my school I'm in grade 9th and it went so well even though I added some stuff on the stage and forgot some. Thank you much ‼️
Wow I see the next iteration of Vin unfolding in front of my eyes and it’s beautiful. From helping with speech to serving the development of individuation within all of us. Cheers mate! ❤🎉
I grew up with parents who spoke two different languages which confused me to the point that I wasn't very good at either. On top of that, I was very very shy. So this explains a lot why I am the way I am... I embrace it tho! I value how good I am at thinking and writing, while simultaneously always work to get better at articulating my thoughts verbally😊
Hi, I'm currently studying second language acquisition and something really interesting came up when I saw your comment! I learned that those whose parents speak two different languages may have a tendency to become bilingual naturally! And there's a concept called "translanguaging" and if you master your second language (or are a high-level SL learner), you can naturally switch between your 2 languages when you speak! (just a tip about communication, plus I'm not a native eng speaker... Hope you're doing well!!!)
@@jellyyyy9331 oooh interesting!! My dad speaks Norwegian and my mum speaks Thai - I'm fluent in Norwegian (and English cause I studied abroad) but not Thai unfortunately...although I was told I had moments as a child where I spoke Thai pretty well without rly knowing, so the language is probably hiding somewhere in my brain waiting to be picked up again😂 I picked up English quite easily as a child tho so the bilingual thing makes sense...
A thing that I learnt to do struggling with the same thing is, this is weird now that I articulate it, I premeditate a lot of the very important thoughts and conversations that I really want to get out long before I ever have to do that when I need to get it out I just do. It’s a lot but it works
That make sense now, sometimes I had the answer in my head but it difficult to articulate until later I know what sentence I need to say. But weirdly enough, I’m quite chatty when Inwas talking with myself in front of the mirror 😅
omg! so relatable, I thought I was the only one. and when I explained why it happened to me, it made me feel like I blamed on the pandemic. In fact, my tongue, mouth muscle, and jaw movements were kinda tough to move. I stuttered and even twisted my tongue while speaking. this makes me just mad.
Ngl. I started doing smalltalk ai. Not sure what it is called really but it has cool ai prompts and it tests your speaking ability. Spending like 20 minutes on it just doing exercises has improved my confidence a ton. Better than reading out loud only or talking to myself.
Your thoughts are exponential from your talking, trick is…whomsoever you are talking with, connect your talking to their thinking. You’ve done the thinking, now connect your talking to bridge to their thinking. Always start a conversation prepared, but flexibility and adaptation will help with their talking. Boom, bonds form.
@@TylerCales okeyy do you have steps or some structure after knowing/connecting with their thinking ? Tbh its hard to create chemistry even with my own parents 😔 To be frank the reason i'm terrible communicators is bcs i'm super quiet in my childhood 🥺
Practice. I think he's suggesting that you need to practice talking in order to get better at communication. He often suggests talking in front of a mirror or recording yourself talking. The more you practice, the better you get.
I'm the younger in my family and I found that problem and my family don't want me talk a lot they think i'm still young but my mind talking a lot and now when I want learn English I found a problem I need more vocabulary to express to feel free,That's difficult for me, I need much time for that .
Write every day, and read them out loud - along with interesting books you read. This will help formulate your thoughts, and connect with your ability to articulate.
Don't say that, try to have fun conversation with your friends, anything ! Food , movies or anime ! Speak your favorite topics can increase your speaking ability little by little
This is me never talked much growing up,I can think really fast just can't get it out into words and when I do I talk too fast so people don't understand
Check out my FREE 3 part series on my profile to improve your mind and mouth connection ✅
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100% agree. When I was in college, I used to lock myself in a room for months to study for exams. And when the exams were over and I started having social interactions, I knew what I wanted to say but I would fumble my words. Speaking is a motor skill. You need practice.
This issue is with me as well brother 😢
I too have been introvert for my whole life, same issue.
That's absolutely the truth. I suffer same fate due to criticism from friends of overtalking😢
The problem is not the speaking. It’s translating from the mind to the mouth. Thoughts are much faster and more abstract than words, so you need to find a way to slow down and organise your thoughts with a particular rhythm so they can “flow” to your mouth.
I think reading lot of books is going to fix big problems, Reading repairs experiences you haven't had.
I like how he educates on why certain skills are harder for some people and what to do about it instead of just saying "talk more confidently"
I recently came to realize that because I spent a lot of time by myself when I was little I learned to be by myself and think but not express my thoughts or feelings. I thought I was shy but I think my mom and dad didn’t teach me to interact with other people from a young age. I played with kids my age but that didn’t translate into making me expressive. I think it’s something that needs to be trained by parents from an early age. I encouraged my daughters when they were little - to introduce themselves to adults and carry on small conversation. They both grew up extroverted and comfortable expressing themselves. Im so proud of them. As for me, I’m work in progress.
Some parents are great, but they were educated the same, so they didn't know how to handle the education of their children when it came to socialization. They weren't thought either. I don't want to blame my parents, I love them, but because I'm shy and introverted without friends in my 33, partially, it's their fault too.
So on point . When i was young parents didn't allow me to go out . Praised me cuz i was calm and not so talkative . Ended up being a shy introvert don't know how to express myself . Now that i have grown up they suddenly expect me to be all talkative and friendly which is so difficult now
Same here
Yes
same
Same, my father is a introvert,so he did not used to let me play with other children when I was a child and after changing school each 1 or 2 years, I slowly got used to be shy and not confident so start speaking less but fast. Now I can't speak few words in hindi clearly, let alone English.
Damn is this me speaking 🤯
I completely relate to this.
This man is so wise. I absolutely love the value he provides to the world.
I passed my job interview yesterday and the interviewer himself was shocked when he knew it's my first time applying for the bpo industry. I just watch vinh videos and I improved my command in English a lot
I had goosebumps, because you don't know how much i struggled with this thing and STILL
Me too
Me too
Can it be permanent?
Me too.
But you can improve. Keep going small steps. Keep on pushing your limits away from you.
This is why I think it's great experience for teenagers to have a summer job. It helps build social and professional skills and teaches independence.
I was raised to be seen and not heard as a child. It took me a long time to recover that conversational muscles required to communicate.
Felt like speaking for me... It's hard to get over and I'm someone who is still struggling...
Same, 😢
covid did me dirty before that I was really chatty but not going to school for 2 years straight really messed my communication skills
Same.
I was like a stutterer back when I was in senior high. When I went to college, I made it a goal to change AND I ACTUALLY DID. I became the life of the party and people admired me.
Then covid happened and yeah, I'm a stutterer again.
@@ashrunzeda4099 I wouldn't say I was that confident in school before covid after that when I started my sophomore year I couldn't get look people in the eye and it took me another year to show people my face without a mask
@@ashrunzeda4099 hope you are improving with your stutter
SO REAL.
The ramifications of the unconstitutional shutdowns will be felt for years.
I felt called out 😂 but what he said is true, I don't really talk much since i was a child and right now as an adult im struggling with this issue 😢
I can relate 😢 I'm struggling to express myself
That is actually true because I also experience that until now Im still trying my best to express myself to others 😢😢
Thinkers have a hard time conversing because we are focused on the persons authenticity of their intentions.
Thinking is better than overly speaking and end up not noticing strange behaviors.
Yessss
I’m both happy to be understood and frustrated that I didn’t learn this. I often feel so profound within but when I speak it’s just… nonsense. It’s a major insecurity of mine.
What a learning experience this is, the way he looks at him and how he radiates empathy in such a sincerely and profound way with his body language, the words and the volume of the voice... I heared everything he said but how he said it is what blows my mind, what a good speaker
Yeas 100% true that s what i love most about he shows that emotions in his speaking
@@aminanait6166"that's completely understandable and completely makes sense"
Yeah, my childhood was not so good and I was the quiet kid who would play alone in a corner. My observation skills are insane but I used to struggle a lot and relied on my best friend (an extrovert) to do all of the talking. Then I started working in a call center to support myself through college and it took me solid 3 years to make that mind and mouth connection. Keep in mind that it took me 3 years of talking with strangers for 4 hours a day to have a good connection and I’m still working on it to be great.
If someone gets you mad enough where fear leaves you from having to be cautious and trying to sugar coat every word, the words will flow out of you like water in perfect sync with the brain.
I grew up as a single child and my father was mostly out for work. And I didn't have many friends where I lived. So I grew up as an introvert.
But my communication skills are still good.
And I think the main reason behind that is that I learned to talk to myself as a kid and I still do. Doing even that is enough in my opinion, because in the end all that matters is how you speak and articulate, not who you are talking to.
This is actually an advice from Vinh as well from another video. Talking to yourself out loud is good practice and better than none.
I've recently started to see how vital communication is in any type of relationship. Without proper communication, neither party truly knows the truth behind someone's action. I wish us all to get better at communicating with one another ❤
I - LOVE - this man. This way of viewing and talking about these challenges, it's so validating and teaching.
3 years in covid isolation has done this to me. I need to strengthen my mind mouth connection. Glad to have seen this.
This is exactly my problem, I overthink all the time and have trouble making conversation sometimes, but I’ve been getting better and better these past couple years
Ahh you described my plight accurately. Since childhood I was not encouraged to speak my thoughts, and hence over the time my mind generates thoughts at the speed of light but I haven't been able to say it aloud and it shattered my confidence
That's what's the cause of the worLd's problems, there shouLd be no minimum Voting Age
You can work on that just like me we can do it and overcome it just need practice
When I was young and I think like this still. The less someone knows about me, the better I sleep at night, because there is less for others to use against me.
I know it is stupid, but it actually helped me cope with anxiety.
It's not stupid, I find it interesting on the contrary. But there is a point on which we are all mistaken: other people think much LESS about us than we imagine. They care much LESS about us than we think. Tell me how many strangers you crossed today that you could describe? Even if they looked a little original or strange or funny. You don't think about it or only 2 seconds, then you move on. Would you imagine that they should worry about your judgement about them? No. Even for people that we know, actually. I think you should try to open, progressively, to people you think you can trust. You will realize you don't risk much and it will open you some possibilities. Of course sometimes you will be disappointed. Be ready for it. It will not kill you.
@@bodawei425 Thank you 😊 I‘ll do it.
You guys both got a point the less i less i talk the less i overthink about what to say but i need to take risk and learn from my mistakes
The most impressive thing about the way he talks is that not only the wording, the tone and the voice are extremely well orchestrated, but the body language sync sooooo well as well. Truely impressive
That's totally me, I can write what's in my mind but can't say the same well enough. 😢
Same. People probably meet me in public and are disappointed if they follow my social media. I write effortlessly and have been told, poetically. 😅
@@ketricepage9690 😅🥲
I can relate. Starting a writing practice helps a lot
I taught advanced English in high school and was surprised that so often the students who wrote the most brilliant papers hardly ever made a contribution in class. I know it’s possible it took them longer to think over there writing but I believe they had any good insights on the spot. I don’t mean to sound nasty, but there were some kids who just loved to talk in class and their comments were good but not great and some were very confusing. I sometimes wondered if those sharper kids were afraid that were going to sound like that.
Strongly agree with his view
When I was young I didn't talk , I just used to avoid any social gatherings and most of the time remain silent and bcoz of these I'm really struggling in communicating with h others
The method Vinh thought before will work here and that's talking more slowly which I do at work since I also got the same problem. Talking slowly gives me more time to parse my thoughts before it comes out coherently.
One guy who's actually legit in this field
Thats True Vinh. i Tried To find Out Few days Ago And i Realized that i Can't Articulate The Exact Thought Which is in My Mind .Thanks bud ✌🙏
Nice
I struggle from this. Thanks for putting this on spot
I’m told that I didn’t speak to anyone except my mom a little bit until I was about 4. I was still painfully shy after that until I hit my teens, then slowly started to revert back to not speaking much. It’s true you either use it or lose it.
I went through this, practice one hour everyday infront of a mannequin. You will excel all the “gifted” communicators within one year
OMG thank you. I wasn't really allowed to speak throughout my childhood and even as an adult woman. I was in toxic relationships from the beginning of my life until very recently, whose primary tactic(one of them) was to deprive me of my voice
That's what's the cause of the worLd's problems, there shouLd be no minimum Voting Age
I’ve learnt to obey and not say. This is me 100%
Glad I saw this in YT shorts today! So true!
I didn't even know that was the problem.Thank you for letting me know.
People should think more before they speak and people should give time for the thoughts to become words... those thoughts are worth wating for
ELijah Muhammad says think at Least 5 times before thought, we can remember 5 to 9 eLements of memory short term, don't believe anything unLess you've gone through each debunking each other's statements and debunk of the debunk, and debunk of the debunk of the debunk, 5 to 9 times
Sir whenever you speak,I begin to think that we haven't even learned "how to use our tongue"...🤤😌
Each word that comes out your mouth is gem......✨
Thats exactly what happens to me rn
I never got to speak a lot because everyone around me kept speaking so much and never let me speak out....
In school...with my parents...in my family...
I learned to keep it short and now struggle to speak more then 3 sentences in a row....
The only time where there is no barrier is when i am really really confortable...
Zip it!
This is so true! As an only child and introvert, I think A LOT but never have to articulate my thoughts to anyone. Therefore public speaking is so much more difficult for me.
When this guy talk I just wanna listen and learn
It's been a long time since I've used this language. But the skill regression from extended isolation is so real
This makes so much sense! I never knew why I struggled so much with speaking what went on in my mind and thought I was just slow or smth 🫢
My fav guy. Only person that understand me
Thank god I always talk by myself. Had a full blown discussion and arguments with myself outloud😂 obviously when I’m alone
Makes sense. Wow... you just explained something I've struggled with my whole life.
Guide me to the solution please👏
I could listen to this brother all day!
this vid have popped out on my both reels and ytshorts in less than an hour. social media's algorithm is craaazy
Very deep insight! Mastering the mind and mouth connection, is an effective communication skill. It helps in putting out your word with confidence and making yourself heard!
Vinh, this looks like a problem majority of the people are facing , so please make videos on how to get better with it ...
Wow. This makes so much sense! I'm a thinking machine.
Sir bcz of your awesome advice I gave a Tedtalk today at my school I'm in grade 9th and it went so well even though I added some stuff on the stage and forgot some. Thank you much ‼️
I know probably a lot of people told u that you talk well but Imm say it regardless you really do know how to talk in a really articulate way.
Wow I see the next iteration of Vin unfolding in front of my eyes and it’s beautiful. From helping with speech to serving the development of individuation within all of us. Cheers mate! ❤🎉
When you talk it makes me feel that you talk about myself. I am exactly the same person which you talk about.
Coach Vinh, you are amazing! Thanks for breaking down all these complex topics into abc's. You are the best! And you do all this with Empathy!
Yes
I grew up with parents who spoke two different languages which confused me to the point that I wasn't very good at either. On top of that, I was very very shy. So this explains a lot why I am the way I am... I embrace it tho! I value how good I am at thinking and writing, while simultaneously always work to get better at articulating my thoughts verbally😊
Hi, I'm currently studying second language acquisition and something really interesting came up when I saw your comment! I learned that those whose parents speak two different languages may have a tendency to become bilingual naturally!
And there's a concept called "translanguaging" and if you master your second language (or are a high-level SL learner), you can naturally switch between your 2 languages when you speak!
(just a tip about communication, plus I'm not a native eng speaker... Hope you're doing well!!!)
@@jellyyyy9331 oooh interesting!! My dad speaks Norwegian and my mum speaks Thai - I'm fluent in Norwegian (and English cause I studied abroad) but not Thai unfortunately...although I was told I had moments as a child where I spoke Thai pretty well without rly knowing, so the language is probably hiding somewhere in my brain waiting to be picked up again😂 I picked up English quite easily as a child tho so the bilingual thing makes sense...
Hey me too. I’m curious, do you have an accent in both languages?
@@MtbEMS nope, I've been told there's no way you'd know I'm Norwegian whenever I'm speaking English😂
@@BellaPella866 hey interesting 🤓👍
Btw message: over talking leads to foolishness.
-Lord Ali (Eliya) may God peace be upon him
It’s alright it’s how i like it. Alone in my head.
A thing that I learnt to do struggling with the same thing is, this is weird now that I articulate it, I premeditate a lot of the very important thoughts and conversations that I really want to get out long before I ever have to do that when I need to get it out I just do. It’s a lot but it works
As an introvert, I can relate 10000%...
That make sense now, sometimes I had the answer in my head but it difficult to articulate until later I know what sentence I need to say. But weirdly enough, I’m quite chatty when Inwas talking with myself in front of the mirror 😅
That's me!🙋
He is describing me.
maybe that's the reason ive been struggling with explaining my thoughts
this video is so spot on and I relate to that man in the blue so much!
That’s me. I was a middle child, my brother needed constant attention so I was always quiet.
omg! so relatable, I thought I was the only one. and when I explained why it happened to me, it made me feel like I blamed on the pandemic. In fact, my tongue, mouth muscle, and jaw movements were kinda tough to move. I stuttered and even twisted my tongue while speaking. this makes me just mad.
Ngl. I started doing smalltalk ai. Not sure what it is called really but it has cool ai prompts and it tests your speaking ability.
Spending like 20 minutes on it just doing exercises has improved my confidence a ton.
Better than reading out loud only or talking to myself.
So sir, How to have a Good connection between thinking and talking
How to Strengthen it?
Pin this please
Your thoughts are exponential from your talking, trick is…whomsoever you are talking with, connect your talking to their thinking. You’ve done the thinking, now connect your talking to bridge to their thinking. Always start a conversation prepared, but flexibility and adaptation will help with their talking. Boom, bonds form.
@@TylerCales Wow good explanation
thank you for the tips 🤞
@@TylerCales okeyy do you have steps or some structure after knowing/connecting with their thinking ?
Tbh its hard to create chemistry even with my own parents 😔
To be frank the reason i'm terrible communicators is bcs i'm super quiet in my childhood 🥺
Practice. I think he's suggesting that you need to practice talking in order to get better at communication. He often suggests talking in front of a mirror or recording yourself talking. The more you practice, the better you get.
That is me I’m not good in conversation but can write well expressing my feelings, opinion or thoughts.
That's me, I could go a week without talking, and im thinking a lot, my brain definitely brilliant but the moment i open my mouth, i sounds dumb.
I'm the younger in my family and I found that problem and my family don't want me talk a lot they think i'm still young but my mind talking a lot and now when I want learn English I found a problem I need more vocabulary to express to feel free,That's difficult for me, I need much time for that .
Yeah it make sense 👍🏻thank you Vinh
I have that problem too but it’s caused by the way I think. I don’t think in words, so oftentimes I can’t put my thoughts into words
Strengthening the mind and the mouth.
Insane lesson! Wow! One of the best lessons I heard for a while
Already knew that since i was a teen. I prefer peace and quiet majority of the time so im weak at expressing my thoughts.
I have the opposite issue... I talk without thinking 😂 Seriously, this is a fantastic concept.
What he basically said is get better at talking, got it
Mind blowing. Thank you
It's good to talk more and practice that
Write every day, and read them out loud - along with interesting books you read. This will help formulate your thoughts, and connect with your ability to articulate.
Great ideas, thanks for sharing
So relatable that I want to cry.
This is spot on. Wow.
We had enough financial guru and then there is a new type of guru
Mate! Everything makes sense now!!! 😮
Vinh, can you please make a full video on just the topic. I have the same problem. Please🥺
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it makes sense why im good at writing essays 💀
Don't confuse someone's silence for depth..sometimes they are just hiding their ignorance.
Who else can see Bruce Lee gestures in his movements? 😂
Sometimes other people don't give you a chance to talk.
I relate to this. I don't like being around people. I feel awkward an gd self conscious. It's a snowball effect. I have this exact problem.
my problem as an introvert.
I sometimes go blank when I have to talk about something.
This is huge. I’ll be looking for exercises to build that strength!
let me know if you find anything, i have that issue too :(
Never seen this explained like this before, hence why i created my TH-cam Channel
Practice makes Perfect
I really thought it was my A.D.D but this makes sense
So please a lecture or video on how to resolve this issue. A practical way to go about this. Thanks
Feels like I'm cursed 😟🙁 because of not able to talk and express myself
Don't say that, try to have fun conversation with your friends, anything ! Food , movies or anime ! Speak your favorite topics can increase your speaking ability little by little
@@SnowYukiYap how do you do it when your friends always do the talking?
@@leahsavoie3528 how to you do it when you have got no friends 😐
This is me never talked much growing up,I can think really fast just can't get it out into words and when I do I talk too fast so people don't understand