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  • It's going to be okay.
    This is a video about 8 months in the making. It's taken a lot of hard, difficult, and honestly devastating days to get to this point. But, I realize that I'm far from the only person struggling with mental health right now. I'm fortunate enough to have an amazing support system. But I realize that I'm very blessed and lucky to have that. I'm here (although parasocially) to offer you what helped me take the first excruciating steps on this journey to healing. I hope it helps. You can do it.
    1. *National Suicide Prevention Lifeline*
    [suicidepreventionlifeline.org](suicideprevent...)
    Phone: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
    2. *Crisis Text Line*
    [crisistextline.org](www.crisistext...)
    Text: HOME to 741741
    3. *SAMHSA’s National Helpline*
    [samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline](www.samhsa.gov...)
    Phone: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357)
    4. *NAMI Helpline (National Alliance on Mental Illness)*
    [nami.org/help](nami.org/help)
    Phone: 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-950-6264)
    5. *Mental Health America*
    [mhanational.org](www.mhanationa...)
    Offers various resources and screening tools.
    6. *The Trevor Project (for LGBTQ+ youth)*
    [thetrevorproject.org](www.thetrevorp...)
    Phone: 1-866-488-7386
    Text: START to 678678
    7. *Boris Lawrence Henson Foundation*
    [borislarencehensonfoundation.org](borislarencehe...)
    Focuses on mental health awareness and support for the Black community.
    8. *International Association for Suicide Prevention*
    [iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres](iasp.info/reso...)
    Find crisis centers worldwide.
    9. *Beyond Blue (Australia)*
    [beyondblue.org.au](www.beyondblue...)
    Phone: 1300 22 4636
    10. *Mind (UK)*
    [mind.org.uk](www.mind.org.uk)
    Offers support and information about mental health.
    11. *International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP)*
    [iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres](iasp.info/reso...)
    Find crisis centers and resources worldwide.
    12. *Befrienders Worldwide*
    [befrienders.org](www.befriender...)
    A global network of emotional support helplines.
    13. *Samaritans (UK and Ireland)*
    [samaritans.org](www.samaritans...)
    Phone: 116 123 (free to call)
    14. *Lifeline (Australia)*
    [lifeline.org.au](www.lifeline.o...)
    Phone: 13 11 14
    15. *Talk to Someone (Canada)*
    [talktosomeone.ca](talktosomeone.ca)
    Various resources for mental health support.
    16. *Beyond Blue (Australia)*
    [beyondblue.org.au](www.beyondblue...)
    Phone: 1300 22 4636
    17. *Headspace (Australia)*
    [headspace.org.au](headspace.org.au)
    Support for young people aged 12-25.
    18. *The Suicide Crisis Helpline (India)*
    [vandrevalafoundation.com](vandrevalafoun...)
    Phone: +91 9152987821
    19. *Crisis Support Service (New Zealand)*
    [crisis.org.nz](www.crisis.org.nz)
    Phone: 0800 777 846
    20.**Veterans Crisis Line**
    [veteranscrisisline.net](www.veteranscr...)
    Phone: 1-800-273-8255 and press 1
    Text: 838255
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  • @Wandermilo
    @Wandermilo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +285

    I’m 29. I lost my only child. I quit jobs very easily now. I miss my child. I feel like I aged internally and I can not relate to my peers. I’m tired. I’m grieving. I’m struggling financially and emotionally. I’m struggling financially because I’m struggling mentally. I never clicked a video so fast.

    • @AyyeeIysMe
      @AyyeeIysMe 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      Few words can provide relief to that pain. So sorry that happened to you and your family. You are not alone, thank you for sharing bc I too feel like I cannot relate to peers due to life trauma….😢

    • @safiyassacredspace
      @safiyassacredspace 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      🤍🕊️🙏🏿

    • @De3e3
      @De3e3 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Sending healing prayers to you in Jesus name🙏

    • @TheModalia
      @TheModalia 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Sending you virtual hugs 😢

    • @meh3766
      @meh3766 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Do you have close friends?

  • @natalielloyd9200
    @natalielloyd9200 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    Hey guys. I am 34 and I'm doing really really fantastic. When I was in my teens I wasn't ok. When I was 20 I wasn't ok. 25? Not ok. 27? ABSOLUTELY NOT OK. Some of this is literally just how absolutely mad our brains are in our 20s. Not for everyone, I know, I'm just trying to encourage even one person. Now, at 34, I'm actually facing more complex challenges right now than I ever have before. And I'm doing good. The 20s are rough. THEY END. I know this won't be everyone's experience but it will be for so many!! Look after your beautiful selves and hang in there. ❤

    • @chelsea545
      @chelsea545 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      This is so encouraging! Thank you. I'm 28 right now and planning out my next phase of my life

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      All I’m hearing are facts.

    • @HiThereLindsey
      @HiThereLindsey 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Definitely not everyone's experience. I'm 34. My 20s were great but I realise I was suppressing a lot. I only got into therapy little over a year ago and before that was the darkest time in my life I wanted to take my own life. I'm only now starting to feel like myself the real me. ❤

    • @natalielloyd9200
      @natalielloyd9200 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@HiThereLindsey definitely acknowledge that! Sorry it's been so rough 💔 Mine is just one experience but hoping it encourages someone. Sending peace and wholeness xxxx

  • @TM-kh7el
    @TM-kh7el 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

    It's rough baby girl. I was in ICU for two weeks, just two weeks ago because I decided to self-terminate. It was (and still is) a dark time, but we keep pushing. I too am glad to have the support system I have, and have gotten the medical help I need. I also do realize that not everyone is this lucky. My heart goes out to everyone feeling un-okay at this moment. I'm praying for us all.❤

    • @melvinaJenkinsDavis
      @melvinaJenkinsDavis 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      OMG!! I'm so glad you are ok❤ You are so worthy to be here. Life can be so overwhelming but every day that you are here you have the opportunity to make today better than yesterday! it's can be hard but you are strong enough ❤

    • @chiisuchi1102
      @chiisuchi1102 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      i'm so glad you're okay. you are a worthy individual and i hope you find peace and meaningfulness in this lifetime

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I’m so grateful to hear that you’re getting help. You deserve to be here and I’m glad you’re pushing through the darkness. You’ve got this. ❤️

    • @kenitabaum4843
      @kenitabaum4843 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are here and you are loved. It will get better . Sending you love and healing ❤️‍🩹 ❤❤❤

  • @FitzgeraldTheGreat28
    @FitzgeraldTheGreat28 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    My…mom is gone. I’m really very not okay.

    • @hiddenbeauty12
      @hiddenbeauty12 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I just lost my grandmother who was my other mother. I called her Mama. Also very not okay. In this with you. ❤

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I’m so sorry. Please reach out for support right now. Grief isn’t meant to be gone through alone. If you don’t have a trusted person/people, please look in the description box for a bunch of resources. You will make it through. Time heals all wounds and your memories of your mom are immortal.

    • @Rainorshine004
      @Rainorshine004 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤ 🙏

    • @Rainorshine004
      @Rainorshine004 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@hiddenbeauty12 ❤ 🙏

    • @Kaz11999
      @Kaz11999 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      💛💛💛💛 sending you love

  • @NXD_95
    @NXD_95 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    we live in a time in which it should be easier to survive and live. every corner of the earth of course has its own issues, each country has its own tribulations, all walks of life are different. yet, this is still supposed to be the best of times. however as a collective, we are going THROUGH IT. gentle reminder that we have all made it thus far, so there's no reason to believe we won't be able to keep going despite how dire any of our situations may be. wishing safety, peace, and happiness for all of you xoxo

  • @Rainorshine004
    @Rainorshine004 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Im not in my 20s. Im way older. But this really helped me. Godbless you and thank you 🙏

  • @TT-fn1xb
    @TT-fn1xb 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Everyone who is struggling with something needs to watch this video. Danielle, thank you. This video is exactly what I needed to hear.

  • @bethanybennett3384
    @bethanybennett3384 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was beautifully put ❤️❤️

  • @jackieworrell2450
    @jackieworrell2450 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video and your message❤

  • @supernova7063
    @supernova7063 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a beautiful soul. So many people needed this, especially if they have absolutely NO ONE to go to. I am walking in Truth and Faith, and the small circle I once had is gone gone. I have separated from them because of my Walk and now isolated. Believe me, I have had my 'moments' but I stay in prayer and in gratitude. It is a lonely walk but I believe I will find my new circle. I continue to pray, read my Bible, follow Torah, listen to positive content, WALK outside, and now that cooler weather is soon to come I will start to exercise outdoors. Also considering solo travel (still working up the nerve), but yeah, whatever will keep sadness at bay. Your pep talk is much appreciated. Todah Rabbah 🙏🏽.

  • @LordisLove367
    @LordisLove367 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Star Puppy:)
    🙏🏾💯💕🫶🏽🙏🏿💯💕🙏🏽

  • @RadicalforGod
    @RadicalforGod 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We are under ultra mk threat and it’s unnecessary. This is why it’s going to ever be so much important to put the most high first. Trust and believe put him first. Pray like you never did before. What is putting him first looks like? Don’t violate your faith. Don’t compromise what you know what is wrong. Stay on the righteous path if this helps. And stick with likeminded folks even if it seems like its not the majority of them. Be a leader!

  • @eartha.
    @eartha. 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    who do i talk to??????? I literally have no one This is never going to get better

    • @hind4339
      @hind4339 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You can talk to me on the comments section!I promise to keep you in my morning prayers (dua) and to read and respond to you.i know this is 4 days late but i hope it reaches you.

  • @xikrx5951
    @xikrx5951 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yeah those "what ifs"?

  • @JelaniRoberson
    @JelaniRoberson 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i just clicked to see if your eyes were really that big

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +175

    Sending out HUGE HUGS to everyone that's not feeling okay right now! 🫂🤗🫂🫂🙏🏾

    • @skyelynnae
      @skyelynnae 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yes, I need the virtual hugs in the season!!

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@skyelynnae - Chiiiiiiiiiiile, me too! 🤗🫂🙏🏾

    • @lawrup
      @lawrup 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sometimes you need big brothers help

    • @tammyhazeleyedcountrygirl
      @tammyhazeleyedcountrygirl 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Back at ya. Thanks. 🙏🏻

    • @omghi95
      @omghi95 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🎬🥰❤️

  • @Starryknightskies718
    @Starryknightskies718 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    Most of us don't want to put the burden of our pain on those we love, especially if we know they are probably going through their own...

    • @melvinaJenkinsDavis
      @melvinaJenkinsDavis 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      I understand what you are saying and I was there too and I suffered alone. Trust the people that love you to help you because if it was reversed you would move heaven and hell for them. Let them love you through, they want too❤

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      This part

    • @KeyKeyJournals
      @KeyKeyJournals 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That’s how I feel, I have weekly panic attacks and I call 988 to talk instead of calling family because I don’t want to burden them.

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    We all need Jesus!!!❤❤❤ Keep at it!! Thank you for the video!!

  • @milenghirmazghi9133
    @milenghirmazghi9133 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Please don’t cuss yourself out, sis, YOU are “people,” too … sending love 🫶🏾 despite not being ok either

  • @Search4Cherise
    @Search4Cherise 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    I've been battling postpartum depression 🙏🏿♡

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You’ve got this. ❤️

  • @rychipuff
    @rychipuff 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    my gf of over two and a half years broke up with me through text a week ago. i was institutionalized and while it helped im still struggling really hard. havent gotten one of your videos recommended in a while, and i really needed this. thank you

    • @itsLayshia
      @itsLayshia 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Sorry to hear that..I hope ur getting better. I can't imagine dealing with the emotions of something like that. Some days, just getting up & out bed of bed may feel like a task so if you feel that, I can relate. Sending you virtual hugs & peaceful energy 💓

    • @melvinaJenkinsDavis
      @melvinaJenkinsDavis 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sorry you are going through such a hard time. It sucks!!! But you are not alone. It may feel like it sometimes but you are not! The other side of this is a life where you are happy and whole! Stay positive, stay focused on you and the things that bring you joy because happiness is moment by moment but joy in im the heart. Also and most important remember that you are loved. I don't know you but I love you too..Peace and blessings❤

    • @joannsims8288
      @joannsims8288 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stay strong💪Keep going ❤❤❤❤😊

    • @cortney2631
      @cortney2631 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I had a psych ward stay last year around Thanksgiving, they are really hard places to be, but they do help with (some levels of) stabilization. I'm sorry you went through that, and I hope that things get less heavy for you.
      One of the things I did a few months after leaving the ward was enroll in behavioral intensive outpatient therapy (IOP) treatment, it really really helped because they taught healthy coping skills, we did a deep dive into emotions, and I was around people who understood and could relate to the feeling of having to go through some of the things I went through to get help. I don't know if this helps anyone, but thank y'all for being a really compassionate community❤

  • @ebonywatson9939
    @ebonywatson9939 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    I haven’t been ok for quite some time and I can’t get it down to one or a few things that’s making me feel this way, it just sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ebonywatson9939
    @ebonywatson9939 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I think most of us are really good at hiding it. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @anythingispossiblewithgod1879
    @anythingispossiblewithgod1879 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
    6 In all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct your path. PROVERBS 3 verses 5 and 6. The Bible also tells us " come unto me all who are weary and are heavy laden and I shall give you rest."
    God is the answer. He helped me.

  • @Amira2.00
    @Amira2.00 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Ive had 3 deaths in my family back to back with in the same week and dealing with a breakup

    • @chiisuchi1102
      @chiisuchi1102 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      so sorry for your loss, please try and take care of yourself and talk to someone if you can!!!

    • @aielianna
      @aielianna 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i’m so sorry

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’m so sorry to hear that. PLEASE reach out for support from trusted people in your life. This is a very delicate space to be in, please honor your grieving period, but please please please don’t go it alone. (I’ve made that mistake).

    • @brittnylaurel
      @brittnylaurel 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same also had 3 deaths back to back in the family. Sending you lots of love and support!! And please find support system as I went for a long time without one. 😖

  • @serekaallen4195
    @serekaallen4195 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    You helped me. Thank you. I was crying and feeling extremely overwhelmed before i came upon your video but you helped me to realise a number of things that are important. Number one thing is im not alone and it takes strength to reach out and get help. Ive restarted my therapy and i really cant wait till my next one. Thank you so much for the encouragement.

  • @BlameItOnMercury
    @BlameItOnMercury 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Thank you, Danielle...I feel completely dead inside. I do not have support, but I appreciate you making this video sister.

  • @christinegabrielle1665
    @christinegabrielle1665 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    The timing of this video is impeccable, thank you so much

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you! It took courage to publish it, but I was hoping it would help someone. ❤️

  • @debbygift5314
    @debbygift5314 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    The way this is actually perfect timing is actually scary but this was so helpful, thank you!

  • @SpoiledHUNNIE
    @SpoiledHUNNIE 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The reality is that we have not been ok collectively for many, many years, decades even. The pandemic sped things up and brought this un-wellness to the surface. Now, it's so heavy and intense we are at a cross roads; having no choice but to acknowledge it on some level. Whatever you and everyone else is going through, I hope and wish you all to be kind and forgiving to yourselves. We're gonna get through this.

  • @2FreshKicks6
    @2FreshKicks6 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I was traumatized (very nearly SAed) just four days ago by someone i have to see regularly for the sake of keeping my nose and only my congested nose above water financially and they think its a fucking joke.. they actually laughed when i confronted them about what they did and i dont feel safe around them.. while my support outside of work is really helping i think its time to have regular check ins done at work since im now being moved to work with the aggressor on a daily basis.. i think i know who that safe person is and i will be taking their offer to talk on monday

  • @js.3157
    @js.3157 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thank you very much for this video. I was able to get an internship after I graduated. Now that it’s ended and I wasn’t able to get a job during that period (like I expected), I started feeling down on myself. I’d feel good and like I did my best in the interviews, but it feels discouraging when there’s no answer back. I’m not sure what to fix, but I know it’s also tough to get a job right with it being election season. Doesn’t make it feel better though.

    • @fruitsarelife7073
      @fruitsarelife7073 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Ouuhh went through the same thing for a while!! It’s a phase, don’t worry, start with something smaller for experience, then try again.❤

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’ve been there! I agree with @fruitsarelofe7073 and I’d like to add my two cents. Never EVER don’t use your network. A direct contact is your strongest tool for getting jobs. All those contacts from your internship? Hit ‘em up and ask them to put in a good word for you at their jobs or associated work. People trust established employees more than ANY cold call/resume. You’ve got this!!

    • @js.3157
      @js.3157 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@fruitsarelife7073 thank you very much. I know it’ll be okay ❤

  • @kellymckinney3630
    @kellymckinney3630 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I left a job that was becoming a bit toxic. I don’t have a job and behind on bills. Yesterday I found out, one of my closest friend died the previous day. I’m definitely not okay.

  • @tgrey_shift..mp334
    @tgrey_shift..mp334 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I just put my mom in the grave today. Thank you so much Danielle…
    I cannot thank you enough…

    • @jojoyaa
      @jojoyaa วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sending you love❤

    • @YOYO-dv8gv
      @YOYO-dv8gv วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sending virtual hugs and lots of love hun ❤

  • @savingsdiary
    @savingsdiary 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    But what if you don’t have people to help you 😔

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Please check out the description box, I compiled a bunch of resources. 🙌🏾

    • @ashaflowers5626
      @ashaflowers5626 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I understand this. I am lucky to have my partner and a therapist, but The Untold and Humans Anonymous apps have been reeeaalllyy helpful for me when I feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to 🩵

  • @moriahadams7895
    @moriahadams7895 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m 27 and feel like I’ve accomplished little to nothing. I’m completely exhausted. I’m completely not okay. I’m too ashamed to even share why I’m not okay. I dread most days. I don’t know how I keep presenting like nothing is wrong everyday without anyone noticing. I’m incredibly sad and yet incredibly comforted that I’m not the only one feeling this way. I hope things change for us all, and that as things change, it gets better.❤

  • @thegooddinggleberry
    @thegooddinggleberry 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Homie, I'm here with you. My health care system is failing me. I was supposed get an MRI for declining health, but between a lost referral and a slow system. I'm getting one in December. 7 months after the order. Thank you for your words. I felt like I'm the only one who's life is on fire inside and out.😂😂😅😔

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Ohhhhhh you’re gonna feel real seen with my upcoming series 👀

  • @flyygurl18
    @flyygurl18 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Beautiful video: I think this type of content is so needed in general right now; I definitely needed this. Thank you Danielle 🖖🏾🤲🏾☀️

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you! I needed to see THIS. 🥹

    • @flyygurl18
      @flyygurl18 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheStarPuppy Emotional. 🥹

    • @flyygurl18
      @flyygurl18 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheStarPuppy 🥰

  • @gloriaogara
    @gloriaogara 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    thank u for this im taking it as a sign bc it’s perfect timing. im struggling with my relationship with my parents more than ever… im 20 but they still want to control me like a child😢 thank god i have friends and a bf i can talk to. praying i can move soon by fire by force and i will learn to live in peace and tranquility

  • @themzie
    @themzie 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    20s talking again❤❤❤ thank you so much for this

  • @ChocolateQuill
    @ChocolateQuill 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    We're all in this together y'all.

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      **teary-eyed High School Musical choreography**

    • @ChocolateQuill
      @ChocolateQuill 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@TheStarPuppy *melody off tune on a recorder*

  • @Giftini
    @Giftini 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    So glad you're doing better Danielle, I think a video about healthy ways of dealing with disappointments and life not turning out how you'd hoped would be a great discussion. I guess we see so many success stories and not as many oops I failed stories.

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Perfect. I’m on it.

  • @sharonbaker3007
    @sharonbaker3007 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank you so much for sharing this Danielle…something that should be super obvious is impossible to remember when you’re deep under. Thank you.💙

  • @AngieB819
    @AngieB819 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Job 8:8 For inquire, I pray thee, of the former age, and prepare thyself to the search of their fathers: 9) For we are but of yesterday, and know nothing, because our days upon earth are a shadow. Selah

  • @IAmBuddythedecibwave
    @IAmBuddythedecibwave 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My Therapist...used my therapy against me because I tried to discuss anti-racism and the feelings I struggle with. Im tired of trusting people and having them betray it in the worst ways. We don't know each other...but thank you for this small video. This world is a dark place, and I dont think I have the capacity to keep getting back up.

  • @MsNeal2023
    @MsNeal2023 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I clicked so quick. I missed ya girl!!! So nice to see you girly. I truly hope things get better dear. You are truly amazing and thank you so much for sharing / checking in. 🤎

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!! I’m happy to be back and I really and truly doing my best out here ❤️

  • @EgyptianLemon
    @EgyptianLemon 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sending out hugs to everyone! Just wanna say that it might take for what feelings like forever but things do get better. I'm finally in a good place after like two years of struggle. 😅

  • @Chiiilenga
    @Chiiilenga 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    thanks I really needed this❤

  • @lavishjules
    @lavishjules 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    27 seconds might be my new record for clicking and downloading a video. 😅

  • @dn7877
    @dn7877 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    It's gonna be just fine! What helps me is focusing on what's positive, counting my blessings, I have a home, food, my family is safe, the thing that really makes me feel good is helping others. I volunteer at the homeless mission at my church, I feel great after helping someone else. God bless you baby girl

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Excellent outlook 🙌🏾

  • @TheNeemaPuddin
    @TheNeemaPuddin 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Star puppy and fluff nugget.... hugs and kisses and im talking about run up from afar and jump hug! I've missed you.

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Glad to be back!

  • @MiaCarter7
    @MiaCarter7 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ve been depressed and struggling for the past 11 years. I keep trying but it’s like nothing seems to be working. I keep praying and somehow still have hope, but the mental anguish is wearing on me physically too…and the money is funny too

  • @AlekcisIwiye
    @AlekcisIwiye วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Virtual hugs to everyone reading this ❤

  • @Misscarter86
    @Misscarter86 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I lost my 10 year old son to heart rejection last Christmas and I don't want to be here anymore

  • @AngieB819
    @AngieB819 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ecclesiastes 10:7 Folly is set in great dignity, and the rich sit in low place. 7 I have seen servants upon horses, and princes walking as servants upon the earth.
    Did you know that this land is called Mystery Babylon? Everything is upside down. The Truth is in reverse, my sister.

  • @khanyisile458
    @khanyisile458 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    ❤We've got this. Thank you, Danielle ❤

  • @anishaalexis7443
    @anishaalexis7443 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “Emotions are information.” I love that.

  • @Halfricenne
    @Halfricenne 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    This is me! Absolutely watching bc I’m in the same place. God sustains us and creates perseverance in us. We will have a testimony to share 🩵

    • @Halfricenne
      @Halfricenne 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ahh first?

  • @jenniferknaff10
    @jenniferknaff10 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Friend, I’m just tired😩❤️

  • @KayJones-vn6ud
    @KayJones-vn6ud 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Literally paused the video and called a friend. Very helpful

  • @froschool
    @froschool 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    First for the first time in a WHILE 💜

  • @NicoleJButler
    @NicoleJButler 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Girl... yeah. All of this.
    We gon be alright, just not today.❤️

  • @YouAreForAPurpose
    @YouAreForAPurpose 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jesus cares for you. ❤ Love you.

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only way to get through right now is spend hours dopamin detox and not moving and doing breath work and being creative.

  • @SnowzZ.
    @SnowzZ. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have been in virtual School ever since the pandemic it was my choice because I hate being around other kids and other teachers and I had just moved to a new school that was very unfamiliar to me. And I felt especially uncomfortabl when it came School in general I felt slow compared to my classmates (except for special ed class I almost aways felt safe in there)
    The reason I was going to a new school is because I was getting abused by some relatives when I was at the last one in another state that was also pretty new to me.
    I am incredibly lonely and my family can't afford a pet. If I go back to regular school I'll feel lonely there too I always did. I've been bad rotting for 3 years I'm in my senior year of high school with a 1.8 GPA I have selfsabotaged myself for 3 years and I feel so hopeless I don't do the work and I don't because I feel like it won't be perfect and I know that but I still haven't done anything about it.
    I HATE this part of my self so much even as I'm typing this I'm skipping a class and I hate myself for it. Every single day for 3 years has been the same wake up, scroll, eat, sleep and then stay up till 3 I'm so TIRED.

    • @auroraborealis2187
      @auroraborealis2187 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I sorry you're experiencing this right. I am sending you virtual hugs. Please fight for the parts of YOU that you love, live, or even just interest you. Hold on to that part of You it helps to stay afloat until you can get to the shore. I hope that makes sense. Wishing you well. Just a thought maybe volunteer at an animal shelter to connect and help. There might be professionals in your area that may offer pro bono services. Be Well

    • @dgossipgirl
      @dgossipgirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      virtual friend, please remember that you aren’t feeling it alone. your sentiment was so similar to mine i had to comment. the pandemic took a detrimental toll on my mental health. paired with virtual classes, i nearly lost it. I could barely keep up. When I returned to in person learning, I felt awkward and slow around my classmates. It really improves with time. I promise I know how hard it is, please find the strength to keep going! + ask for extensions on work if you can, that helped me a lot.

    • @SnowzZ.
      @SnowzZ. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@auroraborealis2187 thank you♥️

    • @SnowzZ.
      @SnowzZ. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dgossipgirl And thank you too ♥️

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I understand what you’re feeling. Please just know that this is a temporary phase of your life! The next parts of your life are going to be full of hope and self-assurance, all you have to do is bet on YOU. I completely agree with @auroraborealis2187, volunteering (especially with animals) is a fantastic idea. Not only will it give you a sense of helping creatures in need which feels awesome, but also you’ll be introducing yourself to a whole new community of people. Who knows? You might find more kindred spirits. You can do this, take it one day at a time. You’ve got this.

  • @tracywilliams1484
    @tracywilliams1484 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    From your last video, I sensed that you weren't ok. I prayed for you, and I am so proud of you for this video. The best is yet to come. ❤

  • @EpicRealistTV
    @EpicRealistTV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I enjoyed this video! You speak so well as always and you have fired me up. 37 yr old mom of 5 here still battling PTSD from 5 years of CSA and things from the aftermath. My marriage has some serious struggles at the moment and I really don't want to divorce. So I am constantly working on myself.

  • @Luba.Lukasa
    @Luba.Lukasa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    my best friend of 6 years told me he didnt care about me and his dad started mentioning all the things he hated about me, that was my only support system, im no contact with abusive family and i just feel so alone, im so tired im jus so tired

    • @Luba.Lukasa
      @Luba.Lukasa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      nobody cares and i just dont see the point of this anymore. i have nobody theres no other choice but to isolate

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’d like to offer you this: the people who would worsen your life are not in it. I know you feel lonely right now, but it is a GOOD thing that this “friend” revealed their true colors so you can remove them from your sphere.
      When it comes to isolating, I want to encourage you to sign up for one social thing. Maybe a good drive, an animal shelter, a sports league, etc. It sounds like you’ve got the great opportunity to meet a whole new crop of people. You WILL find a true friend and build a support system, just one day at a time. Also, for now, I’ve got a bunch of resources in the description box for immediate support. Talking about it with a live person is AMAZING stress relief.
      You can do this. ❤️

    • @blessings4eva863
      @blessings4eva863 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I isolate as a defense mechanism so I can relate to your situation. Although my isolation is deliberate I do feel deeply alone at times. One thing I lean heavily on is my faith. I pray you will find hope and peace to help you through. Please don't give up.

  • @susanwright6168
    @susanwright6168 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have missed the twenties talks and this was really sweet. Thank you for sharing this with us. I felt a kindredness with everything you said. I wish we all weren't hurting so much.

  • @theneverknowgirls
    @theneverknowgirls วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its okay to not be ok, I'ma be praying for you Danielle 😭🙏 it's been a while sense I've seen you dear. I've been going through so much fpr years now . Now this year me and my family are battling illness, money issues. Not ..ok.....I'm trying to keep the faith. Food to high, never enough money. I care I wish I could have been there for you and so many others. As a empathy it's hard out here. It's rough for to long. I'm so happy to hear you have a good support , system.😢 I've been trying to push away the mental breakdowns the drainage of emotions and what I'm going through. I think therapy's good .....can't afford it tho, but I'ma try and get some. Sending lots of love and hugs Sis love everyone here!! Stay safe be careful

  • @bunnybean3872
    @bunnybean3872 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank You

  • @dvckbby
    @dvckbby วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have Borderline Personality Disorder and I have been going through it. Crazy social media posts, withdrawing from loved ones, bed rotting, feeling lonely. also experienced a painful betrayal and break up last month from the longest relationship I had ever been in. I genuinely do need help and love and community. I crave it actually more than money. I really needed this video to remind myself that I do have people I can talk to and ask for help. I just have to get over the first obstacle:myself. ❤

  • @ZooSignCosmos
    @ZooSignCosmos 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Full moon is full mooning

  • @tonie48
    @tonie48 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve been putting off this video. My patient died today and I was the only one there in the last moments 😭😭😭

    • @binibini7975
      @binibini7975 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re an Angel💛

    • @tonie48
      @tonie48 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@binibini7975 thank you 😭😭 that’s what people keep telling me, idk if it sunk in yet, but I just keep swatting away the “what if” questions. Thank you ❤️

  • @binibini7975
    @binibini7975 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this video. Been riding with you since 2020. This is your BEST this far!💛💛

  • @theneverknowgirls
    @theneverknowgirls วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ive been in quarantine all year only going out for my docters appointments

  • @riri_williams3193
    @riri_williams3193 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I clicked because my daughter said that your video is always on time for her. I watched your channel way back when u and your bf were sharing together. My trauma started at birth, been through alot but I've never been "not okay". I just get life and all the struggles that come with it. I feel bad for anyone who has that struggle. It's a terrible feeling. Glad people like you exist to support those who need support❤

  • @ravenpate9547
    @ravenpate9547 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t think I’ve had time to grieve the losses I’ve suffered or am suffering because everyday I get up and do the same routine so I never really sit down and just think about OK I’ve lost family. I’ve lost jobs. I’ve feel like I’m losing the battle with my anxiety. I feel like I’m losing the battle with my trichotillomania mania. I just feel like I just haven’t had time to process the things that are going on because you just kind of become a robot and don’t really think about it and just wake up and go work and come home wake up go to work come home so I think that all that being piled onto you and not knowing what to really do with it I don’t know. I just feels like I can’t get out of this. It’s not even a hole it’s just, I’m lost and I’ve been lost for a long time and I’m tired of being lost.

  • @Sabrielaaa888
    @Sabrielaaa888 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You're very beautiful 💗🩷

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ☺️

  • @srslydoatm9251
    @srslydoatm9251 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm only 26. I've never driven on the road before. My father is sick, and it feels like people are avoiding us. What do I do? I feel like I've put myself in a hole I can't get out of

  • @LovelyWinter7
    @LovelyWinter7 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jesus loves you star puppy!

  • @ravenpate9547
    @ravenpate9547 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You always come through when I need you the most 😂❤❤❤❤❤ love you

  • @Lele20.20
    @Lele20.20 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for posting this, I really needed to hear someone else say it 🥺♥️

  • @itsLayshia
    @itsLayshia 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    6:50 is tooo relatable..that's all me, all the time.

  • @HannahYael-MayaDevi
    @HannahYael-MayaDevi 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ty for choosing to uplift others as you go this life. You’re worth more than you feel! You are a valuable human being! One millisecond at a time is how we should take life because we control very little but not feeling alone helps so much. And remember speak life giving word to yourself and others!

  • @someanon1984
    @someanon1984 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for this. I'm really not okay.

    • @someanon1984
      @someanon1984 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Reporting back to say that I think I've dealt with the issue. Things are indeed going to be fine... But I'm still scheduling a counselling session because damn. LOL

  • @monochromesoul5873
    @monochromesoul5873 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The super moon in Pisces seems to be hitting hard 😭😅

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh wait-I didn’t even know. I think that’s the most Pisces thing I’m gonna do this year lol

    • @monochromesoul5873
      @monochromesoul5873 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheStarPuppy You should definitely look into its events, it was a strong one this time.

  • @LovelyTayy
    @LovelyTayy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video 🩷⭐️🐶

  • @imperfectworldimperfecthum5015
    @imperfectworldimperfecthum5015 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bittersweet seeing everyone sharing in the comments. To throw my own into the mix, I found out recently I have an autoimmune disorder, likely lupus and I’m scared about how to navigate it and learning how to ask for help/dealing with losing people I thought would stick around.

  • @fancyorangemittens
    @fancyorangemittens 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I need to hear this, but it is too much rn. I'm gonna come back to it tomorrow, hopefully.

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Throw it on repeat if you need to!

  • @KemasDiairy
    @KemasDiairy 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you soooo much today was my first day with a counselor and I watched this on the way there

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so happy for you!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rdary5793
    @rdary5793 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    good looks ❤‍🩹

  • @alanadavis8568
    @alanadavis8568 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    @5:43 to @6:00 yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes

  • @minzzles
    @minzzles 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What is up with that thumbnail lmao

  • @LG-universe
    @LG-universe 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Danielle ❤️

  • @sable7114
    @sable7114 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes, know that you are loved! Is that your same dog he is so cute! I need a dose of Serotonin

    • @TheStarPuppy
      @TheStarPuppy  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’ve got two at the moment, very adorable, very chaotic 😂 ❤️🐶🐶❤️

    • @sable7114
      @sable7114 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheStarPuppy Ahh, can I have one?😍 since losing my dog several years ago and then a bird after that, I just haven't been able to get another pet. Too much pain to lose them

  • @randomcitizen3939
    @randomcitizen3939 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you ❤

  • @elah96
    @elah96 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Motivation vs discipline 🤗

  • @cheriamour111
    @cheriamour111 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ty ❤

  • @Denise_Cocoa
    @Denise_Cocoa 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Needed this badddd, thank you! And sending love to everyone in the same boat. Let’s try not to sink! 💛