Lost Interest & So Over It *Cartier Love* | Luxe Chit Chat | Kat L

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  • @jo_overjoyeod
    @jo_overjoyeod หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I totally understand Kat. when i have big meetings where i need people to take me seriously or just pay attention to the content presented to them, i remove all my bling, and i wear only the very small low profile pieces like single motif sweet alhambra. the makeup is clean, the outfit is simple. but once those events are over, all the bling return to their rightful place 🤣🫣 take the bracelet off, keep it aside for a while and see how you feel later.

  • @kathypolsgrove7874
    @kathypolsgrove7874 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Sometimes we just need a break from something we are too used to. Put it aside for a few months, no reason at all to sell it. Just think of the bags you rotate. Sometimes you’re into them and sometimes you use it a little less often. But then spring comes around, and you love it again! I think you would miss it if you sold it. I have wanted one for so long, and now I’m ready to purchase and thought too… is the trend over, but NO, jewelry is not a trend, if you love it, wear it! I’m getting mine next week, but at a much higher price point than what you got 😆. Just put it aside for now…. You may regret it if you sell it.

    • @DaniOchannel
      @DaniOchannel หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with this comment. 😊

  • @el3yonel7azeneh89
    @el3yonel7azeneh89 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cartier bracelets ( love and JUC) are not flashy at all.They are simple , timeless and classic. Maybe they are everywhere but definitely for a reason.
    I still don’t understand why you care if others pay attention to what you are wearing ?? Then sell the Birkins and Kelly too. They are more flashy🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @myyellowfeathers
    @myyellowfeathers 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I felt the same way few years back. I had the worst love and hate relationship with it. I also felt it was flashy and felt I had to hide it. I took it off until I decided to put it back on few months later when I saw someone else enjoying her love. Now I just wear it like it’s just part of my arm and not care so much. I think it was just all in my head. Maybe 5 love would be flashy but one is fine 😊

    • @KatL
      @KatL  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love this, thank you for sharing. After taking it off for a bit, I do miss it . Probably will wear it again later 😘

  • @mamaandharry4573
    @mamaandharry4573 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Completely understand your sentiments regarding Singapore corporate environment and luxury items. It’s not like no luxury but wearing less “flashy” items to attract less attention. I’ve worked in sg. If this the only or primary reason then I’d say keep it but put it aside. Don’t forget this job may not be forever, things will change and the joy of the bracelet may return in its original way. ❤

  • @ThisBagLadyJane
    @ThisBagLadyJane หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kat, have you ever shown all the charms on your Nomination bracelet? I just bought my daughters one but they both only have one charm. Do you still add to yours?

  • @theturningstar
    @theturningstar หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow, I am surprised you sold the JUC bracelet. Selling is a hassle too. The price of the love bracelet with the new hinge now is so much higher than what you got yours for. Unless you really need the money, I'd say keep it.

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everyone goes through changes and whatever you want to do, it's your decision ❤😊

  • @helloaiya
    @helloaiya หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In Italy now listening to you…Hubby hearing you said it’s not speaking to you anymore… Out of the blue, he said “give it to me then…”😂

    • @KatL
      @KatL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol

  • @_juju_5
    @_juju_5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I too have a love/hate relationship with my LᎾVE bracelet. Sometimes i go for weeks or months wearing and loving it, but when I don’t feel it , i just switch out into something else. It may not be the end of an era, we just change our taste from time to time and feel like using a different piece or stack.

  • @mulberry888
    @mulberry888 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Kat, i don’t think your love bracelet is flashy at all as it doesn’t have any diamonds. I think it’s pretty ‘normal’..
    I see many ladies, even in high management positions wear bracelets too. But they do just wear 1 and not a stack la.
    However if the love bracelet is no longer giving you joy, and making you uncomfy, then just remove it! Life is too short to be doing things that makes us feel not good 😉..
    Keep it first and decide later whether to sell or not.

  • @roluvsh
    @roluvsh 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Maybe take it off and keep it for a while so you can make a better decision? It’s normal to find something boring or lose interest after a while. One is constantly evolving. The Cartier Love bracelet is a simple design. The popularity and price is more intriguing than the design/bracelet itself. I completely understand the uneasy feeling when meeting new people due to first impressions. It’s normal to want to appear modest and professional. I have times when I look at mine and think it’s pointless, while I have moments where I love it so much because I genuinely love jewelry.

  • @itz_zephyrx8974
    @itz_zephyrx8974 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg, I am having the same feeling with you. I have removed love and JUC bracelets that I have been wearing for 2 years. I want to sell them too, but the quote I got was very low on love bracelet. So for now I would keep both, even though, I have not wearing them. So far, I don’t miss them😂

  • @lance_chow
    @lance_chow หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's okay to feel that way when it is no longer giving you joy. Take it out and see how you feel without it. You still have it so you could always put it back when you feel like it 😊
    Have you also consider wearing the love bracelet on its own, maybe on your left hand?

    • @KatL
      @KatL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haven’t tried on my left but good idea

  • @Nana-ney
    @Nana-ney หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have mine for years and the meaning behind it make it even more beautiful. I got that from my husband on our 5th anniversary. I love it and maybe if you choose something because is trendy, maybe is this why you get bored of things sooner. I would never sell it, just give it to my daughter one day

  • @kklvoescc
    @kklvoescc หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I definitely feel the same way. I don’t think it’s flashy but I do think it feels dated a bit. Maybe take it off but don’t sell it immediately and just see how you feel? We all know it’s not a great time to sell luxury. Do what feels right! 💚💚💚

    • @alisonuy2604
      @alisonuy2604 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it is making you uncomfortable for sure take it off! Why make yourself suffer! But i would hold on to it to see if you change your mind on it. I personally feel it is a classic piece, I had mine for 7+ years! The reason I love it is because you cannot take it off, otherwise I would have lost it already.

  • @Lee73Lee
    @Lee73Lee หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would stop wearing it for a year, see if you miss it, and then sell it if it's still not resonating. That way, it's not a rash decision. I stopped wearing my Tiffany bracelet for many years because I stopped wearing silver and only recently started wearing it again this year because I added a new charm on it to make it a bit more unique. Glad I took it off, kept it, forgot about it, rediscovered it, modified it, and am enjoying it again. Maybe you will too :)

  • @alfonsca
    @alfonsca หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would definitely keep it. Just take it off perhaps and let the style “rest” for a moment. Life tends to circle ⭕️ back and this way, if you want to, it’s there for you instead of having to pay close to $8k USD for the feeling again. It’s totally okay to fall in and out of love with a piece. That’s the joy in having a collection ❤.

  • @meltluvsluxe952
    @meltluvsluxe952 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I find it interesting that people who love and purchase luxury fear others perceptions of them. You’ve worked hard and earned the right to wear what you want. You shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable over someone else’s discomfort in what you own. It would be different if you had a growing disgust for luxury and decided having items no longer appealed to you. I think you should sell only if you don’t like it anymore. I have the cuff style on my wishlist.

  • @fredvisaya
    @fredvisaya หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg! I was wondering what happened to your JUC bracelet! I'm somewhat new to the luxury jewelry world...hoping to love my pieces for many many years!
    Thanks for sharing!

  • @star4sp
    @star4sp หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Kat, I would ask yourself what it is that you think people will think if they see your bracelet? What is it that you fear? I wear all of my jewellery and I never think about what people may think of me because of what I’m wearing. Are your fears based on reality? It sounds like you’re overthinking it? ❤

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me personally I don’t care for the love bracelets anyway, mainly because it’s too mainstream. Every mom at my daughter’s school has it. I was thinking about getting the serpentini bracelet from Bvlgari and I fear it’s going to be the same.
    Just take it off girl, it’s not that big deal.

  • @maka2224
    @maka2224 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd rather have an old Cartier bracelet than an old, worn or beat up Birkin or Kelly bag.
    I would keep it, if you still don't wear it in the next few years you can still sell it (maybe you can get it for more than you will get now). Take it off for a while, maybe you'll enjoy it again. I also did it once with my love bracelet.

  • @danielintheantipodes6741
    @danielintheantipodes6741 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It may be worth taking it off and archive it for a while until you are sure. You can always sell it later on. Once you know. Thank you for the video.

  • @Monkey-oy1us
    @Monkey-oy1us หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love your chit chats, q&a, and collection videos

  • @alexis_austin_tx8145
    @alexis_austin_tx8145 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I use to have two stacked and ended up removing one of them a few months ago pretty much for the same reason like you. I did leave one on only because it was gifted to me and I would feel terrible removing it since it was gifted.
    I would not sell it and maybe leave it at a safe for now because you might regret it with how expensive gold is getting.
    Have a wonderful weekend 😊

  • @alfonsca
    @alfonsca หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the OG Setup!

  • @Rory.Hazell
    @Rory.Hazell หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kat may I ask in what field you work or what is your profession?
    Only if you are comfortable sharing. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @teddythetinyterrier
    @teddythetinyterrier หลายเดือนก่อน

    Personal taste evolves over time. I don’t think the love is flashy but it’s about your comfort zone. If you don’t have any other Cartier pieces I would hold onto this one. You might regret letting it go. My views on luxury have drastically evolved since the pandemic with price, quality, crime and sm over saturation. I no longer have the clover bangle. Over time I found that too flashy and I felt that I didn’t feel like it was me. It felt too feminine. I was also constantly worried about crime with it. And I fell out of love with it seeing the number of influencers with it and fakes sold online. Also paying to insure it annually was annoying. Love is a classic. Lots of people have it and wearing one is not loud. I think Hermes bags these days is very loud. They’re very flashy. I know what you mean with the juc. I think when I got it I thought it bc it is a classic item I thought every luxury lover needed in their closet. The thing is there are many classic pieces one can admire but does not need to own. Juc is heavy and shaped weird and so masculine. If I were to do it again I probably wouldn’t buy it.

  • @stephainelee2499
    @stephainelee2499 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it depends, at some levels of corporate, the bracelet should be fine. If you are meeting all levels (sorry for a lack of a better word) of staff and clients, then yes sometimes it may be taken against you because you are seen to too "elite" or "show off". Maybe just remove it and keep it for a period as many have suggested. Its a classic piece and may speak to you again when you are older. I mix my jewels.. some are real diamonds and some are just 18K plated look like dupes. Frankly as long as you carry yourself well and look the part, no one is likely to be openly critical! And well there will always be someone richer, or more stylish or more put together or wearing her role better comparatively, no end of comparisons :)

  • @kris_tan
    @kris_tan หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Kat, if the bracelet no longer brings you joy or feels uncomfortable, it might be a sign to remove it for a while and see how you feel without it. Jewelry should always make you feel good! You can always come back to it later if you miss it. Life’s too short to hold onto things that don’t bring you happiness 😊.

  • @ancui_08
    @ancui_08 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I would sell it and buy a 3to5 carat tennis bracelet for the daily 😊

  • @evanlau8
    @evanlau8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    byeeee love bracelet. u been there for a while :P

  • @olgailiadi9135
    @olgailiadi9135 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kat, the old version is better quality than the new one, so it is better to keep it. It is not flashy at all to hide it. You bought it, you did not steal it. Moreover, the people you are dealing with are not homeless, what’s the reason to feel uncomfortable. Don’t be overthinking about the bracelet, it is not a kidney. You tired of it, remove it and wait for a while. It is never too late to sell it. Enjoy life with or without it!!!

  • @drlessismore
    @drlessismore หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your honesty. Put it away for a few months and see how you feel. I’d say loose it. It’s not that deep. A simple beaded bracelet picked up on a trip maybe more special for you 🌷🌷

  • @Roxas9822
    @Roxas9822 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the love bracelet ❤❤
    I respect your opinion ❤❤

  • @Lovecookie67
    @Lovecookie67 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The love is a very basic classic staple. I don’t think you need to be worried even in the corporate world that it’s flashy if you’re just wearing one. If you don’t love it let it go.

  • @jheisparkles
    @jheisparkles หลายเดือนก่อน

    It may be that you’re over luxury in general. Genuine question, do you think doing the LLS enables you to hang on to luxury, when perhaps you’re ready to move on?

    • @KatL
      @KatL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very interesting question! I’ll do a luxe chitchat on this! ❤

  • @parisryan5950
    @parisryan5950 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got the bracelet from my loving sister, never took it off ever since it was put on my wrist.

  • @emr3306
    @emr3306 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was never a huge fan of the love bracelet (idk it always felt like a handcuff to me due to the screws and that you can't remove it spontaneously)...but I have to say it looks great on you! I would put it aside for a while...you could never get it back for such a good price. I wouldn't sell it! ❤

  • @premeyumlife443
    @premeyumlife443 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take it off but don’t sell it. The original LOVE r the best. If u lose a screw, Cartier will replace it so don’t worry. Keep it my lady. ✨❤️✨😘😘😘Sandy

  • @openopenclosedclosed
    @openopenclosedclosed หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think maybe just take a break from it 😊
    And i know it sounds like a lot, but give it a year or maybe even two..? Before deciding to sell or give away.
    I've gone through phases of being completely over something, to then rediscovering it later and falling back in love - so there miiight be a chance.
    Like, its not working in this current phase of your life which is fine, but it might bring you joy in the next.
    And with the current prices, its hard to justify buying another one - I'm not sure if there are many good deals pre-loved either, so I vote for keeping it for a while and seeing how you feel later.

  • @stuartmaybe1745
    @stuartmaybe1745 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You had it and now you decided it is not for you. It is very recognisable, and show off as way of communication and you not comfortable with it. I do understand your feeling.

  • @clongt7926
    @clongt7926 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh... keep it, leave it on. Give it a chance. ❤

  • @nomnomnom298
    @nomnomnom298 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hot take but I just don’t see anything special about the love bracelet. It’s not that interesting nor is it good looking (idk for me it’s just piece of metal and I can get that anywhere). And then with the issues with screws that’s just not worth at all for the price tag.

  • @violinstar123
    @violinstar123 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hahaha YOU DID WHAT! HAHAHH YOU SOLD JUC -VIVILUNA

  • @track4ad
    @track4ad หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the fan blowing at your hair...... looks so model-esque and high glam. LOVES IT

  • @anselbaby2851
    @anselbaby2851 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would advise you NOT to sell it for at least a year. Your reasons are very valid, but,, life and situations change. I have jewelry pieces that I have worn years,, and then I set aside to rotate my other pieces. I fall in love with them again later Cartier is an iconic house, and as you know the rise of price points and decline of quality woudl encourage me to wait forr a whle. Let us know what you decide. ❤❤

  • @yyl5336
    @yyl5336 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the look of the love bracelet without the screws. The screws are just so meh-ish..a single gold bracelet will be good n elegant.

  • @fongcheryl5188
    @fongcheryl5188 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww Kat just remove it.. I feel whatever we put on, it must give us positivity. If you need to adjust your outfit/clothes to hide it, nope that should be removed yah. Items on us should make us happy, smile.. and when we feel down it uplifts us! But I don’t feel it’s doing any of it for you, dear.. so remove it please. Not necessarily to sell it off but you can always put it aside.. I have the thinner version love bracelet that isn’t so flashy and much easier to put on/off, but I only wear it when it suits my outfit or mood.. be happy, sweetie! Do what makes you happy k? ❤❤

  • @silvanasam7151
    @silvanasam7151 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi kat! Fine jewelry is like our clothes…after a while , we do get bit bored and need to change things up . Perhaps remove your love , put it away for 6 months . I have both love and juc, I don’t wear them together.

  • @Jazpink26
    @Jazpink26 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Pardon me for saying this. Your tattoos are louder than your Cartier.

    • @KatL
      @KatL  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂trueeeeeeeeee🎉

  • @rinrain58
    @rinrain58 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sleep on it. There's a period you were also done with your luxury items and selling them all, then suddenly you came back buying even more high end luxury with Hermes and all. Keep it aside first. 😉

  • @ypf7717
    @ypf7717 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Since u got it at such an affordable price, just let it go. U might make some money out of it. I’m sure this one is not the only bracelet in this world that you (will) like. 😊

  • @melaniefields4589
    @melaniefields4589 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To me the love looks classy and safe and can be professional looking. To be honest more than 2 holes in the ears is not very professional looking to me. It looks more casual. I would much rather wear the bracelet than to have many different kinds of earrings in my ear.

  • @ET_8lienet
    @ET_8lienet หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel u should just remove first n see how you feel without it. Don’t be too bothered on how others may judge. I don’t care now. I hard earn my money so I spend the way I like it. Others saved it for what ever the reasons but I spend for my own reasons.

  • @tiffanynguyen343
    @tiffanynguyen343 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes! You are rambling, just take it off. We get bored with old stuffs, shoes, handbags… not just only this bracelet. It is not flashy, it is so basic, everyone is having at least 1 love bracelet now. It everywhere. It not even worth to buy a real one now.

  • @ebud
    @ebud หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think remove it and see how you feel without it before you sell it!❤

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    @jojos4eva หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @mjingj
    @mjingj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nails and screws. Cartier bracelets are a scam. At least alhambras look nice.

    • @KatL
      @KatL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @daisyt1199
    @daisyt1199 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that is the only one pretty you have in your hand, the others are ugly