Thank you Taquila for this message!! This was so spot on in my situation. I see now that the LORD has been nudging me to understand the reason for this separation and to not entertain his hurtful words. This was confirmation. Thank you Heavenly Father!! 🙌🏼
Thank you sis! You are literally God sent! Mine came back 2 days ago and was having a conversation with me as if nothing happened. He said "i miss you, that's why i texted" followed by "you don't have to reply, take care". Meanwhile, he left me for a counterfit. I got so angry but thank God for the Holy spirit that calmed me down. But i had to let him understand that this isn't a game, you cannot tell me that while in a relationship with someone else, without any explanation or apology. He said "i'm single now, i'm sorry, nothing i say can justifiy anything, i love you and miss you, that's the best i can get out of myself". I got so confused with what to reply. I explained how hurtful the situation was but then i was able to quickly get back on my feet by the Grace of God. I also let him know that i have forgiven him. He asked if i still wanted to come to where he is (that was the plan a month ago before the counterfit situation). He asked to fly me out (he just got a new job in that new country) and get a place to stay for me instead of staying with him, focus more on going out and discussing things that happened to bring clarity. I gave him two conditions, i'm not sure if the i got was reply was positif or negatif to my request but he hasn't spoken to me again since yesterday night. It's currently 7pm here in France. I feel like at this stage, he should be trying to get my attention and showing me how sorry he is. I was worried and restless (which it normally doesn't look me) but i had to pray. I felt so tired and kept doubting God because i hoped for a bette "come back" but i'm not giving up because my emotion is all over the place. This video also came right on time for me to pray for discernement. It might not be the time yet, maybe i still need to keep praying and be patient. It can get overwhelming but your wisdom is trully helping. Sorry for the long message and my english (i'm french). May God continue to bless you and answer all our prayers on our prodigals in Jesus name.
@OlanikeA I'm reading this a year later and in a similar situation. Prodigal came back and acting like all is well and wants to start something with me. Yesterday I just found out that he and the counterfeit are engaged as of October. He told me that we should just be friends because he doesn't want to explain himself to me for what happened with the counterfeit. I just told him that I don't hate him and never will. My journey continues until God renews his mind and heart. I continue to pray and fast.
God has sent you to my phone! I’ve been allowing my Prodigal husband of 26 years who literally walked out on me (as he is a claimed deacon of the church) to go live with his Super Liberal Atheist Italian Mama….. 4 months ago… I have talked business with him and a few I miss you’s… scared to death if I am not nice he will Cut me out of his life forever. It’s TIME to get real, and Let him go… and let God deal with him Thank you for your Godly informative Sincere advice
I have not talked or contacted him in about 3 months and it has been the best thing for me. I don’t feel like I’m in a bondage anymore. I have been focused on myself while praying for him and myself. I’m enjoying my life again and I am so much better without being in contact with him. Until he is corrected , he is not welcomed in my life until further notice. I’ve been hurt too much and I am finally healing. I will not go back to the hurt/ embarrassment that he put me through. The enemy no longer has access to my heart in this area. Thank you Jesus
SOOOOO very true! God showed me this back in 2017. The enemy will speak through them to make you feel bad, also. DON’T fall for it!!!! If God gave you promises, they will happen in his time.
I appreciate this message. I am very on why spouse is acting the way she is acting. I am currently standing in the gap for marriage. Sometimes, I do feel defeated when my wife say certain things and make it as if this separation is my fault. I am putting my faith in God and not be concerned about the current situation. God bless you for this message.
How will you know when God is finally finished? My GOS and I have had so many false starts and now we are finally in divine separation with no communication at all for the past 3 and a half months and I have not checked anything of his at all and have left it all to God to handle. So I feel in my heart that this time the restoration is going to be permanent.
They've given the enemy Legal ground, and God told me to get outta of the way because he's under my wrath; and I will DEAL with him, and at that moment I knew how serious it was.
My 3 year prodigal divorced me 1 month ago and then texted me Good Morning the very next day! I said Not Today Devil! I texted him that the Grace of God is Sufficient!🙌🏾 He has tried to text me a couple of times more but, will not get a response from me! He is still with his counterfeit WOB. Thank you for this confirmation. 🙏🏽
If you can continue to hurt the standing spouse they will.stop praying and fighting for the prodigal. More than likely there will be no ither person praying for them. Then the devil.has them all to himself. Very dangerous. We are freeing captives. So God will send us in when its safe and take us out when its not!! Thats why its so important to stay tapped in to Gid for instructions and directions.
Hi Ms Coleman, I just recently got a message from God that a family friend of my aunts husband family is my Prodigal spouse. And im thankful for this message because I just couldn't understand why God would pair me with him. Hes kind and gentle he is just still living in the world. And yes I am praying for him.
I wish I would have listened to this earlier . Now I find my self in the same cycle and it's like each time I get bold I fall back and it's the same thing. Hurt after hurt at this point I'm doing it to myself because I can't seem to trust God to let GO. It's a fear. He always says he will divorce me if I decide to go my own way. But he can go be with the counterfeit. He knows the bible but he twist Scriptures he wants to have" 2" woman because the old testament does 🥺 Lord rise up a boldness in me to finally get my hands off!! I'm tired of these games 1 day he is good the other not. Forgive me for playing along and at the end hurting my heart thinking I can change him when it's only through your spirit that he can change 😭💔🤍
Well said Lord your greatness has shown through this awesome lady! Ty for the great msg! Comtinue to use her for your work father and bless her in Jesus mighty name!
I'm married to my prodigal and we are together in the same house and these attacks are relentless and I don't trust him because hes lied and cheated. What can I do?
Hi Taquila I have 4 children with my prodigal I have to be in communication even though I limit it because of the constant switching and sometimes disrespectful behaviour.
Great advice, in a more challenging position, I can't block nor run from the situ. I have to face it head on. I agree with staying away, for those who can, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you do. If not, pain is inevitable
This was really a good message, with a lot of wisdom. I did understood when God puts the separation part In between, because the disobedience behavior my ordained prodigal spouse has chose on his part. That’s the part for me.There are open door ways and avenues the he allows the enemy to use him for the attack.This is where I protect and guard my ❤️ heart my mind when I’m not engaging in the devil tactic. My prayers to God is daily a discerning Spirit. I love when God will God will reminding of his word. Thank you for encouraging our heart
My unbelieving husband and i live together in our home so we not separated and he has said all those things you mention Tequila. When he is away on business and we text and every once in a while i try talk talk to him, because physical discussions normally end up with him getting angry. He will read my text but 99% of the time will not respond. My last text to him, after a telephonic discussion, he did not respond to it, but Holy Spirit whispered he would not respond but you have given him something to think about. I continue to stand in faith he will turn away from this life of adultery🙏
Taquila, Always enjoy your videos. I think what you say is very mature and truthful. So Thank You for putting this out there to open up the eyes of those who are being deceived.
Wow!!!! All ima say is you really shot this message 📌💯🙏🏼 if I ever make a TH-cam video I’m mentioning you 🙏🏼 u did something to me with this one. God bless u my Christian sister, and thank you. This truly opened up my eyes! Amazing how God works! Iam truly blown away…
If you don't answer the phone, don't respond to texts, don't open the door if the pop up, aren't friends on social media, don't peak at the social media pages, don't have the same friends, don't run in the same circles, don't have the same acquaintances.... How are you supposed to know when they are no longer prodigals? And that they've changed for the better...? Plus he's the father of my daughter, so I'm not sure how we're supposed to not communicate with each other. I'm asking this question from a genuine place I would also like to mention that he's NEVER ... In his life... had ever said a negative or an offensive word to me. He just says he doesn't think it's possible for us to be together. But he's always been a beautiful person to me and our daughter.
This was helpful! Mine has come back and apologized, said he is remorseful, said things like he knows I'm his person, talked about how it's been a very tough road figuring it out that I am the one (he had just went thru a divorce after 20 years when we first met and he was very hurt), and things that I have been longing to hear..BUT, I know/knew it still wasnt time to GO. I knew I still had to close that door and wait. God has more work..but I have to say I'm so tired 😢. BUT GOD.
@@christinboyd6447he is not your husband. Id go into detail and usually I explain a long comment but I only feel led to tell you what you already know. You really need to seek Jesus my sister... Seek Him only. Let that man go. He isn't your husband and he's got you bound to his soul. Break the soul ties in Jesus name. Proclaim YOUR freedom YOUR life back YOUR calling YOUR worth YOUR physical and emotional healing Claim it ALL back The enemy steals from us. And allures is and let's us hear what we wanna hear to pull us along in comfort of the familiar and our deepest... Hopes. God doesn't grant blessing upon certain relationships. You can feel it. There's red flags and an unrest that u experience that comes with God saying. No Come to me Not to him Let the man and everything attached to him Go And you'll have soooooOooOoo much peace. Seeking Jesus helps take the anxiety away associated with a relationship.... Like there's an unrest always there. God has better for you So much better 🫴✨✨✨ Best thing I have found is seeking God by also seeking God through a mentor. Someone who will tell u what I NEED to hear not wanna hear. Someone you can call in the midnight hours when your anxious. Someone who can tell u their experiences someone who will give you scriptures when needed. God has you in the palm of His hand. I didn't plan on writing this but I had to. Jesus cares so much for us as individuals and often we think we'll.... I'm different and my situation is different. In some ways yes bc God has a different route for us all. Not everyone listening to this video has the same story some similar some exact almost in many ways some... Entirely different. Either way we have to find what mold our hearts fit in.. where does our calling fall into .. where does my life go from here without a man. Where does my life go from here without the man God hasn't ordained for me from the beginning of time. I'm not gonna speak on future marriage or marriage bc I do not know. But I do know that God is healing u. Maybe I aren't seeing this man anymore idk. But still .. God wants u to tell your story and get a mentor u can trust. ❤
My wife called me today and I didn’t answer but sent a message about me signing the divorce papers and I told her I’m not signing anything and she ask why and I told her I’m not giving the devil what he wants God wants me to stand for this marriage and I have to be obedient to the lord
How do we determine for sure it’s a divine separation and that they are prodigal. It my instinct that he’s prodigal based on who he’s with now and the fact I started referring to him as that before I even knew it was a thing but he hasn’t ever done anything to intentionally hurt me.
I completely understand. This is how I give myself courage. If I truly love him, I have to let him go and allow God to heal and redeem him. After all our husband’s salvation is above even our marriage. Stay strong. Do it for Love and seek the kingdom of God first ❤
Thank you Taquila for this message!! This was so spot on in my situation. I see now that the LORD has been nudging me to understand the reason for this separation and to not entertain his hurtful words. This was confirmation. Thank you Heavenly Father!! 🙌🏼
Thank you sis! You are literally God sent! Mine came back 2 days ago and was having a conversation with me as if nothing happened. He said "i miss you, that's why i texted" followed by "you don't have to reply, take care". Meanwhile, he left me for a counterfit. I got so angry but thank God for the Holy spirit that calmed me down. But i had to let him understand that this isn't a game, you cannot tell me that while in a relationship with someone else, without any explanation or apology. He said "i'm single now, i'm sorry, nothing i say can justifiy anything, i love you and miss you, that's the best i can get out of myself". I got so confused with what to reply. I explained how hurtful the situation was but then i was able to quickly get back on my feet by the Grace of God. I also let him know that i have forgiven him. He asked if i still wanted to come to where he is (that was the plan a month ago before the counterfit situation). He asked to fly me out (he just got a new job in that new country) and get a place to stay for me instead of staying with him, focus more on going out and discussing things that happened to bring clarity. I gave him two conditions, i'm not sure if the i got was reply was positif or negatif to my request but he hasn't spoken to me again since yesterday night. It's currently 7pm here in France. I feel like at this stage, he should be trying to get my attention and showing me how sorry he is. I was worried and restless (which it normally doesn't look me) but i had to pray. I felt so tired and kept doubting God because i hoped for a bette "come back" but i'm not giving up because my emotion is all over the place. This video also came right on time for me to pray for discernement. It might not be the time yet, maybe i still need to keep praying and be patient. It can get overwhelming but your wisdom is trully helping. Sorry for the long message and my english (i'm french). May God continue to bless you and answer all our prayers on our prodigals in Jesus name.
Hold him accountable! Don’t move until God tells you too. God isn’t done doing his work in him.
@@TaquilaColeman Definitely! Thank you ❤️🙏🏾
@OlanikeA I'm reading this a year later and in a similar situation. Prodigal came back and acting like all is well and wants to start something with me.
Yesterday I just found out that he and the counterfeit are engaged as of October. He told me that we should just be friends because he doesn't want to explain himself to me for what happened with the counterfeit.
I just told him that I don't hate him and never will.
My journey continues until God renews his mind and heart. I continue to pray and fast.
God has sent you to my phone!
I’ve been allowing my Prodigal husband of 26 years who literally walked out on me (as he is a claimed deacon of the church) to go live with his Super Liberal Atheist Italian Mama….. 4 months ago… I have talked business with him and a few I miss you’s… scared to death if I am not nice he will Cut me out of his life forever.
It’s TIME to get real, and Let him go… and let God deal with him
Thank you for your Godly informative Sincere advice
I have not talked or contacted him in about 3 months and it has been the best thing for me. I don’t feel like I’m in a bondage anymore. I have been focused on myself while praying for him and myself. I’m enjoying my life again and I am so much better without being in contact with him. Until he is corrected , he is not welcomed in my life until further notice. I’ve been hurt too much and I am finally healing. I will not go back to the hurt/ embarrassment that he put me through. The enemy no longer has access to my heart in this area. Thank you Jesus
Yes!! You are operating in the right way. Cut off access to the enemy. Praise God🙌🏾🙌🏾
SOOOOO very true! God showed me this back in 2017. The enemy will speak through them to make you feel bad, also. DON’T fall for it!!!! If God gave you promises, they will happen in his time.
You’re exactly right. God told me every time I reach out to my spouse I mess up what He is doing so I haven’t reached out to her in a long time
I appreciate this message. I am very on why spouse is acting the way she is acting. I am currently standing in the gap for marriage. Sometimes, I do feel defeated when my wife say certain things and make it as if this separation is my fault. I am putting my faith in God and not be concerned about the current situation. God bless you for this message.
The Lord bless you my sister for keeping it real.✝️🙏🏽❤️
How will you know when God is finally finished? My GOS and I have had so many false starts and now we are finally in divine separation with no communication at all for the past 3 and a half months and I have not checked anything of his at all and have left it all to God to handle. So I feel in my heart that this time the restoration is going to be permanent.
They've given the enemy Legal ground, and God told me to get outta of the way because he's under my wrath; and I will DEAL with him, and at that moment I knew how serious it was.
I got the same message and was out lol
I feel the same thing!
My 3 year prodigal divorced me 1 month ago and then texted me Good Morning the very next day! I said Not Today Devil! I texted him that the Grace of God is Sufficient!🙌🏾 He has tried to text me a couple of times more but, will not get a response from me! He is still with his counterfeit WOB. Thank you for this confirmation. 🙏🏽
If you can continue to hurt the standing spouse they will.stop praying and fighting for the prodigal. More than likely there will be no ither person praying for them. Then the devil.has them all to himself. Very dangerous. We are freeing captives. So God will send us in when its safe and take us out when its not!! Thats why its so important to stay tapped in to Gid for instructions and directions.
Hi Ms Coleman, I just recently got a message from God that a family friend of my aunts husband family is my Prodigal spouse. And im thankful for this message because I just couldn't understand why God would pair me with him. Hes kind and gentle he is just still living in the world. And yes I am praying for him.
Ok because I have gotten so many apologies but I knew it wasn’t leading anywhere. Just kept praying for his freedom and salvation
The apologies are “evidence” but evidence doesn’t mean restoration.
I wish I would have listened to this earlier . Now I find my self in the same cycle and it's like each time I get bold I fall back and it's the same thing. Hurt after hurt at this point I'm doing it to myself because I can't seem to trust God to let GO. It's a fear. He always says he will divorce me if I decide to go my own way. But he can go be with the counterfeit. He knows the bible but he twist Scriptures he wants to have" 2" woman because the old testament does 🥺 Lord rise up a boldness in me to finally get my hands off!! I'm tired of these games 1 day he is good the other not. Forgive me for playing along and at the end hurting my heart thinking I can change him when it's only through your spirit that he can change 😭💔🤍
Waouh what a word GOD just talking to me trough you ooh Glory to GOD 🙌
Recently got burned. Needed to learn this lesson. I've officially closed that door on him. I think this was my answer.
Well said Lord your greatness has shown through this awesome lady!
Ty for the great msg!
Comtinue to use her for your work father and bless her in Jesus mighty name!
Thank you so much i received this word in Jesus name AMEN , this is so powerful 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm married to my prodigal and we are together in the same house and these attacks are relentless and I don't trust him because hes lied and cheated. What can I do?
Have u gotten your answer or gotten a mentor ?
❤
Hi Taquila I have 4 children with my prodigal
I have to be in communication even though I limit it because of the constant switching and sometimes disrespectful behaviour.
Great advice, in a more challenging position, I can't block nor run from the situ. I have to face it head on. I agree with staying away, for those who can, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you do. If not, pain is inevitable
This was really a good message, with a lot of wisdom. I did understood when God puts the separation part In between, because the disobedience behavior my ordained prodigal spouse has chose on his part. That’s the part for me.There are open door ways and avenues the he allows the enemy to use him for the attack.This is where I protect and guard my ❤️ heart my mind when I’m not engaging in the devil tactic. My prayers to God is daily a discerning
Spirit. I love when God will God will reminding of his word. Thank you for encouraging our heart
My unbelieving husband and i live together in our home so we not separated and he has said all those things you mention Tequila. When he is away on business and we text and every once in a while i try talk talk to him, because physical discussions normally end up with him getting angry. He will read my text but 99% of the time will not respond.
My last text to him, after a telephonic discussion, he did not respond to it, but Holy Spirit whispered he would not respond but you have given him something to think about.
I continue to stand in faith he will turn away from this life of adultery🙏
Yes that's right
Thank you 😊
I agree with you
Omg you have no idea thank you bless u
God is speaking through you. Thank you because I thought I had to sit on the phone while my GO spouse criticize me.
Taquila, Always enjoy your videos. I think what you say is very mature and truthful. So Thank You for putting this out there to open up the eyes of those who are being deceived.
Wow!!!! All ima say is you really shot this message 📌💯🙏🏼 if I ever make a TH-cam video I’m mentioning you 🙏🏼 u did something to me with this one. God bless u my Christian sister, and thank you. This truly opened up my eyes! Amazing how God works! Iam truly blown away…
Thank you wo an of god for unpacking this
🙏🙏🙏😔. Praying for deliverance in Jesus name
Amen
Thank you. I did those things last month
Thanks!
You’re welcome!
This is good teaching.
This was excellent advice & perfect timing!!! I really needed this knowledge today! Thank you Tequila! 😊💗🙌
Wow such wisdom
The devil is liar to get to your heart ❤️ life in realtionship never easy it's not just about give and take good verses evil
If you don't answer the phone, don't respond to texts, don't open the door if the pop up, aren't friends on social media, don't peak at the social media pages, don't have the same friends, don't run in the same circles, don't have the same acquaintances.... How are you supposed to know when they are no longer prodigals? And that they've changed for the better...? Plus he's the father of my daughter, so I'm not sure how we're supposed to not communicate with each other.
I'm asking this question from a genuine place
I would also like to mention that he's NEVER ... In his life... had ever said a negative or an offensive word to me. He just says he doesn't think it's possible for us to be together. But he's always been a beautiful person to me and our daughter.
This was helpful! Mine has come back and apologized, said he is remorseful, said things like he knows I'm his person, talked about how it's been a very tough road figuring it out that I am the one (he had just went thru a divorce after 20 years when we first met and he was very hurt), and things that I have been longing to hear..BUT, I know/knew it still wasnt time to GO. I knew I still had to close that door and wait. God has more work..but I have to say I'm so tired 😢. BUT GOD.
Are you married to him?
@@One-Day-At-A-Time-720 NO
@@One-Day-At-A-Time-720I'm glad you asked that. Well pray 4 her and her situation. Yahwehs will be done💛
@@christinboyd6447he is not your husband. Id go into detail and usually I explain a long comment but I only feel led to tell you what you already know.
You really need to seek Jesus my sister... Seek Him only.
Let that man go. He isn't your husband and he's got you bound to his soul. Break the soul ties in Jesus name. Proclaim YOUR freedom YOUR life back YOUR calling YOUR worth YOUR physical and emotional healing Claim it ALL back
The enemy steals from us.
And allures is and let's us hear what we wanna hear to pull us along in comfort of the familiar and our deepest... Hopes.
God doesn't grant blessing upon certain relationships. You can feel it. There's red flags and an unrest that u experience that comes with God saying.
No
Come to me
Not to him
Let the man and everything attached to him
Go
And you'll have soooooOooOoo much peace.
Seeking Jesus helps take the anxiety away associated with a relationship.... Like there's an unrest always there. God has better for you
So much better
🫴✨✨✨
Best thing I have found is seeking God by also seeking God through a mentor. Someone who will tell u what I NEED to hear not wanna hear. Someone you can call in the midnight hours when your anxious. Someone who can tell u their experiences someone who will give you scriptures when needed.
God has you in the palm of His hand. I didn't plan on writing this but I had to.
Jesus cares so much for us as individuals and often we think we'll.... I'm different and my situation is different.
In some ways yes bc God has a different route for us all. Not everyone listening to this video has the same story some similar some exact almost in many ways some... Entirely different. Either way we have to find what mold our hearts fit in.. where does our calling fall into .. where does my life go from here without a man.
Where does my life go from here without the man God hasn't ordained for me from the beginning of time.
I'm not gonna speak on future marriage or marriage bc I do not know. But I do know that God is healing u. Maybe I aren't seeing this man anymore idk. But still .. God wants u to tell your story and get a mentor u can trust. ❤
Thank you! This makes sense!
Awesome
THANK YOU❤
Amen!
Thank you
I had 2 good dreams then after that a bad dream came in ,but before the good dreams I only had bad dreams about him
Crystal!
I stopped looking at his account so blocked him and the counterfeit and his family to stop looking at their fb accounts I got out the kitchen
My wife called me today and I didn’t answer but sent a message about me signing the divorce papers and I told her I’m not signing anything and she ask why and I told her I’m not giving the devil what he wants God wants me to stand for this marriage and I have to be obedient to the lord
Great job! 👏🏾💪🏾
@@TaquilaColeman she called my phone 19 times in less than 10
@@AngeloSOUTHARD-rd2rbcontinue to stand your ground brother. Any updates ?
Wow thank you Sis... This explains a lot 🙏
Do this message applies to married people as well because ima stander
My wife has been surrounded by single women for years. She been looking for an excuse to divorce. Now we separated.
How do we determine for sure it’s a divine separation and that they are prodigal. It my instinct that he’s prodigal based on who he’s with now and the fact I started referring to him as that before I even knew it was a thing but he hasn’t ever done anything to intentionally hurt me.
God did tell me to sit down and shut up and that he will bring it full circle
I’m going to answer this today
Is it ok to tell your prodigal spouse that you font trust them anymore?
Thank you! I really needed this at this very moment 🥺♥️ what do i do if he’s literally my bestfriend? I let him go before but he returned
I completely understand. This is how I give myself courage. If I truly love him, I have to let him go and allow God to heal and redeem him. After all our husband’s salvation is above even our marriage. Stay strong. Do it for Love and seek the kingdom of God first ❤
@@One-Day-At-A-Time-720 Sis!!! I wrote this 11 months ago and now im in my marriage season 🥰 I surrendered him back to God🙏🏽
even if they go to church?
Yes, look at their fruit and if they follow God and the word.