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@@shaileshk7396 iss duniya ke sare problems ka jud aurat hi hai...... I know it better than men because I am a woman and I know it's only a female who finds it difficult to be compassionate
Its there. Its still has many other problems. Life is full of tests. I have seen men like them and still having tough life cause the wife ismt supportive. Many a times women only prefer men who are tough in the exterior.
@@birdieblue19No need to brainwash sons to help their wives. They work outside in harsh environment while wife has to work in safety of home. If she cannot even handle that ane asks husband to help, then when will husband get rest? 😢 Comes home exhausted to a wife who screams at him to do chores. No need for such wives.
My father has never been supportive to my mother in any aspect of life. My FIL did the same to my MIL. Now these four just can't digest that my husband is so affectionate and supportive to me. Well I enjoy their jealousy and resentment to the fullest 😂😂
Mubarak ho ek tou help b krta h husband aur bore b nhi hoti hogi kyu ghr m drama ki kami jo nhi h bhai life tou aap jee rhi hu hum sab tou bas saans le rhe h😂😂😂
90 nhi 1000% problems khtm ho jaye gi... Alhumdulillah humre ghar mai aisa nhi hai hum phle hi bhaiu ko ye bat bolte hain k humre sath jese marzi raho apni wife k sath ache se rehna unki help krwaya krna apni ammi ko bhi ye bat bolti rehti hun k apni bahu k liye bhi wese hi rehna jese humre liye hain helping nature hlanke humri ammi boht pyar krne wali hain phir bhi Me bar bar ye bat bolti rehti hun.... Ye alag bat hai k abhi meri engagement hoi hai or meri hone wali sasu maa Abhi se roob jharti hain jese Arrange nhi love marriage ho rhi ho meri😅😅😅ye alag bat hai k me ne fiancee ki pic bhi just ak bar dekhi hai 😂😂😂😂
@@Momalert Ary nhi love nhi arrange hai ap meri bat ka meaning nhi smjhi shaid me ne kaha k wo mj se aise roob jharti hain abhi se jese log love marriage wali bahu pe jharti hain😅😅😅
Ye line mujhe itni chubhti hai na jiski koi had nhi hai. Ldka hokar kam krega kya, kyu wo koi bhagwan hai kya insan hi hai na. Wo kam kr lega to aasaman pht jayega kya, sunami aa jayegi kya.
Aasha karti hu Aapke husband ne aapka saath diya ho, aise waqt agar sath na de koi aisa jo maine rakhta ho toh bahoot bira lagta hai. If he is still helping you despite all than better and if he doesn't then don't loose hope and stand firm with your values.
Thanks for this comment, whole comments re about saas bahu but even in the ad her hurt start with the fact that they don't help in the household before getting married, hope they realize this If they were helpful from the start I'm pretty sure there would ve been no issues from the mother
The problem is if a woman knows that she was never helped by her husband then she must appreciate her son if he's helping his wife....,u know that's how it'll begin...., if a husband will help her wife in the kitchen there'll be no need for a woman to compare herself with her daughter in law....,,if she was never helped by her husband them she must appreciate her son that atleast he's doing what she expected her husband to do...,that's how things change but instead they start comparing themselves with their daughters in law and ruin everything....,that's really bad....,and eventually both (the son and the daughter in law) will be working for the family only....,then why not accept the better things rather then complaining? Ye toh matlab wali baat ho gyi na k mujhe ni mila toh in bacho ko kese mil skta h...,arre agar apka beta ek acha pati ban kr apni biwi ki madad krega toh kal ko apki bahu ko apki tarah ni bnna padega k vo bhi apne bete ko ye sb bole kuki uska pati toh hmesha uske sath khada rha h
Women must unite and stop patriarchal bargaining. This way they'll realise that they don't need any men mandatorily in their lives and can survive by co-operating with each other.
@bapparawal2457 true, ppl never realize the root prob and argue for the cause that benefit them It's hurtful when there's no help at home but once they re married there's a whole new person Like they just take mothers and even sisters for granted
So called mother's ki hypocrisy Kabhi khatam Nahi hoti....khud ko mahaan manne main jindagi khatam ho jaati hai 😂😂😂😂...insano main hi ye ghamand hai...maa ta jaanvar bhi bante hai.lekin itna ghamand nahi dekha hoga kisi ne 😅😅😅😅
Tum bhi usi mese ho shayad... 😂 Khud sudhar jao feminism hi khatam ho jayega Aurate ki 99% problems aurate hi khadi karti hai. Men's bhi same situation me hai par usme percentage thode Kam hai 😂😂😂
Exactly, you stole my words. I always says the same thing, ye insaano me hi hai, hamne janam de diya, khila diya pila diya, padhai me paisa kharch kar diya, pal paske bada kar diya, ab inko harzaana chahiye sab, maa baap ne kiya apne aulaad ke liye to ahsaan h aur wahi aulaado ne kiya maa baap ke liye to farz h, wah😕😏. Isse acche to jaanwar h jo apni aulaad ko farz aur nature ka law samajhke palte h, aur badalme ye expect nhi karte ki badalme jo hamne ye kiya ab tum hamre liye ye karo. Aur duniya 🤮chhaati pitati h, bullsh**t🤬
The only difference is that at the end, these stuuborn mothers never admit their mistakes and eventually force their sons to either end their marriage or kick his parents out of his life
Mere garpe ulta he😂 my husband helps me a lot a lot around the house and he’s actually encouraged by his mother to help me around the house and when he does that my mom thinks i am not doing right with him 😂
Most of the abuse cases start when the mother of the husband instigates it. This is because her mother in law acted in that way and somehow she feels that she has the right to put her son against his wife. When will they realize that they are not only destroying the poor wife's life but also their precious son's. Healthy marriage leads to happy life. I honestly feel disgusted about the women who try to rob other women's joy and happiness. My grandmother had hysterectomy against my great grandmother's (her mil) wishes. It was necessary as she was loosing a lot of blood during her periods but her mil wouldn't agree and tell that it was not a real problem and she's just wasting money. Later after the operation, when my grandmother was sleeping she pulled the bed so hard that my grandmother's stitches were ripped apart
Wow sir thats well said. 😊 Because when your sons wife says my husband is so well mannered and if they too have a daughter or your close and loved one have a daughter. Then definitely she will say that hope pur daughter or our relatives daughter get as good husband as I got. This line what uncle said or when a wife things that she got something perfect is the sign that the parenting has given good fruits.
This is very personal between husband and wife their understanding...and it's family and home...we all have to work equally...bahar thode kar rahe hai apna hi to Ghar hai
Meri saas b asei h meri prgency k time hsbnd bartan dhone lge to bolti h tu kyu kr rha h wo kregi na or khudki beti ko bolegi wo ni kr skta kya tu kyu kr rhi h
Reality is that this line won't change her mindset and behaviour. That's why Islam is against joint family system. Allah has given the wife has the right for separate accommodation.
Acha hain ki last dialogue bolne mei yahan uncle jii ko independence hain, mere yahan pe bolna chahte phir bhi dailogue bahar nie niklega uncle jii ka bhi unke bete ka bhi 😅😂 kitna toxic hote hina MIL’s
Jaisa daamad or saas ham apni beti ke liye chahte h waisi hi saas khud ban jaye or bete ko bhi waisa banaye to sari batiyan khush rahegi apki bhi or dusro ki bhi
The fact that the mum literally called herself out by basically saying she didn’t teach her own son to help his wife in the household they share!🙄 Good on dad for making his point loud and clear!
To people who are saying "aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai" and praising the man for the last line.... I wonder if the man making the sarcastic comment to his wife actually helps her himself in the kitchen or if he's just giving faltu ka gyaan. If he truly helped his wife, his son would have seen this growing up and the wife would have felt normal about this.
Lmao the jealousy running in her veins towards her daughter in law. 😂 An average mentality in some of the older women that enables them to bully their own daughter in law and treat them like shit.
The last line was lit🔥... This is exactly what all of us need to understand!
Yes 👍
Isiliye to kaha jata hai...aurat ki sbse badi dushman aurat hi hai
Itihas gawah hai Arefa naam ki ladkiyo meh attitude ki kammi nhi hotti khud ko mughalo ki maharani samjhti hai😂😂😂
@@shaileshk7396aur sabse badi dost bhi.
@@shaileshk7396 iss duniya ke sare problems ka jud aurat hi hai...... I know it better than men because I am a woman and I know it's only a female who finds it difficult to be compassionate
This ad should be telecasted on loop in between Indian TV shows, bcz this issue is so real.
You mean telecast...
Really good idea
In every language 😅
Not only in India this ad is much needed in Pakistan too😢😢😢
But should also add that women take care of Old in laws and not just enjoy hard earned money of Hubby
Uncle Rocked, Aunty Shocked!!👏🏼👏🏼
😅😅😅
Shik shak shock 😂❤😅
😂
😅😅😅
No,no,no aunty ki mkc
This is the mentality of most people out there! They want their son in laws to be helpful, yet they don't allow their sons to be helpful! Two-faced!
only the boomers and gen X
millennials hopefully will end this BS!
Another faked bhaichara manipulative productions
Yes, but I am happy , son is understanding.
Hypocrite Lady🤡
Last line proved that ek aurat ke dukh ke piche doosri aurat hi hoti😂
Sahi me 80% of time
Exactly sb jaga yahi h zadatr
😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely true. Its a bitter truth. Coz women feel jelous of other womans comfort
Exactly..😂
The last line 🔥.....we all want this much of understanding,but we don't have 😢
This name
Yeah ! Let’s start from us then. ❤
I liked uncle’s tone. Simple yet effective.
These kind of men unfortunately are only available in ads not real life...wish more men were like this
Because they listen to their moms more, especially after they get married
@@amritarajamanithen teach your son not to be like that. A mother with a son soon becomes mother in law. Facts
@@birdieblue19 of course.
Its there. Its still has many other problems. Life is full of tests. I have seen men like them and still having tough life cause the wife ismt supportive. Many a times women only prefer men who are tough in the exterior.
@@birdieblue19No need to brainwash sons to help their wives. They work outside in harsh environment while wife has to work in safety of home. If she cannot even handle that ane asks husband to help, then when will husband get rest? 😢
Comes home exhausted to a wife who screams at him to do chores. No need for such wives.
Little smile in boy face make him proud for his father.
My father has never been supportive to my mother in any aspect of life. My FIL did the same to my MIL. Now these four just can't digest that my husband is so affectionate and supportive to me. Well I enjoy their jealousy and resentment to the fullest 😂😂
Good for you ❤️❤️
Congratulations 🎉
Mubarak ho ek tou help b krta h husband aur bore b nhi hoti hogi kyu ghr m drama ki kami jo nhi h bhai life tou aap jee rhi hu hum sab tou bas saans le rhe h😂😂😂
Women hi women hi dusman hoti, chahe Dahej me ho, ya property distribution me, jis din saare aurat ek saath aa jayegi na toh 90% problem ho jayega
90 nhi 1000% problems khtm ho jaye gi... Alhumdulillah humre ghar mai aisa nhi hai hum phle hi bhaiu ko ye bat bolte hain k humre sath jese marzi raho apni wife k sath ache se rehna unki help krwaya krna apni ammi ko bhi ye bat bolti rehti hun k apni bahu k liye bhi wese hi rehna jese humre liye hain helping nature hlanke humri ammi boht pyar krne wali hain phir bhi Me bar bar ye bat bolti rehti hun.... Ye alag bat hai k abhi meri engagement hoi hai or meri hone wali sasu maa Abhi se roob jharti hain jese Arrange nhi love marriage ho rhi ho meri😅😅😅ye alag bat hai k me ne fiancee ki pic bhi just ak bar dekhi hai 😂😂😂😂
@@husnaina6377 really? Love marriage m pic ekbar kese dekha usse mile bhi to honge na🙄
@@Momalert Ary nhi love nhi arrange hai ap meri bat ka meaning nhi smjhi shaid me ne kaha k wo mj se aise roob jharti hain abhi se jese log love marriage wali bahu pe jharti hain😅😅😅
@@husnaina6377 acha acha smj gayi ap bhi fer smbhal ke rehna apne sasu maa se😅😂
So true
Ek orath dusri orath ki dhushaman hoti hey yeh baat har ghar mey hoti hey
Please stop saying that... it's just the personality...
@@akhilamohan9415😂😂
My MIL created a huge fight when she saw my husband helping me.... She said ladka ho k vo kaam krega kya...
boldena tha toh app krdo lol
@@preritabhardwaj114😂😂😂😂
Real@@preritabhardwaj114
Ye line mujhe itni chubhti hai na jiski koi had nhi hai. Ldka hokar kam krega kya, kyu wo koi bhagwan hai kya insan hi hai na. Wo kam kr lega to aasaman pht jayega kya, sunami aa jayegi kya.
Aasha karti hu Aapke husband ne aapka saath diya ho, aise waqt agar sath na de koi aisa jo maine rakhta ho toh bahoot bira lagta hai. If he is still helping you despite all than better and if he doesn't then don't loose hope and stand firm with your values.
Bilkul Sahi baat
Beti Khush rhe to maa Khush
Ager bahu Khush rhe to maa preshan.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ये ही तो बताया गया हैं इसमें! बहु खुश हैं तो उसे शक की नजर से देखते हैं कि वो इतनी खुश क्यू हैं?
Bahu aur beti ko waise bhi ek jaisa kab treat kiya jaata tha !!😢
Or bahu b kb saas ko maa samjtii hai 😊😊
Problem both sides se hai jnb
@@maliktariq8643 Agar SaaS pehle din se hi bahu ko beti ke Tarah treat kare n..to bahu bhi apni SaaS ko maa hi manegi n..
@@Unknown_User2311nahi, kayi bahu ghar aati hi saas par anger rakhthi hai
@@wowser2153Correct, nowadays daughter in law is the main cause of family problems.
That father is father 😊😊😊😊
The problem is we never help our moms in kitchen. Why not start with that?
Exactly
Thanks for this comment, whole comments re about saas bahu but even in the ad her hurt start with the fact that they don't help in the household before getting married, hope they realize this
If they were helpful from the start I'm pretty sure there would ve been no issues from the mother
The problem is if a woman knows that she was never helped by her husband then she must appreciate her son if he's helping his wife....,u know that's how it'll begin...., if a husband will help her wife in the kitchen there'll be no need for a woman to compare herself with her daughter in law....,,if she was never helped by her husband them she must appreciate her son that atleast he's doing what she expected her husband to do...,that's how things change but instead they start comparing themselves with their daughters in law and ruin everything....,that's really bad....,and eventually both (the son and the daughter in law) will be working for the family only....,then why not accept the better things rather then complaining? Ye toh matlab wali baat ho gyi na k mujhe ni mila toh in bacho ko kese mil skta h...,arre agar apka beta ek acha pati ban kr apni biwi ki madad krega toh kal ko apki bahu ko apki tarah ni bnna padega k vo bhi apne bete ko ye sb bole kuki uska pati toh hmesha uske sath khada rha h
please start by helping your mom. but in case you dud not help your mother does it mean you should not help your wife?
Sometimes, 1 min. YT short teaches us more than a whole 2 hours movie!!!
So true ❤
Yes very true ❤
Short, very effective and heart touching information
Women must unite and stop patriarchal bargaining. This way they'll realise that they don't need any men mandatorily in their lives and can survive by co-operating with each other.
Mujhe pehle samjh hi nhi aaya ki pehle toh aunty g khush thi fir baad mai naraz kyu ho gye fer dubara dekhkar samjh mai aaya 😂😂😂😂
Very good response from papa at end....society needs to change our perception of our roles. Men n women take EQUAL responsibilities at home.
Ek aurat ko sadion se dabaya geya hai , kisne dabaya unko
Ans : Dusri aurat
Wahh sai kaha 😂 ye to h
😂😂fact!
@@Asfafaisallol acting like men do not exist
No - real answer is men. Kab uss SASUR ne SAAS ki help ki? Kab beta ne MAA ki help ki?
@bapparawal2457 true, ppl never realize the root prob and argue for the cause that benefit them
It's hurtful when there's no help at home but once they re married there's a whole new person
Like they just take mothers and even sisters for granted
Last line says everything about mindset ❤
So called mother's ki hypocrisy Kabhi khatam Nahi hoti....khud ko mahaan manne main jindagi khatam ho jaati hai 😂😂😂😂...insano main hi ye ghamand hai...maa ta jaanvar bhi bante hai.lekin itna ghamand nahi dekha hoga kisi ne 😅😅😅😅
Tum bhi usi mese ho shayad... 😂
Khud sudhar jao feminism hi khatam ho jayega
Aurate ki 99% problems aurate hi khadi karti hai. Men's bhi same situation me hai par usme percentage thode Kam hai 😂😂😂
Exactly, you stole my words. I always says the same thing, ye insaano me hi hai, hamne janam de diya, khila diya pila diya, padhai me paisa kharch kar diya, pal paske bada kar diya, ab inko harzaana chahiye sab, maa baap ne kiya apne aulaad ke liye to ahsaan h aur wahi aulaado ne kiya maa baap ke liye to farz h, wah😕😏. Isse acche to jaanwar h jo apni aulaad ko farz aur nature ka law samajhke palte h, aur badalme ye expect nhi karte ki badalme jo hamne ye kiya ab tum hamre liye ye karo. Aur duniya 🤮chhaati pitati h, bullsh**t🤬
The only difference is that at the end, these stuuborn mothers never admit their mistakes and eventually force their sons to either end their marriage or kick his parents out of his life
Acha lagta hain aise advertisement dekh kar... unfortunately real life has a different scenario...
Thank GOD by Mom in Law was a superb joyful lady.
❤❤❤
Mere garpe ulta he😂 my husband helps me a lot a lot around the house and he’s actually encouraged by his mother to help me around the house and when he does that my mom thinks i am not doing right with him 😂
Most of the abuse cases start when the mother of the husband instigates it. This is because her mother in law acted in that way and somehow she feels that she has the right to put her son against his wife. When will they realize that they are not only destroying the poor wife's life but also their precious son's. Healthy marriage leads to happy life. I honestly feel disgusted about the women who try to rob other women's joy and happiness.
My grandmother had hysterectomy against my great grandmother's (her mil) wishes. It was necessary as she was loosing a lot of blood during her periods but her mil wouldn't agree and tell that it was not a real problem and she's just wasting money. Later after the operation, when my grandmother was sleeping she pulled the bed so hard that my grandmother's stitches were ripped apart
My father in law was the same as this mother in law he used to say aww today you are in the kitchen why?
Woah! Hats off to the person who could understand that someone else is also a human ❤
It is a sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (saw) to help wife with household chores
Such a father in law! ❤
Wow sir thats well said. 😊 Because when your sons wife says my husband is so well mannered and if they too have a daughter or your close and loved one have a daughter. Then definitely she will say that hope pur daughter or our relatives daughter get as good husband as I got. This line what uncle said or when a wife things that she got something perfect is the sign that the parenting has given good fruits.
Its all about control... noone wants to be fair or.honest... just greedy and manipulative
This is very personal between husband and wife their understanding...and it's family and home...we all have to work equally...bahar thode kar rahe hai apna hi to Ghar hai
Meri saas b asei h meri prgency k time hsbnd bartan dhone lge to bolti h tu kyu kr rha h wo kregi na or khudki beti ko bolegi wo ni kr skta kya tu kyu kr rhi h
Reality is that this line won't change her mindset and behaviour. That's why Islam is against joint family system. Allah has given the wife has the right for separate accommodation.
The line of the dad in the end should be in billboards all across India!😂
Should learn this..❤
Every one needs father in law like him❤❤❤
For a moment I thought this was some detergent powder ad 😅
Its not just about daughters and daughter in laws. My own grandmother scolds us when we ask help for housework with our brothers and cousin brothers.
Real woman..
Hats off!! Great message❤❤
Women need to support each other.Be it a a mother in law and daughter in law or any relation women must understand and support each other😊
The transition from mother to mother in law was flawless😂
He could explain and she could understand because they have a daughter. Women who enter as daughter in laws in daughterless households have it tough.
Right ✅
Great message ❤
yaar kitne chill uncle hai ..... kaash sabh aise hi hote 😊
Searching this gem from years and finally..❤
so truee 🥲
But one thing the mother said was true that son should help his mom also❤
Exactly
Uncle ji jese sasur sabko mile at least he can understand the situation respect 🙏 for Uncle ji❤
We need more understanding father's like this ❤❤❤
Uka papa sach bathya...❤
Perriioodddd
Said rightly by someone "A woman itself is an enemy of another woman".
Man, the Ghadi ads were all incredible ♡
Bhaut sahi kaha 👍
Waah yrr 😢
Masha Allah 👍👍❤️❤️❤️
Great thought Uncle ji,
Very true ❤
Acha hain ki last dialogue bolne mei yahan uncle jii ko independence hain, mere yahan pe bolna chahte phir bhi dailogue bahar nie niklega uncle jii ka bhi unke bete ka bhi 😅😂 kitna toxic hote hina MIL’s
पर सास भी कभी बहू थी और आप भी तो एक दिन सास बनोगी फिर कोई आपके लिए ऐसा लिखेगा😂😂😂
If all the women, all mother in-laws understand this,, then all daughter in-laws can live happily after marriage 😊
Yes. Most families need this. Your daughter in law is also someone else’ daughter
Bolte hai ek aurat aurat ki dusman Hoti hai aaj dekh bhi liya aisi saas kabhi bahu ki maa nahi ban sakti aur log bahuo ko Galt bolte hai
Socho agar uncle ki soch bhi aunty jesi hoti to ya fir wo bolte hi nahi to?
Jaisa daamad or saas ham apni beti ke liye chahte h waisi hi saas khud ban jaye or bete ko bhi waisa banaye to sari batiyan khush rahegi apki bhi or dusro ki bhi
Wah uncle last line was excellent
Real life ma aisa hota ha kya😂
Yea
Kyun nahi ho sakta?
Series name ??
Ad hai Cadbury ka
@shivamsharma7646
I don't think Cadbury ki hai
Washing powder ki hai
Now that is a great Dad! Making mum-in-law realise the error of her thinking.
I wish there was a golden buzzer for this line.
Love the way two perspectives are presented here.
I am proud my mother taught me every household work and made me ready for the world ❤
Good message for society 😊 through the reel 🙂
This ad is needed to be telecast in Bangladesh too. ❤️💚
The fact that the mum literally called herself out by basically saying she didn’t teach her own son to help his wife in the household they share!🙄
Good on dad for making his point loud and clear!
Mere payar bhi yese hi h my love 😘
That literally made me cry😢😢.
Nobody addresses the misogyny practiced by women themselves.
To people who are saying "aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai" and praising the man for the last line.... I wonder if the man making the sarcastic comment to his wife actually helps her himself in the kitchen or if he's just giving faltu ka gyaan. If he truly helped his wife, his son would have seen this growing up and the wife would have felt normal about this.
There should be someone in the family who advices at the right time. If not, such people won't realise and spoil everyone's happiness. 😢
Great message!
This what actual father in law should be salute
W father 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Radhe Krishna ❤
Uncle well said ❤ but hard to find these kind of people 😢
Very true...well said ...💚💙👍👍
Thank you ❤️👍
Because it's someone else's daughter. According to her, he can only be "maa ka ghulaam", but never "joru ka ghulaam".😂😂 The double standards.😂😂
Very True I think every mother in law should treat her daughter in law as her own daughter ❤❤
Kudos...for beautiful methodology to convey great message to society...❤❤
This is AD worthy material it actually teaches society!
nice msg well said.... that's beutifuly presented....
Mothers in daughter's home smile
Mother in son's home toxic face
Why does this sort of woman still exist to destroy son's family..
Lmao the jealousy running in her veins towards her daughter in law. 😂
An average mentality in some of the older women that enables them to bully their own daughter in law and treat them like shit.
Supreme papa👌