Affordable Self-Care as a Working Mom of 3 living in the Township

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  • Don’t complicate self care.
    Welcome to another episode of my busy life as a working mom! 🌟 In today’s vlog, I’m taking you along on my self-care adventure that balances the chaos of motherhood, work, and a little pampering! 💆‍♀️✨
    From dental check-ups to delicious recipes, I’m sharing the real-life juggling act of being a working mom, and I can’t wait for you to see how I manage it all!
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  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So proud of you! Your third book and you’re a wife, mom, careeer woman, hustler and everything in between. 🙏🏾🌻🍃

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Sis 😍🙏🏾 the Lord has been good to me

  • @Mandycebekh
    @Mandycebekh 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "i get to is a great reminder to be grateful, being content. in that manner you serve without complaining im sure everyone loved those they look so good

    • @Mandycebekh
      @Mandycebekh 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the place is beautiful loving the it

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They were all happy 😍🙏🏾

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you 😍🙏🏾

  • @KeneiloeGTPapo
    @KeneiloeGTPapo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I get to serve my family as a stay at home mom, when I left my job last year a lot of people were not understanding but the call for me that after I served my job for 3 and a half years. Now we home school and spend more time with the boys. I’m happy but my family is happier. God is sooo good and I get to do a lot with my family… I had missed this and God answered this prayer❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh wow Keneiloe this is so beautiful we thank God for making a way for you to be there for your family .

    • @lifewithvivienne2171
      @lifewithvivienne2171 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also left me job in 2023. My friend kept saying "So you spent 7 years to qualify as a chartered Accountant just to be a housewife" . But I'm so much happier because business opportunities have then presented themselves and now I have the flexibility I needed

    • @KeneiloeGTPapo
      @KeneiloeGTPapo 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ look at God, He rewards faith I tell you. I mean how would you have known if you hadn’t left???? So happy for you my sister ❤️

  • @simplysinovlogs
    @simplysinovlogs 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    13:40 oh wow Joey🥺this is so profound actually and I will take this in and choose my words wisely going forward… 16:33 I’m actually more disciplined when ordering online cause I search for exactly what I want, in store I go to the wrong isle and I’m buying stuff I shouldn’t be… 19:42 I’ve only gone to a massage once and I plan on going again this year

  • @LungisileHadebe
    @LungisileHadebe 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am afraid of talking to strangers ans shem I have never had a bad encounter mara
    You introduce your kids to things then they use your things my face wash
    3rd book in Jan, wow mommy thats impressive well done
    I love it when mothers take care of themselves and pour into their own cups it makes me happy

    • @LungisileHadebe
      @LungisileHadebe 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the cookies look so good mama well done, its a privilege to serve our families
      good customer service i love that
      buying myself coffee is how i take care of myself

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol Sisi yoh our things but we had good intentions 🤣🤣🤣. I’ve been intentional about it. Thank you Sisi

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love that you take care of yourself 😍

  • @elentsimpson1180
    @elentsimpson1180 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thankyou sister for sharing and godbless ❤❤❤.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome Sis 😍🙏🏾

  • @polokontamehlo
    @polokontamehlo 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The way I'm so overwhelmed these days. I need that spa

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry hope that you get your rest soon

  • @leannedlamini1570
    @leannedlamini1570 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I also love serving my family, sis! I also always try to have dinner ready for them when they get back from school, they finish quite late here in Dubai! I don’t bake but if I did I would also be making yummy treats! You’re amazing! 🤩 😊

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love that you are also serving your family, it really matters Sisi ❤️🙏🏾. I am learning how to bake by force lol 😂

  • @SetyenzwaGcali-bv5zg
    @SetyenzwaGcali-bv5zg 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you mme Dlamini for the vlog i really enjoyed it❤️🥰

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it Sis 😍

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh wow, we go to the same dentist 🦷. He is so good, been with him for 20 years 💛🌻🍃

  • @Kcmatela
    @Kcmatela 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I get you hey, mine might not be as bad but I avoid going to the dentist all the time, luckily I get reminder calls from my dentist office and that helps, I have not yet received a call yet and I know I’m passed due for a wash🙈 😂
    Love that you’re already on the 3rd book of the year, such a great start ❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I told them that they must remind me because I will then feel guilty 😂😂🙈

  • @og_media_za
    @og_media_za 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good day, mommy ❤😊

  • @winnierampe5634
    @winnierampe5634 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We enenjoyed the Vlog ❤🎉

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for watching 😍🙏🏾

  • @lethabomokobake
    @lethabomokobake 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the outfit 🥰🥰🥰

  • @fortunatemabhuya9885
    @fortunatemabhuya9885 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @polokontamehlo
    @polokontamehlo 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My Beautiful Sis❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you sis for all the love ❤️

  • @mokgadimorapi
    @mokgadimorapi 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey sis, watched yesterday and forgot to leave some love, bathong o chaba dentist, nna it’s gynaecologist shem, I am so happy you finally ordered online 😀, once you do you going to be addicted shem, as for looking for inkomazi neh 😂😂😂, lovely blog oh and the lashes so affordable, Yoh as for massage must be there every month we shall get there , lol yes that bathroom door it’s so cute I saw it at my sisters place. Swedish massage neh 😂😂😂😂😂 ke fedile shem, yah a nap usually helps after the massage hey, I was really looking forward to lashes they so affordable.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haha sis the lashes are really affordable neh, I need to get some 🙏🏾❤️. I just made a new appointment. lol my English data ran out

  • @Makkhado
    @Makkhado 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful shirt Sis Joey,love the material and the cut too.....
    Eish with me,I don't like going to the gynae😢😢but I have no choice.....
    I've never done Swedish massage before,will try it sometimes.....

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know Sis, I hate that appointment but we have to take care of ourselves. Thank you Sisi

  • @NelisiwimamerapeloMamera-hh3yy
    @NelisiwimamerapeloMamera-hh3yy 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤😍

  • @Nonz
    @Nonz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I need that Swedish massage 😂❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣🙈I was not ready for it

  • @kamo_mbatha
    @kamo_mbatha 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Sesi❤
    Anything medical related, injection, tooth extraction lol pain is not for me oh. I also delay the dentist visits, i will take grandpa until its not helping me. 😂😂😂yours is worse sis Joey, childbirth takes the cup for me, i was standing on top of the bed when i was supposed to sleep and push the baby out 😭 Amen 💪🏾😅 you got this. Mhhh i see you wearing the rings, so cute 🥰
    Third book 👏🏽👏🏽 that quote is profound, Its a blessing be able to serve our families. 😂😂😂a real Housewife, i like that for you

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I can manage labour pain it is worth it the rest can miss me . That quote really helps me to remember what is important

  • @ntshesetshepe396
    @ntshesetshepe396 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Tshetshe 😍🙏🏾

  • @johannamanchu
    @johannamanchu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Haibo I am still on my first book😂😂wena u are on 3rd, true it’s a necessity now to go to a Spa cz wow our body are going through the most,aaah there is improvement ge as long as u were better than the last time, its red onion😂that looks healthy so. Haha the way u are gigling😂hahah girl why, I get to cook for my family❤❤❤I love it, thanks for using the online service to simplify your life and optimise ur time ❤❤Hahha no Mina I use more money when I go to the shop so online works wonders for me. You looked amazing ❤❤it’s good for blood flow so I do it and Thai depending on the muscle’s tension, hahaha ur poor body is relaxed u need to just rest ❤❤❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol I did say I am going back to my love for reading I am now intentionally again about it. I think I am afraid of online that is why I spent less 😂😂

  • @alicenxumalo
    @alicenxumalo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dumela MmeDlamini 👋👋,I'm scared of heights 😢. Massages always feel tiring 😂😂😂Then relaxing afterwards ❤

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol they do hey but the rewards are worth it. Dumela Sesi Alice

  • @nomsamzozo
    @nomsamzozo 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The only doctors visit I dread is to the gynae. The sound of steel in that room 😫

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I lost my comment yho
    that book must be a good read, Swedish massage sounds amazing.
    You get to bake for your family.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I get to Sisi which is a blessing 😍

  • @Naizabae
    @Naizabae 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    WOW WOW mommy I enjoyed this vlog so much, I dont how you select your music im enjoying the new music on the vlogs.
    LOL hubby is trolling you why does he think you dont know 360

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol imagine ore kengwana wadiplaseng 🤣🤣

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here Joey❤

  • @johannamanchu
    @johannamanchu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hai Mina at this point am no longer scared of anything, I think I have been to most dr a lot in the past year an now use to all the needles and the pains that comes with them, whenever my tooth starts I rush cz I can’t stand that pain, I need to face water ke sana, am dealing with the trauma abit by bit ge, remember they use to extract the tooth ka garane 😂😂😂

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol I remember that one hey . Yoh Bitso nna le pain we are not friends lol

  • @MrsA-s1j
    @MrsA-s1j 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey sis ❤

  • @og_media_za
    @og_media_za 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:26 Very wierd 😂😂

  • @Mbalenhlechrissie
    @Mbalenhlechrissie 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lapho I just came back from a dentist to remove a wisdom tooth😂 I’ve been postponing until it escalated last night

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sorry but why do we wait until it is too late

    • @Mbalenhlechrissie
      @Mbalenhlechrissie 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ 😂it’s the fear I guess, I’ve extracted a lot of teeth since I was young so nje the idea of it😂

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Mbalenhlechrissie Eish I get you hey like I would rather do other things

  • @felicity_kn
    @felicity_kn 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I fear Pap smear 😭I did it once after giving birth. That was three years ago. I’m still scared😩nthuseng. I’d rather have a csection than do it🤣. Funny thing is that it wasn’t painful at all

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol aketshege mara I hear you but I guess somethings it is more about our fears than anything else

  • @Mpumep
    @Mpumep 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am also not an online person but I do order from uber/Mr D but somehow, I have never ordered from checkers or dash etc I need to get with the program.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is so convenient and makes a difference. My son loves uber and Mr d

  • @nyikorivonia9484
    @nyikorivonia9484 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello mrs ndlamini❤

  • @Linda_RoyalPriesthood
    @Linda_RoyalPriesthood 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    First ❤🎉

  • @DIARYOFASIMONE
    @DIARYOFASIMONE 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey love, I’m afraid of the dentist too, also having my blood drawn. It totally freaks me out and I loathe it so much!😩🫣
    Nope, I spend more online than having cash. When you have cash you need to physically be there.
    Buying online is just click click click, very easy and dangerous. I’m about to unlink all my cards…
    This place looks so peaceful & serene.
    I need a massage in the worse way!
    Great vlog darling, see you on the next one.🩷

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey love we are similar that’s why when I donate blood I see it as me really sacrificing. I agree with you buying online it can be easy to spend more

  • @themphasanes
    @themphasanes 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey ngwana Morena 🥰

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am low-key scared of a c-section hey! I gave birth naturally with no epidural and healed within a week. Seeing women who have experienced a c-section scares me yohhh 😱😱🌻🍃

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I get you I insisted on natural because I lowkey fear C-section

  • @athomewithadel
    @athomewithadel 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    iyho ausi joey same watsap group the way kesarateng goya dentist and i was talking about it yersterday aibo this year gona im going i really have to ,atlist wena your using other mathods. thank you for this beautiful vlog

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s my pleasure Sesi please try to go let’s conquer this fear 😰

  • @thulisilegumede8060
    @thulisilegumede8060 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The knots which the message therapist find ko our shoulders hai Shem so I agree message should be treated like our lady feminine maintenance like we do our nails 😅😂 mara maybe every two/three months🙈😅

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol Ankere maybe 2 months but I think for the R250 one it is possible to do it monthly especially since I no longer do my nails 😂🙈

  • @Zaina0525
    @Zaina0525 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "How can i relax my face" 😂😂😂😂😅giving birth is the extreme kodwa you prefer that than dentist 😅😅😅you are really sabaring 😅. That fish meal 😋😋.

    • @Zaina0525
      @Zaina0525 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I fear heights , even the escalators i rather take steps 🤦🤣🤣tried it once with my eyes closed mmmh i felt so uncomfortable i wonder who came up with the idea of escalators i really want to chat with that person ke mmotse na naganneng😂😂😂

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol Sisi I am really scared even though I know it doesn’t make sense , we have to choose our battles 😌

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol Aunty Bongi doesn’t like escalators 🤣🤣🙈

  • @thulisilegumede8060
    @thulisilegumede8060 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am scared of needles 💉bo drip, IV drops because that needle stays longer ko your arm. I’m better now because I now donate blood but it takes mental preparation and when the SANBS people call me to come and donate again yoh 😢the thought of needle. My issue is not the needle but the needle staying longer ko my arm plus on top of that I have thin veins.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We are the same hey I will rather take pills but thank God that we still donate blood .

  • @ElizabethMotsepe
    @ElizabethMotsepe 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    third😍

  • @_kaymabaso
    @_kaymabaso 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Immediately I feel small pain on my tooth I run to the dentist……I am so scared of I toothache shem 🙆🏾‍♀️

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I need to be like you hey I will do better this year

  • @ayoscooking9934
    @ayoscooking9934 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am thinking 🤔 am not sure but dentist and gynaecologist visit are not enjoyable we just go because we have too

    • @ayoscooking9934
      @ayoscooking9934 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sis remember we don’t complain, u are lucky some boys don’t want to bath or brush their teeth in their old age . They didn’t use toothpaste no chemicals they use a stick of wood

    • @ayoscooking9934
      @ayoscooking9934 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sis I love that . I get to make pizza for my kids as I watch you

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I get you something we do them because we are adults nje

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol Sisi I was just sharing 🤣🤣

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly Sisi we are blessed to do those things

  • @noluvomzizana9039
    @noluvomzizana9039 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi I fear Catheter 😢

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hi I have never used it but I think I fear it already

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ads...second

  • @tiyiselanin
    @tiyiselanin 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @snethembachambale6613
    @snethembachambale6613 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤